I'm glad you're talking about the severe punishment that awaits men who don't uphold "bro code". They do get frozen out, talked about bad and their businesses are attempted to be put out of business. I experienced this personally. It's disgusting, and literally NOBODY is talking about this or making videos about this. Thanks.
That’s where the term “simp” comes from. Actual respectable men that genuinely care for their partner and family’s well being. Basically being a LEADER and the followers and weak minded men are calling them “simps” for that. Pathetic.
My last ex went insane when he learned that I made more money than he. He'd gotten a new job a few months after I did, too. He tells me, smugly, how much he was earning. I said, good, that's nearly as much as me. The look on his face remains hysterical. What's crazier, is that he no longer has that job, because he effed it up trying to make my life hell. So, he got kicked out of my life AND lost a good job. ROFL.
Yes I was providing a roof, food, medical help and reentry to a profession to a guy but all he was doing was crying about his "friends" who no longer liked him because he was upholding me against them. Their approval was worth more than all that I was providing, it was disgusting. Also, it's hard to find a man out there who will go against his buddies for you. Most of us aren't going to be able to find these guys until most men are trained not to be so fucking sexist. They operate as a pack, which is why it's been SO HARD for women to penetrate into some of these professions.
@@yv_edit Thanks! We need to start making videos for men on what to do when they advocate for a woman, their wife or girlfriend but all of a sudden they are turned on by their entire male friend group. Most men are unprepared for this and knuckle under to the group and abandon the woman. OR sustain severe losses in business. In my case, the man expected me to keep providing for him and allowing him not to work because he had taken such severe losses in business due to him defending me against his former buddies. It was very complicated. If the man feels a sense of loss and blames it instead of on his sexist friends but on YOU, then YOU somehow "owe him something". I'll never get myself in that situation again.
@@XtineJohnes I'm reminded of a story where a man's male circle had him distrust his wife but they later drunkenly confessed that they wanted him to break up with her so THEY could get a shot at her. He did try to win her back but she told him it was too late.
Lol! Yes!!! Men will have camaraderie with me when we are alone, as soon as other people appear, suddenly my opinions are weird and they look like 'why is she talking wild stuff? 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@thankyoujesus2836 you know what, I think you’re right. I’ve had creative ideas stolen before and even had one lie on me and refuse to give me the money I was owed. They are users at their core.
What an embarrassing show. You know your partner isn’t keen on marriage with you and you bring them to a tv show to force them to give you a shut up ring. Couldn’t be me!
This is true, my ex wanted to gain weight with home cooked meals so it made him look like he was happy 😂 I was so confused when he said it because I’m like but are you actually happy or just want to appear to be, in order to impress the well established men at work. He felt inferior to all the men at work and didn’t feel he deserved to be there
Lol at the end! Ok honestly I thought I was being paranoid but I always thought my ex would be physically intimate with his male friends if he could… maybe already had been. He loved them so freaking much and said he would never leave them. He was fine letting me go though 😂
I remember you saying you were married. I would love to hear mores about how you guys make your marriage work and why you felt he was marriage material.
This is soooo depressing and saddening. I can’t get over the fact that I knew something wasn’t right and still fell. But oh well it was a group effort I’m thinking. Messed up. When are they going to grow up.
Yep. I have a pretty decent provider husband, but he exaggerates how much of a provider he is to his friends. He doesn’t even need to, he provides when most of his friends don’t!
I had so many situations where men seemed validation from other men and I was left by myself dealing with insults and threats. Also women who seek validation from men as we are programmed are predators. We unlearn and create a new program in our brain and I feel so inspired so how many women speak and use their voice also for other women
This young lady is 100 percent right. The downfall of my marriage was my husband wanted to be with his boys. Impress them, he stayed at the bar with them. Found out years later they were..engaging in activities together...when i found out, it all made sense 🤌🏾
This is wild because I have experienced something very similar recently. My relationship fell apart when my bf started hanging out with his male co-workers all the time. (Of course, I have been made to think I am crazy for even thinking that's the reason. Clearly, it must have been my fault. 🙄) Well, a few weeks ago, I met one of his old friends and he told me that my ex was "definitely gay." I'm not saying I even believe that....but...🤔
I am not at all a fan of reality TV but everyone I follow who have the best takes on human relationships all watch them. Not hating on them, I just find them soooooo painful to watch. I’m glad you all are watching tho and bringing back these nuggets of wisdom. 👍
Same, I already have a hard time learning this stuff watching people in real life. Watching people more in reality TV is physically painful to me. Which is why I'm soooo appreciative of people who enjoy it and write back.
