i feel like brad could have a podcast, he has a big personality and a lot of knowledge as a professional hairdresser. but, he went the drama podcast chatting on a couch with a tiktoker instead
@@Taecoconut there really isn't a difference, you're late tens and 20s is when you're making mistakes, navigating boundaries and social circles, creating drama, etc... Once you're past that phase, THAT'S when you're a real adult.
Both girls are desperate. Halley was a weirdo for calling out Sophia just to take him back and Sophia is a weirdo for thirsting over a man that was single for .5 seconds and then hyping up the date knowing he’s taken.
Nah, she's not thirsting, she's clearly being petty and poking her for a reaction. As an honorary petty bitch, I'd do the same, just as soon as they get back together. Because, that girl had no right to lie and create drama for nothing.
As a 36 year old woman, I think this is just a lot of immaturity and lack of life/relationship experience. In a decade, they will both look back and cringe at the fact that they ever beefed with another woman over a man.
This comment section is lame. This is a drama channel, it’s exactly the place to find petty influencer relationship drama. Your life just might already be meaningless enough if your choosing to comment and engage
I think what he means and how it should tbh is “ calling out a woman u barely know publicly over a guy that dumped u is the opposite of a girls girl” she’s concerned abt the wrong thing “the love of her life” was on that date too if she wants someone to blame should be him
I dont know who these people are. But the issue is kinda meh. Blonde is hurt a guy she liked left her and hooked up with someone who claims isn't even her friend. Aww. But the girl's girl convo... Brad and red head are being stupid. All of them are in the wrong but this issue is so petty.
Honestly having lived in NY its just as fake as LA, and Sophie is not a girls girl and thats OK. Not everyone HAS to be nice, but just dont pretend youre misunderstood when you know you're just a greentea girl. You are the friends you keep, Brad. 😉
no no say it. bc that's frrr. like it's always women being the center of the drama when the men IS THE REAL PROBLEM!! .. (eg. selena and hailey drama, when justin kept silenced the whole time)
@@fhadilscout9496 yep, these guys are covert narcissists. He went back with Halley because she was obsessed and probably doing a lot for him. He'll leave her again soon I'm sure.
guys. you know sophia just brought all of this up again now so that everyone’s eyes would be on her and people would eagerly watch the first ep of her pod with brad?
this! ^ like he didnt cheat, they are still young, he didnt lead her on, and it was a date. its not like they had a vegas wedding right after they broke up
What isn’t normal human behavior is going online a year after a date and over sharing about their date only because him and his ex got back together... that’s beyond petty and gross tbh
Halley is nuts for messaging Sophia after she went on the date and then saying “I can see you’re active on tiktok.” So creepy and the expectation of an instant response/availability is ridiculous.
Nothing will make me ignore you forever by saying “I see you are online” like why yes I am but not here for you. She’s desperate and it shows by the way she flips out over a guy who said he doesn’t love her going out with a girl who claims they aren’t friends (not in each other contacts so I believe it) then she takes the guy back once he realizes he can play her like a violin. Desperation isn’t the way to navigate your dating life it’s just gonna end badly.
@@dotcom3015oh come on, the red head was being canceled by the other girl of course she’s gonna watch that video over and over again especially if she’s being lied about 😭 not creepy just human
@@dotcom3015 what some people don't get is that Sophia is also being emotional with her reactions. I'm sure that getting death threats from desperate fans for going out with a guy who's single (ex of someone who's not even your friend) is disturbing and sticks with you.
She had me in the first half bc there are so many different expectations for different friendship types/acquaintances or colleagues. But to hop in after they're back together to go on about the date is wild. 😅unhinged fr how can you be upset at the gate then proceed this way?
Yeah same. Makes me rethink how honest she was being at the beginning. It's just bitchy behavior. But I don't care enough to give it more time past that lol. Both irrelevant
The girl is 23 and was out on TikTok trying to direct hate to her longterm ex calling him pathetic, and her for going on a date, so yeah, she probs thought fuck it I’ll make a video back
Exactly. Whether she thought they were close friends or not, or thought the situation and her feelings clearly being hurt were ridiculous or not, making that TikTok after they got back together was crazy insensitive and down-right mean.
@@nevermindmyname813she decided to hate on a girl she barely knows publicly over a guy that dumped her I think that warrants a reaction doesn’t it? (She doesn’t owe her a sensitive or nice response after that imo, it well within her right)
@@jehanalbataty6695 She reacted on her braindead podcast with Brad Mondo when the situation was relevant. Why she had to "react" again is beyond me, especially right when they got back together. And no, I guess she doesn't owe her sensitivity, but it does show her character
Ok yes Sophia is weird bringing this up again and the way she spoke about the guy was just awkward but Halley literally was calling him pathetic for going on that date and saying he homie hops but still got back together with him?
The way my partner of six years cheated on me with a 19yo he met on Valorant two weeks before the Eras tour concert he bought me VIP tickets for is juicer than this.
8:00 you can bash a girl (or anybody) who wronged you wtf is he talking about? What does HE know about the "girl code"? Being a girls girl doesn't mean letting other girls step all over you.
Its really dumb on her part to go back with a mf who literallt told her that they werent in love with her 🤦🏾♀️ but aye its her life so if she wants to be dumb then we have to ler her be that 🤷🏾♀️
1. Blonde girl is overdramatic he can date someone after and red head can go on a date with him, even if you were acquaintances. 2. Red head and mondo are right about you being allowed to date your friends fling. If your friend says no I really liked him and, or, was hurt by him then be a good friend and don’t obviously. 3. What mondo said about not being a girls girl if you say someone isn’t , is just stupid. 4. Red head shouldn’t have made that video now. Especially the first part of it. The other part, where she explained her side, was valid, but still a little too late.
