I almost cried when he described the memory of the french lady. And then she ruined it by said "i don't remember that night" Gurl, you're a horrible person 🙂
@gay hay So basically 1 random TH-cam comment should make us believe that narrative over a full video where she literally admits to her fuckery? Get over yourself, there is never an excuse to cheat.
@@theonlythingihavetosayis9333 Lol, so you believe in an 'apparent' story rather than what she said here ?! Yeah, great source material. Or you're giving her a pass just because she's a woman! Women tend to do that a lot you know.
@@theonlythingihavetosayis9333 Oh yes he abused her so much she stayed in the relationship, and had threesomes to boot when she cheated. Not only that she sounds like alcoholic saying she doesn't remember any of the good times they had, because she was drowning in cocks. BTW from the title, he didn't bring her here, She brought HIM. Think about it.
That's how women are killing men indirectly by fucking with men's mind. Women will pay for their bs. Just like how innocent men are paying bs for the things a few bad men did.
I feel so bad for him. He looks like a pretty sweet dude and you can tell he was very hurt and just not trying to show it. I would never allow myself to be friends with someone who cheated on me twice, blamed me for it, and to this day still says disrespectful sh*t in my face. Hope he realises he deserves better
It was bad enough the way she so casually talked about her cheating, but after he told the Budapest story and she did everything she could to diminish it I was livid.
She literally gives zero F about that guy man.. thats so heartbreaking.. that poor guy has lost the confidence.. thanks to Miss Sav who is being absolutely shameless while saying that she cheated on him TWICE!!
Obviously the lack of respect he has for himself.. she wouldn’t even be talking about/ to him like this if he actually carried himself as a self-respecting man
She cheated on him twice and tried to downplay it by saying it was at the beginning and end of their relationship. Then at 3:23 she even has the gall to say she's happy and proud of the person SHE'S become. Unbelievable. She reminds me of Jada Pinkett Smith: cheating on someone and then making it seem like a profound and spiritual journey of self-discovery.
I agree with you on the first half about the woman in this video, but you do know that Jada and Will are in an open relationship, and you do know that Will has slept with other women while him and Jada have been married ? They’ve both made mistakes.
I agree that they are toxic, but they both mention that he had a lot of trauma that he was taking out on her throughout their three years. That could have easily formed a wedge in their relationship that caused her to seek love/affection/pleasure/acknowledgement/safety in the embrace of others. I would have liked to see her talk about such an action with more regret, but there is a lot of information missing here and the breadcrumbs of info we get throughout the video make me suspect that her cheating was a (harmful) response to deeper relationship issues.
@@MoonMoon.0 based on an edited 5 minute video and without knowing any details of their relationship hardly? And I like how you just ignore the guy who said that he didnt go to therapy and took it out on her. That could literally mean anything without knowing more details. They are still good friends so its impossible to judge without know the context of everything that happened
Why would they hook up if they aren’t sexually compatible? He clearly still has feelings for her, but sounds like he finally did go to therapy and finally takes care of himself.
@@shamblinjosh526 that some can include fingers or oral only. Which I guess can be fine for someone for three years. My ex was just too large for pain free sex and for three years he only used his hands or mouth. Same with me to him. It was lack luster
How is no one talking about that beautiful story Mani told at 3:52 about the moment he felt most in love with Sav and then she says she doesn't remember it? It would be fine if Sav replaced it with a different memory she had of them but she doesn't even try, yet she has no problem going on about the fact she cheated on him twice. I know that making snap judgments on someone's character isn't right but Sav was just saying all the wrong things.
You nailed it. It’s all about her, and Sav isn’t even pretending that she is interested in hearing about it. She seems to be more excited about telling the stories of her cheating, and is almost proud of her toxicity. It’s so off putting.
Yeah her choice of words are pretty off putting. Instead of just saying "oh yeah I remember that" she says "I barely remember that" as if trying to diminish the memory.
I don't hate her. They both admitted to being crazy & messy in their relationship. He said he was even moreso. She's just more blunt about it. This was a very short video to go on. We have no idea the extent of what they endured the 3 years they were together.
Why hate someone when you know barely anything about their story? Very weird. The guy agreed with her when she said that he didnt go to therapy and took it out on her. That could mean literally anything. We dont know any true details and they are still goood friends so it impossible to say that she is just wrong period
@gay hay Lol. And you believe her story because she's a woman ? Pretty sure if a man said that you wouldn't even consider it. She's the kind of women that makes me disappointed in the air I breathe because it's the same as hers.
@gay hay why not just leave him? Why cheat but stay in the relationship. And don’t give me that bs that she was scared of him cuz then why did she and him “decide” that what he was doing was worse? That means she still kept in contact with him. This story got too many holes in it something’s not adding up
@@floatyseagull9472 ok even if shes lying saying why couldnt she just leave is stupid af. People in abusive relations often times have a hard time leaving due to fear, denial, feelings, money etc..it aint that easy dude
This guy must be having the best day of his life reading these comments, hundreds of people saying how toxic she is and how nice he comes across. If you're reading this bro, hi! Bullet dodged mate
@gay hay I mean to be fair we wouldn’t have this knee jerk reaction if she didn’t have this nonchalant attitude about cheating or their relationship in general
@gay hay i still don't feel bad for her and everyone's reactions are valid. She chose to stay in that relationship and then decided to cheat which in turn made things even worse.
This woman is the reason good people get bad. Being in a relationship with this kind of person is the worst thing you can do to yourself and it leaves you completely broken, it changes you. I hope she doesn’t get the chance to ruin one more person and she either stays single forever or find someone worse than her. Damn.
the only time she gets close to him and leans in is when she's talking about the times she cheated, their body language during this whole episode is so telling
THIS. Or just old/once best friends who don't talk anymore or are no longer best friends. Sometimes people naturally drift apart but sometimes friendships are cruelly broken. I'd like to see that
The woman in the video wrote in about her side on an episode of the podcast Binchtopia (ep about gossip). Basically the guy was super abusive to her and she cheated on him. They both decided that what he did was worse than her infidelity. They both talked about his abusiveness in the original cut of the video, but the editors spun the narrative to make her seem like the bad guy. The reason they are friends now is because he went to therapy for years and was able to heal and talk to her about it. Yes they BOTH had faults but people are so quick to judge and hate on a woman from a 5 minute edited video. (THIS IS COPY AND PASTED FROM SOMEONE IN THE COMMENTS NAMED TARA)
@@yasso2031 right, how do we know that he actually abused her? Why didn't she out him in the video? Just seems like damage control for a hoowa. There's never a reason to cheat on someone. If she felt like she was being abused then she could've just left him
@@Whirlbee i wouldnt just assume they got past it… it could be that he’s passive because of her controlling demeanor, and i by that i mean the way she tries to pin it on him being his fault. He probably feels small, kind of why he doesn’t even bother saying anything back.
