How to deal with rejection

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 21 ม.ค. 2025

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  • @lynn8033
    @lynn8033 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I needed this so badly. This was perfect timing. I have really bad abandonment issues that makes my fear of rejection worse.

    • @lovekavita
      @lovekavita  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I am so glad you watched this. What was supportive?

  • @todddavis1994
    @todddavis1994 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I believe my father has narcissistic personality disorder and my brother is an admitted psychopath. My dad’s side of the family also includes jail time and murder. I’m the family scapegoat. Psychopathy and NPD only affect a small percentage of the population 1% and 5 % so most people I find will not be able to really relate to me. I think most people have issues though and don’t really have the tools to deal with or fix their own issues let alone someone’s else’s issues. I also tend to be attracted to Narcissist for dating or friendship or those with traits cus it feels familiar. Even if you are super aware and well versed in psychology you can still be lied to and manipulated. I feel like you either have/find good relationships or you don’t. I don’t have all day to psychoanalyze everyone I meet. I just try to be as cordial as I can but if you are too nice people smell that from a mile away and will at times take advantage. It’s hard to find a balance sometimes. So I stay to myself a lot. The term unconditional love confuses me. The child of a narcissist I read feels love is conditional and I see many relationships based on superficial things. Maybe a lot of people have it for pets or special needs family members or disabled but Idk I think most people have specific expectations. Perhaps situational? and there are different kinds of love. Boundaries seem to be in order. It’s hard to be normal when your life feels so abnormal and yes we are all screwed up but to varying degrees.

  • @harryschlitz4067
    @harryschlitz4067 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lmbo TY for this topic...I'm ALWAYS rejected by Women period, omg I don't even get to have dinner that I'am paying for! 😳😵‍💫 I get "ghosted". I believe in myself though, even though I'm the butt of most Women's jokes. As one Woman told me "look out Quasimodo is here.!" And "If I could take ur brain and put it in my he-man boy toy I would have the perfect Man." YIKES.! Ugh. Ty Lady..Blessings to you.!

  • @Theloverboy2987
    @Theloverboy2987 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ill take your advice. since you look like you've been rejected plenty of times kavita.

    • @kk-xi8li
      @kk-xi8li 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Wtf. That's so rude!

    • @Theloverboy2987
      @Theloverboy2987 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@kk-xi8li No its not. She's been rejected lots of times. Turned out to be a fact.

    • @lovekavita
      @lovekavita  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think rejection is a part of life. And the bigger you play in life the more you face. Because you are putting yourself out there courageously!

    • @Theloverboy2987
      @Theloverboy2987 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@lovekavita yea you’re right. If you want to get rejected some more try to ask me out. I’ll def reject you.

  • @adamscott7545
    @adamscott7545 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What a joke…women don’t know what rejection is.

    • @lovekavita
      @lovekavita  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I do NOT think that’s true. Everyone struggles with rejection.