@@ALYSSAAA369I say the most outrageous, sarcastic shit out there and yes you guessed it. People believe it . I be like “ So I basically bent over and told my accountant ‘ go head do it. the irs is already fucking me anyway. “ and they be like oh my God. You had sex with your accountant? “ 😂
@@ALYSSAAA369yeah I’m not sure why people keep taking that part seriously….shes obviously talking about the people who saw they went on a date and immediately started talking about it
It’s no way in hell I’m making a video about a man that’s NOW in his current relationship. It gives obsessive and it gives I still want your man. Period.
So that means Halley was unto something😂😂😂 even if in the beginning it wasn't like that, now what the red head did with that video describing her magical date just makes Halley not so delusional anymore.
If someone blasts me on social media and makes up lies about me just because I go out with her ex, I don't think anybody has a right to tell me when I should respond or how I should respond. F*ck the high road.
@@oceana311 yeah, cause lying about your ex's date being your friend, knowing that your minions will send her death threats for months (I'm willing to bet that the hate against Sophia never stopped), is the epitome of 'mature'. some of you were never harassed, and it shows.
sophia do have the right to go on a date but you have to be REALLY mean to go and talk about everything "how he kissed you, held you and gave you butterflies" is actually insane (MEAN GIRL ENERGY)
The timing too was just … since Halley and reed were getting hate from the deleted podcast like she was kicking her while she was down especially saying he was talkative on their date ☠️
I kinda feel like Halley is in the wrong..but hear me out. For me when I broke up with my first boyfriend we were both heartbroken and ended up friends with benefits for about a month before her cut things off because he found a new girlfriend, TWO months after our actual breakup. The girl was even someone I was just becoming friends with. That sucked. Did I ever tell anyone or go online to publicly bash him? No. I didn’t even hate her because I looked at it from her point of view a realized many things that weren’t her fault, it was just a crappy situation. 8 months later they broke up and she came to me about it because she didn’t know what else to do. We’re now becoming close friends again and I’m realizing how much my ex screwed us both over and is a shitty guy. Not to say the one in this situation is. BUT just because something goes wrong in your life doesn’t mean air it out on social media, something like this is so immature and stupid. The fact I am in high school when my situation happened and handled it better imo is actually insane. Everyone involved seems so immature.
This what I been thinking Halley looked too hurt for someone who broke up 3 weeks ago. she must have been friends with benefits with him. That is why she say he gaslighted her. Your ex is a terrible person. I am sorry this happened to you in your first relationship. You are mature even compared with people in their twenties.
I was in the same exact situation of her, like a literally down to every detail, and I have found the best thing to do is just cut for the guy and the girl off and just focus on living your life and driving because if they were happy with each other they wouldn’t include you in their drama, and if he was happy with you, she wouldn’t exist Focus on living for yourself not anybody else
Sophia did nothing wrong. It is *immaturity* driving the hate. She was allowed to share her side once the blonde girl brought it to the internet, & now she's moving on.
@@Loveiiliyahbecause blondie brought it up again💀Sophia probably only made that video to be petty since the other girl brought up the situation a year later for no reason
To wrap it up on what I saw in this video so far, it seems like this issue is similar to high school drama. It's really not that serious and we should all move on. Basically anything on the internet should not be taken seriously because it's not our business to begin with. Also, if you're going through something similar, I personally think it's better to not post about it and seek help from people that you trust. Yet again, I don't see this issue in the video as something serious.
To be fair during that podcast clip where she was kind of grilling him to give an answer. It's like he clearly is uncomfortable. He just doesn't want to be there like.
We are not defending Sophia, we are stating the obvious - it’s Guy’s fault!! The fact that Halley took his cheating ass back screams hypocrisy and desperate!! I would’ve respected her if she moved on but after taking back, I have zero sympathy!
@@dreamchaser7603 I’m not saying he’s in the right at all and that taking him back was a smart move at all, but that doesn’t change the fact that Sophia went about in such a nasty way and it’s really not uncommon. It should be called out and shamed.
That podcast with Reed is BRUTAL. I'm shocked they even posted it inthe first place 😬 Regardless, the red head girl seems like a snake, and I'm sad Brad mondo is involved lol
Spill did mention that he is not an influencer so maybe speaking of infront of the camera made him nervous. I kind of understand him as someone who doesn't even post a selfie or anything online,if someone put me on camera to speak,I wouldn't utter a word😅
@@sanez25I’ve been following this since they got back together, he generally looks like he doesn’t want to be around Halley so that’s a huge reason why they got so much sht for that podcast. He looks at her like he hates her. Also they allegedly got into a massive screaming fight in the Hamptons a month ago in front of a CVS and they basically confirmed it happened.
I see girl Code the same Way tho …. Her bringing it to TikTok first without giving her a chance to reply, (people are busy ffs) she jumped the gun and instead of waiting for Sophia to reply and Be like “Yeah we organised this ages ago, I didn’t think you’d mind considering we’re not friends… I’m Really sorry it upset you” but she wasn’t even given a day to reply….. she jumped the gun and made numerous TikTok’s about it, and even messaged saying “I see you’re online so I guess you’ve seen this” Like Girl that’s fkn gross energy, Just as gross as going on a date with your coworkers ex. They are both mean girls
also it’s hilarious how most of these people stand up for women and their rights and well being, yet are completely tearing down another woman just because 1 other woman who didn’t like her made a whole rumor about her …. cancel culture is very weird!
