Step 1) don't buy a house with a girlfriend/boyfriend Step 2) don't cosign a car with a girlfriend/boyfriend Step 3) don't be shocked if you ignore step 1 or 2 and it "doesn't work out". Basically, don't screw yourself over another person until marriage is seriously discussed.
youre my inspiration trevor! "dont be sad because its over, be happy because it happened" "in the end everything will be okay, if its not okay its not the end yet"
Imagine that we all donated $1 to TmarTn so he can buy a nice house in Champaign and doesn't have to worry about nothing for the coming time. I'd do that. And i know money doesn't make everything right, but i can't think of anything else i could do for you. Ps. keep it up T, you don't have this girl who means a lot to you anymore and i feel truly sad for you, but you'll always keep 1.615.882 subscribers who will always support you :)
If you love the house so much just stay there I don't see why not I mean the reason you moved there was for Haley and the reason you can stay there is for the house
Houses in the US are massive compared to here in the UK.. Things maybe tough, but on the bright side you're probably sitting in a much bigger house than over here!
Hey man I'm going threw the same thing and right now as of May 15th and I came back to watch these brake up videos because they've helped me a lot, always respect trev!
Keep your head up dude, you'll get thru the break up. Moving away will definitely help, you can't stay in a house where you built memories with your ex. It would just stress you out. Life will get better!
Being a freshmen college and losing a girl that I've dated for 4 years (ALL of high school)I think it's got a lot to do with where they both stand in their lives and the stages they're in. Trev is obviously way ahead of the game in terms of a financial situation and maturity and I think he's blessed to be in the situation he's in, he's doing what he loves and makes a living off of it. I think she can't handle how far ahead in life he is and she isn't ready to "settle" down and wants to explore and have the FULL college experience. Just my two cents. In the end she's losing an incredible individual and I stand by that statement 100%. Not many 20 year olds who have the maturity and head on straight like Trevor does. Keep your head up bro I've been there before with the one girl I really thought was gonna be the one but trust me, girls are a dime a dozen and you gotta have self respect. The type of man you are you will be pulling a beautiful dime in no time. Real bro talk, good luck man
Just stay there and be happy your making youtube videos that people like and enjoy. Others would do anything to be where you are. You should be enjoying life ,since you play games for a living. Stay Happy
Hey tmartn, I've had a bad breakup about a year ago... My gf who I thought we were going to be with eachother forever (2 1/2 years dating) we broke up because I lied to her once just so we could keep dating... After we broke up, she told me that I needed to change to be with her, and so I did... I changed my whole attitude, personality, and thought, and personally I really liked the new me, and all my friends did and I thought she would also... But, she moved on and we didnt talk for about a month straight, and I came out honest with her and asked her if she would ever love me again... She answered no to my face, and at that moment, all of that depression, and no happiness that I thought would all go Away on that day, all came back... I was heartbroken and it stayed that way for days on end... To this day I still have a feeling in my stomach kills every time I think of her... Right now, we talk sometimes an this past weekend I wanted to ask out this girl who I really liked, and I thought would help me get over my ex (Katie) but me, my ex and the new girl who I've liked for a little and a couple of my friends all wen to the movies with eachother.. When we first greeted i was about to ask her out, but then I saw my ex in the corner of my eye.. And I got teary eyed and didn't ask the girl I liked out... That night my ex kept on talking about the new guy she liked and how he's so perfect and all, and every moment she kept talking about him, the more flashbacks I kept on having in the bac of my mind about when we dated... Trev, 1 year later, and I still haven't gotten over this girl.. Idk what this means.. If one day we'll date again, or she was the one, and ill never be able to find someone like her again... If you read this all tmartn I appreciate your time, and I hope all goes well with you and Hailey/ Haley
For your first house that's not bad at all. Your emotions are clouding your judgement and I understand. But having something that is your own is incredible and as long as you can afford it ride it out.
Tmartn when you move to your new house just make every possible thing better to keep moving forward and progressing and try and make every new experience better!
Damn.... you're working as a youtuber... Don't be so down, thibk abiut the fact you can stream yourself playing wii golf and people will tune in and enjoy XD
It makes me sad, cause i can see how hard it came..:( but bear up buddy! There are other girls in this world looking pretty, so dont worry bout that and things come and go, im sure you will end up be really happy with your house and stuff...but that gaming room though o.O
I guess the main problem was that they were too close to each other...i dont know but maybe it got boring because of the lack of conversations, because they exchanged pretty much everything they could...if they lived in a house after a bunch of month then it was predictable that this would happen...
