The Parents Who Kicked-Out Their Disabled Children
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 10 ต.ค. 2024
- What’s it like to say goodbye to your child if you never imagined they’d be able to live independently at all? It's a milestone: the moment a parent drops off their child at University, or helps them move out into their first flat. The offspring leaps down the corridor with glee while their mum or dad scramble around for a tissue and down a large coffee to get over the shock of it.
Part one of this heartwarming but also emotional follows a group of young people with learning disabilities who were all about to leave home for the first time to start a new part of their lives in supported accommodation.
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this was the purest thing i’ve ever watched. what a wonderful place
i agree with you, what a lovely bunch of lovely young people
What caring, loving and unselfish parents. I can understand how hard it would be to let go. You are giving them an amazing gift of independence and learning life skills.
I agree, and the parents wont be here forever, at least they know their kids are taken care of.. i have a question ❓ the couple? What if they get pregnant? What then?? The parents are WAY too old for a newborn?
They didn’t kick them out, they gave them opportunity.
I couldn’t agree more!! This video is amazing and inspiring. The title is 100% incorrect and it drives me crazy.
I agree! Miss leading title. Still good show to see if they can live independently on their own. I was born with a learning disability. I'm on my own independently after my parents passed away.
It's click bait lol to make people more likely to watch
Very well said!
@@ambersanchez8580 True. However, in this case, I ended up not really minding.
I have autism and in 12 days, I’ll be moving into my first apartment with my best friend (my roommate). I’m excited to be moving back to my home state and be with friends again but I’m also nervous and scare since this is the very first time I’m living on my own and away from my parents along with three dogs
I’m sure you’ll do great. It will be a wonderful adventure! 😊
You got this 🎉❤
You will be so happy ❤trust me you got this don't worry this what is growing up is all about plus you don't have to hear your parents and nagging ie all the time😂
It's going to be so cool 😎 you will see you will love it ❤ i know you will miss your family but u can do video chats anytime!! Make sure you always pay your rent an bills first before any fun shopping trips lol but other than that just be respectful of your roommate if they are sleeping or something an it will work out great!! Good luck an please keep us updated!!!
Congratulations on your first home! Good Luck!
I wish there were more programs like this. I know some people who could benefit from having supportive housing like this.
Love on the spectrum.
Born This Way.
Down for Love. All on Netflix
It takes a lot of hard work and courage to let our disabled children leave home. Because we know how unkind and dangerous life can be especially for our vulnerable.
I love how kind all of them are it's like life never got to them and I hope they stay that way forever
I’m loving Anna and Joe. He keeps buying her rings and she keeps saying yes. How adorable are they, just lovely.
I really wish they had this kind of service here for my son and my daughter.. both my kids are mentally disabled and they are 29 and 25 years of age
I'm in Central California, and at Fresno State is a program called Wayfinders, which is for young adults with disabilities. The students share an apartment with at least one other person, they learn how to care for themselves, how to budget their money, etc. You can also see if your state has a Department of Rehabilitation which helps anyone with disabilities find work, learn life skills, obtain AT equipment (one of my favorites is Voice Options which is an ipad with a program for those who are non-verbal.)
I wish we did, too. Wealthy country, but not enough services for people who need them.
I have services I am in Texas
Duke Divinity School and Reality Ministries have a program in Durham, NC. Divinity students are paired with one or more disabled people in apartments. Perhaps other seminaries throughout the country have something similar.
Where I live people with all different kinds of disabilities can live in a home for the disability that’s where my friends live in! That’s too bad where you live they don’t have any like that
So happy for these young adults! It's obvious they have AMAZING parents!
EDIT: Also awesome support workers doing amazing work!
I tell yall these mamas are such strong, loving mamas who wants nothing more than their children to just be happy and be able to do the things every one else does but their biggest worry and fear is making sure they are able to be able to survive once they arent here anymore and thats their deepest worry you can see it in their faces when they speak on it.