The blonde girl is giving mean girl energy, to her boyfriend too, bad vibes and like she’s that friend where if you do something wrong she’d go on a mission to bitch about you to everyone and tell everyone your secrets
Sophia is a mean girl, not a girl’s girl… it’s very possible Halley considered them friends and Sophia didn’t because that’s just how their two brains defined the relationship. Two things can be true at once. Halley thought there was SOME loyalty there and maybe she shouldn’t have had that expectation, she even said in the podcast Sophia didn’t really owe it to her but since they were hanging out the night before and Sophia didn’t mention it or was buddy buddy the night night before, I can see why it’s frustrating. As for him saying he’s not the love of your life, can’t help you with that. Sometimes hurt people say really powerful things but some time away may have helped. They’re young and back together so at the end of the day, let them be together and if they break up, they break up. As far as Sophia, I hope she realizes that being mean gets your nowhere and that being pretty isn’t the only thing to life.
Okay… I thought the blondie was judging the red head harshly saying she’s not a girls girl for going on a date with him when she barely knew her… but her sharing that story during this podcast drama shows that she’s DEF NOT a girl’s girl.
Halley should be ashamed. Her and her bf broke up, then he quickly went on a date with another girl. Then proceeded to say that he didn’t love you and instead of being mad at him, she takes to social media to flame the girl he went on a date with? And then on top of that takes the guy back? How did people allow themselves to be swept up in Sophia hate train when she’s low key the victim here?
Ok, can we acknowledge how weird it is to be in a relationship where you’re together 24/7 from day 1? That makes me feel claustrophobic. I don’t think that’s healthy at all. You’ve got to keep your own identity in some ways. That’s probably why he freaked out and bolted in the first place. I feel bad for her because he seems uninterested and like he came back because he could.
She didn’t actually do anything wrong, they were both single and she admits she wasn’t friends with the other girl. She didn’t need to respond to the texts, it’s nobody’s business.
Technically speaking, Sophia and the ex were allowed to do whatever they want since him and Halley were officially broken up. I think however it would not have mattered who the first girl he went out with since the break up was. I think Halley was just hurt. Personally, I don’t think 3 weeks is a long time either and that is sketchy on the guy's part. Sophia bringing up their date and rubbing it in was just not necessary.
Ew why would you make a video about ONE date that you went on with someone a year ago, right after that someone goes public with their current relationship. THAT is not a girls girl.
Everyone that is coming for the other girl is what is wrong with Society why isn't anyone saying anything about the guys shitty actions??????? Saying that you're finding yourself to justify your horrible decisions is wild bro.
Yea this dude clearly enjoys seeing two women fight over him like this. He used the infamous "i just dont love you anymore" excuse when in reality he was probably just messaging and meeting other girls but didn't want to be a total asshat by admitting that. Hence why he came back after having his fun and she played right into it. I feel for both of these girls because they obviosuly have self-esteem issues and this guy needs to figure his shit out.
Notice how no one drags or even ever criticized the guy? Also ask yourself why Halley only now blew this up months and months after this happened when she got back with the dude… Like they were NOT girlfriend and boyfriend when Sophia had that date with him and Sophia and Halley are also not friends ("hanging out at an influencer event" doesn’t equal being friends). Now people drag Sophia and call her all sorts of horrible names on her social media when she did nothing wrong. I agree she can come across as a bit difficult, but I would too if someone publicly accused me of "stealing their boyfriend". And Halley is still doing this btw. Talking about this on TikTok, podcasts etc. and people are accusing not her but Sophia for clout chasing because she still mentions this topic too, when she’s only reacting to the hate and accusations and defending herself.
Idk sophia is valid, the other girls are giving insecure psychos, like how are you gonna be mad at your ex for moving on (so much so that you have to drag another girl, who you weren’t friends with, down)
I’ve been avoiding looking into this drama any deeper because honestly just listening to all of this is mentally draining for me even if it’s not happening to me but since spill sesh is breaking everything down I guess I’ll watch lol
The redhead also wrote some mean girl responses last year like your ex looks good on me or something about the bottom her shoe. In all this, I know I would have actually responded to the acquaintance that messaged me even if we just met through work and hung out a few times. This guy Reed could just be an introvert that is not good on podcasts but who knows. Either way Hayley seems like a kind beautiful girl that keeps it real so rooting for her.
I literally couldn’t imagine if I posted to thousands of followers my boyfriend at 23. Like I’m cringing so hard for my 23 year-old self who also got back with the guy who told her he didn’t love her like that anymore 😂 🤣
Him: You're not the love of my life! Her: I'm going to harass and bully you till you come back to me. Him: If you stop harassing me, we can give it another go. Reed blink if you need help?
They’re fighting over HIM!? 💀💀 Halley needs to get a grip that was the perfect exit out that man’s life. He basically told her he did not want her & she decides “hmmm let’s give it another shot.” What?? It definitely shows that this is her first relationship. They’re all misguided.
