Trent Shelton | Escape Toxic Ties: Build Your Best Life NOW!

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  • Welcome to the journey of protecting your inner peace and standing FOR yourself! In this motivational video, Trent Shelton shares hard truths about removing poisonous, painful, pointless, and prison people from your life so you can build your best life NOW.
    Through inspirational stories and real talk, Trent explains why you must make the empowering choice to walk away from relationships that diminish your self-worth. "Protecting your energy is one of the first principles," he says. Letting go of what no longer serves you makes space for purposeful people who uplift and empower you.
    It's time to set nonnegotiable principles about who can access your peace of mind. Ask yourself: "How are these connections helping me protect my peace?" Application creates transformation, so be willing to courageously subtract the unhealthy ties holding you hostage from your own potential.
    The first step is trusting yourself enough to know you deserve better than remaining trapped by others' limitations.
    Comment below about your experiences freeing yourself from dynamics that resist your growth.
    CHAPTERS:
    0:00 - Toxic Relationships
    2:15 - Emotional Pain
    6:15 - The Thing Encounter
    10:18 - Toxic Prison Metaphor
    15:34 - Overcoming Pointlessness
    19:26 - Guarding Inner Peace
    21:08 - Managing Energy Levels
    24:00 - Defining Your Identity
    27:02 - Unlocking Potential
    28:30 - Discovering Life Purpose
    30:54 - Embracing Personal Purpose

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  • @tamaranicole5789
    @tamaranicole5789 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +85

    One morning she woke up different. Done with trying to figure out who was with her, against her, or walking down the middle because they didn’t have the guts to pick a side. She was done with anything that didn’t bring her peace. She realized that opinions were a dime a dozen, validation was for parking, and loyalty wasn’t a word but a lifestyle. It was this day that her life changed. And not because of a man or a job but because she realized that life is way too short to leave the key to your happiness in someone else’s pocket.

    • @julieeaton7312
      @julieeaton7312 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Toxic ppl have gtg !

    • @danniella1270
      @danniella1270 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Love this

    • @yadirarivera2338
      @yadirarivera2338 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    • @rhondaclampett3537
      @rhondaclampett3537 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ❤❤❤Amen❤❤❤

    • @tammyknipe6262
      @tammyknipe6262 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I am in that situation right now !!! 1000000 percent ! Sooooooo many toxic people at my job I’m pretty sure that everyone except 1 maybe 2 are poisonous. 2024 here I come !! 💪💪

  • @lakendraadams1077
    @lakendraadams1077 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This is confirmation for me today 12/19/23. I really had to let my friends family go even my old church family goodbye it’s been 2 years since I choose to let them go! Subtracting is my portion for 2024! I’m here for it Amen 🙏🏼

  • @diannking3006
    @diannking3006 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Amen remove yourself from unhealthy situations ❤❤I did.....

  • @darlenegolden1057
    @darlenegolden1057 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    God Bless you for helping folks like me ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @robyngolden6314
    @robyngolden6314 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I never Thank you Trent for being the first person on TH-cam,who has lifted me up and motivated me to overcome a lot of my mental health issues I had years ago. You were the very first TH-camr who did a lot of motivational speaking that I came across on TH-cam.
    So I wanted to Thank you for all the help and positive videos you shared . They really helped during my worst moments in life. I hope God continues to you use and bless your entire family!!!!

  • @ksmith8660
    @ksmith8660 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you Trent for being my pusher! 🙌🏻

  • @KRY999
    @KRY999 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Glow with peace. power. prosperity. abundance. It’s coming.

  • @Portia-oi2mk
    @Portia-oi2mk 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m ready to release toxic people and pointless people in order to receive my peace of mind. I appreciate you and your support. Thank you for all you do. God bless

  • @carolrodriguez5760
    @carolrodriguez5760 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Spot on! Some are so jealous instead of being your biggest supporter... unreal

  • @SRHen
    @SRHen 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Building our best lives.. Spend time with positive folks...Don't be impressed by their money or job title...Be impressed by how they treat others....

