@@JavaughnCarr1 the video said that he moved out 3 weeks after starting his job. I don’t think he had time to save up or get a promotion from an entry level job at that point.
That's why people buy saplings, not seeds. My grandparents have an orange tree sapling and it's already got oranges on it. One was even half the size of my head!
“All he gets offered is entry level positions.” Lucky. I don’t have work experience and literally no one will offer me anything. Spoiled brat probs lied on his resume or something. Sorry, it just irritated me.
I was gonna say "and getting paid double minimum wage??" because where I live minimum wage is like 7 dollars an hour, but apparently dhar mann lives in California and it's $15/hour over there? I'm so jealous
same I worked really hard on my resume and prepared for my interview for DAYS and I thought I did so well but I didn't get the job. it was literally at McDonalds and I had previous work experience in a family business. either I was much worse than I thought or they hired the older kids because they could work more hours, either way this video made me think what the actual fuck
I truly don’t understand this one, he’s eighteen and immediately gets and entry level position (I have friends who are college graduates who get denied entry level positions and have searched for months) and then he earns enough to move out within a few weeks (costs about $2k-$5k a month if you factor in utilities and food ) and then he buys his parents toilet paper (telling them to cut it in half) and orange tree seeds and the mother is grateful.. this makes no sense to me. I know that streaming online can make you some serious money if you get to dhar mann popularity but this is like...what the heck!?
and the fact that the WHOLE time, he was struggling to pay for basic things he needed, but he also had enough money to not only rent a nice apartment the day he moved out of his parents' house, AND buy them a bunch of gifts?
It said that he moved out three weeks after getting a job. He probably only received his first paycheck, which was probably for two weeks work. Assuming that he gets the stated $14 an hour (a stretch), and he works 40 hours a week (nearly impossible, employers want to keep employees below 30 hours a week to avoid paying for benefits), he would have earned $1120 before taxes. Impossible to get an apartment for less than $900 a month, most one bedroom apartments in my area are between $1200 and $1400 a month. Before you move in, you will need a second month's rent as a security deposit. Yes, this story is absolutely impossible.
Maybe it's just my experience, but I have my mom's credit card information saved on my computer because I'd sometimes, back when I didn't have my own bank account, ask her to buy things for me. The problem isn't that he knows it, the problem is that they never taught him to ask before using it.
Even from a plot point of view I have to agree. With his attitude he should never have had access to their accounts, because clearly they never even attempted to try and teach him anything about the value of money growing up. But something tells me they didn't give him access as a unit. He either asked his dad when his mother wasn't around for access to the accounts somehow or he stole the account information. No way his mother would have given him access from what we've seen of the character.
The thing about Dhar Mann villain teenagers is that they were RAISED by these parents who are so offended and appalled by their behavior. They're either taught to act this way or enabled. It's not like the teenagers just show up one morning disgusted and entitled to this degree. XD Dhar Mann with the extremes!
In the last scene, the mother has a mustard shirt, the dad has dark blue shirt and Daniel has a mustard turtleneck and a dark blue suit. I just wanted to actually give Dhar Mann congratulations on their filming staff, is really good. Colour balance and stuff, their filming is freaking amazing.
Also I feel like some of their recurring actors are getting better. The guy with the black hair and the glasses for example, you can tell his English is getting better, I think that's pretty cool to see!
I feel like the main character got to have his cake and eat it too. He learned to save money, but he's still able to live comfortably in an apartment, as well as have extra money to spend for his wants. Usually, the main villain would have gone broke and had to run back to their homes, where the hero, who may be even richer than before, would prove them wrong with a "So you see".
Okay but does she seriously want an 18 y/o with no previous job experience nor with a degree who could only get a job with a low salary to pay the whole family's bills while he's a single child and both their parents work probably in an office the way they dress with probably a higher salary?
So many dhar Mann videos have the exact same script. Ungrateful child learns to adult. There’s also the story where a spoiled kid sees a less fortunate person and apologizes, the one where a person is judged by clothing/race/weight/sex and they end up teaching them a lesson, the one where a kid shames another kid ect ect. There’s only 5 basic stories
@@fos1451 yeah and he’s pretty much a living meme at this point. I think Cody ko was first (at least for me) and then everyone watches his stuff just to make commentary.
I expected the guy to try to live by himself and fail miserably or at least have a moment where he realizes what a brat he was to his parents. Instead he is coming back to his parents Dressing even nicer than he was before and telling THEM how to save money!
One time I accidentally bought a song from iTunes on my dads phone with his card (everything was already entered and I was trying to listen to it without buying it) and I was grounded for 3 months. It was a 69¢ song lol
This entire video is just a slap in the face. I've been trying to move out for years but I just can't because I still go to uni and there's no job that pays enough for me to do that. Even if I worked like 25-30 hrs a week. (And I have a friggin' degree so it's twice the humilitation.) So it's either I finish my studies and then get a full-time job or I get an entry-level position somewhere now and never finish my Master's.
@@diegolucavei She knew what was coming! It probably started months ago, with her calmly saying, "You shouldn't use so much cereal milk if you can't finish it, dear son." and him getting offended. (Yes, I know I'm defending hard!)
I wouldn't say that, but them running out of milk is on her. Like it's on you if you see that you're running out of milk, but don't buy more. Although I get it if she told him to not have cereal because they're running low on milk, and he had cereal anyway.
