The Voice Inside My Head
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 26 ก.ย. 2018
- Today I learned to stop listening to the voice inside my head. she's wrong! Sacred hearts shelter: ccsww.org/get-help/shelter-ho...
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When you have these demands to constantly be creating and putting out new content, by yourself, with no sound board or help, and knowing that if you don't put something out someone else- it can cause burn out and pressure which takes a toll on the quality of your videos and life! Here is how I've learned to deal with it, and what I have been up to this week.
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My Millennial Life Crisis was started 3 years ago when I was stuck in a rut creatively, career wise, and personally. I didn't know what I wanted to do with my life, I wasn't happy with where I was living, and I didn't feel like I had much of a support system. That is how the Millennial Life Crisis series was born. It was a way for me to let go of my feelings and document my personal growth. Along the way I have found that a lot of you have related with this feeling, that is why I keep vlogging. From now on you can expect weekly Millennial Life Crisis episodes about my life, growing up, career growth, trying new things, friendships, relationships, family, and travels.
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I like talking without music. Music when your talking is too much going on tbh.
The Gilbert Fam I agree
I like the music in the montages when you aren't talking. In general, I am not a fan of music while someone is talking, but you have a great editing style, so I know you could rock it either way.
i actually prefer it w/o music! either way is fine tho
Alena Marie I like without music too
I do too! It's easier to understand her :)
same!
I need the reminder. YES WE CAN! Thanks Monica!
Okay wow I really needed the message of this video. Please never stop doing videos like this.
I justed wanted to say the same thing!!!I mean I'm probably considerably older than all of you guys,but I gotta tell you I so needed the message of this video as well..I guess age doesn't matter and everybody needs help!
Honestly I feel you... finding "the right" background music for a specific moment in my vlogs always takes me FOREVER. Honestly I'll love your vlogs regardless of whether or not you have the background music, I don't mind either way :) If you feel like the moment NEEDS IT like it's an then for sure add the music in but if not, just listening to you talk is entertaining enough with the extra fluff :)
Monica! What a brilliant idea to bring those products to the women’s shelter! Thank you for reminding your audience that just because something doesn’t provide a use to you, doesn’t mean someone else couldn’t find use for it. If you could encourage other creators who receive PR packages to do the same that would be so so wonderful!
Also, loved the message for the vlog today. Really needed to hear that
I seriously needed this little reminder more than you know. That we all have those days when we aren’t ourselves and are being negative but you have to actively acknowledge and get yourself out of it
Wowwww powerful message, it actually feels priceless when u do something u don’t wanna do
I constantly find myself putting random little errands off too, but I feel so much better after doing them. Thank you for this video, I really needed it. You’re an inspiration ❤️
As someone with depression the voice you speak of overpowers me so much and it's hard despite having good colleagues and a good church family (but I'm lacking other things)...
LOVE THE MUSIC CHOICE! Tegan & Sara 💛
WE HAVE THE SAME BIRTHDAY 💗 also, I like the music for the montages but I don't need it when you are speaking. Thanks for another motivational blog!!!
It makes me soo happy that you're uploading vlogs back to back on this channel✨
About the background music: I kinda like it when there is no music when you talk, because then the transition into the cool music and montage bit stands out more and idk I just love when you go into the montage bits. Love your videos Monica! x
But either way, Monica pulls off both so idm ❤️🤷🏼♀️
Okay so I know you've been struggling with creative burnout recently and I wanted to say this:
1) I love that you are uploading blogs more often!
2) I could do with or without the background talking music - I think the montage music is what makes your vlogs
3) we love you!
4) I hate how vlogs autocorrects to blogs
5) I love the positivity (but not fake) and the encouragement at the end of the video
1. I prefer the no music in the background while talking.
2. Holy cow I totally needed to hear this!
3. I love your blogs but I also love having videos like this in the mix where you have a message or theme or just overall daily human revelation.
Thank you so much for sharing!