Your hurting brother, i feel your pain man, most of the peeps talking trash probably never had a girlfriend. Keep your head high man. Wish you the best of luck .
Trevor, this is a friendly advice. Stop reminding yourself of the break up, stop saying things that you would've done or you wanted to do if you were still together. It's not gonna help you in the process of "moving on". And I'm not saying to completely throw all those memories into the garbage, let those memories out of your heart and store those in your brain. That way you won't be heartbroken for any longer but those memories will still be there (:
Bro dont be sad! I will hook you up with my sister! hahahaha come on men! be happy! :) If things were not meant to ge it is because there is something better coming to your way!
Tmartn, what if she wants to get back together with you? Then you're probably gonna say " I already told my viewers that we wont be together for a long long time." Then if you do, people will hate, because you " lied" or wanted to get " attention" Dont let TH-cam ruin your relationship for a while. Do what's best, and get her back! You seem really sad about it. Like if you agree :)!! Good luck Tmartn!!!
Its fucked up that he bought a house to be wit his girl, them she ditched him. But why move to another place? All you need is just another girl or a friend to be wit you
Wow that girl just destroyed his life, he acts like its all good but he hurts a lot im sure. Bevause litteraly every sentence has something to do about his ex-girlfriend. Hailry this hailey that (not sure how to write her name ) but still its sad that he had to get rid of the housebecause of her .....
I’m glad he’s the one who bounced back from this 😁 he now has a huge house, a GTR and Jeep, 2 dogs and 1 cat and a awesome girlfriend. Plus he’s been on fabulous vacations
Same thing happened to Preston (TBNRfrags/PrestonPlayz). Not trying to be mean, but that's what you get for moving closer to someone. It just isn't a very wise decision in my opinion.
23davidian96 Well I wouldn't know because I'm not really interested in that kind of love, to be honest. I'm heavily attracted to girls, but I just don't feel like having a girlfriend at all.
So you are saying Tmartn should flick her off, and never see her again. THATS harsh. They are friends. If you break up with someone you remain friends. Im suprised he is still able to smile and laugh.
Hey trevor... I can tell the way you say things in this video you still have some feelings for her. Like the way you still talk about her or her things then you have to quickly put in "man it sucks it didnt work out" i absolutely know how you feel. All i have to say is, you're a great guy trevor, everyone makes mistakes and has regrets but the happiest people in life figure out how to learn from it and make it a turning point in their life from bad to good. I just got over a break up with mine. Ive been with her for 3 years but what happend is that she cheated on me, with a friend. So, get through it and survive. "The world is an ocean full of fish, why keep yourself in a aquarium when you could be in the ocean?"
You got life and you got choices neither one is easy T, just think of your house as a gift to yourself after er'thang thats happen an prepare for...something different. You never know !
TMARTN there is something I always learned that being with your friends or guys is the best thing for a guy like you a GAMER! Especially with a lucky guy with a house that you think is not good people even families stuggle to find homes so be thankful and go with your pals + DAMN your tall 6"5
little did he know that in 2 years he would have a gtr and a jeep....
Bryce Gillette lol
She is probably a gold digger
After rewatching this I noticed that in his office he has a Denver Broncos helmet. So much for liking the Minnesota Vikings
And a better girl
i would probably miss that house more than my ex
Lol true that
Step 1) don't buy a house with a girlfriend/boyfriend
Step 2) don't cosign a car with a girlfriend/boyfriend
Step 3) don't be shocked if you ignore step 1 or 2 and it "doesn't work out".
Basically, don't screw yourself over another person until marriage is seriously discussed.
Real talk.
Don't worry T, you'll settle where you are meant to. Everything happens for a reason. You got even better things ahead. Good luck!
And BOOM. 2019, good stuff.
I feel like moving out of the house is his best option. He has to many memories there and will constantly be reminded of Haley.
TmarTn don't worry we got your back :)
Anyone else feel bad for him. I hope you find someone to appreciate u bro .
Best of luck man you'll do great
JUST STAY THERE!!!!!
youre my inspiration trevor! "dont be sad because its over, be happy because it happened" "in the end everything will be okay, if its not okay its not the end yet"
Imagine that we all donated $1 to TmarTn so he can buy a nice house in Champaign and doesn't have to worry about nothing for the coming time. I'd do that. And i know money doesn't make everything right, but i can't think of anything else i could do for you.