They’re literally in their young 20s. I guarantee you he only broke up with her to go sleep with other women and then decided he wants a relationship again.
it’s like yeah sophia is weird as F but halley went back to him😭making a big fuss for a man who said she’s not the love of his life..? no respect for herself
Girrrlll if you have to say your name “hi it’s me Haley” when you message someone SHES NOT YOUR FRIEND🙄🙄 and owes you ZIPPUHHH. the blonde needs to calm down. 🙄🙄
Sophia is saying how am I supposed to meet a man if I can’t be with someone a friend has been with. There are thousands around and she was texting him the day they were hanging out. Those don’t have correlation. I don’t usually feel much about this kind of news or whatever but that is CRAZY. Who does that? Also why is brad talking about what is and isn’t a girls girl he’s a man
I think that what Halley was saying got a bit misconstrued. Of course she doesn’t “own” her ex, she was just hurt like anyone would be imo because right after their break up, he went on a date with someone she thought was friendly with her. It also is weird that the other girl went out of her way to message him after the breakup since he’s not an influencer and she knew of them being together beforehand… especially with her saying that he gave her butterflies 😭😭
all I know is that none of these people have business having a podcast
i feel like brad could have a podcast, he has a big personality and a lot of knowledge as a professional hairdresser. but, he went the drama podcast chatting on a couch with a tiktoker instead
No no no. We enjoy these messy dramatic prople😂😂
@@grey6703true but now I’ve lost so much respect for him after hearing what he had to say on the podcast and who’s his friend is
exactly why do all these people have podcasts its ridiculous lol
Exactly 😂
Imagine you get back together with a person who told you that you are not the love of his life 😭
Damn I think I did 🤡😭😭😭
The pod cast clips were hard to watch too
@@Ugh_mommythoughts and prayers babe
I totally agree with this, but I would give him a pass on the podcast clip. He just looked uncomfortable in front of a camera to me.
Yeah been there done that like 5 times with one person. It NEVER works out in the end
Im sorry, thats the man these two are fighting over? Listening to him on that podcast was like listening to a piece of cardboard describe paint drying
Hahahahaa this made me cackle
It was SO PAINFUL. 😂
Thank you, it pissed me off and I straight up said "oh lord have mercy" 😫
Kind of like Nate Jacob’s from euphoria being quiet when he was guilty lmao
That guy DID NOT grab a girl and kiss her in a hotel lobby or wherever
They're all in their early 20s, and it really shows.
20s? They seem like teenagers 18-19
@@Taecoconut there really isn't a difference, you're late tens and 20s is when you're making mistakes, navigating boundaries and social circles, creating drama, etc... Once you're past that phase, THAT'S when you're a real adult.
So true because in my early 20s up to like 26 I finally grew up emotionally @@heatherbonelli
Both girls are desperate. Halley was a weirdo for calling out Sophia just to take him back and Sophia is a weirdo for thirsting over a man that was single for .5 seconds and then hyping up the date knowing he’s taken.
I was thinking exactly this!😂😂😂
Nah, she's not thirsting, she's clearly being petty and poking her for a reaction. As an honorary petty bitch, I'd do the same, just as soon as they get back together. Because, that girl had no right to lie and create drama for nothing.
I agree both weird and the man seems to have the personality of a wet paper tissue lmaoooo
As a 36 year old woman, I think this is just a lot of immaturity and lack of life/relationship experience. In a decade, they will both look back and cringe at the fact that they ever beefed with another woman over a man.
Especially *that* man
I mean I wouldn’t sleep with my friends ex
@@kiwibeardrama2308i wouldn’t either but they weren’t friends
As a 40 yr old woman, I fully agree.
@@MikuH8sU well the blonde girl says otherwise so
It's giving undeveloped pre-frontal cortex
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😂😂😂😂😂
Damn!!😂😂😂😂
She is 23 what do you expect
I hope my life never gets this stupidly boring and meaningless 🙄
It's gonna get more crazier soon 🙏😂
SAME
@@graymats am so pissed like a punch won't be enough to take off a face for me
Right😂 im unable to work and struggle with my self worth, but my god at least my life isn't like this😂
This comment section is lame. This is a drama channel, it’s exactly the place to find petty influencer relationship drama. Your life just might already be meaningless enough if your choosing to comment and engage
brad "calling out a woman for not being a girls girl means youre not a girls girl" what?!
Same "logic" Blake Lively's costar tried to use on us: dont criticise her bec. she is ... a woman!
🤨🙄
thank you
Gay men need to exit the conversation tbh.
I think what he means and how it should tbh is “ calling out a woman u barely know publicly over a guy that dumped u is the opposite of a girls girl” she’s concerned abt the wrong thing “the love of her life” was on that date too if she wants someone to blame should be him
@@tiffany.Elizabeth.i agreed and im gay lol it’s weird his take. When usually the gay guys love to hookup with everyone.
I dont know who these people are. But the issue is kinda meh. Blonde is hurt a guy she liked left her and hooked up with someone who claims isn't even her friend. Aww.
But the girl's girl convo... Brad and red head are being stupid.
All of them are in the wrong but this issue is so petty.
Honestly having lived in NY its just as fake as LA, and Sophie is not a girls girl and thats OK. Not everyone HAS to be nice, but just dont pretend youre misunderstood when you know you're just a greentea girl. You are the friends you keep, Brad. 😉
@SaintShion what’s a green tea girl? 👀
That dude is not worth the drama lol. Also... Mmm let me keep this part to myself instead 😂
no no say it. bc that's frrr. like it's always women being the center of the drama when the men IS THE REAL PROBLEM!! .. (eg. selena and hailey drama, when justin kept silenced the whole time)
@@fhadilscout9496right like girls pls 😭 he’s just a man
@@fhadilscout9496 yep, these guys are covert narcissists. He went back with Halley because she was obsessed and probably doing a lot for him. He'll leave her again soon I'm sure.
guys. you know sophia just brought all of this up again now so that everyone’s eyes would be on her and people would eagerly watch the first ep of her pod with brad?