  • @Naijahtanae
    @Naijahtanae 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I asked god to give me a sign this morning and this message was right on time. This message answered my prayers. Thank you Trent, god spoke to me through you.

    • @susanhenderson9739
      @susanhenderson9739 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes… Speak to my heart Holy Spirit!!

  • @jeffreydvinegreen3998
    @jeffreydvinegreen3998 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for being the foot that kicked the door open

  • @michelegermano9489
    @michelegermano9489 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You are a purposeful person! Ty my mentor in many ways.

  • @theresamurriel3849
    @theresamurriel3849 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The people I love the most give me the most negativity. I have to walk alone if I want peace.

  • @jaydenyorboy10
    @jaydenyorboy10 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Wow... Powerful! DEEP! AND ABSOLUTELY FRICKIN TRUE! I am ready to move on to the best version of my self and my life. I've sat around too long waiting to fix ties and mend relationships. I guess it was pointless time and waste of time and of my life. Not allowing pointless people who won't show up for me, do not do nothing for me, they'll never support. Life is too short to waste anymore time on pointless people. THIS HIT HARD MAN! Caring, loving, bekng there, choosing to change my needs and my plans for people wasting my time and may me beleive one day it will lead me to my purpose. YES I UNDERSTAND NOW TRENT. I'm in a new chapter of my life and I want PURPOSEFUL PEOPLE IN MY LIFE. GOODBYE PONTLESS, PAINFUL, and POISON TODAY FOR A PURPOSEFUL LIFE, ENVIROMENT, AND PEOPLE. ❤❤❤❤

    • @jaydenyorboy10
      @jaydenyorboy10 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I am ready and choosing to GLOW OF PEACE AND TAKE BACK MY POWER! I love me and I have to make better choices for me, myself, and I. Wasted 30 plus years living trying to earn everyone else's love except my own. I am showing up for myself and my kids. Show them they should never settle or deserve an empty and unpurposeful existence💯🙌🙌🙌🙌

  • @lakendraadams1077
    @lakendraadams1077 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    We love you brother from San Diego California

  • @mlbullbooks
    @mlbullbooks 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Brutal, but I so resonate with this, which is why I’m careful of my social connections. When we’re around people, we’re also among spirits because people carry them, whether truth or error. By God’s help, prayer, education, and my intuition, I worked hard to get where I am today and I’m not going backwards. The truth is the truth. 💯

  • @michaellebailey6780
    @michaellebailey6780 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I AM SUPPORTING YOU 💯. I BELIEVE IN YOUR VISION!

  • @user-cr7gr4zk3p
    @user-cr7gr4zk3p 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Ty ty ty ❤ u Trent your next level is not about adding but subtracting what doesn't serve us. ty 😊

  • @DMAC-Realesteverbred65
    @DMAC-Realesteverbred65 หลายเดือนก่อน

    People who want happiness to get in the front of your life WORK WITH YOU

  • @elizabethpearce5255
    @elizabethpearce5255 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    The power of knowledge is sooo beautiful ... Beautifully said ...moving forward is growing ...God bless you

  • @aundrajohnson540
    @aundrajohnson540 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are "The Chosen One"! I started 2024 months ago. Thank you for confirmation.

  • @ladevafrancis4534
    @ladevafrancis4534 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have no one! But I'm that person for everyone else

  • @christyhernandez4645
    @christyhernandez4645 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Yep, GOOD ,POSTIVE, INCURAGING, PEOPLE! And Hold you accountable!
    You Speak Truth!TRUTH!!

  • @TarshaGrant-mv3ih
    @TarshaGrant-mv3ih 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    You are absolutely very purposeful in my life and Iam truly grateful for you brother Trent thank you

  • @anzbeauty2811
    @anzbeauty2811 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you for this. 😢I’m done with these people. 🙏🏻 It’s time to remove them out of my life.

