Jennette McCurdy on Miranda Cosgrove Helping Her Heal From Trauma
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- Jennette McCurdy opens up on 'Red Table Talk' about her 'iCarly' co-star, Miranda Cosgrove, helping her heal through trauma. On Wednesday's episode of the Facebook Watch series, the 30-year-old actress talks to Jada Pinkett Smith, Willow Smith and Adrienne 'Gammy' Banfield-Norris about how Miranda helped her re-evaluate her issues with women amid a very complicated relationship with her late mother.
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To those who say Jennette shouldn’t disrespect her mom like that:
She has EVERY right to hate her mom. A mom shouldn’t EVER do anything like that to their own CHILD.
Facts! Anybody who says that is not a true Nickelodeon fan nor a true Jennette McCurdy fan for that matter. A mother’s job is to support and be there for her children, regardless of what the child wants to do with his or her life. It’s ridiculous how Jennette’s mother couldn’t take “No” for an answer when Jennette made it abundantly clear that she did not want to become famous.
Her mom earned nothing BUT disrespect.
People need to realize you don’t need to love the people who put you on this planet. My mom has like a thousand illnesses due to stress and most of it was from unfair, how manipulative, and how cruel my grandmother was. She kicked my mom out while on Dialysis because she got called out for not going to the doctor after big signs of having COVID and already knew my mom’s immune system was incredibly weak. After 42 years, my grandmother is now considered dead to my mom and I’m so happy. She said no matter what happens to my grandmother, don’t involve her(my mom) in any way even if she’s on her death bed.
I’m glad Jennette is doing something like this-shedding light on her terrible childhood and being brutally honest about it. The people who say that she shouldn’t disrespect her mother are the people who would give in when a parent says “After all I’ve done for you…” when making a life decision their parents don’t like.
She’s spreading hate thoooo
@@lovelyu4325 Who, Jennette? Did you read/listen to even a single excerpt of the book? Her mother did everything from emotional manipulation to causing an eating disorder and literally sexually assaulting her MULTIPLE TIMES.
I am so proud Jennette was able to find herself and is now finally able to live life how she wants. She is inspiring especially for those of us with abusive mothers.
Your little girl is all grown up, congratulations
We need more friends like miranda
Jesus Christ. Miranda and Jennette are more than just friends. They are family. 😭😭💗💗
Why are you mentioning the Lord Jesus Christ in vain?
@@GreekOrthodox7 For 2 reasons: 1, it's such an important thing to realize about Jennette, and 2, I'm not inside a goddam ⛪!
@@K7CG2004 Not as important as taking the Name of God in vain. And the rules don’t apply only inside church, and you just blasphemed the church by saying ***dam right before it, also taking God’s Name in vain once again. Shameful
@@GreekOrthodox7 Dude it's a normal thing. Everyone says his name in vain, it's not such a big deal
Also, u do know that they LIE in Church, right?
“Men will never know you then hurt you but women will know you deeply then hurt you” pretty much describes what a mother can potentially do to their child’s emotional well being
Literally telling her the whole world is out to hurt her. That woman was fucked UP.
It describes the psychology of women in general. I love women to death but in hindsight a man may my punch you in the face but a woman knows how to punch you through the soul.
I always wondered what it must've been like for Jennette to have such a turbulent relationship with her real mom and then play a kid who also had a volatile relationship with their mom. Knowing Dan Schneider he most likely exploited Jennette's real life situations to get the performances he got from her as Sam .
Didn’t think of this…. So messed up
I've thought about this as she also had a disordered relationship with food that she struggled with as a child...and lo and behold, her character Sam was always eating. He was horrible to her.
@@dubblebubbletoilandtrouble6646 well then Jeanette should've walked away from the role as Sam long time ago... that was her character
@@HazelEyes485 She was a kid? I don't think it was really her choice. If you look into her (abusive) relationship with her mother and how she was basically forced to be the breadwinner for the family I think it at least makes sense that she couldn't just walk away from it without major consequences she would have had to consider even as a adult. And in any case I hardly think that that's the point. I was talking about Dan.
I’ve heard so many horror stories about child actors, and what they had to go through growing up on a set, the pressure that is applied on them, I’m amazed anyone would let their child do it. Imagine the stories some of the older child stars have.
