An Escape Plan or Independence: Do All Women Actually Have an Exit Plan?

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  • @heatherlynsey3092
    @heatherlynsey3092 3 ปีที่แล้ว +302

    My momma had a separate account she started a week after getting married to my dad. Every time she got paid, 10% of her checks went into that account. Eighteen years later my dad decided he was out and she only had what was in that account to help her survive on her own. It’s not being sneaky, it’s protecting you and your own.

    • @Forever20young
      @Forever20young 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      She sounds like a very smart woman. Kudos to her for being mindful and prepared❕My mother got divorced after 16 years of marriage and had to fend for 4 children on her own. You have to prepare yourself to protect your own at all times because
      there ain’t no telling
      when these men decide
      they no no longer value loyalty and commitment to family. Mothers in particular should be prepared at all times to be financially independent and ready to provide for their families solo dolo,
      at the drop of a dime❕

    • @cindyben3089
      @cindyben3089 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      This here speak volumes. I’m very worried about women who don’t work at all stay at home mom for 30 years. Husband leaves, remarry , children grown . How is the ex wife supposed to survive at 50? She hasn’t worked and can’t even collect social security?? Start a career at 52??

    • @yyyid9518
      @yyyid9518 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@cindyben3089 I met someone with that same situation… it’s sad and scsry

    • @annwarner7278
      @annwarner7278 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That part. Men switch up.

    • @annwarner7278
      @annwarner7278 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@cindyben3089 happen to my mother in law. Promised her the moon and the stars left her six kids later while most of them were still very young. He tried to take the house from her. He didn’t want to pay child support. He remarried and gave everything he promised her to his new wife. She’s still struggling to this day while he travels the world with his new wife. She was a stay at home wife until he decided he was done and left her.

  • @paulagabriele3512
    @paulagabriele3512 3 ปีที่แล้ว +235

    Adrienne mindset about money and marriage changed so much. I see you, girl. Now you are a business woman with real money 😉😉

  • @justtino4204
    @justtino4204 3 ปีที่แล้ว +180

    lol mentioning Tams kids that took me out. 😂

    • @simplymonica6888
      @simplymonica6888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I’m weak 😂 😂 The way they were laughing at that part had me rolling.

    • @aAQEeprov
      @aAQEeprov 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Isn't that disrespectful though? I don't know how I'd feel if I was Tamera.

    • @KL-Lady
      @KL-Lady 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lady Lee fr

    • @tenisawhite4660
      @tenisawhite4660 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@aAQEeprov no. It’s not.

    • @justtino4204
      @justtino4204 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@aAQEeprov nah its not that deep ,i think.its ok We overthink these days

  • @vancarbonneau6063
    @vancarbonneau6063 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    "Is that Aiden and Ariah?!" I'M DEEEEAD

  • @kaki_karei
    @kaki_karei 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Jeannie once said on the show 'I'm addicted to my independence!". I can see things have changed.
    Love Adrienne's growth. It shows.

  • @mandys1038
    @mandys1038 3 ปีที่แล้ว +209

    Yes everyone should have a safety net! I remember Loni telling viewers this in the past, its to protect yourself. Obviously no one goes into a relationship believing it will be doomed but there's nothing wrong with looking out for yourself

    • @crystalanamericaninsicily
      @crystalanamericaninsicily 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Darling. Safety net and Exit plan are two different things. Yes. Have your own Bank account!

  • @trenique2010
    @trenique2010 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    loni calling out aiden and ariah lol

  • @shahiskandar8717
    @shahiskandar8717 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    No relationship last forever. Either someone gonna leave you alive or die before you. You need to be independent anyway. There is a rare case scenario where both husband and wife die together.

  • @moimeself1088
    @moimeself1088 3 ปีที่แล้ว +183

    This whole damn episode is a REAL mess... G popping out those babies mid-sentence!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣💕💕💕

    • @alexandraanderson3988
      @alexandraanderson3988 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Right lmaoo what really got me a little was the beginning how she was rubbing and patting on that babies back like it was real lmaoo hahaha I basically couldn't stop smiling the whole time she was basically hilarious throughout this whole scene😂😂 especially while sounding exhausted and tired like it wasn't even real and she made it sound that way😭😆😁

  • @Krisha158
    @Krisha158 3 ปีที่แล้ว +131

    Proud! I think EVERYONE should have a plan just in case. Don’t be so dumb and depend on someone so much you can’t leave when you need to. Marriages don’t always last so be prepared.

