Men Will Find You MORE ATTRACTIVE If You Do THESE 5 THINGS! | Stephan Speaks

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    The 5 EASY Ways To Become More ATTRACTIVE TODAY!...In this dating advice video, I will give you tips on how to look more attractive. This will definitely give you a boost in how to be more attractive. Take heed to these dating tips, and be sure to watch the entire video.
    I want you to embrace this advice that will help you raise your ability for people to find you attractive. I want you looking better, feeling better, and experiencing positive results.
    Again looking more attractive can be achieved if you're willing to take the right steps. Also understand that I want you to become more attractive not just for he purpose of dating a woman, or dating a man, but for you and your overall quality of life. Self improvement is always a great thing to strive for!
    As a certified life coach, relationship coach, and dating coach, I want to make dating and relationships easier for you. I pray you find this video helpful, and that you will receive the man who is truly best for you.
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  • @MeetStephanSpeaks
    @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

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    • @francenealexandre7904
      @francenealexandre7904 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      THANK YOU STEPHAN✊💯🌹

    • @Trendsetanista
      @Trendsetanista 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thanks

    • @jadesawyer1786
      @jadesawyer1786 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Will this work internationally?

    • @altoniagrantham2061
      @altoniagrantham2061 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks

    • @novellabrown6898
      @novellabrown6898 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you, I am determined to be the best I can be so I can be attractive and receive the man GOD has for me with your help Stephan.

  • @theamberturner
    @theamberturner 4 ปีที่แล้ว +165

    Embodying feminine energy changes everything! How you walk, talk and how you engage with others. Very powerful. It is overall attractive to everyone.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I completely agree!

    • @rooffoop5358
      @rooffoop5358 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes this is so true!

    • @kimberlyblunt
      @kimberlyblunt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      True

    • @queenbee297
      @queenbee297 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Are we truly being ourselves though if we're trying to be/act more feminine & it doesn't feel like that's who we are?

    • @theamberturner
      @theamberturner 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@queenbee297 if it doesn't feel natural or shall I say good...then definitely don't. It feels good to my body. It does take a level of vulnerability for sure. But I will say if the desire for a masculine man is there, it might something worth exploring. Plus, we are talking energy and not dresses and makeup. You can be feminine and not wear dresses nor wear makeup.

  • @queenqueen4394
    @queenqueen4394 4 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    I started PLANT BASE diet 9/26/2020. I was 275 as of January I'm 220. I will reweigh end of month. Body went PAIN FREE day 6. I started this to get IMMUNE SYSTEM up.

    • @AB_1211
      @AB_1211 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Congratulations Queen!!

    • @queenbee297
      @queenbee297 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's so awesome. Congrats on the healthier lifestyle & Weightloss.

    • @gegem5839
      @gegem5839 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That’s awesome! I started in 2019 and I feel young and free… hope you are still going

    • @Decades-pl2kl
      @Decades-pl2kl หลายเดือนก่อน

      👏❤👏❤👏 congratulations!!!

  • @turaysiarodgers9140
    @turaysiarodgers9140 4 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    I’m currently JUST NOW realizing feminine energy. After having my kids and being overwhelmed by that and my depression, I stopped wearing heels, dresses, and doing my hair. Now that I’m separated and ready to heal, I want to embody that energy . Where to start is the hard part tho

    • @lovelyrayy5492
      @lovelyrayy5492 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Hey queen. You got this. I experienced the same thing.
      Queen afua
      Queen of green.
      Are great for starting your healing journey. Holistic healing mind body and soul.

    • @weekendnomad5038
      @weekendnomad5038 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Same ! No time ! I’ve discovered press on nails , lashes , a little eyeliner (waterline) and a tiny bit of shadow / bronzer is life and it takes me like 10 min to do my face in the morning lol

    • @tiararn
      @tiararn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I am in the same boat. Ive been going through divorce. And after a year of being alone, i decided to give dating a try and it truly sucks 😂 maybe i am just not ready. I am working on being happy alone.

