Okay I don't wanna make you too excited, but the people who made love is blind, also made a new show that comes out tomorrow called "the ultimatum" where couples decide if they wanna stay together and get married, or get with other couples...which is such a bad idea. So if you drop a like and Sub (or get a friend to) i'll definitely get onto that video when it comes out. I wanna see if its worse or better than this show. Wish me luck 😳
ok but vanessa had a point when she was calling him out. shake seems to only care about looks and vanessa pointed out that looks can and will eventually fade, sometimes unexpectedly in an accident. life is unpredictable. imo shake is too immature for a committed relationship and he doesn't wanna realize it
I get that. I do. I’ve had to deal with that. But at least I was sexually attracted to my partner at all at first. Looks fade, sure, but even after something unfortunate, sexual attraction doesn’t turn off like a switch. There was still physical aspects I loved, aside from the emotional intimacy. This whole show is immature and everyone in it has the depth and nuance of a teenager. It pains me to call Vanessa wrong next to shake, even though he’s wrong, too.
@@glass.hammer never said physical attraction wasn't important at all. what i'm saying is that if shake mostly cares about looks then why go on a show that's not based on looks? on top of that, he didn't have to disrespect deepti the way he did and trash talk her to others. literally coulda just been straightforward with her, said it wasn't working out, and left the show 🤷🏽♂️ EDITING to say that he asked all the women about what they looked like. he should have just been on tinder instead. the problem isn't necessarily what he does/doesn't find attractive. the problem is how disrespectful he is to others. is he gonna dislike his s/o if she gains weight? if she gets into an accident? if something happens to her beauty over the years? and if so is he gonna go around talking shit disrespecting her behind her back?
Looks change... After you've fallen in love. That's the point. It doesn't work to say "what if this happens" because it doesn't really have anything to do with right now
@AJ C He seems like a funny guy to be around -- as long as you stroke his ego constantly, you mean. I have nothing against people who like affirming language, this dude just takes it to another level.
It seemed like the one dude laughed about the 'aunt' comment out of shock, being uncomfortable, and that's how a lot of people react. Just speaking from my experience that I probably would have been shocked too
He also immediately took a drink and looked to the side. Jarret was uncomfortable and Shake started filling in space by going ahead with the conversation. To me, the body language I got was “oh, he’s really talking to me about this, I’ll have to actually give him an answer.” Tbh, I would never want to be put on the spot like that about that topic.
@@HyakuSh1ki I don't know maybe you just found it funny? strange how you could deny his nervousness, maybe you meant that it wasnt genuine and the nervousness was hiding real laughter that would occur if cameras weren't there. Have you watched the show cause Jarret is crystal clear where he stands as a person.
I disagree that Shake doesn't need to change. He's a douche. He's free to be a douche if he wants to be single but he's out there looking to be in a relationship. All he's gonna do is be a douche to someone who doesn't deserve it if he doesn't change.
Yeah nobody has to change for anyone. Nobody should have to change for anyone. But just know certain people are going to be significantly less likeable
@@vomitingforever5392 right, plenty of ppl do not seek relationships to be compromising..lots of narcissists demanding or manipulating in many ways, esp getting into relationships with those that appear to Be more vulnerable than them. sad truth
@@vomitingforever5392 i agree that he doesn't need to change for anyone, but he can work on himself at least. If he realises someday that he needs to work on certain aspects, for example talking to women, he can try to work on it, can't he?
If you think that then the simple fact of the matter is you missed the entire point of the message. We live in a free world, you might not like it but just because you don't agree with someone doesn't mean they have to change who they are for you. That's a disgustingly disturbing way to look at things imo. I don't like Shake, he is a complete and utter cunt but I have no right and neither do you to tell him to change who he is because of how we feel. Like Leo said if even 1% of the population agree with him that's still hundreds of thousands if not millions of people who feel the same, their voices don't deserve to be crushed because you can't handle another person's views. I sincerely hope we never live in a world where people's voices get silenced because people like yourself take personal offence to things that literally don't involve you and think you have the right to tell that person stop being themselves for your sake. That would be a very dangerous world where personality types are outlawed.
UGH all Shake had to say was that he didn't realize that looks mattered to him as much as they do, and now he can acknowledge that he was on the wrong show. The man has his foot in his mouth 24/7.
He was for sure on the wrong show. But so were all of these people because looks matter to them. Clearly. Attractive people were cast and the most conventionally attractive ones made it to the reunion. I don’t know what’s more insulting: this show trying so hard to lie to us, or this show trying so hard to make the otherwise perfectly reasonable parts of Shake seem completely evil.
the host is correct in that question of what happens if the person is in an accident, there are stories of men leaving their partners after pregnancy, accidents, illness and such? this absolutely happens. these are physical changes that absolutely changes people's minds about relationships. Edit: Shake being on a show about love being BLIND and him talking about only physical traits is a very good question to ask him.
there are lotsa shitty alpha male podcasters talking about how they leave their wives if she "lets herself go after having a child" and people wonder why women get so frustrated with shallow men who only care about weight...
@Lamou Lamou there have been many stories of men who complain about no longer feeling sexually attracted to their wives because theyve gained weight from childbirth or simply ageing and no longer having the same metabolism that they used to. so i dont think youre right that it's always different once youre married or deep in a relationship. which is why a lot of women are wary around men who are so shallow that weight dictates their entire attraction. because what if his wife eventually gains weight? thats not an unimaginable outcome. in fact, it happens to most women. if my boyfriend would not be attracted to me as a person because i put on some weight, then hes the real deadweight that i have to lose!
I think Vanessa actually raised a good point, if you’re the sort of person who dates in a way that is hyper-fixated on looks you’re prioritizing characteristics that are temporary. Your loves face or body could change in an accident, they may gain or lose weight, disease could change their looks, and all of us change with age. Again, It’s fine not to be attracted to someone, but when Shake decided to be so red pill in his approach to Deeps he brought these criticisms upon himself. It’s another matter all together that the whole concept of the show is BS lol. But yeah Leo, we gotta get you on that show!
its the looks that reel you in (most of the time) but the inside and connection that makes you stay. Ive been with my girl for 8 years at this point and I'd be lying if I said I started dating her because of a connection. Now 8 years later I still love her to death and any physical change in her would not have any impact at all. Hypothetically if we started dating and 2 months in she got like fat because of stuff she can control I probably wouldve left because Im just not attracted to that and I think that is a pretty normal thing to say. my point is its completely logical to be fixated on looks at the start cus thats what initially probably caught your attention. now as for the show its absolute BS and I agree
He basically realized he’s the villain of the show and now he’s leaning into that for his celebrity status. Another rage-baiting influencer, as if we don’t have enough.
Yeah, 100%. Sadly he would take any form of attention he gets. I was thinking throughout the whole episode - why can't Shake just stop talking for a second ? He is just making things worse for himself
she really is and I dont know why, they actually could have been a great couple with deep understanding of the cultural stuff, which IS IMPORTANT! He makes it seem bad. what a dumb guy🤦🏽♀️
Bingo. That's why he said she looked like his aunt & because presumably his aunt would be Indian, like him and he doesn't like his own kind and he just doesn't want to date an Indian woman. He should just say so. The thing that gets me he isn't cute to me at all. And I see lots of cute Indian guys in Atlanta. He ain't it imo, but hey, "preferences".
