The Male Perspective of Female Menopause - 65
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 28 ส.ค. 2017
- Have you ever wondered what your menopause looks like to your man? Remember, he can’t feel what you’re feeling. All he can do is try to make sense of what he observes. And when you add that to the different way his brain interprets things, the result can be a big messy relationship! Watch this video with your man to make things easier for both of you ... and sign up for the Menopause 101 for Men DVD giveaway.
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This was light hearted, and funny, yet full of truth! My husband of 44 years ( we married young-19) could write his own hand out pamphlet..."How I successfully survived the menopause years." Lol. I've often told him, "Please, don't speak, I'm on fire here, just give me five minutes please!" Lol. He's been loving and kind for the most part, I'm very grateful. I love you Dr. Barbie!
You tell your husband that he's a very fortunate man to have you loving him. True appreciation for the really dedicated people in your life is all too uncommon. I love you, too, Cindy.
Menopause Taylor wow, don't tell him your lucky. Unbelievable.
I adore your honesty. Just to know you exist makes me feel better
Wow. I am so glad my husband knows about menopause and is very understanding and helpful
I just love your videos so much!! I came across them at the perfect time. I was all you said in nr 62 and 63. So last week i was finally able to choose a management option thanks to your good teaching skills. I am now on Premarin 0.625mg for 4 days and i am so grateful. I lost myself exactly as you describe in this video. Only i used Alzam and not wine. Since starting to follow you, I was able to totally ditch the Alzam. Now after 4 days on Premarin i found my happy again!! Thank you from the both of us xxx
This just makes my day! Thank you so much for sharing your joy and educational success.
Simply marvellous, Dr Barbie. That's what you are!
Ahh, that's so nice. I think you're simply marvelous, too!
This podcast is hilarious, Dr. Barbie! You are simply the best!
I love it when you can laugh and learn at the same time.
Thank you for this!!
You are absolutely welcome!
I just sent my husband this video we're doing ok enjoying our time together he's standing here now with his phone charging and I can't stop laughing wondering how he will react to your lovely prop then he says 'I love your laugh making the situation that much funnier my eyes are watering now thanks for being so funny
I hope your hubby gets a laugh out of it.
Dr Barbieeeeeeeeeeeee.........how many times did you hold that thing up??? LOL
That's the great thing; I didn't have to "hold it up." It was inflatable. (Smile)
haha... So much truth! I really enjoy your videos... :)
“Make the rest of your life the best of your life”
I am just so glad to know that these videos are helping you. You'll hear me say the line about making the rest of your life the best of your life a lot.
WHAT a BEDROOM! What a regal Queen (the regent) of loving life while teaching and bringing us with her! Whee!
You are right Doctor Barby, my husband did not understand anything but I didn't either and the 30 or more doctors I visited. Sadly none of us knew what was going on, and everyone told me it was in my head 🙁. Until one day he did left me alone. Too much misinformation and frustration . Thank you for explaining it all as it is. Hopefully this will be seen as a starting point to change lifes and save marriages in the future.
Exactly. I cannot tell you how many marriages break up because of menopause. And usually neither partner knows what's going on and why.
@@MenopauseTaylor Dr. Barby you are a real blessing to lots and lots of people. That is why so many people say they love you and I do too. I wish more doctors were so dedicated to share what they know to change this world . Thank you so much 😇😍
@@lourdescuque4099 You are so welcome, my dear Lourdes. I just love giving you the menopause education you deserve.
Hi Dr. Barbie, You are so funny.... we have to laugh at menopause or I think we would cry. Lol.... your bed looks lovely. Have a great Wednesday!!!! 💕
Thank you, Debbie. I have such fun thinking of ways to help you learn and laugh at the same time.
Is it Wednesday? I'm in Houston, where we're all still just stuck in all the muck from Hurricane Harvey. We still can't go out anywhere. There are so many rivers of flood water, that it's impossible to get anywhere. There are rivers of tears, too.