@@marius4iasi Imagine being this ok getting cheated on and act as if it was nothing. Feel bad for the guy and I'm sure he won't be the first one to get cheated on by her ;)
@@mythica_ly at some point in your life past relationships mean nothing, even though they seemed the whole world to you at that time. Yeah, being ok with people who cheated on you in your fucking 20's, when you are supposed to explore and find who you are, and not holding a grudge is healthy.
@@marius4iasi yes because having fun, explore and find yourself = cheating so is automatically forgiven? If you want to have fun with people do it when you're single buddy
@@mythica_ly not forgiven, but Jesus the social pressure is insane. Live your life, let others live theirs. Love is love, and all is fair, be young, it doesn't last.
So because he was in a bad mental state and took things out on her all the time as she said @3:15, she opted to stay for 3 years, and cheat on him rather than break up, and save herself all the pain and trauma? I dont understand why people do that to themselves.
Honestly, she definitely did make a mistake. But it can get overwhelming when you're with someone who has tons of unresolved issues and you have issues yourself. Overall they seem extremely toxic. Either resolve your issues before getting into a relationship, or just don't be in one. But don't cheat too. It just shows how you are as a person.🧍🏻♀️ And not everyone is capable of solving or helping with trauma. Some people are just way too caught up with themselves and want an easy way out, so they choose to cheat. Which is heights of toxicity...
agreed. i was with my partner 5 years, instead of cheating i told myself "im tired i tried and i give up" .. and i left 👍🏻. its not that hard to leave communication is KEY.
Worst part is she knows it will just take one text and he will come crawling back to her. The last segment where she said she basically keeps him around cuz he makes her feel better about herself says everything you need to know about what a selfish person she is. And honestly, while she is a shit human being, no one can help men like him unless they learn to value themselves and stop getting played second fiddle.
True I feel sorry the man but also my guy has to stop being her dog he should stop they're toxic relationship cut her out and move on he's accountable for this himself too he should know better so I also blame him But that girl is a bitch goddam she literally took his insides throw them out and left him hollow
He'll learn to value himself in the next century when we might be allowed to empower some of the weaker members of our gender without it reflecting as empowering the entire male species that it would seem like it will oppress women despite it not being the intent. It's your time for now ladies, just enjoy these types of men emerging. Slay girl! Take it back on the patriarchy, that guy is part of the problem 😎
Yep, I'd be very interested in seeing how both of their parents interact with each other. People are making him out to be a victim, which I guess he is, but he's also so pathetic for staying with her and then coming on this show and letting himself get humiliated like this.
I have to believe something happened to this guy growing up that was so painful and traumatizing that it destroyed his self-respect, resulting in his devotion to this narcissist.
She doesn't seem proud of it. Just not ashamed of it. Should she have walked naked though a public square while nuns chanted "shame", and the mob threw shit, for your satisfaction and emotional comfort?
@@bYrgerGIRLZ3 it’s this weird thing, isn’t it? Where people act like cheating’s okay because they’re too invested in the benefits of the relationship to break up with the other person.
The woman in the video wrote in about her side on an episode of the podcast Binchtopia (ep about gossip). Basically the guy was super abusive to her and she cheated on him. They both decided that what he did was worse than her infidelity. They both talked about his abusiveness in the original cut of the video, but the editors spun the narrative to make her seem like the bad guy. The reason they are friends now is because he went to therapy for years and was able to heal and talk to her about it. Yes they BOTH had faults but people are so quick to judge and hate on a woman from a 5 minute edited video.
@@tara9767 Oh it's fucked up that he's abusive according to her. But the way she's acting now doesn't look good at all. She went in the segment with the intent of humiliating him. You can't blame the viewers for judging her, she's having a pathetic display here. Was he physically abusive? Verbally abusive? The thing is he went to therapy, and now it seems like she needs one too. If we don't believe in rehabilitation or change, we might as well hang all prisoners and be done with those moochers. She's out for blood, and that's all we see.
@@tara9767 I don't believe it a lot of people will make up a lot of stuff to make themselves look innocent and he seems like the guy who would say anything just to still be friendly with her
That's me in the vid! Everyone, I'm gonna be straightforward here. This was an hour of footage cut down to 5 whole minutes. I'm seeing a lot of hate here and I just wanna remind everyone that mistakes you make in the past are things you can reflect and develop on. It's been years since we broke up and we've recently reconnected. While this vid portrays a villain and victim narrative, my part to play in this relationship was worse, if not equal to Sav's transgressions. Chill out please. Sav and I have a great friendship and have moved past our shit. She is not an evil medusa witch as there's no such thing. I only had the luck of being cast in a better light. Peace
Thanks for the honesty. I think the ppl that understand that relationships can be very complicated are watching but probably less likely to commeny. Why do you think out of all that footage they chose to go with this narrative?
@@AmritaSodaa You have no idea! The body language and demeanor of the abused is completely different than what is portrayed. This oerson should have LEFT him instead of sticking around like some leech for 3 years. Scumbag human being.
Truth or Drink is actually one of my favorite series (or whatever you call it). You guys should really do more of these! They're insanely fun to watch.
Maybe, just maybe....there is more to the story than we know from the 5 minute clip. I know, its crazy. Maybe he did something just as bad before she cheated. Who knows. He even said that he was more toxic than her in their relationship. And that since he didnt go to therapy, he took it out on her a lot. That could mean anything. Guess what, maybe there are two sides to the same story?
@@theonlythingihavetosayis9333 you've been going at everyone who doesn't like her for like 2 months now dude. You're all through the comments defending her. You're her huh?😏
Now this video will be use as future reference to make sure that no man wife her. The lack of shame, compassion and sensitivity is ridiculously frustrating.
Yea she's very toxic. She's the type that will be with you and put you down just to get off and lower your self esteem. And she's negatively competitive. Don't need anybody like her around.