Leo, I got to disagree with you on the 'mangled in an accident' bit. There are countless stories of women who have gained weight post childbirth, or stricken with cancer, or simply are not physically the same have had their male partners or husbands leave them. I don't think it was appropriate to dismiss what the host was saying, she is right.
Agreed! Whe you watch male relationship podcasts they always carry Shake's mindset. But they see women who think like them as shallow. I'm sure if Deepti did the same to him, he would say she's a terrible, shallow woman.
@@xochiltaviles4539 yeah, oddly enough I saw a story on Reddit just today where the guy was saying how he was no longer attracted to his wife since she had cancer and got a double mastectomy and how he also didn’t want to deal with his daughter because she might be sick in the future (like her mother). I don’t know where the people find the audacity
I keep forgetting that he's a veterinarian. Can you imagine bringing in your elderly/sick pet to be put down and then having Shake be the one to like console you while it's happening? I can't even comprehend what his bedside manner would be like.
@@coldhands1892 Wow, that's a shame. As a pet owner for my whole life who has lost all of my pets from my young adulthood recently my experience has been the absolute opposite. Every vet and vet tech in the practice that I go to goes above and beyond and loves my animals. Perhaps part of it is that I take proper care of my pets? So many people neglect to take in their animals until something is horribly wrong, and I can imagine vets being frustrated by that. I suppose it comes from the top down. The vet who owns the practice that I use is extremely compassionate and loves animals so he hires others who are the same. Just don't assume that all vets are that way, I promise that they aren't. And yeah, if Shake was my vet I imagine it would be a nightmare.
@@Megan-cd6sh oh really? well i take good care of my pets dw😅 but one of my dogs became very ill when i was small...i went to two vets for her and they were definitely compassionate however they didn't seem very emotional... like once i couldn't handle seeing my dog with the drip and broke down and the vet just kept laughing it off, even though my dog was very sick...it just felt weird :(
That “babe” was 100% condescending and he had it coming. Plus life is wayyyyy to unpredictable, anything can happen to your partner physically, especially concerning pregnancy, and if your there for the wrong reasons, you can literally destroy an innocent person’s life. He needs therapy.
@@amelia4384 wait what is bro zone?? 😭 Is that when a guy considers the girl one of his bro's? or the gay equivalent of friend-zoning? I wasn't prepared for any of these terms
He wanted to be shallow and get someone who liked him for HIS personality while he liked them for looks. Too bad his personality is infuriating to everyone around him bc it might have worked if he was more charismatic lol
I feel like you could probably also say the same about Shake though, he seems like he was only pretending, to literally be on the show and gain clout/attention because he clearly lacks SO much of it 😂🙄
Honestly, I got the vibe that he wanted to say that about every single person in that room, but Shaina was an obvious target. Ngl, he’s not a villain for calling out the show. But otherwise, totally insufferable.
I don’t think you understood Vanessa’s point about just looking for “someone to f*ck,” she was saying his idea of marriage was only about looks so he couldn’t get past Deepti’s complexion. He said it was because she looked familiar. He went on a show where it’s about blindness to some degree. He went about it the wrong way when asking questions. That is where the problem lies and why the hosts, specifically Vanessa, wasn’t having it.
The ultimate thing that I dislike about Shake is that i don't think he would have denied her at the altar. I think he would have kept pretending because he was unable, at every possible moment, to be honest with Deepti. He felt unattracted the entire time they were engaged, he was okay with talking about it with everyone else, but he refused to tell her and instead tried to manipulate her into calling it off. Can't stand him for that. Also, Deepti is beautiful.. A lot of peoples attraction works with personality, when you meet a beautiful soul you can grow to find them attractive, Shake can not therefore there was absolutely no reason for him to be on the show. If he can't find beauty in Deepti, he needs to initially go for looks and hope to find a decent personality on the other side.
Couldn't agree more. He was able to be honest with everyone else about how he felt except for the one person who needed and deserved to hear it the most. It's equal parts immature, cowardly and dysfunctional.
I had someone say that what-if-they-get-mangled stuff to me once. I used to have a boss who’d lost his legs in a bad car accident but he was tremendously capable despite his situation. His crazy, narcissistic wife pulled me aside when I got engaged and gave me this lecture on making sure I was truly in love for the sole reason that “if anything ever happens to him YOU have to take care of him so be sure it’s really love. Because I’m in hell.” She didn’t lift a finger for that sweet man. Cheated on him. Then when her side piece suddenly died she decked the halls of their home (with 2 young kids) with homies photos. I cleaned their house every week. It was a trip.
I think the reason those dudes were initially laughing at shakes remarks was less that they agreed or found it funny, and more that they thought it was a ridiculous thing to say. Keep in mind that at that point they didn’t really know as much as the people watching the show in it’s entirety because they simply just minded their own business then. I know that if I met someone and they told me stuff that Shake told everyone, I’d not instantly take it as a serious concern and more as a somewhat tasteless joke. It’s such an out of line thing to say that the first response would most likely be people laughing at it exactly BECAUSE it’s so ridiculous and mean that it does not immediately register as something that he’s genuinely loosing sleep over
That awkward moment when Deepti said it was disrespectful the way he went about it and he doesn't know how to talk to women... That is the part where you apologize... But instead he just nods his head as if he just white noised everything she just said lmao
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My theory: He legitimately liked her in the beginning, but anxiety or fear of commitment or a cultural clash etc snuck in. Rather than looking for an internal reason for the feelings he looked for problems with her. He tried to find anything wrong with her. By ruminating on her flaws he fully turned himself off to everything he like about her initially culminating in his behavior and rude comments. This is not an excuse for his behavior, rather an explanation of the process he took (a process rude and hurtful even in the low stakes of high school relationships)
Finding someone who is legitimately interested in you on a deeper level than "you have money" or "you're attractive" is already difficult enough for normal people in society. It blows me away that shows like this not only still exist, but seem to be thriving. Netflix has a new one like every month.
these shows exist because normal people realize they are fucking stupid and look at it for shits and giggles. at least Im assuming that is the case, I dont always wanna follow a story, sometimes I just wanna look at stupid people doing stupid things
And in 4 weeks time no less lol. My big eye roll through all of this is they’re pretending to “love” each other and keep alluding to their love and how much they love each other and it’s like, you’ve known each other 2 weeks, bro. Like maybe you like them, maybe it’s a little infatuation but half of them don’t even LIKE each other but they keep pretending like they’re madly in love and it’s ~jUsT sO hArD~
the thing is I understand is deeps is not his type, but he's the one that was all up on her. kissing on her ans everything. so he is attracted to her. but here he is ,while sis is sitting there, knowing damn well he is physically attracted to her, just going off about how unattractive she is to him? bro what? like he's not letting it go. he's not moving on. he's just going into detail about her to her face. like the hypocrisy. absurd.so ppl were not telling him what to like. he already established it when he was grabbing her and kissing up on her.
I think you can kiss and grab their ass without being attracted to them. Some people are just selfish and want to try people just to see if they fit. I would not twist his words and say that he is just hiding his attraction towards her.
