Puppy Blues 101
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- Puppy Blues 101 // Do you have the puppy blues? Did you recently bring home a new puppy? Puppy depression or the puppy blues are real. When you are feeling overwhelmed, frustrated, and worried about your new puppy, you may be wondering how to overcome the puppy blues. The more puppy training you and your puppy work through together the faster the puppy blues will go away. Getting a new puppy is exciting but the puppy crying, puppy accidents, and puppy biting are no fun. In this video, we are going to talk about how to stop puppy frustration and curb those new puppy blues.
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Thanks for watching Puppy Blues 101. In the comments below let us know if you have experienced the puppy blues.
Didn’t know this was real until my gf started crying from the next day.
I grew up with a dog so I know they can be a lot more stubborn then they look, but didn’t know it would be such a psychological stress to somebody who never experienced them.
Thank u for the infos!
I’m 10 days in and feeling so overwhelmed thinking why did I take on such a huge responsibility. But then I look at him and he’s just so loveable and sweet. Hopefully the puppy blues pass
I am totally losing my mind! I got a 6 month old puppy. He is now 9 months and hasn’t changed a bit. He’s learned commands and is completely potty trained and crate trained at night, but the constant jumping and biting are overwhelming. He’s gained 18 pounds in 2 months. I feel like I’m failing him because I didn’t have the opportunity of getting him when he was younger.
I'm experiencing the puppy blues it's going on week 3 and I'm feeling tired and overwhelmed but this video was very helpful we had a dog before but he was already two when we adopted him from the humane society so this is all new to me .
I’m suffering so bad with this bc I’m also bipolar and my illness has gotten so much worse with the puppy. I’m scared how bad I’m going to get. She’s a cavapoo and seems to get worse just when I it’s improving. She’s 4 months.
Definitely experienced the puppy blues in the first week of getting my baby. I felt SO DEPRESSED! Overwhelmed with the feeling that I had ruined my life because of the responsibility! I felt so guilty for thinking I may need to re home him because of the lack of connection and anxiety!
He’s 3 months old now and has become my best friend, I absolutely ADORE him even though he’s a little monster sometimes! 😅 I’m so happy the puppy blues passed! I sympathise with anyone experiencing it 🌷
Any tips on how to make this feeling pass? I've had my dog for 2 months now
I feel the same as a new puppy owner, I feel so guilty feeling like this but my husband and son are so supportive, it’s not even been a week yet and the guilt is overwhelming xx
Today is literally my first day with my puppy. Reading your comment made me cry thinking I made a big mistake or maybe I was just having a nightmare and that maybe I should re-home him, but this gave me hope that this puppy blues will soon pass. Thank you.
Hi guys! I’m sorry you’re experiencing the blues 🌷 From experience, it really isn’t a nice time at all so my thoughts go out to you.
Yes! I have tips that REALLY helped me and I wish someone would have told me! So, in hindsight I think the reason for which I felt so bad was the “lack of connection” I couldn’t understand him nor him understand me! He felt alien to me and it made me feel guilty and bad for not “loving him”.
The first and only thing that helped me overcome it all was: TRAINING, sounds silly and pathetic but I tried and tried to train him for 2/3 days and he wouldn’t respond (I felt worse) then one random day I just said “SIT” and he sat!! My heart thumped! And I think the spark was lit! Lol I felt like a proud momma. Suddenly I started to love him and realised that my emotions were not actually caused by “him” but he was more just like a “trigger” of all the lack of confidence and patience I have in myself!
I hope this helps in some way. Just be patient and compassionate with yourself 🌷 Our minds play tricks on us specially when past traumas or lack of confidence is lying around. The mind will be triggered by these events and tell us things like “what have you done!” “You can’t do this!” So we just gotta be kind to ourselves and give ourselves time to adapt 🌷 Good luck guys! Keep me updated on how it’s going! I genuinely care 🌻
P.s remember that we’re all different so different strategies will work for different people don’t despair if you haven’t found your strategy yet, be patient 😘🌷
@@shaynaharper1457 the main thing that helped me is that I stopped putting pressure on me and on him. An accident happened? I accepted it and moved on. He barked through the night? I got ear plugs and finally managed to get some sleep. He peed on the couch? I have a good stain remover. And so on ... Basically trusting yourself that you can deal with whatever he/she throws your way and realizing that nothing, no matter how bad, is going to last forever helps. And not thinking that everything bad that happens is somehow catastrophic helps. Like if he cries through the night, he will be fine in the morning. If he has an accident, it doesn't mean he will never be potty trained. And so on ... Simply accepting that shit happens (sometimes very literally) despite our best intentions helps.
Also, and this is going to sound stupid, simply enjoying him helped me. Letting him on the couch with me and snuggling with him helped. Taking a nice walk in the afternoon helped. Spending time with him without having a "project" to work on (like potty training or tricks or whatever) helped. Just letting the puppy be a tiny goofus who just wants to lick your face helps. A lot of the puppy blues in the beginning was also generated by him not feeling 100% at home yet and me resenting him for it. Like in my mind I was turning my life upside down and he didn't even like me. lol It was really when I started showing him more and more affection that he started returning it 10 fold.
I definitely have the puppy blues. Getting a puppy was an item on my bucket list for a long time. I've read books, watched videos and dog sat for friends over the last several years. I thought I was prepared. I wasn't. It all cost way more in time, money and effort than I thought it would. I've been on my own during COVID, and I thought it would be a good time to get a puppy since I'm housebound. I didn't factor in how much attention it would take during work hours. Work has eased up a little, and Jerry is learning more and can hold "it" longer. So, things are getting easier. But, OMG!!!!!!!!! it's been hard. Within the first three days, I was on my kitchen floor crying. I really did think this was the absolute dumbest decision I've made in my life. Now that things are a little easier, and I've been able to socialize him more, I'm much happier. But, I cried just a couple of days ago when he had two back to back accidents, when he had every opportunity to do the right thing (and he was doing the right thing consistently). I adopted Jerry back in August. It's hard. Hang in there, everyone!
