STOP BEING LOYAL | TRENT SHELTON

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  • @Mandie874
    @Mandie874 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    That’s right!! No more being loyal to toxic people!!

    • @Ian-jr2wl
      @Ian-jr2wl หลายเดือนก่อน

      HERE ERE!!!

  • @uniquelyrose1004
    @uniquelyrose1004 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    In Jesus name, I'm gone find myself & purpose again.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @Just2gofoods
    @Just2gofoods ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I was loyal to wrong things, so I pivoted and now I’m loyal to myself.

  • @amandacranfield6389
    @amandacranfield6389 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm the same way God and faith has brought me this far. I'm not giving up on my hopes and dreams and goals anymore.

  • @minokahill4711
    @minokahill4711 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    This message came on time. I been struggling for last few months and I am investing in the wrong things I am exhausted to the point I lost myself along the way. I am ready to change I cannot go on this route any longer like this it's gotta change. I been too loyal and good to people and never get a return. I'm out it's all about me going forward. No longer available to everyone. what its going to be is.... being loyal to myself!! Time to be selfish to save myself. ❤ str8 up!

    • @Ann-oq1rj
      @Ann-oq1rj ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm right there with you. 😊💪👍

    • @twinklestar4814
      @twinklestar4814 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Absolutely my friend. Me also. Your not alone.

    • @Music4Lyfe896
      @Music4Lyfe896 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are not alone! Same here! 🙏🏽🙌🏽❤

  • @shirleygonzales5284
    @shirleygonzales5284 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Loyal to yourself is the best. God first and the rest will follow.

  • @debrapellman1818
    @debrapellman1818 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    7:58pm yes your right Trent. It’s time to be selfish to save me. God bless you Trent

  • @courtneysoder6276
    @courtneysoder6276 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am no longer staying committed to people that make me feel alone

  • @lourdescantu2135
    @lourdescantu2135 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Praise God I have completely shifted who I am and have found true happiness! 🙌🏼🙏🏼🙌🏼 I learned how to be loyal to myself and to love myself. Thank you 🙏🏼 Trent!

  • @juliealvarez3302
    @juliealvarez3302 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Your messages are always so powerful and your advice is spot-on, but it's my daughter who has been so hurtful to me. I have given her to GOD, but it is still very hard!😘 LOVE YOUR VIDEOS

    • @rosemaryvalentin4940
      @rosemaryvalentin4940 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I feel you , there is an epidemic of narcissist young adults and your not alone !

    • @msblessedIAM
      @msblessedIAM ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same here and she had my 1st grand on 2.5. 23 and is holding that against me. I'm praying asking God to intervene and I know he will for me and for you. Keep praying for our kids. Regardless of age.. they will still be our kids
      Keep my grand baby safe Lord God. I lost my first born 2.14.23 and before you bless me with my 1st grand

    • @juliealvarez3302
      @juliealvarez3302 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@msblessedIAM I will definitely be praying for your situation. The hard part is I raised my daughter to love the Lord and now she hates me for it for pushing God down her throat so to speak. SATIN HAS REALLY HIT ME BELOW THE BELT. How could she have gone so stray.?¿?🙏

  • @amandacranfield6389
    @amandacranfield6389 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God and my little girl always come first in my life. Yes I have always put everyone before me. I want to continue to help other people out, but negative people I'm disconnecting from permanently

  • @Queenwithinmysoul
    @Queenwithinmysoul ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I Just came out of prayer and this is the first message I hear

  • @beautyforashes8964
    @beautyforashes8964 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I watched my mum pass with lung Cancer next year my Sister was found dead then 3 days later our Nan died with broken heart 😢my son left home betrayed me had me thinking in my darkness days I was losen my mind the whole time I was right I saw the signs & behaviour from his girlfriend who had serious problems…. I took him back forgave him paid for a holiday also gave him £5,000 to set him up in business he landed on his feet to leave me hurt all over again😢😢I don’t want to change my heart 💜 my loyalty but am putting me first I haven’t saw him in 7 months I think that’s why am doing so well it’s so sad but true I never thought the person I would have take a bullet for me would be the one pulling the trigger Trent God bless you keep pushing threw wee need you you make a difference thanks a lot God bless you 🙏💜💜☘️🇮🇪☘️

  • @twinklestar4814
    @twinklestar4814 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Loyal to being a codependent family. And excepting to hang out with them . I put a stop to it. I separate myself from them . My adult kids.. and Granddaughter. I have to get to being peaceful. Its like peeling a onion.