  • @milagrosamaya2039
    @milagrosamaya2039 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    "Thats aiden and ariah" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @winterbear_007
    @winterbear_007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    Having an exit plan is just being realistic. This isn't some fairy tale where everyone gets married and lives happily ever after (but wouldn't that be nice). You don't know what tomorrow will bring. You may be madly in love when you get married but fall out of love 5-10 years in. YOU WON'T KNOW and the last thing you want is to be left in the streets because you didn't plan ahead especially if there are kids involved.

    • @jclyntoledo
      @jclyntoledo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So many people but especially women stay in marriages and relationships where they are either abused or just miserable and toxic to each other. My dad and his wife actually should have been divorced a long time ago but they stay married for my 2 brothers and bc they have more financial resources together 😕

    • @winterbear_007
      @winterbear_007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@jclyntoledo That is also a reality that exists. Not a healthy one, but one I can understand. Time goes by quick sometimes and before you know it, you could be stuck. That's why it's so important to bring awareness to this topic, so fewer and fewer people have to go through those experiences. Fostering independence, in addition to outside support, can help people leave unhealthy relationships safely. That's just my two cents though. I'm sorry your brothers had to go through that.

    • @jclyntoledo
      @jclyntoledo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@winterbear_007 Oh they still live with them, one is 20 and the other is 14/15.

    • @alexandraanderson3988
      @alexandraanderson3988 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jclyntoledo Lol your second comment😂😄 one is 20 and still staying at home lmaoo good for him I guess😊😭👍👍

  • @thiagobailon
    @thiagobailon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Loni said the babies look like Aiden and Ariah 😂😂😂😂 I can't with her!!

  • @stresswars
    @stresswars 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Adrienne speaks to my soul EVERYTIME!

  • @itswhat3v3r
    @itswhat3v3r 3 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    Freaking Lonnie is so funny in this one. Every time the camera is on her I'm cracking up. 😂

    • @2436golden
      @2436golden 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You must find everything funny then.

    • @itswhat3v3r
      @itswhat3v3r 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@2436golden haha all you gotta do is just look at her in that costume and it's funny.

    • @alexandraanderson3988
      @alexandraanderson3988 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Right lmaoo😂😄

    • @alexandraanderson3988
      @alexandraanderson3988 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@itswhat3v3r Exactly she doesn't even have to do much to be funny without cracking up even the simple faces she be making is hilarious serious or not lmaoo especially when she stopped in the middle of her conversation and said wait Garclle with a pause.... 😄 I knew something was going on but didn't have an idea till I saw garcelle with the other babies then I went ohhh hold on what??? hahahaha😆🤣🤣 Lmaoo Garcelle is hilarious here too 🤦🏽‍♀😁😆😂

    • @mrexecutive
      @mrexecutive ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@2436goldenWe find your life funny

  • @dr.braxygilkeycruises1460
    @dr.braxygilkeycruises1460 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Dang. Adrienne had a STRONG point!!
    For me, I don't want to go into a marriage with secrets. However, I also think every woman should have at least one account that no one knows about. And you should have a MINIMUM of 15% of your income sent directly there. I set mine up so that funds cannot be transferred out of there. If I needed money, I'd have to show up at the branch. That makes it easier to save and not touch it. *Fear is an enemy of love, but love is a passive aggressive accomplice to enemies. Protect Yourself, Ladies!*

  • @MajesticMyronn
    @MajesticMyronn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I think if a relationship is not exactly going the best and you see it drifting into a direction of toxicity and not happiness… then you always need an “ escape plan “

  • @justSymiah
    @justSymiah 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Someone said on the show once that the person you marry is not the same person you divorce . That’s not to say I won’t give my all or do my best to make things work but having a safety net insures that’s I am making a clear decision that doesn’t involve a risk to my livelihood if things don’t work out. Call it self -preservation 🤷🏽‍♀️.
    Taking initiative to protect myself (and my unknown future) is important to me so I don’t end up in a situation where I NEED or HAVE to be somewhere that I truly don’t WANT to be. I need the freedom.

    • @cindyben3089
      @cindyben3089 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It was Jeannie…

    • @KL-Lady
      @KL-Lady 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cindy Benjamin these girls forget so quick

  • @nes8292
    @nes8292 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yall, there's life insurance, home insurance, car insurance etc..It's smart to have back up plans. You never know when you'll die, or have a car accident or if your home get taken out from natural disaster. No one ever knows what can happen in the future.

  • @meaganbianca2978
    @meaganbianca2978 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This was such a serious topic and the Adan and Aria distracting everyone. Omg the shout out made my heart happy.
    Back to the topic I think because Jeannie is still in the honeymoon phase is why she said what she said.
    I was shocked but sooo grateful A said what she did. Not everyone has an exit plan but that’s why domestic violence rates are so high. My father wanted my mother to go to college because he didn’t want her to be dependent on another man if something happened to him since it was seen a lot in their community abusive men taking advantage of single mothers.
    It’s not just financially either. A lot of domestic abuse victims don’t have emotional support. Mental strength is key to independence as well.