My mother would throw a party if she saw me eating cereal. Then again, I have an eating disorder. And to make sure your children don't get one too, don't police their food consumption!
The food thing really hurt to watch, honestly. Despite my family being completely able to afford food (Like that family is, considering their fancy house and stuff), I was constantly made to feel guilty for the expense of the food. Combined with my IBS and acid reflux making it difficult to eat anyway, I often skip meals to save money and every time I do eat, the guilt eats me right back. I've literally cried over needing to eat before, and I always try to eat in secret so no one sees what a waste I am. It's awful, I know logically I shouldn't feel guilty for doing what I need to literally just survive, but it's just engrained so deep. Please, unless you literally have to ration, don't guilt kids (or even teenagers) over the expense of basic foods like milk. It's one thing if it's some super high end weird ingredient they genuinely don't need, but I'm talking about basic stuff for a good diet (not that milk is NECESSARY for a good diet but it is common and honestly not that expensive). Don't make children feel guilty for existing.
I hear you I do, my parents would consistently make me feel incredibly guilty for wasting anything. Still do, trying to move out right now. They blamed me for everything that went wrong with them my whole life. It hurts more when it happens to your siblings though and you can't change it. You can't do anything about it, you know how they feel and you can't stop it. You can't convince them they deserve to live because you can't tell them something they already know but can't believe. Guilt and shame are terrible things.
@@diimidosemineral9261 My older brother could practically do no wrong while I was blamed for everything... I can only think of one time my mom lashed out at him, and funny enough, afterwards he apologized to me for never believing me about how she treats me on a daily basis haha. I guess the only positive to being the youngest is I don't feel an obligation to defend my siblings (not that I wouldn't if they needed me, I absolutely would, but I'm not like a third parent or anything). Parents really need to stop hurting their own children, it's literally normalized to be abusive...
@@vaughnhaney7020 it is normalized and that just disturbs me. I think every parent in the world would benefit from going to therapy. Just so they can be more aware of their pitfalls and learn to account for them. Instead of replicating what came before and causing similar trauma. Anyway I wish you well😊
How to teach your kid not to buy a ps5 on your credit card? Report it as stolen/the purchase as unauthorised. Because it was. Maybe not when he’s 18 but if he was a minor (and probably also not a poc) so wouldn’t go to jail, absolutely
What really hurts is I had fights like this with my parents. Except I wasn’t wasting money, I just didn’t have any and couldn’t get a job. This is just a boomer idea of how the world works and no, it’s not this easy to move out. Stop eating avocado toast and maybe you can rent an apartment sort of bull mentality.
wow, Dharr man really do be out of touch if he thinks moving out can happen within weeks of getting your first job.... He knows entry level is impossible to get with no prior experience , right? i think Dharr needs to be the villian in his own video so he can learn that this whole scenario is literally impossible.
@@lindseycassella3015 that's what they make it out to be but I have yet to find a job marked as "entry level" that doesn't require college or prior experience.
@@lindseycassella3015 well, I'd love to live in the world were that's a thing* I'm surely not living in it* they almost always want like 5 years of experience, and that's how we got a lot of over valued people losing their studies and degrees at jobs that people with less formation needs to live...
Wait WAIT WAIT…. Their Internet is $40 and they’re complaining about MILK?!? My absolutely shit Internet is $110 and that’s the lowest package available in my whole state
@Ana Pie at least you have choices.. hopefully one is better then the other. There’s only one provider in the state. And they have two plans; $110 shit or $150-200 polished shit. 😂
Yes, finally someone's talking about bidet!!! And I don't know how people buy their plants in USA, but at least, I know that here in Argentina you can buy a small tree on a greenhouse or a plant store, that way you wouldn't have to wait the 12 years needed for the seeds to turn on a grown up fruit producing tree 😹😹😹😹 Even like that you still have to plant it on fertile ground and let it grow a couple years (maybe 2~5)
That father figure is useless! Parenting rule no.1: To the child parents are one entity when it comes to comunicativ a decision. That is in a healthy family tho. 🙄
Im just saying, the fact that joinen also lived in a family of 6, bought 3 litres of milk and it sometimes went bad, and is european is a crazy coincidence.
This episode almost played out like a Dhar Mann video, with Joinen initially judging the actors and later realizing they were more real. Plot Twist: Joinen is the new Dhar Mann villain.
The part with the son being like "I don't want to take a job that doesn't pay enough" and the mom acting like that's so entitled and you should just take whatever you can get sure does hit different after all the drama with Dhar Mann earlier this year...
It sounds like his parents didn't do their job in teaching him this when he was younger They gave him access to their credit cards, the information to change their internet plan, and apparently never taught him the basics of rolling up your toothpaste. If my parents did this and then tried to teach me by kicking me out, forcing me to get a job because they think they know so much better than me, it wouldn't matter if they were right, and it wouldn't matter if I learn something I would still resent them. Tough love is fine, teaching someone with it is a good tool but this shows an obvious lack in parenting. This is not a good example There's a way to teach your kids and still hold up a relationship, by his mother doing this she would be breaking something between the two of them and not being aware of it, so wouldn't try to fix it either. If they were going to teach their son by having him get his own job they should have made it a condition a long time ago that you were going to have to get a job by 18 or 19 or something so that he knew it was coming, to decide this in the moment because you're frustrated is immature. This is a huge part of his life, something important and you decide to act like this, it's going to affect him a lot further than just getting a job for himself I know these are stupid videos and the whole point of this video is pointing out how ridiculous they are but being neglected as a child this just frustrates me.