  • @michelegermano9489
    @michelegermano9489 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Wooo... Preach it Trent, you are Awesome! Raw Truth n so much Realness.!
    Break free form poison toxic ppl. Pointless ppl that serve no purpose in your life. Ppl who hold you as a prisoner.
    Protect yo Peace , let's get it Trent. Thankyou for your loving real heart.💝✌🏼🥰🌺☮️💪💯

    • @SRHen
      @SRHen 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Beautifully said....

  • @TarshaGrant-mv3ih
    @TarshaGrant-mv3ih 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank You always right on time you’re so very awesome brother

  • @jeanettamcmillan8347
    @jeanettamcmillan8347 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    KEEP TOXIC PEOPLE OUT YOUR LIFE, POISONING YOUR GREATNESS!! 👍💯

  • @sheilathomas3618
    @sheilathomas3618 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hit the like button, he's giving us food for our soul.

  • @theofficialmiraclethomasch4852
    @theofficialmiraclethomasch4852 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Trent, this message was powerful; and it hit many parts of my life. It’s time to regroup so that I can take my music to the next level; it’s my calling. I will no longer let others write my story, taking my power back!
    I’m sending love to you and everyone. Bless you!🙏🏽🤗

  • @michellelorenzo5353
    @michellelorenzo5353 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Me myself and I....
    I am here
    I choose me
    Stop people please
    Stop looking for external happiness
    It all starts with you stay loyal and constant of excpting less❤

    • @kimgordon3695
      @kimgordon3695 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Listen to your intuition! 💞

  • @maryraymond1029
    @maryraymond1029 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes, Glory To Thee God Almighty For Setting Me Free...Hallelujah! Amen ✝️ 🙏 ✝️ 🙏 ✝️ 🙏 ✝️ 🙏 ✝️ 🙏 ✝️ 🙏 ✝️ 🙏 ✝️ 🙏 ✝️ 🙏 ✝️ 🙏 ✝️ ❤

  • @michellelorenzo5353
    @michellelorenzo5353 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Yessir God does got me..Have faith in God trust the process..Every lesson is a blessing

  • @KRY999
    @KRY999 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    YES MY ACTIONS. MY COMMITMENT. 🔥

  • @NikkitaBolton
    @NikkitaBolton 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you, Trent, for speaking truth from your heart always!!!!😊😊😊

  • @loveyfrancis2034
    @loveyfrancis2034 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This message was EXACTLY what I needed. Thank you Trent Shelton.

  • @user-qb2xm9if6s
    @user-qb2xm9if6s 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Amen to that I am just letting everyone know that if you're not understand Trent it's true about all this I just got rid of all my toxic relationship with people they have nothing for me

  • @Islandgirl198
    @Islandgirl198 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Feel you on this 💯 people who come into your life wanna do life with you then just cause me more stress and pain I hate that feeling I’m glad I’ve moved away from all of that

  • @user-kf2jo9ti1l
    @user-kf2jo9ti1l 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are the only one in my life right now that motivates and supports me.

  • @inezbrown3998
    @inezbrown3998 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I appreciate you my friend ❤ you are so amazing person

  • @michellelorenzo5353
    @michellelorenzo5353 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    It all starts with you ❤

  • @michelegermano9489
    @michelegermano9489 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yes I want to live a purposeful life with power n love n a sound mind .

  • @dianacentore9510
    @dianacentore9510 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amen stay away from toxic people 🙏

  • @rhashidaspearmon9741
    @rhashidaspearmon9741 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This message was for me the poison people is my co workers. I’m proving them wrong

  • @dawnmarshall1290
    @dawnmarshall1290 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I took extra days off work, and today checked on a resume. I realize I need to move on from this toxic company. I need to leave certain friends behind as well. But I'm putting on my shades cuz the future's so bright!

