I was 19 when I fell pregnant with my son. I was living with my dad and step-mum at the time. When I phoned my birth mum to tell her the first thing she said was...You're having an abortion. I told her I was not having one as I was keeping my baby. She tried and tried and tried to change my mind and even suggested having him adopted. I stuck to my guns and I had my beautiful baby boy. My mum was my birthing partner and she fell head over heels with him the second he was born. I'm so glad I kept my son as he's now 34 years old and so handsome 😍
@@karenmclaughlan9128 I had Effy my eldest daughter at 16 my ex abused and raped me. My dad got me out of that relationship with my ex I told him about the pregnancy and he said the choice of the baby is yours to make abort, keep or adoption. I chose to keep my daughter.
Some of these comments seem to be quite harsh to Jasmin and Kim’s mums for letting the girls fall pregnant young… But they were godsends as grandmothers and doing a really good job helping their teen daughters in a very tough situation
They did'nt let them get pregnant. They did'nt make them lie down with their boyfriends and say. 'Go on , do it, have sex, make a baby for me to help you take care of them. And you. The tax payers will help you too. You can take their hard earned money .'
That one girl said she was out clubbing in her early teens while in Benidorm. Her mother is a terrible parent. You can't be too harsh with someone who raises a child like that.
@@naomidoss1837 And now she's leaving some kid off the estate who's been I trouble with the law, not only into her house to be around her daughter but her infant granddaughter. Must be nice to make terrible parenting decisions and have people make excuses for you.
@@GhastlyCretinHaving lived in that part of Spain, I can tell you that teenagers going out clubbing is actually the norm. I'm not saying it's ok that they do nor that the mom couldn't have done anything better, but according to your comment that would make half of the Valencian parents shitty parents. You're quite harsh on the mom when obviously, there was a lot more going on in that family and the norms are totally different
I was 17 when I fell pregnant with my daughter. Who is now 10. I was homeless. The father kicked me out and wanted nothing to do with the baby. I went back to high school, finished, and worked nights to support myself. I did it. Im now married and so happy with 3 beautiful kids.
@@TheHiddenSystemokay?? And well Now they don’t and they’re happy. Pretty sure they’re loved if she’s on here telling her story unlike a lot of other kids. Be supportive of others or kick rocks, there’s a lot of kids who go into foster care and never make it out.
When I read this comment I was imagining a baby bed with a baby blanket and a pillow. But when I saw the clip, it's the mum's actual double bed! Babies can't regulate their body temperature so I can imagine the baby getting really hot under that blanket! I just hope he isn't sleeping in the bed with mum during the night just in case the worst happens
After a traumatic birth, she's probably suffering from postpartum depression. It's nothing to do with being immature, women of all ages can act like that.
@@alishak9852utter tosh oh post about depression I suffered chronic I couldn't even walk out my door I didn't have support jasmine is a child having child it calls baby it no depression it's teenage attitude
As a choirboy at 16 i got the neighbouring choir girl pregnant who was 16. The mother was the Church Warden. Didnt sing there again - i was ousted. Stupid bloody mistake i made 30 years ago - and it still haunts me today cos she had an abortion. We were just a couple of randy kids experimenting. Use a rubber boys.
Hypocritical Christians pressuring their kids into abortion knowing it’s wrong, when I made a similar mistake (I wasn’t pregnant) I told my minister first, he prayed for me I repented the church rallied round me without knowing anything about what happened just that I was going through a hard time then it was done never spoke about again, didn’t feel any judgement from the members thank God. I’m sorry you didn’t get that support
Don’t let it haunt you that’s the devil, he wants you to dwell on the past so you never move forward, if you’ve repented you’re already forgiven ❤️ praying for you
I was a teenager when i got pregnant. I was 20 and had ky son at 21. Being a single mother at any age really is hard. I had my parents help, but they also told ke that I was to he the primary caregivers to him. I don't think I couldn't have done it without them. My son in going on 30 and he is a blessing
It's Kim's mom's fault for not teaching her how to cook and clean early on. She has no right to complain. I started cooking when I was 5 and doing my own laundry when I was 10.
@@noorbohamad5796 Kim made her bed, she has to lie in it. Okay, so Kim needs support, but it was Kim who had underage sex, Kim, who got pregnant, Kim who had a baby. The key word here is KIM. So KIM is the mum, so KIM needs to pull her weight and look after her baby !
@@rachaelpreddey7837 apparently I must’ve never really changed from when I was a teenager since I still don’t ever really do any cooking cleaning washing like why would I need to when there’s always been someone else to do all that
I'm sorry but if you make the decision to keep your baby at 14, you say goodbye to "being a teenager". If parents keeps enabling these underage mothers, no lessons will be taught.