    • @iamkat8104
      @iamkat8104 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Relatable!

    • @misselle1430
      @misselle1430 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Eat right
      Get clean n fresh
      Exercise
      And you'll immediately feel more energised

  • @mw7882
    @mw7882 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    It is definitely attractive to me when a man confidently has a sense of style and he has a kind, generous heart. Being a gentleman is always classy, to me it says you are a thinker.

  • @confidentalways7526
    @confidentalways7526 4 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    Seven tips Healthy advice on relationships
    1.Be yourself. If you don't know then find yourself and love who you are.
    2. Do not waste your time. Don't let situations to linger on way too long than they should. Learn to cut things off as soon as you can. If you see red flags then know when to move on.
    3. Focus on the positive but be prepared for the negative. Do not project negative into your experiences.
    4.Make sure you have healed. We have to be sure that we are not caring past hurt or damage. Healing is from all hurt in life from childhood whether from parents, love relationships in the past etc. Healing is vital for a healthy relationships.
    5.Don't dwell in a disappointment. If you are busy holding on to disappointment you might set up yourself for failure and miss out on an opportunity.
    6. Self reflect and keep improving. Hold your self accountable. Don't beat yourself up. Learn in a way that strengthens you and make you a better person. Accept the ups and downs in life to be a better person.
    7. Focus on connection. Connection as your spirit recognizing it's mess. Find a person that you have connection with. Connection is the key.

    • @lynnlea3438
      @lynnlea3438 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What is the name of your book about healing after heart break ? Thank you.

    • @diannastanislaus1441
      @diannastanislaus1441 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks for the summary

  • @colemacedo-phillips5768
    @colemacedo-phillips5768 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    SMELL GOOD! Love when a man smells good. Thanks Stephan!

  • @alexislamberson1901
    @alexislamberson1901 4 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Agreed! I do need to fix my wardrobe it’s crazy cause I wrote about that in my journal that I’m going to do a whole wardrobe clean out! Time to level up 💅🏼

  • @andrea3017
    @andrea3017 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I love that you said find the outfit that looks good on you. You don't have to look like no one else, just look like you, but do it looking good! Awesome, so simple but so true.

    • @lindawojtas4491
      @lindawojtas4491 ปีที่แล้ว

      WOMEN'S BS LIB..KILLLLLED CHIVALRY.....AND, APPROPRIATE MANNERISM IN MEN..REAL MEN NOT PUNKS GUYS...REAL MEN..IF YOU'RE NOT CHIVALROUS...KEEP WALKING...!!!😏

  • @charissablackburn7415
    @charissablackburn7415 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    That point right there is terrifying. building enough trust to finally open, share, and be a little vulnerable, just for a disappointing letdown, change. it's that right there is why I will never!!!

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I feel you, but we have to focus on doing what is truly best!

  • @aprilredkisses
    @aprilredkisses 4 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    Smell good...on point. There’s nothing better than a good smelling man. Claude have mercy!

  • @stephaniestokeseley631
    @stephaniestokeseley631 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Oh no, I love navy. Almost all of my clothes are black and navy! Thanks for the tip. I'm shopping right now for some colored accessories. ❤

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that.

    • @queenbee297
      @queenbee297 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too. I love black! That's my signature color.

  • @kinsa123
    @kinsa123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Yeah true, Don't take things personal✨😊

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that

  • @AkaHeart1
    @AkaHeart1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Boy, have I FAILED in all categories lately!
    I lost my husband unexpectedly 7 months ago and have crawled under my rock! 🪨
    Everyday, I get up focused on changing my mindset, but then revert back under my rock. Hopefully, this grieving will end soon because I truly want to resume back to my happy life!

