Jennette McCurdy Reveals Why She Named Her Memoir "I'm Glad My Mom Died" | The Drew Barrymore Show

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  • Drew Barrymore sits down with Jennette McCurdy to break down her book "I'm Glad My Mom Died." She opens up to Drew about moving past feelings of guilt and shame, and the two bond over their troubled relationships with their mothers.
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  • @TheDrewBarrymoreShow
    @TheDrewBarrymoreShow  ปีที่แล้ว +53

    If you haven't seen the full interview yet, be sure to check it out here: th-cam.com/video/cIYSPwAwQVI/w-d-xo.html

  • @kassiapencek6185
    @kassiapencek6185 ปีที่แล้ว +391

    I love when a smart woman learns from a younger one. Its good to Drew heal.

    • @doctauglyd9861
      @doctauglyd9861 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good ole feminism other strong woman the only thing her ass listen too

    • @MillarBillions
      @MillarBillions 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're right 👍

  • @cecile-annpearce5820
    @cecile-annpearce5820 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    You hit the nail on the head about protecting our mothers by not showing them up in a bad light. At age 58 I am still building my confidence without hearing my mother's voice in my head. When I see FB posts from friends about how they honor their mothers, all I think about is how I never had that kind of relationship. I always tried to please her, but it was never enough.

    • @insertnamehere2635
      @insertnamehere2635 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That was your mother's problems not yours. Every child deserves a mother, not every mother deserves her children

  • @fabialvarez13
    @fabialvarez13 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    You can feel the pain in Drew's voice

  • @sobetobey9172
    @sobetobey9172 ปีที่แล้ว +316

    I still love this interview. It's a weird connection for anyone who had abusive parents. I am with Drew when I feel like I don't want others to see my Mom in a negative light because she is not the Mom that I grew up with because she's now been diagnosed and is being treated for bipolar. But I still have this horrible past.

    • @laceybright3088
      @laceybright3088 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      yess i felt that if i showed her in any negative light people would not see her good and the love that i have for her or the love i know deep down she has for me. i felt i had to protect her

    • @sobetobey9172
      @sobetobey9172 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@laceybright3088 Yes Exactly! I think a lot of us feel this way. I didn't realize most of us didn't have a normal childhood. Or maybe this was the norm 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @rollfaceonkeyboard
      @rollfaceonkeyboard ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@sobetobey9172 The more I distanced myself, the more I lived in the real world. The more I could feel that deserved resentment to them. Still sometimes I find myself defending their actions with the words they defended themselves with. It's really interesting for sure.

    • @blairwaldorf-bass8180
      @blairwaldorf-bass8180 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It’s so complicated because they damaged you so bad but you still love them

    • @sobetobey9172
      @sobetobey9172 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@blairwaldorf-bass8180 Yes 😔

  • @ploopydiper
    @ploopydiper ปีที่แล้ว +98

    I LOVE this interview because in most interviews Jennette has done she’s asked about the Nickelodeon aspect of the book. But that’s such a small part! It’s important to recognize the true meaning of the book, not just what’s most marketable. It’s her lifelong journey of dealing with the abuse her mother put her through. Thank you, Drew ❤

  • @alexandratucker736
    @alexandratucker736 ปีที่แล้ว +181

    Jeanette should get her degree and become a celebrity therapist! She understands a lot of things that celebrities have gone through that a non-celebrity therapist might not. That’s not to say a non-celebrity therapist can’t help them (I’m going to college for my M.S in clinical mental health counseling) but you can just see Drew’s walls come down bc she feels like Jeanette gets her in a way, she could help a lot of people!

    • @nadeembitar5292
      @nadeembitar5292 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Jennette has a degree from Mata Hari University. No time to die - Billie Eilish.

    • @nadeembitar5292
      @nadeembitar5292 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The kind of woman James Bond would smash but not trust - Dave Chappelle SNL monologue about Ye.

    • @AGoodHairDay
      @AGoodHairDay 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Or a therapist for anyone who had abusive parents, celebrity or not.