I agree. Like it's their fault for not teaching him when he was way younger that things are expensive, although, I don't agree with being forced to get a job. I feel like it should rather be 'if you're not studying, get a job so that we know you can take care of yourself'
They didn't kick him out though. Also, it was just stupid storytelling. Kid should shave been 13 or 14 and they should have made him pay off his PS5 debt or something like that by getting a job like cutting lawn for example. The son was way too old for this to not make the parents look ridiculous, even though they were meant to be shown as loving and just doing it to prepare their son for adult life. Can't start that when you child is already a legal adult. 😅
He wasn't kicked out, the mom just told him that if he wanted to buy stuff he had to use his own money. Then he got mad and said that he was gonna move out once he got a job. Funny thing is If he had stayed with his parents the 14$ an hour would've gone a long way
You guys really are the ignorant ones This channel is made for CHILDREN for fucks sake no 7 year old is gonna know all of this stuff youre sayimg the videos are ment to give a simple good messages and "change lives". Seriously thats like saying minecraft is a bad game because blocks float in the air like bruh minecraft isnt a physics engine its a building/survival game
The amount of money he started spending got extreme eventually, but the mom being that mad over mistakes like using up the last bit of milk (in my house if someone uses the last bit of milk its just ok, we can pick that up later, sucks) and turning the ac low is a bit extreme, those are basic mistakes. Now getting ps5 is extreme but why did you give him your card?
Did the comment where the mum dismissed him saying $14 an hour is too low rub anyone else the wrong way with all the current discussions going on about raising the minimum wage? Something about it felt in poor taste lol Like I get that he's being a brat, especially as a kid who isn't the one paying the bills, but making it something like $25 would've really shown how entitled he is better imo
Plot Twist: This was just a narcissistic mother pushing her financial problems onto a kid from a biased perspective, and she's convinced he is eighteen when he's not, he looks 13 at best ...
11:57 actually it’s not that hard depending on where she works and how much she and her husband gets paid. She meant to say it’s hard to hold onto a few hundred dollars after bills, food, etc
Geez, I wonder if my parents see me as spoiled because I don't have a job, despite my severe and untreated mental illnesses, plus chronic pain problems. Also, I would kill for $14 an hour.
Okay realistically in America, kid would not have been able to move out without getting a ton of roommates. And if he even managed to find a job, which I mean good luck, he’d need at least two or three to pay rent. This is just a fever dream. Kid never left his house.
There's such a wild gap between parents being angry at a kid for drinking milk and wanting toothpaste and the kid charging a PS5 on the mom's credit card.
I drank the entire half gallon of milk yesterday while I was high 🥲 I forgot and made a bowl of cereal this morning and everything and opened the fridge to discover I betrayed myself
Okay but using all the milk and running out of toothpaste are about as far from upgrading the internet plan as things can be. I don’t like how these are equated.
Weird to me this kid didnt struggle more, like getting a job right out of HS is hard enough but being able to MOVE IN to your own apartment in just a few weeks? That's not how life works, and when he was talking about the 14 $/hour thing, i know people who would KILL to have that be their wage. It's also pretty clear his parents aren't poor. Poor people don't get to live in a house that looks like that - they're like at least middle class so I'm not sure why their kid is telling them to split toilet paper in half or why the mother is panicking over milk and A/C. It seems like the writers have never struggled with money/getting employed in their entire lives to be honest...
Dhar Mann doesn't have any scripts, he just plants cameras in someone's house and takes that footage and adds the story/narration after Holy crap. Brita bottles are like... $50
the ending just weirded me up XD the parents are acting like they haven't seen or heard of they're kid for years and years. like did they send him to some cult/camp where visits are not allowed? so they don't have to look like the bad parents more?? is that why he changed so much? *conspiracy?* The nagging mom was on point in this one... it is just not convincing me to change my life and i thought that was the point in these XD
I mean... wasn't this just an overdramatized version of a middle class household? Yeah as a teen you don't think about the price of your favorite cereal or price of different kinds of milks until you go out into the world and realize, oh shit... do I really need this? xD I guess it is a good educational film for preteens x'D
That home looks so high-class, but I guess that's because I live in a poor area. But like.. they really can't afford to put the AC on with their marble counter tops and modern furniture? Also, she is extremely obsessive over small things like finishing the milk, which is controlling. Would you rather let it be full and spoil? Honestly the kid isn't the main baddie
Joinen, can we get your song back for the outro? It is really nice, and you have lot of talent that should not go to waste. Maybe mix it with your knowledge of rendering such a supergood lemon carton in 3D? you can shuffle your talents you know!
How the conversation should have gone I got you double padded toilet paper so you can manually separate each roll to make your own 1ply toilet paper rolls by literally unwinding every single roll. That's nice honey but they sell 1ply toilet paper already made for cheap and we simply limit the number of squares to save money that way. The other way takes up too much time that we could be using to save money in other areas. Wow I still have a lot to learn.
um- if someone used my credit card without letting me now..ill literally get so mad ill stop talking to them..i learnt how to spend my own money since i was a child so i dont rlly have to rely on my parents that much..the toothpaste part is dumb to be mad ab..the.milk is also not a big deal..hes a bit bratty and disrespectful..but the mom is a bit over dramatic..