This inspired me to go and do dry cleaning and go to Verizon and now I’m about to pack for my move coming up! Also I enjoy your vlogs no matter what so it doesn’t matter if you have the background music!
I like the talking without music! These videos always inspire me to get off my butt and do something!
I rarely ever comment on TH-cam videos because i don't care to, but I feel like I need to. Your videos inspire me & make me so happy. Please don't let the views get to you. Just upload often, be consistent, and your work will pay off! You're so talented, and this rut you're in will pass by, just keep being you, and making content that makes you happy!
It’s so inspiring how you pushed yourself through the day! A great reminder for all of us on how we bring ourselves down and put things away in order to not to do every.single.day. Thank you Monica!
I love how many windows you have in your room.
I like the walking section without music. You are really producing such awesome stuff recently! Very inspirational!
I didn’t even realize I needed to get rid of that voice... but I definitely do!!!! Thank you SO much for this vid :)
Monica, your editing skills are AMAZING. YOU are amazing.
I really needed this at this exact moment so thank you for being my motivation!!!
i’m so glad you’re making so much content again! i love what you do and really hope you get all the support/ following you deserve.
I liked the way the video ended with the song's lyrics "I just want that in your head" after your little motivational outro. Nice detail and a quick inspiring message.
I LOVE the positive spin off in this video. Lets remember that we always have a choice in our attitude towards life!
You’re videos are super inspiring! Thanks for the positivity! Keep it up!
I don’t need music while you are talking but I need to know where your sweater is 😍😭😂
I know that feeling so well and I'm so happy that you're talking about this so openly and honestly 💕
Music always helps me when I'm sad so I wanna recommend you one of my favourite chill out songs: Benedict Ammann - The Rules
This song always cheers me up so I hope you'll love it too! 💕
I really appreciated this blog. Totally motivated me to go workout. I feel like I often battle with the negative voice inside my head. It makes the day much harder when I listen to negative thoughts.
I personally like it when there’s no music when you’re talking!! I know the music is quiet but I still feel like it helps me focus on what you’re saying better.
So glad you put this up! I’ve been having the same problems with finding excuses for the same exact type of stuff. Also, I prefer w/o background music while you’re talking!
I'm SO happy you are uploading more. I love you either way, but your videos are totally awesome and motivating! Seriously, i think the content you create is absolutely incredible, and the more of it I get, the happier I am.
Miss u Monica 💕 this video is kinda exactly what I needed. Please make more
John 15:5 , Ephesians 2:1-9. God bless! 💓
This makes me feel empowered actually, I was having many down days recently.
These videos make me feel so good and productive and inspired! You’re awesome girly :)
Love that you used Tegan and Sara!
One of my favourite videos you've done in a while Monica! It was awesome to watch you perk up as you continued to accomplish more throughout the day.
I love you Monica! And I needed this. I struggle with this daily and am constantly fighting with my inner voice. Keep doing you!
Amazing vlog! I love when you find topics like that (millanial life crises') and make videos about them. They are so relateable! You really brightened up my day, because I know those voices way too well. Thank you Monica ❤
I love the raw relatability of your vlogs!! Good for you for pushing through that negative voice.. personal growth is a daily process! Much love
Wow I do that all the time, talking myself out of doing something that I actually want/need to do. For some reason the minute I wake up I’ll convince myself not to do the things I need to do. I didn’t really know how to put it into words but you seem to always do a great job of putting some of my exact thoughts into words. Thank you for sharing this with us Monica!
Loved this video, Monica! So encouraging and genuine-I relate so much to those feelings of back-and-forth self-motivation. This was really well done. You inspire me.
I love your narrative of this vlog! also, your vlogs are always so beautifully filmed with cinematography and everything!
I love a mixture of both. I like when you speak in your soothing voice you’re so down to earth and relatable, and then chill background music cuts in, i love 💜 it, a mixture of both, just like you’re doing right now. Great job 👍🏼 Monica
ahhhh monica, i am so inspired by this vlog to get those things done and ignore the annoying little voices in my head that are giving me excuses! watching you do all the things you planned to do and more was really inspiring! thank you for making such REAL content! love you lots!!