    • @helloyou9533
      @helloyou9533 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m sorry babe. Stay positive and always stay busy ❤

  • @deanj8870
    @deanj8870 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Preach, brother. Psalms 34:18 - The LORD is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.Psalms 147:3 - He healeth the broken in heart, and bindeth up their wounds👑📖🙏🏾

  • @MP-fk9em
    @MP-fk9em 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Thank you so much for sharing the story at the end about walking on the outside of the sidewalk. I was raised by a very chivalrous father and not once in my entire 40 + years of having my father did he ever allow me to walk on the outside. It is a gesture that will remain with me for the rest of my life♥️♥️Thank you for your Insight as always.♥️⚘🙏

  • @lourdiacelestin2109
    @lourdiacelestin2109 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Black is my favorite color 😩. Eating healthy, exercise and sleep go a long way. Improving these factors can certainly enhance your well-being. Great video! Thank you much Stephan!🙏❤️

    • @MsVie2012
      @MsVie2012 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I like black too. Not my favorite color but its utilitarian for me. Its a neutral, matches everything, I can dress it up or down AND its slimming. My favorite colors are shades of green, purple, gold and shades of pink/fuchsia.

  • @crystalfuentes330
    @crystalfuentes330 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    So true about the smell. Love my coco. Great tips. 🙌🏻

  • @terrihamilton6166
    @terrihamilton6166 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I love wearing colorful clothes, it brings energy plus it lifts my coworkers spirits, every time I wear something bright they say I made their day.

  • @silviamtz8961
    @silviamtz8961 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I resonate with your message and your love truths, I can honestly tell you that YEARS ago I bumped into your videos and I had a lot of resistance. LOTS! I was in my masculine. I've been healing my feminine and masculine, been doing lots of crying and releasing, I've been happy on my own and when I was beginning to feel lonely I put my self out there. I found many wounded men and I steer away from them. I noticed I have been in my feminine in quite some time. Only, I didn't know until I bumped into you again. And I will say I am living with a new man i found EVERYTHING I have heard in YOUR videos!!!! It's amazing how far I've come along and that's why I proclaim that YOU ARE 100% TRUTH!!!!!! Im only weeks into meeting him but we have been so happy, so present and I have been on my feminine with ease. I hope women really pay attention to you. I know Im playing all of your videos and have been listening to them over and over day and night. So thank you Stephan! Ps: Be genuine! Be who you truly are: Personality, Sexually, and even how you dress and how you look with and ESPECIALLY without make up!!!!

  • @claressaslife9290
    @claressaslife9290 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    17:00-17:35 is true. God is waiting on you to be honest. And He will heal your heart and faith.

  • @mssouthernlady222
    @mssouthernlady222 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Such a wise, godly, educated, articulate young man. Keep up the good work. Your mother should be proud of you.

  • @kenyajosey8817
    @kenyajosey8817 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    That old saying misery loves company When people feel someway about themselves they try and bring others down with them Setting goals is great You have a sense of purpose in doing the things that leads us to what we are trying to do and accomplish Being alone it allows you to recharge Finding out who you really are and what you want for your life both on a personal level and romantic relationship Healing is the start to becoming an even better you

  • @yasminebrown8766
    @yasminebrown8766 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Just when i thought you couldn’t get any more attractive!! You said you are a plant based eater! Vegan for life ✌🏾✌🏾✌🏾

  • @livinggood6876
    @livinggood6876 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I am starting to need a dose of your videos daily.