I felt like I experienced a glitch in the Matrix with this one 😂 I haven’t watched this specific show and although I also watch reality dating shows, I was thinking “he did WHAT?” when you were talking about this 😂 this is on another level. Maybe I’ll go give it a watch now. Thanks for your review!
You realize men who expose their relationship on social media are immature. Right? Men are better when they have male friends to play with. If you instead on staying married to Dame man for the haul you have to allow him & yourself personal spen! Men playing sports &/or attend sports outings withbtheir buddies gives them a break to relieve work stress, discuss personal issues, not have to act &/or listen to a honey-do list -Be themself! Women who do not understand this need to get a life! My late husband's buddies were there for us when needed after he suddenly died ... ~ 70s Feminist & widow
But men are often desperate for the approval of other men at the detriment of their relationships with women. It's not about pleasing women, it's about pleasing other men
@icingcake I have a Dad. A good relationship with him. We go fishing, I help him out shoveling snow from time to time. Yet I see the dynamic I described in real life practically. You don't want to acknowledge that status exists as a power dynamic, but the primal brain doesn't lie, it just needs to be held in check responsibly in order to keep society safe. Mental illness is the key factor in whether or not the self-responsibility is adhered to.
I'm glad you're talking about the severe punishment that awaits men who don't uphold "bro code". They do get frozen out, talked about bad and their businesses are attempted to be put out of business. I experienced this personally. It's disgusting, and literally NOBODY is talking about this or making videos about this. Thanks.
Have you seen Better Call Saul ?? just found it and it matches with Breaking Bad !!
Bro code is just a pillar of toxic masculinity...now we know it's no harmless brotherhood....
There should be more videos about bro code for sure
@@AmeliaHouck-o9j I Bingewatched Breaking Bad finally but haven't watched Better Call Saul, maybe this holiday LOL
That’s where the term “simp” comes from. Actual respectable men that genuinely care for their partner and family’s well being. Basically being a LEADER and the followers and weak minded men are calling them “simps” for that. Pathetic.
My last ex went insane when he learned that I made more money than he. He'd gotten a new job a few months after I did, too. He tells me, smugly, how much he was earning. I said, good, that's nearly as much as me. The look on his face remains hysterical. What's crazier, is that he no longer has that job, because he effed it up trying to make my life hell. So, he got kicked out of my life AND lost a good job. ROFL.
Yes I was providing a roof, food, medical help and reentry to a profession to a guy but all he was doing was crying about his "friends" who no longer liked him because he was upholding me against them. Their approval was worth more than all that I was providing, it was disgusting. Also, it's hard to find a man out there who will go against his buddies for you. Most of us aren't going to be able to find these guys until most men are trained not to be so fucking sexist. They operate as a pack, which is why it's been SO HARD for women to penetrate into some of these professions.
you nailed it babe !
@@yv_edit Thanks! We need to start making videos for men on what to do when they advocate for a woman, their wife or girlfriend but all of a sudden they are turned on by their entire male friend group. Most men are unprepared for this and knuckle under to the group and abandon the woman. OR sustain severe losses in business. In my case, the man expected me to keep providing for him and allowing him not to work because he had taken such severe losses in business due to him defending me against his former buddies. It was very complicated. If the man feels a sense of loss and blames it instead of on his sexist friends but on YOU, then YOU somehow "owe him something". I'll never get myself in that situation again.
@@XtineJohnes I'm reminded of a story where a man's male circle had him distrust his wife but they later drunkenly confessed that they wanted him to break up with her so THEY could get a shot at her. He did try to win her back but she told him it was too late.
Same. I keep having to say things like "how many more times do I have to be right before you realize I'm not talking out of my ass!?"
Lol! Yes!!! Men will have camaraderie with me when we are alone, as soon as other people appear, suddenly my opinions are weird and they look like 'why is she talking wild stuff? 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Because they want to extract you for your ideas and then use them to make themselves look better. Don’t talk to men. They’re users abusers and haters
@@thankyoujesus2836 you know what, I think you’re right. I’ve had creative ideas stolen before and even had one lie on me and refuse to give me the money I was owed. They are users at their core.
What an embarrassing show. You know your partner isn’t keen on marriage with you and you bring them to a tv show to force them to give you a shut up ring. Couldn’t be me!
I'm so pleased that you have stepped up your content. Keep it up girl you're kicking a**!! ❤
I love how active you are on YT! I also subscribed to your podcast. Thank you for the content
TH-cam is my new home 🩷 so happy to be here!!!
This is true, my ex wanted to gain weight with home cooked meals so it made him look like he was happy 😂 I was so confused when he said it because I’m like but are you actually happy or just want to appear to be, in order to impress the well established men at work. He felt inferior to all the men at work and didn’t feel he deserved to be there
NO OFFENCE BUT HE MAY BE GAY? DO SOME DIGGING ! THIS IS JUST A BIT TOO WEIRD ! SORRY , HOPE NOT BUT HE IS OFF IN SOME WAY , YOU BE CAREFUL
I hope you figured out his self-esteem problem’s root cause was him and not your cooking or lack thereof.