Ps. keep it up T, you don't have this girl who means a lot to you anymore and i feel truly sad for you, but you'll always keep 1.615.882 subscribers who will always support you :)
He doesn't need money lol.
True :)
He'd have about $1 million dollars if everyone would give 1 dollar.
Just stay their man :)
u can take a break from the tubes if u need too
Good guy Morgan freeman...
Im happy you guys are still friends , good luck man
It sucks being single. But at least you have your freedom to make your own decisions. All the time.
so true.
Its not a mistake Trev its a lesson and we will always be along for the ride with ya through think and thin
If you love the house so much just stay there I don't see why not I mean the reason you moved there was for Haley and the reason you can stay there is for the house
Exactly what i'm thinking
Tmartn is so sad right now :(
The ex's blanket in the bathroom for the dog lol
Houses in the US are massive compared to here in the UK.. Things maybe tough, but on the bright side you're probably sitting in a much bigger house than over here!
probably because here in the uk houses are mostly attached unlike the us
Am I the only one who was thinking the whole time watching this "why can't my house be like this?"
I was thinking the same.
Me too
Me Three
I say the color of the house should be different
Same
Drinking Game
Drink Every time he says "It was for the best"/"It was for the better"
That would be one hell of a drinking game!!! Still feel bad for him though.
lol
3:47 when WE did, tmart you sly dog, you lol :)
Haha
You forgot to say "Checkoutoneoftheothertwovideosonthescreenyouhaven'tseenyet"
Hahaha.
best comment ever haha
MarioCastMC he discontinued that line now.
Check out one of the other videos on the screen you haven't seen yet
She left him for a person with a higher kd ratio
no, for a battle field youtuber
+MADDOX Jackfrags lol
lol
Don't worry TmarTn. Like you said in your vid a few days ago, ''When one door closes, 10 more open'' - TmarTn.
P.S. 6'5! Woah!
Tmartin your a really cool guy, it's cool that you can talk about it and just always keep your head up dude:)
My First House! The Setup That Never Existed :(
chill you're nipz
YOU AGAIN!!!!!
Aidan Doohan LMAO this guy is everywhere
And he is making money from this too
I SEE YOU EVERYWHERE!
Hey man I'm going threw the same thing and right now as of May 15th and I came back to watch these brake up videos because they've helped me a lot, always respect trev!
damnn tmartn that house is fantastic move in a friend or something and stay there and cheer up I don't like to see you down!
Back to the gamer shore!
Lowkey his ex girlfriend will still watch his youtube videos
Yeah and now she JELOUS CUZ HE HAS A GTR AND 2 JETSKIS AND A MANSION
Unlucky buddy, wish everything had of worked out for you! :(
Keep on going T, life has its upside downs. Been there from the start.
4 year + subscriber
Keep your head up dude, you'll get thru the break up. Moving away will definitely help, you can't stay in a house where you built memories with your ex. It would just stress you out. Life will get better!
Being a freshmen college and losing a girl that I've dated for 4 years (ALL of high school)I think it's got a lot to do with where they both stand in their lives and the stages they're in. Trev is obviously way ahead of the game in terms of a financial situation and maturity and I think he's blessed to be in the situation he's in, he's doing what he loves and makes a living off of it. I think she can't handle how far ahead in life he is and she isn't ready to "settle" down and wants to explore and have the FULL college experience. Just my two cents. In the end she's losing an incredible individual and I stand by that statement 100%. Not many 20 year olds who have the maturity and head on straight like Trevor does. Keep your head up bro I've been there before with the one girl I really thought was gonna be the one but trust me, girls are a dime a dozen and you gotta have self respect. The type of man you are you will be pulling a beautiful dime in no time. Real bro talk, good luck man
Mate how are you after 8 years
damn, that house is perfect for you man! sucks it ended up like this.
Sorry about the break up... Hopefully you'll find someone better :)
Just stay there and be happy your making youtube videos that people like and enjoy. Others would do anything to be where you are. You should be enjoying life ,since you play games for a living. Stay Happy
Stay there man! Dat house *_*
I bet he cried when they broke up he just seems like the type to do that.
The Infamous Gamer you aint a real man and neither is he Ccartert keep it real bro
huh
96donov looool look at this 11 year old tough guy
He a drake ass nigga
so much swag 8004 says the one who's name is so much swag
Man dont sell it its a great house.. Plus your setup its AWESOME!