  • @r.r.4410
    @r.r.4410 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Jeannette complimenting Drew for making her feel comfortable made me genuinely tear up. Jeannette would have deserved somebody like Drew to be her mom (everybody does)

  • @Pntngbrn
    @Pntngbrn ปีที่แล้ว +161

    After my mom died I would joke and say to people “I really loved my mom, but god I’m glad she’s dead” People would be like “what!?” And I would just say “oh you had to know her” and I’d laugh. I knew they didn’t understand it was just liberating to say it out loud. Yeah, I get it, wow I never had someone tell my truth before.

    • @perrycoffey5410
      @perrycoffey5410 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I know how you feel it sucks what's the point of living

    • @AB-jm9wx
      @AB-jm9wx 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bro u good

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. ปีที่แล้ว +44

    One of the most beautiful interviews out there! ❤

  • @starrhewitt8456
    @starrhewitt8456 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I’ve watched this interview at least twice all the way through and hang on to every word. I need the full episode and her book immediately 😭

    • @Raddiebaddie
      @Raddiebaddie ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Highly recomend the audiobook if you enjoy reading that way. Its narrated by herself and very well done!

    • @unmellowyellow
      @unmellowyellow ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Get the book in Audible. Hearing Jennette’s words in her actual voice, makes the book even better.

  • @loveinthematrix
    @loveinthematrix ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Anything worth saying is going to be divisive for sure. My truth is lodged in my throat and the secrets I’m holding just so both of my narcissistic parents can live a comfortable life while I have been in survival mode since a child due to their abuse. Seeing a woman specifically speak this openly about abuse is more than inspirational. I appreciate this level of sharing. There is so much suffering when you really have no blueprint for love. Wishing everyone healing. The things I’ve heard about Drew’s story have helped me so much as well. It’s also incredible to see someone who has been through so much find the strength to be themselves. It really takes so much strength.

  • @AJJoers
    @AJJoers ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Before I even watch this video I feel like I already get it. There’s no reason I should be giving my mom any bit of grace after what she did to me. But now that she has passed it’s a lot easier to let go. It’s over. Nothing can be done. I know she will never reach out and apologize. All I can do is send her hope and love and hope that it helps her have a better life. So much healing has come from her death and it’s such a weird thing to express to people who just don’t get it.

  • @daniellemarshall6727
    @daniellemarshall6727 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I love the woman Janette has grown to become, she’s beautiful and brilliant. I’m so glad I watched this interview, it can help/teach so many people is so many situations💗💗

  • @aekelly
    @aekelly ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Oh I'm so glad she and Drew got to talk! The kind of interviewer she deserves!

  • @nimflower
    @nimflower 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This made me cry, because its painfully relatable.

  • @madisonjones0202
    @madisonjones0202 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    they’re both such great humans. this is a good duo

  • @evaiovine3329
    @evaiovine3329 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This is such a vulnerable and strong interview ❤️

  • @TeeRql
    @TeeRql ปีที่แล้ว +8

    wow i didn’t want this conversation to end. this was too good. from the questions to the answers

  • @fadedexile
    @fadedexile ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Ladies you have me crying over here. Hugs for everyone.

  • @angelaholmes8888
    @angelaholmes8888 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I can't wait to read Jeannette memoir she's really brave to expose dan Schneider and write about the trauma she endured at the hands of her mother hopefully she's helped others who have been in her situation

  • @lonelyrooster
    @lonelyrooster ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I listened to this interview on a walk and found it was 90% Drew asking for some honest advice on healing

  • @tymeirahhayes8389
    @tymeirahhayes8389 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you so much for giving her the space she’s earned to share her story she is so inspiring I’m so many ways and this interview has been very therapeutic and special to me so happy you guys connected In this way to help young girls like me heal from having this kind of abuse in childhood ❤

  • @Cr-dy4ns
    @Cr-dy4ns ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Drew should seriously be a therapist as well besides her talk show!! Wow incredible with advice and I love her vibe all around!!❤️

  • @dontneednobody
    @dontneednobody ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So beautiful. Thank you for having this conversation

  • @wally2584
    @wally2584 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is amazing! This brought tears to my eyes. I know Drew, you understand her 100%. The connection I feel between you both. Tears of happiness for you both to have meet and talked and also of sadness because you both had to go though this.