  • @DominionAnako-bb7ry
    @DominionAnako-bb7ry 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    💯 percent keep it up

  • @KRY999
    @KRY999 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    no room for pointless energy, interactions, people, NO MORE. i cannot wait for this book Trent. Thank you. 23:23

  • @inezbrown3998
    @inezbrown3998 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You speaking the truth my friend as always ❤🔥

  • @quantinaburkhalter1107
    @quantinaburkhalter1107 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This message is POWERFUL

  • @lizkull1985
    @lizkull1985 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks Trent!❤

  • @heatherpavlinac
    @heatherpavlinac 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I'm so thankful you did I'm here because of you all your messages just being here has made me a better person no more empty ❤

  • @carolrodriguez5760
    @carolrodriguez5760 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for showing up for us and reminding us we do have purpose ❤

  • @nancyP7448
    @nancyP7448 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sometimes I just feel you're talking to me. Thank you.

  • @theresascolari6766
    @theresascolari6766 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is so true. Big stuff. Thank you helping me see and keep seeing. 🤦‍♀️ thank you for aharing. Xoxo 🧡✌🏽

  • @KRY999
    @KRY999 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    YES PURPOSE IS EVERYTHING. Ugh this is so powerful

  • @danniella1270
    @danniella1270 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I preordered your book Trent, cant wait to read it. Blessings from Spain! 💜

  • @laveriawhitby2418
    @laveriawhitby2418 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The real truth has been said ❤💯

  • @sherylmarple1165
    @sherylmarple1165 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Real truth. You are inspiring

  • @annacrouch684
    @annacrouch684 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yes that's my life...
    Amen

  • @drivescrazy2129
    @drivescrazy2129 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thank you for this hard truth. As I reflect I see how I was in the “box” others needed me in! Please keep creating these post its like you speak what I prayed the night before🙏 thank you for your obedience to God to say what you say. God bless you and your family🙏

  • @deanauber2275
    @deanauber2275 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have been working on my self this year.i doing this taking toxic people out my life. Thanks for sending this one my way.in a few months I'll have my peer support counselor certification and then off to stating and bam like that a Job for me.i was tired of struggling with addiction homelessness and no income. Yes I lost everything but I got to start over fresh. Ever since I got clean at the end on 2019 I came across your videos about rehab time into protect your peace you have grown just like I have thank you for being you and helping the ones you touch with your words of positivity and real talk. Thank you for helping me to see reality.

  • @user-px4dx7yi3x
    @user-px4dx7yi3x 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You're so talented, I'm surprised you don't have more subscribers.

  • @dj_magister7
    @dj_magister7 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You have such a unique genius about you. Your ability to relate to people is uncanny. So frequently when I see your posts on IG I feel like you are speaking directly to me. (And I know that’s your intention-for everyone, not just me.) But still. That said, this message hit me hard. Probably not for the reasons you’d expect. But I just want to say thank you, because even though you don’t know me, you are literally the only person in my life pushing that positivity and encouragement on me. (Hoping to see you in Houston on the 5th.) ✌🏽

  • @user-pv5wh6ue1l
    @user-pv5wh6ue1l 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What’s worse l married that person all l do is 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 things get better.

  • @user-cl6uj5bn2f
    @user-cl6uj5bn2f 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This word couldn't come at a better time for me ⏰️💯🙌

  • @christinegaston1729
    @christinegaston1729 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you. I needed this ❤

  • @TarshaGrant-mv3ih
    @TarshaGrant-mv3ih 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You rock my soul it’s on so lets get it

  • @yvonneanderson2634
    @yvonneanderson2634 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank God for your ministry !

  • @deborahortiz4436
    @deborahortiz4436 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is truth amen to that God bless you and your family

  • @jenisawaight9663
    @jenisawaight9663 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I needed this so much!! Unfortunately the toxic person is my mom, and it's breaking my heart.

  • @kaybelletv3659
    @kaybelletv3659 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You went in on this one 🙌🏾💪🏽

  • @user-rk2su2lx3p
    @user-rk2su2lx3p 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This video has helped me a lot. I have either cut out of my life or I keep a distance from people that were causing me depression, stress, and insecurities. I feel SO much better, like a new person and free.