Jerry will be back on track in no time. He's still young and has lots to learn. He's getting there. You've got this! 🥰
Omg it feels so good to read this, I hope some stuff got better over time ...My baby is amazing but I am so overwhelmed by responsibility, judgment or "advice" from people, expectations and habits from my family living with me....I'm literally crying every day not knowing if I made the biggest mistake of my life
I am in the exact same boat! Thanks for posting this.
I really feel you. A day ago I was in my living room floor
It's like I'm reading a summary of my first month with my puppy! He was pooping everywhere, barking through the night, he was sad and withdrawn and yet would bark his little head off every time I left him alone ... it was a nightmare! Just like OP, I found myself on the living room floor bawling my eyes out while cleaning dog poop off my hardwood floors. it felt as if I had just commited the worst mistake of my life.
Things got a lot better for me after the 1st month. He still had accidents, he still barked through the night but slowly we started to understand each other. He's almost 7 months old now and I can't imagine life without him. Hang in there, whoever is reading this! It gets better!
Thank you the video helped alot, I visited this video 2 months ago and cried coz I felt puppy blue. I wanna update today I don't anymore and realised few thing. And have my own few tips hope it's of some help.
1. From past few days all u are doing is researching about puppies, especially videos that say DO THIS FROM DAY 1. You are too overwhelmed. Let me tell u it won't matter take ur damn time for God sake.
2. Before getting puppy people would have asked you fe question like what are you gonna do if u have to go to work whole day, out of town, out of country and u probably said them some random solution like ya i will figure it out. Once u get puppy suddenly u start questioning yourself WHAT AM I GONNA DO?
solution: u are not going out today so let it go. And guess what u will figure it out once u are out of panic state. Kennel or friends or one of the member from dog community which u will eventually build.
3 YOU ARE SLEEP DEPRIVED
guess what the best thing about a puppy.. U don't have to watch it 24 hours like a baby. Put them in a safe and comfy space they will be fine and probably snooze off. Go get some sleep. Worst case the puppy will pee or poop not the end of the world u can clean it.
4. Watch something else on TH-cam apart from how to train this, can i feed that, 10 things u should do this kind of video. Go watch something apart from puppy related. U are most likely feeling puppy blue because now u feeling ur life is over. As soon as u release u have life outside this u will do just fine.
If u made it till here just know u are doing fine with puppy, ur puppy is fine, ur pupper has got the best parents even if not the best version yet, u are going to get better and for few weeks till u are confident enough to ignore STAY THE F AWAY FROM CRUNCHY KERENS who say stuff like, u are bad parent if u don't do everything right from day 1.
Thanks so much for sharing your own personal tips to other puppy parents experiencing the puppy blues!
Good advice!
Thank you for this! Exactly what I needed to hear ❤️
Yes, the blues are real. I'm in month 2 with no real end in sight. It helps to know I'm not crazy.
Same here! I’m three months in, I started praying for patience.🙏🏽 We can do it! 😎💪🏽
How's it going now
Sadly our lives just could not handle it and our little puppy is now living with a family friend. We miss her but know it was the best thing. Good luck to you all.
Same! Going on 5 weeks
I felt this comment... I adopted him when he was around 2 months and have him for 1.5 months now. I have 2 roommates but I am the only caretaker right now. They are even irritated by the dogs barking all the time. I feel like there is no real end in sight and I feel like I am going insane. I cant seem to tire him out because I cant take him out for a walk before his shots finish. So I'm constantly playing with him whenever he is not sleeping... I know nothing he does is his fault, but I couldnt have one meal in piece in the last 1.5 months. I feel like I need a day off without him but nobody is really helping me... It's nice to know that I'm not alone, but it is the most lonely I've ever felt!
I just got a dog 4 days ago and lemme tell u, those puppy blues are nothing but eating me up. He won’t stop crying at night and even when we ignore him. I can’t handle it.
Have you peeked at the stop crying in the crate video we have?
@@HowToTrainADreamDog Yes we actually have me and my family love your vids. but I think our dog just is always crying :(
@@samaihab9110 how is it going? Is it better now 6 months later?
@@MM-jc7uv hey, thank you so much for asking this made my day, yess it’s so much better, he’s even been doing way better at potty training, he’s becoming more mischievous tho haha. He’s currently 8 months old now. And officially the cutest little dog to ever.
@@samaihab9110 I got a pomsky puppy 2 weeks ago and he’s a little devil too. Just wanted to know when I can expect him to calm down and relax a bit (he’s currently 10 weeks old)
Thank you for acknowledging that puppy blues is a thing! We had no idea it existed until we experienced it ourselves, and it was a shock. It seemed like any article we read or video we watched to learn how to manage the situation said something like "X Mistakes YOU'RE making" or "how YOU'RE hurting your dog by doing these things", and we felt guilty, overwhelmed, and like we'd lost control over our lives. Luckily we're coming out of it slowly as our pupper approaches 12 weeks.
Hang in there it really does get better. Don't be too hard on yourself. Sending hugs your way! 😍
Thank you! Finally, there is a name for what I've been feeling! I'm raising a puppy alone and everybody thinks I'm exaggerating when I tell them how frustrating and overwhelming it is to single-parent a puppy and keep offering useless advice. It seems like no matter how hard I try, nothing I do is right or enough :( This is HARD WORK, especially for one person. Kudos to everyone out there doing their best yet going through puppy blues. It has to be over at some point.
I was a single puppy parent until my significant other returned (his absence was part of the reason I got the puppy!). It is SOOOOOOOO hard to have all the responsibility on your shoulders. Thankfully, my mom and sister help me take care of Jerry a couple of days per week. I have had countless breakdowns. It's hard. It gets easier, but it's been traumatic.
