spending time with a DYING relative is not the same as picking your perfectly healthy mom over building relationships with friends and peers. you can spend time with your mom and also hang out with friends.
@@shreyastayal2936 Yeah. My mom got cancer a while back and it affected my family for a long time. She's better now, but we all still have emotional scars from the whole thing.
"You should spend time with your mom because she's not gonna be around forever" is the WORST reason to blow off every single other person. Everyone is mortal, you can't just pick one to spend time with and stick only with them. That's just unrealistic. "Spend time with your loved ones" would be much better advice
True, because your mom isn't the only one you'll miss when they're gone. You'll miss your dad, your siblings, your cousins, your friends, etc. Spend time with everyone you love, not just your mom.
"hang out with your mum instead of your school friends in case your mum dies" because there's no chance of your school friends dying before your mum does
Yeah, it's not as if my high school friend was WAY more likely to die than my mom, considering she was suicidal and attempted several times. I was much more scared of losing her.
and building relationships with your friends is totally unimportant and you'll never regret building lasting bonds with people before being sent off into the world totally alone with nobody except your mom there for you
@@TheListenerCanon almost died recently, it was really sudden and I didn't talk about it much at school, but damn, thinking I could have been this one kid that never came back from the holidays is so strange
lol, she told her sons she "didn't have much time left" after a single inconclusive biopsy. And then the doctor told her she definitely didn't have cancer after another, single, biopsy. The first one has just as much chance of being a false positive as the second being a false negative. Darr Man ain't got a clue how medicine works.
I also don't know how medicine works but most people know that there'd be a third test if the first two had opposite results to see which one was wrong Dhar mann doesn't know medicine or numbers
When the kid said "Like my dad always says, Always spend time with your mom" I thought he was going to say "Because I don't want to spend time with you."
This feels like a more manipulative version of those animated stories that tell children that they absolutely must love and forgive their parents no matter what happens because they think everyone "owes" their parents for the "generous act" of having similar blood
@@peytongolding7544 I used to be a Christian and a big part of my religious trauma comes from being taught my parents could do no wrong and to do every single thing they say
Dhar Mann villains/bullies are usually so unbelievable. They ruthlessly make fun of the protagonist for things no one would make fun of. However. If a high schooler wore an I ❤️ My Mom shirt to school, they actually would be bullied for it. If they only ever chose to hang out with their mom, they would be teased. Hanging out with your dying mother is totally different than always choosing your mom over kids your own age. In this case, the “protagonist” was actually a weirdo.
Idk, maybe I don't get it but the protagonist seems alright to me. Like, sure, it's a bit weird to wear shirt but I wouldn't say it's okay to tease or bully a kid for that - let em' wear what they want. It is unhealthy for the kid to not hang out with anyone except his mom, but if he's talking with friends while spending a bit more time with his mom than the average kid, who's to say that's weird? Maybe I can just relate though since I was bullied in school for many years, and one of the things I was teased over was how I still called my mom "mommy" and how I talked with her so much. And don't get me wrong, Dhar Mann's message throughout the whole video was dumb and weird like usual, but I wouldn't really say it's alright to be teased or bullied for spending time with your mum.
@@hollosou335 oh, I didn’t mean to imply it would be okay to bully someone for that, just that someone actually would be bullied for it. In other Dhar Mann videos, the things the protagonists are often teased or made fun of for are things no one in my middle/high school would have even taken notice of. This one was just a bit different.
In my school, you'd get bad-mouthed for it, or maybe get some nasty remarks at worst. Kinda crazy how depending on the school, people are more or less chill
@@thesirensystem no no but like they're children, so for the development of social skills it's very important to be surranded by a variation of people, and also being only with one person will probably develop a unhealthy dependance on that person, which would mean that in a situation without the person they wouldn't be able to function properly. Also, that exhousts that person greatly and would lead to them not being able to do a lot of things of daily basis.