Lol at the end! Ok honestly I thought I was being paranoid but I always thought my ex would be physically intimate with his male friends if he could… maybe already had been. He loved them so freaking much and said he would never leave them. He was fine letting me go though 😂
Sisters before misters...
I remember you saying you were married. I would love to hear mores about how you guys make your marriage work and why you felt he was marriage material.
He lets her yap on TikTok all day being useless and spend his money
This is soooo depressing and saddening. I can’t get over the fact that I knew something wasn’t right and still fell. But oh well it was a group effort I’m thinking. Messed up. When are they going to grow up.
Yep. I have a pretty decent provider husband, but he exaggerates how much of a provider he is to his friends. He doesn’t even need to, he provides when most of his friends don’t!
I had so many situations where men seemed validation from other men and I was left by myself dealing with insults and threats. Also women who seek validation from men as we are programmed are predators.
We unlearn and create a new program in our brain and I feel so inspired so how many women speak and use their voice also for other women
Join 4b, try women.
Gross. That is NOT how sexuality works 🙄
If your 4b is to try women , I'm afraid the same problem will follow you
Heavy on TH-cam 🎉🎉🎉 thank you! Great work
This’s a serve. As per usual. 💪
i love your videos 💕
This young lady is 100 percent right. The downfall of my marriage was my husband wanted to be with his boys. Impress them, he stayed at the bar with them. Found out years later they were..engaging in activities together...when i found out, it all made sense 🤌🏾
omggg 😵💫🥴
This is wild because I have experienced something very similar recently. My relationship fell apart when my bf started hanging out with his male co-workers all the time. (Of course, I have been made to think I am crazy for even thinking that's the reason. Clearly, it must have been my fault. 🙄) Well, a few weeks ago, I met one of his old friends and he told me that my ex was "definitely gay." I'm not saying I even believe that....but...🤔
My first ex is *still* DL.
I hope you took an STI test.
Your content is god sent 😻😻
I am not at all a fan of reality TV but everyone I follow who have the best takes on human relationships all watch them. Not hating on them, I just find them soooooo painful to watch. I’m glad you all are watching tho and bringing back these nuggets of wisdom. 👍
I got you 🙂↕️🙂↕️🙂↕️
@@yv_edit thank you for all you do! 🫡. Seriously tho, your videos are gold. You’re saving people sanity, and possibly lives.
Same, I already have a hard time learning this stuff watching people in real life. Watching people more in reality TV is physically painful to me. Which is why I'm soooo appreciative of people who enjoy it and write back.
I felt like I experienced a glitch in the Matrix with this one 😂 I haven’t watched this specific show and although I also watch reality dating shows, I was thinking “he did WHAT?” when you were talking about this 😂 this is on another level. Maybe I’ll go give it a watch now. Thanks for your review!
it’s a rollercoaster for sure. the final two episodes drop tomorrow so I’ll be doing a full breakdown 🤓
Dang!!!!!!!! Good stuff
HAH!! GAAYYYY
😂😂😂😂😂
Can you please talk about the woman Mutlu Kaya?
Thank you for your be a great story teller and give here women a save space ❤
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brilliant ❤
You realize men who expose their relationship on social media are immature. Right?
Men are better when they have male friends to play with. If you instead on staying married to Dame man for the haul you have to allow him & yourself personal spen! Men playing sports &/or attend sports outings withbtheir buddies gives them a break to relieve work stress, discuss personal issues, not have to act &/or listen to a honey-do list -Be themself! Women who do not understand this need to get a life!
My late husband's buddies were there for us when needed after he suddenly died ...
~ 70s Feminist & widow
For real tell us how you escaped this and get a good one
❤
Because if other men are impressed with a man, that man has interest from women. It's not hard to understand.
But men are often desperate for the approval of other men at the detriment of their relationships with women. It's not about pleasing women, it's about pleasing other men
That's not true. A man that is appreciated by other men can also be one not to touch with a 5 foot pole.. If he's a pr!ck..
A lot of them probably didn’t have fathers too.
That doesn't make any sense. You should date men instead.
@icingcake I have a Dad. A good relationship with him. We go fishing, I help him out shoveling snow from time to time. Yet I see the dynamic I described in real life practically. You don't want to acknowledge that status exists as a power dynamic, but the primal brain doesn't lie, it just needs to be held in check responsibly in order to keep society safe. Mental illness is the key factor in whether or not the self-responsibility is adhered to.