It will get better for sure! Hang in there. Work through puppy training games, canine entertainment games when you can. 🥰
single puppy owner here as well. I genuinely wanted to move back with my mum at some point just so someone could take the pressure off. :))))
Hello, can you please tell me , is it better now??
I adopted a puppy a few days back and I am having these puppy blues right now.....
Single puppy owner as well and No one can prepare you for this! 😢 I like my dog but Im wondering when I will be able to enjoy him
Thank you for this. I'm only on day 2 but I felt so exhausted and even sick from the first night. I cried for about an hour wondering what I'd done, still trying to get through a panic attack.
Hang in there! The first few days and weeks can be an adjustment, both for you and your puppy. You got this. ❤️ For some extra support, and to meet other puppy parents going through the same thing, we'd love for you to join our Puppy Training with Michele Lennon Facebook group: howtotrainadreamdog.com/FB-group
And then make sure you grab our free New Puppy Starter Kit! It has great tips to help with your new pup and those overwhelming feelings: howtotrainadreamdog.com
I am feeling extremely overwhelmed. I am so sad and anxious. I already have mental health issues, which was the reason I got a puppy to begin with! It’s barely day 3 and I’m already considering giving her back which makes me feel absolutely awful.
I’m not even eating, showering, I was constipated the first day.
I’m so overwhelmed 😢😢😢
Has it gotten?
Same!!! How are you guys doing now?
I felt this😔 are you doing any better now?
@@rekagran5663 hey how are you doing right now?? I too am having these puppy blues
Haha oh my goodness my husband would come home every day to me crying on the couch...for a couple months!! It’s gets better everyone, she is now an angel!
I wish that were true :/
Yeah. I’m 9 months in and it hasn’t
My first couple weeks with my puppy (now 7 months old and a delight!), I cried almost every day.
To the puppy parents struggling rn: you can get through it! Don’t be afraid to ask friends or family for help. And be sure to make time for yourself every day- even if it’s only 15 minutes to take a shower, eat a snack, or take a cat nap!
This is really encouraging. I've had the puppy home for 6 days and barely gotten any sleep. Despite my best efforts, she cries all night, but still has tons of energy during the day. She is in constant biting mode and will pull on everything, even electric cables. I am so tired that I feel like giving up.
We recommend starting with our Better Puppy Behavior Workshop to learn more about how your puppy’s brain works and how to adjust your training dial accordingly.
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You are not alone! If you need more support, we could love to help answer any questions your have in the Puppy Training with Michele Lennon Facebook group: howtotrainadreamdog.com/FB-group
My basset passed away in 2016 and since then I’ve wanted another dog so bad. I started working full time last year and knew I didn’t have time to raise a puppy but still wanted a dog. I bought a house this summer with my sister. She works a lot of overtime so I found myself really ready to get a dog to come home to, play with, and have a best friend in like my basset. After contacting a nearby shelter multiple times and never hearing back, a friend told me her cousin was giving away her chocolate lab pup. She was 6 months so I figured she wouldn’t be too difficult since she was out of those really early puppy stages. I was so excited to go get her, and as soon as we walked in, she ran over to me and peed on my foot from excitement. My heart immediately dropped and I wondered what I had gotten myself into. I had had neighbors with labs and they were always the sweetest dogs. But this puppy was so hyper and crazy. I cried as I took her to my parents house. I cried as I took her out to pee every couple of hours throughout the night. I cried all day as I cleaned up her accidents. I cried as she had diarrhea and threw up her food-a trip to the vet confirmed it was just anxiety. I cried as she would steal something and then steal something else when I wasn’t looking. I cried as she cried in her crate while I showered. I missed my basset so much and just wanted a strong bond like that again, and I wasn’t getting it with dog. I also missed my cat my parents still had. I regretted jumping into it so quickly. I knew it would be hard work, but I didn’t have any idea how emotionally draining it would be.
It’s been three months now. She’s gotten way better. She still has those rough days, and I have those nights where I cry and just wish she would listen. But it’s gotten way better. She’s grown so much over the past few months.
I’m glad to see so many people here who know how I feel and what I’m talking about. I really felt kind of alone in all this and even thought “other people just adopt dogs and have no issues, why do I get a dog who’s so hard to handle?” But it gets better. It doesn’t feel like it is, but you look back and see how far you’ve come and you see that it has.
I’ve had to get up about 4 times while typing this to deal with the pup lol. One day we’ll have more good days than bad
It will get better as your pup matures and you train together. I had a basset hound too long ago. They are such sweet goofy dogs.
This is exactly what I needed to hear. My senior dog recently passed and I miss him so so much. I miss that bond and fear I'll never get that bond again.
I had this for the first 3 weeks i had my puppy...its been a month and a half now and im glad i didnt give him away hes the love of my life now !!!! Stay strong
Just got a puppy yesterday, I felt the anxiety, depression and tiredness in taking on this puppy. I don’t think I’m ready guys, I need helpppppp but I ain’t gonna quit 😭
i’m curious as to how it’s been going!
literally me right now omg. how’s it going for you??
Girl I'm right there with you. I've had my pup for a week and I'm not eating because of stress. 😅😭
Im right there right now, good to know im not the only one
@@abbirevelle5654 is it okay now?? I am feeling really down.... I am also having these puppy blues
When we got our puppy in August I had puppy blues big time! It's so difficult because if you tell others their really don't understand. This is the first thing I've ever seen acknowledging it!
I think I'm just overwhelmed with not messing my puppy up! I don't want to make mistakes for my puppy's sake which is so unrealistic.
Focus on making small steps in the right direction instead of the overall picture. Pick a skill you want to work on with your puppy and break it down into smaller training steps over the course of several sessions.
OMG. I thought I was going crazy. Thank you for doing this video. I’ve been struggling thinking I’m doing everything wrong and he’s going to be a terrible adult dog. Was feeling so overwhelmed. Thank you.
