My therapist had a tip for negative self talk: when you catch yourself thinking negative things towards yourself, say "I'm sorry." Apologize to yourself just like if it had been someone else you were talking to like that. This small act of self-forgiveness can help to encourage higher self esteem, and stop beating yourself up over not being "good enough."
dude we'd be best buds in middle school.. i was out here rocking side bangs, playing saxophone, and writing a webcomic in which the main character was literally my eraser
this does not whatsoever come off as bragging or being an unattainable influencer goal. this is pure art form of the beauty and purity of new york fashion week. other influencers, they use nyfw as a bragging tool, something to prove they are worth this popularity. i personally feel they have no sense of gratefulness. you appreciate every inch of fashion and shows, this shows everyone how every little detail counts to add to the art of fashion. thank you for showing us the bts and the beauty we are all missing of this gratifying fashion. :)
Yeah, I feel like Ashley is teaching us and giving tips for whoever wants to go into fashion for their future. She's really humble and I like how she shows of both her busy side and more relaxed side through her lil side notes whilst editing.
WHOOPS sorry i meant *february 11, 2020* at the beginning.... guess my brain really wants to go back to 2019 huh edit: censored out the year now to avoid confusion yeeto
but there is a reason some youtubers have to keep it a secret because who knows what happened when they public it to the whole worlds, they can recieve hates, or they may violate the privacy of some contract, ect. So yeah, they have a valid reason to hide it
Hello fellow human beings. I have an insta: @destineyyy_j i work crazy hard on my pictures/posts for you fellow homeo sapiens and it would mean sm to me if you could take a few minutes out of your day and check it out! You don't have to free world but it would be everything to me :) 🥺
I remember one Ashley in 2nd grade who dressed up as Cinderella for Halloween and I was SO mad at her because she “copied me” and her costume looked just like Cinderella complete with pretty, sheer gloves, while I literally was wearing a dress made of a tablecloth with socks as gloves. I was a petty 7 year old. 😂😂😂
look at our Ashley now, I remember watching her when she was still a small TH-camr filming look books and thrift flips now she’s going to fashion week and photo shoots and doing what she really loves :’)
Me: *checks in on ashley after 3 weeks of heavy school work* Ashley: *has moved to nyc, looking bomb af in everything and experiencing her dream of going to nyfw and meeting cool people* Me: what where when how excuse me
you always say "if you guys would be interested" when talking about making different videos, but I don't think you realize a crap load of people are going to watch anything you put out because your personality and style and your vibes are just so good.
Safety tip: as the driver of your Lyft “what’s your name?” Not “for Ashley?” Because anyone can say “yes” but only you and your driver know your drivers name.
They're also incredibly stupid and do really really really dumb and meaningless things that they'll look back on in 10 years at shock and embarrassment.
Derek seems like the coolest guy. I now understand why he's friends with like every supermodel and every celebrity. I get it now. I think I just see someone like him with the friends that he has and I kinda assumed he was standoffish. I was so wrong. I think he wants to see everyone succeed and he's a connector. It's so great to know people like him really do exist.
6:49 instead of saying "are you here for ashley?" it's better to say "who are you here for?" when getting into ubers. it's more safe and helps you avoid people who may be pretending to be your uber for nefarious reasons. love ya!
smart for us paranoid gals :^) another kinda witty option would be using a different name, e.g: are u here for olivia? then if they say yes you can say it's not your ride then, kinda stupid ig but it could work!
I feel like it's videos like these that are the perfect combination of Ashley: - relatable/deep rants on serious topics - humour and light jokes here and there - BEAUTIFUL EDITING - geeking out about fashion - self-timer photos - running late (sorry Ashley I swear I love you) - **amazing** filming - and ofc Ashley's fun as heck personality :D Also can I just say that your editing has reached a whole new level, it's so GOOD I LOVE IT
I agree. Get a good education first. She is also hard working and it shows on what she puts out. And she makes it look easy and fun. Just fun, nothing serious, ok!??!
Impostor syndrome rearing its head again. So many of us in this generation struggle with diminishing our accomplishments. I know for me it's because my parents looked down on 'bragging' even if it was a 100% true statement.
totally agree I thought the same thing when she said that, its definitely a huge deal and she should be so proud of herself for these accomplishments! she's a wonderful person
@@offbeatkiki I never like to talk about my self, cause then it feels like bragging or I come off like "HAHA IM BETTER THAN YOU" That's why I have such a hard time on the "Describe yourself" questions on any work.
Da M hey listen i get what you're tryna prove but you cant criticize a member of society for participating in society. if ashley was a rich bourgeoisie woman or a corporation CEO or whatever then i would hate her for sponsoring amazon while being already wealthy. but ashley is a working class member and we all have to work if we want to survive so i think that instead of blaming a working class member we should focus on criticizing the actual corporation
Kaela Ysabel Rivera A (most definitely crazy) *big* cat lady from the Netflix show “Tiger King”. A lot of people speculated that she probably killed her rich husband by feeding him to the lions. She’s totally rich now that she took almost all her late husbands money.
I love how Ashley actually brings us to fashion week from a regular person's POV with the scare of impostor syndrome, not from a detached "fashion" influencer viewpoint who doesn't even appreciate the art in every design of the clothes
Wholly sheetards... fashion week.... You know what my day is like today? I'll be outside cleaning the yard on my 7 acre estate, then if there's any day left, cleaning my 9,000 sq/ft house. I can't imagine having a life so pathetic that I ever knew there was a thing called "fashion week" and even worse that I would give a funk about it. It's hard to believe human trash like yourself actually exist. The only place I ever encounter you fruits, nuts, and flakes, is on TH-cam comments.
