DEEscussions with Dee-1 - Ep 1 - Love or Career ft Sevetri Wilson

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 23 ก.ค. 2024
  • On this episode, Dee-1 and Sevetri discuss the challenges of professional, successful women looking for love. Is it harder for a successful woman to find a life partner?
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    Special thanks to @sevetriwilson for being our guest and Katrina W. and Jakari Lister for camera/edit work.
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  • @heysplays4752
    @heysplays4752 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Dee 1 i miss your music so much. Your a big inspiration to me. You helped me connect with God really deeply. My mom was murdered when i was 3 and I’ve been depressed at the age of 13 and listening to your music and your words of wisdom showed me i need to make a difference in this world and make my life positive for me and the people around me. I’m not lying about my parents either. Look up Brian David Payne. I wish i could meet you or just even have a FaceTime conversation with u. Stay focused on your lane and get your message out man.i pray god guides you throughout your journey and i pray he shows you how to achieve happiness for you and others. Love you man and keep inspiring others like me 😊😊😊😊✊✊❤️❤️❤️

  • @TheThirtyJourney
    @TheThirtyJourney 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    When Dee1 started talking about the missing ingredient at the end tho… 🙌🏾 That was the perfect way to end this convo and I completely 100% agree. Learning about each other’s love languages, personality traits and other attributes are very important. However, when it comes to following and submitting to a man of God that can lead, that is what’s most important to me. If God isn’t truly in the forefront of our relationship and our overall foundation, it’s pointless IMO. And a lot of people miss this because they are trying to make things work that God didn’t ordain to begin with and trying to heal and fix things that are broken without Him. Truly enjoyed this convo and can most definitely understand Sevetri’s struggle when it comes to dating lol

    • @tiffaneeh8376
      @tiffaneeh8376 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The Thirty Journey This is what matters thee Most!! Your on it !! 🔥

    • @TheThirtyJourney
      @TheThirtyJourney 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tiffanee H thanks! ✨

  • @normabarros3124
    @normabarros3124 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is really good conversation. I pray they both find who God has for them in Jesus.

  • @jasondelong1
    @jasondelong1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The power couple is one that understands and applies that understanding towards their purpose of life given by Our Creator. This is encompassing of all the attributes of a marriage between a man and woman.

  • @jashaunnabrown1494
    @jashaunnabrown1494 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Tearing that cake up🤣🤣🤣💕

  • @judithsonnnier253
    @judithsonnnier253 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The simple and blessed life Rich in love is not money...Much-Love.

  • @kianathompson4591
    @kianathompson4591 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Where have you been Dee 1? Good seeing you and your true words. Amen Stay Blessed 🙏😇

  • @idajones9928
    @idajones9928 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You are very inspiring young man I'm 64 years old I m so impressed you doing the right thing keep your eye on the north star

  • @bgarrison21
    @bgarrison21 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I really love this talk, both of you dropped some gems. God bless!

  • @ketinarenea8499
    @ketinarenea8499 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Enjoyed the convo. I liked hearing both point of views. I really appreciate the lady's view points especially the idea of a traditional household with each person still working toward their own individual goals while moving together as a unit. Yassssss!!!!

  • @karmencummings5463
    @karmencummings5463 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i enjoyed the conversation...especially when they spoke on RESPONSIBILITY : )

  • @lyonessetech6926
    @lyonessetech6926 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this format. More DEEscussions please!

  • @Tneek
    @Tneek 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Nice convo! The thought of us watching our life stories on social media eek, true bt scary!
    At 59mins the vid jumps back btw! Bless✌🏾

  • @tabithaquinn1984
    @tabithaquinn1984 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was a great discussion! Looking forward to episode 2

  • @MsMuffin2008
    @MsMuffin2008 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I appreciate being able to hear these perspectives and love that they respected each other throughout their different views.

  • @capt_pbj4856
    @capt_pbj4856 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I thought that was nia long for a second

  • @ktdin319
    @ktdin319 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome video... watched the whole thing.

  • @siantelove
    @siantelove 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I like the way my pastors did it. At first his wife was the breadwinner while he went to seminary & then when he got his degree & found a stable church position, she quit her job & now he's taking care of her. Kinda like your Michelle & Barack example. it's all about teamwork.

  • @Theotherrjas
    @Theotherrjas 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Everything that’s was said in this video was on point I really like David view point they are so similar to mines especially the part bout family and being content and being spiritual grounded with God and putting in work for the community giving back and helping ppl that’s beautiful that’s exactly how i see my family being with God at the center this was touching

  • @vannablack2878
    @vannablack2878 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This interview was so entertaining and real!

  • @marcusmuhammad2185
    @marcusmuhammad2185 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is a great episode!

  • @teishamisunderstood339
    @teishamisunderstood339 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love this man...He so intelligent 🤓♥️😍

  • @sierralafaye
    @sierralafaye 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Loved this!!! Def saw a lot of myself in her 🙌🏽

  • @Bella_Noche
    @Bella_Noche 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Idk how or why but I’m fb friends with Sevetri Wilson. We may have crossed paths in Baton Rouge. In any case, it’s great to see her here on TH-cam!!