@@MeWoW-ie I was also a child. I get what you're saying but there's literally no guarantee on what you're dating. Sure, that can happen, but as someone literally training to become a child psychotherapist they can still turn out perfectly fine. Please don't try to school me
@@thesirensystem I'm not saying you didn't turn out fine, or that your life was not fine. I'm saying that this specific situation doesn't seem fine and can have conseqences (not has to can). And there is no guarantee on what I'm saying, but it is very likely if the situation is like they make it out to be. Every time those people had an option of spending time with their friends they turned it down for the sake of spending time with their moms. They put a big emphasis that they spend most of their time with their moms, and that they are one of the few people they have a closer relationship with. The one time they were showed spending time with friends is still with their moms. That can have major conseqences, and I've seen examples of it. I'm sorry if you feel like I'm attacking you, that isn't my point or intention, and congrats on the training thing it a pretty hard job from what I heard (both my mom and grandma worked with children in some form of therapy and they talk about it)
Medically, this is the strangest thing ever. -"You have terminal colon cancer. Yup, just in your colon, no where else. And it's sooo terminal you'll be dead in no time." - "Oh wait, never mind".
It's SO unhealthy to be that obsessed with your Mom! Especially when you're a teenager and supposed to be gaining social experience to prepare you for the real world. It has to be a BALANCE between family and social life. Otherwise, you get an adult that still lives with mom, has no friends, never been laid, and turns into a gamer neckbeard. This is how Chis Chan was born!
It's kinda silly to start deconstructing the logic of the Dhar Mann video, but I'll do it anyway. Laboratories usually run 3-4 tests, sometimes more (depending on the illness), which go through different paths in order to find the result. You have to confirm your diagnosis in multiple ways before giving the result to the patient. This is specially common when the result of the illness will drastically change the person's life (say having AIDS, cancer, TB, etc.). For example: You don't run one (1) test with 98% accuracy, you run several different tests with 95,98,99% accuracy. That way you cover as much as you can in order to get a true result, being that result a true positive or a true negative.
@@AndreaP_N7 Lol. Like teaching ecuations implies the kid has to 'guess' the number rather than solving it and then saying the answer he got. Obviously.
I was literally half expecting the doctor and his family to say that it was all a prank to make him realize that spending time with your Mom is important.
aight yeah sure don't take your moms for granted but there's a difference between spending time with a family member who's dying and hangin out with your perfectly healthy family member (who should not be the only person you hang out with, spend some time with other people as well)
Where is this conversation?: - Yo! Cameron! Lately you are spending a lot of time with your mom. Are you getting soft? - My mom has colon cancer. Truth is she doesn't have much time left. - Oh...
@@LezbeOswald It's hinted that he did tho, he said "I got good news", which means he told his friends about his mom, or the convo would be like this - I have good news, my mom's not gonna die! - Your mom was going to die? - Oh yeah, she's fine now tho - So that's why youve been hanging out with her so much hum.. why didn't u told us? - Hum...
Also, cancer results don’t really work like that. A false positive is just as likely as a false negative. I have incurable cancer and yeah... this is just... I don’t like Dar Mann.
You would only believe that you had a short time to live if you were told that, most likely, and a doctor would only tell you that with colon cancer if it had metastasized. They would only suspect that after something like a PET scan showing that there were masses in other places. In general, you don't go from certain death to false positive with colon cancer. IOW: That's not how any of this works, Dhar Mann. I know from having gone through it with my Mom. The message here is both emotionally manipulative and highly irresponsible.
Yeah, I’m not a doctor, but I was pretty sure results don’t come back as “this is either a false positive, or you’re on death’s door.” I mean, there are probably like some now-unexplained symptoms?
If this were to happen would they run a third test? I'm not a doctor but I feel like in general if you got two tests with conflicting results like this most people would wanna know for sure which one is correct
@@peytongolding7544 Definitely. Even if there was just one result, they would run more test to get the specifics of the illness and send it through multiple specialists
Not to be preachy... I gave birth to my daughter pretty young (17 years old) and we were really really close to where I hung out with her and her friends and she hung out with mine. Some kids would pick on her about us having such a close relationship. She passed away unexpectedly and it absolutely broke me. I wouldn't trade the bond we had for anything though.
MD: "We're gonna have to do another test to make sure it's actually cancer" Mother to her son: "I don't have much time left, I'm not gonna get better" What is wrong with this woman lmao? This is so freaking unrealistic xD This is not how these things go lol
His dad is weird as hell if he tells his teenage son to hang out with his mom, unless he's the type of teen to pretend he hates his mom, which he clearly isn't.