TasteMyStinkhole what kind of flex is cleaning all day 💀 all least Ashley is making money and living her best life while you’re here, cleaning, and commenting stupid shit
6:49 here's some Uber/Lyft advice to keep you all safe! Instead of saying "are you here for [my name]?" say "hi who are you here to pick up?" or "what's your name?" Then if they answer correctly you can respond with "hi, [your name] right?" or "hi I'm [my name]" so your driver knows you're also who you're supposed to be and everyone feels safer. If you say "are you here for [my name]?" your driver could just lie and say yes. And of course always check that the car type and plates match the app 😊Stay safe everybody!
yes! i was absolutely thinking this when she walked up to the car. i got terrified that she would get kidnapped even though she fully edited and released this video.
sometimes i get kind of annoyed when she talks about not wanting to brag and set an unattainable standard while being very obvious through her actions her explaining very thoroughly how the process is attainable and is based on the industry you're in and the contacts you've made. Ashley, you don't have to apologize for every move you make, you don't always have to explain yourself. We know you deserve this, we know you aren't bragging, we know this is your job. You're allowed to be confident and show off a fun part of your life without downplaying it to us.
celeste dragomir I WANTED TO MAKE THIS EXACT SAME COMMENT, but I literally never comment so thank u. Of course it is her just being open and showing us her inner dialogue but there is something to be said about letting your accomplishments stand for itself when you have a long track record of being humble, appreciative and grateful. Kind of diminishes these amazing moments because she keeps justifying how it’s not bragging.. makes it sad and frustrating that even at these moments she has to explain herself.
celeste dragomir it's because people comment saying she just does these videos to brag. But in reality she is just sharing what is possible in life. And styles that she likes to share with us
Yes. It's sad to see how nitpicky people can be so that she feels like she needs to explain herself all the time. I learned the hard way that if the people want to be offended, there is no point in you choosing and weighing every word because they'll do it nonetheless.
god i am just so proud of ashley, i remember back when she had 500k and i was watching her look books which inspired me to change my style, she’s such a big factor of the way i dress and i didn’t even realize how much i loved fashion until i started to watch ashley more often. she’s such a big inspiration for me and i’m so proud of how far she’s come
4:55 this part makes me so sad because us 'women' are so used to people catcalling us that it doesn't affect us anymore. The way ashley smiles shows how we are always trying to convince ourselves that 'its not that baaaaaad'
this is such a good point.. i remember the first time i got catcalled i was LIVID the entire day, but now it's become a new normal in my life :( i never know how to address it though because i don't want to complain to you guys since you're all in it with me, and i feel trapped like i can't say anything back to guys who catcall because i'm scared it'll escalate.
@@bestdressed :(( engaging with catcalling is really stressful, especially because i'm pretty sure what they want is a reaction out of you. i try to avoid looking flustered, and if i have friends with me, I'll shake my head and respond with a 'not cool' which sometimes gets the message across
I freaked out when I saw Anna Wintour. Ashley has come so far she's even sitting across one of the most influential women in the industry. I'm soooo proud.
She is the most real TH-camr out there. Honestly, the amount of inspiration I get by watching her videos is insane. I just chill with her talking in the background and ideas just pop up in my head!
Anyone remember when Ashley thrifted that Alexander Vauthier dress waaaaay back and said "this is my first ever designer piece" in the video? Damn she's come so far so quickly
Ashley I'm probably not your normal demographic, a 64 year old Australian Interior Designer. I wanted to let you know I freaking love you! Your videos are fabulous, you have an amazing personality & your honesty is brilliant. Looking forward to seeing your NY apartment reveal. Stay true to yourself - you rock! xx
"because... i told myself they would never wanna talk to me because... im just... Ashley." should be a moodily edited voice note at the start of the next Halsey song
I don’t know why you keep saying you “don’t deserve to be here” and you don’t want to “sound like you’re bragging” because the whole time I watched this video I was thinking, “wow, this is where hard work gets you.” As a long-time subscriber, I’ve always thought you were one of the hardest working vloggers today and it shows in the content and quality of your videos! It’s nice to stay humble, but give yourself a damn pat on the back once in a while and say “I DID that!”
Your comment about Fashion week not being "that deep" makes me think of how looked down fashion is; it's seen as something that's only superficial, snobbish and that lacks intellectual value, but the truth is that there's so much work, skill, creativity and inspiration behind it. It's a personal form of expression and even a way to feel good about yourself and connect with others. And not only talking about high fashion, but being able to look a certain way that makes YOU feel you, or taking outside inspiration to create your own aesthetic and being able to see what others like and get inspired by... it's so much more than just clothes and trends. I hope you never feel less smart or "deep" just because you're into fashion, you're clearly an intelligent, creative, and super hard working person, and you have a lot of people who support you and want to see you grow
same. when she said that, i was like ????? so many would love to be there. i'm not that into fashion, but would love just to see and be around so many smart, creative, innovative people. yes, there are toxic sides to the fashion industry, as with any, but also so much to appreciate.
@@jazmynnv5831 I think she definitely is grateful and doesn't come across as unappreciative, she was just analyzing different aspects of the concept. She was talking about the level of detail and effort that goes into shows so it seems to me like she appreciates the art of it too.
Ashley- you’ve made it so far! Imagine being in a car with Karlie Kloss! I’m so proud of you and how far you’ve come. Don’t ever question if you deserve it! You are amazing in every way and you work so hard!
Ashley's career advice! 🙌🏼 1. Start now! No excuses! 2. It's never "too late" 3. It's all about patience 4. Constantly seek inspiration 5. Make videos you want to watch 6. Learn how to delegate 7. Pick your team carefully 8. Networking is about human connection
I couldn’t imagine anyone else who deserves to be at NYFW. You have such a love for fashion and you have a knowledge that really shows through the way you speak about all the designers!
I'm so proud of my **imaginary** sister/bff Ashley. Been following her for a looong time and seeing where her career is going just fills me with joy. Such a good example and wholesome human being. You rock girl❤
Girl I feel you with that patience bit, took me 10 years to get signed to a modeling agency and still not getting paid. But God is good when your time is due, it will come nothing will keep you from achieving so long as you keep the faith and determination. Thanks for being so honest and transparent, a lot of people who succeed tend to keep blessings and valuable information to themselves instead of sharing with others.
super inspiring! ive always wanted to get into fashion and modelling but was always scared to.. i definitely wanna go for it now and at least try my hardest at it instead of being to afraid to even give it ago.
Good for you! I’ve been modeling since I was born so I can’t relate but keep working hard and one day you’ll make it. Always come with the attitude that they deserve you. Of course always stay humble. I believe in your girly ♥️
If you’re signed to an agency, your bookings (at least a majority of them) must be paid bookings. That’s their job, to get you paid work. If your agency is only sending you on unpaid bookings, I would question the legitimacy of your agency. Update/Correction: If your agency is only sending you on unpaid CASTINGS, I would question the legitimacy of your agency.