Basic psychology will tell you that a lot of people will do anything for validation and attention. That includes expressing compassion towards people you’re not even attracted to. Plus, Shake said his main motivation was staying on the show. So that might’ve also had something to do with it.
can’t believe they (hosts) refer to this show as an “experiment” and go so far as to claim it’s a successful one when only a handful of couples have gotten married also wouldn’t most people who get married feel pressure to stay together after the show regardless of if they are actually in love?? okay rant over lol at least Leo’s able to make sense/jokes out of this hot mess express of a show 🥴
The fact that they only accepted conventionally attractive contestants also makes the experiment kind of hopeless. The only potential features that can conflict with individual preference is the wrong haircolour or eyecolour, which is very possible to overcome in a situation like this
the fact they was all calling him out for only being in it for attraction and he kept denying it and then kept talking about the physic that he wanted in a woman and proceeds to say the only women he's attracted to in the room is the married women that us the host. it's like dude. u did not have to say that.
James can see he loves Jamie with his right eye, but will his left eye love her or shift her to the left slightly. Will Jamie notice the switch? Tune into Love has an Eyepatch.
Leo, you said he couldn’t get a chance to talk, when in reality the entire episode he decided to give his opinion several times when no one asked and then interrupted people quite a few times. Why should they give a courtesy he wasn’t willing to give himself
That’s what I was thinking exactly. The whole time he was stalling the segment and making it about him. He’s giving off being a narcissist in this segment so much (I’m not going to state it since I don’t have a medical license to determine that). You honestly just ignore these people and what they say by that point cause he might just go on for hours if they let him
I feel like they didn't roast him nearly enough for proclaiming how honest and real he is when he had her all the way at the altar and forced her to be the one to say no. Like... were you ever going to tell her you didn't want to marry her? Since you're so 💯
Shane had explained it in a recent podcast that upon signing the contract for participating in the show one of the rules was that they could not say “Yes or no or I do or don’t” want to be with the person until they get to the altar.
It would be way more interesting if they didn’t choose beautiful people to be on the show. They gave it some heavier girls this season but no ugly people.
And a bunch of supremely *_conventionally_* attractive people made it to the reunion. This is the most dishonest reality show to ever been financed on earth. And that’s absolutely stunning.
When shake said "we're animals" i low key expected him to bust out with "You and me, baby we ain't nothing but mammals, so let's do it like they do on the discovery channel."
I think Jarrett laughed cause of how absurd shake was being by saying whatever he said, I had a similar reaction because of how ridiculous he was being 😭
So normally I agree you should let someone talk... But Shake was the one interrupting, he kept talking over people or interjecting, so no they shouldn't let him.
Can we just appreciate how many high quality, full indepth videos that Leo posts!! I watch you videos religiously and I even listen to them twice sometimes while I'm at work because they keep me in good mood! Keep up the great work!
And it’s worth it. The only TH-camr I’ve watched every video of every time they release one. He’s funny, but also genuinely cares about people and wants to help make the world better any way he can. He’s helped people get through a lot, including me. Love you Leo.
The thing about Quality Leo is that no matter *what* something is as long as it’s quality we will watch. And you Sir are Quality. Do whatever you want Leo, you gained followers because of your talent not some novelty gimmick, we in this for the long haul. 👍🏾👍🏾🤙🏾🤙🏾
I hate to be that outlier, but I wouldn't mind a happy cute TV show with cute couples and no drama, but ig that's just me 🤷🏿♀️ I wouldn't call all the demeaning crap Shake did "drama" either
my only comment is -- if you're chronically ill or disabled, knowing if a prospective partner will decide it's too much to support you is a pretty good thing to know before you trust them with your life and pain. are they going to be disgusted when you can't keep up with them anymore, when you don't look young anymore, will they treat your health problems like their burden and take it out on you? it's something you want to find out asap. not that i think this would ever be a consideration for shake lmaoo i'm just saying i dont think the questions were totally out of left field.
At first I was like whoa, whoa, whoa why is everybody instantly hating on Shake? and then he just went mask off and kept going. Mans was begging to get ganged up on. I didn't expect Vanessa to pop off on him tho 🤣
I feel like Shake just needs to be honest with himself about WHY he didn't find D attractive. We all agree that she's very pretty and seems nice as well, so why else wouldn't he be attracted to her? I couldn't help but remember all the times he talked about preferring blonde women. That's probably exactly why he wasn't into her. I imagine that it's not that he's attracted to blonde hair on a woman, but it was just his way of saying he prefers white women without saying it. Him saying she's like family makes a lot more sense in my opinion if you also keep that in mind.
I'm not defending Shake here. But I fear all the "attacks" he got has only pushed him to become worse. He now embraces his role as villain n stopped working on himself. All we can do now is ignore him, he's just profiting from the hate at this point and shitty people shouldn't have fame imo.
The term gaslighting gets overused way too much, even by you. Being unable to wrap their heads around why shake wasn't attracted to deepti is NOT gaslighting. They literally just can't understand how he could have been so shitty about it.
23:07 _always_ makes me think of Loki's quote in the Loki series: "Love... is a dagger. It's a weapon to be wielded far away or up close. You can see yourself in it. It's beautiful until it makes you bleed." Which is like... _trying_ for profound, but instead it's just kinda awkward and chaotic. Same vibes as "love is blurry" tbh.
By the way, that's a pejorative "babe" and it's something a certain kind of woke (white) woman does in a maternalistic way to men she thinks are below her level and need to be humbled. She's saying "babe" more like you would to a child, not as a pet name. I mean, I get it. I'm here for it.
I feel like when Shake says he wants love to be partially blind, he wants to see everything about his potential partner, but he wants his partner to be partially blind to his own flaws so he doesn’t have to change or get called out.
tbh I don't think it was weird of the host to say those "what ifs" there is a really high stat that men are more likely to leave their wives if they get ill than women leave their husbands. I see so many of those "AITA" videos where it is a guy saying he doesn't love his partner anymore due to these things. When he comes in to a show called "love is blind" with the mindset of "I need her to be a certain way physically" that IS upsetting to hear. I don't think she should have went as hard as she did but I don't think it was out of line when he's literally treating the girls on the show like objects. Even called it a purchase :/ the show has so many issues and is still a trashy show, but he was very disrespectful and deserved that kind of backlash from the host
I don’t agree on the point that it’s objectively wrong to leave someone if they are mangled in an accident or severely I’ll as I don’t think anyone should be guilted into staying with someone who was injured if this is something that they are incapable of doing. I don’t agree with doing that at all personally but it’s not objectively wrong to do and most importantly does not mean that they only wanted to “fuck them”. It may not be love but it’s not like they only had the intention to fuck them. Also that’s a distraction from the fact that not finding someone physically attractive and not wanting to be with them for that does not mean that that person will definitely do the same if their partner, who they are physically attracted to, got mangled in an accident or fell ill. Like that’s so ridiculous and is definitely gaslighting. Imagine if a guy said that to a girl who rejected him. People would be calling him an incel and all this other stuff. So I definitely disagree.