I fell pregnant at 15.Gave birth at 16.I moved in with my 19 yo b Tried to do this myself .that was 31 years ago that I have realised how many mistakes I made in the first 7- 8 of motherhood.having had my 2nd by now.I thought I was doing the right thing and prove myself now I realise I was just being stubborn.I could have such a more promising life.Girls if you end up making the same mistake or having accidents please sit down rationally thiñķ EVERYTHING THROUGH .It could just change your life in a major WAY.STAY SAFE GIRLS COS THE BOYS WONT.
I had to have medication because my baby cried so much. I was so depressed. I found my baby was allergic to cows milk and so he was changed to goat milk. Did so much better but I was15 and definitely depressed and had to take something for it. It’s so hard when you’re so tired.
Oh that’s rough. My first baby rarely cried. I thought all babies were like that until I had my second. She cried nonstop. I was 34 and gained 50 lbs from stress eating. I can’t imagine being 15. Poor thing.
She is surrounded by support I'm bipolar split personality attachment disorder ptsd and add and postnatal I tried kill myself 7 times eventually I told a stranger at bus stop the relief sorry hear u went through that
@@EARTHTOMICH8LLE no... most baby formula is made with cows milk protein. she was feeding him formula. there are other types of formula (like with goats milk protein) that are specifically for babies who react poorly to standard formula.
Probably working a Job while you claim to pay taxes more like your jobless harrassing others and taxpayers are paying for your housing, food etc @@katefevre6222
Mine would be disappointed in me, but not kick me out. She'd like to think she'd brought me up to know not to sleep around that young, and I did'nt so she never had to deal with that .
Documentaries like this one should be shown at schools with the boys watching too. In these documentaries we never here from the ‘fathers’ side family.
it is so hard to be a single mom I cannot imagine being 15 or 16 and coping with it. when you have a loving partner they do their part caring for the baby and both parents provide financial support. these young girls have their work cut out for them. ive seen lots of really good young moms. hopefully they can do it and work and not live on benefits. that life is hardly a life. you need a purpose and resources that work brings
... And you need protection to stop reproducing, then you would'nt be in that position, or keep your legs shut and have sex and babies when you are mature and finacially stable !
I was an unmarried mother at 20 but it was 50odd years ago when it was unacceptable. My baby died at 5 days old and I never saw her when she was alive due to me having serious health issues. I had several eclamptic fits and was kept heavily sedated for just over a week.
I mean. I had no idea how to cook in my teens; I learned in my early 20s. But. Like I didn't really have to? I didn't have a kid? Kim's attitude is really shitty.
I’m not sure how I feel about this programme Yes, it shows the harshness of having babies young but it also normalises it. Also, in relation to being against abortion, if I got pregnant at 15, my mum would have given me NO choice in the matter.
Parents do not have the the legal right to force you to have an abortion. Medical professionals need the pregnant person's consent (and most of the time documented permission from the persons parents) for an abortion. Performing an abortion on someone who does not consent to one is literally illegal regardless of age. If by "no choice" you mean your mum would kick you out the house if you decide to have the baby, then that's another thing - technically you would still have a choice though. You'd just be dealing with very difficult consequences if you went against your mum's wishes.
Jasmin needs to get a grip...big enough get pregnant big enough cope with baby sick on her jumper...no doubt her mum will end up bringing the baby up...
But this young girl is sitting there saying everything‘s just perfect. I have everything that I want? Give me a break as if this is just OK to do to her herself to her parents. I think it’s time some of these episodes start showing the extreme hardships of many of these young women who become pregnant. How lucky most of these women are to be able to stay in their parents home and have their parents help them or be able to help them. all of these young girls are the exception they’re not the rule. If other young girls and young men keep watching these things they’re gonna think getting pregnant fun
I mean Jasmine (who said everything was perfect with her pregnancy) was clearly having a really horrible time after the baby came. She had a long, painful, very traumatic birth, then had to care for a collicky baby on no sleep whilst suffering from post-partum depression. Yeah she's lucky she has a roof over her head and family there for her but she's absolutely going through significant psychological hardship.
if someone wants to do that, they will, whether it’s behind their parents back or not but i do believe she should’ve been pushed to use condoms or contraception. you can’t change the past i suppose 🤷♀️
@@lhvt.aBut when you leave a girl in her early teens go clubbing and drinking every night you are increasing the chances of a lot of bad things happening 10 fold. Terrible parents.
I got pregnant at 16 having my first born on my 17th birthday! Fell pregnant within the year and gave birth to my 2nd while I was still only 17. As they say, it's very likely for teens to have subsequent births in rapid succession. I'm not sure why that's so true since you'd think we'd learn AFTER the first one! Only thing I can contribute it to is the brain not being developed enough to foreshadow the awful consequences of our behaviors. This is why I find it hard to punish young teens for breaking the law as adults. It's very obvious that the brain of young ones do not see themselves as vulnerable. We are going to live forever lol! ... dummies!