Wow, the actors that played the mom and son at the hospital.... wtf, I started actually crying, too. That woman needs to be more famous, she's excellent at her craft.
Hey Dharmann fam! I hope you enjoyed the video! And always remember, it's better to let your son say goodbye to his social stability and friends to spend all his time with you!! .... ... Seriously, this women doesn't have any friends or family??? They just have all their time to spent ONLY WITH THEIR SONS? I smell some good old emotional incest here..
that would have to be like stage 4 colon cancer for her to not have much time left but if they needed a second biopsy to confirm that would be unlikely... and if not colon cancer, what the heck was in her colon then?!?!
Okay all things aside the cancer thing is pretty messy. If they're suspicious of colon cancer and have done endoscopy and you're saying that you don't have much time you gotta have some serious symptoms. (Like bloody feces, some serious pain, constant constipation are the most basic ones for that) The biopsies does not work like that do your research Dhar Mann.
people don’t actually make fun of people for having a good relationship with their parents. honestly the worst i get is jealousy from people who don’t have good parents. and i just tell them like my parents do that we’re an open arms/open door household. any friends who need to crash somewhere safe or even just have a quieter environment for their homework or eat dinner can come to our house. we have a spare room and bathroom after my sister moved out to their apartment for college, and my parents love to cook so we always have extra food. and they’re really fun to be around. all my friends love them and it’s honestly great that’s the worst i get is just people saying “man i wish my parents were like that” and then i hug them. no one actually makes fun of people for having good parents.
handcuff yourself to all of your loved ones. never let them leave your sight. you never know when they’re going to die so might as well spend every second with them!
Literally the most unbelievable thing I've ever seen in one of these videos in a high school boy blowing off hanging out with two girls his own age to hang with his mom.
Another Dhar Mann video...this reminds me, I have a classmate (high school) who RELIGIOUSLY watches Dhar Mann. Like, unironically too. It's genuinely kinda terrifying to me
i was expecting the first kid to be super close with his mom bc his dad died and she's all the family he has left but nah both his parents are alive and fine what the fuck
The acting was never the issue with dhar mann videos, but they've definitely improved with the acting If only they'd fix the actual scripts and story and maybe not guilt trip people into exclusively caring about blood relatives?
It’s totally normal and healthy for a kid to want to hang out with friends over parents sometimes. Also, if I was a mother dying of terminal cancer, then if time and energy allowed I’d try to plan some fun stuff to do where my child and his friends could join in. Like take them all to a theme park. I’d want his last memories of me to be happy, and it’d be great if his close friends were a part of some of those memories.
This hit different because my husband has late stage lung cancer and isn't getting better amd we have a mid together cancer isn't something to take lightly it really does ruin lives
"My dad always says, spend time with your mom. It's kinda weird. He says it all the time. Like, especially when I ask if he wants to do stuff with me." 🤷♂️
You're never gonna be a Dhar Mann villain Joinen, just because you can 'relate' to them doesn't make 'them'. You are your own, You're Joinen, you just have human knowledge. You know the complexity of life that Dhar mann doesn't, even if it touches a glimpse of that. I would never relate you to a 'character' on Dhar Mann's channel, never.
For some odd reason I feel like Dhar Mann is disrespecting actual cancer patients and people with dying relatives Like I just get unreasonably pissed off whenever I see the story
Same. This video legit triggered memories of my family members who have died from cancer, and hearing Dhar Mann trivialize such a serious topic for the sake of cheap shock-value content was upsetting as hell. That video makes my blood boil.
its honestly kinda hard to balance relationships, its important to have good relationships with your parents and friends. and, of COURSE, you are NEVER obligated to have a good relationship. sometimes thats not an option. stay safe, whatever means necessary. but spending every second with your mom? ofc thats sweet but if youre depriving yourself of friendships, try that too
3:44 I had a moment like that in IB (A levels equivalent), where I did higher Maths, and my teacher was like ??? My mum has a PhD in applied mathematics :D
spending time with a DYING relative is not the same as picking your perfectly healthy mom over building relationships with friends and peers. you can spend time with your mom and also hang out with friends.