I could be wrong but there might be things said behind the scenes to the women that they had to cut out. Regardless, I don't think Shake is a fully horrible person but he's definitely shitty and has no excuse for how he treated Deepti
Asking if you'd still love someone if their looks change drastically for whatever reason is a great question to ask before you get married. I dont know why you think thats gaslighting
That’s not why he said she was gaslighting. He said she was gaslighting because she said that Shake said he only wanted to have sex with other girls and he did not say that and Vanessa addressed the fact that he didn’t really say that before trying to change the topic. She tried to confuse him into thinking that he said something he did not say. How is that not gaslighting?
Shake was interrupting everyone so it’s not surprising that everyone was interrupting him. You don’t HAVE to defend Shake. Like you’re jumping through hoops when you don’t really have to?
Love you, but your takes were bad in this one. Shake is obviously emotionally immature so it's 100% fair to point out the depths of his shallowness by bringing up sickness, accidents, etc that could happen in a long term relationship. I honestly don't see how you could think this was gaslighting. That man needs therapy and education.
I have to disagree with you. I think the dude shouldn’t do 180 CHANGE but he definitely needs to grow, and see the beauty in people for what they are. Granted we all have physical preferances but a lot of times some most gorgeous people end up being the most ugly with a shitty personality.
Wait, is no one going to bring up how Vanessa said “dismangled” 🤣 Mangled is a word, disfigured is a word, dismantle is a word, however DISMANGLED is def not a word lmfao
Just gotta say, love every last bit of this editing ... the editing on your vids is a huge part of what got me subbing. I’m literally in tears from laughter sometimes. Keep it up 🔥😎
Isn't he amazing at it? That's why I subbed too. That and his brutal honesty about ALL SIDES of things, not just what he believes in. The animations just add that extra layer of awesome 🔥
It still is surreal to many the massive amount of views you’re getting now!! Which is of course way overdue but I can still remember when it was just a couple thousand of us! So incredibly happy for you! 😊
Btw I heard Shayne got ADHD. And suddenly all we've seen of him makes a whole lot more sense to me. Also I now feel bad cus I was one of the people thinking he was on coke the whole time.
Okay I don't wanna make you too excited, but the people who made love is blind, also made a new show that comes out tomorrow called "the ultimatum" where couples decide if they wanna stay together and get married, or get with other couples...which is such a bad idea. So if you drop a like and Sub (or get a friend to) i'll definitely get onto that video when it comes out. I wanna see if its worse or better than this show. Wish me luck 😳
or get with oTHER COUPLES sorry what
I can't wait 💅🏻
This dude rly tryna make brown people look bad, as if dating while brown wasn't rough enough XD Thanks for the banger vid as always lmao
shake is off Alexa, dammit!
A horrible, horrible gift that we all look forward to.
I’m pretty sure calling Shake “Babe” is the modern equivalent of an American southern woman saying “Oh, Honey, bless your heart.”
💯💯💯
Absolutely
😂Facts!
Yes ma'am.
Yeah it’s like saying “buddy” to someone you’re about to fight
He probably failed the interview, but the producers thought they needed a villain. 🤣
Lol literally
That was my thought too!
oh they knew what they were doing 100% lmao
Dude carried the whole show. They needed him
ok but vanessa had a point when she was calling him out. shake seems to only care about looks and vanessa pointed out that looks can and will eventually fade, sometimes unexpectedly in an accident. life is unpredictable. imo shake is too immature for a committed relationship and he doesn't wanna realize it
She does have a point.
I get that. I do. I’ve had to deal with that. But at least I was sexually attracted to my partner at all at first. Looks fade, sure, but even after something unfortunate, sexual attraction doesn’t turn off like a switch. There was still physical aspects I loved, aside from the emotional intimacy.
This whole show is immature and everyone in it has the depth and nuance of a teenager. It pains me to call Vanessa wrong next to shake, even though he’s wrong, too.
@@glass.hammer never said physical attraction wasn't important at all. what i'm saying is that if shake mostly cares about looks then why go on a show that's not based on looks? on top of that, he didn't have to disrespect deepti the way he did and trash talk her to others. literally coulda just been straightforward with her, said it wasn't working out, and left the show 🤷🏽♂️ EDITING to say that he asked all the women about what they looked like. he should have just been on tinder instead. the problem isn't necessarily what he does/doesn't find attractive. the problem is how disrespectful he is to others. is he gonna dislike his s/o if she gains weight? if she gets into an accident? if something happens to her beauty over the years? and if so is he gonna go around talking shit disrespecting her behind her back?
Looks change... After you've fallen in love. That's the point. It doesn't work to say "what if this happens" because it doesn't really have anything to do with right now
What I don't get is if he KNEW he wasn't attracted to her kind of aesthetic, WHY did he propose to her knowing he wouldn't be attracted to her?
“The only person I’m attracted to is Vanessa.” He truly has a gift for saying all the wrong things at the wrong moment. It’s practically impressive.
The show needed this guy for the entertainment
But he made it so entertaining
Shayne working on a hero redemption by absolutely wrecking Shake.
The vitriol these people had for this man.
what a hot take, and accurate.
If you followed him on Instagram, he quickly ruined it. And I had to unfollow him bc he clearly never changed either.
@AJ C He seems like a funny guy to be around -- as long as you stroke his ego constantly, you mean.
I have nothing against people who like affirming language, this dude just takes it to another level.
It seemed like the one dude laughed about the 'aunt' comment out of shock, being uncomfortable, and that's how a lot of people react. Just speaking from my experience that I probably would have been shocked too
That and they were drinking too lol
He also immediately took a drink and looked to the side. Jarret was uncomfortable and Shake started filling in space by going ahead with the conversation. To me, the body language I got was “oh, he’s really talking to me about this, I’ll have to actually give him an answer.” Tbh, I would never want to be put on the spot like that about that topic.
Situations like these show how "laughing it off" can actually seem immature rather than diplomatic and a safer response is always listening intently.
I don't know, maybe he just found it funny. Not trying to say that your experience isn't valid, but that didn't look like nervous laughter.
@@HyakuSh1ki I don't know maybe you just found it funny? strange how you could deny his nervousness, maybe you meant that it wasnt genuine and the nervousness was hiding real laughter that would occur if cameras weren't there. Have you watched the show cause Jarret is crystal clear where he stands as a person.
I disagree that Shake doesn't need to change. He's a douche. He's free to be a douche if he wants to be single but he's out there looking to be in a relationship. All he's gonna do is be a douche to someone who doesn't deserve it if he doesn't change.
Yeah nobody has to change for anyone. Nobody should have to change for anyone. But just know certain people are going to be significantly less likeable
@@vomitingforever5392 right, plenty of ppl do not seek relationships to be compromising..lots of narcissists demanding or manipulating in many ways, esp getting into relationships with those that appear to Be more vulnerable than them. sad truth
@@vomitingforever5392 i agree that he doesn't need to change for anyone, but he can work on himself at least. If he realises someday that he needs to work on certain aspects, for example talking to women, he can try to work on it, can't he?
@@akritigangal3712 I AGREE HE NEED ADJUST AND BE HIMSELF BUT CARING ON OTHERS FEELINGS, SADLY NARCISSISTS ARE NOT EMPATHIC.
If you think that then the simple fact of the matter is you missed the entire point of the message.