Cheating in your 20's is not cheating. Cheating while not married is not cheating. People should fuck around while they're young. Once you get older,settled down, have kids,you don't give a fuck about being cheated on when you were 21,and only regret not having more fun yourself too.
based on an edited 5 minute video and without knowing any details of their relationship hardly? And I like how you just ignore the guy who said that he didnt go to therapy and took it out on her. That could literally mean anything without knowing more details. They are still good friends so its impossible to judge without know the context of everything that happened. Crazy thought but....maybe there is more to the story than we know from a 5 minute clip? I know, its crazy.
@@marius4iasi cheating is awful lol. Ill give her the benefit of the doubt on her reasons because we dont know the full story and he said that he was even more toxic than her but cheating just to "fool around" is a scumbag trait. If you are a cheater then your a fkn scumbag snake
@@theonlythingihavetosayis9333 that's just an fucking excuse She would've cheated on him even if he had gone to therapy Plus she gets an excuse for cheating and when he nearly cheated didn't cheat but nearly cheated his the bad guy 😂 If this was other way around then you'd be hating on that guy like crazy
The fact that she has no remorse or feelings about anything is sickening. I feel so bad for him bc he was actually in love with her & looks like he still is. She definitely ruined him.
The woman in the video wrote in about her side on an episode of the podcast Binchtopia (ep about gossip). Basically the guy was super abusive to her and she cheated on him. They both decided that what he did was worse than her infidelity. They both talked about his abusiveness in the original cut of the video, but the editors spun the narrative to make her seem like the bad guy. The reason they are friends now is because he went to therapy for years and was able to heal and talk to her about it. Yes they BOTH had faults but people are so quick to judge and hate on a woman from a 5 minute edited video.
@@tara9767 So him being allegedly super abusive absolves her of cheating?🤦.... That's an bloody excuse and nothing more than that. I could have understood her cheating during the end of relationship but she herself told that she also cheated by having a threesome at the beginning of the relationship too... what's the excuse for that?🤷
People will try to find any excuse to absolve the woman of any fault and it’s terrible to see. It doesn’t matter what he did in that relationship it doesn’t excuse her actions an how she was acting in the video. Cheating is wrong it’s a terrible thing to do it can cause so many issues for the other person also how she is so proud of it and how she Carries herself in the video is quite telling.
The woman in the video wrote in about her side on an episode of the podcast Binchtopia (ep about gossip). Basically the guy was super abusive to her and she cheated on him. They both decided that what he did was worse than her infidelity. They both talked about his abusiveness in the original cut of the video, but the editors spun the narrative to make her seem like the bad guy. The reason they are friends now is because he went to therapy for years and was able to heal and talk to her about it. Yes they BOTH had faults but people are so quick to judge and hate on a woman from a 5 minute edited video.
@@viwoski7454 this doesn’t change the fact that she definitely gives off narcissistic vibes within those 5 minutes lol it’s not hard to see. That’s the problem with y’all. People show you who they are early but you don’t wanna believe it, and that’s why you end up in bad relations with folks. You don’t know how to see the red flags..they’re always there
Based on what do you say she doesn't have friends? What did she says that's even remotely "pick me"? You can't just randomly throw around terms hoping they will stick...
You do realise a pick me acts the opposite. She clearly doesn't care to be picked or she wouldn't have said so proudly that she cheated lmao. A real pick me would never disclose that
I mean they both agreed that he was the "crazier" one in the relationship and that he didn't go to therapy and took it out on her so who knows what that means, she could have cheated because she was abused in one way or another or some shit like that. Plus he seems pretty chill with the situation so maybe he knows he did something worse than that. You can never know based on a 5 min video if she is 100% the bad guy in all of this. I think they both have their faults not just one of them.
This is what Ive been saying too. "Took it out on her" could mean literally anything. And on top of that, they are close friends. People are just so quick to judge based on their emotions. Its insane. Its impossible to judge without knowing both sides
i was looking for this comment! i was expecting to find something totally different in the comments, in fact i finished this video feeling positively about their current friendship... in fact what i thought was that he had probably done some fucked up shit not included in the video (since they both said he was more toxic), but that now they've managed to form an intimate friendship, and their banter's kind of brutal at times but all in all they seem to support each other...people are complicated, we all have our shit, and whatever he did and what she did are examples of not taking care of their shit....anywayyyy all this to say, harsh comment section on this one!!
This girl walked all over him then and is still doing it to this day. Her disregard for his feelings is astonishingly disgusting. What a despicable person.
Now that Mani has started therapy, he is much more of a pleasant person to watch than Sav 😂 But you can tell they were both toxic in the relationship, I hope their next ones are better
@@jermainelamarrcole2069 we know what bad things she did so its easy to judge but we have no clue what he did. And he seemed chill with her cheating and he even admitted to being crazier than her so thats weird in itself. Maybe he did something just as bad? its impossible to judge either of them however. I think they both have their faults but im happy they overcame it
@@theonlythingihavetosayis9333 She cheated twice. Once a cheater always a cheater. Her future partners need to know that if she isn't satisfied in the relationship then she will cheat instead of leaving. Why are you being weird and making it about him too?
So they’re clearly friends now and have both made mistakes.. this clearly isn’t the first time they’ve discussed the issues hence the “not making a big deal out of it.” They’re exes for a reason lol how are y’all surprised?
Most people in these comment threads have either never been in a relationship or are extremely socially unaware. Not only are they exes but they are close friends currently who had sex for years. They are obvioulsy going to be comfortable talking to each other because it seems they talked it out in the past
She will either stay single forever or end up with the worst person ever. She is self destructive but probably doesn’t know it. Probably bad upbringing or no good role models in her life.
They both clearly have growing to do but she seems proud of her cheating and that’s not great, to put it nicely. You can tell he’s still into her, he deserves better
I almost cried when he described the memory of the french lady. And then she ruined it by said "i don't remember that night" Gurl, you're a horrible person 🙂
I know right
Ouch!
Stabbed to the heart.
@gay hay can you share link ?
I can't find anywhere
@gay hay So basically 1 random TH-cam comment should make us believe that narrative over a full video where she literally admits to her fuckery? Get over yourself, there is never an excuse to cheat.
She's the kind of girl that walks into your life and leaves you worse off.
