The Truth About Envy - How to Let Go of Comparison & Fear

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  • @helenawoods
    @helenawoods  3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Have a magical Sunday, friend! ❤️

    • @DeandraStubbs
      @DeandraStubbs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Enjoy your Sunday as well 😊💕

    • @hillaryenloe
      @hillaryenloe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for gracing and blessing my life! ❤️

    • @sititasirin1492
      @sititasirin1492 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi darling.. i love youuuu 🤍👍🏻

    • @Paradys8
      @Paradys8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you. You too🌸

  • @janereyes8352
    @janereyes8352 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    You are living a holy life. I am amazed at the deep inner work you have already processed through at such a young age, and how gently you share your wisdom. Thank you for being such a beautiful you, and showing your beauty on camera so unconditionally! I am a better, and more hopeful person with you in my life. Thank you, Helena, this video is another masterpiece. I hope to hear from you again soon.

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😭😭😭 My HEART!! ❤️❤️❤️ Thank you Jane, this brought such love to my heart!

  • @DeandraStubbs
    @DeandraStubbs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    *"Not everyone is our enemy but our teachers," this saying in short is a beautiful way to look at things and like you said if we open our minds we can look within in us to see how it triggers us and learn to heal. Great videoas always* 😊💕

  • @PilgrimKat
    @PilgrimKat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Ah I feel like God wanted me to see this video, I needed it so much today 💛 Have recently been struggling with comparison and it's such a creativity dampener. I listened to a TED talk that said that the pursuit of attention kills creativity and that once you let go of the need for followers or "being seen" the art becomes pure and flows more freely. How true it is! Thank you for this inspiring (and honestly, convicting) video Helena, such an important message and you communicated it so beautifully 💛🌿

    • @onequietday
      @onequietday 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Pilgrim kat please let me know wear I can find the Ted talk.. I'm so interested.. those words are so beautiful 😍🙏🏽💖

    • @SuzannesSimpleLiving
      @SuzannesSimpleLiving 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Once you let go of the need for followers or being seen the art becomes pure and flows more freely. I love that thank you for posting 😊🇬🇧💕

    • @PilgrimKat
      @PilgrimKat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@onequietday Sure! It's "How craving attention makes you less creative" by Joseph Gordon-Levitt on TH-cam :)

    • @onequietday
      @onequietday 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PilgrimKat awwwee thank you so much girlie! You're so kind! 😍🙏🏽💖💖💖

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi Kat! 🤗 ugh It's SUCH a dampener!! I have and continue to struggle on and off with comparison. I've been thinking about the ideas a lot this summer and it's really lightened my spirit! Yes! I LOVE that Ted Talk! By Joseph Gordon Levitt right? SUCH a good one. I need to rewatch that again, he's such a joy to listen to. Thank you for sharing your love and kindness with me, lovely. Big hugs to you fellow creative spirit 🥰💕

  • @isabellevega5732
    @isabellevega5732 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Listening to Helena Wood's thoughts is the most valuable thing I've found on TH-cam.

  • @ZoeysMusings
    @ZoeysMusings 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "There's a lot of beauty in darkness." Yessss! Say it louder for those in the back 🗣️🗣️ I've always believed this but many people thought I was weird. This video's message was timely and very much appreciated 🙏🏽

  • @sakinastraveldiary4562
    @sakinastraveldiary4562 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Whenever I see you I see a reflection of myself. You definitely can tell things in a more structured way but I hear exactly what I believe from you. I think because both of us are expats living in places we love. Also, I have had the same visa status as yours for 5 years which didn't allow me to work. However, it gave me the chance to grow within and reflect on so many things. That was in San Diego and because of which SD holds such a special place in my heart. It's so funny, I am telling all these things in the comment section on TH-cam... But it's ok, I know it's safe here on Simple Joys Channel. ❤️

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ahhh so refreshing to connect with someone who understands the not being able to work while on a spousal visa! It can be really challenging. But it's so true, there's more space for reflection and inner growth 🥰 Love this. And LOVE that you love SD! It's such a special place, I love it too. It's a very warm and kind community here on Simple Joys, so grateful we can connect and chat with one another ❤️🤗

  • @Lovejoypeace69
    @Lovejoypeace69 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was incredible!!! You’ve inspired me!!! We are big hikers and there is a peace, calm that we experience when we are in nature. Thank you so much!!!!!