  • @judithsonnnier253
    @judithsonnnier253 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you, Serverbri Wilson, for your insight and debate.

  • @judithsonnnier253
    @judithsonnnier253 ปีที่แล้ว

    You speak with an old soul. The older spirit within what you are generating. However, the spirit of God gives you a spirit of youth.

  • @maxxywattson
    @maxxywattson 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m In love with ur grind

  • @trillyandtruly211
    @trillyandtruly211 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽

  • @Goddefined1
    @Goddefined1 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sevetri!!! It's the men outside of Louisiana that act that way!!! Men PLAY hard to get!!

  • @BRB123
    @BRB123 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so crazy. Omgosh 😆 food

  • @judithsonnnier253
    @judithsonnnier253 ปีที่แล้ว

    Marriage is a two-way communication relationship. Much-Love. When you fall in love with the other person, it's time to communicate these questions with her.

  • @janepatton8100
    @janepatton8100 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Nia Long's twin.

    • @christthelord91
      @christthelord91 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Omgggggggggggg. Yessss!!!

  • @nicoleczaczkowski7637
    @nicoleczaczkowski7637 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    The look on his face once he tastes the cake. Totally took advantage of the fact that she started talking 😁😁

  • @ladyva757
    @ladyva757 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "I am easy to like, but hard to be with..." I can relate. But it's so worth it. I still have so many questions. Looking forward to more from you Dee1.

  • @rubygriffin2558
    @rubygriffin2558 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Reba McIntyre lost her husband of more than 2 decades because she was consumed by her career and not her husband (per Reba). So complementing one another and submitting to love languages may really work.

  • @gibsonslawnservice7261
    @gibsonslawnservice7261 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    They know they won't each other lol😍😍

    • @godisgood5054
      @godisgood5054 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You mean 'want' right?

  • @itschrischriss
    @itschrischriss 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    😂😂 she said I know you tired cuz I’m tired of seeing you running around tryna do all this stuff.
    She’s so beautiful!! Alright, I’m still watching. This might be too long for my Tuesday night though lol

  • @judithsonnnier253
    @judithsonnnier253 ปีที่แล้ว

    When God is before you, no man can stop your destiny.

  • @latresemilton6729
    @latresemilton6729 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Good dialogue. I'm 16 minutes in thus far and to the question of do you think you can find a life partner if you were less successful is a real concern for women. The bigger concern for me though is not having a life partner due to my relationship with Jesus Christ. What I a finding is alot of people my age now men and women do not believe in God. Then there are those who go to church service but they are not involved with ministry, don't attend Bible Study, or Sunday School. I want someone that can be the head in that area and I just have not come across that.

    • @Officialnurselexi
      @Officialnurselexi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      allure231913 I feel the same way!

    • @kevinberry6503
      @kevinberry6503 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hit my Instagram younglight428 I'm a man of God working no kids I do music .

    • @SAnderson54
      @SAnderson54 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      facts sis. It's a lot of pseudo christians out here posin'. My last relationship was with a dude active in the church. He's as far from God as any man could be. Non-believing men had better morals than him, but that's a story for another day sis lol.

    • @ernestgillam9992
      @ernestgillam9992 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey allure231913, We are out here lol.
      I'm in ministry, I love bible study and love to teach the bible and I'm a Sunday School teacher, praise and worship leader as well. My problem is finding someone that can handle my level of spirituality and level of commitment and dedication that I have to the Lord. For example I don't like to listen to secular music at all, I'm cautious about the movies that I watch, I don't drink any alcohol. But yet I love to have fun in a lot of different ways as long as it does not affect my relationship with the Lord. I'm a seeker of His glory I'm what you call a God Chaser. It takes a special woman to understand this type of Lifestyle. Are you that type of woman.
      P.S. I'm dark skinned lol

    • @gabrielcarr6015
      @gabrielcarr6015 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ernestgillam9992 hmmmm......Its two years later. What's your status now sir?

  • @LadyCharity
    @LadyCharity 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am here for black excellence and black beauty, yes! Success in God's kingdom is defined by Purpose honestly so it should never be an issue for two "successful" people to be together. If we mean success as in very busy *in everything but the relationship*, issa no! Lol, already it won't work for me! I understand David since men (traditionally) don't want an overly busy woman because it is perceived there is no time...men also don't desire to compete with women in any fashion. Women who are in high powered positions have to literally learn to have harmony between their feminine and masculine energy which is not an easy task if they are very productive in their jobs. I too, had to learn this--it is not easy but it is possible--men do not have this issue at all since they can carry the same energy into relationships as business maintaining their masculinity! Waiting for submission to be defined, maybe next time. Know your love languages! Loathing to include yes I have had those conversations where it is like I have did the inner work and here are some things were there can be improvement on my end lol total crickets on the other end hahha folks lack the range to deal! We need to get out of making relationships transactional...and have more realistic expectations. I don't agree that the woman should pay for everything on a date but to each their own.