My heart breaks for her I had no idea she was going through all that I was big fan of icarly growing up but now you hear all these behind the scenes stories and it's so sad what she had to go through her mom was a horrible human being seems to me jennette is by far a better person than her mother I pray she's doing better In her life
I won't say her mom was a terrible human being, I don't think her intentions were ever to hurt Jennette in any way, I think a lot was happening in her life and she unknowingly pushed all of that on to Jennette. The religion thing affected her, her illness affected her, her wanting to always be an actress and never getting the chance to do that afecte her, her husband cheating on her affected her, knowing for years she had been lying to her kids about who their father was must not have been easy... I am not trying to excuse her behavior, or saying it was easier on Jennette than it was for her... But I think in her own delusional way she thought she was doing the best...
@@jrcervincervin2782 That still doesn’t excuse her abusing her daughter and forcing her to pursue something she didn’t want to do at a young age
@@janemaxhopper2846 you are right, it doesn't, she was unstable and did what she thought was right.
@@jrcervincervin2782 y eso es justificación para obligar a tu hija a hacer cosas que no quieres? . Ah y una cosa mas el papá de Jennette nunca le fue infiel a su madre al revés la mamá de Jennette fue la que obligó a ese hombre a hacerles creer a todos que el era su verdadero padre no al revés en el libro la misma Jennette cuenta que recién murio su mamá su padrastro le dijo que se iba a casar y que ni ella ni sus hermanos eran sus hijos así que la que le estuvo mintiendo a su familia todo el tiempo fue la mamá no el papá infórmate mejor amigo.
@@jrcervincervin2782 and were you there personally right with her to be telling me this?
Miranda must be a good friend.
Jeannette could write a CEREAL BOX and I’d read it 😂 I’m so glad she’s able to do what she’s inspired by, and also she’s GLOWING!
Very smart of her. Many women have children because they believe that children automatically love you no matter what. It’s a way to get the love that eluded them even in marriage. So since the marriage is unfulfilling they well it’s because we need kids to make us whole. You need to be whole in order to have happy well adjusted children.
I wish my cousin's mother-in-law would read this. She treats her sons like her husbands.
Love is not an automatic thing
She’s a intelligent, upstanding young woman. I hope she heals. No one deserves that. ❤️
Wow! Her mother was evil. How can you say that to your daughter.
"I'm glad her mom died"
Some people are not mentally mothering
Narcissism is a sad toxic thing
The full email was even worse. Tbh. Read the book and that email wouldn't surprise you.
@@Ayaforshort I wish her mother was nicer to her
Miranda is a true genuine friend
It is so great to see Jeanette shining and wonderful to here that Miranda Cosgrove is as special as we all assumed she was
Jeanette will be a great mother when she’s ready. She’s beautiful and strong.
Miranda is such a good friend love her ❤
Seeing her so happy is so heartwarming omg
Sending Jeanette so much love
I haven’t seen Miranda and Janette since Icarly finished years ago, and it’s so good to see what they are up to now. I grew up watching them. I’m about the same age as them.
At least something good came out of everything she’s been through. She made a good friend
A good, solid female friend is honestly one of the greatest blessings you could receive.
i have a lot of guy friends, but theres nothing like a female best friend who just gets you! Finding genuine female friends who isnt catty or cause drama is challenging. Hold on to the true ones! They are hard to come by!
@@beepboop7041 My female best friend ended up being my cousin. She was in an abusive relationship and doing a ton of drugs growing up. We grew distant, but then we reconnected when she needed me as a bridesmaid for her wedding. She has a daughter now and completely turned her life around. What I love about her, there's no judgment but understanding. Whatever I tell her, she doesn't gossip about it behind my back or take advantage of my kindness. I tend to spoil people I love. But she is very appreciative and it shows. I've been burned from past female relationships before, and my male friends are usually superficial.
i’m still waiting on mine 🥺💗
Sending Jennette alot of love ,and healing her way🙏🏽❤
I love that Jeannette is doing better. I’m proud of her. And I’m also glad Miranda was there for her. I’m very happy for her
I’m so proud of her I liked her a lot on the show she was very funny
I hope that she is doing better.
It's so inspiring to hear her story and see how far she's come. She is in charge of her own life now. I love it!
And it's so nice to hear how Miranda helped her! They both seem like very compassionate people.
“When you love someone the right way that person will feel free”
I’ve healed from trauma Jennette I hope you know your not alone I still have mental issues I need to deal with and reflect on❤️
I’m not crying, you’re crying!! Gosh that friendship is something special and should always be cherished 😢
We’re all rooting for you always Jennette 😘💕
She's awesome.