So true
I don't like judging based of appearances, but just looking at her and listening to her after 30 seconds, absolutely.
FAX
And smiles and laughs about it.
And she's 'so proud' of who she is.
She is so into herself, this is literally the situation of "its not you, its me" my boy deserved better
We all deserve better let’s go gym and take care of yourself don’t waste your time with any relationship.
Apparebtly he abused her though. Maybe she deserved better too?
@@theonlythingihavetosayis9333 aPpArAnTlY....you just pulled that out of your ass
@@theonlythingihavetosayis9333 Lol, so you believe in an 'apparent' story rather than what she said here ?! Yeah, great source material. Or you're giving her a pass just because she's a woman! Women tend to do that a lot you know.
@@theonlythingihavetosayis9333 Oh yes he abused her so much she stayed in the relationship, and had threesomes to boot when she cheated. Not only that she sounds like alcoholic saying she doesn't remember any of the good times they had, because she was drowning in cocks.
BTW from the title, he didn't bring her here, She brought HIM.
Think about it.
So she cheated on him TWICE with TWO people each time… and HE needs therapy? This girl is the worst!
Because women don't need to be held accountable in this generation. 4 any issues or mistakes they make they can just blame men. 🤪
That's how women are killing men indirectly by fucking with men's mind. Women will pay for their bs. Just like how innocent men are paying bs for the things a few bad men did.
Condensing and a narcissist
She is a lesbian in my book
They both do, he needs it for some damn self respect
The complete lack of shame from this woman is actually infuriating
Ong I’m not a violent person but omfg I feel like I wanna but shawty on behalf of him
she is a butch
Literally she's so proud of cheating
She literally seems proud. She’s disgusting
she belong to the streets
I feel so bad for him. He looks like a pretty sweet dude and you can tell he was very hurt and just not trying to show it. I would never allow myself to be friends with someone who cheated on me twice, blamed me for it, and to this day still says disrespectful sh*t in my face. Hope he realises he deserves better
He probably still has feelings 😭
Nah they're both tasty. Made for one another
@@geopoonaniluva4141 b btb we w be able to get out
you can see it in his face from 1:15-1:21
It was bad enough the way she so casually talked about her cheating, but after he told the Budapest story and she did everything she could to diminish it I was livid.
She‘s hella toxic. I feel like she‘s purposely trying to bring him down and make him feel bad about himself. Get over yourself sis.
And she not even that good looking 5/10
@@Mortalkombat275 took the words out of my mouth
@@cordeliacuthbert isn't it? Humans are so interesting!
@@Viiogna you sound like a anime antagonist homie, "Humans are such fragile beings" type quote 💀
@@cordeliacuthbert I trust my gut instinct and that girl is pure evil.
She literally gives zero F about that guy man.. thats so heartbreaking.. that poor guy has lost the confidence.. thanks to Miss Sav who is being absolutely shameless while saying that she cheated on him TWICE!!
you are nothing but a keyboard warrior, you can't judge people based on a 5 minute video clearly you are a child
Narcissistic vile creature isn't she
If you don’t feel the same way tell them. Don’t cheat to the person who actually care about you and trust you.
For real. Even production had to say something about her attitude towards it.
She's awful
idk what's worse
the lack of respect she has for him or the lack of respect he has for himself.
The lack of respect he has for himself
Obviously the lack of respect he has for himself.. she wouldn’t even be talking about/ to him like this if he actually carried himself as a self-respecting man
We accept the love we think we deserve
The fact that she called HIM out on not having gone to therapy... that's some projection right there
She cheated on him twice and tried to downplay it by saying it was at the beginning and end of their relationship. Then at 3:23 she even has the gall to say she's happy and proud of the person SHE'S become. Unbelievable. She reminds me of Jada Pinkett Smith: cheating on someone and then making it seem like a profound and spiritual journey of self-discovery.
I agree with you on the first half about the woman in this video, but you do know that Jada and Will are in an open relationship, and you do know that Will has slept with other women while him and Jada have been married ? They’ve both made mistakes.
lol @ cheating in open realtionship
@@kennedyvincent3217 Jada still disrespected Will while being in an “open relationship”
@@Skullfire56 how?
@@kennedyvincent3217 this has never been confirmed or evident at all
I can see why they split up. Hella toxic. Mad to see her blaming him for her cheating on him.
The girl needs more therapy than the guy smh
Blaming others rather than taking responsibility occurs commonly among cheaters
I agree that they are toxic, but they both mention that he had a lot of trauma that he was taking out on her throughout their three years. That could have easily formed a wedge in their relationship that caused her to seek love/affection/pleasure/acknowledgement/safety in the embrace of others. I would have liked to see her talk about such an action with more regret, but there is a lot of information missing here and the breadcrumbs of info we get throughout the video make me suspect that her cheating was a (harmful) response to deeper relationship issues.
@@MoonMoon.0 based on an edited 5 minute video and without knowing any details of their relationship hardly? And I like how you just ignore the guy who said that he didnt go to therapy and took it out on her. That could literally mean anything without knowing more details. They are still good friends so its impossible to judge without know the context of everything that happened
Like everyone who wman who cheats
Why would they hook up if they aren’t sexually compatible? He clearly still has feelings for her, but sounds like he finally did go to therapy and finally takes care of himself.
Bad sex is still sex. Still better than your hand.
Exactly and dating for 3 years. They did compatibility. Or someone was lying the whole time.
@@shamblinjosh526 that some can include fingers or oral only. Which I guess can be fine for someone for three years. My ex was just too large for pain free sex and for three years he only used his hands or mouth. Same with me to him. It was lack luster
I agree! I wouldn't be in a relationship with a woman if we don't value the same things sexually nor can enjoy sex the same.
@@hastyink
Damn that must've been a weird experience.
The fact she's so nonchalantly talking about how she cheated on him is the biggest red flag I've ever witnessed. Definitely a ONS type of girl.
on the real my guy, I don't even think she's worth the ONS either.
Sorry for my ignorance, but what does ONS mean?
@@leoncervantes4276 One Night Stand
How is no one talking about that beautiful story Mani told at 3:52 about the moment he felt most in love with Sav and then she says she doesn't remember it? It would be fine if Sav replaced it with a different memory she had of them but she doesn't even try, yet she has no problem going on about the fact she cheated on him twice. I know that making snap judgments on someone's character isn't right but Sav was just saying all the wrong things.