Jesus... I mean, as an adult who pays all my family's bills, and lives in a household where no one else works, the mom here actually seems a little excessive at first? The kid is literally only 18 and he, what? Ate a big bowl of cereal, ran out of toothpaste and prefers the AC on? 67 is more than a reasonable temperature, too, btw. I cannot imagine getting mad at anyone in my house for doing that. Obviously ordering an expensive item using my credit card without asking and upgrading our internet plan without asking wouldn't be cool, but those kiiiinda seem like the only real problems here. Up until that information is revealed, I think she mostly just needs to chill out... And maybe put milk and toothpaste on the shopping list more often. 🤷♀️
I just commented about the same thing Ngl my mom is kinda similar, I'm 18 and going to study at a college yet she wants me to work and keeps saying all the food goes waste Like man, buy less food, I told her I don't need lunch ordered and I'm concerned my sister is living off of sunlight cuz I never see her eating
I agree with the milk and toothpaste, like that's on you for not buying it, but if the problem with the ac was that he left it on all day then I can understand where she's coming from.
The most unrealistic part of this is how he can afford his own apartment with no roommates on an entry-level salary
I think he saved money to buy house and probably got promotions or a new job
Apartment*
@@JavaughnCarr1 that's even more unrealistic
Saving money or getting promotions with a minimum wage job is an unachievable fantasy nowadays
@@JavaughnCarr1 the video said that he moved out 3 weeks after starting his job. I don’t think he had time to save up or get a promotion from an entry level job at that point.
Yeah, what is this, the 50s?
"These seeds will save you a lot of money on oranges.... in 7-15 years."
The most ridiculous thing he said for sure...do they even have a garden?
@@decrepitgirl plot twist: they live in an apartment and have no land to plant it in
Right? Gardening takes a lot of time, money and knowledge. Growing your own food is great but it's not magic.
also how fast does he think oranges grow and they don’t grow year round lol
That's why people buy saplings, not seeds. My grandparents have an orange tree sapling and it's already got oranges on it. One was even half the size of my head!
“All he gets offered is entry level positions.” Lucky. I don’t have work experience and literally no one will offer me anything. Spoiled brat probs lied on his resume or something. Sorry, it just irritated me.
i was literally thinking the same thing like... i wish i was offered entry level positions.
Shit I have a degree and can’t even get an interview for an entry level position.
Im searching for jobs, and in one year I couldnt get any. Not even entry level or something. Im very angry about this too
I was gonna say "and getting paid double minimum wage??" because where I live minimum wage is like 7 dollars an hour, but apparently dhar mann lives in California and it's $15/hour over there? I'm so jealous
same I worked really hard on my resume and prepared for my interview for DAYS and I thought I did so well but I didn't get the job. it was literally at McDonalds and I had previous work experience in a family business. either I was much worse than I thought or they hired the older kids because they could work more hours, either way this video made me think what the actual fuck
It’s kinda concerning that I can’t really distinguish Dhar mans voice and Joinens imitation. His impression is getting so good.
Omg I was thinking the same!
I truly don’t understand this one, he’s eighteen and immediately gets and entry level position (I have friends who are college graduates who get denied entry level positions and have searched for months) and then he earns enough to move out within a few weeks (costs about $2k-$5k a month if you factor in utilities and food ) and then he buys his parents toilet paper (telling them to cut it in half) and orange tree seeds and the mother is grateful.. this makes no sense to me. I know that streaming online can make you some serious money if you get to dhar mann popularity but this is like...what the heck!?
and the fact that the WHOLE time, he was struggling to pay for basic things he needed, but he also had enough money to not only rent a nice apartment the day he moved out of his parents' house, AND buy them a bunch of gifts?
It said that he moved out three weeks after getting a job. He probably only received his first paycheck, which was probably for two weeks work. Assuming that he gets the stated $14 an hour (a stretch), and he works 40 hours a week (nearly impossible, employers want to keep employees below 30 hours a week to avoid paying for benefits), he would have earned $1120 before taxes. Impossible to get an apartment for less than $900 a month, most one bedroom apartments in my area are between $1200 and $1400 a month. Before you move in, you will need a second month's rent as a security deposit. Yes, this story is absolutely impossible.
@@AverageJillM some places in the US have studio apartments for $500
@@janehoe. not in the places where $14 is minimum wage...
It's just that Dhar Mann has no idea how the real world works
Why did his parents give him access to their accounts though
It seems like a lot of this could've been prevented
Because then we wouldn't have a dahr mann story
He probably stole their credit cards or wrote the numbers down
Maybe it's just my experience, but I have my mom's credit card information saved on my computer because I'd sometimes, back when I didn't have my own bank account, ask her to buy things for me. The problem isn't that he knows it, the problem is that they never taught him to ask before using it.
@@errorcode1249 yeah but maybe we’d have a Dhar Mann story
Even from a plot point of view I have to agree. With his attitude he should never have had access to their accounts, because clearly they never even attempted to try and teach him anything about the value of money growing up. But something tells me they didn't give him access as a unit. He either asked his dad when his mother wasn't around for access to the accounts somehow or he stole the account information. No way his mother would have given him access from what we've seen of the character.