*Ashley talking about how she had broad shoulders* Me: she has beautifully toned arms 5 seconds later “David Dobrik comments that her camera is heavy” Me: ohhhh that’s why! Lol
Ashley:"I want to be married in those dresses and I want to get buried at my funeral in those dresses" Me, an intellect: you could plan to die at your marriage but that's gross
Bro it's totally valid to feel as if your shoulders are "broad" if you have fairly narrow hips. I have a similar body type to Ashley (short & petite) but I am super self-conscious about my shoulders bc they're wider than my hips bc of genetics, it happens
Hello fellow human beings. I have an insta: @destineyyy_j i work crazy hard on my pictures/posts for you fellow homeo sapiens and it would mean sm to me if you could take a few minutes out of your day and check it out! You don't have to free world but it would be everything to me :) 🥺
The change in Ashley’s vibe and growing confidence feels so noticeable from the first NYFW video even though technically it’s only 24 hours later for her like WHOAA
'I enjoy other people being confident and I'm proud of them, but whenever I'm confident, I'm just like- oh she's an asshole' wow that's literally how I felt my whole life. I've always thought that it was a good thing to talk myself down and to downplay any 'achievements' bc I was so afraid that other people would see me as arrogant or too cocky or whatever while I really admired girls who were really confident... I feel like I can deeply relate to you in soo many aspects and I always feel like you're the 'version' of myself that I always wanted to be. I'm so glad that I found your channel two years ago. thank you so much for being real with us. thank you for always being so thoughtful and considerate. thank you for always bringing us so much positive vibes & energy. thank you for being you. you truly are a wonderful, inspirational woman.
Seriously. So many girls on tiktok are blame confident girls for their insecurities like some girls blame madison beer for LITERALLY just being pretty and being like DONT talk about madison beer i cant feel confident if i here her. Like stfu you cant ever blame someone elses confidence or beauty for your insecurities
bro everyone’s talking about how she interviewed karlie kloss. bro, she interviewed ASHLEY. She is incredible and i love her endlessly. I’m so proud of how heccin far she’s come😌✨
I esp love the “comfy / potato zone” reflections. And pls don’t feel the need to reiterate that you’re not trying to show off or make something unattainable seem “TH-cam-relatable”. We know & love you simply bc you’re Ashley.
I love how your vlogs are about the fashion, the clothes and not focusing so much on who you saw. It shows a real respect both for fashion and for the designer's work
i don't think i've ever watched a youtuber more relatable and honest to their viewers than you Ashley! thank you for feeling courageous enough to be vulnerable with us and im so SO happy you're out doing what you love! WOOOOOOO
I really like how many people is saying they have never been so early to any of Ashley’s videos, and how each one of us express how they enjoyed the video. I think I can say we all love you transparence with your audience and how well done is your work. Ashley, you are very inspirational to many of us, and even you make mistakes it is totally fine and normal actually, we hope you keep in your journey to treat yourself better and some of our comments motivate you in hard times when it is not easy to handle things going on in life. With all this being said, we cannot wait for your next video!! (not literally I mean we know each one of your videos takes its time lol)
I am SO proud of Ashley. She has grown so much, both in her career and as a person. I love that she's trying her best to be more positive and confident. I can't believe she now has over 3 million subscribers, is doing photoshoots, going to fashion shows, and literally meeting David Dobrik.
ashley is the SWEETEST fashion TH-camr, i swear. she literally was like ah imposter syndrome, then was like ah please don't think I'm bragging because she's so aware of herself, aware of others' emotions, and aware of how her actions affect others.
She deserves everything. I’m so proud of her when i watched her before she was just repairing thrift clothes and now she is a stylist and a model for big companies like seriously you go Ashley!!! We love you so muchhh ♥️
I just want to say I never feel like you're bragging. I think seeing how excited you are about the things you get to experience makes it obvious how grateful you are for the opportunities you've been givin. Anyways I love you and your content and I'm so happy for you for being able to go to nyfw. I always look forward to your content 💕
"I enjoy other people being confident and I'm all 'go them' but whenever I'm a bit confident I feel like 'oh she's an asshole'" Deep down I wish the best for you cause honestly I feel it.. same girl we'll go through this together :')
I honestly love how you didn’t just go just for pictures and to show off but you went in and used this opportunity to share the experience of not just you but of others. And not people with the same occupation. You are a story teller that shares and I live for it.
I feel such a weird sense of accomplishment? or vicarious happiness? From your teeny tiny shared LA bedroom to your NYC apartment. It feels like we’ve all been a part of it, despite not at all having a hand at it. Like you DID THAT! You did ALL OF IT and I’m so oddly PROUD(??) as a person who hasn’t met you or even held a 2 sided conversation??? Ahhhh you deserve it all Ashley!! Despite anything you believe or what you tell yourself, you deserve this. You built this and you created this!! Thank you for letting us be apart of it ✨
I love how Ashley talks to us like we are an actual person and not as an audience she is trying to please its generally refreshing.
superior garbage omg yesss so many TH-camrs just see us as views and not actual people :/
@Amanda Ivette waittt now that you say it, every youtuber really does talk to us like we’re views not people
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could not put it better
My therapist had a tip for negative self talk: when you catch yourself thinking negative things towards yourself, say "I'm sorry." Apologize to yourself just like if it had been someone else you were talking to like that. This small act of self-forgiveness can help to encourage higher self esteem, and stop beating yourself up over not being "good enough."
I think if I said it to another person. Would I regret saying it? If so, don’t say it to myself
Thank you, i didn't know i needed to see this, but I did today.