I have a theory the same way Miranda protected Jeanette is the same way she is secretly protecting the kids that are coming up now on Nickelodeon. Especially the kids on Danger Force which is another Dan Schinder show. That's why Miranda decided to come back
Henry Danger querrás decir Dan se salió de las televisoras en el 2018 y Danger force comenzó en el 2019 yo creo que te estas confundiendo Henry Danger que ese programa si fue creado por Dan
Henry danger left before Henry danger hit TV I don't believe he was an original creator or even director and Miranda didn't come to nickelodeon just acting
So sorry you went through all this 😭❤ May God heal you and bless you with many blessings 🙏❤
A true friend will be there for you in the good and bad times, and she was there for her.
She talks so well.
Good for her on her Journey to healing.
I got Jennette’s autobiography in audible. Hearing her read her own words is really good.
I'm a little more than halfway through the audio book. I was concerned about her reading it at first, so many writers don't do well reading their own stuff, but she's amazing. No one else could have done it justice and my heart just breaks for her
Am I the only one who was shook by that email from her mom??
I’m happy she is healing through all that turbulent past and that she found a very precious friendship with Miranda. Her mother’s treatment of her is horrible, and no child should have experienced that.
I think she would be an excellent mother. She is intelligent and has emotional intelligence most people don’t.
The fact she sees her nieces and knows a 3rd is on the way tells me her brothers didn't disown her like her "mom" said
That's just something she said to be hurtful more
One of the most important things I was taught in life is that your parents were people with experiences that shaped them before you came along. Understanding that changed how I looked at them. I’m all for healing the self, but it means nothing without forgiveness.💙
Why? We need to stop with the ‘forgiveness’ talk. It doesn’t help all. Some just need to take different approaches to peace of mind.
I learned this as well. I also learned that the traumatic experiences my mother lived through does not excuse or justify the trauma that was then pushed onto me though her behavior and true forgiveness could only happen when my mother held herself accountable. We all have bad experiences that shape us that does not mean that our loved ones should absolve us of our responsibility to them without US doing the work. Nothing in Jeanette’s mother’s life justifies the abuse she put her child through and “forgiving” her when she didn’t ask for forgiveness or work for it ones not heal Jeanette.
Hard to forgive someone who isn't sorry. her mother abused her until her own death and never even apologized
I am paying the price for my Mothers lack if self work. I have had two counsellors tell me ITS not about forgiveness.
I have an abusive mom but have not really had a friend that supported me like that yet. maybe I'll find it one day
Miranda is such an angel.
Her staying Stoic is what made her respectable.
Imagine if she decides to cameo on the icarly reboot. The eruption of applause and the characters reuniting would be epic on so many levels.
No wonder Sam never had a mother in Icarly bc Jeanette never had a actual mother figure in her life. Her mom in Icarly was basically just like her mom irl but her rl mom is way worse
Facts I feel bad for her childhood and what she went three in Icarly
Best friends forever ♥️🤞🏻
i really think this is her upswing, can’t wait for her new book and her new writing!!!
My thoughts (haven’t read the book) when they mentioned her dating someone over a decade older
“Okay come on dating someone that much older than you is grounds for concern if your mother raised an concern that’s hardly a big deal, any mother would”
Me after reading the email
WHAT KIND OF ANIMAL “RAISED” YOU!!!????
where can i see the interview?
It's sad to hear when a child is glad to lose a parent, but it's understandable if the parent was... like "that".
Miranda's crying, I'm crying, we're both crying, we can't stop crying. For me it's not that iCarly ending, it's not that today is our last day ever taping iCarly; that I'm fine wifh, definitely ready for. Even though I'm weary starting my spinoff, I'm glad to at least be saying goodbye to this project that makes me feel like I'm living everyday in a Groundhog Day movie doing the same thing over and over again. The reason I'm crying is that I don't know what will become of my friendship with Miranda: we've gotten so close, like sisters but without the passive aggression and weird tensions. I have my judgments around female friendships being catty and petty and backstabby but that couldn't be further from the truth with Miranda. With Miranda it's always been so easy, our friendship is pure. An AD hands and me and Miranda a tissue; we blow our noses hideously and get back on our marks to do one last take for the final scene we're shooting together. The sadness takes both of us over: we hold each other and cry.