  • @elainelester7016
    @elainelester7016 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Thankyou for this because I just turned 59 and I haven’t dated in yrs and feel like a stick in a forest

    • @islandvybz5245
      @islandvybz5245 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What?! Let that thought burn
      Embrace your rose!! 🙏 Take it slow. One day at a time

  • @pdoll96
    @pdoll96 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I know that God brought me here because I needed this but I wasn’t looking. I’m in a place where I need to heal and this was helpful.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm happy this has been helpful to you and I pray that you heal all you have been through! 🙏

    • @pdoll96
      @pdoll96 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MeetStephanSpeaks thank you 🙏

  • @wilianty2893
    @wilianty2893 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It's the small things that make the changes

  • @daelo9781
    @daelo9781 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Let me just say why I absolutely find ALL that he speaks on Factual but what I love the most is that he is speaking on facts!!! Not only is he speaking on FACTS but he holds nothing back and leaves you wanting to know more!!!!!! A lot of times people are begging you to buy their books or give money to receive additional information he is real! YOU WANT THE BOOK(s)! Turn them into work books and work on you!!! Working on yourself is the only thing you can change.....you can not change anyone else!!! STAY TRUE TO YOU AND YOU WILL REALIZE WHAT AND WHO IS GOOD FOR YOU!!!!! i SPEAK ON THESE THINGS BECAUSE I HAVE BEEN THESES THINGS.....TRYING TO COMPROMISE FOR SOMEONE ELSE WILL MAKE YOU LOSE YOURSELF.....LET GO AND LET GOD! It is important for our young women to learn these things early!!! Well done Stephen!

  • @kenyajosey8817
    @kenyajosey8817 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Great tips ALL three I think smelling good is such a turn on I love smelling good A man smelling good would send my libido through the roof, especially if I like him and we already have a connection Wearing clothes that fit your body the right way spells confidence What some people don’t realize is loose fitting clothes not only looks sloppy, it also also makes you look bigger than you really are sometimes Lastly, Bright colors are beautiful it puts you in a positive mood and mindset Dull dark colors can make some people look depressed and non approachable especially if there energy and face is matching the dull colors

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree with you thank you for sharing, I appreciate hearing from you! ❤️

    • @annwi3980
      @annwi3980 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      But, please do not wear shirts that are too tight, not attractive to look like a sausage stuffed into a casing. I do not like seeing your fat rolls.

  • @reneebcc
    @reneebcc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Yes hygiene and wardrobe that works for you are top priorities for self care. Great tips ❤😍

  • @maryrainwater6533
    @maryrainwater6533 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I agree with his teachings.
    He expressed things we should exercise daily in our lives. My compliments to him.

  • @sheilanascimento8953
    @sheilanascimento8953 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes, as a personal fashion consultant I totally agree with you about smelling good, wearing clothes that fit well, not matter what size the person is, and color has a huge impact on a lot of areas in our life, that's true. I see that on all my clients when I do color analyses . 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤

  • @mistymarley9782
    @mistymarley9782 ปีที่แล้ว

    i already thought you were perfect and now you say you are plant based. makes sense because you are on a higher frequency. Thank you for being compassionate! I am a raw foodist (no meat) thank you for another phenomenal video. everything you say is so right! I say the same things too so listening to you is so validating to say the least.I enjoy listening to you! You are the best. I love how you say to be yourself because that's when you fall in love with life and yourself. I have been working on myself for several years and only feel better once i stopped worrying about what anyone thinks about me and now I am happy and dont care if i have a mate. I am happy all by myself because I love myself and I am fun to be with!! but looking backon my past relationship where I went wrong and should have left wayyy sooner. I learned a lot though and if I get into another relationship it would be magical now. I know who I am and who I want and wouldn't stay with anyone who wasn't right. Now I know better. I love listening to you so I don't do things to turn the right man off! thank you

  • @ramonajohnson2738
    @ramonajohnson2738 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    🙌 Absolutely Stephan 👑! When you wear your outfits well and don't let your outfits wear you! You smell good and your hair is nice! You exude good energy that draws attention to you! It's an amazing feeling! Stephan have a relaxing day Godbless. Thank you for being in women's life in a positive way! One-love Ramona

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thank you and you have a blessed day as well

    • @ramonajohnson2738
      @ramonajohnson2738 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you! Wishing you a Happy Valentine's 👑⚘💘 😘.. Ramona

    • @wahlbergpatterson3604
      @wahlbergpatterson3604 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ramonajohnson2738 hello beautiful 🥰 happy valentine to you..