  • @gigi2k326
    @gigi2k326 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I had an extremely toxic mother too. She wouldn't even allow my sis & me to be close. It's been peaceful since she's been dead.
    Lord knows I get it

  • @alltoowell32296
    @alltoowell32296 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Love this conversation!! It definitely needed to be had.

  • @_Poshel_Nahui_
    @_Poshel_Nahui_ ปีที่แล้ว +13

    An interview I never expected...

  • @eleniet
    @eleniet ปีที่แล้ว +1

    WOW this is so incredible to watch. I want to watch more and now I want to buy and read that book. ❤️

  • @cassandralicalzi7375
    @cassandralicalzi7375 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Such a great interview

  • @510dani4
    @510dani4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wonderful interview.

  • @KhushiSingh-xi9jt
    @KhushiSingh-xi9jt ปีที่แล้ว +3

    just read it yesterday, its an amazing book

  • @springwater9981
    @springwater9981 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Loved this !

  • @John_Krone
    @John_Krone ปีที่แล้ว

    Great interview

  • @luketargett2233
    @luketargett2233 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loved this, such a good interview, and so little views!

  • @naineshmodi7064
    @naineshmodi7064 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Beautiful

  • @RiversBliss
    @RiversBliss ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This interview is extremely important if you get what Drew is talking about.

  • @jakela23
    @jakela23 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This ia amazing. Im crying

  • @manicmaggie
    @manicmaggie 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I really hope this show becomes available in South Africa.

  • @anthonyespinoza2734
    @anthonyespinoza2734 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    3:10 that part ❤

  • @TheOnlyHBIC
    @TheOnlyHBIC ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I would love to hear from Britney one day

  • @spliffyhippy3966
    @spliffyhippy3966 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love her!

  • @neskebeks
    @neskebeks 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dear Drew, Comedy is the medicine that helped survive us the darkest days!

  • @user-ce2wr2hx5x
    @user-ce2wr2hx5x 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    comas left and right is music but its light and energy

  • @thatsonperiod
    @thatsonperiod 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    5:00 is the hug btw so sweet 🥺

  • @rickjikkles91
    @rickjikkles91 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Drew your gorgeous babe inside and out xxx

  • @miningho5913
    @miningho5913 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    We♥️ Jeannette mccurdy

  • @Bigchilezlife
    @Bigchilezlife ปีที่แล้ว +7

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @madcoolclips2800
    @madcoolclips2800 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤Drew❤

  • @PrincessSheik124
    @PrincessSheik124 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really want to get into contact with Drew and would love to talk not only with her personally but also about the many and vast aspects of addiction and growth as a young woman .. I frequently come back to this interview with someone as my contemporary (Jeanette) with someone who I see as a true star (Drew) talking about healing as women. It's so... Not empowering necessarily but healing as another who has endured trauma as a young woman. This is one of my favorite interviews I've ever seen ngl lol, and Drew if you're reading please reach out. I'd love your info and to maybe talk about a topic on your podcast or something. (low-key if I can get Jeanette too that'd be a dream, but it's clear I'm dreaming big 🤣)

    • @Wealthismybirthright
      @Wealthismybirthright 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Nah don’t dream. You can become a famous woman for mental health ❤.

  • @kathydelgado7962
    @kathydelgado7962 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Typically when we try to say something our trusted person goes to ask our mom. We’re labeled disrespectful lyars etc making our bad feelings of not being good enough much worst

  • @ZFern9390
    @ZFern9390 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have been thinking, at age 55 , what am i going to n ed when my mom FINALLY dies. I imagine i will have to find a way to cope with grace when someone says oh, "im sorry your mom died" It will stir a range of emotions from anfer to swelling grief over who i could have been had i had a different mother and upbringing and the profound struggle Year after year in adulthood weather its been years of no contact or small periods of contact. Its been a nightmare for my entire life. I think its important speak our truth as the abused .