Awww, I'm so sorry..... I did not know you were in Houston now. I have been praying for all the flood victims. Will keep you and your husband in my prayers. I feel so bad for all of you. Hang in there..... 🙏
I'm so sorry.
You're a real dear. I'm a real survivor.
Wow! I feel like I have started this entire menopause process all over again as I am dealing with a vaginal vault prolapse.
This was great! I will be definately have him watch this although he knows a lot about menopause but not sure he truly knows that I feel almost as crazy as when I went I into surgical menopause after my hysterectomy in 2015. Lol.
It always helps when your spouse knows what's going on. I try to address everything menopausal women encounter.
Gorgeous outfit! You look beautiful as usual! My hubby is not average for sure and I would leave a husband for sure if he was selfish like that with me.
I am married to the best man in the world and have been for 25 years. I cant even imagine! He is the exact opposite o the men you described and watches all of these videos with me.
But you are pretty funny with the blow up doll.
Though I am not a doctor I fully agree with you about neurotic women and fertility. With my fibroids I was 45 years old and it happened top be a fertility wing of a hospital and they asked me how old I was and how long I was trying to get pregnant when I told them I was not. They said what a relief a normal woman who is not insane over infertility!
I have a crazy neighbor who drove away 2 husbands by age 30 with her baby obsession then she finally had one and he left she just drove him nuts.
My hubby is watching the videos with me so he doesn't need to watch the one for men.
Like you, I never wanted to get pregnant. But society has a very hard time accepting that. If you're not infertile or incapable of pregnancy, people think something's wrong with you if you don't want children. Face it: Nothing is for everyone: Not marriage, not kids, nada.
awesome - thank you!!! Xx just love the way you describe real life stuff - keep doing it please!
I will. I have a bunch of videos on these practical social issues. You're going to love what's coming. I'll never stop this.
Haha Doc Barbie, I guess your little man was happy to see you.
Ha! I would like to thin so. But, I know it's just inflated thinking to assume so.
OMG lol poor guys too! This sounded like my kids' favorite book when they were little, "If You Give A Moose A Muffin" 😅.
You make me laugh, my dear.
Naturally I showed Dan this video and he was cracking up! He loves your videos to!
Good for Dan! I love that man. If only other men would follow his lead.
Menopause Taylor It's like always...it takes one person to start the trend. Maybe once he gets more involved, he will show other men that it's SUPER COOL to be educated about your wife's Menopause and be the hero who holds her when she's cranky and getting hot sweats etc. Dan was so compassionate while I was going thru those rough patches.
Dan's definitely the man for the job of starting a "Men in Support of Menopause" movement. Just think about how much more sex men would get if they "got it!"
Menopause Taylor Exactly!
Hopefully he got a reward. He earned it.
I really need to show my husband this because I've been soooo cranky lately!
You'll be surprised how much better your life is (and his) when you know what's going on. It can really save your marriage.
Just orally relay the info.
Barbie, this was really funny video LOL :)
I'm so glad you enjoyed it.
Thank you!! Another good one. Love your humour 😆😆
I love entertaining and educating you. It's fun for me and good for you.
This is exactly why it's named men (oh, please) pause.
That's funny.
hahahahahaha - that DOLL! lol On a more serious note ... my hubby had no idea I was going through it until I told him the other day what I'd been dealing with for more than a year. I think because it hasn't caused any sort of crazy mood issues that can happen with some women. I've stayed pretty much the same - even keel - in that regard. I feel very fortunate. The hot flashes and sweats are pretty annoying though. 🤪
Well, now you and your hubby both know what's going on, whatever may come your way.
@@MenopauseTaylor Did you ever see that All in the Family episode about when Edith was going through "the change?" Soooo funny!
@@CynsCorner I've never watched much television. But I know that menopause tends to be a topic of comedy on TV.
So funny and so true!!!