@@fhadilscout9496and then fake feminists are busy calling women not a “girls girl” instead of calling out men
moral of the story is it's not that serous
*serious
@Lanaxparillaxwife like I said it's not that Sirius 😂 jk lol
It NEVER is 😂
A 9month relationship isn't a "fling"
When you break up with someone that person is allowed to go out with other people isnt that normal human behavior
tru but it was said the girl while hanging out with her messaged him first for a date?!
this! ^ like he didnt cheat, they are still young, he didnt lead her on, and it was a date. its not like they had a vegas wedding right after they broke up
@@nathanho6790it was planned a week prior, blondies being dramatic
What isn’t normal human behavior is going online a year after a date and over sharing about their date only because him and his ex got back together... that’s beyond petty and gross tbh
@@ughunless bring back diaries and journals
Halley is nuts for messaging Sophia after she went on the date and then saying “I can see you’re active on tiktok.” So creepy and the expectation of an instant response/availability is ridiculous.
Nothing will make me ignore you forever by saying “I see you are online” like why yes I am but not here for you. She’s desperate and it shows by the way she flips out over a guy who said he doesn’t love her going out with a girl who claims they aren’t friends (not in each other contacts so I believe it) then she takes the guy back once he realizes he can play her like a violin. Desperation isn’t the way to navigate your dating life it’s just gonna end badly.
Halle was being emotional. sophia being able to lip sync to Halle’s rant word for word was creepy
@@dotcom3015oh come on, the red head was being canceled by the other girl of course she’s gonna watch that video over and over again especially if she’s being lied about 😭 not creepy just human
@@dotcom3015 what some people don't get is that Sophia is also being emotional with her reactions. I'm sure that getting death threats from desperate fans for going out with a guy who's single (ex of someone who's not even your friend) is disturbing and sticks with you.
You know what’s crazy, you literally don’t have to share ANYTHING to your audience. That big long note sharing her relationship is fucking ridiculous
I don’t cringe often but that that long note had me running for cover
I can’t tell if I get bad vibes from her because she’s cringe or because she low level diabolical
LITERALLY 😂😂
She had me in the first half bc there are so many different expectations for different friendship types/acquaintances or colleagues. But to hop in after they're back together to go on about the date is wild. 😅unhinged fr how can you be upset at the gate then proceed this way?
Yeah same. Makes me rethink how honest she was being at the beginning. It's just bitchy behavior. But I don't care enough to give it more time past that lol. Both irrelevant
The girl is 23 and was out on TikTok trying to direct hate to her longterm ex calling him pathetic, and her for going on a date, so yeah, she probs thought fuck it I’ll make a video back
Exactly. Whether she thought they were close friends or not, or thought the situation and her feelings clearly being hurt were ridiculous or not, making that TikTok after they got back together was crazy insensitive and down-right mean.
@@nevermindmyname813she decided to hate on a girl she barely knows publicly over a guy that dumped her I think that warrants a reaction doesn’t it? (She doesn’t owe her a sensitive or nice response after that imo, it well within her right)
@@jehanalbataty6695 She reacted on her braindead podcast with Brad Mondo when the situation was relevant. Why she had to "react" again is beyond me, especially right when they got back together. And no, I guess she doesn't owe her sensitivity, but it does show her character
these two girls are the main topic of conversation and being pitted against each other while the man walks away unscathed …. yet again
Ok yes Sophia is weird bringing this up again and the way she spoke about the guy was just awkward but Halley literally was calling him pathetic for going on that date and saying he homie hops but still got back together with him?
all this over the worlds most mediocre man LADIES STAND UP
It’s just cause he’s hot. Never let a man treat you badly just because he’s hot.
I 2nd this. They are acting like he is a Kennedy scion and/or has Bezos' deep pockets. Medium-to-average looking w. men are not scarce!
@@floriduhgeorgia hes not hot
The D must be fantastic cause I don't see what they're fighting over for💀
The way my partner of six years cheated on me with a 19yo he met on Valorant two weeks before the Eras tour concert he bought me VIP tickets for is juicer than this.
Omg were u able to go to the concert at least 😭😭😭
this is insane ?? not to be that person but this would be a crazy story time😭
Don’t be shy drop her tag
Right I’m ab to make a channel Bc my life is wayyy more interesting & I’ve finally calmed down enough to share it 😅
@@augustdeluna1062Asking the REAL questions. Hope they could still go. 😂😅
8:00 you can bash a girl (or anybody) who wronged you wtf is he talking about? What does HE know about the "girl code"? Being a girls girl doesn't mean letting other girls step all over you.
18:11 ur man who said he didn’t see himself with u anymore and didn’t love u anymore and also tried to gaslight you when he went on that date.
the mics on the "podcast" arent even on.. but hope shes doing well
As soon as I noticed, your comment popped up lmaoo
@@hi0im0tylerwait how can you tell !
Nvm I can hear it .. nvm
Its really dumb on her part to go back with a mf who literallt told her that they werent in love with her 🤦🏾♀️ but aye its her life so if she wants to be dumb then we have to ler her be that 🤷🏾♀️
For sure. And you can tell he does not want to be back with her!
1. Blonde girl is overdramatic he can date someone after and red head can go on a date with him, even if you were acquaintances. 2. Red head and mondo are right about you being allowed to date your friends fling. If your friend says no I really liked him and, or, was hurt by him then be a good friend and don’t obviously. 3. What mondo said about not being a girls girl if you say someone isn’t , is just stupid. 4. Red head shouldn’t have made that video now. Especially the first part of it. The other part, where she explained her side, was valid, but still a little too late.