Its amazing how one little pup can be so much work, right? You've got this, you can do it! 🙂
this video is a blessing, i never see anybody ever talk about how life ruining it feels when you first get a puppy. when i got one, i really thought i was just not meant to have a puppy, and my family ended up rehoming him a little over a month for that and other reasons. it's relieving to learn i'm not alone and that i'm not just a failure of a person for not being able to keep a dog, something half of the population do. when i'm in a more suitable place in life i really want to be able to commit to a dog.
We are so glad to hear that you found this video helpful. Best of luck to you on this journey!
Ah I had no clue this was a real thing! Everyone would ask me how happy I am now that I have a puppy, or how in love I am with her. And don’t get me wrong, I love her so much and can’t imagine re-homing her, but every time I explained these feelings of regret and overwhelm to others (even to myself), I felt like a bad person. It’s a relief to know I’m not alone and that it does get easier.
This makes me feel so much less like a monster, thank you all so much!!
I have always been a cat person but my husband loves dogs. I always knew we would get a puppy one day. We lost our beloved cat in November and with both of us working from home, we thought now is the time. ITS BEEN SO HARD. I was not prepared mentally or emotionally at all for how hard this was going to be, and I admit I have had major regrets. I thought it was just me. Its good to know that there's hope, haha.
Thank you! I'm literally sitting here crying cause I'm suffering from the blues so bad. It helps knowing I'm not alone.
You are not alone... if you need extra support, we would love to have you join our Puppy Training with Michele Lennon Facebook group: howtotrainadreamdog.com/FB-group
How is it going? I'm also suffering a lot :[
@@kriw5658 much better. We have had him just over 3 weeks now. We are finally getting into a routine. He's sleeping through the night now so that makes everything better.
@@kriw5658 it gets better. The first 2 weeks we had him are a blur cause I was just so tired.
@@andreaberezowski998 thats great to hear :)
This helped me so much. I’m suffering a major case of the puppy blues. After months of waiting so long for a puppy, she finally arrived last Friday and I’ve started regretting my decision so much. But after reading so much about people’s experiences, I’m feeling so much better. Especially since she’s started getting used to her crate and settling more quickly. Makes me feel like I’m doing a good job. It’s a long process, but she is so worth it.
I’m DEFINITELY experiencing puppy blues. I call it puppypartum. I even apologized, through tears, to my mother that she had to take care of me! I don’t have children so this is my intro to parenthood.
Everything is changing and it’s SOOO hard!! My husband got a new job where he works really long hours! I quit where I was working to work from home 😭 and I miss my coworkers. I’m nervous about when I need to start taking clients again. And that wine /cry that I hear every day from her breaks my heart! She can’t eat or sleep if I’m not near by and I’m feeling like I need to be away from her, which also makes me feel guilty! It’s just all Soo hard!!!!
Hang in there, I'm going through it too with my 9 week old puppy. He doesn't mind eating in his crate but just last night finally slept in there on and off. I have to go back to work today so he's going to have to spend a few hours in there... I'll be coming home for "lunch" after about 2 hours just to take him out and then it's back in until my roommate gets home 3 hours later... I feel so bad about having to leave him alone that I, a grown man, burst into tears when I found this video.
The biggest thing I can recommend if he's having trouble eating or sleeping without you is if you have a crate, let him eat in there and stay in the room but further and further away until he doesnt cry when you leave the room. I started out sitting beside the crate while he ate and within a few days was able to leave the room, door closed, and get some chores done until he was finished eating. Baby/puppy steps!!
We are sorry to hear you're struggling but we've got some great resources that can help you! Take a look at this video for some good tips on crate training in a positive way: th-cam.com/video/s0r-E3R3XT4/w-d-xo.html
@@koiokoi thank you so much for you’re kind words and help. I love you’re suggestions! And it’s validating to hear what you’re going through too. I feel so similar.
@@koiokoi how are things going for you now? How is everything with you’re work schedule and puppy?
Things have been getting a little better over here. It’s starting to feel a bit more normal. Still overwhelming but more manageable
hey, good to hear things are going better for you lately, that's great to hear!! Things have really been getting better here too. NO accidents in the house in over a week, walking great on leash, and really getting a lot better over all. Only thing I am still struggling with is anything involving leaving him on his own when he isn't asleep hahaha, he really doesn't like being alone but he's still young so I'm holding out hope and will keep working on it!! You stay strong too!
@@debgal26
Perfect! I so needed this. My frustration with my puppy is my fault. It takes patience, repetition, consistency, love and understanding. We will prevail!! 😬 Thank you!!
You've got this! 😍
I am so glad to have come across this video. All the comments are like a big warm hug. I’ve just adopted an adorable puppy who is the sweetest little furball but I’ve been battling with constant regret, worry and anxiety. This is not my first time adopting a dog but it is the first time being solely responsible for one.
I hope this phase ends soon 🤞🏼
New puppies can be humbling but we are glad you found us and that we can provide a virtual hug! Feel free to join our FB group to ask more questions, or our online course can also be a great roadmap for training and building a relationship with your dog. facebook.com/groups/1608055795943295
Oh my god. I got a puppy many years ago - had a plan, found a good breeder, careful vet care - and I ended up bringing him back to the breeder because I didn't feel a bond with him, he didn't seem to feel one with me, he didn't enjoy walks (pancaked and I had to carry him), and it seemed the only time he was enjoying himself was when he was playing alone. I also had a mild allergic reaction and lived on the fourth floor, and everything was frustrating and depressing. (Happily, the breeder's family had fallen in love with the puppy (he was the last to go) and were happy to have him back and kept him themselves.) Now, I'm older and have experience living and helping with a roommate's puppy for 3 years, and was feeling the urge to try again. I usually talked myself out of it because of my previous failure, and just thought I didn't have what it takes. Then we dogsat someone's poodle for a month and I fell in love - plus they are good for people with allergies! It seemed perfect, so I put myself on the waiting list for a breeder, but there was always the little fear in the back of my mind that I'm not "good at" puppies and might fall into that depression again. BUT to know that it's not just ME, oh goodness. Okay. LOTS of people feel "puppy blues" and *get through it* - I wish I'd known this years ago; I might have built a happy life with that pup. This is so helpful. Okay, I'll remember this. I WILL most likely feel overwhelmed, even depressed, wondering what the hell I did to myself. And this is okay, this is common, this is temporary. /breathes deeply
Thank you so much for this video!