@@nmalele0909 they might know but they don’t fully grasp what the consequences will mean in their lives. That part of the brain isn’t fully developed until around 25
They were sitting there laughing at pictures of her out partying and drinking under age that’s the fucking problem right there! she was out of control her mom let her be out partying and drinking all night that’s why she got pregnant!
Say she fell pregnant her last day of being 14, was pregnant for 9 months and gave birth at 15 years and 9 months, then she turned 16 three months later and now her baby is 7 months while she is 16 and 4 months. Sounds plausible to me!
Out of four One 4 weeks late one 2 weeks late one due date one 2 weeks early. All labour's the same. My waters didn't break so each child needed the waters breaking.
My first was 2 weeks over due , 5 and a half hours of labor . My water broke on its own. My second was on his due date , my water broke on its own at home, got to the hospital at 8:30 am his was born @ 10:00 am My 3rd was 5 weeks early , she was born in 2 hours and 17 minutes.
Kim and her mom calls baby Heidi "it" and also Kim's mom "me daughter". I was always told that British English is what Americans should be speaking because its "proper English".
@@flossyraven Suppose it depends where in the world you're comparing it to... in England there is a distinct difference between how the working class talk and the middle class talk, and then a further difference with how the upper class talk.
I live in Staffordshire. The accent is broad. The term 'me daughter' is local dialect. Locals use 'me' instead of 'my' relating to things of theirs. ...ie 'me car' 'me house' 'me job'. Not correct grammar but local twang.
Thinking back to when my boys were born the main thing around that time period that I remember is the tiredness,mits a hard bloody slog and there’s no checking out! You’ve got to match on through it until the baby is in a routine but then the colic starts then the teething, the then the terrible twos 😂 AND then they become teenagers 😱🙄😂 When I hear of girls getting pregnant to “keep” their man I’ve got to laugh at the stupidity of it. It’s the most difficult, challenging time, hormones, sleep deprivation, feeling isolated etc..You don’t have time for yourself let alone a man FFS! Babies are a godsend however but you’ve gotta be one strong woman (which we all are) to battle through and come out the other side with well turned out, respectful, responsible, loving kids.
Why do some ppl say “fell pregnant” instead of “got pregnant” fell is too close to slipped & fell on the 🍆 😂 idk maybe it’s a language barrier thing because they are in a different part of the world
@@katefevre6222 I don’t know if you’re in the UK or not, but nowadays you can only get government assistance beyond the basic child benefit (that everyone is eligible for) for the first two children. Obviously at the time this was filmed that wasn’t the case.
Ik that in England &a few other places kids can smoke & drink I believe by the age of 13 I’m not 100% sure about the number of age I stated but ik it’s very young &defitnetly under 18 &21. God bless the girls their babies & their moms🫶🏼🙏🏽
Ummm no! When I was a teen, you could smoke at 16, play the lottery and get scratch cards at 16, and drink at 18. Nowadays in the U.K., it's 18 for all of it!
@ reading is fundamental I literally watched a video on this channel of a 13 year old boy who smokes & drinks & it was legal in the uk the video is old so the fact your speaking on your life when I’m clearly speaking on someone else is hilarious cause you think you know it all
Kids having kids is never a good idea. The baby should be given up for adoption. It forces the rest of the family to raise another baby. The young girl who has the baby never gets ahead in life and the child never gets a break either.
I was 19 when I fell pregnant with my son. I was living with my dad and step-mum at the time. When I phoned my birth mum to tell her the first thing she said was...You're having an abortion. I told her I was not having one as I was keeping my baby. She tried and tried and tried to change my mind and even suggested having him adopted. I stuck to my guns and I had my beautiful baby boy. My mum was my birthing partner and she fell head over heels with him the second he was born. I'm so glad I kept my son as he's now 34 years old and so handsome 😍
19 is better than 14!
@@katefevre6222 then it’s too bad I’m stuck with a giant 14 year old and I have a younger sister who’s 19th birthday would and/or will be months later
@katefevre6222 I never said any different
@@karenmclaughlan9128 I had Effy my eldest daughter at 16 my ex abused and raped me.
My dad got me out of that relationship with my ex I told him about the pregnancy and he said the choice of the baby is yours to make abort, keep or adoption.
I chose to keep my daughter.