    • @LadyCharity
      @LadyCharity 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We need to ask better questions...instead of what do you bring to the table--what do you value most in a relationship? Instead of what do you do? Do you love what you do and why? Is this person willing to accept me (not my representative) with all my flaws as I am right now? Why? Do they have emotional stability? Do they value themselves? How can I (potentially) add value to this person's life? What are their love language(s)? Who do they admire most and why? Am I able to starve my ego long enough to SERVE them? What is their story? Are they drawing me closer to my faith or furthering me from my faith? For ladies, where is your Naomi? For men, is my queen a Vashti or an Esther? Lol...yes I went there. Gender roles...given the state of all that we need to say our expectations...!

  • @CRJR94
    @CRJR94 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This whole conversation is TOO much......... it shouldn’t be that hard, my husband and I knew each other TWO weeks and got married, that was 27 years ago

  • @dncprod5219
    @dncprod5219 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    PEACE LUV THIS KID BOY NYCE.

  • @tiffaneeh8376
    @tiffaneeh8376 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    hey when God sends you that one ☝🏾 Ayee the compatibility will be 🤩🥰😍😇 that person will be prepared for you.. HIS Timing is 👌🏾 Perfect building a foundation together but best believe it’s a team effort and ordained so flow with it ! Bumps in the road make you stronger so build on it and dont let it break your foundation!

  • @estxx92
    @estxx92 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I Know GOD Got A Plan For Me

    • @godisgood5054
      @godisgood5054 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      But i don't know what it is, i'm just here handlin my bussiness

  • @wiselichosen6366
    @wiselichosen6366 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He's adorable

  • @judithsonnier3559
    @judithsonnier3559 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You looking for the attention and validation from your woman that's what I want to do... Much 💕💋

  • @ithumbah
    @ithumbah 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    You two make a nice looking couple.

  • @Blue77Blue
    @Blue77Blue 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    MARRIED MEN LIKE PICTURES!!!!!

  • @ebonyessence2838
    @ebonyessence2838 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    They are meant to be❤ ......

  • @Doctaj54
    @Doctaj54 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cool
    @Doctaj54

  • @HenryGriff
    @HenryGriff 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Are y’all? Or they dating?

  • @donnawashington5834
    @donnawashington5834 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Okay...so who did this editing🤣🤣

  • @kmason41
    @kmason41 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I feel concerned for these young Christians...... the cares of this world is killing our spirituality. Man has the vision..... wife helps carry it out...... ladies choose wisely when deciding who you'll help pursue his vision.

  • @donnawashington5834
    @donnawashington5834 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So..what happened to the footage about individuals saying they want a person of God vs individuals actually being able to identify a person of God🙄🤔🤷🏽 Becuz yall smooth cut dat out🤣🤣

  • @cristaltorres.
    @cristaltorres. 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    so if he making a 5th of what you make and hes solid is that cool?her- sooooo…… it really depends lol

    • @ketinarenea8499
      @ketinarenea8499 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah...I don't think I could get down with that. I wouldn't want to be the primary bread winner but, I respect her opinion.

  • @cranstonmarques4096
    @cranstonmarques4096 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Forget power couples we need spiritual God fearing couples. Cuz most powerful couples don’t serve God too much money talk but Jesus was poor facts and who are we following Jesus or the world?

  • @judithsonnnier253
    @judithsonnnier253 ปีที่แล้ว

    Are you a Christian or not?

  • @Blue77Blue
    @Blue77Blue 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    OVER USE THAT IS IDOLATRY POWER COUPLE

  • @Blue77Blue
    @Blue77Blue 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    THAT COMPETITION IN MARRIAGE NOT COOL ON ANY LEVEL NOT MARRIAGE

  • @bubbasmith6641
    @bubbasmith6641 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    FIRST of ALL. "Wisdom of the world is foolishness with God!" Secondly, IF you are a BORN AGAIN child of God you are not to be "conformed to the world BUT BE TRANSFORMED by the renewing of your mind!" So you shouldn't be comparing yourself to the world! You should be TRANSFORMED by the RENEWING of your mind. You should be RENEWING your mind by the Word of God and THAT'S what you should be comparing your life to and MAKING SURE(examine yourself) you're behaving the way the Lord COMMANDS His children too! I have not heard ANY scripture in this video BUT when you OBEYING the Heavenly Father you obey his commandments and have scripture to support ALL your behavior! For instance their discussing goals and conceit "selfish ambition" and the Word says "let nothing be done out of selfish ambition and conceit!"

  • @talkthatfuck
    @talkthatfuck 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    i hate my life

    • @teishamisunderstood339
      @teishamisunderstood339 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yomom no u don’t John 16:33

    • @HenryGriff
      @HenryGriff 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why do you hate your life?

    • @keymurphy8983
      @keymurphy8983 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I love your honesty. Jesus loves it even better.

    • @lovenadia5155
      @lovenadia5155 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jesus can help you love your life. Jesus gave you life and you still have life today because of God. As long as you have breath you have a purpose on this earth!

    • @lovenadia5155
      @lovenadia5155 ปีที่แล้ว

      Psalm 34:18-19 “The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit. Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but the Lord delivers him out of them all.”