I think it's great. Parents worry about what is going to happen with their child when they are no longer on this earth. ❤
In love this. I wish there was an apartment for the blind and visually impaired, I'd feel so at home. This is absolutely beautiful.
Where I live people with all different kinds of disabilities can live in a home for the disability that’s where my friends live in! That’s too bad where you live they don’t have any like that
I'm disabled due to MS. I am mostly independent but need help with certain chores like taking garbage out or fixing things and getting places like Drs or groceries. . I'd love to see the US adopt assisted living for more than just elderly.
Ana and Joe are so cute 🥰 that's what love should look like.
All beautiful people with amazing personalities and ❤'s.
Aww. I was tearing up watching the parents say goodbye to their children. They are doing the right thing by them.
Charlotte (Jade's support worker) seems like such a lovely person. I hope Jade eventually settled in and her mum is also much more content.
Did Joe and Anna end up becoming permanent residents?
Ana and joe are so cute together ❤. This is an amazing idea . 🇺🇸 needs a program like this.
What a lovely place! I wish there were SO many moer places like this. Would that we could all be as open and loving as these "disabled" people. What lovely parents, and the support people are just the best.
Lmao why did you put "disabled" in quotes? They are, in fact, disabled.
We're talking about human beings here
@@malinia.20 it's clear by reading their *entire* comment that they are coming from a good and positive place, perhaps they aren't comfortable or well-versed in communicating about disabilities. Try to remember that in communicating solely through text, we don't have our other senses that help us determine full intent or meaning. We don't get to hear their tone of voice or see their facial expressions. I doubt this person meant anything negative by their quotations. They need more exposure and education. And if they weren't interested in learning, they wouldn't be watching this video in the first place. ✌️🫶
Lovely 💕 young adults 😊
I wish that all people had their loving❤ and no judgemental nature
And the parents are just wonderful people, you can 🙈 see the parents encouraged and unconditionally Loved them, bought them up to be confident, happy 😊 loving and kind, inspiring people ❤
God 🙏 Bless you all and make many happy 😁 memories
I'm glad that this channel is making videos like this. I'm also disabled and I live with my husband, I have Cerebral Palsy on the right side of my body.
The parents and support workers doing their best to give them the best is so beautiful. Best wishes to all!
I think this is amazing. It’s harder on the parents than the children. I remember when my youngest (non disabled) moved out. It was only a couple of years ago and I miss her terribly.
I didn't have any programs like this which is wonderful when I was growing up or a young adult I'm also disabled I have fetal alcohol syndrome and low Spectrum autism among other things this would have been great when I was growing up I hope they give more disabled children and young adults these are opportunities it's a great opportunity to have I'm now going to be 50 years old and I am so thankful for my Independence and thankful for to be in my own residence
I love that everyone in this doco are given a chance to grow and be self sufficient adults. I would stress less- as a mum if Ana had a contraceptive device implanted in her. Best of luck to all involved. I wanted to give thanks to the brilliant support workers
The girl with the glasses and leather jacket seems so vulnerable...💔
The Title is Beyond MESSED up. These are everyday families doing the next step in their lives and even though the video was a good view of it, the title/thumbnail is beyond VILE and DISGUSTING.
I think there in no question that the sensational title is “clickbate” but in fairness to the trend of les horribles = views yields awareness I can understand. I immediately saw through the tile and an throughly enjoying this program. One of my dearest friends has been independent for over thirty years. Anyway I agree there is another more suitable title but folks like you and me and others would be the only ones watching - this gory is here to attract others and change their minds. The adage “don’t judge a book by its cover” comes to mind.
Peace
It is wonderful that there are communities for assisted living. Independence is the goal for us all. I do believe variations of this care model could be used with other vulnerable humans. This would be incredibly healing for humans with severe trauma. This would be amazing for those with ADHD. This would great for teenagers. Anyone who struggles with self care, routine, attention, life skills, socializing, disabling symptoms... would get better in this care model. Obviously a few alterations would be necessary to best assist with creating independence an maintaining safety. This is so wonderful. Everything about this video is wholesome.