Bet it was just to keep the father around 😂 but anyway
That one girl catching a attitude with her mom like she was the one that got her pregnant
Some of these comments seem to be quite harsh to Jasmin and Kim’s mums for letting the girls fall pregnant young… But they were godsends as grandmothers and doing a really good job helping their teen daughters in a very tough situation
They did'nt let them get pregnant. They did'nt make them lie down with their boyfriends and say. 'Go on , do it, have sex, make a baby for me to help you take care of them. And you. The tax payers will help you too. You can take their hard earned money .'
That one girl said she was out clubbing in her early teens while in Benidorm. Her mother is a terrible parent. You can't be too harsh with someone who raises a child like that.
@@GhastlyCretinyou obviously m8ssed the part where she said she snuck out when Mum was asleep. Must be lovely to be perfect
@@naomidoss1837 And now she's leaving some kid off the estate who's been I trouble with the law, not only into her house to be around her daughter but her infant granddaughter. Must be nice to make terrible parenting decisions and have people make excuses for you.
@@GhastlyCretinHaving lived in that part of Spain, I can tell you that teenagers going out clubbing is actually the norm. I'm not saying it's ok that they do nor that the mom couldn't have done anything better, but according to your comment that would make half of the Valencian parents shitty parents. You're quite harsh on the mom when obviously, there was a lot more going on in that family and the norms are totally different
I was 17 when I fell pregnant with my daughter. Who is now 10. I was homeless. The father kicked me out and wanted nothing to do with the baby. I went back to high school, finished, and worked nights to support myself. I did it. Im now married and so happy with 3 beautiful kids.
So proud of you 💓
Your children probably had to go through a lot 😒
@@TheHiddenSystemrude 😑
@@TheHiddenSystemokay?? And well Now they don’t and they’re happy. Pretty sure they’re loved if she’s on here telling her story unlike a lot of other kids. Be supportive of others or kick rocks, there’s a lot of kids who go into foster care and never make it out.
@@DontBULLYothersAgree 100%
16:50 please never but a baby in a bed with a pillow and blanket. In a cot with absolutely nothing but a mattress. It’s so so so dangerous in that bed
true it leads to sids
When I read this comment I was imagining a baby bed with a baby blanket and a pillow. But when I saw the clip, it's the mum's actual double bed! Babies can't regulate their body temperature so I can imagine the baby getting really hot under that blanket! I just hope he isn't sleeping in the bed with mum during the night just in case the worst happens
@@sarahakua4239 sids is vaccine induced. Do some research.
These are old documentaries. Outdated knowledge on safe sleeping lol
I couldn't watch any more between the blanket and bed and baby not sitting up to eat.
Jasmin saying to her mum “take it away, it’s been sick on me again”. Way too immature to be having a child
That, but also she might be suffering from postpartum depression.
Exactly its ridiculous
After a traumatic birth, she's probably suffering from postpartum depression. It's nothing to do with being immature, women of all ages can act like that.
@@alishak9852utter tosh oh post about depression I suffered chronic I couldn't even walk out my door I didn't have support jasmine is a child having child it calls baby it no depression it's teenage attitude
Ever heard of PPD or PND postnatal depression?
@02:02 her mother laughing at her 14 yr old out drinking and partying at her age?!?!!??! disgustng
Her parenting was a great example and look how her 14 year old turned out. 14 and a mum. Lovely. (Sarcasm )
@@katefevre6222 Agree.
Exactly my mum would hit the roof
These people are not normal
Moving to Benidorm with a young daughter is already a red flag, I think that tells you enough about what sort of mother she is
Good for Kim knowing her path in life.
I pity her loss of her sister.😢
But not with the new boyfriend 🫣🤯
As a choirboy at 16 i got the neighbouring choir girl pregnant who was 16. The mother was the Church Warden. Didnt sing there again - i was ousted. Stupid bloody mistake i made 30 years ago - and it still haunts me today cos she had an abortion. We were just a couple of randy kids experimenting.
Use a rubber boys.
Hypocritical Christians pressuring their kids into abortion knowing it’s wrong, when I made a similar mistake (I wasn’t pregnant) I told my minister first, he prayed for me I repented the church rallied round me without knowing anything about what happened just that I was going through a hard time then it was done never spoke about again, didn’t feel any judgement from the members thank God. I’m sorry you didn’t get that support
Don’t let it haunt you that’s the devil, he wants you to dwell on the past so you never move forward, if you’ve repented you’re already forgiven ❤️ praying for you
I guarantee you the same people who ousted you have far worse skeletons in the closet, hope you are ok
of course she had to get an abortion. church people would never help a mom and child
@@baxterbunch Abortion is wrong, but children aborting babies would'nt have to face that situation if they were'nt slutting around.
These videos are really old, the babies they had are now older than they are in these videos, I wonder how they are
Probably miserable
@@TheHiddenSystem
I bet no more so than you
@@TheHiddenSystem And got babies of their own before they are 20.
most probably another lost generation...