The thing about Dhar Mann villain teenagers is that they were RAISED by these parents who are so offended and appalled by their behavior. They're either taught to act this way or enabled. It's not like the teenagers just show up one morning disgusted and entitled to this degree. XD Dhar Mann with the extremes!
Yeah
The parents were kinda overreacting too
“HOW DARE YOU FINISH THE MILK!”
In the last scene, the mother has a mustard shirt, the dad has dark blue shirt and Daniel has a mustard turtleneck and a dark blue suit.
I just wanted to actually give Dhar Mann congratulations on their filming staff, is really good. Colour balance and stuff, their filming is freaking amazing.
You can really see the wardrobe genetics at work
Ngl you really appreciate it once you watch something like totally studios
Also I feel like some of their recurring actors are getting better. The guy with the black hair and the glasses for example, you can tell his English is getting better, I think that's pretty cool to see!
I feel like the main character got to have his cake and eat it too. He learned to save money, but he's still able to live comfortably in an apartment, as well as have extra money to spend for his wants.
Usually, the main villain would have gone broke and had to run back to their homes, where the hero, who may be even richer than before, would prove them wrong with a "So you see".
Okay but does she seriously want an 18 y/o with no previous job experience nor with a degree who could only get a job with a low salary to pay the whole family's bills while he's a single child and both their parents work probably in an office the way they dress with probably a higher salary?
So many dhar Mann videos have the exact same script. Ungrateful child learns to adult. There’s also the story where a spoiled kid sees a less fortunate person and apologizes, the one where a person is judged by clothing/race/weight/sex and they end up teaching them a lesson, the one where a kid shames another kid ect ect. There’s only 5 basic stories
They only care about the quantity, they almost upload every day and he always gets millions of view out of it
@@fos1451 yeah and he’s pretty much a living meme at this point. I think Cody ko was first (at least for me) and then everyone watches his stuff just to make commentary.
feels like about halfway through she remembered that this was a dhar mann video and was like “oh yeah uh money doesn’t grow on trees”
Hello pokemon fan
That Lady is the true MVP, the only bearable character thoughout most of the Dhar Mann videos lmao
I expected the guy to try to live by himself and fail miserably or at least have a moment where he realizes what a brat he was to his parents. Instead he is coming back to his parents Dressing even nicer than he was before and telling THEM how to save money!
One time I accidentally bought a song from iTunes on my dads phone with his card (everything was already entered and I was trying to listen to it without buying it) and I was grounded for 3 months. It was a 69¢ song lol
69 cents, nice
That dad is actually a terrible dad lile bruh you can get a dollar easily when you are a childl
Thats a bit extreme, it was an accident
Your dad has problems
@@fos1451 that is an understatement
And in this way, his mother can enjoy her favorite oranges in anytime between 8-12 years after planting the damnn tree! Its perfect isn't it!?
Hopefully she doesn't have to move before the tree matures.
This entire video is just a slap in the face. I've been trying to move out for years but I just can't because I still go to uni and there's no job that pays enough for me to do that. Even if I worked like 25-30 hrs a week. (And I have a friggin' degree so it's twice the humilitation.) So it's either I finish my studies and then get a full-time job or I get an entry-level position somewhere now and never finish my Master's.
They got angry at their kid for using their credit card yet they gave him their credit card
this mother complaining that her son is DRINKING MILK. Oh my, she is the true villain.
He didn't drink it though. He left it in the bowl like a weirdo XD
@@applzd He had not done it yet when she act like a dumbass. Is she walter mercado?
@@diegolucavei She knew what was coming! It probably started months ago, with her calmly saying, "You shouldn't use so much cereal milk if you can't finish it, dear son." and him getting offended.
(Yes, I know I'm defending hard!)
I wouldn't say that, but them running out of milk is on her. Like it's on you if you see that you're running out of milk, but don't buy more. Although I get it if she told him to not have cereal because they're running low on milk, and he had cereal anyway.
My mother would throw a party if she saw me eating cereal. Then again, I have an eating disorder.
And to make sure your children don't get one too, don't police their food consumption!
The food thing really hurt to watch, honestly. Despite my family being completely able to afford food (Like that family is, considering their fancy house and stuff), I was constantly made to feel guilty for the expense of the food. Combined with my IBS and acid reflux making it difficult to eat anyway, I often skip meals to save money and every time I do eat, the guilt eats me right back. I've literally cried over needing to eat before, and I always try to eat in secret so no one sees what a waste I am. It's awful, I know logically I shouldn't feel guilty for doing what I need to literally just survive, but it's just engrained so deep.
Please, unless you literally have to ration, don't guilt kids (or even teenagers) over the expense of basic foods like milk. It's one thing if it's some super high end weird ingredient they genuinely don't need, but I'm talking about basic stuff for a good diet (not that milk is NECESSARY for a good diet but it is common and honestly not that expensive). Don't make children feel guilty for existing.
I hear you I do, my parents would consistently make me feel incredibly guilty for wasting anything. Still do, trying to move out right now. They blamed me for everything that went wrong with them my whole life. It hurts more when it happens to your siblings though and you can't change it. You can't do anything about it, you know how they feel and you can't stop it. You can't convince them they deserve to live because you can't tell them something they already know but can't believe. Guilt and shame are terrible things.