    • @Hasna256
      @Hasna256 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow that's so great of your father to encourage your mother to stay independent no matter what happens in their life.

    • @alexandraanderson3988
      @alexandraanderson3988 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      And happiness as well after independence dont forget that part😊

  • @bosslady83
    @bosslady83 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    It’s called being smart I’ve seen to many women in my current job and previous jobs not have they own bragging my man don’t want me to work and pay all the bills and then he leaves and they end up with nothing and have to move in with family and start over. There’s a shared account for bills and an individual account we can do what we want its nothing wrong with having your own! Doesn’t mean your planning to leave just means your prepared in case it doesn’t work out and not feel like you have to stay in a dead end relationship because of finances.

  • @roadbeauty4035
    @roadbeauty4035 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    "She dun gave birth to two other babies" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Garcelle we are loving you!!!

  • @Nique1986
    @Nique1986 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I agree with Adrienne you have to keep in mind that people are human no matter how in luv u are you really never know n coming from divorce i experience it first hand definitely learning experience !!!!

  • @Jaimelikegem
    @Jaimelikegem 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I have an exit plan for my relationship. Everyone should

  • @diariesofagrowingcaramelqu6665
    @diariesofagrowingcaramelqu6665 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Yes Adrienne an independent plan 👏

  • @needgardenhelp4037
    @needgardenhelp4037 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My husband says he hates “liars and sneaky” people. But he doesn’t share everything with me, and doesn’t know what lies by omission means. Either way, he doesn’t work and hasn’t worked in years. Can i leave the marriage and not tell him where I’m going. I dont want to pay him spousal support, he’s a liar and he cheats on me with every waitress at the bars we visit. OR is their CONSEQUENCES for abandoning the relationship? (P.S. we have no joint accounts just a home with a high mortgage- he can’t afford) #Florida

  • @dee-jh2mc
    @dee-jh2mc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Why is it when a man ask for a pre nup crickets. When a women wants a safety net she's living in fear? And this mostly come from women make it make sense

  • @colletampechi9030
    @colletampechi9030 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have a lot of respect for u Adrienne,I went through hell when I decided to leave,but hey God is good I'm okay now.

  • @elizabethcalderon8490
    @elizabethcalderon8490 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Oooooh Loni Tam gon call you out don't talk about her babies!!! 🤣

  • @bee7314
    @bee7314 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Everything Adrienne said is spot on!! And a must, especially for women. Too many women get comfortable in relationships and take the what is mine is yours literally. How many times have we heard a woman left with nothing after a marriage ends.

  • @OmKhadijah
    @OmKhadijah 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes Adrienne, yesss!

  • @Msladyrae92
    @Msladyrae92 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I think this convo is in the same vein as prenuptial agreement plans. I would not get offended personally if my future husband was well-off and presented a prenup. We are all humans and we can't predict a persons actions or the future for that matter. Its just the smart thing to do. Marriage is a contract at the end of the day.
    Women that are in traditional marriages should especially have some idea of what they would do if the marriage were to end. I don't like the term "exit plan" that sounds like you are planning to leave an abusive man and that isn't always the case. Being prepared could mean just making sure you have your own money, support system , and overall independence.

    • @dr.braxygilkeycruises1460
      @dr.braxygilkeycruises1460 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Definitely. And you are 100% correct regarding the prenuptial agreement plans. I think most people forget prenups aren't just about one party having more money than the other; there are other factors. There could be specific documents, items, houses or land that are passed down within the bloodline only and a prenup protects that. We have to stop being afraid to acknowledge the business side of marriage.

  • @Fries1216
    @Fries1216 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Always have an escape plan. Never tell him/her. Simple.

  • @simplytina5627
    @simplytina5627 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It’s smart to have an escape... well I would have one anyways. My grandmother was not happy in her marriage and she was a housewife. She had no money to leave.

  • @edwardquaye8312
    @edwardquaye8312 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Garcelle keeps rubbing those dummies 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @11220h
    @11220h 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Jeannie isn't being realistic. Even perfect marriages can end. I would still plan an escape plan even if my marriage was perfect.