    • @cynt6666
      @cynt6666 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m Going to the same thing

  • @KE-uk7pp
    @KE-uk7pp ปีที่แล้ว +16

    “It’s okay to have a mood, just don’t let that mood become who you are”… love this Trent!! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🫶🏻

  • @ivonadcfl5960
    @ivonadcfl5960 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you my life has change I have my peace!!!GOD BLESSED YOU TRENT❤️

  • @ggop3019
    @ggop3019 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    lately I've been putting everyone's needs and i feel so exhausted.

  • @michelleberry6602
    @michelleberry6602 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I needed this message today! Yesterday was my first Mother’s Day since my son’s murder. It was a hard day to get through but I’m inspired and determined to stop being loyal to my depression and grief! Thank you for sharing Trent 🥰💚

  • @mocajrx1047
    @mocajrx1047 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My peace is my power
    Loyal to my good, not my neighbors
    Loyal to God
    Loyal to my standards
    Loyal to my physical health
    Loyal to my mental health
    Refuse to quit living my life unhappy

  • @RighteousDay
    @RighteousDay ปีที่แล้ว +2

    YOU deserve your loyalty ❤

  • @marianarust8
    @marianarust8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loyal to God ,my peace ,happiness and myself

  • @reneefrazier1146
    @reneefrazier1146 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've learned to cut the toxic out of my life over the past 5 years. I'm still a work in progress but so much happier.

  • @chriswalls5831
    @chriswalls5831 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Only be loyal to those who are loyal to you

  • @user-ld7jy5gb1e
    @user-ld7jy5gb1e 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is all TRUTH!!! 🙌🙏💯
    Loyal to protecting my PEACE ☮️, unavailable to allowing toxicity back into my life, and I’m NOT my past!! Thank YOU Trent 😊♥️🩷💜🔥🔥🙌🙏💯🌟☮️
    ALWAYS LOYAL TO GOD 🙏🙌🙌💯♥️♥️♥️

  • @montesacurrie
    @montesacurrie ปีที่แล้ว

    Loyalty to myself.... I'm a priority and I need to prove that to no one but myself . I need to be happy for me. ❤❤

  • @joriesmith9334
    @joriesmith9334 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks Trent needed this message many blessings to you🕊

  • @donnasye6221
    @donnasye6221 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dad,sister,nephew

  • @kimbowlin3505
    @kimbowlin3505 ปีที่แล้ว

    Exactly what I needed to hear. I've been loyal to the wrong narcissistic person and it's made me miserable. I've stepped away to change my happiness. I'll going to be loyal to God. My family and my peace.

  • @msblessedIAM
    @msblessedIAM ปีที่แล้ว

    I am my priority.
    I told someone that having a good heart is sometimes a disadvantage and it hurts sometimes

  • @abdulraheem2175
    @abdulraheem2175 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Alhamduialah thanks to you I'm loyal to my peace.

  • @GodGrantMePeace-us9ze
    @GodGrantMePeace-us9ze 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It's definitely people for me and my peace of mind which I'm in a good place now Thank you Brother Shelton

  • @laurenkuckelman701
    @laurenkuckelman701 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m a new subscriber and I find your authenticity and brutal honesty to be so refreshing and helpful. You are so awesome!!!!

  • @sherriewalker2417
    @sherriewalker2417 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for your wisdom, you are helping me so much along with our Lord and Savior 💞🙏🏼💞

  • @EverydayWoman81
    @EverydayWoman81 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loyal to the wrong people & things causes unhappiness

  • @Stehallam1
    @Stehallam1 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Be loyal to me and that love..........Nice one Trent..... Respect!

  • @msblessedIAM
    @msblessedIAM ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This message made me tear. Man I needed this. 😢😢😢. Yessss You hit every nail on the head in my life. Thank you. I've made this decision a couple weeks ago because I'm tired of being unhappy, tired of crying , tired of being depressed, tired of being stressed. It's all about me and what I need and want.. #Selfcare starts with me.
    I'm done with being loyal to toxic people and situations.

  • @sabrinayoung6152
    @sabrinayoung6152 ปีที่แล้ว

    Listen here,you preached that to me,this is exactly what I need.

  • @lisabean1436
    @lisabean1436 ปีที่แล้ว

    No more being NULL AND VOID💯💪👑

  • @zubaitashahida8059
    @zubaitashahida8059 ปีที่แล้ว

    I definitely need to stop being loyal to the situation I’m in right now it’s draining me for sure

  • @jeanettedavila6463
    @jeanettedavila6463 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen done being loyal to toxic ppl giving my everything to the ones that won't even be loyal to me I'm done 💯

  • @audacein5063
    @audacein5063 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This the loop I am in, people pleasing. I am trying to be loyal to me, my needs 💪🏾

  • @lindamcadarra402
    @lindamcadarra402 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Loyal to progression , I needed that! Thanks ❤ Linda, Pa.