Was about to comment the same thing couldn't find a good way to say it, but you did a good job
And also the boy is now traumatized I feel like and you can't blame really cancer is scary.
By the way #technosupport
@@shreyastayal2936 Yeah. My mom got cancer a while back and it affected my family for a long time. She's better now, but we all still have emotional scars from the whole thing.
Yes, exactly
"Form an emotionally codependent relationship with your mom. It is very good" - Dhar Mann
"You should spend time with your mom because she's not gonna be around forever" is the WORST reason to blow off every single other person. Everyone is mortal, you can't just pick one to spend time with and stick only with them. That's just unrealistic. "Spend time with your loved ones" would be much better advice
Exactly. But if it were logical it wouldn't be a dhar mann video.
Nah
I guess the dad is immortal then since he said that he should just spend time with his mum
True, because your mom isn't the only one you'll miss when they're gone. You'll miss your dad, your siblings, your cousins, your friends, etc. Spend time with everyone you love, not just your mom.
You’re right I should choose people who will be insignificant in the future over my mom who’s dealing with cancer.
"hang out with your mum instead of your school friends in case your mum dies" because there's no chance of your school friends dying before your mum does
Yeah, it's not as if my high school friend was WAY more likely to die than my mom, considering she was suicidal and attempted several times. I was much more scared of losing her.
and building relationships with your friends is totally unimportant and you'll never regret building lasting bonds with people before being sent off into the world totally alone with nobody except your mom there for you
But the mom had cancer...?
Someone did die in my high school. I wasn't huge friends with him but we all missed him dearly.
@@TheListenerCanon almost died recently, it was really sudden and I didn't talk about it much at school, but damn, thinking I could have been this one kid that never came back from the holidays is so strange
“He’s not a clown, he’s the entire circus.” - Miles Edgeworth
Fun fact: That is actually not a official line from ace attorney but it was from a post
Am I the only one who thought that Slipping(the outro music) was played extra loud at the end
@@haneame0412 don’t spam please
@@ToastedBreadWithHoney it's something Edgeworth would say though
@@PloverTechOfficial its a bot
doctor "We're going to do a second test just to make sure"
her to her literal son "Truth is, I don't have much time left"
lol, she told her sons she "didn't have much time left" after a single inconclusive biopsy. And then the doctor told her she definitely didn't have cancer after another, single, biopsy. The first one has just as much chance of being a false positive as the second being a false negative. Darr Man ain't got a clue how medicine works.
No, you misunderstood. She had that cancer but spending every single second with her son cured it.
I also don't know how medicine works but most people know that there'd be a third test if the first two had opposite results to see which one was wrong
Dhar mann doesn't know medicine or numbers
@@justarandomgenius2908 he still has no clue on how medican works at all.
Medicine. Auto correct is the worst
Maybe the mum wants to hang out with her friends too instead of spending 24/7 with her son 😂
When the kid said "Like my dad always says, Always spend time with your mom" I thought he was going to say "Because I don't want to spend time with you."
Lol same!
Unhealthy attachment to your mom and spending her last days with her are two different things. This is social click bait😂
Exactly!
Also kinda traumatizing for kids. "Spend time with your mom just in case she dies of a terminal illness"
@@thatalchemistlady Yes that's a good point, horrible guilt-tripping
This feels like a more manipulative version of those animated stories that tell children that they absolutely must love and forgive their parents no matter what happens because they think everyone "owes" their parents for the "generous act" of having similar blood
@@peytongolding7544 I used to be a Christian and a big part of my religious trauma comes from being taught my parents could do no wrong and to do every single thing they say
“Thanks, but I have plans with my mom” is a genuine sentence I have said before. She’s my best friend.
Nice ( ꈍᴗꈍ)
That’s sweet.
Dad: "always spend time with your mom"
Also dad : "I don't want to be around you and you ruined our marriage"
I want to see Joinen in a “I ❤️ MY MOM” T-shirt next time
Thank you for takinh my side lol
These intros keep on getting stranger and stranger everyday and I love them!
@@haneame0412 pls don’t spam
they are killing me 😂
Dhar Mann villains/bullies are usually so unbelievable. They ruthlessly make fun of the protagonist for things no one would make fun of.