Thank you so much for sharing this. I think this will be helpful to at least one person. So thank you :)
Thank you this is really helpful to me I'm going to start doing this😊
Love this
Ashley seems like one of the only fashion TH-camrs who wouldn’t bully me in middle school
Anna Hongo why does this comment make sense I-
I totally think that every time l hear her talk
LMAO
true
she's the one that would invite you over to her house to make cookies
dude we'd be best buds in middle school.. i was out here rocking side bangs, playing saxophone, and writing a webcomic in which the main character was literally my eraser
this does not whatsoever come off as bragging or being an unattainable influencer goal. this is pure art form of the beauty and purity of new york fashion week. other influencers, they use nyfw as a bragging tool, something to prove they are worth this popularity. i personally feel they have no sense of gratefulness. you appreciate every inch of fashion and shows, this shows everyone how every little detail counts to add to the art of fashion. thank you for showing us the bts and the beauty we are all missing of this gratifying fashion. :)
Yeah, I feel like Ashley is teaching us and giving tips for whoever wants to go into fashion for their future. She's really humble and I like how she shows of both her busy side and more relaxed side through her lil side notes whilst editing.
She deserves all the good in this life 💜
WHOOPS sorry i meant *february 11, 2020* at the beginning.... guess my brain really wants to go back to 2019 huh
edit: censored out the year now to avoid confusion yeeto
can you do a spring 2020 outfit lookbook video? thanks love you ashley
Don’t we all want too go back😭✌🏼
luv u 💕💕
@@farah2236 owww yess
when we experience trauma we tend to revert back to an easier time
I love how she talks so openly, like omg finally someone isn't handling being a TH-cam like it's a secret
Louise Black i mean her parents still don’t know
i h8 life i think that’s a myth they know by now
Rightt
but there is a reason some youtubers have to keep it a secret because who knows what happened when they public it to the whole worlds, they can recieve hates, or they may violate the privacy of some contract, ect. So yeah, they have a valid reason to hide it
Hello fellow human beings. I have an insta: @destineyyy_j i work crazy hard on my pictures/posts for you fellow homeo sapiens and it would mean sm to me if you could take a few minutes out of your day and check it out! You don't have to free world but it would be everything to me :) 🥺
“bringing yourself down to be relatable” FINALLY SOMEONE SAID IT
YESYESYES
she used to do that too tho 🚴🚴
EXACTLYEXACTLYEXACTLY
I do this all time time lol
Ashley breaks the stereotype of the name ''Ashley'' in the best possible way.
nina gomarteli I usually hate the name because of the stereotype. But Ashley makes me love the name!
this ashley has singlehandedly made me like the name ashley
Never knew there was a negative stereotype about it? Its literally just a name lol.
Ashley Davis I guess I just always knew really snotty Ashleys as a kid. 😂
I remember one Ashley in 2nd grade who dressed up as Cinderella for Halloween and I was SO mad at her because she “copied me” and her costume looked just like Cinderella complete with pretty, sheer gloves, while I literally was wearing a dress made of a tablecloth with socks as gloves. I was a petty 7 year old. 😂😂😂
wHY IS NO ONE TALKING ABOUT HOW SHE LOOKS EVEN MORE GORGEOUS WITH A PONYTAIL LIKE W H A T-
I love it with the big chunky clips in her hair!
Lexi A ikr she looks like a goddess always but a mega goddess in a ponytail
!!!
look at our Ashley now, I remember watching her when she was still a small TH-camr filming look books and thrift flips now she’s going to fashion week and photo shoots and doing what she really loves :’)
Ari B yes same!
Ari B ikr😭💗💗💗
wooww!!
Same🥺 I'm so proud of her!
The nostalgia . Our girls doing well
Watching how much Ashley’s career has grown makes me emotional. Like she really did that.
Same here! Discovered her last year and look at her now! Keep doing us proud, Ashley!
Me too🥺
Sameeeee
I'm so proud of her!
Danyelle Sullivan i’ve been watching her for 2 years now 🥺
Me: *checks in on ashley after 3 weeks of heavy school work*
Ashley: *has moved to nyc, looking bomb af in everything and experiencing her dream of going to nyfw and meeting cool people*
Me: what where when how excuse me
Ashley just needs more, in fact, she needs the mOst ;)
ABSOLUTELY
Yes she is doing amazingggggg
Achievements
you always say "if you guys would be interested" when talking about making different videos, but I don't think you realize a crap load of people are going to watch anything you put out because your personality and style and your vibes are just so good.
Lydia Brant this is so true
Lydia Brant so true!
i agreeee
yup! But that manager tips / contracts / choosing team wisely video would be something of interest to me :)
YAS
repeat after me: ASHLEY DESERVES THIS
ASHLEY FUCKING DESERVE THIS
ASHLEY DESERVES THIS ❤️
ASHLEY DESERVES THIS 💓
ASHLEY DESERVES THISSSS!!!
ASHLEY DESERVES THIS
Safety tip: as the driver of your Lyft “what’s your name?” Not “for Ashley?” Because anyone can say “yes” but only you and your driver know your drivers name.
Catherine Rich hopefully everyone get to see this comment because it is so important
I literally came here to say this too. Or "who are you here for?" ESPECIALLY in NYC
Even better, just to confirm, "who is this Lyft/Uber/whatever for?"
YES!!! I do this in Toronto
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8:47 "Never underestimate youth. They are fearless and anxious and those are beautiful ingredients"
wow that's so beautiful! totally missed it
They're also incredibly stupid and do really really really dumb and meaningless things that they'll look back on in 10 years at shock and embarrassment.
@@TasteMyStinkholeAndLikeIt please explain! I wanna know :)
@@TasteMyStinkholeAndLikeIt thats a good thing if you dont have that shock and embarrassment 10 years later have you ever truly lived your life?
Where does it say that? I‘m rlly confused but I really like the quote :)
Derek seems like the coolest guy. I now understand why he's friends with like every supermodel and every celebrity. I get it now. I think I just see someone like him with the friends that he has and I kinda assumed he was standoffish. I was so wrong. I think he wants to see everyone succeed and he's a connector. It's so great to know people like him really do exist.
Aalilyah Thomas he looks easy to talk to
6:49 instead of saying "are you here for ashley?" it's better to say "who are you here for?" when getting into ubers. it's more safe and helps you avoid people who may be pretending to be your uber for nefarious reasons. love ya!
natncat omg right
Deadass thought the same thing bc I’m paranoid
Also depending on where you're from Lyft might be a better option because they require background checks from all their drivers!!