Same!!!
You nailed it. It’s all about her, and Sav isn’t even pretending that she is interested in hearing about it. She seems to be more excited about telling the stories of her cheating, and is almost proud of her toxicity. It’s so off putting.
Yeah her choice of words are pretty off putting. Instead of just saying "oh yeah I remember that" she says "I barely remember that" as if trying to diminish the memory.
no shit
She's not giving the best 1st impression here, she seems like a narcissistic, entitled annoyance.
Hopefully the comments section will give her a much needed reality check.
Fr
That's if she looks at it.
That seems a bit optimistic for her. She's happy with herself, she doesn't appear to have any remorse.
@@aland7236 yea that never ends up good
praying
It’s really easy to hate her
I don't hate her. They both admitted to being crazy & messy in their relationship. He said he was even moreso. She's just more blunt about it. This was a very short video to go on. We have no idea the extent of what they endured the 3 years they were together.
Why hate someone when you know barely anything about their story? Very weird. The guy agreed with her when she said that he didnt go to therapy and took it out on her. That could mean literally anything. We dont know any true details and they are still goood friends so it impossible to say that she is just wrong period
Well there’s nothing to love
@@ztarr why wouldn’t you not like cheaters??😂
@@johnred3366 I hate the act of cheating, but I can't hate someone as a whole, based on one short edited video.
It may be her defense mechanism for being brought in as the cheater, but she gives insane narcissist vibes.
Definitely, just a dark pit
then why would she even agree to do this 😭 she’s gonna come off bad no matter what she could’ve at least had some humility
I'm pretty sure she brought him. The title is called My Ex that I cheated on. So that would be from her perspective
@@ellacray6314 Some people just don't give a shit
@@ellacray6314 naricissits gotta narcissist
Like my father always said. “It could of been way worse, you could of had a kid with her and be married to her.”
I like your comment but *could've been *could've had
She’s the type of person who gets validation by humiliating others.
You deserve BETTER king!!
itink she was hurt by him for 3 years, he took alot of hate out on her,.
She is so ruthless, it's disgusting. He's pretty goodlooking and seems to be nice, so he will find someone worthy of his love.
@gay hay Lol. And you believe her story because she's a woman ? Pretty sure if a man said that you wouldn't even consider it. She's the kind of women that makes me disappointed in the air I breathe because it's the same as hers.
@gay hay why not just leave him? Why cheat but stay in the relationship. And don’t give me that bs that she was scared of him cuz then why did she and him “decide” that what he was doing was worse? That means she still kept in contact with him. This story got too many holes in it something’s not adding up
@@floatyseagull9472 ok even if shes lying saying why couldnt she just leave is stupid af. People in abusive relations often times have a hard time leaving due to fear, denial, feelings, money etc..it aint that easy dude
bruh......................... if a man did this yall would call him a misogynist
@@floatyseagull9472 Doubt shes scared of him. I mean, look at what she did in this video lmao
This guy must be having the best day of his life reading these comments, hundreds of people saying how toxic she is and how nice he comes across. If you're reading this bro, hi! Bullet dodged mate
They could be actors for all we know
the bullet wasn't really dodged though. He got shot twice and didn't notice till the shooter told him.
He said that he was just as toxic as her. Also they are still close friends so why would he be happy that she is getting hate?
Fairly certain he couldn't give a rats ass about random people having an opinion on their entire relationship based on a 5 minute cut up interview.
@@theonlythingihavetosayis9333 defending her in all the comments you’re weird
She’s giving me intense narcissist vibes.
@gay hay I mean to be fair we wouldn’t have this knee jerk reaction if she didn’t have this nonchalant attitude about cheating or their relationship in general
@gay hay no excuse for cheating. She should’ve left and got with someone else.
@gay hay i still don't feel bad for her and everyone's reactions are valid. She chose to stay in that relationship and then decided to cheat which in turn made things even worse.
@gay hay bro she cheated in the beggining of the relationship aswell, so this whole logic just goes down the drain.
Not a vibe that's just who she is lol
This woman is the reason good people get bad. Being in a relationship with this kind of person is the worst thing you can do to yourself and it leaves you completely broken, it changes you.
I hope she doesn’t get the chance to ruin one more person and she either stays single forever or find someone worse than her. Damn.
the only time she gets close to him and leans in is when she's talking about the times she cheated, their body language during this whole episode is so telling
She’s probably the worst person I’ve ever seen, literally everything about her was infuriating
It's disturbing how proud of her own shittyness she is.
Wtf?
All this shows is how little life experience you have if this is the worst person you've ever seen.
@@Aenhoa what do you mean "wtf"? Did you not watch the video? She's hella toxic.
@@shoelacedonkey I think he meant in these type of videos
They should do a video of two former high school best friends who no longer talk
Omg, this would be amazing. I would totally apply bahaha
THIS. Or just old/once best friends who don't talk anymore or are no longer best friends. Sometimes people naturally drift apart but sometimes friendships are cruelly broken. I'd like to see that
Hah id love to apply to this one
They have, but it'd be nice for them to do more of these: th-cam.com/video/Dt56t9DxiVU/w-d-xo.html
th-cam.com/video/jlZPSNdYusI/w-d-xo.html
I could be in that vid
how's she so cool about cheating twice? 🤷♂️🤷♂️ i feel bad for that guy!! I actually thought he was the one who cheated before..
Well she just takes the whole “I’m a piece of shit” to a completely new level
Can’t put all the blame on the demon lady. This guy has to be accountable for letting this disrespect get this far.
Facts
Too true, he needs some self respect and let go
Sure, but that doesn't make her less of a bad person.
The woman in the video wrote in about her side on an episode of the podcast Binchtopia (ep about gossip). Basically the guy was super abusive to her and she cheated on him. They both decided that what he did was worse than her infidelity. They both talked about his abusiveness in the original cut of the video, but the editors spun the narrative to make her seem like the bad guy. The reason they are friends now is because he went to therapy for years and was able to heal and talk to her about it. Yes they BOTH had faults but people are so quick to judge and hate on a woman from a 5 minute edited video. (THIS IS COPY AND PASTED FROM SOMEONE IN THE COMMENTS NAMED TARA)
@@yasso2031 right, how do we know that he actually abused her? Why didn't she out him in the video? Just seems like damage control for a hoowa. There's never a reason to cheat on someone. If she felt like she was being abused then she could've just left him
The girl was so nonchalant talking about herself cheating 😅😭
They got past it, some people use humour when this happens to talk about things from the past
Maybe there is more to the story than we know from an edited 5 minute video? A crazy thought, I know
@@Whirlbee i wouldnt just assume they got past it… it could be that he’s passive because of her controlling demeanor, and i by that i mean the way she tries to pin it on him being his fault. He probably feels small, kind of why he doesn’t even bother saying anything back.