However. If a high schooler wore an I ❤️ My Mom shirt to school, they actually would be bullied for it. If they only ever chose to hang out with their mom, they would be teased.
Hanging out with your dying mother is totally different than always choosing your mom over kids your own age. In this case, the “protagonist” was actually a weirdo.
Idk, maybe I don't get it but the protagonist seems alright to me. Like, sure, it's a bit weird to wear shirt but I wouldn't say it's okay to tease or bully a kid for that - let em' wear what they want.
It is unhealthy for the kid to not hang out with anyone except his mom, but if he's talking with friends while spending a bit more time with his mom than the average kid, who's to say that's weird?
Maybe I can just relate though since I was bullied in school for many years, and one of the things I was teased over was how I still called my mom "mommy" and how I talked with her so much.
And don't get me wrong, Dhar Mann's message throughout the whole video was dumb and weird like usual, but I wouldn't really say it's alright to be teased or bullied for spending time with your mum.
@@hollosou335 oh, I didn’t mean to imply it would be okay to bully someone for that, just that someone actually would be bullied for it. In other Dhar Mann videos, the things the protagonists are often teased or made fun of for are things no one in my middle/high school would have even taken notice of. This one was just a bit different.
@@melfree2545 Ohhh I seee, makes sense. Yeah, speaking from experience, you're right about that lol
In my school, you'd get bad-mouthed for it, or maybe get some nasty remarks at worst. Kinda crazy how depending on the school, people are more or less chill
The whole thing is super unhealthy tho, it's extreamly important to hang out with more then one person
Not rlly. I've hung out with 0 people most of my life and I turned out fine
@@thesirensystem no no but like they're children, so for the development of social skills it's very important to be surranded by a variation of people, and also being only with one person will probably develop a unhealthy dependance on that person, which would mean that in a situation without the person they wouldn't be able to function properly. Also, that exhousts that person greatly and would lead to them not being able to do a lot of things of daily basis.
@@MeWoW-ie I was also a child. I get what you're saying but there's literally no guarantee on what you're dating. Sure, that can happen, but as someone literally training to become a child psychotherapist they can still turn out perfectly fine. Please don't try to school me
@@MeWoW-ie I agree. Unhealthy emotional dependance is awful and it can bring a lot of anxiety.
@@thesirensystem I'm not saying you didn't turn out fine, or that your life was not fine. I'm saying that this specific situation doesn't seem fine and can have conseqences (not has to can). And there is no guarantee on what I'm saying, but it is very likely if the situation is like they make it out to be. Every time those people had an option of spending time with their friends they turned it down for the sake of spending time with their moms. They put a big emphasis that they spend most of their time with their moms, and that they are one of the few people they have a closer relationship with. The one time they were showed spending time with friends is still with their moms. That can have major conseqences, and I've seen examples of it. I'm sorry if you feel like I'm attacking you, that isn't my point or intention, and congrats on the training thing it a pretty hard job from what I heard (both my mom and grandma worked with children in some form of therapy and they talk about it)
Medically, this is the strangest thing ever. -"You have terminal colon cancer. Yup, just in your colon, no where else. And it's sooo terminal you'll be dead in no time."
- "Oh wait, never mind".
It's SO unhealthy to be that obsessed with your Mom! Especially when you're a teenager and supposed to be gaining social experience to prepare you for the real world. It has to be a BALANCE between family and social life. Otherwise, you get an adult that still lives with mom, has no friends, never been laid, and turns into a gamer neckbeard. This is how Chis Chan was born!
It's kinda silly to start deconstructing the logic of the Dhar Mann video, but I'll do it anyway. Laboratories usually run 3-4 tests, sometimes more (depending on the illness), which go through different paths in order to find the result. You have to confirm your diagnosis in multiple ways before giving the result to the patient. This is specially common when the result of the illness will drastically change the person's life (say having AIDS, cancer, TB, etc.).
For example: You don't run one (1) test with 98% accuracy, you run several different tests with 95,98,99% accuracy. That way you cover as much as you can in order to get a true result, being that result a true positive or a true negative.
Literally doing that everytime here (≧▽≦)
I understand the urge to deconstruct Dhar Mann logic, because I'm a math teacher and I was deconstructing that horrible math lesson in my head.