  • @amandacranfield6389
    @amandacranfield6389 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm going to move forward. Negative people who hurt me and have done me wrong I'm disconnected from them.

  • @denisevick7642
    @denisevick7642 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Jesus

  • @mae1975
    @mae1975 ปีที่แล้ว

    Change is so hard when the situation was dealt to me without me knowing anything about it. I'm going to try this list challenge.

  • @michellequintero6001
    @michellequintero6001 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This message hit hard I always put everything and everyone in front of me it’s just so hard thank u for this message

  • @montesacurrie
    @montesacurrie ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm switching up im in the process.. This hit home brought me tears 😢.

  • @inezbrown3998
    @inezbrown3998 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You be speaking the truth my friend 💯💯💯💯

  • @jennaletizia5430
    @jennaletizia5430 ปีที่แล้ว

    Queen people pleaser here. Changing that today

  • @amandacranfield6389
    @amandacranfield6389 ปีที่แล้ว

    You have helped me and inspired me to be a better me and better myself and better life for me and my little girl. She is everything to me. I appreciate you Trent,my friend.

  • @amandacranfield6389
    @amandacranfield6389 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for being there for all of us. We love you my friend and we appreciate you. God bless you and God Bless your family too. always my friend.

  • @Ann-oq1rj
    @Ann-oq1rj ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is such a great message. It's a reminder when our minds want to forget this. This message is in us. Breathe, remember what this man said and act on this message. 😊

  • @melissawalters9999
    @melissawalters9999 ปีที่แล้ว

    I will be loyal to God, peace, myself. I will not be loyal to my depression, anxiety, and toxic situations.

  • @laviniakerr8523
    @laviniakerr8523 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you, I needed to hear this from you. Big hug. 🥳

  • @bornblessedjess73
    @bornblessedjess73 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You’re speaking nothing but the TRUTH❣️

  • @HybridPerson1000
    @HybridPerson1000 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing and facts, loyalty is personal currency and keeping one accountable, much love Trent💜

  • @ericafinch7728
    @ericafinch7728 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Amen! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 so needed to hear this!

  • @dejaleesarobinson9152
    @dejaleesarobinson9152 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is how I have been feeling

  • @amandacranfield6389
    @amandacranfield6389 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for always being there my friend

  • @loritaylor9201
    @loritaylor9201 ปีที่แล้ว

    U have changed my whole prospects on life listening to ur podcasts, watching ur video's. I have put all my loyalty into people whom have not been loyal to me,I was making other's happy while I was miserable. So I made a change for the good, I've now decided to make myself happy, I'm putting myself first, so I can b happier then I have ever been. Thank u so much ! I'm going to b loyal to
    God,myself, my peace and do for me instead of other's.

  • @lisabean1436
    @lisabean1436 ปีที่แล้ว

    Straight up 💯 im no longer going to be loyal to me again can't live my life through other people eyes cause I can't see it me

  • @kimberlyvaldemira9510
    @kimberlyvaldemira9510 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God's timing!! This makes me uncomfortable and I'm only 6 minutes in. That tells me that this is EXACTLY what I need to watch. I'll have to do another snippet tomorrow because my brain hurts now. I had a pretty bad fall on the 9th day as a first time self-contained kindergarten teacher after 22 years in my current district. Workers' Compensation has taught me lessons that even have nothing to do with my injuries but more about people, work ethics, empathy, and patience.
    Trent, I truly appreciate you and can't express my gratitude coherently. 💜

  • @reneequick3872
    @reneequick3872 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am a new version of myself letting go of what no longer is needed or wanted is getting easier I choose my peace for myself regardless who stays or goes I am no longer being loyal to people who think they know what’s best for me I am no longer going to to be there for others when others are not there for me I am no longer letting others take me for granted I am loyal to my peace my mental health and loyal for my life what’s best for me

  • @msblessedIAM
    @msblessedIAM ปีที่แล้ว

    Change your life by making changes to your life

  • @msblessedIAM
    @msblessedIAM ปีที่แล้ว

    I know what you mean. I lost my 1st born 2.14.23 and I have to keep busy to keep from crying. Giving God more time, making God my Priority .

    • @cierra3982
      @cierra3982 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's okay to cry. I hope you find some type of peace but just remember there is a such thing as crying your eyes out I did it when I loss the love of my life 2-18-20

  • @lindamcadarra402
    @lindamcadarra402 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks Trent for not giving up on us. Sincerely ur sis in Christ Jesus xo Linda Pa.