Thanks for the all information. It is great. 😘
thanks for making this video. I got a new puppy a week ago, and I haven’t been more overwhelmed in my entire life. I constantly have this feeling of regret, and that i’m ruining my life by keeping this dog. I know he’s just a puppy, but he’s so much work. My parents payed a lot of money for him so I won’t be re-homing him, but I just pray things get better. It’s so hard to love him and I feel so guilty because I just don’t yet. So many videos online talk about how their dog is their best friend, but i’m scared that by keeping him he’s only hating me, and i’m hating him. I hate admitting it but I’m so exhausted from constantly having to wake up in the middle of the night, and having to clean up accident after accident. I have 3 siblings, and none of them will help. My mom tries her best but she gets tired too and I just don’t know what to do. I can’t wait until the day he gets older/more mature and I can love him for the dog he is, and forget about the troubles i’m having with him at the moment. I ask if anyone reading this could just pray for me and that I learn to love my new puppy. thanks❤️
We are so sorry to hear of your current struggles. Puppy-raising is so extremely time- and energy-consuming! We encourage you to check out our Facebook group for people who are in the same boat as you. The following group guide will provide some great info on how to use this group and all the amazing resources we have available to you!
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How have things been?
How are you doing ? ?? Did it get better??
And now? Are you Okay ?
I love this video! It is so important. ❤️ I havre definitely experienced this!
I'm definitely suffering from Puppy Blues. I didn't know it was a thing until I came across it one day googling things. I felt it within days of the new arrival. Lack of sleep, food, support system. I'm 3 months in (she's 5 months) and it's not going away anytime soon. I'm with you though, it's easy to feel like there's no hope, it won't get better, and I question things all the time, but there's more going on than just a puppy. There's a global pandemic, the weather is changing, even the darkness outside is starting to effect me and the clocks haven't even gone back yet. We can barely separate because there's nowhere for me to go. It's good to talk about this though, especially that "giving up" is an option. We have to have honest conversations with ourselves. I hope it never comes to that with my girl cause she really is cute. Thanks Michelle.
Sending hugs your way... and a little sunshine 🌞 too!
I try to focus on the things she has improved on. Currently the pulling is borderline unbearable, but she did stop the CONSTANT biting finally. And shes much more polite about jumping to try and get our food.
@@jedsanford7879 its true, when the mouthing/biting stopped and i was able to actually cuddle her. I barely noticed. She's getting better day by day and i'm trying not to get hung up on setbacks.
I’m on the same boat and have had my puppy for over a week. Everyday I’ve been waking up anxious and doubtful. I love him but some days I feel like I can’t do it and should give him back which would also be so hard.
@@anzachandara3791 Hang in there girl. I've had many 'what have I done' moments. The way I see it, stick with the training so you get the best dog ever not someone else!
Really feeling the puppy blues today. I've had this puppy for 6 days so far and I feel like I've ruined the next 15 years of my life. My previous dog passed a few years ago and she was so calm and nice. We would go on long quiet walks. Her presence was just so relaxing. With this new pup though, it's the total opposite. I feel like I barely have enough time to take care of myself and the only down time I have is when he is in his cage.... :(
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I'm feeling like the only time I can relax is when she's in her crate, too. How are things now? I think these feelings are super normal. We gotta be patient with our pups and ourselves.
Thanks
I needed this.
We’re parents to two 7 month old pups. We’re exhausted but it’s getting more manageable. They’ve been to formal training and continue, they were both potty trained by 4 months, they finally slept through the night by 5 months, crate trained, highly active and need a lot of exercise! We’ve lost weight lol! I have cried many times and have been overwhelmed most days. The time, expense and responsibility is unreal. I’ve learned so much patience and they are amazing dogs. The bond we’re creating is worth the effort. Stay the course.❤️
This gives me a lot of hope with my 3 month old pup.
There needs to be so many more videos about this.
I honestly though I was crazy that I cried - did not know it was real with puppy blue, your videos and these comments from other puppy owners make me feel so much better knowing that I am not the only one. Thank you so much for this.
Had no idea this existed either, until recently doing a google search. Going through it as well! But we love our puppy! Thanks so much for the video shared it with the family
Thank you so much for this video, we got our puppy a couple of days ago and I have felt so anxious and been crying at night. This has made me feel so much better that other people have gone through this and come out the other side 🙌
Thanks for this video Michelle! I'm so relieved to hear this is a real thing and how many others are going through it as well. I got my new puppy two weeks ago and have probably cried more in these two weeks than I have all year. Having had dogs before I knew it would be tough but had forgotten just how tough. My word of the month to describe having a puppy is 'relentless' lol. It can be hard to see the progress yourself when you're in the thick of it and you spend 80% of your time feeling guilty that you aren't doing enough or enough of the right things. Was great to see my friend for a doggy play date and hear her talk about how well she thought he was doing (and how I was doing). I'm hoping things will feel a little less hopeless by Xmas 🤞
'Relentless' is the perfect word to describe puppy raising!
Thanks so much for making this video! I definitely have the puppy blues. We’ve had our puppy for 6 weeks now and it is getting a little better. I knew adopting a puppy would be really tough and I thought I did everything to prepare. But it’s so much harder than I imagined. Just trying to enjoy this stage because I know this too shall pass.
It helped me thanks
I’m currently experiencing the puppy blues. I just got my Newfoundland puppy, Gordy, on October 19. He’s a little over 9 weeks old and he’s a heathen, but we’re doin our best.