That’s what I was thinking. When she got her negative result, all I could think of was whether that result was from the 2% which could be inaccurate
@@claro_ve6760 I'm studying to be a biochemist, so that's why I can talk about this stuff a lot. x)
@@AndreaP_N7 Lol. Like teaching ecuations implies the kid has to 'guess' the number rather than solving it and then saying the answer he got. Obviously.
I was literally half expecting the doctor and his family to say that it was all a prank to make him realize that spending time with your Mom is important.
aight yeah sure don't take your moms for granted but there's a difference between spending time with a family member who's dying and hangin out with your perfectly healthy family member (who should not be the only person you hang out with, spend some time with other people as well)
Where is this conversation?:
- Yo! Cameron! Lately you are spending a lot of time with your mom. Are you getting soft?
- My mom has colon cancer. Truth is she doesn't have much time left.
- Oh...
right?? he never told his friends what was going on. i'm sure if he did they'd be much more understanding.
@@LezbeOswald It's hinted that he did tho, he said "I got good news", which means he told his friends about his mom, or the convo would be like this
- I have good news, my mom's not gonna die!
- Your mom was going to die?
- Oh yeah, she's fine now tho
- So that's why youve been hanging out with her so much hum.. why didn't u told us?
- Hum...
Also, cancer results don’t really work like that. A false positive is just as likely as a false negative.
I have incurable cancer and yeah... this is just... I don’t like Dar Mann.
You would only believe that you had a short time to live if you were told that, most likely, and a doctor would only tell you that with colon cancer if it had metastasized. They would only suspect that after something like a PET scan showing that there were masses in other places. In general, you don't go from certain death to false positive with colon cancer.
IOW: That's not how any of this works, Dhar Mann. I know from having gone through it with my Mom. The message here is both emotionally manipulative and highly irresponsible.
@@AnodyneJS dhar Mann irresponsible? Sssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssshocking...
Yeah, I’m not a doctor, but I was pretty sure results don’t come back as “this is either a false positive, or you’re on death’s door.”
I mean, there are probably like some now-unexplained symptoms?
If this were to happen would they run a third test? I'm not a doctor but I feel like in general if you got two tests with conflicting results like this most people would wanna know for sure which one is correct
@@peytongolding7544 Definitely. Even if there was just one result, they would run more test to get the specifics of the illness and send it through multiple specialists
Not to be preachy... I gave birth to my daughter pretty young (17 years old) and we were really really close to where I hung out with her and her friends and she hung out with mine. Some kids would pick on her about us having such a close relationship. She passed away unexpectedly and it absolutely broke me. I wouldn't trade the bond we had for anything though.
I'm sorry to hear that. I hope you're doing okay.
I'm so sorry. My condolences
🖤💜🖤💜
I'm sorry for your loss
I'm so sorry for your loss! 🥺❤
like my dad always tells me… “brush you teeth if you don’t wanna be decapitated my the tooth fairy”
Oh wow, I thought my dad was the only one who said that!
*Sniffle* what incredible words the man has!
Wow, my dad says that too.. BY THE WAY WOULD YOU LIKE SOME ICECREAM????
my dad actually always said “💀💀💀💀….💀💀……….💀💀💀”
@@stankyratman5685 alas, poor Yorick, I knew him well
The dying mother was a great actress tho. Like, props!!
MD: "We're gonna have to do another test to make sure it's actually cancer"
Mother to her son: "I don't have much time left, I'm not gonna get better"
What is wrong with this woman lmao? This is so freaking unrealistic xD This is not how these things go lol
I mean, if she doesn't even know for sure, then it's probably too early to know how deadly it is, right?
if i got news my cancer scare ended up being nothing I'd probably tell my kids never mind school, we're taking the day off today lol
Ok....... I think we're allowed to make fun of this kid
His dad is weird as hell if he tells his teenage son to hang out with his mom, unless he's the type of teen to pretend he hates his mom, which he clearly isn't.
Me rewatching the video and feeling personally attacked 😂😂😂 I have to wear my I love my mom shirt for the next stream lol
misss lissaaaa
ok this is all jokes but I did tear up and felt genuine relief that the mom is ok
Me too
My mom would have killed me if picked hanging out with her over hanging out with friends.
lmao rip
Wow, the actors that played the mom and son at the hospital.... wtf, I started actually crying, too. That woman needs to be more famous, she's excellent at her craft.