@@violet9777 apparently I heard that he was very abusive to her so she cheated on him. And that they both agreed that what he did was worse.
Girls don’t cheat for no reason he obviously wasn’t doing something right😭
I know they are in good terms now, but how can he be so chill with her and how can she talk about what she did as if it wasn't even that bad lol
I know, it's almost like they act like adults instead of emotional teenagers. Go figure.
@@marius4iasi Imagine being this ok getting cheated on and act as if it was nothing. Feel bad for the guy and I'm sure he won't be the first one to get cheated on by her ;)
@@mythica_ly at some point in your life past relationships mean nothing, even though they seemed the whole world to you at that time. Yeah, being ok with people who cheated on you in your fucking 20's, when you are supposed to explore and find who you are, and not holding a grudge is healthy.
@@marius4iasi yes because having fun, explore and find yourself = cheating so is automatically forgiven? If you want to have fun with people do it when you're single buddy
@@mythica_ly not forgiven, but Jesus the social pressure is insane. Live your life, let others live theirs. Love is love, and all is fair, be young, it doesn't last.
So because he was in a bad mental state and took things out on her all the time as she said @3:15, she opted to stay for 3 years, and cheat on him rather than break up, and save herself all the pain and trauma?
I dont understand why people do that to themselves.
It's not AlwYs that simple
@@ff2154 yes it really is if your a considerate person 😬
@@ff2154 Yeah, of course...
Honestly, she definitely did make a mistake. But it can get overwhelming when you're with someone who has tons of unresolved issues and you have issues yourself. Overall they seem extremely toxic. Either resolve your issues before getting into a relationship, or just don't be in one. But don't cheat too. It just shows how you are as a person.🧍🏻♀️
And not everyone is capable of solving or helping with trauma. Some people are just way too caught up with themselves and want an easy way out, so they choose to cheat. Which is heights of toxicity...
agreed. i was with my partner 5 years, instead of cheating i told myself "im tired i tried and i give up" .. and i left 👍🏻. its not that hard to leave communication is KEY.
Worst part is she knows it will just take one text and he will come crawling back to her. The last segment where she said she basically keeps him around cuz he makes her feel better about herself says everything you need to know about what a selfish person she is. And honestly, while she is a shit human being, no one can help men like him unless they learn to value themselves and stop getting played second fiddle.
True I feel sorry the man but also my guy has to stop being her dog he should stop they're toxic relationship cut her out and move on he's accountable for this himself too he should know better so I also blame him
But that girl is a bitch goddam she literally took his insides throw them out and left him hollow
He'll learn to value himself in the next century when we might be allowed to empower some of the weaker members of our gender without it reflecting as empowering the entire male species that it would seem like it will oppress women despite it not being the intent. It's your time for now ladies, just enjoy these types of men emerging. Slay girl! Take it back on the patriarchy, that guy is part of the problem 😎
Yep, I'd be very interested in seeing how both of their parents interact with each other. People are making him out to be a victim, which I guess he is, but he's also so pathetic for staying with her and then coming on this show and letting himself get humiliated like this.
I have to believe something happened to this guy growing up that was so painful and traumatizing that it destroyed his self-respect, resulting in his devotion to this narcissist.
Yep and she also keeps him around because it keeps him from moving on
She is so proud of her deeds. I hope she gets that exact same energy back with her future partners.
I really don’t like her. She’s like proud of cheating lol
She doesn't seem proud of it. Just not ashamed of it. Should she have walked naked though a public square while nuns chanted "shame", and the mob threw shit, for your satisfaction and emotional comfort?
@@marius4iasi yes
He wasn’t doing it right
@@kitsunescvult7238 doesn’t make it okay to cheat. she literally could’ve broken up with him if she wasn’t satisfied
@@bYrgerGIRLZ3 it’s this weird thing, isn’t it? Where people act like cheating’s okay because they’re too invested in the benefits of the relationship to break up with the other person.
Girl is one of the biggest red flag I'v seen in recent memory, I mean they both are but she's something else.
The woman in the video wrote in about her side on an episode of the podcast Binchtopia (ep about gossip). Basically the guy was super abusive to her and she cheated on him. They both decided that what he did was worse than her infidelity. They both talked about his abusiveness in the original cut of the video, but the editors spun the narrative to make her seem like the bad guy. The reason they are friends now is because he went to therapy for years and was able to heal and talk to her about it. Yes they BOTH had faults but people are so quick to judge and hate on a woman from a 5 minute edited video.
@@tara9767 Oh it's fucked up that he's abusive according to her. But the way she's acting now doesn't look good at all. She went in the segment with the intent of humiliating him. You can't blame the viewers for judging her, she's having a pathetic display here. Was he physically abusive? Verbally abusive?
The thing is he went to therapy, and now it seems like she needs one too. If we don't believe in rehabilitation or change, we might as well hang all prisoners and be done with those moochers. She's out for blood, and that's all we see.
@@tara9767 nobody cares she deserved it lmao
@@tara9767 I don't believe it a lot of people will make up a lot of stuff to make themselves look innocent and he seems like the guy who would say anything just to still be friendly with her
this is why in islam girls get stoned to death lol
"I've had worse" damn I feel bad for him.
That's me in the vid!
Everyone, I'm gonna be straightforward here.
This was an hour of footage cut down to 5 whole minutes. I'm seeing a lot of hate here and I just wanna remind everyone that mistakes you make in the past are things you can reflect and develop on. It's been years since we broke up and we've recently reconnected.
While this vid portrays a villain and victim narrative, my part to play in this relationship was worse, if not equal to Sav's transgressions.
Chill out please. Sav and I have a great friendship and have moved past our shit. She is not an evil medusa witch as there's no such thing. I only had the luck of being cast in a better light.
Peace
Thanks for the honesty. I think the ppl that understand that relationships can be very complicated are watching but probably less likely to commeny.