I'm on week one with my 8 week old Newfie (Oso)! I've lived with the breed for almost 20 years now, but this is my first Newfie in the city. Keep at it. They're total Drama-Queens and at times absolute pains as puppies. I swear he pees 5 times in a row...
You'll be rewarded with the sweetest and most loyal monster you've ever met in short time.
About to end week one with my 9 week old beagle, blu. I cried because of him. He has so much energy and owes everywhere and howls when you step away for one second. I just want him to mellow out. I tried to cuddle with him but he peed on my bed
You can get through it!! It’ll be worth it soon!!
OMG YES!!! 3 weeks in to a new Golden Retriever puppy - Louie. Completely adorable but at the same time incredibly exhausting.
Just hearing that I’m not alone is helpful. And I will definitely check out the Puppy Schedule.
We have a trainer coming 1 night every other week and she’s awesome. Potty training is going well - we went from 9-11 accidents (pee) the first few days to none in the last 3 days and he’s starting to go to the door and give a little whine but it meant those first weeks taking him out OFTEN and rewarding/praising every time. He’s getting much better at his naps in his crate throughout the day and he’s a dream dog at night. It’s the biting and chewing and surviving the “zoomies “ or the “half daft hour” I used to call it when my kids were little every night from about 5:30- 6:30.
He exhausts me during the day but I’m determined to do the best I can for him and I believe all of this hard work will pay off but man I’m tired lol
Reading tons of stuff and watching tons of helpful videos - yours are AWESOME!!!
This video made me feel so much better - thank you for the hope 🙏❤️
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This is a tough one for me, as I already feel overwhelmed (what to buy/protecting the house/educating myself/being psychologically ready), and my puppy doesn't come home with me for another six weeks! My husband and I are 55 years old, and I've wanted a dog for the 30 years of our marriage. Kids are done with college, so I figured it was now or never. My grown kids are bummed we didn't get a dog while they were growing up--I regret the choice. I'm a planner and have been reading books and watching training videos. Michelle's are great because she goes beyond just the basics. I realize, now, that no amount of preparation will avoid the blues and frustration--the true experience and learning along the way with an abundance of patience will be required to weather what all you already know. I'm nervous, but I'm not changing plans. Thank you for all your insight.
Thank you for making this video x
Thanks for watching!
thanks
I never heard about puppy blues before your video. This is exactly what I am going through. Thanks for all the information
I've only had Ava for 3 weeks and I'm overwhelmed! My first puppy/dog. Thank you for this video!
It will get better! Hang in there.
This! This is what I needed.
Gr8 video presentation I thoroughly enjoyed this information😊
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This was very educational! Thanks for addressing this! Managing expectations beforehand is really really important.
Glad it was helpful!
I really needed this video right now. I love my sweet puppy Charley so much and we are making progress so I need to celebrate the small wins instead of feeling like I'm failing at the "not-so-great" ones. I was, and still am at times overwhelmed and having anxiety. This video is very encouraging and informative. Thank you.
That's right Monica, celebrate those small wins! You and Charley are both learning more about each other every day. It's very easy to feel overwhelmed with a new puppy in your home. You've got this!
I’m bringing an 8 week old puppy today!! It is something I’ve wanted for a very very long time! I’m a licensed vet tech so I have a lot of knowledge about animals but I’m still feeling anxious and overwhelmed with bringing the pup home today. Thank you so much for the video! Really helped calm me down this morning
I have broken down yesterday. I felt everyone's woes here :(
Be sure if you have a partner, ask for help!
"It takes a village," this holds true! Break downs are normal. You can do this!
You have such a great way of explaining clearly and such a natural positive approach
Aww, thank you for the kind words! 🙂
When I got my puppy, I was still in grieving over my previous dog. I was not expecting a new puppy so soon, so when the puppy blues came they hit hard. I was not ready to accept new love so soon, but now he's 9 months old and despite still being disobedient sometimes, I wouldn't trade him for the world. It really does get better, just takes time too.
Thank you for making this video. Like so many things on social media, no one wants to show vulnerability or failure to others. Yet when we do we find out we are not alone and it gets to be normalised and then we can talk about it and learn from it!
This is so true. Its ok to show the real and raw side of things. I've been training for 20 years. I make mistakes too. We are human and far from perfect. 🥰
PS Michelle, you and your crew are amazing. I don't know what I would have done without your guidance. Your program is well worth it (and, I've only gotten through week 2)!
We are so happy to hear you're enjoying the program!! Thank you for your kinds words 🥰
im so glad i bookmarked this video because after finalizing the day im picking up my puppy i was suddenly knocked over with a wave of anxiety
Thank you for this video, we brought home a new puppy a few weeks ago and its been quite a struggle. Everything you mentioned in this video I have for sure experienced. We have been watching and referring to your videos this whole time though and we are starting to see some progress so thank you for all you do.
Aww, we are so happy to hear you're enjoying the videos and starting to see progress with your puppy. 😍
being in quarantine doing online school to me (someone who has never owned myself a young puppy) sounded sooo nice. it seemed like all the puppy prep videos i watched were so sugarcoated like “be warned puppies are a lot of work!” then onto the best toys to get them. i wish i was warned about puppy blues, and how mouthy they are, especially since my puppy is apparently a very extreme case of teething and mouthiness, he’s a saint bernard lab mix, so he’s pretty big at just around 12ish weeks. his paws are absolutely massive as well and sometimes his claws hurt more than his teeth! after lots of bruising and cuts alllll up and down my arms, hands, legs and feet (not to mention the punctured clothes), my family and i are finally taking him to training lessons because i can’t do this myself! at first i was nervous to speak up to my parents and say, “i know i really really wanted this puppy, but i feel really overwhelmed. could we ask for professional help?” but once i did it was so relieving. finally everyone was starting to see what they didn’t while i was left home and they were at work. i do feel pretty good about myself though for not hitting him because i can understand the fact that he’s just a puppy, and everything is sooo fun and exciting! clothes and wiggly fingers are sooo hard to ignore. i have gotten preeetty dang far with him and teaching him how to do sit and down, so it’s also very rewarding! and to think i’ve only had him a few weeks now!