I was a teenager when i got pregnant. I was 20 and had ky son at 21. Being a single mother at any age really is hard. I had my parents help, but they also told ke that I was to he the primary caregivers to him. I don't think I couldn't have done it without them. My son in going on 30 and he is a blessing
Kim's mom's patience is something else because girrrrlllll
Kim is a very lucky young lady. I hope she learns from her mother and continues to value the support she’s given.
Doubt it. Probably got like 3 more kids with different daddies.
It's Kim's mom's fault for not teaching her how to cook and clean early on. She has no right to complain. I started cooking when I was 5 and doing my own laundry when I was 10.
Big enough have a baby big enough to cook a meal
@@melaniereece-pe1bu There are some teenage parents who don't know how to cook.
@@DreamaCorbyn1 that is embarrassing
Kim's mum needs to let her take some responsibility.
Meaning what exactly
@@noorbohamad5796 Kim made her bed, she has to lie in it. Okay, so Kim needs support, but it was Kim who had underage sex, Kim, who got pregnant, Kim who had a baby. The key word here is KIM. So KIM is the mum, so KIM needs to pull her weight and look after her baby !
@@noorbohamad5796 perhaps meaning she should be cleaning , cooking and doing the washing
Not rocket science
@@rachaelpreddey7837 apparently I must’ve never really changed from when I was a teenager since I still don’t ever really do any cooking cleaning washing like why would I need to when there’s always been someone else to do all that
I'm sorry but if you make the decision to keep your baby at 14, you say goodbye to "being a teenager". If parents keeps enabling these underage mothers, no lessons will be taught.
It is not all the fault of this 14 year old girl that her life is in a mess.
Yes and that means no overnight outings while grandma has the baby, unless she wants her daughter coming home with a second baby
No way she would be going out like that. Your @ss at home by 9.
i couldn’t imagine my mom being okay with me at 14 going out drinking, how in the world 🤯🤯🤯
She used to sneak out when her mother was asleep. Was her mother supposed to watch her 24/7?
@@eviekaley952Yes!!
I fell pregnant at 15.Gave birth at 16.I moved in with my 19 yo b
Tried to do this myself .that was 31 years ago that I have realised how many mistakes I made in the first 7- 8 of motherhood.having had my 2nd by now.I thought I was doing the right thing and prove myself now I realise I was just being stubborn.I could have such a more promising life.Girls if you end up making the same mistake or having accidents please sit down rationally thiñķ EVERYTHING THROUGH .It could just change your life in a major WAY.STAY SAFE GIRLS COS THE BOYS WONT.
I had to have medication because my baby cried so much. I was so depressed. I found my baby was allergic to cows milk and so he was changed to goat milk. Did so much better but I was15 and definitely depressed and had to take something for it. It’s so hard when you’re so tired.
Oh that’s rough. My first baby rarely cried. I thought all babies were like that until I had my second. She cried nonstop. I was 34 and gained 50 lbs from stress eating. I can’t imagine being 15. Poor thing.
She is surrounded by support I'm bipolar split personality attachment disorder ptsd and add and postnatal I tried kill myself 7 times eventually I told a stranger at bus stop the relief sorry hear u went through that
You gave your newborn baby animal milk, right off the bat? That's crazy.
@@EARTHTOMICH8LLE Um, I doubt it. She probably breastfed and anytime you have anything with milk in it your baby will react after feeding.
@@EARTHTOMICH8LLE no... most baby formula is made with cows milk protein. she was feeding him formula. there are other types of formula (like with goats milk protein) that are specifically for babies who react poorly to standard formula.
I wonder what Kim and jasmine are doing these days? Is there any way to find out? Thanks
If this was filmed in 2009, those babies would be 15 now!!!!
Wonder how Jasmine is getting on now! They never mentioned her boyfriend after she'd had the baby
Probaby 4 more kids and us tax payers paying for them.
Probably working a Job while you claim to pay taxes more like your jobless harrassing others and taxpayers are paying for your housing, food etc @@katefevre6222
@@katefevre6222 likely
@@katefevre6222 so you’re really talking about yourself?
@@noorbohamad5796 Better talking about slappers.
Dear heavens, sit the baby up to eat. If she can't sit up, you don't feed solid foods.
Solid food starts at 6 months...
So sorry for their loss 🌸
I wish parents would listen to their babies. That kid is force feeding that little baby girl, she's sending clear messages she doesn't want to eat.
😂my African mother would have kicked me out
Understandable but thats sad. 😢
That's very sad and helps no one.
It was bad enough telling my mum I was pregnant a few months before my wedding.
I was almost 26 and living with my husband.
Mine too, lmao.