  • @Swissfairy
    @Swissfairy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dearest Helena, your video came just at the right time. I was struggling recently to come back to my senses and stop comparing myself, your words of wisdom filled my heart with INSPIRATION , admiration, love, kindness and happiness. Feeling so much gratitude for each one of your inspiring videos. Thank you beautiful soul for sharing your beautiful light and wisdom with us. Sending you a big hug from Switzerland, a hug full of love and gratitude for all the effort, the love, the patience, the passion you put in each one of your videos. Thank you 🙏❤️❤️❤️🤗

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🥰🥰🥰 Thank you for sharing your radiant light with me lovely!! I really felt your love reading this. All the warmth and hugs to you. Switzerland! Wow so cool 😍

  • @joepeponis869
    @joepeponis869 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You always have the most thought provoking videos. Here I thought everyone envied you lol. No life no matter how seemingly perfect comes without it's own unique set of challenges. Considering what it takes to be like a person you admire, such as Van Lifers, it would be cool to travel about the country coming and going as you please. Without considering the challenges those people face, living in a tiny space, limited water, no place to call home.... it's easy to watch on the side lines without the full experience. Spending time creating takes a lot of work that usually never fully shows in a video. I don't think I compare much, only when I see a super multi talented individuals and think damn I wish I had half of their talents. Then I just thank God that they do and are willing to share their unique gifts with others. Stay beautiful Helena and Alex. Your tree has many blooms yet to blossom. All my best!

    • @PilgrimKat
      @PilgrimKat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Such an insightful comment 💛

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aw Joe, your comments always feel like such a warm hug, I just adore you and your vibrant light-filled energy! 🥰 "Your tree has many blooms yet to blossom" wow. that went straight to my heart, I will remember that. It's quite encouraging. Ah!! thank you dear friend 💕 Sending you such a big hug

  • @michellel75
    @michellel75 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Today I feel inspired by you! The beauty in what you created in this video is breathtaking. Thank you.

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      aw thank you Michelle! 🤗

  • @endriandri7914
    @endriandri7914 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Needed to hear this today. It was beautiful ❤ Thank you for sharing

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm so glad you liked it, Endri! 💕

  • @kathleenroberts7972
    @kathleenroberts7972 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you sweet lady! Always an inspiration. Hugs

  • @mariamargaritagarcia8049
    @mariamargaritagarcia8049 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello beautiful and especial soul !!
    You are unique, gorgeous, and an inspiration to every human been struggling for any reason in this present time.
    All my hugs and kisses dear princess !!!

  • @Iam_ramankaur
    @Iam_ramankaur 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your voice is just so soothing. I love listening to and watching your videos as it makes me relax in the morning. I feel so good that finally there is a channel that talks about the beauty of life and living those moments for the fullest which we take granted for. Thank you :)

  • @raghavendra4633
    @raghavendra4633 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks . This is such an inspirational video for me as a student studying . Thankyou . Sometimes when I have fear , I close my eyes , and start saying OM . It calms my mind . Thanks from India from me , my sister and my mummy

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      beautiful!! I chant OM in my meditations as well! It's so healing. Big hugs to you and your family! 🤗

  • @simplytinesol1425
    @simplytinesol1425 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Truly an inspiration and a heaven sent! Thank you for sharing your light🙂 keep it up! Loveeee your videos. It makes me feel so lighter and peaceful. Sending love from Asia 🌏💛

  • @rohdreamer
    @rohdreamer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This video does really help and inspire me🌸 thank you Simple Joys!🌞

  • @Paradys8
    @Paradys8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Absolutely beautiful!

  • @SuzannesSimpleLiving
    @SuzannesSimpleLiving 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Helena I needed to hear your message today….I should concentrate on my art and not worry about followers or someone who pinched an idea from me. I loved seeing you twirling 😊🇬🇧💕

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Totally, Suzanne! Keep going ❤️

  • @gathercreatelivewithleslie8340
    @gathercreatelivewithleslie8340 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes, be inspired instead of envying and coveting. So many people are jealous and angered. Being happy with who you are and what you can do is paramount. Everyone has hard things they're dealing with. Comparison is the thief of JOY.

  • @lauradeneault3525
    @lauradeneault3525 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great thoughts to reflect and journal on☺️💙✨

  • @thirdeyecat3593
    @thirdeyecat3593 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just stumbled upon your channel and SO happy I did. Your videos are a work of art, so creative and beautiful. I am going to binge watch from the beginning with some tea one evening, can't wait!

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      aw wow, thank you!! Thanks for your support 🤗

  • @brendastevens9077
    @brendastevens9077 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very Good to think about this, and heal with a different thought process.

  • @laplayabonita
    @laplayabonita 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful video. Calming and inspiring. You look very pretty as usual 😍😍😍👏👏👏

  • @purplehippy62
    @purplehippy62 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That was a truly lovely video! Thank you.

  • @dakotaovdan
    @dakotaovdan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Beautiful video and thoughts, keep the creativity flowing 💕

  • @WorkingMomsRealHome
    @WorkingMomsRealHome 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very nice thoughtful words. Thanks for making this video

  • @annaeverdeen625
    @annaeverdeen625 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such a powerful and beautiful message. Thank you for being such an incredible mirror. ❤️

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Big hugs to you, Anna! 🤗 We are all mirrors ❤️

  • @beautifulmemorieswithdrdeepti
    @beautifulmemorieswithdrdeepti 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very nice and thoughtful🤗

  • @cathylynnpietranton
    @cathylynnpietranton 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your videos are always so inspiring and food for thought. Thank you ❤

  • @sarahraaymakers14
    @sarahraaymakers14 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this video!!!!!. Inspired me!!