Thank you so much for this video. I am deep in the Puppy Blues. We are in the 3rd week of this and I was ready to bring him back to the breeder. I am the only one in my family that is feeling this overwhelmed and anxious. It is so hard! What is so frustrating is that this is the 3rd puppy that I have had in the past 17 years. Its like I totally forgot what it would be like. This video gives me hope and I am a new subscriber.
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Thank you i really needed to see this video, getting my first ever puppy in december :)
You're so welcome!
Three weeks with pup and the last two days have been pretty overwhelming. A heady combo of frustration, sleep deprivation, feeling inadequate and unable to do the right thing for pup, judged by neighbours/family etc., are all feeding into this horrid, burdensome feeling. Reading the comments has given some reassurance that what I’m experiencing at the moment is a common thing. I have wanted (almost needed) a dog for my entire life and I have every faith that pup and I will both turn a corner, but as it stands we’re very much in the trenches and this is undoubtedly a slog of epic proportions.
Hang in there, it won't always feel this way. Adding a new pup to your home definately changes the home dynamic but with training and creating a consistent routine you and pup will soon start feeling better together.
Our Shiba Inu puppy is 12 weeks old now. I am so glad I experienced puppy blues for only one day after our new puppy bit my whole family, especially my youngest daughter everywhere. I questioned if it was a mistake to adopt her. I asked myself, "why am I creating more work for myself?" I almost cried. I am lucky to have my 2 daughters supporting me. Somehow, our puppy slowed her biting after I looked into her eyes and talked to her. She seemed to understand. But it's not as hard compared to raising my 3 children by myself at night, working full time in the day and my husband working full time at night.
Today marks a week since I brought Zoe home. And I'm definitely experiencing the puppy blues. I thought I was the only one. Thank you so much for this video. I'm exhausted. And she keeps biting my feet and toes and hands. I try to redirect her with chew toys, but she just keeps on. She's a little thing but she is feisty for sure! She's barely six weeks old. I already love her but I just wish she would stop biting me.
I have the puppy blues! My Milo wants friends and I feel so sad for him, he hasn’t had all of his shots yet but in a week he will get the rabies shot, also he bites... a lot and I have done everything to help soothe his gums, going for walks... he just flops on the grass or I have to carry him. I love him so much and I will NOT give up on him! He’s getting better with potty training. It’s work and a lot more work than what I have intended on being but I love the journey with him.
thank you for the information been following your channel since ive got my first puppy 4 weeks a go he is 12 weeks now , he is been good in the crate at nite BUT he still biting , not listen the command and YES i am preety sure ive got puppy blues , my husband not really helping at all he had 3 dogs before , i am sooooooo overwhelmed
Hi Michele, we got our pup three weeks ago. He is a 12 weeks old Malshi. Thank you for the video. I was one of those who answer your poll just when I was crying and feeling frustrated. I know about the term in one of your videos and I immediately related the term with what I was experienced last week. I remember passing through the baby blues (20 years ago) and I know the puppy blues will pass as well. In our case, everybody in the family wanted a puppy but me because I knew it is a lot of work and in the end, I would be the one doing the training, the cleaning, and everything. I said no for 12 years! you may imagine my thoughts... just like you mention in your video. The good thing is that I talked again with the family members and they are helping me more. I want to enjoy the puppy now that he is very little. He is a good dog, he sleeps from 8pm to 5.30 am -600 am, he is learning the games. He sits on command, last Sunday, and today we had no accidents, he is not bitting the leash anymore. I am learning how to read his cues, and I am excited to teach him more games. I reflect on what I did wrong and I came to the conclusion that I was teaching him tons of things during the first week. So I went back to the basics, just working on potty training and crate, the sit command, and trying to pay attention to his signals and I am trying to be more patient with myself (very hard task). So the first week of 30 days to puppy perfection had been two weeks and a half, but it is OK. Sorry for the long post. Thanks again for your support.
I love that you had a sit down with the family. That's such an important piece to the puzzle. Everyone has to be consistent. I also love that you're seeing progress and recognizing when you have to take a step or two back.
Thank you for sharing your progress. 🥰
You guys are going to do great!! Keep up all the awesome work.
Wow yes this is exactly what I’ve been going through! I thought we were as prepared as we could be, knowing a puppy would be hard. But a puppy on top of the multiple jobs we have between my husband and I, as well as unexpected living conditions, is driving me insane. It’s been only a week, but I cried like from day 2 to day 6 because of how stressful everything was. Our baby is so so sweet, but is just very uninterested in us and in most things, except grass and dirt. So far we can pick her up thank goodness, but she’s getting heavier and heavier each day. Luckily my husband and I are working as a team and going one day at a time since that’s all we can do honestly
I'm so happy to hear you two are working as a team together. 🥰
The comment section and video is keeping me hopeful I’ll be back after 3 weeks so far it’s dayb3 we are making progress but day 2 I cried like a baby 😭😭😭 ready to return him back but I truly believe it will get better knowing I’m not alone !
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This is really encouraging! I feel like I’ve gone through boughts of the puppy blues at least 3 times since we got our pup 2 months ago. The worst is when I feel like I am working so hard at training and sticking to a consistent schedule and he is just not getting it or is being straight up manipulative (whining or doing the opposite of the command even when he knows what to do).
We’re gonna keep putting in the work but man all day yesterday I couldn’t stop crying during every potty break, every meal time, every nap time. My whole life revolves around him and I don’t think I was as prepared for that as I thought I was.
It’s also very social isolating bc you can’t leave the pup alone for more than a few hours. So no drinks after work with coworkers, or weekends at the lake house, or long sporting events/ shows. I miss being able to be out in the world for more than 2 hours at a time
New puppies are so much work but it gets better! The training is just much more time intensive in the first year. But you're setting the stage for a well mannered dog who can hang out at home while you go out with friends. You're not there yet but you'll get there!