We live in a free world, you might not like it but just because you don't agree with someone doesn't mean they have to change who they are for you. That's a disgustingly disturbing way to look at things imo.
I don't like Shake, he is a complete and utter cunt but I have no right and neither do you to tell him to change who he is because of how we feel. Like Leo said if even 1% of the population agree with him that's still hundreds of thousands if not millions of people who feel the same, their voices don't deserve to be crushed because you can't handle another person's views.
I sincerely hope we never live in a world where people's voices get silenced because people like yourself take personal offence to things that literally don't involve you and think you have the right to tell that person stop being themselves for your sake. That would be a very dangerous world where personality types are outlawed.
UGH all Shake had to say was that he didn't realize that looks mattered to him as much as they do, and now he can acknowledge that he was on the wrong show. The man has his foot in his mouth 24/7.
Yeah, as weird as it is, maybe I would respect him more if he admitted it
na he said what he thought
Yeah but that wouldn't be as good for the TV show...
@@Reth_Hard Absolutely - but better for his reputation! Unless he likes being the villain lol maybe that's the case :shrug:
He was for sure on the wrong show. But so were all of these people because looks matter to them. Clearly. Attractive people were cast and the most conventionally attractive ones made it to the reunion. I don’t know what’s more insulting: this show trying so hard to lie to us, or this show trying so hard to make the otherwise perfectly reasonable parts of Shake seem completely evil.
the host is correct in that question of what happens if the person is in an accident, there are stories of men leaving their partners after pregnancy, accidents, illness and such? this absolutely happens. these are physical changes that absolutely changes people's minds about relationships.
Edit: Shake being on a show about love being BLIND and him talking about only physical traits is a very good question to ask him.
Yea she never said it was a good thing :,0
Yeah, that's why I really can't stand Shake.
@Lamou Lamou I’ve been there. You’re in the right direction.
there are lotsa shitty alpha male podcasters talking about how they leave their wives if she "lets herself go after having a child" and people wonder why women get so frustrated with shallow men who only care about weight...
@Lamou Lamou there have been many stories of men who complain about no longer feeling sexually attracted to their wives because theyve gained weight from childbirth or simply ageing and no longer having the same metabolism that they used to. so i dont think youre right that it's always different once youre married or deep in a relationship. which is why a lot of women are wary around men who are so shallow that weight dictates their entire attraction. because what if his wife eventually gains weight? thats not an unimaginable outcome. in fact, it happens to most women. if my boyfriend would not be attracted to me as a person because i put on some weight, then hes the real deadweight that i have to lose!
I think Vanessa actually raised a good point, if you’re the sort of person who dates in a way that is hyper-fixated on looks you’re prioritizing characteristics that are temporary. Your loves face or body could change in an accident, they may gain or lose weight, disease could change their looks, and all of us change with age. Again, It’s fine not to be attracted to someone, but when Shake decided to be so red pill in his approach to Deeps he brought these criticisms upon himself. It’s another matter all together that the whole concept of the show is BS lol. But yeah Leo, we gotta get you on that show!
its the looks that reel you in (most of the time) but the inside and connection that makes you stay. Ive been with my girl for 8 years at this point and I'd be lying if I said I started dating her because of a connection. Now 8 years later I still love her to death and any physical change in her would not have any impact at all. Hypothetically if we started dating and 2 months in she got like fat because of stuff she can control I probably wouldve left because Im just not attracted to that and I think that is a pretty normal thing to say.
my point is its completely logical to be fixated on looks at the start cus thats what initially probably caught your attention. now as for the show its absolute BS and I agree
He basically realized he’s the villain of the show and now he’s leaning into that for his celebrity status. Another rage-baiting influencer, as if we don’t have enough.
Probably tryna be infamous like big Ed
Yeah, 100%. Sadly he would take any form of attention he gets. I was thinking throughout the whole episode - why can't Shake just stop talking for a second ? He is just making things worse for himself
I think he's one of those people that just likes to be humiliated. The fact that after vanessa dunked on him he's suddenly attracted to vanessa like..
You know there's something wrong with you when Shane knows better than you.
Didn’t Shayne say he kept the lights off with Natalie? He’s not any better.
@@glass.hammer i mean, ya, thanks for proving my point 😂
Vanessa has absolutely asked Nick "if I turned into a worm, would you still love me?" before.
If he says no then drop him 😤 (joking of course)
I'd say hell no :'( I'm sorry worms are just too creepy..
And he responded “obviously, I’m nick lachey”
I'm not trying to assume any worm species here... But she'd be a tapeworm. For sure.
Nick and Vanessa Lasquirm
But Deeps is gorgeous. So I really dont understand what his problem was. I think he just wanted a white girl.
she really is and I dont know why, they actually could have been a great couple with deep understanding of the cultural stuff, which IS IMPORTANT! He makes it seem bad. what a dumb guy🤦🏽♀️
Bingo. That's why he said she looked like his aunt & because presumably his aunt would be Indian, like him and he doesn't like his own kind and he just doesn't want to date an Indian woman. He should just say so.
The thing that gets me he isn't cute to me at all. And I see lots of cute Indian guys in Atlanta. He ain't it imo, but hey, "preferences".
Just not his type. Nothing wrong with it. But he definitely didn’t need to say the things he did the way he did.
What women think is attractive in another girl may not be what men find attractive. It’s all personal preference.
🎯 🎯🎯 Even said he has a serious thing for blonds.
Leo, I got to disagree with you on the 'mangled in an accident' bit. There are countless stories of women who have gained weight post childbirth, or stricken with cancer, or simply are not physically the same have had their male partners or husbands leave them. I don't think it was appropriate to dismiss what the host was saying, she is right.
Agreed! Whe you watch male relationship podcasts they always carry Shake's mindset. But they see women who think like them as shallow. I'm sure if Deepti did the same to him, he would say she's a terrible, shallow woman.
That happens a lot to women who have breast cancer and end up losing their breast/s which is just so heartbreaking
Yeah, from all things I disagree with, I strongly disagree with this one the most.
@@xochiltaviles4539 yeah, oddly enough I saw a story on Reddit just today where the guy was saying how he was no longer attracted to his wife since she had cancer and got a double mastectomy and how he also didn’t want to deal with his daughter because she might be sick in the future (like her mother). I don’t know where the people find the audacity
@@MENACE-km6bd yupppp
I keep forgetting that he's a veterinarian. Can you imagine bringing in your elderly/sick pet to be put down and then having Shake be the one to like console you while it's happening? I can't even comprehend what his bedside manner would be like.
i read that as vegetarian and was very confused hahah but yeah good point
okay this is weird but...most vets i've visited, their emotional quotient isn't high so honestly i can imagine it
As a pre-vet student, I honestly have no idea how he made it into vet school.
@@coldhands1892 Wow, that's a shame. As a pet owner for my whole life who has lost all of my pets from my young adulthood recently my experience has been the absolute opposite. Every vet and vet tech in the practice that I go to goes above and beyond and loves my animals. Perhaps part of it is that I take proper care of my pets? So many people neglect to take in their animals until something is horribly wrong, and I can imagine vets being frustrated by that. I suppose it comes from the top down. The vet who owns the practice that I use is extremely compassionate and loves animals so he hires others who are the same. Just don't assume that all vets are that way, I promise that they aren't. And yeah, if Shake was my vet I imagine it would be a nightmare.