Yes yes yes & always [ via lyft idk about uber ] compare license plate numbers
smart for us paranoid gals :^) another kinda witty option would be using a different name, e.g: are u here for olivia? then if they say yes you can say it's not your ride then, kinda stupid ig but it could work!
I feel like it's videos like these that are the perfect combination of Ashley:
- relatable/deep rants on serious topics
- humour and light jokes here and there
- BEAUTIFUL EDITING
- geeking out about fashion
- self-timer photos
- running late (sorry Ashley I swear I love you)
- **amazing** filming
- and ofc Ashley's fun as heck personality :D
Also can I just say that your editing has reached a whole new level, it's so GOOD I LOVE IT
a jisung stan that also watches ashley? taste
And her intelligent wit, she is amaaazing
@Avery Stokes trueee, she ALWAYS makes sure she is not misunderstood
I agree! I aspire to edit like that!
Film school really comes through with Ashley’s editing. Breathtaking. I’m so proud of how far she’s come
I agree. Get a good education first. She is also hard working and it shows on what she puts out. And she makes it look easy and fun. Just fun, nothing serious, ok!??!
“I talked to way too many people for my introvert brain to handle” I FELT THAT
hey google can a phrase be your spirit animal
things we love to see: you thriving and being around people who appreciate your talent and make you laugh
Yes! I'm so proud of her when she's happy.
be honest.
we’re all crying because she’s the cool sister we never had
Hannah Lou one can only dream 😭
aeralv I’m the oldest but I don’t think I can be like Ashley (which is okie dokie)
True thoo
I literally have 4 sisters and still want Ashley as my cool older sister 😂
I have a weird older brother. So yes please, I want to swap the two.
she interviewed karlee kloss in an Uber and made it look so professional. I was thinking how? then I realised, Ashley is a *film student*
*Film school graduate
When Ashley said “fashion week is not really that big of a deal...” 🥺🥺 you worked so hard for this and this is such a big deal
Impostor syndrome rearing its head again. So many of us in this generation struggle with diminishing our accomplishments. I know for me it's because my parents looked down on 'bragging' even if it was a 100% true statement.
totally agree I thought the same thing when she said that, its definitely a huge deal and she should be so proud of herself for these accomplishments! she's a wonderful person
@@offbeatkiki I never like to talk about my self, cause then it feels like bragging or I come off like "HAHA IM BETTER THAN YOU" That's why I have such a hard time on the "Describe yourself" questions on any work.
Yes! Hype yourself up Ashley ! 🥺
@@offbeatkiki same!
ashley is the MOST transparent youtuber like she’s so real
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she literally had a sponsorship with amazon after preaching sustainability and never addressed it - talk about transparency
Da M hey listen i get what you're tryna prove but you cant criticize a member of society for participating in society. if ashley was a rich bourgeoisie woman or a corporation CEO or whatever then i would hate her for sponsoring amazon while being already wealthy. but ashley is a working class member and we all have to work if we want to survive so i think that instead of blaming a working class member we should focus on criticizing the actual corporation
@@maia4578 you dropped this 👑
maia hell yea!
February 11, 2019...I think she’s trying to pretend 2020 doesn’t exist😂
Ashley thinking about 2020: I do not see it ✋
noconicole & we all said 2020 would be oUr yEaR 😭😭😭
Lauren Clark I wanted yeet 2020
Cause it shouldn't
i dont blame her
Ashley’s over here nearly convincing me to start a TH-cam channel. And here I am with only two pictures on Instagram.
Lol same 😂
Do it do it do it do it!
You can do it.... you can start by adding a picture to your TH-cam page!!
literally me
I have been doing youtube for 5 years and she makes me want to reboot my channel
11:11 “for your rich husband who mysteriously got murdered” Carole Baskin is shaking
AHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHHAA
I literally paused the video and came to this comment section looking for this, thank you
AHAHAHAHA
Not to sound stupid, but who is she?
Kaela Ysabel Rivera A (most definitely crazy) *big* cat lady from the Netflix show “Tiger King”. A lot of people speculated that she probably killed her rich husband by feeding him to the lions. She’s totally rich now that she took almost all her late husbands money.
I love how Ashley actually brings us to fashion week from a regular person's POV with the scare of impostor syndrome, not from a detached "fashion" influencer viewpoint who doesn't even appreciate the art in every design of the clothes
Wholly sheetards... fashion week....
You know what my day is like today? I'll be outside cleaning the yard on my 7 acre estate, then if there's any day left, cleaning my 9,000 sq/ft house.
I can't imagine having a life so pathetic that I ever knew there was a thing called "fashion week" and even worse that I would give a funk about it.
It's hard to believe human trash like yourself actually exist. The only place I ever encounter you fruits, nuts, and flakes, is on TH-cam comments.
TasteMyStinkhole nice flex but ok
TasteMyStinkhole what kind of flex is cleaning all day 💀 all least Ashley is making money and living her best life while you’re here, cleaning, and commenting stupid shit
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@@carlosbernardo1074 is it weird that i now appreciate so-called 'detached viewpoints' by detaching myself tho (asking for a friend lol)
everyone’s talking about david dobrik and anna wintour but i still can’t believe you literally interviewed karlie kloss
ikrrrr i love her!! shes so smart
*they touched shoulders*
Same!! It's not like she just asked her a question on the street either, it was like a whole ass interview
Me fcking too IT IS KARLIE KLOSS
same OMG
ashley is like the most relatable successful influencer bc she's not afraid of talking about her struggle and everything she did to get there
6:49 here's some Uber/Lyft advice to keep you all safe! Instead of saying "are you here for [my name]?" say "hi who are you here to pick up?" or "what's your name?" Then if they answer correctly you can respond with "hi, [your name] right?" or "hi I'm [my name]" so your driver knows you're also who you're supposed to be and everyone feels safer. If you say "are you here for [my name]?" your driver could just lie and say yes. And of course always check that the car type and plates match the app 😊Stay safe everybody!
Yes! Really important advice.
i always just look at plates. It's really that simple. And all uber drivers i've been with say my name as confirmation from the get go
Do you guys not get OTPs? That's so weird.
yes! i was absolutely thinking this when she walked up to the car. i got terrified that she would get kidnapped even though she fully edited and released this video.