  • @scosta87
    @scosta87 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Finally a good adviser 🤗🙏Positive vibes empower men and woman

  • @SLBMcMillan
    @SLBMcMillan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Prevent casual interests Express yourself (not extra, but natural)...good information! Running is a clear sign that man was not interested in you. Good information!

  • @lillianfeliciano6117
    @lillianfeliciano6117 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was so powerful for me... no. 3, being alone!!! Right on point, thank you.

  • @Innerviews_
    @Innerviews_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Awww I remember asking you for that video in the beginning! Hygiene is a MUST! 💚

  • @afsamsayah
    @afsamsayah 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Short and longterm goals gang 🙌🏾

    • @afsamsayah
      @afsamsayah 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      1 of my goal is to give and sell a LOT of my clothes! Got to much
      Goal: 5 jeans, 5 pullovers, ... everything 5 and yes even shoes but I know better, I know Im not gon get rid of all my shoes and clothes 😭

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you! ❤️

  • @melissalitus8879
    @melissalitus8879 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Hey Stephan back at it again! I feel like if you exude confidence, be feminine and have positive energy you will attract what you deserve. You can't be a toxic person and expect to attract a nice guy it doesn't work like that. Be yourself and be real 🙂 smile more and be a women of substance not only superficial ❤

  • @joycemccrory1392
    @joycemccrory1392 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Absolutely!!! Smell, color & fit are important for presenting
    oneself to the world.

  • @zainabbah9771
    @zainabbah9771 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    That me I always loveeeeee to smell good #2 is me too👌 I dress according to my body yes 3 is me too🤚 😂😂 anyway back to work 👩‍💻Thanks brother 🙏

  • @annabellshapegud
    @annabellshapegud 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Keep them coming Stephan great advices as always if only my elders and parent gave me these knowledge but its never too late to learn 😉 👌

  • @tsa0219
    @tsa0219 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    GM, Stephan Labossiere,
    Thank you for the detailed message as well as the "variety of different colored Polo shirts." 😉 Well-put together video. Message received.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

  • @francenealexandre7904
    @francenealexandre7904 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    THIS WAS SO GOOD💯HAD TO LISTEN TWICE👌

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

  • @cortneyrcalloway6868
    @cortneyrcalloway6868 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I have been praying asking God if it's my calling to be a wife or is it my calling to completely pour myself into helping others specifically our young people. I truly believe I was put here to be a help to the world not a wife today. I definitely love the education you give on love and also I feel my calling is directing me more towards loving and help our young people around the world. I will always continue to support your education for love because I believe in you and your work also I'm okay without becoming a wife. 💪🏿❤️✌🏿 I love your work. 💪🏿 ❤️ ✌🏿

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you! ❤️

  • @Mia-rv5qw
    @Mia-rv5qw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you Stephan for this great advice. I'm definitely taking your advice.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

  • @dee_braveheartjacques6953
    @dee_braveheartjacques6953 หลายเดือนก่อน

    These are the 4 colors I find attractive on man: Grey, Blue (any blue color), Purple, and Black-of course smelling good is a MUST☝🏽🤌🏾☺️. Great 👍🏽 vid.

  • @apple4914
    @apple4914 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Omg so glad I clocked on this.

  • @divinedigitalpro
    @divinedigitalpro 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    It's been 3 months and I'm still dwelling. Infidelity hurts. It feels like my heart was torn out.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I feel you, but we have to focus on doing what is truly best!

    • @divinedigitalpro
      @divinedigitalpro 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MeetStephanSpeaks I ordered your book love after heart break. 🤗

    • @iamchristinaleann3564
      @iamchristinaleann3564 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I can relate to do... it does hurt and its hard to stop playing it over in your head. I keep telling myself it wasnt me; it was him and the karma is coming back to him. Fix your grown queen 👑 we got this! 💪🏽

    • @hackedaccount3424
      @hackedaccount3424 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Girl keep going

    • @queenbee297
      @queenbee297 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It does but focusing on the future and what you need to do for you to be the best you helps. Praying you found some peace going forward.