Mine would be disappointed in me, but not kick me out. She'd like to think she'd brought me up to know not to sleep around that young, and I did'nt so she never had to deal with that .
Documentaries like this one should be shown at schools with the boys watching too. In these documentaries we never here from the ‘fathers’ side family.
All you need to know when she said to her Mum "Take it". Children having children and it still goes on.
Strong Teens having babies mothers are automatically strong teen mothers perhaps even more so
Yeah, nothing to celebrate or being proud of. Poor kid being born into this. Will have no example and do the same .
@@katefevre6222 You do realise this was filmed years ago right probably 2011.
@@DreamaCorbyn1 Like I give a crap when it was filmed.
@@DreamaCorbyn1 Like I give a crap when it was filmed
it is so hard to be a single mom I cannot imagine being 15 or 16 and coping with it. when you have a loving partner they do their part caring for the baby and both parents provide financial support. these young girls have their work cut out for them. ive seen lots of really good young moms. hopefully they can do it and work and not live on benefits. that life is hardly a life. you need a purpose and resources that work brings
... And you need protection to stop reproducing, then you would'nt be in that position, or keep your legs shut and have sex and babies when you are mature and finacially stable !
I was an unmarried mother at 20 but it was 50odd years ago when it was unacceptable. My baby died at 5 days old and I never saw her when she was alive due to me having serious health issues. I had several eclamptic fits and was kept heavily sedated for just over a week.
Are there not Rec centers or something in the UK? These kids come up pregnant like it's the only thing to do.
There are not as many as there used to be.
However, as a former British teen, there are lots of other things to do
You spoil Kim?? No way wouldn’t have guessed unless you said 🙄🙄 enabler springs to mind.
If you want to stay in the habit of eating, you're going to have to get into the habit of cooking.
Kim's baby looks more like that boy she is dating than she does Kim and he isn't her father!
@@melissathomas7402
so Kim apparently has a type
I mean. I had no idea how to cook in my teens; I learned in my early 20s. But. Like I didn't really have to? I didn't have a kid? Kim's attitude is really shitty.
I’m not sure how I feel about this programme
Yes, it shows the harshness of having babies young but it also normalises it.
Also, in relation to being against abortion, if I got pregnant at 15, my mum would have given me NO choice in the matter.
Parents do not have the the legal right to force you to have an abortion. Medical professionals need the pregnant person's consent (and most of the time documented permission from the persons parents) for an abortion. Performing an abortion on someone who does not consent to one is literally illegal regardless of age.
If by "no choice" you mean your mum would kick you out the house if you decide to have the baby, then that's another thing - technically you would still have a choice though. You'd just be dealing with very difficult consequences if you went against your mum's wishes.
Jasmin needs to get a grip...big enough get pregnant big enough cope with baby sick on her jumper...no doubt her mum will end up bringing the baby up...
Yep
Anyone who has had a first baby and is the first time mum doesn't know what to do and can get overwhelmed.
Kids having kids. 😵💫
Is this voice over lady Sonya from eastenders?? HAHAH
Post natal depression is not easy
But this young girl is sitting there saying everything‘s just perfect. I have everything that I want? Give me a break as if this is just OK to do to her herself to her parents. I think it’s time some of these episodes start showing the extreme hardships of many of these young women who become pregnant. How lucky most of these women are to be able to stay in their parents home and have their parents help them or be able to help them. all of these young girls are the exception they’re not the rule. If other young girls and young men keep watching these things they’re gonna think getting pregnant fun
I mean Jasmine (who said everything was perfect with her pregnancy) was clearly having a really horrible time after the baby came. She had a long, painful, very traumatic birth, then had to care for a collicky baby on no sleep whilst suffering from post-partum depression. Yeah she's lucky she has a roof over her head and family there for her but she's absolutely going through significant psychological hardship.
How do people just "fall" pregnant? 😊😊😊
Sex
sigh its nothing to celebrate! so angry with her mother there shouldve been more discipline!
if someone wants to do that, they will, whether it’s behind their parents back or not but i do believe she should’ve been pushed to use condoms or contraception. you can’t change the past i suppose 🤷♀️
@@lhvt.a yeah still awful parents
They were dragged up, not brought up. And these babies will be dragged up, not brought up too !
@@lhvt.aBut when you leave a girl in her early teens go clubbing and drinking every night you are increasing the chances of a lot of bad things happening 10 fold. Terrible parents.