@@diimidosemineral9261 My older brother could practically do no wrong while I was blamed for everything... I can only think of one time my mom lashed out at him, and funny enough, afterwards he apologized to me for never believing me about how she treats me on a daily basis haha. I guess the only positive to being the youngest is I don't feel an obligation to defend my siblings (not that I wouldn't if they needed me, I absolutely would, but I'm not like a third parent or anything). Parents really need to stop hurting their own children, it's literally normalized to be abusive...
@@vaughnhaney7020 it is normalized and that just disturbs me. I think every parent in the world would benefit from going to therapy. Just so they can be more aware of their pitfalls and learn to account for them. Instead of replicating what came before and causing similar trauma.
Anyway I wish you well😊
1:12 I like how it zooms on the canister like it was something shocking.
The most unbelieve thing in the video was the kid making a *liveable* wage with an entry level job. Thats just not possible in America
How to teach your kid not to buy a ps5 on your credit card? Report it as stolen/the purchase as unauthorised. Because it was. Maybe not when he’s 18 but if he was a minor (and probably also not a poc) so wouldn’t go to jail, absolutely
What the hell is up with that dad? His whole purpose in life is to "tell him/tell her" like bro.... go hide in the game room. Youre useless XD
His character's purpose is to be the comic relief near the end, that's it 😂
Tell them, Makoto!
It's like his entire character is just to be a pushover & add nothing to the story
This character is very important
He is an example of how to not be
This is why I'll die alone. First time the dad said it was no big deal I would've packed both their bags and told them to enjoy life with each other.
YEAH, as you should!
if hes that bratty its kinda on the parents for horrible parenting
Ur profile picture scares me
Yeah, like he’s 18 they should have taught him better by now.
Guy straight up got bullied by his mom with that "oh wait but you don't have a job" line
(16:40) It's USA, where you have to make complicated maths to figure out the final price of what you're buying
What really hurts is I had fights like this with my parents. Except I wasn’t wasting money, I just didn’t have any and couldn’t get a job. This is just a boomer idea of how the world works and no, it’s not this easy to move out.
Stop eating avocado toast and maybe you can rent an apartment sort of bull mentality.
OMG and the "St0P g0ing t0 StArBuCks"
wow, Dharr man really do be out of touch if he thinks moving out can happen within weeks of getting your first job.... He knows entry level is impossible to get with no prior experience , right? i think Dharr needs to be the villian in his own video so he can learn that this whole scenario is literally impossible.
I thought the point of entry level was little or no experience.
@@lindseycassella3015 that's what they make it out to be but I have yet to find a job marked as "entry level" that doesn't require college or prior experience.
@@lindseycassella3015 An "entry level job" in my country requires you to have at least 6 years of experience.
@@lindseycassella3015 well, I'd love to live in the world were that's a thing* I'm surely not living in it* they almost always want like 5 years of experience, and that's how we got a lot of over valued people losing their studies and degrees at jobs that people with less formation needs to live...
This video is just parents bringing up the basic costs of living in every single argument lmao
Were those parents 1 years old when they had their son? They all look the same age XD
Lol
lmao probably
"14 dollars an hour? Who would work for that?"
Me working for 5.25 an hour in a toxic workspace 😐
I hope that you'll be able to find a non-toxic workplace soon. And one that pays you more.
@@skaldicwyrm8078 thanks. me too
Wait WAIT WAIT…. Their Internet is $40 and they’re complaining about MILK?!? My absolutely shit Internet is $110 and that’s the lowest package available in my whole state
@Ana Pie at least you have choices.. hopefully one is better then the other. There’s only one provider in the state. And they have two plans; $110 shit or $150-200 polished shit. 😂
First just buy a Bidet to save money on TP, second take the seeds from the orange to plant a tree instead of buying the seeds.
Yes, finally someone's talking about bidet!!! And I don't know how people buy their plants in USA, but at least, I know that here in Argentina you can buy a small tree on a greenhouse or a plant store, that way you wouldn't have to wait the 12 years needed for the seeds to turn on a grown up fruit producing tree 😹😹😹😹
Even like that you still have to plant it on fertile ground and let it grow a couple years (maybe 2~5)
For real! Bidet and a bit of soap also cleans much, much better than tp!
"There was lava."
Literally hot damn.
19:16 thats the most "acting" ive seen from her lmao
"Money doesn't grow on trees" Well... To be fair. Money is paper. And paper comes from trees
Dhar Mann went from Saturday morning cartoon villains to actual real people
hello fellow agender person :0
I forgot that the word smug exists.
That father figure is useless! Parenting rule no.1: To the child parents are one entity when it comes to comunicativ a decision. That is in a healthy family tho. 🙄
Im just saying, the fact that joinen also lived in a family of 6, bought 3 litres of milk and it sometimes went bad, and is european is a crazy coincidence.
This episode almost played out like a Dhar Mann video, with Joinen initially judging the actors and later realizing they were more real.
Plot Twist: Joinen is the new Dhar Mann villain.
The part with the son being like "I don't want to take a job that doesn't pay enough" and the mom acting like that's so entitled and you should just take whatever you can get sure does hit different after all the drama with Dhar Mann earlier this year...