Yep, you'll see that t's good to know the facts, but be able to chuck at them.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAH! OMG! I SEE HIS PICKLE!! You are the best!
"Pickle!" I've never heard that one as a name for a ding-a-ling. I love it!
Your so right MB!🤣
I try my best to be as accurate as possible. I'm grateful that you appreciate that.
Omg! Me me me I live in a world of 6 men and im the only CRAZY Woman. Well almost the oldest is now engaged and she is lovely;) Anyway I would LOVE to have information geared for all the men in my life ;) Your the best ;) that doll was a huge laugh;)
Daisy,
I can assure you that my Menopause 101for Men DVD will really make YOUR life so much better. Men have no idea what's going on. Think about it: Most women have no idea what's going on when it come to their own menopause! Knowledge makes everything so much better. Good luck with the giveaway.
Thanks Doc. It's good to get a fresh perspective every now and then. My husband says thanks too.
You're so welcome, Donna. You know, when men find out that I have a DVD for them, every single one of them gives me a blank look and says (and I quote), "I need that!" They're desperate to know what in the world this menopause stuff is all about. But think about it: They can't ask their wives OR their buddies. They're really perplexed.
I am smiling!i can relate to this totally.it is so important to explain things out.men are for sure wired differently.
We’ve watched a few tutorials together , Getting enlightened and he still wants a lot of sex 😂 I’m lightening up lol . Thanks Barbie that’s a funny prop 💪🏻
You make me laugh. Good for you for getting your man to watch. It will improve quality of life for both of you.
Menopause Taylor without taking to much of your time .How in the world do you get a doctor to do what you feel works for you without listening to all the misconceptions and refusing to help . Me and my friend adore you !!!
@@donnaberry7194 Donna,
Schedule a consultation with me at MenopauseTaylor.ME first, and I'll school you in precisely what to say to your doctor in your 10-minute appointment. Doctors do not have the time to address any of this. It's inexcusable, but it's reality. I wills invest the time with you and create a very long document for you so that your time with your doctor is extremely efficient.
And I adore you, too! that's why I care so much about your menopause education.
Really good examples on how men think...lol
I call it, "Getting out of your own head." Being able to view things from someone else's perspective always makes things better for both of you.
I have a DVD entitled "Menopause 101 for Men" at my website. It's a fantastic thing to get your man in order to let ME tell him what's going on with you. I relate it to the things he cares about most (sex & his sex life). And it's funny.
This sounds like the perfect scenario for 1950, maybe. I hope most men can iron their own shirts, cook their own dinners, and grocery shop, and that most women are not home sitting on the sofa drinking wine.
Well, I'm some areas of life, we really haven't advanced much. And menopause is definitely one of them!
I agree Stay Stitching! There are men who are empathic & not simple minded. Thank God some men have progressed beyond this generalised stereotype. I think it's rather culturally biased. I'd be interested in knowing who and where the writer of those books comes from? What I like about MB is that she presents specific details about her speciality but this one is like an article from a different era. By the end of it the wrinkles on my face were because I was mystified by the idea that men are simple minded animals? I mean really? If I take this video as a pure joke then maybe I can re-watch it & laugh...
Where in the world did you find that "blow-up man" LOL ???😂😂 I have told my hubby that I just need for him to listen and shut-up....I don't need solutions from him, but men like to "fix" things..... even their women 😉
This is very true!
Believe it or not, I found the blow-up man at a sex shop! I find props in all sorts of odd places.
Yes!
Double yes!
Yes, sign me up for the video please. I thought the blow up was hilarious! It will certainly help me remember this video.
Alice, did you register for the giveaway in the link or on my website? If not, you can buy the video on my website (MenopauseTaylor.ME). It's really great for guys.
I would love to have a copy of the dvd for my husband. He is at least willing to listen even if he doesn't get it.
Go to MenopauseTaylor.ME. There, you'll find my "store," with the DVD, a DVD of my menopause seminar, my book, and all sorts of other educational resources. There are articles on menopause that I've written, too.