    • @Krfran14
      @Krfran14 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jeannies a newlywed, so she's still on the Disney phase.. Its sweet

    • @alexandraanderson3988
      @alexandraanderson3988 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Krfran14 Lol awww😊 living in fairy land basically😄 sweet

  • @Her_dopeness
    @Her_dopeness 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Wait hold up why she got a mustache 😂

    • @leylahaji7556
      @leylahaji7556 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      she's lil nas x pregnant with his album lmaooooo

    • @MyFavourites1
      @MyFavourites1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She is lil nas x

    • @staciestacie3044
      @staciestacie3044 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🤣 I needed that laugh 😹

    • @MyFavourites1
      @MyFavourites1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @cierra fields chk it out: th-cam.com/users/shortsB-7ZkWWdf08?feature=share

    • @deespeaks._6315
      @deespeaks._6315 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@leylahaji7556 who is Jennie Mai and who is the lady in the pink suppsoed to be

  • @charliexox9793
    @charliexox9793 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Garcelle🤣 Aden and Ariah🤣🤣🤣

  • @hannahj7115
    @hannahj7115 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    This wig and makeup is doing it for garcelle 🥰

  • @cetaceans4progress375
    @cetaceans4progress375 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    As women we have to protect ourselves men can be scandalous

  • @JusNik
    @JusNik 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The same way rich people have pre nup and post nup it’s the same way everyone should have an exit plan because you NEVER know.

  • @artofposhahiamadi1242
    @artofposhahiamadi1242 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Jeanne's makeup is looking bomb today.

  • @alexandraanderson3988
    @alexandraanderson3988 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I like how loni looked and was so concerned after Garcelle sussposingly had more babies she was like wai did you just gie birth lmaoo😄😄😁😁 my thing was how was she doing this without aking a sound I mean I know its fake but geez😁at least give somebody a warnng first before they supposingly pop out lmaoo even i was like huh at first lol

  • @annwarner7278
    @annwarner7278 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nawh women should alway have money put aside just in case. My grandmother and mother taught me that. Women always put a little something to the side for yourself for security.

  • @_Carmela
    @_Carmela 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I CANT TAKE LONI SERIOUS RIGHT NOW 😂😂

  • @Krfran14
    @Krfran14 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I agree with Adrienne

  • @1029Shasha
    @1029Shasha 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Garcelle is killing me!🤣😁😂

  • @tutia3260
    @tutia3260 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes Adrienne 100%

  • @sinelisiwemasemola
    @sinelisiwemasemola 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love the chaos!

  • @arreyyyx
    @arreyyyx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    There’s the next videos covering half the screen again 👺

    • @DreamsAreForWeaving
      @DreamsAreForWeaving 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      why is this happening this season?... it's annoying and I dont know how to prevent it

    • @arreyyyx
      @arreyyyx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@DreamsAreForWeaving they edited it onto the video before uploading I think. So annoying when I want to see peoples reactions

  • @sabym2916
    @sabym2916 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I believe the most important thing is to never " lose" yourself in a relationship.

  • @iamporshalove
    @iamporshalove 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    period

  • @ronnylove1081
    @ronnylove1081 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Husband's up and leaving their wives for "greener pastures" is nothing new, especially when the wife is a "stay at home mom," they get put in dire situations with finances.

  • @samanthankala159
    @samanthankala159 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "Aden and Ariah"

  • @freppy06
    @freppy06 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Fear is not the heart of love. God is love and there is no fear in Him.

  • @jonnydavis6066
    @jonnydavis6066 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yes. That's why they can't be trusted.🤯

    • @25fadeaway
      @25fadeaway 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Women initiate 80% of divorces and they are there're ones who need? 🤔

  • @melindac9391
    @melindac9391 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Wow, I’m sorry but this whole set up with pregnant belly’s was very tone deaf considering what Adrienne has shared with us regarding her infertility. I don’t care how much she might of said “ I don’t care if we do this set up” as someone dealing with infertility myself, I would be dying in side if someone but a fake pregnancy belly on me, knowing damn well I’m suffering from infertility. Sure I might play along but inside I would be very hurt. SMH whoever thought this was a good idea is crazy. Actually I’ve been noticing SO many topics and convos regarding this topic and while I understand Jeanie is pregnant, she had her moments at the beginning where we all praised her and congratulated her, I think we should ALSO be sensitive to Adrienne too, y’all don’t understand how much this hurts. Wow just wow

    • @mkgcbeauty
      @mkgcbeauty 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Agreed I think this was very insensitive to her… and knowing her she’ll pretend it was ok but it def prolly hurt her feelings taking everything off..

    • @sucoyiastewart4561
      @sucoyiastewart4561 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you I agree. I couldn’t even enjoy the episode because I felt it was so insensitive

    • @KL-Lady
      @KL-Lady 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agreed it made me cringe

  • @andreac.5596
    @andreac.5596 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How did I just notice that they have baby stuff in the background haha. I guess I was focused on them and didn't even pay attention.