  • @inezbrown3998
    @inezbrown3998 ปีที่แล้ว

    I always going to be loyal to my GOD and myself family and you my friend ❤

  • @LizBJ0urney
    @LizBJ0urney ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I needed this message right now. Thank you because my loyalty lies in all the wrong places

  • @dr.charlenecrump9651
    @dr.charlenecrump9651 ปีที่แล้ว

    Trent everything you are saying is so true!! Uphill maybe rough but once I got the wrong loyalty behind me; I am happy with myself! Thank you Trent Shelton🥰🥰😎!

  • @Stitchlipdooda
    @Stitchlipdooda ปีที่แล้ว

    Loyalty my kryptonite

  • @alia9314
    @alia9314 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this live!!!!! So powerful and definitely life changing

  • @DSSweet33
    @DSSweet33 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great advice! You are so right! I made some changes and will do more! You truly are an inspiration sir!

  • @gograybechic
    @gograybechic ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love this message sooo life changing!!❤

  • @sabrinayoung6152
    @sabrinayoung6152 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this text ! I pray God keeps using you. You are truly heaven sent.

  • @shidinagolson4726
    @shidinagolson4726 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was loyal to people pleasing, but now I'm going to please God

  • @omi1766
    @omi1766 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I was raised to be loyal to my family no matter what. How do I reprogram myself at 52?

    • @cynthiabiel7714
      @cynthiabiel7714 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too............if they are toxic...be loyal from a distance....if they need food or help and you CAN ...help but do not let them drown you..............They should understand that being toxic , hurtful.....is not acceptable.

  • @blueflykennels1175
    @blueflykennels1175 ปีที่แล้ว

    I needed to hear this this morning. I know god is talking to me

  • @PryorityMaleLLC
    @PryorityMaleLLC ปีที่แล้ว

    Change nothing and nothing changes...

  • @amandacranfield6389
    @amandacranfield6389 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am definitely gonna stop being loyal to people who hurt me the thAt I thought loved me and cared about me. I'm going to move forward some how some I'm going to move forward with God's help

  • @kimolson5729
    @kimolson5729 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Trent. I sooooo do this. I am not a priority in my life. I am going to start putting me first. I'm switching up!! Thank you ❤❤❤

  • @rhondacook5115
    @rhondacook5115 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video, I am so glad I stop being loyal to people pleasing, I’ve been PEACE since, and definitely stop caring about people who does not value me💯🎯✔️

  • @josefinemilo
    @josefinemilo ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Trent ❤🙏

  • @karendoering9391
    @karendoering9391 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I check Facebook in the morning to see if you are on there.😊

  • @patriciamitchell5362
    @patriciamitchell5362 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for your powerful comments. That’s me right through

  • @betsycollins8531
    @betsycollins8531 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hear that waking up sad tried of being people pleaser oh wow that's so me!! Want to be closer n more loyal to God be me find what makes me happy n much much more!!

  • @IamBlessed-xb9cj
    @IamBlessed-xb9cj ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Trent. God bless you. ❤

  • @betsycollins8531
    @betsycollins8531 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I REALLY REALLY NEEDED THIS MESSAGE!!!!

  • @Terrilyn_Austen
    @Terrilyn_Austen ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen!

  • @diamonds4dani
    @diamonds4dani ปีที่แล้ว

    I am doing it and it feels so peaceful and purposefully ❤

  • @deborahpellerito6117
    @deborahpellerito6117 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thankyou Trent❤

  • @user-xz4fr8vh1e
    @user-xz4fr8vh1e ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Trent

  • @debbierude1102
    @debbierude1102 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is one of the most incredibly real videos I've ever listened to Trent. It's on the top of my list of my favorite videos that you have shared with us! I can't thank you enough. I am going to write my list of what I'm not willing to be loyal to & a list that I am being loyal to. I'm not going to allow my peace to be stolen anymore!

  • @justiceinournation2701
    @justiceinournation2701 ปีที่แล้ว

    Put God First and You Won't Ever Question .......

  • @lexxilouuuu
    @lexxilouuuu ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks Trent ❤

  • @priscilla5309
    @priscilla5309 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your so right

  • @lexxilouuuu
    @lexxilouuuu ปีที่แล้ว

    Reciprocation is key

  • @betsycollins8531
    @betsycollins8531 ปีที่แล้ว

    Stop worrying sometimes is always upset with me if I'm not doing what they want n be mad or not talk to me

  • @bosslady4146
    @bosslady4146 ปีที่แล้ว

    My theme for the month; Stop Living For Approval

  • @donnahedrick2205
    @donnahedrick2205 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks Trent I so needed this

  • @MariaAlice-dw8xl
    @MariaAlice-dw8xl ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes when you have a good heart people take advantage the sad part is the first one s to do that is ur own kids and it hurts