This is great advice. Thank you 🙏
sometimes i get kind of annoyed when she talks about not wanting to brag and set an unattainable standard while being very obvious through her actions her explaining very thoroughly how the process is attainable and is based on the industry you're in and the contacts you've made. Ashley, you don't have to apologize for every move you make, you don't always have to explain yourself. We know you deserve this, we know you aren't bragging, we know this is your job. You're allowed to be confident and show off a fun part of your life without downplaying it to us.
celeste dragomir I WANTED TO MAKE THIS EXACT SAME COMMENT, but I literally never comment so thank u. Of course it is her just being open and showing us her inner dialogue but there is something to be said about letting your accomplishments stand for itself when you have a long track record of being humble, appreciative and grateful. Kind of diminishes these amazing moments because she keeps justifying how it’s not bragging.. makes it sad and frustrating that even at these moments she has to explain herself.
celeste dragomir it's because people comment saying she just does these videos to brag. But in reality she is just sharing what is possible in life. And styles that she likes to share with us
agree
Yes. It's sad to see how nitpicky people can be so that she feels like she needs to explain herself all the time. I learned the hard way that if the people want to be offended, there is no point in you choosing and weighing every word because they'll do it nonetheless.
"they would never talk to me cause I'm just ashley"
I felt that.
Same
i love how she just casually gets Anna Wintour into her shot
Okay she has the most aesthetic life ever
Michelle Choe wtf does that word even mean anymore lmao there are hundreds of different aesthetics
she did say that the majority of her job is spent on hours of editing, but yeah
@@zoelizabeth3 im sure they meant aesthetic as pretty, like the actual meaning of aesthetic?
god i am just so proud of ashley, i remember back when she had 500k and i was watching her look books which inspired me to change my style, she’s such a big factor of the way i dress and i didn’t even realize how much i loved fashion until i started to watch ashley more often. she’s such a big inspiration for me and i’m so proud of how far she’s come
Magdalena i don’t even like fashion and i love this girl 😂
At Vera wangs show she literally sat in front of Anna Wintour. ICONIC.
Can we just appreciate how far she has come? I feel like a proud mama, ahhh
her editing and self-production is literally EVERYTHING and that's on PERIODT
4:55 this part makes me so sad because us 'women' are so used to people catcalling us that it doesn't affect us anymore. The way ashley smiles shows how we are always trying to convince ourselves that 'its not that baaaaaad'
Listen to "boys will be boys" by dua lipa
this is such a good point.. i remember the first time i got catcalled i was LIVID the entire day, but now it's become a new normal in my life :( i never know how to address it though because i don't want to complain to you guys since you're all in it with me, and i feel trapped like i can't say anything back to guys who catcall because i'm scared it'll escalate.
bestdressed this sadly happens... I can’t do anything but wish something would change
@@bestdressed :(( engaging with catcalling is really stressful, especially because i'm pretty sure what they want is a reaction out of you. i try to avoid looking flustered, and if i have friends with me, I'll shake my head and respond with a 'not cool' which sometimes gets the message across
@@bestdressed ilysm bby, no one deserves to feel like that.
"Whenever I'm confident I'm like "Oh she's an asshole"" Why do I relate on a spiritual level to you Ashley? This ain't good
Ms Jossi i feel this deeply... :( i just crawl back into my shell and wait for the next full moon TT
Ms Jossi I related to this so hard too haha 😩
Lowkeyy
I freaked out when I saw Anna Wintour. Ashley has come so far she's even sitting across one of the most influential women in the industry. I'm soooo proud.
The fact that there is no negativity in the comments and everyone is genuinly happy for your achievements says a lot. 💕
Ramisha Ferdous Rodela that’s cause she deletes comments lol
@@carolambriz6398 Your comment is still here
@@carolambriz6398 spread ur negativity elsewhere please
@@carolambriz6398If yours is still here, then I very much doubt it 💀
She is the most real TH-camr out there. Honestly, the amount of inspiration I get by watching her videos is insane. I just chill with her talking in the background and ideas just pop up in my head!
Who’s been watching Ashley before she hit one million? (I’m so proud of her 💕)
Sometimes, I feel like jealous when I watch other youtubers, but with you? I JUST FEEL INSPIRED!!!
SAME
Anyone remember when Ashley thrifted that Alexander Vauthier dress waaaaay back and said "this is my first ever designer piece" in the video? Damn she's come so far so quickly
Sanaa Mariam I’m so proud of her 😭😭
youtube is the only thing getting me through self-quarantine.
As an introvert TH-cam is the only thing getting me through everyday
r o s e couldn’t relate more
Ashley is the only thing getting me through self-quarantine
@@alishab961 sis me too
Ritika Kumar saaammmeeee
i am LIVING for ashley's content rn
the effort, the aesthetic, the pride in her work is just ridiculous
Ashley I'm probably not your normal demographic, a 64 year old Australian Interior Designer. I wanted to let you know I freaking love you! Your videos are fabulous, you have an amazing personality & your honesty is brilliant. Looking forward to seeing your NY apartment reveal. Stay true to yourself - you rock! xx
"because... i told myself they would never wanna talk to me because... im just... Ashley." should be a moodily edited voice note at the start of the next Halsey song
I don’t know why you keep saying you “don’t deserve to be here” and you don’t want to “sound like you’re bragging” because the whole time I watched this video I was thinking, “wow, this is where hard work gets you.” As a long-time subscriber, I’ve always thought you were one of the hardest working vloggers today and it shows in the content and quality of your videos! It’s nice to stay humble, but give yourself a damn pat on the back once in a while and say “I DID that!”
Agreed. Take a step back and celebrate the moment. Enjoy it.
Totally agree! She deserves it. Ashley you are amazing and you inspire every person watching this. Thank you for that!!
Your comment about Fashion week not being "that deep" makes me think of how looked down fashion is; it's seen as something that's only superficial, snobbish and that lacks intellectual value, but the truth is that there's so much work, skill, creativity and inspiration behind it. It's a personal form of expression and even a way to feel good about yourself and connect with others. And not only talking about high fashion, but being able to look a certain way that makes YOU feel you, or taking outside inspiration to create your own aesthetic and being able to see what others like and get inspired by... it's so much more than just clothes and trends. I hope you never feel less smart or "deep" just because you're into fashion, you're clearly an intelligent, creative, and super hard working person, and you have a lot of people who support you and want to see you grow
Alex G yess! More people should feel this way’
same. when she said that, i was like ????? so many would love to be there. i'm not that into fashion, but would love just to see and be around so many smart, creative, innovative people. yes, there are toxic sides to the fashion industry, as with any, but also so much to appreciate.