I feel like the kid is gonna end up on that show about super cheap ppl
Lol extreme cheapskates
@@lindseycassella3015 more like dhar mann
67 is actually so cold, we keep our house at 72
It sounds like his parents didn't do their job in teaching him this when he was younger
They gave him access to their credit cards, the information to change their internet plan, and apparently never taught him the basics of rolling up your toothpaste.
If my parents did this and then tried to teach me by kicking me out, forcing me to get a job because they think they know so much better than me, it wouldn't matter if they were right, and it wouldn't matter if I learn something I would still resent them.
Tough love is fine, teaching someone with it is a good tool but this shows an obvious lack in parenting. This is not a good example
There's a way to teach your kids and still hold up a relationship, by his mother doing this she would be breaking something between the two of them and not being aware of it, so wouldn't try to fix it either. If they were going to teach their son by having him get his own job they should have made it a condition a long time ago that you were going to have to get a job by 18 or 19 or something so that he knew it was coming, to decide this in the moment because you're frustrated is immature. This is a huge part of his life, something important and you decide to act like this, it's going to affect him a lot further than just getting a job for himself
I know these are stupid videos and the whole point of this video is pointing out how ridiculous they are but being neglected as a child this just frustrates me.
I agree. Like it's their fault for not teaching him when he was way younger that things are expensive, although, I don't agree with being forced to get a job. I feel like it should rather be 'if you're not studying, get a job so that we know you can take care of yourself'
They didn't kick him out though.
Also, it was just stupid storytelling. Kid should shave been 13 or 14 and they should have made him pay off his PS5 debt or something like that by getting a job like cutting lawn for example.
The son was way too old for this to not make the parents look ridiculous, even though they were meant to be shown as loving and just doing it to prepare their son for adult life.
Can't start that when you child is already a legal adult. 😅
He wasn't kicked out, the mom just told him that if he wanted to buy stuff he had to use his own money. Then he got mad and said that he was gonna move out once he got a job. Funny thing is If he had stayed with his parents the 14$ an hour would've gone a long way
The parents just spoiled the shit out of him and then had the audacity to get mad at him lmao.
You guys really are the ignorant ones
This channel is made for CHILDREN for fucks sake no 7 year old is gonna know all of this stuff youre sayimg the videos are ment to give a simple good messages and "change lives".
Seriously thats like saying minecraft is a bad game because blocks float in the air like bruh minecraft isnt a physics engine its a building/survival game
Split the toilet paper in half so you have to use twice as much to keep your hands clean. He should’ve just gotten them a bidet.
"You guys are being so dramatic."
Me, having been abused just for talking as a kid: Audible laughter.
This youtuber is straight up bussin
ayyy the parents are finally getting sasssss :D
The amount of money he started spending got extreme eventually, but the mom being that mad over mistakes like using up the last bit of milk (in my house if someone uses the last bit of milk its just ok, we can pick that up later, sucks) and turning the ac low is a bit extreme, those are basic mistakes. Now getting ps5 is extreme but why did you give him your card?
... That video wasn't the one I should have watched after having bought myself a cosplay and feeling ALREADY guilty about it ;;
Did the comment where the mum dismissed him saying $14 an hour is too low rub anyone else the wrong way with all the current discussions going on about raising the minimum wage? Something about it felt in poor taste lol
Like I get that he's being a brat, especially as a kid who isn't the one paying the bills, but making it something like $25 would've really shown how entitled he is better imo
Plot Twist: This was just a narcissistic mother pushing her financial problems onto a kid from a biased perspective, and she's convinced he is eighteen when he's not, he looks 13 at best ...
Good theory
So you see, I have to leave the hoodie on
I've been refreshing this page non stop yessss
11:57 actually it’s not that hard depending on where she works and how much she and her husband gets paid. She meant to say it’s hard to hold onto a few hundred dollars after bills, food, etc
12:45 idk how ever many years late I am these videos always have so much golden nuggets hidden in them
Geez, I wonder if my parents see me as spoiled because I don't have a job, despite my severe and untreated mental illnesses, plus chronic pain problems.
Also, I would kill for $14 an hour.
How is everyone doing? Remember to keep fighting, your worth it, your life has value and you matter.
You again-
Kind, wise words of the prickly cactus ^^
@@meltyflapjack ?
I friking love you prickly cactus ❤❤
This is obviously a message for the cat I'm cuddling with right now, not for me. Tango is the best.
Okay realistically in America, kid would not have been able to move out without getting a ton of roommates. And if he even managed to find a job, which I mean good luck, he’d need at least two or three to pay rent. This is just a fever dream. Kid never left his house.
There's such a wild gap between parents being angry at a kid for drinking milk and wanting toothpaste and the kid charging a PS5 on the mom's credit card.
I can understand AC but milk? this is a child and they were just getting their nutritions.
My mom is like this. The difference is that I'm 16 and trying my best to get a job
Isn't "teen refuses to get a job" what the last 3 dhar mann videos have been about?
Nah Dhar Mann is obsessed with being tiktok famous.
Wait, people split toilet paper in half???
I drank the entire half gallon of milk yesterday while I was high 🥲 I forgot and made a bowl of cereal this morning and everything and opened the fridge to discover I betrayed myself
Not me being a Canadian being confused about the temperatures in the video
Omg i got a milk ad (lactania in Canada) after your said "did you know one glass of milk has 13g of sugar?" 🤣
Money is paper... it literally grows on trees
Okay but using all the milk and running out of toothpaste are about as far from upgrading the internet plan as things can be. I don’t like how these are equated.