Hey tmartn, I've had a bad breakup about a year ago... My gf who I thought we were going to be with eachother forever (2 1/2 years dating) we broke up because I lied to her once just so we could keep dating... After we broke up, she told me that I needed to change to be with her, and so I did... I changed my whole attitude, personality, and thought, and personally I really liked the new me, and all my friends did and I thought she would also... But, she moved on and we didnt talk for about a month straight, and I came out honest with her and asked her if she would ever love me again... She answered no to my face, and at that moment, all of that depression, and no happiness that I thought would all go Away on that day, all came back... I was heartbroken and it stayed that way for days on end... To this day I still have a feeling in my stomach kills every time I think of her... Right now, we talk sometimes an this past weekend I wanted to ask out this girl who I really liked, and I thought would help me get over my ex (Katie) but me, my ex and the new girl who I've liked for a little and a couple of my friends all wen to the movies with eachother.. When we first greeted i was about to ask her out, but then I saw my ex in the corner of my eye.. And I got teary eyed and didn't ask the girl I liked out... That night my ex kept on talking about the new guy she liked and how he's so perfect and all, and every moment she kept talking about him, the more flashbacks I kept on having in the bac of my mind about when we dated... Trev, 1 year later, and I still haven't gotten over this girl.. Idk what this means.. If one day we'll date again, or she was the one, and ill never be able to find someone like her again... If you read this all tmartn I appreciate your time, and I hope all goes well with you and Hailey/ Haley
#thefeels
***** amen to that
How are things now my dude after 6 years?
It looks fine to me :D
Hang in there tmartn. I don't watch too many of your videos because im a battlefield fan but you seem like one of the nicer youtubers out there
Just stay in the house!!!!
I know right
just stay there! :O
You said the magic happened downstairs, but the beds were upstairs.
For your first house that's not bad at all. Your emotions are clouding your judgement and I understand. But having something that is your own is incredible and as long as you can afford it ride it out.
Tmartn when you move to your new house just make every possible thing better to keep moving forward and progressing and try and make every new experience better!
Damn.... you're working as a youtuber...
Don't be so down, thibk abiut the fact you can stream yourself playing wii golf and people will tune in and enjoy XD
***** you don't have to watch, he's a content creator, his job is to make content you would want to watch.
Iowa
It makes me sad, cause i can see how hard it came..:( but bear up buddy! There are other girls in this world looking pretty, so dont worry bout that and things come and go, im sure you will end up be really happy with your house and stuff...but that gaming room though o.O
It may work out between them two... The smart thing is separate but not really break up unless you are sure you have to.
I guess the main problem was that they were too close to each other...i dont know but maybe it got boring because of the lack of conversations, because they exchanged pretty much everything they could...if they lived in a house after a bunch of month then it was predictable that this would happen...
You no that you still love her!
Well yea he said it at the end of the vlog he made lol
keep the house and look for a room-mate or split the office in half and invite a small youtuber or another youtuber to live with you
Life goes on man its tough I will have you in my prayers.
if that was me i would have just stayed and have a friend move in with me
Me to
I could never live with friends.
Or keep the property and rent it out for that extra stream of cash
Would you ever consider moving back to the gamer shore house?
I think he said he wasnt playing to ever move in there again.
Oh god they used the whirlpool bathtub together
The house is amazing, thanks for the vid. Good luck finding another house
Don't stress over her! We all got your back, keep your head up :)
Holy crap! He's 6' 5".
I thought his house was a little small but now i see that he is a freaking giant!
aw poor guy had to make a jumpcut at 12:28 :(
damn that house is a beast
Your hurting brother, i feel your pain man, most of the peeps talking trash probably never had a girlfriend. Keep your head high man. Wish you the best of luck .
Trev, you finally got it right!!