I wish everyone thinks like this
i dont think she meant that statement in this context though
@@jazmynnv5831 I think she definitely is grateful and doesn't come across as unappreciative, she was just analyzing different aspects of the concept. She was talking about the level of detail and effort that goes into shows so it seems to me like she appreciates the art of it too.
hey!! don’t ask “for (your name)” when getting an uber, ask who they’re waiting for!! it’s way safer.
Right. I always do this and they once said "for you". I left right away
could u explain why? i kinda don't understand
@@sjae-ni1xi just in case you get into a stranger's car, if you wait for them to say your name then you can confirm they're your uber driver
Or u could say a fake name?
Just check the license plates everyone
If I’m taking career advices from anyone, it would be from Ashley💛
zoeunlimited same!!
@@bubblegumb8148 PREACH!!!
Super random, but I just looked at your channel and girl, 👏👏 you're thumbnails are nice. New subscriber
Alexandria Waldeck awww thank you!!💕💕 hope we learn and grow together ^
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Me: wait is that Anna Wintour across from Ashley??
Ashley, two seconds later: Anna Wintour saw my outfit!
Truly icons recognizing icons!
i love the fact that she's so humble and like all of us when she's literally sitting in front of Anna Wintour in the first runway
Ashley- you’ve made it so far! Imagine being in a car with Karlie Kloss! I’m so proud of you and how far you’ve come. Don’t ever question if you deserve it! You are amazing in every way and you work so hard!
Someone in the comment section said “who is zoella?” *I’m getting old*
Edit: love you Ashley. 💕
Valid oh damn. I don't wanna be old XD
Oh no, the mid life chrisis is hitting hard for me too
no but seriously, who is she?
shite
dude, I'm like 13 and I know who she is, it either someone who's just oblivious and like 6-11
Ashley's career advice! 🙌🏼
1. Start now! No excuses!
2. It's never "too late"
3. It's all about patience
4. Constantly seek inspiration
5. Make videos you want to watch
6. Learn how to delegate
7. Pick your team carefully
8. Networking is about human connection
I love how humble Ashley is deep inside but when she's posing for those photos she's so confident and beautiful.
pro tip : when you’re entering an uber don’t say “for xyz”, say “who is this for” so you don’t get kidnapped lol
Smart!
I thought the same...
i just look at the plates
Also always look at the plates. At least make sure the last three digits match before you approach
I couldn’t imagine anyone else who deserves to be at NYFW. You have such a love for fashion and you have a knowledge that really shows through the way you speak about all the designers!
ashley: "i personally was so inspired by shows like the carrie diaries"
me: *lights cigarette* i haven't heard that name in years ...
F*CKEN SAME!!!!!!!
Henrietta Murphy me toooooo :)
SAME!!! i had the biggest throwback to my childhood when she mentioned the carrie diaries anddddddd jane by design.
@@haiichloe that show shouldn't have had been cancelled
Chloe Frise omg Jane by design I loved that show can’t believe they canceled it
I shed a single cinematic tear over how beautiful that cathedral fashion show was
I'm so proud of my **imaginary** sister/bff Ashley. Been following her for a looong time and seeing where her career is going just fills me with joy. Such a good example and wholesome human being. You rock girl❤
same !!
xx
Girl I feel you with that patience bit, took me 10 years to get signed to a modeling agency and still not getting paid. But God is good when your time is due, it will come nothing will keep you from achieving so long as you keep the faith and determination. Thanks for being so honest and transparent, a lot of people who succeed tend to keep blessings and valuable information to themselves instead of sharing with others.
super inspiring! ive always wanted to get into fashion and modelling but was always scared to.. i definitely wanna go for it now and at least try my hardest at it instead of being to afraid to even give it ago.
Good for you! I’ve been modeling since I was born so I can’t relate but keep working hard and one day you’ll make it. Always come with the attitude that they deserve you. Of course always stay humble. I believe in your girly ♥️
I also wanted to try modeling. Is it really that hard?🥺
If you’re signed to an agency, your bookings (at least a majority of them) must be paid bookings. That’s their job, to get you paid work. If your agency is only sending you on unpaid bookings, I would question the legitimacy of your agency.
Update/Correction: If your agency is only sending you on unpaid CASTINGS, I would question the legitimacy of your agency.
I always wanted that kind of experience but I guess I'm too short for this (15yo, my height around 160-162
*Ashley talking about how she had broad shoulders*
Me: she has beautifully toned arms
5 seconds later
“David Dobrik comments that her camera is heavy”
Me: ohhhh that’s why! Lol
Ashley:"I want to be married in those dresses and I want to get buried at my funeral in those dresses"
Me, an intellect: you could plan to die at your marriage but that's gross
lisaavgt lol 😂 😂😂😂😂
Or organise a wedding just before her funeral.
juliet from romeo and juliet: 👁👄👁
Her body is literally PERFECT and here she is saying she has broad shoulders and what not. Girl, fix your mirror!!!
Toni Luna nothing imperfect about having broad shoulders! the mirror is only a reflection of mind
Bro it's totally valid to feel as if your shoulders are "broad" if you have fairly narrow hips. I have a similar body type to Ashley (short & petite) but I am super self-conscious about my shoulders bc they're wider than my hips bc of genetics, it happens
Hello fellow human beings. I have an insta: @destineyyy_j i work crazy hard on my pictures/posts for you fellow homeo sapiens and it would mean sm to me if you could take a few minutes out of your day and check it out! You don't have to free world but it would be everything to me :) 🥺
She never said they were a bad thing! Like yes, own your shoulders no matter what they look like!