Weird to me this kid didnt struggle more, like getting a job right out of HS is hard enough but being able to MOVE IN to your own apartment in just a few weeks? That's not how life works, and when he was talking about the 14 $/hour thing, i know people who would KILL to have that be their wage. It's also pretty clear his parents aren't poor. Poor people don't get to live in a house that looks like that - they're like at least middle class so I'm not sure why their kid is telling them to split toilet paper in half or why the mother is panicking over milk and A/C. It seems like the writers have never struggled with money/getting employed in their entire lives to be honest...
Daniel: wats the big deal.
Mom: *urgh
Dad: um *scratches head
Dahrman: Money doesn’t grow on trees
mom: "get a job"
Daniel: "Bet"
Dhar Mann doesn't have any scripts, he just plants cameras in someone's house and takes that footage and adds the story/narration after
Holy crap. Brita bottles are like... $50
the ending just weirded me up XD the parents are acting like they haven't seen or heard of they're kid for years and years. like did they send him to some cult/camp where visits are not allowed? so they don't have to look like the bad parents more?? is that why he changed so much? *conspiracy?*
The nagging mom was on point in this one...
it is just not convincing me to change my life and i thought that was the point in these XD
Businessmen wear turtleneaks
- Dhar mann 2021
I'm absolutely losing it at the person in chat who said "oranges don't grow on trees daniel".
Maybe Dhar Mann gets money for advertising PS5 and Warzone.
I mean... wasn't this just an overdramatized version of a middle class household? Yeah as a teen you don't think about the price of your favorite cereal or price of different kinds of milks until you go out into the world and realize, oh shit... do I really need this? xD I guess it is a good educational film for preteens x'D
13:55
THE LOOK IN THIS DUDE'S EYES OMG
An entry level job with no college certificate/diploma? Okay, sure lol
That home looks so high-class, but I guess that's because I live in a poor area. But like.. they really can't afford to put the AC on with their marble counter tops and modern furniture? Also, she is extremely obsessive over small things like finishing the milk, which is controlling. Would you rather let it be full and spoil?
Honestly the kid isn't the main baddie
Joinen, can we get your song back for the outro? It is really nice, and you have lot of talent that should not go to waste. Maybe mix it with your knowledge of rendering such a supergood lemon carton in 3D? you can shuffle your talents you know!
How could he change the plan when the contract isn't in his name? Am i missing something?
Now I want cereal
How the conversation should have gone
I got you double padded toilet paper so you can manually separate each roll to make your own 1ply toilet paper rolls by literally unwinding every single roll.
That's nice honey but they sell 1ply toilet paper already made for cheap and we simply limit the number of squares to save money that way. The other way takes up too much time that we could be using to save money in other areas.
Wow I still have a lot to learn.
Who tf does that with 2 ply toilet paper doe? 👀
um- if someone used my credit card without letting me now..ill literally get so mad ill stop talking to them..i learnt how to spend my own money since i was a child so i dont rlly have to rely on my parents that much..the toothpaste part is dumb to be mad ab..the.milk is also not a big deal..hes a bit bratty and disrespectful..but the mom is a bit over dramatic..
How cute they all fake laughed at his dad joke
You know what Dar man teaches parents.... don't spoil your children
Are Americans really expected to get a job and move out at eighteen without any support from their parents??
I drank 5 glasses of milk while watching this
5:29 Oh dear, here we go
Jesus... I mean, as an adult who pays all my family's bills, and lives in a household where no one else works, the mom here actually seems a little excessive at first? The kid is literally only 18 and he, what? Ate a big bowl of cereal, ran out of toothpaste and prefers the AC on? 67 is more than a reasonable temperature, too, btw. I cannot imagine getting mad at anyone in my house for doing that. Obviously ordering an expensive item using my credit card without asking and upgrading our internet plan without asking wouldn't be cool, but those kiiiinda seem like the only real problems here. Up until that information is revealed, I think she mostly just needs to chill out... And maybe put milk and toothpaste on the shopping list more often. 🤷♀️
yeah, i felt a little annoyed at first too, but i'm also just a teen so.. what do i know.
but good enough for a dharman video ig
I just commented about the same thing
Ngl my mom is kinda similar, I'm 18 and going to study at a college yet she wants me to work and keeps saying all the food goes waste
Like man, buy less food, I told her I don't need lunch ordered and I'm concerned my sister is living off of sunlight cuz I never see her eating
I had a roommate would keep changing it to 80 because it was too expensive. I'm so glad to be out of there
100% agreed
I agree with the milk and toothpaste, like that's on you for not buying it, but if the problem with the ac was that he left it on all day then I can understand where she's coming from.
I can see Minute Maid, Colgate, Brita, and Cheerios paid a pretty penny toward that Dahr man video
Deadass would've just put locks on some non essentials that he uses and force him to pay me. Not a lot, but enough to get my point across
“DID YOU JUST FINISH THE MILK!?”
“It was almost empty-“
“HOW DARE YOU FINISH THE MILK!”
“Can I get some new toothpaste?”
“NO YOU SPOILED KID”
Every day Dhar Mann villians get closer to being worse than Avengers villains