‘we’ll see you guys, are you moms hopefully, next time”
wait huh?
I DO NOT instantly regret watching this.
THEORY:The Mama's boy either pays the doctor to fake a positive test or sabotages it himself...
No. This is a little much... he’s the kind of momma’s boy that will choose his mom over his wife. I see that being a big problem
What if Dharr man is that type of mommas boy, that’d make sense
I feel bad for laughing that they have a I love mom t-shirt and for the ending lmao
same
But do you really love your mom without the I love mom shirt? Lol
ignore the first comment
Freud is rolling in his coffin after that one
Hey dhar man fam! 😍😍 We’re not just telling stories, we’re changing lives.
We're not just telling changing, we're stories lives
“We’re not just telling stories, we’re ending lives”
“You are my dad. You’re my dad!”
“Woogie woogie woogie”
Joinen was comedy gold in this episode! Absolutely hilarious
“Ill see you guys… and your mums next time” 😂😂😂😂
Kid doesn't eat key, instantly regrets it!
Hey Dharmann fam! I hope you enjoyed the video! And always remember, it's better to let your son say goodbye to his social stability and friends to spend all his time with you!!
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Seriously, this women doesn't have any friends or family??? They just have all their time to spent ONLY WITH THEIR SONS?
I smell some good old emotional incest here..
exactly that's what I was thinking aswell
I was just about to comment that!
Yeah, that video reeks of Oedipus Complex secretly!
This is kind of the emotional equivalent of a jumpscare. Effective(ish) but lazy.
As a fnaf fan I am offended
@@fudgeciclez that’s valid. Fnaf did jump scares with style and heaps of paranoia.
that would have to be like stage 4 colon cancer for her to not have much time left but if they needed a second biopsy to confirm that would be unlikely... and if not colon cancer, what the heck was in her colon then?!?!
Okay all things aside the cancer thing is pretty messy.
If they're suspicious of colon cancer and have done endoscopy and you're saying that you don't have much time you gotta have some serious symptoms. (Like bloody feces, some serious pain, constant constipation are the most basic ones for that) The biopsies does not work like that do your research Dhar Mann.
Kids: *bullies son*
The mum when she sees them: 👋😀
people don’t actually make fun of people for having a good relationship with their parents. honestly the worst i get is jealousy from people who don’t have good parents.
and i just tell them like my parents do that we’re an open arms/open door household. any friends who need to crash somewhere safe or even just have a quieter environment for their homework or eat dinner can come to our house. we have a spare room and bathroom after my sister moved out to their apartment for college, and my parents love to cook so we always have extra food.
and they’re really fun to be around. all my friends love them and it’s honestly great
that’s the worst i get is just people saying “man i wish my parents were like that” and then i hug them. no one actually makes fun of people for having good parents.
They were joking about him being obsessed with his mother, like he spend every day with her, I think the video really went overboard here
Nice, perfect timing. I was just about to eat
SAME
spend 100% of your time with every person you know beacuse they might die
handcuff yourself to all of your loved ones. never let them leave your sight. you never know when they’re going to die so might as well spend every second with them!
Dhar Mann: he was about to receive some news that would change his life forever
My brain: his dad has Colen cancer to
"Turns out you don't have cancer"...wtf.
Literally the most unbelievable thing I've ever seen in one of these videos in a high school boy blowing off hanging out with two girls his own age to hang with his mom.
What if someone's watching this who has a single father as a parent?
Or two dads?
Ugh, that feels really gross and manipulative of the mom. And so unprofessional of the doctor!
16:09 - That sounds a lot like a threat :))
Another Dhar Mann video...this reminds me, I have a classmate (high school) who RELIGIOUSLY watches Dhar Mann. Like, unironically too. It's genuinely kinda terrifying to me
Okay, but not spending your free time with your friends at all and only hanging out with your mom isn't actually healthy. Don't do it.