“I guess the paparazzi cared” loool she thinks photographers know who they are??
Pretty sure she was being sarcastic . Especially after the collar comment
@@ALYSSAAA369I say the most outrageous, sarcastic shit out there and yes you guessed it. People believe it . I be like “ So I basically bent over and told my accountant ‘ go head do it. the irs is already fucking me anyway. “ and they be like oh my God. You had sex with your accountant? “ 😂
@@ALYSSAAA369yeah I’m not sure why people keep taking that part seriously….shes obviously talking about the people who saw they went on a date and immediately started talking about it
Girl does anyone not know What sarcasm is? Its obviously a joke to the people who observed them together and ratted it out
It’s no way in hell I’m making a video about a man that’s NOW in his current relationship. It gives obsessive and it gives I still want your man. Period.
Period! Cringe!!
So that means Halley was unto something😂😂😂 even if in the beginning it wasn't like that, now what the red head did with that video describing her magical date just makes Halley not so delusional anymore.
If someone blasts me on social media and makes up lies about me just because I go out with her ex, I don't think anybody has a right to tell me when I should respond or how I should respond. F*ck the high road.
@@Mamamia-t5gthen you’re immature lol simple as that
@@oceana311 yeah, cause lying about your ex's date being your friend, knowing that your minions will send her death threats for months (I'm willing to bet that the hate against Sophia never stopped), is the epitome of 'mature'. some of you were never harassed, and it shows.
sophia do have the right to go on a date but you have to be REALLY mean to go and talk about everything "how he kissed you, held you and gave you butterflies" is actually insane (MEAN GIRL ENERGY)
The timing too was just … since Halley and reed were getting hate from the deleted podcast like she was kicking her while she was down especially saying he was talkative on their date ☠️
@@SpillSesh exactly !!!! also i love your videos
I knew Halley in college and were grown up now so maybe she changed but she was NOT a girls girl back in the day
Elaborate lmao
SPILL THE TEA
I beg you to elaborate on the nycinfluencersnarking subreddit
I could see that.
Most women who claim to be girl's girl are the opposite
NEVER LET A MAN TELL YOU HE DOESN’T WANT YOU TWICE!!👏🏼
Off topic but at 5:00 .. Why do they have microphones when they clearly aren’t working 🥲🥲
Lmaoooo I was thinking that
The reason I came to the commentsssss
I kinda feel like Halley is in the wrong..but hear me out.
For me when I broke up with my first boyfriend we were both heartbroken and ended up friends with benefits for about a month before her cut things off because he found a new girlfriend, TWO months after our actual breakup. The girl was even someone I was just becoming friends with. That sucked. Did I ever tell anyone or go online to publicly bash him? No. I didn’t even hate her because I looked at it from her point of view a realized many things that weren’t her fault, it was just a crappy situation. 8 months later they broke up and she came to me about it because she didn’t know what else to do. We’re now becoming close friends again and I’m realizing how much my ex screwed us both over and is a shitty guy. Not to say the one in this situation is. BUT just because something goes wrong in your life doesn’t mean air it out on social media, something like this is so immature and stupid. The fact I am in high school when my situation happened and handled it better imo is actually insane. Everyone involved seems so immature.
This what I been thinking Halley looked too hurt for someone who broke up 3 weeks ago. she must have been friends with benefits with him. That is why she say he gaslighted her. Your ex is a terrible person. I am sorry this happened to you in your first relationship. You are mature even compared with people in their twenties.
I was in the same exact situation of her, like a literally down to every detail, and I have found the best thing to do is just cut for the guy and the girl off and just focus on living your life and driving because if they were happy with each other they wouldn’t include you in their drama, and if he was happy with you, she wouldn’t exist Focus on living for yourself not anybody else
Halle or whatever her name is needs to fucking calm down she’s going to chase this guy away again.
She was upset last year. She didn’t react this time
You can't chase something that is meant for you. If he leaves, that man ain't even worth a chase to get him back either.
@@ellegrey13 Crazy ass behaviour can chase anyone with an ounce of sanity away luv. Whether it’s destiny or not….
9 months is not a fling, though lol. Weird. Her timing was so crazy, an absolutely insane thing to do!
What gets me is Sophia knowing she's rage baiting, and then getting mad at people for responding to the rage bait. And CONTINUING to make more.
Sophia did nothing wrong. It is *immaturity* driving the hate. She was allowed to share her side once the blonde girl brought it to the internet, & now she's moving on.
Exactly!
Um she’s not moving on though
@@dalishrogue3621She shared her side 2 days ago! 😂
the redhead should’ve responded when it was relevant, why respond when they’re back together??? It’s weird asfk
@@Loveiiliyahbecause blondie brought it up again💀Sophia probably only made that video to be petty since the other girl brought up the situation a year later for no reason
This guy's gonna have a big head with all this unnecessary fighting over him
Omg reed is dry af I’d be embarrassed if my man answered like that
😂
It’s giving gossip girl storyline
This isn't news.
This is snooze.
💤💤💤💤💤
It's cold and raining and yeah I don't want to leave my bed period
This is a drama channel, tf u talking about
Who are these people???
Humans 😂😂
Stop😂😂😂 ikr
Consider yourself lucky
To wrap it up on what I saw in this video so far, it seems like this issue is similar to high school drama. It's really not that serious and we should all move on. Basically anything on the internet should not be taken seriously because it's not our business to begin with.
Also, if you're going through something similar, I personally think it's better to not post about it and seek help from people that you trust. Yet again, I don't see this issue in the video as something serious.