@@Megan-cd6sh oh really? well i take good care of my pets dw😅 but one of my dogs became very ill when i was small...i went to two vets for her and they were definitely compassionate however they didn't seem very emotional...
like once i couldn't handle seeing my dog with the drip and broke down and the vet just kept laughing it off, even though my dog was very sick...it just felt weird :(
That “babe” was 100% condescending and he had it coming. Plus life is wayyyyy to unpredictable, anything can happen to your partner physically, especially concerning pregnancy, and if your there for the wrong reasons, you can literally destroy an innocent person’s life. He needs therapy.
Bruh, Shake is lucky to even get with someone like Deepti, but screws it up by family zoning and mistreating her
"family-zoning" 😭☠
@@OhShiverMeTimbers i mean am i wrong though?🤔 he did say deepti is like an aunt to him
@@jspeedstar1129 you're right, I'm just sad that term exists 🤣🤣
@@amelia4384 wait what is bro zone?? 😭 Is that when a guy considers the girl one of his bro's? or the gay equivalent of friend-zoning? I wasn't prepared for any of these terms
@@amelia4384 lol. And inadvertently come up with a GREAT new term 😹
All this Shake shit, but Deepti handled everything so well. She is so mature and kindhearted. She deserves someone as smart and beautiful as her!
Yeah she is out of this world really, I can’t imagine being so composed. Incredible, I wish she’d give classes
He wanted to be shallow and get someone who liked him for HIS personality while he liked them for looks. Too bad his personality is infuriating to everyone around him bc it might have worked if he was more charismatic lol
exactly
To be honest, what Shake said about Shaina saying yes to stay on the show was the only accurate thing he said lol
Yeah I 100% agreed that she was attempting to stay on the show
I feel like you could probably also say the same about Shake though, he seems like he was only pretending, to literally be on the show and gain clout/attention because he clearly lacks SO much of it 😂🙄
Agree
Honestly, I got the vibe that he wanted to say that about every single person in that room, but Shaina was an obvious target. Ngl, he’s not a villain for calling out the show.
But otherwise, totally insufferable.
I think everyone jumping in to defend her was only because the same could be said of them
I mean when a woman is angry and she calls u babe it's the equivalent of " u fu**er"
I don’t think you understood Vanessa’s point about just looking for “someone to f*ck,” she was saying his idea of marriage was only about looks so he couldn’t get past Deepti’s complexion. He said it was because she looked familiar. He went on a show where it’s about blindness to some degree. He went about it the wrong way when asking questions. That is where the problem lies and why the hosts, specifically Vanessa, wasn’t having it.
AND he proposed to Deepti knowing she was Indian and knowing he isn't attracted to her aesthetic.🤦
@@lizthedisjointedzebra692 that part!
@@lizthedisjointedzebra692 indian isn't an aesthetic
@@shroomshroom5945 hey, look, there went the point.
@@lizthedisjointedzebra692 I get the comment, but you attributed a race to an aesthetic. And it should not be treated as such
The ultimate thing that I dislike about Shake is that i don't think he would have denied her at the altar. I think he would have kept pretending because he was unable, at every possible moment, to be honest with Deepti. He felt unattracted the entire time they were engaged, he was okay with talking about it with everyone else, but he refused to tell her and instead tried to manipulate her into calling it off. Can't stand him for that.
Also, Deepti is beautiful.. A lot of peoples attraction works with personality, when you meet a beautiful soul you can grow to find them attractive, Shake can not therefore there was absolutely no reason for him to be on the show. If he can't find beauty in Deepti, he needs to initially go for looks and hope to find a decent personality on the other side.
Couldn't agree more. He was able to be honest with everyone else about how he felt except for the one person who needed and deserved to hear it the most. It's equal parts immature, cowardly and dysfunctional.
this whole show feels like a drunk fever dream
This seems so strange - yes indeed.
I had someone say that what-if-they-get-mangled stuff to me once. I used to have a boss who’d lost his legs in a bad car accident but he was tremendously capable despite his situation. His crazy, narcissistic wife pulled me aside when I got engaged and gave me this lecture on making sure I was truly in love for the sole reason that “if anything ever happens to him YOU have to take care of him so be sure it’s really love. Because I’m in hell.” She didn’t lift a finger for that sweet man. Cheated on him. Then when her side piece suddenly died she decked the halls of their home (with 2 young kids) with homies photos. I cleaned their house every week. It was a trip.
This was a wild ride, in and of itself. Thank you for this entertaining but sad story
damn, hope the husband got out of that one
What.the.fuck
What the actual fuuuck?! Man she sucks. I hope that man finds true happiness bc that sounds like hell
Wow.
I think the reason those dudes were initially laughing at shakes remarks was less that they agreed or found it funny, and more that they thought it was a ridiculous thing to say. Keep in mind that at that point they didn’t really know as much as the people watching the show in it’s entirety because they simply just minded their own business then.
I know that if I met someone and they told me stuff that Shake told everyone, I’d not instantly take it as a serious concern and more as a somewhat tasteless joke. It’s such an out of line thing to say that the first response would most likely be people laughing at it exactly BECAUSE it’s so ridiculous and mean that it does not immediately register as something that he’s genuinely loosing sleep over
This. It is an uncomfortable laugh of holy shit he just said that.
Shake is the type of dude who’s never been told so he assumes he deserves whatever he wants.
That awkward moment when Deepti said it was disrespectful the way he went about it and he doesn't know how to talk to women... That is the part where you apologize... But instead he just nods his head as if he just white noised everything she just said lmao
the double take I did when shakes went "the only person im attracted to is Vanessa" like the audacity of this man is SHOCKING
The double take I did when I saw Sixteen Leo wearing a Toronto Raptors sweatshirt. REPRESENT!! 😀😀😀
"I'm Nick Lachey. I have a degree in singing." - No, Leo, he doesn't have *a* degree in singing.
He's got 98 Degrees.
20:38 _"You have the host berating the contestants which I've never seen in a show before."_
*ANTM flashbacks*
LITERALLY this was tame in comparison
I think the fact that all of the cast members are united in their disdain for him, says alot. You gotta be bad when even reality stars call you trash
Psssht, Im only with a Pillow Cos People Keep Sleeping on Me
Girlboss
Hey leo i wander if you heard about the youtuber named venus angelic, it extremly concering and maybe you can bring some light to it. ( amazing video like always keep the hard work! I hope you are feeling a little better hope you have a lovely week!)
Well, hello!
🎤 💧
I ship you and Deepti 😌😌😌 jk
i’m cringing at the fact that 16leo thinks she’s calling shake “babe” in a flirty way
same
Yeah she’s mad for sure LMfao
My theory: He legitimately liked her in the beginning, but anxiety or fear of commitment or a cultural clash etc snuck in. Rather than looking for an internal reason for the feelings he looked for problems with her. He tried to find anything wrong with her. By ruminating on her flaws he fully turned himself off to everything he like about her initially culminating in his behavior and rude comments. This is not an excuse for his behavior, rather an explanation of the process he took (a process rude and hurtful even in the low stakes of high school relationships)
or he's just an ass lol
think so too
Finding someone who is legitimately interested in you on a deeper level than "you have money" or "you're attractive" is already difficult enough for normal people in society. It blows me away that shows like this not only still exist, but seem to be thriving. Netflix has a new one like every month.