I never really comment on videos but had to say that you’re the most relatable TH-camr and I love how you edit all your videos.. such good quality!! Wish you lived in Oregon so we could be friends 😂
Loved this! You took a regular blog and made it special by adding meaning to it :)
Love the motivation!! You’re the best 🤣👏🏾
I think i prefer not so much music, because sometimes (a lot) I'm more concentrated on the music that on what you're saying. But I love that when you use a song you put the name at the end, cause I really like your music style!
I loved this video, as a person who struggles with depression and personality disorder most of my days consist of that voice telling me there’s no point etc..but it’s very true when you argue with that, your whole day can turn around. Good work Monica 😌
I've been having a terrible relationship with the voice in my head the last couple weeks. I feel like I should watch this video every time it comes around.
I'll be travelling from Chicago to Seattle and LA next year so I was looking for videos to help plan the trip. I ended up binge-watching all 297 of these videos. You've helped me a little Monica, but your videos have changed quite a bit from the beginning. All of them are very well done. Thanks.
Wow, thank you! I really needed this vlog and a boost of morale. Thanks for the acknowledging the optimistic perspective :)
Love the song! Love the video!! I am constantly finding reasons to not do anything, that’s why I’m watching TH-cam, lol, I feel though it adds so much more stress and anxiety when you end up listening to that voice in your head though. You always feel better when you are productive and get even the littlest of things out of the way. Love how you ended the video with positivity and I feel I have been trying to do the same in my life! Love you and all that you do! ❤️
Hi Monica !!!! I just wanted to comment that I love you videos so much, you remind me so much of myself. I love to see how you can always pick yourself up and how self motivated you are. You inspire me to always get up, be creative, and try new things.
This was such a good video! It was a vlog (which we all love) but you also gave it structure and made it motivating! So good!!
Awe Monica I love you so much ! U inspire me so much and just seem like such a sweet chill person 💗
This vlog was great! I feel like you have a really positive attitude when it comes to pulling yourself out of a slump. Thanks for the inspiration :)
I’m so happy that you are uploading more videos lately
I love you sooo much , Monica!🤗💕
I love these types of vlogs, it shows that you're just like us and that you have days where you just aren't yourself. Monica you're truly inspirational. Keep making these vlogs!!!!!
i second this!!! so rare to see these days in videos and she truly shows us a real girl struggling with real thoughts. very few times do I leave a video and it leaves me with a new perspective on life. truly amazing!
Hannah Saltzman I totally agree Hannah. This is the stuff that us as subscribers want to see the real and true stuff. But that’s why I love watching Monica’s videos. 😍
Monika I soo needed this today! Thank you for always motivating small aspiring youtubers/videographers like me!
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Great video. As the King of Excuses I need to keep this video on a loop to remind myself to stop making excuses and get stuff done. Also, no background music is fine. I’d rather have your videos as soon as possible and not delayed because music is taking up a lot of time. Thanks for your videos. They always make my day.
I love the tegan and sara song in the back! honestly I clicked on this video to procrastinate studying but now I'm super inspired! let's get shit done! 💪
I appreciate your honesty about having bad days 💕
Ironic how this is the day I needed this video the most
Great job, needed this inspiration today. You rock!
I would watch you regardless of the background music (plus sometimes I find it distracting) Also love love love that you chose to share this type of vlog! It was inspirational and makes me feel like conquering my day
i never reaaaally noticed the background music when you're talking until you pointed it out.. it's totally fine w/o girl
your sadness might probably be your birth control! I was so depressed on mine and coming off of it made me feel so much better.