Best reply 👏🏼
To be fair during that podcast clip where she was kind of grilling him to give an answer. It's like he clearly is uncomfortable. He just doesn't want to be there like.
Sophia gives me the grossest vibes. The people defending her only are cause they do the same stuff. Some women are just vile.
They BOTH give me the same vibes
We are not defending Sophia, we are stating the obvious - it’s Guy’s fault!! The fact that Halley took his cheating ass back screams hypocrisy and desperate!! I would’ve respected her if she moved on but after taking back, I have zero sympathy!
@@dreamchaser7603 I’m not saying he’s in the right at all and that taking him back was a smart move at all, but that doesn’t change the fact that Sophia went about in such a nasty way and it’s really not uncommon. It should be called out and shamed.
3 weeks after 9 months of dating ... try 2 weeks after 3 years of dating 😅 yup, that happened to me !
Though, the fact he said he didn’t see her being the love of his life - I dunno.. I wouldn’t expect him to grieve, for very long, if that’s the case..
That podcast with Reed is BRUTAL. I'm shocked they even posted it inthe first place 😬
Regardless, the red head girl seems like a snake, and I'm sad Brad mondo is involved lol
Spill did mention that he is not an influencer so maybe speaking of infront of the camera made him nervous. I kind of understand him as someone who doesn't even post a selfie or anything online,if someone put me on camera to speak,I wouldn't utter a word😅
@@sanez25I’ve been following this since they got back together, he generally looks like he doesn’t want to be around Halley so that’s a huge reason why they got so much sht for that podcast. He looks at her like he hates her. Also they allegedly got into a massive screaming fight in the Hamptons a month ago in front of a CVS and they basically confirmed it happened.
That man definitely does not want to be with her.
Why is brad mondo giving his opinion on girl code? You aint a girl honey
I see girl Code the same Way tho ….
Her bringing it to TikTok first without giving her a chance to reply, (people are busy ffs) she jumped the gun and instead of waiting for
Sophia to reply and
Be like
“Yeah we organised this ages ago, I didn’t think you’d mind considering we’re not friends… I’m
Really sorry it upset you” but she wasn’t even given a day to reply….. she jumped the gun and made numerous TikTok’s about it, and even messaged saying “I see you’re online so I guess you’ve seen this”
Like
Girl that’s fkn gross energy,
Just as gross as going on a date with your coworkers ex.
They are both mean girls
Right
so basically he moved on and she couldn’t handle it so she made it drama tiktok be having most random drama 💀
also it’s hilarious how most of these people stand up for women and their rights and well being, yet are completely tearing down another woman just because 1 other woman who didn’t like her made a whole rumor about her …. cancel culture is very weird!
The blonde girl is giving mean girl energy, to her boyfriend too, bad vibes and like she’s that friend where if you do something wrong she’d go on a mission to bitch about you to everyone and tell everyone your secrets
The mean girl behavior is crazy
the blonde girl seems like she wants to be the main character
Will she is a blonde 😂
@@ringo2ne199they always get punched in the 👀 face 😭
@@JamilaJibril-e8hweird
The way she’s going out of her way to hurt her a YEAR after just cause they got back together… it’s so gross
A year after she rallied the internet to hate on her for no reason…..
Sophia is a mean girl, not a girl’s girl… it’s very possible Halley considered them friends and Sophia didn’t because that’s just how their two brains defined the relationship. Two things can be true at once. Halley thought there was SOME loyalty there and maybe she shouldn’t have had that expectation, she even said in the podcast Sophia didn’t really owe it to her but since they were hanging out the night before and Sophia didn’t mention it or was buddy buddy the night night before, I can see why it’s frustrating.
As for him saying he’s not the love of your life, can’t help you with that. Sometimes hurt people say really powerful things but some time away may have helped. They’re young and back together so at the end of the day, let them be together and if they break up, they break up.
As far as Sophia, I hope she realizes that being mean gets your nowhere and that being pretty isn’t the only thing to life.
Okay… I thought the blondie was judging the red head harshly saying she’s not a girls girl for going on a date with him when she barely knew her… but her sharing that story during this podcast drama shows that she’s DEF NOT a girl’s girl.
Must be slow drama week that this is being covered
No it’s literally ALL OVER Reddit and TikTok lmao of course she will cover it
@@brbrs6261 oh I know. This comment was directed at everyone covering it lol no hate here was just a general comment
Halley should be ashamed. Her and her bf broke up, then he quickly went on a date with another girl. Then proceeded to say that he didn’t love you and instead of being mad at him, she takes to social media to flame the girl he went on a date with? And then on top of that takes the guy back? How did people allow themselves to be swept up in Sophia hate train when she’s low key the victim here?
My question is: who are these people? 😂
But also, I’m loving a petty ginger
this genuinely might be the dumbest thing you've covered
Ok, can we acknowledge how weird it is to be in a relationship where you’re together 24/7 from day 1? That makes me feel claustrophobic. I don’t think that’s healthy at all. You’ve got to keep your own identity in some ways. That’s probably why he freaked out and bolted in the first place. I feel bad for her because he seems uninterested and like he came back because he could.
She didn’t actually do anything wrong, they were both single and she admits she wasn’t friends with the other girl. She didn’t need to respond to the texts, it’s nobody’s business.
Technically speaking, Sophia and the ex were allowed to do whatever they want since him and Halley were officially broken up. I think however it would not have mattered who the first girl he went out with since the break up was. I think Halley was just hurt. Personally, I don’t think 3 weeks is a long time either and that is sketchy on the guy's part. Sophia bringing up their date and rubbing it in was just not necessary.