We can blame the Writers Guild strike in the early 00s for the explosion of reality TV. :(
They are starting a new show this month too, and yes my boyfriend and I cringe through all of them because this can’t be real life 😂
these shows exist because normal people realize they are fucking stupid and look at it for shits and giggles. at least Im assuming that is the case, I dont always wanna follow a story, sometimes I just wanna look at stupid people doing stupid things
And in 4 weeks time no less lol. My big eye roll through all of this is they’re pretending to “love” each other and keep alluding to their love and how much they love each other and it’s like, you’ve known each other 2 weeks, bro. Like maybe you like them, maybe it’s a little infatuation but half of them don’t even LIKE each other but they keep pretending like they’re madly in love and it’s ~jUsT sO hArD~
the thing is I understand is deeps is not his type, but he's the one that was all up on her. kissing on her ans everything. so he is attracted to her. but here he is ,while sis is sitting there, knowing damn well he is physically attracted to her, just going off about how unattractive she is to him? bro what? like he's not letting it go. he's not moving on. he's just going into detail about her to her face. like the hypocrisy. absurd.so ppl were not telling him what to like. he already established it when he was grabbing her and kissing up on her.
I think you can kiss and grab their ass without being attracted to them. Some people are just selfish and want to try people just to see if they fit.
I would not twist his words and say that he is just hiding his attraction towards her.
Basic psychology will tell you that a lot of people will do anything for validation and attention. That includes expressing compassion towards people you’re not even attracted to. Plus, Shake said his main motivation was staying on the show. So that might’ve also had something to do with it.
can’t believe they (hosts) refer to this show as an “experiment” and go so far as to claim it’s a successful one when only a handful of couples have gotten married also wouldn’t most people who get married feel pressure to stay together after the show regardless of if they are actually in love?? okay rant over lol at least Leo’s able to make sense/jokes out of this hot mess express of a show 🥴
The fact that they only accepted conventionally attractive contestants also makes the experiment kind of hopeless. The only potential features that can conflict with individual preference is the wrong haircolour or eyecolour, which is very possible to overcome in a situation like this
the fact they was all calling him out for only being in it for attraction and he kept denying it and then kept talking about the physic that he wanted in a woman and proceeds to say the only women he's attracted to in the room is the married women that us the host. it's like dude. u did not have to say that.
I was so neutral to Shake until the reunion where everytime he interrupted someone I died a little inside
“Love has an eyepatch” Bruh literally made me laugh out loud
I fucking howled
James can see he loves Jamie with his right eye, but will his left eye love her or shift her to the left slightly. Will Jamie notice the switch? Tune into Love has an Eyepatch.
Calling someone you look down "babe" in this society is like a Queen calling someone a peasant and belittling them
Leo, you said he couldn’t get a chance to talk, when in reality the entire episode he decided to give his opinion several times when no one asked and then interrupted people quite a few times. Why should they give a courtesy he wasn’t willing to give himself
That’s what I was thinking exactly. The whole time he was stalling the segment and making it about him. He’s giving off being a narcissist in this segment so much (I’m not going to state it since I don’t have a medical license to determine that). You honestly just ignore these people and what they say by that point cause he might just go on for hours if they let him
Exactly. Makes me wonder if Leo even watched the whole show.
He meant how everyone was piling on him. Even the times he did give his opinion while "no one asked", they kept shutting him down.
I feel like they didn't roast him nearly enough for proclaiming how honest and real he is when he had her all the way at the altar and forced her to be the one to say no. Like... were you ever going to tell her you didn't want to marry her? Since you're so 💯
Shane had explained it in a recent podcast that upon signing the contract for participating in the show one of the rules was that they could not say “Yes or no or I do or don’t” want to be with the person until they get to the altar.
It would be way more interesting if they didn’t choose beautiful people to be on the show. They gave it some heavier girls this season but no ugly people.
And a bunch of supremely *_conventionally_* attractive people made it to the reunion. This is the most dishonest reality show to ever been financed on earth. And that’s absolutely stunning.
Oh i would absolutely love it with less attractive people
It could be damaging to them though. But at least it'd be more real
love is blind japan is very average and normal, imo
Yeah where my fat girls at
@@zorro...... every girl on love is blind Japan is beautiful
When shake said "we're animals" i low key expected him to bust out with "You and me, baby we ain't nothing but mammals, so let's do it like they do on the discovery channel."
Damn, you went in on Vanessa... I thought she did a great job asking very legit questions and calling Shake out on his BS.
I think Jarrett laughed cause of how absurd shake was being by saying whatever he said, I had a similar reaction because of how ridiculous he was being 😭
So normally I agree you should let someone talk... But Shake was the one interrupting, he kept talking over people or interjecting, so no they shouldn't let him.
Can we just appreciate how many high quality, full indepth videos that Leo posts!! I watch you videos religiously and I even listen to them twice sometimes while I'm at work because they keep me in good mood! Keep up the great work!
Yes! Me too!
The only thing good about this season was Shayne's facial expressions.
currently watching your whole channel. what perfect timing, leo.
Me too
And it’s worth it. The only TH-camr I’ve watched every video of every time they release one. He’s funny, but also genuinely cares about people and wants to help make the world better any way he can. He’s helped people get through a lot, including me. Love you Leo.
The thing about Quality Leo is that no matter *what* something is as long as it’s quality we will watch. And you Sir are Quality. Do whatever you want Leo, you gained followers because of your talent not some novelty gimmick, we in this for the long haul. 👍🏾👍🏾🤙🏾🤙🏾
You literally have to blind him in order for him to understand the name of the show
I hate to be that outlier, but I wouldn't mind a happy cute TV show with cute couples and no drama, but ig that's just me 🤷🏿♀️ I wouldn't call all the demeaning crap Shake did "drama" either
The never ending board of the Many Faces of Shayne!!!
Never die!
I'm so happy watching Jarvis' video lead me to this dude. What an absolute ride.
I need more of Deeps in this, she's a queen i'm so happy she dodged this bullet.
my only comment is -- if you're chronically ill or disabled, knowing if a prospective partner will decide it's too much to support you is a pretty good thing to know before you trust them with your life and pain. are they going to be disgusted when you can't keep up with them anymore, when you don't look young anymore, will they treat your health problems like their burden and take it out on you? it's something you want to find out asap. not that i think this would ever be a consideration for shake lmaoo i'm just saying i dont think the questions were totally out of left field.
The battle I had with my Alexa in the beginning of this video 😂
At first I was like whoa, whoa, whoa why is everybody instantly hating on Shake? and then he just went mask off and kept going. Mans was begging to get ganged up on. I didn't expect Vanessa to pop off on him tho 🤣
I feel like Shake just needs to be honest with himself about WHY he didn't find D attractive. We all agree that she's very pretty and seems nice as well, so why else wouldn't he be attracted to her? I couldn't help but remember all the times he talked about preferring blonde women. That's probably exactly why he wasn't into her. I imagine that it's not that he's attracted to blonde hair on a woman, but it was just his way of saying he prefers white women without saying it. Him saying she's like family makes a lot more sense in my opinion if you also keep that in mind.