  • @somebodyu.used2know
    @somebodyu.used2know 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Drew, you disappoint 😢

  • @Most0riginalUsername
    @Most0riginalUsername ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Jeanette looks like Linda Cardellini to me here

  • @shaymiths
    @shaymiths ปีที่แล้ว

    Please do more Childhood stars

  • @jessicahawks3223
    @jessicahawks3223 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yeah when people talk so highly of my mom and they say sorry she passed it must hurt so much to me, I just say umm yeah and change the subject..It's hard for sure, the people I'm closest to I tell the absolute truth but don't want to weigh on ppl that I'm not close too bc it's a big bag of stuff my mom left me with of abuse. Oh well

  • @DonReest
    @DonReest 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The Drew Scabbymore Show!

  • @hillmangeorgeanthony
    @hillmangeorgeanthony 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I've started prescribing my cancer patients with special pacemakers this may hopefully provide the right research for diabetes and other illnesses

  • @rickjikkles91
    @rickjikkles91 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Baby beautiful on the outside and beautiful inside babe xxx

  • @joeperry132
    @joeperry132 ปีที่แล้ว

    Joe Lansdale is the one who said that

  • @armandgordon
    @armandgordon ปีที่แล้ว

    Try Dan Martin Legendary Actor to be on the Drew Barrymore show

  • @user-ce2wr2hx5x
    @user-ce2wr2hx5x 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    vincent morretto needs to be your man a babylon God of rock and he has metal instruments with a wifi and bluetooth and hotspot metal, track music

  • @ninjaghost83
    @ninjaghost83 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow he realy is talking

  • @ninjaghost83
    @ninjaghost83 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wy did she have to look twice for?

  • @ninjaghost83
    @ninjaghost83 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lol let some bodies hit the floor

  • @CertifiedPsychiatrist
    @CertifiedPsychiatrist 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The cover is a nancy drew book ;)

  • @ambarrose
    @ambarrose 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The best thing I did was leaving my mom behind. She's still alive. But not to me. Not really. Sometimes the weight of it is ... Enormous. Society judges so much. It took me a long time to reach a position or a point where I can say my mother was a depressed narcissist that ruined me as a person. I was... Her creation. And anything beyond that wasn't acceptable. Wasn't deemed worthy of existence. I'm still healing from that.

  • @themaczter9024
    @themaczter9024 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is that Britney Spears?

  • @fairplay3312
    @fairplay3312 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The absence of a sense of humour is one of the most emblematic traits of a short-sighted mind

  • @JewleryWealthyasis
    @JewleryWealthyasis 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Is there anymore spots gonna get messed up because of that scheme fraud y'all over there kno just who the

  • @mss4346
    @mss4346 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It seems drew still need therapy :-D

    • @GreenBanana675
      @GreenBanana675 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      We never stop healing.

    • @Wealthismybirthright
      @Wealthismybirthright 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Her mother was toxic and she had to raise herself so of course. Smh.

  • @iNdUsTrIaLrOcKeR4U
    @iNdUsTrIaLrOcKeR4U 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What does famous, mean? Please explain to you, child.

  • @TonyDucks89
    @TonyDucks89 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    All I hear is "me me me"

  • @stevest-laurent
    @stevest-laurent 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Drew just needs more therapy, using big people words now, still has a hair problem

  • @TheConorsmithusa
    @TheConorsmithusa ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jenette is an actress that will only be known for Icarli

    • @Tomboyy9818
      @Tomboyy9818 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Jennette* iCarly*

    • @PinkBookNerd
      @PinkBookNerd ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Well clearly not anymore. She and her book encouraged former child actors to come forward with the abuse at the studios

  • @robintaylor485
    @robintaylor485 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The absolute most cringe worthy embarrassment of a show on television

  • @ninjaghost83
    @ninjaghost83 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow he realy is talking