  • @bridgettemcclendon9494
    @bridgettemcclendon9494 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Yes, good video I just upgraded my closet, with a lot of color's before I only had the basic color's ( black, Navy and White. Now, I'm currently working on eating much healthier, including taking care of my dental hygienes. Thanks 😊 for the great video.

  • @jennifergodwin29
    @jennifergodwin29 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This is so helpful and perfectly timed. Thank you!

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm happy this has been helpful to you don't forget to share so that others can find love and healing!

    • @wahlbergpatterson3604
      @wahlbergpatterson3604 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello beautiful 🥰

  • @lanas8066
    @lanas8066 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your channel is amazing and I'm taking lots of notes!! I went through the experience of meeting someone I had a very intense connection with but are not really with them yet due to lots of obstacles and don't know if it will ever work out. I did often hear in my spirit it's not over and to just trust God. Either way you're the first person to help me really understand that experience and it did make me question a lot and get closer to God. All your other content is amazing too. Really appreciate your work.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm happy this has been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

  • @altangerel9421
    @altangerel9421 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I like the way Stephan explains things. This topic makes lots of sense! Thank you very much! 😃

  • @sonyamcneal9046
    @sonyamcneal9046 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Once again Stephan you out did yourself. Very well done. Thank you

  • @happyshabangu
    @happyshabangu 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for you teachings they helped me to be who I am and know my worth and God blessed me with a wonderful man he felt very attracted to me being transparent, authentic, honest and taking self care you truly attract your dream partner thank you so much 🙏🙏

  • @marygranke204
    @marygranke204 ปีที่แล้ว

    I looked up eating by your blood type....and it a plant based diet...and after the scare in Greenville, SC with one farmer's cow ended up getting mad cow disease....I avoided beef for a while and was thinking plant based is looking better and better. Now, I still live grilled fish and chicken , but I have 6 foods that I am allergic to that I avoid most of the time. It's good to have the allergy test....and I get allergy shots too. I need to get back to walking like I was. I had stopped because I had surgery and had to go to physical therapy for a month and I am now able to get back to it and I will reach my long term goal with finishing my degree in April 2024.

  • @mami_tsunami_locs_
    @mami_tsunami_locs_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hey, i read all your books and used them to teach a self love class to women. I would like to get together and make some self love videos for black men.

  • @tashamack8701
    @tashamack8701 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Awesome video. You really nail some good pointers. I love my dark colors but also I love light colors. I might need to switch it up and wear more lighter colors. Smell good on point period. I love smelling good and I love a smell good well dressed man. I am happy while I am alone. I am stress free and found peace. I agree with you. Healing is very important I agree with you 💯. Self worth is very important also. Holding on to the negative stuff is not good at all. You have to let go and let god.

  • @lashawnclark9067
    @lashawnclark9067 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I luv how veracious you are🥰😊👏. Thank you sir😉

  • @jayc5756
    @jayc5756 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Yeah, the not taking things personally is easier said than done. But I try. Lol.
    And its not really what they say, cause I got super thick skin. Its usually what they Do...or Don't Do. Idk. I do sometimes internalize that. But yeah, I try.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

  • @Cindy_Love_2025
    @Cindy_Love_2025 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love this one! Excellent video! ❤️❤️💯💯👏🏼👏🏼

  • @spetrenko7149
    @spetrenko7149 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    @stephanspeaks 👏👏👏👏👏 yes!!!! The chivalry in men is much appreciated still by some women!!! And on point about “impressing”. Thank you for the vids they are 💥

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that. Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you! ❤️

    • @spetrenko7149
      @spetrenko7149 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MeetStephanSpeaks yeah glad to - thank you!