Whoever made this title should be fired. How about "Exploring Independent Living with Disabilities". They're being given opportunities to thrive in the community, but the title sounds like the parents abandoned them. Incorrect title. Fix it!
yeah totally, when i read the title i thought 'oh wow parents kicking their kids out thats bad'
This warmed my heart 🥰
Such pure souls
I love seeing this more family's should pride this for there adults they are not k8ds but have needs and should be able to have a life with support. With some help .
Such true love and joy and sweetness
They are doing better than most people that move out at that age, no lie. I have two autistic children and this makes me feel GREAT to see bc I worry about what will happen when I die :(
This was absolutely amazing.Thank you.🇨🇦👍😀❤️
I have autism too but i dont let my disabilty hold me back. I have 2 kids and i have a partner too
As you already know then there are diff lvls and spectrums(idk if that is spelled right). Some people cant help but be held back a little. Nothing wrong with it in todays society tho.
This is an amazing option actually ingot learning disabilities and stuff I'm hunting for my first own place for the first time at 33 as iv always lived with someone can't wait but my anxiety and panic dose worry me some but lol
I do not like the title of this video. It is false and disrespectful. The parents did not kick out their down syndrome kids they let their kids move on their own for a learning experience as a matter fact, they seem like some very loving parents.
I love this and wish we had this in the US.. at least the parents know they'll be ok when they pass away ❤. My concern is the couple?? What happens if they get pregnant?? The parents are too old to care for an infant?? Are there any precautions to keep that from happening, because we know their having sex?
They are all so adorable and so brave. Heartwarming ❤
His first apartment is wayyyy better than my first place on my own. Thats a nice place
Baked beans on a pizza has to be the most British fusion food ever.
😂😂😂
Sounds like a stomach ache.
😂😂😂😂
I adore the title to the video come on people they're giving the disabled people a chance to live on their own
I wish we could all see the world thru there eyes 🥺❤️ we wouldn't have wars or famen an we would all care for each other ❤
Brilliant ❣️
I’m a special needs adult, have been special needs all my life. This world isn’t made for us, we are expected to adapt and learn even when we don’t always fully understand. This decision is the right one, but it won’t be easy for either party.
This title is extremely mean and inappropriate!
yeah totally, when i read the title i thought 'oh wow parents kicking their kids out thats bad'
Why would you title it " kicked out"? Click bait.
yeah i know, when i read the title i thought 'why would you' lol
Is there a part 2?
I hope so❣️🙏
You guys should change the title of this programme.
Oh .y gosh I'm dying they are so adorable
EPILEPSY NEVER LEFT HARDDD
??? What does that mean???
@@carolanderson5075 Never left home. Still lives with us at 32. Nightmare.
The indian guy cracks me up..he sounds just like an old man talkimg about his good ol' days..
Love it
Jade seems so sassy I love it lol 😂
God, someone please change this title!!!
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I think all parents feel fear of the unknown when their children leave home
This is such a great story. All of them.
But Being in the states, I thought mom was letting Jade drive when they were going to the store. I thought that might be quite ambitious. Silly me. 😂😂
I can only imagine the struggle these parents are going through. Bless you.
I wish we could see these two get married.
Episode 2...??
Is this a series?
I had to stop watching because the background music was driving me insane 😅 I'm glad everybody is out on their own enjoying life to the fullest
"Kicked them out"? Seems like they did the exact opposite and taught them life skills. Its not like Origin to use clickbait. Come on guys, you're better than that.
Curtis got me 😂
That's loving parents. Abandoned disabled are the kids of boomers who became disabled after leaving the house and they get NO HELP from their boomer parents off enjoying retirement.
I wonder what state they have this in
Title is definitely attention grab more than what actually is occurring. I'm so happy for mom and dad! Way to go!!