YOU can't be the messenger on tis stuff. It has to be someone other than you. Marriage is like that. Partners sometimes won' listen to each other.
Thank God he can't voice his opinion! Go women's brain!
You'd love that book.Our brains really are much more complex.
Menopause Taylor, wow. Your right. Thanks for all the innovation. Maybe do a video on Nikki Tesla, Irene Newton, Wilma Mozart, the Wright sisters, and Henrietta Ford. Oh, wait, women were so oppressed they could do nothing but clean the kitchen, and got beat for reading. What a load of crap.
SPOT ON!
Knowing how men think is beneficial, isn't it!
That and how communication is key to help them know what’s going on.
Exactly!
I have appreciated everything i've learned on your channel. Yet the condescension toward men is too much. I can't put a video like this in front of my husband and expect him to be receptive. I don't know what kind of men these are. It's not mine. Can you please address the men with more respect and more so as the men we want them to be. I believe they would be more receptive if treated with respect and and Inspiration.
The last chapter of my book is for the guys. One of my webinars is Menopause 101 for Men. I'm sorry I've offended you. That was not my intention.
He needs to laugh more he has the most beautiful laaugh I ever heard he's learning to enjoy and tolerate life without substances he's 57 and it's time to grow up thank you
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Too bad men and women don't understand how very differently our brains work, so we could weather hormonal crisis' caused by pms, pregnancy and especially perimenopause better! I was clueless about my impending "storm of the century" when my peri kicked in Of course my husband was even more so.I wish meno wasn't almost exclusively considered to be a "female issue" as much as a family oriented issue, since a woman's family, job, and social life can be so devastated by it. I love your videos and book and wish I had them long ago. Thank you for demystifying and taking some fear out of menopause!
You are so welcome!
I think menopause is a societal issue that affects every human on earth We are the fastest-growing sector of society worldwide. There isn't a single person who doesn't have a menopausal woman in his or her life. That's why I make videos on everything: Kids, work, aging parents, etc. Menopause affects every aspect of your life.
Give me time. I plan to revolutionize the way the world thinks about and embraces menopause.
I believe you began your revolution at birth, lol and I'm so thankful for you, your wisdom, and insight. This quote by Gloria Steinhem, "Women may be the one group that grows more radical with age," has given me a lot to think about. But, I believe my take on it is much different (and better, ) than it was in my 20's and 30's. Rather than bitter and resentful, I see postmenopausal women as being confident and wise, and free of the roller coaster rides of hormones that have controlled and consumed our lives since puberty. Once we get beyond that, as long as we have our health, we can be the best of both genders- the clear thinking and ambition typically associated with men and the creativity, sense of family, and compassion more associated with women. Personally, I'm looking forward to having it all - the peace, health, ambition, etc., etc. !
I'm with YOU! I love being post-menopausal. The confidence and self-acceptance are just so refreshing.
It sounds to me like you have the perfect balance.
So funny , we are all controlled by our hormones .
Exactly! Just like all the other animals on earth.
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Gosh... us poor men are so thick its so sad....! Our simple and small brains at least can be counter balanced by our always on sperm donor status. Having a much better and bigger brain must be such a burden! :)
We love our bigger brains. Thanks for being a good sport about this.
Menopause Taylor being a man I’m always up for a bit of sport & don’t have to even think about it! Let’s face it my small and simple brain can’t cope with much else... 😂
@@mikesheridan5218 Well, you have a big heart and a great character.
Inappropriate!
Oh, come on. Let's have some fun learning this stuff.
Don't you have a sense of humor? I guess not.....
I found it quite entertaining and factual. We’re all adults here so let’s act like it. Have a drink and chill out a little.
This sounds like the perfect scenario for 1950, maybe. I hope most men can iron their own shirts, cook their own dinners, and grocery shop, and that most women are not home sitting on the sofa drinking wine.