-I'm Glad My Mom Died, Chapter 49
I would like to hear from Gibby!
I need to get my hands on that novel, Jeannette.
I love Jeannette and I’m glad she’s finally speaking up about what happened to her
Not all mothers are loving and nurturing. How could her mother do this to her?
Aw I love her
Where can I find this book🤔
I’m really starting to like Jennette McCurdy, I didn’t really know much about her before this book tour
Wow that email. Wow.
So proud of Jeannette
God bless her
I was hoping to see a video message from Miranda.
Oh God they brought out this red table again
I love both Miranda Cosgrove AND Jennette McCurdy. They're both angels. I just hate that McCurdy's late Mother, Debbie was so cruel to her.
Wish her all tge best 👌
aweee i love carly and sam
Great news about life long friends. A good meanfull story
PS send money for a new fridge! Ours broke! I’m sorry but that line made me laugh!
wow shes so strong now
Her struggling with only trusting boys I can relate with. I’m a gender non conforming trans girl ( which I guess makes me a tomboy ) and I was mistreated pretty badly by some teachers throughout elementary and middle school and they were all women. The male teachers were all nice to me. There were exceptions mind you. But, most of my “ abusers “ were women teachers. As such, I have trouble trusting women and girls too. I have a much easier time trusting boys to the point that I can be naive about it at times. But I can’t stop. The only woman I can trust is my mother. I can’t even trust my own sister because of how many times she broke my trust in her. I just can’t trust girls ! They all turn on me sooner or later. There was one female teacher who even used to babysit me and my sister when daddy was busy. It turns out she was toxic too ! Even in high school I couldn’t fully trust the women ( teachers or students ). My point is that, I didn’t choose to be like this. I’m like this because I was abused by a woman too. Several of them. I can understand how painful it can be to be treated like that and how painful the repercussions can be as well…
I don’t want kids either Jeanette! I’m glad a woman celebrity finally said it🎉
I have to say to all fans, first it’s Will Smith VS Chris Rock slap at the Oscars, second Johnny Depp VS Amber Heard trial and lastly right now is Jennette McCurdy speaking about her dead abusive mother and how Nickelodeon treated her unfair, this is so unfortunate😔
And one of these things should not be public consumption
Her mom disowned her, but still demand a new fridge from her? 😣😣
"I'm not your mother anymore! I disown you!!!"
"Also can you send money pls? Our fridge broke 👉👈"
I live for the chain earrings
Btw Im glad she helping/ heald in some way from all the bs
Awww
2:20 Andre Drummond?
❤️❤️❤️
Intelligent Beautiful Young Lady 💖
I glad they are freinds IRL that so touching unlike hanna Montana girls wich I used to love but then finding about about how they really are an like wow acting was little to good I believed it but then being for real makes feel not as stupid for believing in freindship can be great
Love mom send money ours broke. Like wtf her mom sounded like mine but she adopted me so she could make a house payment and make it like she was a saint.
Im so happy she at least had a strong relationship with her closest costar ♡ I'm sure her and Nathan Kress were buddies too
She looks 21 honestly
It feels like the character she played on iCarly woulda definitely put out a book called "I'm glad my mom died"
💚🌼💚🌼💚🌼
"talks to Jada Pinkett Smith" I would recomend doing that!
"Women will get to know you and then hurt you"
If anyone knows about that, it's Jada Pinkett Smith.
Be lucky to not view your parents as monsters. Not many are as lucky..
🥰🥰
How many of the young Nickelodeon girls were in relationships with an older man from the shows they were on?
We're so old now sam
I used to hate Miranda for her role as Megan Parker in Drake & Josh, but not anymore. She’s a kind-hearted person, and kudos to her for helping Jeannette overcome her trauma.
You hated her because of a fictional character? You need to see a therapist.
@@jennifer5512 I was a kid, okay?
Megan got on my nerves too lol
I loved Megan! 🤣 I also have 2 older brothers, but I couldn't stand up to them, so I lived vicariously through her lol
Why is she so red and sweaty? I really hope her health is okay...
"Men will not know you and hurt you. Women will know you deeply, and then hurt you."
"aaaah, sounds like my mom", willow probably.
So Jada is helping people open up about their issues? The irony in that should not go unnoticed…
She was dating an icarly writer?!
I can see jennette looks stress and depressed by the look how skinny she is now...i hope she’s keep stronger and stronger everyday and keep always in touch with miranda 🥺