“I don’t mean to defend Shake but…”
it’s okay man, we don’t need it 😩😩
Never knew you were dating with a pillow. Better choice lol
anyone but Jay's pillow from big mouth lol
I dunno, last I heard she was feeling pretty down
Shake: "Love is blurry. Love is blurry."
Yeah if you squint you could just about see it 😂
I'm not defending Shake here. But I fear all the "attacks" he got has only pushed him to become worse.
He now embraces his role as villain n stopped working on himself.
All we can do now is ignore him, he's just profiting from the hate at this point and shitty people shouldn't have fame imo.
The term gaslighting gets overused way too much, even by you. Being unable to wrap their heads around why shake wasn't attracted to deepti is NOT gaslighting. They literally just can't understand how he could have been so shitty about it.
I think he just got it mixed up with “guilt tripping”
@@munchmongoose Guilt tripping can be a form of gaslighting if used in a manipulative type of way.
She literally gaslit him and said he said something that he didn’t say Indian apologized and try to change the subject. How is that not gaslighting?
Started watching this high as a kite, it took me 10 minutes to realize the faces were all fucked up and it wasnt just me
I hope Shake feels reeeeally embarrassed of himself, but probably not. People like him lack self awareness lol.
LMAOOO When you said Shayne looks like older Jake Paul I choked on my hot fries lmaooo
Every time I watch one of your videos I always end up laughing my head off. Thank you for your humour.
I mean, Shake wasn’t wrong when he suggested love isn’t blind, only problem is that he was in the wrong show and he was super disrespectful to Deeps.
23:07 _always_ makes me think of Loki's quote in the Loki series: "Love... is a dagger. It's a weapon to be wielded far away or up close. You can see yourself in it. It's beautiful until it makes you bleed." Which is like... _trying_ for profound, but instead it's just kinda awkward and chaotic. Same vibes as "love is blurry" tbh.
Sadly, none of these people will ever know true love. That's what self gratification does to a soul.
By the way, that's a pejorative "babe" and it's something a certain kind of woke (white) woman does in a maternalistic way to men she thinks are below her level and need to be humbled. She's saying "babe" more like you would to a child, not as a pet name.
I mean, I get it. I'm here for it.
Bro I froken love his arguments lmao
@Aulia💞💯 um ok....
I feel like when Shake says he wants love to be partially blind, he wants to see everything about his potential partner, but he wants his partner to be partially blind to his own flaws so he doesn’t have to change or get called out.
tbh I don't think it was weird of the host to say those "what ifs" there is a really high stat that men are more likely to leave their wives if they get ill than women leave their husbands. I see so many of those "AITA" videos where it is a guy saying he doesn't love his partner anymore due to these things. When he comes in to a show called "love is blind" with the mindset of "I need her to be a certain way physically" that IS upsetting to hear. I don't think she should have went as hard as she did but I don't think it was out of line when he's literally treating the girls on the show like objects. Even called it a purchase :/ the show has so many issues and is still a trashy show, but he was very disrespectful and deserved that kind of backlash from the host
I don’t agree on the point that it’s objectively wrong to leave someone if they are mangled in an accident or severely I’ll as I don’t think anyone should be guilted into staying with someone who was injured if this is something that they are incapable of doing. I don’t agree with doing that at all personally but it’s not objectively wrong to do and most importantly does not mean that they only wanted to “fuck them”. It may not be love but it’s not like they only had the intention to fuck them. Also that’s a distraction from the fact that not finding someone physically attractive and not wanting to be with them for that does not mean that that person will definitely do the same if their partner, who they are physically attracted to, got mangled in an accident or fell ill. Like that’s so ridiculous and is definitely gaslighting. Imagine if a guy said that to a girl who rejected him. People would be calling him an incel and all this other stuff. So I definitely disagree.
I could be wrong but there might be things said behind the scenes to the women that they had to cut out. Regardless, I don't think Shake is a fully horrible person but he's definitely shitty and has no excuse for how he treated Deepti
Asking if you'd still love someone if their looks change drastically for whatever reason is a great question to ask before you get married. I dont know why you think thats gaslighting
That’s not why he said she was gaslighting. He said she was gaslighting because she said that Shake said he only wanted to have sex with other girls and he did not say that and Vanessa addressed the fact that he didn’t really say that before trying to change the topic. She tried to confuse him into thinking that he said something he did not say. How is that not gaslighting?
Shake was interrupting everyone so it’s not surprising that everyone was interrupting him. You don’t HAVE to defend Shake. Like you’re jumping through hoops when you don’t really have to?
Love you, but your takes were bad in this one. Shake is obviously emotionally immature so it's 100% fair to point out the depths of his shallowness by bringing up sickness, accidents, etc that could happen in a long term relationship.
I honestly don't see how you could think this was gaslighting. That man needs therapy and education.
The awkward moment when you forget humans are 100% Mammalian animals 😅😅
Yess! I was literally thinking about you earlier and you just uploaded. The day is always 1000% better when Leo uploads.
Your entire channel is like asmr for me! I love your energy , sense of humor and your story choices! ❤️
Shake makes me so fuckin' upset but Leo's comentary over it makes it hard to be upset 😂😂 This is hilarious
Shake is certainly playing a role under instruction here.
Bro, that's not even what she means by "babe" lol.
I have to disagree with you. I think the dude shouldn’t do 180 CHANGE but he definitely needs to grow, and see the beauty in people for what they are. Granted we all have physical preferances but a lot of times some most gorgeous people end up being the most ugly with a shitty personality.
He's so delusional LMAO. He is not even considered cute in Indian standard of beauty
This was hilarious LEO ARE YOU EDITING THESE I CAN'T STOP LAUGHING
Wait, is no one going to bring up how Vanessa said “dismangled” 🤣
Mangled is a word, disfigured is a word, dismantle is a word, however DISMANGLED is def not a word lmfao
“I’m Nick Lashey, and this is my Nick labae”
Laughed so hard. Gold. You are so funny.
Just gotta say, love every last bit of this editing ... the editing on your vids is a huge part of what got me subbing. I’m literally in tears from laughter sometimes. Keep it up 🔥😎
Isn't he amazing at it? That's why I subbed too. That and his brutal honesty about ALL SIDES of things, not just what he believes in. The animations just add that extra layer of awesome 🔥
It still is surreal to many the massive amount of views you’re getting now!! Which is of course way overdue but I can still remember when it was just a couple thousand of us! So incredibly happy for you! 😊
Shake = Messica. But I really wish we had a Lauren and Cameron this season.
Shake is more like amber. Not that bad at first but shows her true colors more boldly during the reunion and afterwards.
😂😂😂😂
@TheFrancescanater So true about Amber. He is a mix of both.
I laughed my ass off when he covered the pillows uh, ears? "Jessica don't listen to this" I lmao just thinking of it!
Btw I heard Shayne got ADHD. And suddenly all we've seen of him makes a whole lot more sense to me. Also I now feel bad cus I was one of the people thinking he was on coke the whole time.