  • @msmamas5137
    @msmamas5137 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It’s the lady in the beginning rubbing the fake baby for me 😭😭

    • @alexandraanderson3988
      @alexandraanderson3988 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Her name is Garcelle and yeah she's hilarious😄😁😭 she's one of the second funniest on the show besides well besides loni lol she's the funniest one but yeah Garcelle she's next😄🤣😅👏👏

  • @godisgoodfaithful.803
    @godisgoodfaithful.803 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🙌🙌🙌🙌🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🥇🥇🥇🥇⚓⚓⚓⚓⚓⚓🎯🎯🎯🎯🎉🎁 Good point.
    Beautiful ... Oh my Lord!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 👌

  • @lindagood9841
    @lindagood9841 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Adriana runs that mouth😳

  • @ellandecampbell6279
    @ellandecampbell6279 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    First of all, there's a difference between an exit plan, & not relying on your partner (or anyone else) to support you financially. Secondly, guys who have exit plans are seen as being shady, uncommitted, @$$holes, etc.

  • @donniewright3204
    @donniewright3204 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My favorite in dis show is loni love fa some reason idk why but she jus my top one favorite

  • @parkjihyoisthequeenofqueen7850
    @parkjihyoisthequeenofqueen7850 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think you should work on it privately it’s fine not you put in on their face all the time
    But you shouldn’t be excessive to a point where you can’t help out in the house anymore because you’re saving up for yourself. A little something here and there for you it’s OK not too much

  • @ebonymiller3545
    @ebonymiller3545 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    All women need a escape plan

  • @KL-Lady
    @KL-Lady 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loni obsessed w Tameras kids

  • @mkgcbeauty
    @mkgcbeauty 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ehhh. I wonder how this made adrienne feel. like we know she wants to have a baby and to pretend to be pregnant might have made her feel some type of way... def hope not! love ya Adrienne!

    • @KL-Lady
      @KL-Lady 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I thought about this. And loni had a past too

  • @kellycraddock269
    @kellycraddock269 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey I'm a big fan

  • @crystalanamericaninsicily
    @crystalanamericaninsicily 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Say what?? You find out your Partner has an "Exit plan" well that's when you EXIT. Find someone who is committed 100% in the Relationship!!

    • @tatianadaniel3569
      @tatianadaniel3569 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This is a very unpopular opinion but I agree wholeheartedly.

    • @empath3133
      @empath3133 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      No because you never know what the future holds. It’s okay to have an exit plan when there’s good communication about it and if your partner doesn’t understand that then they’re not right for you

    • @ebonymiller3545
      @ebonymiller3545 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      If you smart you will have a exit plan always dont wait for trouble to be in your face to do something about it

    • @crystalanamericaninsicily
      @crystalanamericaninsicily 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ebonymiller3545 Never depend on any one 100%. Have a savings account! Have your own friends. Invest in a home. But give 100% to your Relationship.

    • @KL-Lady
      @KL-Lady 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Crystal Dating Coach that’s what they’re saying

  • @lindagood9841
    @lindagood9841 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    All women should have extra money to the slide.

    • @25fadeaway
      @25fadeaway 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      But men should give all their money up?

    • @TT.3123
      @TT.3123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      *All people* should have extra money to the side, no matter what. Even a roommate situation could turn ugly. Life could deal you a bad hand. Someone can decide to leave you unexpectedly, or an emergency could come up. An employer can fire you. Every human being who is capable of making money, should have some money saved on the side.

    • @alexandraanderson3988
      @alexandraanderson3988 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@25fadeaway No I think men need there's too just incase there the ones in the abusive relationship which is very rare and random but still just in case you never know🥴🤷🏽‍♀

  • @Desi-zz4gb
    @Desi-zz4gb 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't have an exit plan. However we both agreed to keep our separate bank accounts

  • @Somugaga
    @Somugaga 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Um no, Loni and Jeanie i.e. ladies that never been married before! You should always be ready for any situation even when things are good

    • @KL-Lady
      @KL-Lady 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      They’ve both been married before

    • @annwarner7278
      @annwarner7278 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jeannie is currently in her 2nd marriage.

  • @FavouriteThings_
    @FavouriteThings_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jeanie YOUR EXIST PLAN WAS TO NOt GET PREGNANT IN YOUR FIRST MARRIAGE 😪

  • @paulinasenue9331
    @paulinasenue9331 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jeannie is really making her make up look paler now a days I miss her bronze

  • @jonnydavis6066
    @jonnydavis6066 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Women are not Independent 😜