@@halcyon3116 it’s almost like y’all want parents:(pretty much just about entirely mothers really so it would seem):to lock up their teenage daughters
My heart hurts for Jasmin, a traumatic birth, a collicky baby, PPD; poor thing 💔
So she should'nt of had sex
I got pregnant at 16 having my first born on my 17th birthday! Fell pregnant within the year and gave birth to my 2nd while I was still only 17. As they say, it's very likely for teens to have subsequent births in rapid succession. I'm not sure why that's so true since you'd think we'd learn AFTER the first one! Only thing I can contribute it to is the brain not being developed enough to foreshadow the awful consequences of our behaviors. This is why I find it hard to punish young teens for breaking the law as adults. It's very obvious that the brain of young ones do not see themselves as vulnerable. We are going to live forever lol! ... dummies!
It's more likely because you're more fertile. It's got nothing to do with mentality
Most teens are smart enough to know the consequences..
@@ENZOxDV9yeah definitely due to fertility
@@nmalele0909 they might know but they don’t fully grasp what the consequences will mean in their lives. That part of the brain isn’t fully developed until around 25
Women are more fertile shortly after giving birth.
They were sitting there laughing at pictures of her out partying and drinking under age that’s the fucking problem right there! she was out of control her mom let her be out partying and drinking all night that’s why she got pregnant!
I swear the narrator said the doctors think Jessica could be suffering from “ postnatal depression”. Did she mean postpartum depression?
They're the same thing, aren't they?
Same thing, different terms
I'm in the U.K. and only ever heard it called postnatal depression x
First week is tiring honey your whole life will be tiring even when your kids in 30 s
I had my first at 19 and 6th at 42, my mother would'nt let me back home until I got married at 3 months, still together 47 years later.
When was this video filmed?
This is an old one, I've seen it before quite a few years ago.
2009-2011 it was filmed if I remember correctly
@@GoatNerdioYeah, 2009. It says it in roman numerals at the very end. Good call.
@@GhastlyCretinroyal numeral? Do you mean Roman?
@@marioncannon9924 Yeah, that's what I meant. I've never heard of "royal numerals" lol. Thanks ✌️
She got pregnant at 14. Now, she is 16, and the baby is 7 months old.
Someone didn't do their math right. 🤣
If she got pregnant just before her 15th birthday, then it could work. 9 months pregnant + 7 months is over a year
Say she fell pregnant her last day of being 14, was pregnant for 9 months and gave birth at 15 years and 9 months, then she turned 16 three months later and now her baby is 7 months while she is 16 and 4 months. Sounds plausible to me!
She got pregnant at 14 and gave birth at 15.
Yeah and that someone is you 😂😂😂
@@kamilasmosna5821gagged😂😂
Out of four
One 4 weeks late one 2 weeks late one due date one 2 weeks early.
All labour's the same.
My waters didn't break so each child needed the waters breaking.
Same with my 3 kids
My first was 2 weeks over due , 5 and a half hours of labor . My water broke on its own.
My second was on his due date , my water broke on its own at home, got to the hospital at 8:30 am his was born @ 10:00 am
My 3rd was 5 weeks early , she was born in 2 hours and 17 minutes.
4 weeks late?? You went to 44 weeks?
Whatt??? I had no clue they would let you go so long! Wow. 4 weeks past? My doctors would NEVER allow me to go that far past my due datw
My son was 10 days late and an emergency c section.
Kim and her mom calls baby Heidi "it" and also Kim's mom "me daughter". I was always told that British English is what Americans should be speaking because its "proper English".
This is working class English
@@Books_with_Bethan isn't the English working class the middle class?
@@flossyraven Suppose it depends where in the world you're comparing it to... in England there is a distinct difference between how the working class talk and the middle class talk, and then a further difference with how the upper class talk.
I live in Staffordshire. The accent is broad. The term 'me daughter' is local dialect. Locals use 'me' instead of 'my' relating to things of theirs. ...ie 'me car' 'me house' 'me job'. Not correct grammar but local twang.
I had my first baby at 19 but I have an apartment a job and a car and everything my kids need I’m 24 with two girls my first is 5
There needs to be an update.. where are these girls now!? Anyone know!?
In it I love to see how they getting on over feeding the baby why it vomiting
I've never forgotten pain of labour
Baby Tommy is adorable ❤
Kids should not be having kids this is ridicules
This was about 15 years ago...
Im 18 with my first baby and 22 years old the second one 😂now they are both high school.