I laugh with the kid saying WhAt A lOsEr
@@haneame0412 ._.
i was expecting the first kid to be super close with his mom bc his dad died and she's all the family he has left but nah both his parents are alive and fine what the fuck
6:34 *tf2 crit sound* right in the heart
7:28 as a high-school, saying you like roblox would get you made fun of
"I have colon cancer"
"mh hm"
*we did it boys, cancer is no more*
The acting was never the issue with dhar mann videos, but they've definitely improved with the acting
If only they'd fix the actual scripts and story and maybe not guilt trip people into exclusively caring about blood relatives?
It’s totally normal and healthy for a kid to want to hang out with friends over parents sometimes. Also, if I was a mother dying of terminal cancer, then if time and energy allowed I’d try to plan some fun stuff to do where my child and his friends could join in. Like take them all to a theme park. I’d want his last memories of me to be happy, and it’d be great if his close friends were a part of some of those memories.
Funny enough I do actually watch a lot of your videos Joinen with my mom. We both enjoy watching your content so I can't wait to show her this on.
ok but real meta, Dhar Mann is changing Joinen's life by allowing him to react to his videos and making money off of it xD
Damn... this story really did scare me in the first half not gonna lie. Great video as aways!
"Are you my dad?"
Aquamarine vibes
This hit different because my husband has late stage lung cancer and isn't getting better amd we have a mid together cancer isn't something to take lightly it really does ruin lives
I’m so sorry, sending my prayers 🙏
I'm sorry to hear that. I hope he gets bettsr eventually. Stay strong ❤
3:15
But they’re expanding the brackets, you can’t find out what x is just by expanding the brackets, there needs to be an equivalent
"Always hang out with your mum"
James and Cameron's couple name is Jameron. Pronounced like Jammer-on
Yeah the kids at my school just talk about the guy wearing the hotdog costume
"My dad always says, spend time with your mom. It's kinda weird. He says it all the time. Like, especially when I ask if he wants to do stuff with me." 🤷♂️
The mom looked way too healthy after telling him she was about to die next month.
The "I love my mum" t-shirt is a BIG missed opportunity for new Dhar Mann merch lol
The Eddy insert was beautiful.
This is your reminder that “Can of Worms” was a real movie and not a fever dream (and you should absolutely watch it again as an adult)
I’m not a doctor but even I could see that woman wasn’t about to die of cancer
Looking for a "I 💚 MY MOM" Tshirt now
Joinen, at this point I'm convinced you watch the videos on your own before streaming. Ain't no way you're so good at predicting.
Watch enough Dhar man videos and you too will be able to predict almost anything
16:17 This would have been hilarious in the video 🤣🤣🤣
i got a qatar airways ad before this and i thought it was the intro
Lesson of today’s video
Make fun of a guy and his mom, you gonna loose yours
Plot twist: The negative result was incorrect…
they settled for a play date at the end
You're never gonna be a Dhar Mann villain Joinen, just because you can 'relate' to them doesn't make 'them'. You are your own, You're Joinen, you just have human knowledge. You know the complexity of life that Dhar mann doesn't, even if it touches a glimpse of that. I would never relate you to a 'character' on Dhar Mann's channel, never.
I ACTUALLY HAVE AN I LOVE MOM T-SHIRT OMFG
i can wait till joinen gets to be in a dhar mann video
There was an episode where the protagonist played a mean character and it didn’t fit at all.
For some odd reason I feel like Dhar Mann is disrespecting actual cancer patients and people with dying relatives
Like
I just get unreasonably pissed off whenever I see the story
Same. This video legit triggered memories of my family members who have died from cancer, and hearing Dhar Mann trivialize such a serious topic for the sake of cheap shock-value content was upsetting as hell. That video makes my blood boil.
its honestly kinda hard to balance relationships, its important to have good relationships with your parents and friends.
and, of COURSE, you are NEVER obligated to have a good relationship. sometimes thats not an option. stay safe, whatever means necessary.
but spending every second with your mom? ofc thats sweet but if youre depriving yourself of friendships, try that too
3:44 I had a moment like that in IB (A levels equivalent), where I did higher Maths, and my teacher was like ??? My mum has a PhD in applied mathematics :D
His message was one I needed like... a year ago... Not that I would have listened if it came from him, but yeah...
Gorgug: wait.. are you my dad??
Every line has to do with his mother lmao
Your the best TH-camr ever and my favorite TH-camr ever!