Why do you think out of all that footage they chose to go with this narrative?
You’re the goat
Don't worry. Nobody actually cares.
You dont have to lie for her 🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Lmao she’s actually the devil bro but okay
How does anybody stay friends with an ex that cheated on you multiple times and then calls you the problem?
Really happy they’re exes 💀 i really feel for him and hope he’ll find someone who actually loves him…
She pissed me off so much it’s not even funny bruh.
He abused her.
@@AmritaSodaa You have no idea! The body language and demeanor of the abused is completely different than what is portrayed. This oerson should have LEFT him instead of sticking around like some leech for 3 years. Scumbag human being.
@@AmritaSodaa she looks like she is an abuser herself.
this is why in islam girls get stoned to death lol
Truth or Drink is actually one of my favorite series (or whatever you call it). You guys should really do more of these! They're insanely fun to watch.
I think there's like 60+ vids bro but I could be wrong
The irony of the person cheating telling someone else to get therapy 😂
Facts
Maybe, just maybe....there is more to the story than we know from the 5 minute clip. I know, its crazy. Maybe he did something just as bad before she cheated. Who knows. He even said that he was more toxic than her in their relationship. And that since he didnt go to therapy, he took it out on her a lot. That could mean anything. Guess what, maybe there are two sides to the same story?
@@theonlythingihavetosayis9333 you've been going at everyone who doesn't like her for like 2 months now dude. You're all through the comments defending her. You're her huh?😏
@@dothebestyoucan6729 She's the type of woman who thinks men always have to take some part of the blame no matter what.
Now this video will be use as future reference to make sure that no man wife her. The lack of shame, compassion and sensitivity is ridiculously frustrating.
I saw this on Facebook, this girl is straight up FOR THE STREETS
It breaks my heart when the girl says 'i don't remember that night'.... Guy you gotta move on. She is toxic
Yea she's very toxic. She's the type that will be with you and put you down just to get off and lower your self esteem. And she's negatively competitive. Don't need anybody like her around.
Girl you are not all that. Hope that the comments gave her a reality check.
Seriouslyyy
The smile fading from his face at 1:17 is so heartbreaking
She hasn’t been happy and she’s showing it
i think he really hurt her for 3 years and she is bitter lol.
Im not two minutes in and this man is already getting roasted
That poor dude.
Keep your head up, man age like wine.
I mean at least if you are a cheater you should have some shame or some regret, she literally doesn't care and almost feels proud of it
Cheating in your 20's is not cheating. Cheating while not married is not cheating. People should fuck around while they're young. Once you get older,settled down, have kids,you don't give a fuck about being cheated on when you were 21,and only regret not having more fun yourself too.
@@marius4iasi "Cheating in your 20's is not cheating" I can't think of a more inane statement than that.
based on an edited 5 minute video and without knowing any details of their relationship hardly? And I like how you just ignore the guy who said that he didnt go to therapy and took it out on her. That could literally mean anything without knowing more details. They are still good friends so its impossible to judge without know the context of everything that happened. Crazy thought but....maybe there is more to the story than we know from a 5 minute clip? I know, its crazy.
@@marius4iasi cheating is awful lol. Ill give her the benefit of the doubt on her reasons because we dont know the full story and he said that he was even more toxic than her but cheating just to "fool around" is a scumbag trait. If you are a cheater then your a fkn scumbag snake
@@theonlythingihavetosayis9333 that's just an fucking excuse
She would've cheated on him even if he had gone to therapy
Plus she gets an excuse for cheating and when he nearly cheated didn't cheat but nearly cheated his the bad guy 😂
If this was other way around then you'd be hating on that guy like crazy
Maybe this was a 4D chess move by the dude to bring her on the show so she can be publicly shamed and made fun of
Nah look at that simp, the way she looks at her, disgusting. No self worth at all
im glad she is being publicly shamed, how disgusting of a person she is.
The fact that she has no remorse or feelings about anything is sickening. I feel so bad for him bc he was actually in love with her & looks like he still is. She definitely ruined him.
I would have never been a part of any show which wants me to interact and talk to my ex. How can they both be so cool?
It's probably been a long while in between and they both got past things?
I know, right? Acting like grown-ups, what gives?
Becsuse they sre still close friends
He still loves her, she's a psychopath.
@@theonlythingihavetosayis9333 how can he be close with her after she hurt him? that man is lacking self respect lol
Wow that girl is so toxic. She should "treat" herself NOW!
China no. 1
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I like how the guy is so chill with the girl even when she talks about her cheating on him. I kinda feel bad for him, to be honest.
The woman in the video wrote in about her side on an episode of the podcast Binchtopia (ep about gossip). Basically the guy was super abusive to her and she cheated on him. They both decided that what he did was worse than her infidelity. They both talked about his abusiveness in the original cut of the video, but the editors spun the narrative to make her seem like the bad guy. The reason they are friends now is because he went to therapy for years and was able to heal and talk to her about it. Yes they BOTH had faults but people are so quick to judge and hate on a woman from a 5 minute edited video.
@@tara9767 send the link
@@tara9767 So him being allegedly super abusive absolves her of cheating?🤦.... That's an bloody excuse and nothing more than that.
I could have understood her cheating during the end of relationship but she herself told that she also cheated by having a threesome at the beginning of the relationship too... what's the excuse for that?🤷
People will try to find any excuse to absolve the woman of any fault and it’s terrible to see. It doesn’t matter what he did in that relationship it doesn’t excuse her actions an how she was acting in the video. Cheating is wrong it’s a terrible thing to do it can cause so many issues for the other person also how she is so proud of it and how she Carries herself in the video is quite telling.
@@tara9767 Sounds like a fuckin' lie to me.
When a narcissist meets a simp.
She's being so disrespectful to him without any shame, wow. Glad he got out of that relationship, he deserves so much better.
Yeah but to stay friends; I mean, what the hell, man?
She’s a horrible person. She was doing and saying everything to try and bring him down
Poor guy - he seems so genuine and kind. Wishing him all the best in life!!
1:17 The change in his face when he realized she was going for the bottle......