Wow 14 and pregnant..... THATS CRAZY WORK.
she looks like a young mischa barton from the show the OC ❤
Contraceptives
Omg baby Tommy is so adorable 😍❤️
These kids' attitudes need an adjustment
3:57 when the mom said she looks nothing like you kim what kind of mom is she saying that
Mum thinks education is so important! Except for the part of drilling into these kids to get one!
anyone have a life update on these mums?? i’m soo nosey 😭😭😭
People saying Kim’s mum spoils her, well yeah she doesn’t want to lose another daughter. Bless the family ❤
Thinking back to when my boys were born the main thing around that time period that I remember is the tiredness,mits a hard bloody slog and there’s no checking out! You’ve got to match on through it until the baby is in a routine but then the colic starts then the teething, the then the terrible twos 😂 AND then they become teenagers 😱🙄😂 When I hear of girls getting pregnant to “keep” their man I’ve got to laugh at the stupidity of it. It’s the most difficult, challenging time, hormones, sleep deprivation, feeling isolated etc..You don’t have time for yourself let alone a man FFS! Babies are a godsend however but you’ve gotta be one strong woman (which we all are) to battle through and come out the other side with well turned out, respectful, responsible, loving kids.
Why do some ppl say “fell pregnant” instead of “got pregnant” fell is too close to slipped & fell on the 🍆 😂 idk maybe it’s a language barrier thing because they are in a different part of the world
😅😅😅😅 we also use this expression in Nigeria. It's UK English, I agree with you on the falling on the 🍆 part
@@amarachianyim it’s defly a wee bit confusing get it wee as in wee wee 😂🫣 please don’t judge me lmao
@@Unapologetic_lo hehehe 🤣🤣
I love it ❤
Wonder how she's doing now. This is early 2000's so she's likely 30's/40's. It really was a different world 20 years ago.
this is 2009
Watching this video its a great video.
So it's great little slappers are having babies is it ?
@@katefevre6222 so you say that to rape victims too?
@@katefevre6222 It's said women like you tear other women down.
You wouldn't tell an 30-year-old that they are a slapper so why a pregnant teenager?
The babies would be 15 as google says these were filmed 2009
She probably have 3 kids now.
- Yup, all different daddies, and only having them so she does'nt have to work and get the benefit. In my country we call them KFC- Kids For Cash.
@@katefevre6222 I don’t know if you’re in the UK or not, but nowadays you can only get government assistance beyond the basic child benefit (that everyone is eligible for) for the first two children. Obviously at the time this was filmed that wasn’t the case.
@@Norfolkgal22 I am in NZ
@@katefevre6222 I guess it shows there are scroungers all over the world…
@@katefevre6222
so you’re using your kids for cash
I was pregnant at 16 and 17 i had 2 kids before the age of 18 but I grew up so fast and didn’t depend on no one just me and my husband
Husband honey not everyone has a partner Husband
Kims mum feels guilty
Jeez. None of you guys used protection?
A kid having a kid .
having sex at 14!!??!! 😰😰😰
take it away...it just puked everywhere? Yes....that is what babies do. Don't just hand your baby to your mother. your his mother , act like it?
I know what this was years ago but the baby in the bed wtf!!! 😤😤😤😤😔😔😔😔
Especially if rolls on baby from being exhausted
I well never ever having kids before marriage anyways I'm too young and naive so yeah sure I'm gonna wait for both
Why do they keep putting out episodes from like 2008😭
How old is this
I think 2009, which mean those babies would be around 15
Heidi looks so healthy 🥰adorable baby
Ik that in England &a few other places kids can smoke & drink I believe by the age of 13 I’m not 100% sure about the number of age I stated but ik it’s very young &defitnetly under 18 &21. God bless the girls their babies & their moms🫶🏼🙏🏽
No
Ummm no!
When I was a teen, you could smoke at 16, play the lottery and get scratch cards at 16, and drink at 18.
Nowadays in the U.K., it's 18 for all of it!
@ that’s your experience which has nothing to do with what I spoke on but go off
@@Unapologetic_lothe last person is right. It has never been legal to do any of that at 13
@ reading is fundamental I literally watched a video on this channel of a 13 year old boy who smokes & drinks & it was legal in the uk the video is old so the fact your speaking on your life when I’m clearly speaking on someone else is hilarious cause you think you know it all
Over feeding x
Kids having kids is never a good idea. The baby should be given up for adoption. It forces the rest of the family to raise another baby. The young girl who has the baby never gets ahead in life and the child never gets a break either.
the parents have to give consent for that and they didnt, so now they need to deal with the consequences
This is so untrue it’s alarming 😂
The choices for the mother of the baby to make not yours or anybody else.
How immature
I know right! Its almost like shes a teenager with a still developing brain…
I want to know what happened to her now
Jasmine has parents money to fall on
the
mother is the problem
Britain kids need to come to America.. and they have the audacity to talk about us 😅😅
Also panicking over a bit of sick she needs to get used cuz babies tend to do that alot this child is nowhere near ready to be a parent 😮🫤🫤
Haven't you ever heard of post Natal depression before it even happens with adults.
4:37 off topic but christ atleast use a cutting mat or a plate, just buttering toast on the bare kitchen worktop
Oh my god that terrible at eleven
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I think some comment are very harsh well done mums of the young mums