  • @rooffoop5358
    @rooffoop5358 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh yes! Everyday i put on some type of perfume, body mist, moisturizer etc....Its part of my wardrobe, since I was in my teens. I'm all about self hygiene and taking care of my skin. Start smelling deliciously sexy!Smelling good invites people to you. I just love these things! They make me happy and I feel sexy. ❤❤❤So take care of yourself and love yourself. Try to be your best every day, even when you don't feel like it! Think positive. Wear vibrant colors too.😉
    Love all the topics Stephan speaks about! Very informative ❤

    • @brendacampbell8438
      @brendacampbell8438 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @sunspark-vc5eq
    @sunspark-vc5eq 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're brilliant, sir. I've been watching your videos for so long now and I watch from start to end, my time is never wasted. I don't need to ask questions anymore cause you cover everything. Thank you, I learn a lot from you.

  • @victoriariggs8643
    @victoriariggs8643 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Clarity and Peace. Beauty~full.
    💖🙏🏽🙏🏻😘

  • @nursekem12
    @nursekem12 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love you stephan, keep videos coming, they are helping. Thankyou

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you, I am happy to hear that. Stay subscribed and make sure you click the notification bell to be notified each time I release a new video. More to come!

  • @francesarauz5544
    @francesarauz5544 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    "Don't personalize'Genaralize"❤🏁💯🥰....

  • @fayskeete-sobers6563
    @fayskeete-sobers6563 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Great advice. Love it!

  • @constancemoniquepetty6147
    @constancemoniquepetty6147 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My Guy, Stephan You Speak the TRUTH. We have the EXACT same Mindset. You're Talented AND truly Gifted. BLESS up Fam. Keep up the PHENOMENAL work ❤🖤💚💙

  • @LifeCapade
    @LifeCapade 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I Love You, Stephan... You are so inspirational... Thank you for all of the profound advice....

  • @joycetowers-ky1ru
    @joycetowers-ky1ru ปีที่แล้ว

    Stephan you have me really thinking about me. Thank you. You have help me tremendously

  • @redangelgo7075
    @redangelgo7075 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks stephan. You have amazing words of yours ❤

  • @Hendawg8200
    @Hendawg8200 ปีที่แล้ว

    My brother my brother first and foremost here's what I have to say to you the father God has given you the messages for people 🙏🏻 🙌 🙏🏻🙏🙏🏻🙏🙏🙏🙏🏻🙏🙏🏻🙏🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🙏🏻🙏

  • @teresabrooks5196
    @teresabrooks5196 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so much for speaking life. I love listening to you. God bless!

  • @debratenney1689
    @debratenney1689 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I know a few guys who wear light colors look great on them brings out eyes. Stephan love ur purple shirt my favorite color looks great on u

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

  • @jayc5756
    @jayc5756 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I gotta go to 1 of your conferences man. Maybe might meet someone good there. Lol. IJS. Let me know when things get back to normal and you do it again bro.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

  • @conniewashington2500
    @conniewashington2500 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm good in alot of these areas you speaking on and I love my lone time. I have work to do my past wasn't healthy. My pastor sermon was on Job 38. Today it was powerful. I have cry many times why me God. But done with that.

  • @monicaLynn7
    @monicaLynn7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love love love this!!! I saw your interview with Lous Howes yesterday and am so grateful to hear all of your information! Love it! In grateful and appreciate your information... thank you!!!!

  • @carinecampier
    @carinecampier 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Stéphane, you are so right. I am so tired of being the one who plans the date when I was the one asked out. Men who show up with no clue as to how we’re going to spend this time together… I just assume they only want sex and I ‘m done with them.

  • @lauraclotiaux9539
    @lauraclotiaux9539 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amen!

  • @lisadavis3182
    @lisadavis3182 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    IN THAT ORDER 💯

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

  • @lorispann9001
    @lorispann9001 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you♡...This message is so true.