Monica, I don't really comment on TH-cam ever so sorry if this comes out strange. I see so much of my own experiences in your videos. We're the same age, both in creative fields (I'm a graphic designer), and both are experiencing burnout. Watching your videos has helped me look at my burnout, stress and search for meaning subjectively because I can see it all on screen in your life. I think creative people pour so much of themselves into their creative endeavors that there's nothing left for themselves sometimes. I've realized the importance of self-care and refilling myself to prevent burnout. Thank you for making videos and for constantly striving to be a better person and give back to your community. It makes a difference in that you've shown me and I'm sure many others that we're not alone and we can be better.
Thank you Monica for uploading this video, I really feel like I needed this! Feel so inspired now. I like the background music in the montages but I actually prefer not having the music when you're talking. But either way, love your videos!
I just love your editing
the message in this video is perfect
LOVING LOVING AND LOVING THE VLOGS LATELY!!! It feels like when you used to upload but with a much happier Monica and I am here for it (:
okay so like Im soooo empathetic and seeing other people hurt...makes me hurt...or stress...I stress. but also, I RELATE SO MUCH. IM ALWAYS ARGUING WITH MYSELF. TELLING MYSELF WHAT IS LOGICAL AND WHATS NOT. I THOUGHT I WAS CRAZY.
i absolutely love your style of filming. a lot of people are talking about the “youtube burnout” rn but i honestly think this type of content should be what “survives” if you know what i mean. love how you create!!
Loved this vlog. I have watched your videos for a long time, and i really appreciate the videos you make. Thank you, for being a great person.
Love you, Monica!! Was feeling the same way in June of this year as well, I was turning 24 and wasn't happy with where I was. I had a lot of things to figure out within myself to be happy and grateful for what I have. I attended a Tony Robbins event UPW and it really shifted my life. I was able to take a deeper look at what bullshit storied I was telling myself. It was life-changing. You should definitely check it out, Tony and his staff are amazing. :)
Btw, thank you for being so vulnerable
I reallyyyy enjoyed watching this! super motivating for those days when you don't want to do anything and are full of excuses
ok now i feel ready to get back out of bed and do work thank you queen
I legit really needed this video. Thank you for the encouragement Monica! :)
wow. kind of mind blowing to watch you transform in this video after simply changing that negative, pessamistic mindset. SUPER inspirational and proud of u!! love it
i never really post comments on youtube but i just really needed to thank you for making this video. i´ve had a really crappy week, and i´m constantly trying to work on my own positive mind but never succeeding. so THANK YOU. i need that little push. much love from texas
We wouldn’t die without the background music monica. Love yah
Your inspirational and your style of editing is amazing :)
that made my day so great. such a simple for legitimate message. love it and you!
Yes Monica! Loved this vlog, I’ve been feeling this way too. Keep working hard, you are so talented:)
WHERE, Monica, the horoscope people need to know WHERE you were born!
If it is SEATTLE (again, this might not be right if it was somewhere else):
SUN SIGN: Aquarius (which you probs already knew)
RISING SIGN: Virgo
MOON SIGN: Cancer
VENUS: Capricorn
MARS: Leo
There’s a lot more, obviously, these 5 are just the ones that I think the average person finds most interesting 👍🏽 Your chart is actually a very interesting mix, you should check it out if you’re ever bored!
tenderloving ASMR YES, water moon signs are intense! I have a Pisces moon and I’m a double Scorpio (all of which are water signs), so I’m an emotional wreck at all times. But Monica’s Cancer moon with that Virgo rising is actually super enlightening, I love learning this shit about people 💕
God bless you.
Happiness is a choice ❤️ fight those negative thoughts!
Definitely needed to hear this today, I have a huge list of things I've been putting off mostly just becasue I don't want to deal with it
I really needed a blog like this! Thank you Monica!!!
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We all do it but don't let the voice get to you too much. You're the first TH-camr I've watched and the only one I watch every single video of. The music isn't necessary in the background when you're talking. I prefer without. I laughed so hard when you said "Horoscope people, do your thing" Haha. P.S. My birthday is today!
Monica! Thanks for sharing this vlog. I can totally relate to this feeling, I have the same thing when trying to make videos. I love your editing style, it has inspired me so much. Keep it up, girl!!