  • @PatriciaKayMoore-cf3fm
    @PatriciaKayMoore-cf3fm 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Shared to my Facebook feed!!!! 💯💜💜💜💜💯

  • @carolrodriguez5760
    @carolrodriguez5760 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This was 🔥 bro!! Say it again!

  • @christyhernandez4645
    @christyhernandez4645 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    EXACTLY!

  • @TarshaGrant-mv3ih
    @TarshaGrant-mv3ih 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Amen Amen Amen

  • @TamaraCarpenter-xc5jc
    @TamaraCarpenter-xc5jc 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amen ...Ur words hit my heart ...straight from God ...I really appreciate your hard work You are a true blessing to the broken hearted ..Thank you very much

  • @tashacook2328
    @tashacook2328 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amen. Married 12 years and 4 kids. Once I left he did realize ❤

  • @mglenn2989
    @mglenn2989 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Amen, Yes!!🎯🎯

  • @jaydenyorboy10
    @jaydenyorboy10 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Painful people out and empowering people in....and if you don't know anyone empowering then I better start get uncomfirtable situatiins and unfamillar places❤

  • @user-vl5hb7cm4o
    @user-vl5hb7cm4o 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loving myself first ❤

  • @karendoering9391
    @karendoering9391 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I understand this, just so you know. I think I'm gonna be ok. Thank you Trent.😊

  • @Datkidshady3252010
    @Datkidshady3252010 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    how do you just give your trust without people actually earning it. im struggling now with trauma bond with a narcissist. this is one of the most hardest things I ever been through in my life and I been through alot. I cant seem to shake this off completely. but you trent and your words give me some kind of strength to just get through my day. with everything that's actually going on inside of my body mind and soul I still manage to go to work and to fight for my life. but you can only put on an act so much. I can't wait to get your book. I already pre ordered it. but thanks again for everything that you do for us ❤💯🙏

  • @muthaafrika6137
    @muthaafrika6137 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Before I ever knew this MAN exist

  • @shirleysweeney283
    @shirleysweeney283 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You give me some positive thoughts

  • @sherylmarple1165
    @sherylmarple1165 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks!

  • @ChristinaChrist-3999
    @ChristinaChrist-3999 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I needed this in this moment❤

  • @muthaafrika6137
    @muthaafrika6137 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I simply just can't TAKE it no more

  • @tl2061
    @tl2061 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    How I needed this

  • @TheHuriwaiWhanau
    @TheHuriwaiWhanau 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    2 days out from Christmas and 2 day I just messaged 2 friends I consistantly kicked it with that I'm out and breaking all ties. I been addicted to crystal Meth for 9 years and I dont want to make it 10. Bout to enter the battle of my life. I understand that it's going to be hard but trust everything going to be ok in the end. Thank you brother all the way from Australia

  • @heatherwatson7090
    @heatherwatson7090 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you I needed this!

  • @barbarasmith4096
    @barbarasmith4096 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Jesus done paid your ransom! You are set free ❤❤❤😊

  • @MsJjna
    @MsJjna 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So true and needed to hear this so badly. I’ve been people’s push but never have support. No more.!!! Im trimming the waste, and toxic, and sad, and those who need me to be their fixers.
    Just trimmed a user, and a very close boyfriend 😢. 2 people in 4 months. Lets go life!!!

  • @jusloving74
    @jusloving74 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    💯real talk

  • @bellahatten9799
    @bellahatten9799 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks Trent

  • @mimositachula1943
    @mimositachula1943 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amen. I'm away from them. My circle is very small, focusing on positive and peace. 🙏✝️❤️God bless. I've been there done that no more like prace

  • @KRY999
    @KRY999 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    yes yes yes the value is limitless. i’m truly drowning myself in your content it’s elevating me daily.

  • @skwright556
    @skwright556 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Man you have been a blessing in my life, this really hits home for me today and was something I needed to hear… but mainly to send to someone else I have been talking to recently!! I really hope I get to meet you someday and shake your hand! You need to come over to the East Coast and come on by good ole WV, I’ll be there!! 💯

  • @KRY999
    @KRY999 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    amen amen yes