  • @SimplisticallyDigital
    @SimplisticallyDigital 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Ready for this!

  • @melissawiley3688
    @melissawiley3688 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love this ❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉
    Thank you so much ❤❤❤❤🎉🎉😊

  • @michellesimpson4093
    @michellesimpson4093 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I write curriculums on hygiene for a nonprofit organization that aids teen moms empower themselves.... Self care is the best care!

  • @annekajordan6952
    @annekajordan6952 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Beautiful mashup full of great advice and guidance! ☺️❤️

  • @rosemariecalumpangtapis6296
    @rosemariecalumpangtapis6296 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I appreciate so much for some effort about to plan for a date to remind those woman in order to have a confident or can feel easiness or not ashamed if they face each other for that man in a date.

  • @ShaBella509
    @ShaBella509 4 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    Make sure your teeth are taken care of and your breath on point! You can be fine as wine but if your breath is kicking that's a deal breaker for me! 🤢🤮😄

    • @DeanaFrenchHairby
      @DeanaFrenchHairby 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So needed this SHIT!

    • @marquitahaynes227
      @marquitahaynes227 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Factz 100

    • @margaretahogberg6869
      @margaretahogberg6869 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree it much nicer with a man who is dressed up, of course Its the same thing for a woman.
      I don't use the same clothes at home as I am, when I get out, other clothes if I am invited to a restaurang, LoL 👍🥰

    • @kimberlyblunt
      @kimberlyblunt 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yesssss

    • @andreajones6840
      @andreajones6840 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Go to the dentist ppl or stay off dating sites until you do. Handle he business💯

  • @rebeccabivins4346
    @rebeccabivins4346 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much!😊 ❤

  • @saralopez5973
    @saralopez5973 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My man was just saying I need to buy clothes 🤦🏻‍♀️ so I did that 😂

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you for sharing. I appreciate that!

    • @saralopez5973
      @saralopez5973 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@MeetStephanSpeaks you’re welcome.. This wasn’t the first time he mentioned it so obviously it’s bothering him. I’m always doing for others and barely for myself . I can see his point .

    • @misselle1430
      @misselle1430 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      If someone complain about your dressing they should take you shopping for what they want you in

  • @AshleyLu92
    @AshleyLu92 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Okay so I gotta wear more pink 👍🏾 lol

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It really helps when we embrace that! Lol.

  • @carnidethermidorpianist1222
    @carnidethermidorpianist1222 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is the word of God! Amen 🙏🏿 ❤

  • @elaiolab4971
    @elaiolab4971 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Omg 😂 Regarding the shoes for men, I had a boyfriend who would like to wear flip flops quite often, he was a good man, but honestly I was horrified every time I saw him in flip flops during the day and it wasn’t on the beach. His fashion style was not the best and a quite a turn off, but I still loved him very much, altho when we broke up, I felt so relieved. 🤣🙈

    • @Kenzo-2025-j2u
      @Kenzo-2025-j2u 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are a mess. Ha ha ha

    • @elaiolab4971
      @elaiolab4971 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Kenzo-2025-j2u You are too hehehe

    • @charmichelle
      @charmichelle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I had an ex fiance who wore flip flops, because he felt he had nice feet (Boy,stop it,wear some damn shoes!)all the time it was such a turn off for me.

  • @nothembamxo5242
    @nothembamxo5242 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great advice, so refreshing 🤍

  • @weekendnomad5038
    @weekendnomad5038 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    “If you talk to him in a sweet loving manner”
    *cue the Latina’s * lmao 😆

  • @Hendawg8200
    @Hendawg8200 ปีที่แล้ว

    My brother my brother wonderful this is spectacular coaching 🙌 👌 💯 ❤️ 💙 👏

  • @jya-butterfly
    @jya-butterfly 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lovely uplifting advice.

  • @DamilolaAkeju-g3s
    @DamilolaAkeju-g3s ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing!!!!😂❤