I'd love to be in this job as a support worker it's right up my alley 21:01
What the heck is wrong with those walls at the beginning of the story?
They still need to be worked on, I think?
Finding out curtis is gay is amazing! Lol caught me off guard how he said it though 🤣
I knew Curtis was gay when I saw him and heard him
I hope Anna is on birth control.
Her mum said so
@@flamingololli I heard that later.❤️🇨🇦
Stop the click bait. Inspiring, though.
My disabled young adult would like to have her own place. But AZ disability does a whopping $69 a month is all. Make that make sense.
TERRIBLE video title...... This was AMAZING for ALL OF THEM!!!!!
yeah totally, when i read the title i thought 'oh wow parents kicking their kids out thats bad'
I hate these misleading titles.. Even though they work
Change the title, it's so disrespectful to the families. 😡
so the title is awful...lol
Weird title ...sort of clickbait really
Where are Michael’s parents??
wonder what they pay for rent a month??
i thought curtis said he was gay and wants a big hairy boyfriend when he was talking to jade but at the end he has a gf?? 😭
Beautiful!!😂
I think this is great but I do hope that do some sort of work suitable to their needs. It is all fun and games to play house but they really are not getting the adult experience without a job. Will give them confidence and an understanding of money as part of being an adult is having to work to pay for the things you need to live.
What’s most important isn’t that they have a job or not, what is most important is that they have independence. In their current situation, being employed might not necessarily give them more independence, so there is no need for them to work. Sure they might get financial freedom but let’s be honest, even if they are able to work full time with how high the cost living might become, chances are they won’t go much further than where they are now. And before you pull out the ´ they should contribute ´ card: One right’s to independence comes before any duty of contributing, and I will die on that hill
@@kimorox813 they are not being independent if they are not working, independence comes from working and providing for yourself. Not saying that they will be able to fund the roof over their heads with the limited income they could earn due to cost of living but it is vital for independence to work and have some understanding of your finances. Agree to disagree on this one. Work will be beneficial even if it is for a few hours a week.
Thank you america for at least getting right to add flouride to water sheesh lol 🦷🦷🦷
Why didn’t they use pizza sauce instead lol
Click bait title
Clickbait, more like we moved him into a group home because he was 45!! I'm just kidding I don't know I haven't even started watching but I can just imagine!!
I absolutely love this!!!! But the girl that got engaged I really don't think she's in the capacity to say yes to getting married. That's a HUGE thing and she doesn't have the mentality
What qualifies you to judge? People with learning difficulties like depicted here living independently with ambulatory support... Oh, that's quite nice, to let them have that, experience that... Them having a love live, a sex live and such like the normal human beeings they are? Uhm... should they even be allowed to... that's not... they can't uh... - really?!
@tic5921 IF someone (in general) has the mental capacity of a child then NO "getting married and having a sex life" should absolutely NOT be happening! Would you let yours? If so you definitely don't need children!
@@allisonkimbrell8750 they are adults though
You not ready to let your child grow up to their full potential? Instead beeing pretty condescending about who (as an adult) is to have sex - or children? Yup. I'm a bad parent in your book, feeling great about it.
People with learning difficulties have the same emotions, desires, wants and urges that everyone else does. Not all should be married but that's not up to us to decide. It's also not up to us to decide who should have an intimate relationship or not. That is something to be determined on an individual basis by family, medical and support staff. I think this girl knows exactly what she wants and, with a little assistance in everyday life will be successful with it. It appears in this documentary that she might be more advance than him but their love for each other is undeniable and they will figure it all out in their own way.
I do NOT know why the title of this video states that the parents "kicked them out".... When that is DEFINITELY NOT what happened!!! THEY ALL come from VERY LOVING, CARING and DEVOTED families!!! But I really loved watching this and honestly I would continue watching this if this was a show that had more episodes cuz I'd absolutely love to see how everyone of them are doing now!!!💜🙏🩷
This made me smile . Much love and part 2?
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