I like this take, very balanced.
I live in New York - this is why I only date people I know are 100% serious (which is also why I'm single lol)
Lol we’re their mics even on during the girls girls podcast?
Ew why would you make a video about ONE date that you went on with someone a year ago, right after that someone goes public with their current relationship.
THAT is not a girls girl.
Everyone that is coming for the other girl is what is wrong with Society why isn't anyone saying anything about the guys shitty actions??????? Saying that you're finding yourself to justify your horrible decisions is wild bro.
What's the guy's shitty actions? Moving on and dating someone new after a breakup?
@@xa1239no telling her she wasn’t the love of his life and that he basically never loved her and then getting back with her lol
Yea this dude clearly enjoys seeing two women fight over him like this. He used the infamous "i just dont love you anymore" excuse when in reality he was probably just messaging and meeting other girls but didn't want to be a total asshat by admitting that. Hence why he came back after having his fun and she played right into it. I feel for both of these girls because they obviosuly have self-esteem issues and this guy needs to figure his shit out.
Why is that "girl's girl" is so important to some women??😭 I don't understand lol
The redhead is obviously a mean girl even if the blonde didn’t have the right to be upset about him goin on a date when he was single
he reminds me of my middle school boyfriend during that podcast bit lol
Notice how no one drags or even ever criticized the guy? Also ask yourself why Halley only now blew this up months and months after this happened when she got back with the dude… Like they were NOT girlfriend and boyfriend when Sophia had that date with him and Sophia and Halley are also not friends ("hanging out at an influencer event" doesn’t equal being friends). Now people drag Sophia and call her all sorts of horrible names on her social media when she did nothing wrong. I agree she can come across as a bit difficult, but I would too if someone publicly accused me of "stealing their boyfriend". And Halley is still doing this btw. Talking about this on TikTok, podcasts etc. and people are accusing not her but Sophia for clout chasing because she still mentions this topic too, when she’s only reacting to the hate and accusations and defending herself.
Bro totally used her for the apartment.
Idk sophia is valid, the other girls are giving insecure psychos, like how are you gonna be mad at your ex for moving on (so much so that you have to drag another girl, who you weren’t friends with, down)
I’ve been avoiding looking into this drama any deeper because honestly just listening to all of this is mentally draining for me even if it’s not happening to me but since spill sesh is breaking everything down I guess I’ll watch lol
Im a grown ass man watching these videos, becuase i love drama and hate on these "influencers".
The redhead also wrote some mean girl responses last year like your ex looks good on me or something about the bottom her shoe. In all this, I know I would have actually responded to the acquaintance that messaged me even if we just met through work and hung out a few times. This guy Reed could just be an introvert that is not good on podcasts but who knows. Either way Hayley seems like a kind beautiful girl that keeps it real so rooting for her.
All these people are gross ☠️
Period
Oh my gosh, the clip of the podcast they dragged the two boyfriends into is so painful to watch. She was a thorn in his side.
I literally couldn’t imagine if I posted to thousands of followers my boyfriend at 23. Like I’m cringing so hard for my 23 year-old self who also got back with the guy who told her he didn’t love her like that anymore 😂 🤣
i'd be embarrassed if i was involved with any of this bs 😂 like what do u mean ur arguing over some guy 😂
Who are these people?! Why am I watching this?! 😂
Ehhh. Not a huge deal whatsoever. Blown out of proportion
Him: You're not the love of my life!
Her: I'm going to harass and bully you till you come back to me.
Him: If you stop harassing me, we can give it another go.
Reed blink if you need help?
17:05 idk these girls at all but the way she stated he was the opposite of everything he was on that podcast almost on purpose. Weird … lmfaoooo
lmfaooo true wtf
She's just jealous he moved on and used her platform to attack the new girl lol
They’re fighting over HIM!? 💀💀
Halley needs to get a grip that was the perfect exit out that man’s life. He basically told her he did not want her & she decides “hmmm let’s give it another shot.” What?? It definitely shows that this is her first relationship. They’re all misguided.
people be making up problems when they have nothing else to worry about.
sometimes the internet drama feels like going to high school again...
They’re literally in their young 20s. I guarantee you he only broke up with her to go sleep with other women and then decided he wants a relationship again.
I think we just need to collectively stop letting people be influencers
been waiting for you to cover this
i feel like a man should not be the one to decide what defines a girl’s girl. just me?
it’s like yeah sophia is weird as F but halley went back to him😭making a big fuss for a man who said she’s not the love of his life..? no respect for herself
I think that’s the most awkward podcast clips I have ever seen 😅
Sophia thought she ate with that collar comment she definitely had it in her head before filming
Girrrlll if you have to say your name “hi it’s me Haley” when you message someone SHES NOT YOUR FRIEND🙄🙄 and owes you ZIPPUHHH. the blonde needs to calm down. 🙄🙄
Sophia is saying how am I supposed to meet a man if I can’t be with someone a friend has been with. There are thousands around and she was texting him the day they were hanging out. Those don’t have correlation. I don’t usually feel much about this kind of news or whatever but that is CRAZY. Who does that? Also why is brad talking about what is and isn’t a girls girl he’s a man
The world is lacking a lot of self love…these girls are a prime example of it 😭
I think that what Halley was saying got a bit misconstrued. Of course she doesn’t “own” her ex, she was just hurt like anyone would be imo because right after their break up, he went on a date with someone she thought was friendly with her. It also is weird that the other girl went out of her way to message him after the breakup since he’s not an influencer and she knew of them being together beforehand… especially with her saying that he gave her butterflies 😭😭