  • @mikhailsordinarylife
    @mikhailsordinarylife 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good morning! 🌞 and thank you for this! 🙏🏼

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      good morning! 🤗 Big hugs to you 💕

    • @waelfaraj6705
      @waelfaraj6705 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      God may seem far ,
      Shining like a star,
      but in real , the divine is so near ,
      In the very now here ,
      The guidance is so clear...
      Trials make it dear ...

  • @cocodiasz5560
    @cocodiasz5560 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I absolutely love your channel!

  • @saraalmulla8232
    @saraalmulla8232 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful messages in this video 💜 also gorgeous videography 🌻 thank you

  • @Balintrebeka
    @Balintrebeka 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Another wonderful message. The perfect way to start Monday morning...thank you!

  • @gayathrisathish.
    @gayathrisathish. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video was like a deep breath to me❤you are magical helena❤you are loved immensely, my little heart is saying thank you to you❤sending squishy hugs❤

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      aww! all the squishy hugs right back to you 🥰🥰

  • @Inbaroush
    @Inbaroush 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you, thank you for being!

  • @amberpayne7917
    @amberpayne7917 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved the colors and message of your video.

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much! :)

  • @LibbyWithnall
    @LibbyWithnall 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What a beautiful video. I often keep yours to watch at the right time & moment so I can fully enjoy them :-).

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      aw thank you as always for your support, Libby!! :)

  • @sesamfan8850
    @sesamfan8850 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is a visual poem. 🦋🌿🍀🌅

  • @26jclay
    @26jclay 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What a beautiful and tranquil backdrop for this lovely video! And the animals with all the booty shaking, lol! This was like a little spoonful of happiness for my soul! Have a magical and happy week! 🌟💕

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Right?! I was laughing so much while filming them - such a joy to watch! lol

  • @LiveFree123
    @LiveFree123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful thoughts and words.❤️

  • @aquilestadeumartineli7592
    @aquilestadeumartineli7592 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you💚

  • @timriehl1500
    @timriehl1500 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Comparison is the theft of joy---I don't know who said that, but it is my mantra.

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think it was Mark Twain! 💕 It's a great one!

  • @claudiasalazar143
    @claudiasalazar143 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So beautiful!

  • @waelfaraj6705
    @waelfaraj6705 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God is in everyone and everything, after the winter comes the spring,
    But the divine is not limited by anyone or anything,
    All that matters is a wonderful thing ...

  • @candacelove5838
    @candacelove5838 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome !!!!

  • @daydreamerping
    @daydreamerping 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    lets keep creating. :)

  • @photolover6944
    @photolover6944 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What inspired the cottagecore vibes is not the "Petit Trianon" which is a palace, but Marie-Antoinette's "hameau de la reine" (Queen's hamlet) where she liked to play the farmer.

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      ahhhh thank you so much for that correction - my bad! Will change that

  • @SalmaandMinaandMaya
    @SalmaandMinaandMaya 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is the second msg that said to me to start and not fear when an idea comes to me. What I am really supposed to start here?

  • @suvamsingh3248
    @suvamsingh3248 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤️💌 so beautiful

  • @tanimahmed2840
    @tanimahmed2840 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good thoughts

  • @Reree-gz5bg
    @Reree-gz5bg ปีที่แล้ว

    ooh really? Lets gooooo)))

  • @DestinyFerreira29
    @DestinyFerreira29 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    beautiful

  • @nacimashm2645
    @nacimashm2645 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh sweet heart please Comme to Grenoble I would love to meet you ❤️🌼🌼🌼🌼 you re reflecting all my world, it's like you re in my head ❤️ sending you so much love

  • @moonlighteternal8024
    @moonlighteternal8024 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful Girl! :)

  • @misilvasc
    @misilvasc 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oi do Brasil!
    Você poderia ativar a legenda do youtube para português também?😊

  • @sophifathy4137
    @sophifathy4137 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    ♥♥♥

  • @freeman2369
    @freeman2369 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're awesome person, your bf and friends are so lucky by you

  • @drewalyson5799
    @drewalyson5799 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is the kind of life I'm admiring so much and I'm admiring you too for your beautiful work. This place is so surreal and wonderful.
    Ps. Can you just hire me? I'd be willing to work with you! ^w^

  • @najitasa9162
    @najitasa9162 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    أهلا قناتك رائعة أرجو الترجمة للعربية

  • @StephanieJoRountree
    @StephanieJoRountree 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Often is pronounced like soften. The T is silent.

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      ah yes! I've heard this in a tv show I love 😂 Thanks for the reminder!