I think it was the way she was laughing
The cheating responses were terrible but her laugh that followed the “did I fulfil you sexually” question would have had me in tears 😭
The woman in the video wrote in about her side on an episode of the podcast Binchtopia (ep about gossip). Basically the guy was super abusive to her and she cheated on him. They both decided that what he did was worse than her infidelity. They both talked about his abusiveness in the original cut of the video, but the editors spun the narrative to make her seem like the bad guy. The reason they are friends now is because he went to therapy for years and was able to heal and talk to her about it. Yes they BOTH had faults but people are so quick to judge and hate on a woman from a 5 minute edited video.
i knew there was more to the story u can clearly tell they have lots of history. ppl are sayings she’s a narcissist from a literal 5 min video😭😭
Link to episode of Podcast?
@@viwoski7454 she is
@@viwoski7454 this doesn’t change the fact that she definitely gives off narcissistic vibes within those 5 minutes lol it’s not hard to see. That’s the problem with y’all. People show you who they are early but you don’t wanna believe it, and that’s why you end up in bad relations with folks. You don’t know how to see the red flags..they’re always there
@@viwoski7454 I listened to her message on the podcast she’s still a narcissist😂
How are people not ashamed of being cheaters. I don’t get it
A narcissist ashamed?
@@cryptowest6555 good point lol
She’s quite volatile.
He dodged a BULLET.
This guy seriously needs to get some self-respect, I don’t even know why he wanted to do this shit
I feel horrible that this man even came across this woman. She is so rude & demeaning.
She’s such a “pick me”, toxic person that thinks it’s cool but it’s probably why she has no friends
Based on what do you say she doesn't have friends? What did she says that's even remotely "pick me"? You can't just randomly throw around terms hoping they will stick...
That's not a pick me jeez.
So you personally know her enough to think this?
You do realise a pick me acts the opposite. She clearly doesn't care to be picked or she wouldn't have said so proudly that she cheated lmao. A real pick me would never disclose that
@@VolumePerfection Do you know their relationship? You act like you do
She is literally pure evil. I feel so sorry for that man
Exactly. Her existence only harms society, she’s that bad. Nothing good comes from her existence
I mean they both agreed that he was the "crazier" one in the relationship and that he didn't go to therapy and took it out on her so who knows what that means, she could have cheated because she was abused in one way or another or some shit like that. Plus he seems pretty chill with the situation so maybe he knows he did something worse than that. You can never know based on a 5 min video if she is 100% the bad guy in all of this. I think they both have their faults not just one of them.
This is what Ive been saying too. "Took it out on her" could mean literally anything. And on top of that, they are close friends. People are just so quick to judge based on their emotions. Its insane. Its impossible to judge without knowing both sides
Nah, it's easier to project my insecurities and fears on this woman without knowing anything really about her or this relationship.
But cheating is never the answer lol. Just break up .
@@marius4iasi lmao 🤣
i was looking for this comment!
i was expecting to find something totally different in the comments, in fact i finished this video feeling positively about their current friendship... in fact what i thought was that he had probably done some fucked up shit not included in the video (since they both said he was more toxic), but that now they've managed to form an intimate friendship, and their banter's kind of brutal at times but all in all they seem to support each other...people are complicated, we all have our shit, and whatever he did and what she did are examples of not taking care of their shit....anywayyyy all this to say, harsh comment section on this one!!
As soon as she mentioned that she cheated on him I couldn’t stop but HAD TO come to the comments and I was not disappointed
Date people who like you, not just people you like. She obviously does not care about him in the slightest.
Who else after abba and preach
Me
This girl walked all over him then and is still doing it to this day. Her disregard for his feelings is astonishingly disgusting. What a despicable person.
This made me want to commit a hate crime.
Absolutely unacceptable. This guy is a bottom feeder and she is a red light district discount 304.
Holy based
She MURDERED him, the poor guy. We all just witnessed a murder on camera.
She belongs TO THA STREETS!
Both are walking red flags
She's the reason people like Andrew Tate exist.
There is no reason why people like Andrew Tate exist except someone was pregnant and kept the baby.
@@abbyreign9499 ok
Andrew rate isn’t no better.
Now that Mani has started therapy, he is much more of a pleasant person to watch than Sav 😂
But you can tell they were both toxic in the relationship, I hope their next ones are better
I hope her future partners see this video.
@@growupjeff3287 why? They said they were both toxic. She described her faults and we dont know the guy's so why hate on her
@@theonlythingihavetosayis9333 She cheated twice☠️☠️
@@jermainelamarrcole2069 we know what bad things she did so its easy to judge but we have no clue what he did. And he seemed chill with her cheating and he even admitted to being crazier than her so thats weird in itself. Maybe he did something just as bad? its impossible to judge either of them however. I think they both have their faults but im happy they overcame it
@@theonlythingihavetosayis9333 She cheated twice. Once a cheater always a cheater. Her future partners need to know that if she isn't satisfied in the relationship then she will cheat instead of leaving. Why are you being weird and making it about him too?
man, i'm so happy for him that they're exes
"i barely remember that night" 😂 4:23
Hopefully she reads these comments and does the world a favor by being nonexistent.
I thought I was gonna hate this guy after the first few questions. Really turned it around. That story about the photo was great
So they’re clearly friends now and have both made mistakes.. this clearly isn’t the first time they’ve discussed the issues hence the “not making a big deal out of it.” They’re exes for a reason lol how are y’all surprised?
Most people in these comment threads have either never been in a relationship or are extremely socially unaware. Not only are they exes but they are close friends currently who had sex for years. They are obvioulsy going to be comfortable talking to each other because it seems they talked it out in the past
this is why in islam girls get stoned to death lol
Shes the type of person who goes to therapy and gets told to be more selfish sometimes
She will either stay single forever or end up with the worst person ever. She is self destructive but probably doesn’t know it. Probably bad upbringing or no good role models in her life.
y’all needa to make these a tv show
she’s probably the one would need therapy …
Bro still simping hard after all that, dude stop get therapy stop simping. She over you my guy
Man called out her snaggle tooth, but his teeth aren't even acquaintances
This video really brought out all the arm chair psychologists 🤔
On the surface... she... kinda sucks lol
I'm glad I got married to my high-school sweetheart. The dating scene looks really depressing.
man youre really lucky
This is going to be heartbreaking, funny, & a bit petty.
Not at all
They both clearly have growing to do but she seems proud of her cheating and that’s not great, to put it nicely. You can tell he’s still into her, he deserves better
She’s the type of girl to call herself a “queen” with nothing to offer but pain.