Erica Gallermo same
The change in Ashley’s vibe and growing confidence feels so noticeable from the first NYFW video even though technically it’s only 24 hours later for her like WHOAA
'I enjoy other people being confident and I'm proud of them, but whenever I'm confident, I'm just like- oh she's an asshole'
wow that's literally how I felt my whole life. I've always thought that it was a good thing to talk myself down and to downplay any 'achievements' bc I was so afraid that other people would see me as arrogant or too cocky or whatever while I really admired girls who were really confident... I feel like I can deeply relate to you in soo many aspects and I always feel like you're the 'version' of myself that I always wanted to be. I'm so glad that I found your channel two years ago. thank you so much for being real with us. thank you for always being so thoughtful and considerate. thank you for always bringing us so much positive vibes & energy. thank you for being you. you truly are a wonderful, inspirational woman.
Don't say 'achievements', no quotation marks needed
Wow thats depressing
Seriously. So many girls on tiktok are blame confident girls for their insecurities like some girls blame madison beer for LITERALLY just being pretty and being like DONT talk about madison beer i cant feel confident if i here her. Like stfu you cant ever blame someone elses confidence or beauty for your insecurities
Gabriela Michalak 👏🏽👏🏽
tornakasi ❤️❤️❤️👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽yes
bro everyone’s talking about how she interviewed karlie kloss. bro, she interviewed ASHLEY. She is incredible and i love her endlessly. I’m so proud of how heccin far she’s come😌✨
Ashley: I Have broad shoulders
Female swimmers: we are about to end this women's whole career
yesss i can not fit in forever 21 or any other fast fashion top lmao
Literally thought the same. She ist so small and delicate some of the girls in my swimteam have so much broader but beautiful shoulders
Yeah I have literal linebacker shoulders. They measure like uuh 40? 50? Inches?? I don’t remember
花木Joyce and rock climbers
ok but the true struggle is having tiny shoulders (28 inches across) and then have arm fat begin like an inch after my shoulder. IT LOOKS SO ODD
I esp love the “comfy / potato zone” reflections. And pls don’t feel the need to reiterate that you’re not trying to show off or make something unattainable seem “TH-cam-relatable”. We know & love you simply bc you’re Ashley.
Ashley always looks gorgeous but damn her in a ponytail kinda lowkey hit different like holy shit how is she not a model
im wondering the same damn thing lmao
im so glad she's enjoying her life in nyc
Ashley is truly one of us when she talks about meeting David Dobrik
WHEN ASHLEY GOT CATCALLED I WAS LIKE 😤🔪🔪🔪
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What when?? I guess i didnt notice :/
cassie 4:54 👉🏼👈🏼
same
@@yanatheapgod thank u :)
i like how you thought it was sacrilegious to vlog in a cathedral's toilet when there's a whole fashion show happening there HAHAHA go ashley!
I love how your vlogs are about the fashion, the clothes and not focusing so much on who you saw. It shows a real respect both for fashion and for the designer's work
i SNORTED when she said "elon. musk's. literal. mother."
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“who would wanna watch me when there was zoella” SIS I haven’t watched zoella SINCE 2015 💀
annika julia who even is Zoella? 🤓
😭
@@onota8527 Ey- . I feel old
annika julia no one watches zoella
And here we have discovered the point
Ashley: says she is used to not being confident
Also Ashley: uses a remix of 'can't tell me nothing' by kanye west
luv 2 see ur confidence, ur amazing
i love that songg i was so happy hearingit
what time did it come on?
@@tsukitsuki7584 13:01
i don't think i've ever watched a youtuber more relatable and honest to their viewers than you Ashley! thank you for feeling courageous enough to be vulnerable with us and im so SO happy you're out doing what you love! WOOOOOOO
I really like how many people is saying they have never been so early to any of Ashley’s videos, and how each one of us express how they enjoyed the video. I think I can say we all love you transparence with your audience and how well done is your work. Ashley, you are very inspirational to many of us, and even you make mistakes it is totally fine and normal actually, we hope you keep in your journey to treat yourself better and some of our comments motivate you in hard times when it is not easy to handle things going on in life. With all this being said, we cannot wait for your next video!! (not literally I mean we know each one of your videos takes its time lol)
I am SO proud of Ashley. She has grown so much, both in her career and as a person. I love that she's trying her best to be more positive and confident. I can't believe she now has over 3 million subscribers, is doing photoshoots, going to fashion shows, and literally meeting David Dobrik.
“We had to go meet Elon musk’s literal mother” is this best sentence that’s been said by anyone ever.
Iconic!
ashley is the SWEETEST fashion TH-camr, i swear. she literally was like ah imposter syndrome, then was like ah please don't think I'm bragging because she's so aware of herself, aware of others' emotions, and aware of how her actions affect others.
She deserves everything. I’m so proud of her when i watched her before she was just repairing thrift clothes and now she is a stylist and a model for big companies like seriously you go Ashley!!! We love you so muchhh ♥️
I just want to say I never feel like you're bragging. I think seeing how excited you are about the things you get to experience makes it obvious how grateful you are for the opportunities you've been givin.
Anyways I love you and your content and I'm so happy for you for being able to go to nyfw. I always look forward to your content 💕
"I enjoy other people being confident and I'm all 'go them' but whenever I'm a bit confident I feel like 'oh she's an asshole'"
Deep down I wish the best for you cause honestly I feel it.. same girl we'll go through this together :')
It makes me so happy how genuinely excited and appreciative she is about fashion week
"If you guys are interested" yes I will literally watch anything you put out
yeah i second that
Same
Jonghyun!💜
I honestly love how you didn’t just go just for pictures and to show off but you went in and used this opportunity to share the experience of not just you but of others. And not people with the same occupation. You are a story teller that shares and I live for it.
I remember shedding a tear or two when she hit 100k, look at her now...absolutely deserved.
I've literally never been so happy to see someone succeed in their field. I love seeing all these opportunities manifest for Ashley!!
I feel such a weird sense of accomplishment? or vicarious happiness? From your teeny tiny shared LA bedroom to your NYC apartment. It feels like we’ve all been a part of it, despite not at all having a hand at it. Like you DID THAT! You did ALL OF IT and I’m so oddly PROUD(??) as a person who hasn’t met you or even held a 2 sided conversation??? Ahhhh you deserve it all Ashley!! Despite anything you believe or what you tell yourself, you deserve this. You built this and you created this!! Thank you for letting us be apart of it ✨