American houses are sickkkkkkk
I am so happy he moved so he could get cooper
poor guy he sounds so heart broken
This honestly is my dream house
Trevor, this is a friendly advice. Stop reminding yourself of the break up, stop saying things that you would've done or you wanted to do if you were still together. It's not gonna help you in the process of "moving on". And I'm not saying to completely throw all those memories into the garbage, let those memories out of your heart and store those in your brain. That way you won't be heartbroken for any longer but those memories will still be there (:
Bro dont be sad! I will hook you up with my sister! hahahaha come on men! be happy! :) If things were not meant to ge it is because there is something better coming to your way!
too bad the you broke up that was a awesome house
Tmartn, what if she wants to get back together with you? Then you're probably gonna say " I already told my viewers that we wont be together for a long long time." Then if you do, people will hate, because you " lied" or wanted to get " attention" Dont let TH-cam ruin your relationship for a while. Do what's best, and get her back! You seem really sad about it. Like if you agree :)!! Good luck Tmartn!!!
You're a legend, keep your head up man.
To think, this video is less than a year old. Team TmarT for life
Tmartn rather than selling the house you should rent it out
If he rents it out he will have to go over there when problems come up if he moves he won't be able to go back to the house.
But you make more money. And he said he and his girlfriend are still on good terms so I'm sure she could help him if he needed it ever.
this looks like the paranormal activity house 😂
Its fucked up that he bought a house to be wit his girl, them she ditched him. But why move to another place? All you need is just another girl or a friend to be wit you
No he ditched her
fearcry Gudgeon They talked about it? xD
Trevor it's such a nice house! But all your houses are awesome!
I am here. Everyone is here for you. We go where you go.
He's not over her.
Yo Tmartn ill come and play games with you bro to bro
Keep the house. Rent it out. Make money work for you!
I think he already has a couple rentals, can be tough if your rental is far away from you if he moves back to IL.
"Life goes on" unfortunately that is one of the most important quotes any person should remember
Keep strong bro! we all love ya! :)
Wow that girl just destroyed his life, he acts like its all good but he hurts a lot im sure. Bevause litteraly every sentence has something to do about his ex-girlfriend. Hailry this hailey that (not sure how to write her name ) but still its sad that he had to get rid of the housebecause of her .....
I’m glad he’s the one who bounced back from this 😁 he now has a huge house, a GTR and Jeep, 2 dogs and 1 cat and a awesome girlfriend. Plus he’s been on fabulous vacations
Dont move
Same thing happened to Preston (TBNRfrags/PrestonPlayz). Not trying to be mean, but that's what you get for moving closer to someone. It just isn't a very wise decision in my opinion.
But long distance relationships suck. Bit of a catch 22.
They were dating for over a year before they moved in together
23davidian96 Well I wouldn't know because I'm not really interested in that kind of love, to be honest. I'm heavily attracted to girls, but I just don't feel like having a girlfriend at all.
***** I wouldn't know from my own personal experience but I've never seen them work out.
***** there dating again.
I've been where you are now man. Hang in there T!
Don't leave! It's amazing!!!
4 hours is not bad plus you just bought the house it will be difficult to sell without taking a huge loss i would just stsy
You need to quit talking about your ex dude. You'll never get over her like that
So you are saying Tmartn should flick her off, and never see her again. THATS harsh. They are friends. If you break up with someone you remain friends. Im suprised he is still able to smile and laugh.
i wish i could have his girlfriend, now that she's single
***** umm.....wth
faheem jamal I disagree. Not every couple that breaks up becomes friends.
titzmageex I think he did just fine... 😉
Hey trevor... I can tell the way you say things in this video you still have some feelings for her. Like the way you still talk about her or her things then you have to quickly put in "man it sucks it didnt work out" i absolutely know how you feel. All i have to say is, you're a great guy trevor, everyone makes mistakes and has regrets but the happiest people in life figure out how to learn from it and make it a turning point in their life from bad to good. I just got over a break up with mine. Ive been with her for 3 years but what happend is that she cheated on me, with a friend. So, get through it and survive. "The world is an ocean full of fish, why keep yourself in a aquarium when you could be in the ocean?"
You got life and you got choices neither one is easy T, just think of your house as a gift to yourself after er'thang thats happen an prepare for...something different. You never know !
Sorry Trevor, I hope you make it through this tough time.. Keep your head up!
Mutual my ass, TmarTn totally got dumped.
when ever someone says its a mutual break up 9 times out of 10 its a lie!!
Soo many TV's like every room has one lol
lol moving sukz, just did like.....today xD
Tmartn, you guys were together and were great. Too bad that you guys broke up. Sorry to hear it
TMARTN there is something I always learned that being with your friends or guys is the best thing for a guy like you a GAMER! Especially with a lucky guy with a house that you think is not good people even families stuggle to find homes so be thankful and go with your pals + DAMN your tall 6"5