I picked up my puppy 3 days ago and she cried as soon as we left the fosters house. The first night she cried so much. She cried in the pen I’d set up. She had to be carried to the carrier when she was asleep. I got 2 hours of sleep the first night. Last night was a bit better. I’ve had dogs before they were all adults and larger dogs. I am so anxious I can’t sleep or nap when she’s sleeping. I’m a mess. I cry often and my well meaning family just tells me to relax. And I’m doing this by myself and I’m a 7 hour drive away from my nearest relative. So thanks for this video and everyone’s comments.
I thought I was the only one! We got our puppy 2 days ago and I had an anxiety attack on my bathroom floor last night. I thought that I had made a HUGE mistake getting the pup, but today i’m feeling much better. A lot of accidents (thank the Lord for pee pads) but also super cute moments!
Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Glad I’m not alone.
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definitly been frustrated with our first puppy and then our second, though I do think what helped us through was when he did things like cuddle up to us and he loves to sleep on our laps and we just saw the love he had for us and the affection (when he wasn't being a little monster) and we knew that all this was worth it.
So sorry we are just seeing this comment now. I apologize that we didn’t see it sooner. We hope all is well with you and your pup.
This is really helpful info and very reassuring. Im thinking about getting my first dog/ puppy and I am nervous about it. I have lots of experience with dogs and cats but I didn’t realize there was such a thing as puppy blues! Very good to know!!
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I didn’t even know about the puppy blues until I watched some puppy training videos recently and omg it explains it all how I’ve been feeling lately and I feel bad about it 😭 I hope it’s over soon!
Yes, it's a real thing. You are not alone! If you need more support, we could love to help answer any questions your have in the Puppy Training with Michele Lennon Facebook group: howtotrainadreamdog.com/FB-group
I'm so glad I'm not alone here, I got the puppy blues straight from week one, its the end of week three now and I've sobbed on the kitchen floor multiple times, hubbby has been in the other room editing footage with me in the lounge and the tears just came. The frustration is so horrible. He slept in the crate after four days but those first three nights were dreadful. I've grown up with dogs, but this is the first dog i've been responsible for from day dot. It IS getting better!
How is it now??
I expected it to be difficult but I’d never thought the puppy would growl and bark at our son every time he enters the room. He’s amazing with animals, doesn’t bother the puppy, even leaves the room to sneeze because he doesn’t want to scare the puppy. My husband and I were literally crying yesterday because we’d never seen our son so disappointed and sad, he doesn’t understand what he did wrong and why the puppy is being mean to him. The rest is actually going pretty well, the puppy’s been eating, playing and drinking well, she’s not scared of our vacuum cleaner or cars outside, the first bath was ok. No idea what the problem is.
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This is a GREAT video. Was looking for some guidance after a hard day with the pup. I have puppy Blues but I doesn’t mean I don’t love him endlessly. Thank you!
Glad it was helpful!
I didn't even know there is a term for this feeling~ totally cried ugly the first month i got my puppies~ i have two littermates and they constantly get into trouble and i got frustrated~ i would just sit there look at them and cry thinking they would be happier with a better parent than me~ now things are getting better, they are 5 months today, crate trained~ i take them to dog parks almost everyday~ they are making friends and i am too~ still many more things to work on but I'm glad i didn't give up~
I’m so glad that I am not alone. It is true, if you go looking for help, you will find it. This brings some comfort in my puppy journey.
You are so right. You are not alone! If you need more support, we could love to help answer any questions your have in the Puppy Training with Michele Lennon Facebook group: howtotrainadreamdog.com/FB-group
Thank you! thank you! I was very concerned feeling the puppy blues [he's 16 week old mini Australian shepherd]. He's been rebeling... A Lot😅 but he suddenly as I was getting ready to walk him put two paws on my shoulders (tiny hug like move) blew me away. I gotta remember the great moments to overcome the not so fun moments lol.
Yes, think of all the good moments and remember pup is still so little and has a lot more to learn!
The thing that keeps me going is remembering my first dog. We had her for 14 years, and she was a clever athletic collie lke our current puppy. When I think about her, I don't remember the sleepless nights or accidents from the first few months, I remember all the great walks, and just having my little best friend in the background of everything I did! Right now I'm tired, frustrated, hungry, etc, but I won't always be
You're right, things won't always be this way! Patience is key. And it will be helpful to remember that all dogs are different. You are not alone! If you need more support, we would love to help answer any questions you have in the Puppy Training with Michele Lennon Facebook group: howtotrainadreamdog.com/FB-group
We love our almost 4 months old mini aussie. Yes, he is a lot of work and can be a monster at times but he is also a loving sweetheart. He has brought our family closer. I wouldnt trade him for the world.
This is absolutely heartwarming! Best of luck to you and your pup ❤️
i watched so many videos before getting my puppy so i knew it was goiing to be tough but i didnt know it would be this tough, i have wanted to get rid of him at times and have cried this afternoon, thank god for the crate, it helps him to calm down and gives me space to breath. please keep doing these videos it has definitley made me feel better knowing i am not alone
You are not alone
I have them now! 3 months after I got my little Rosee! She drives me nuts and I go crazy sometimes but I would never ever just give her up! No matter how frustrated I am! No one deserves that.
I'm also experiencing puppy anxiety! i keep thinking she will somehow get into something or eat something that will harm her, she puts everything in her mouth!
Got 2 Shibas bro/sis
now 12 wks. They are a handful to say the least. Are beginning to learn what NO and Let Go mean. Frustrating and humorous at the same time🙃 Hang in first timers. It does get better and they'll be your best friend.
I was looking for this comment! I literally cried today all as my pup started chocking on a leaf or stick she picked up outside! I wasn’t fast enough to remove it from her mouth😢 I really hope she will make it into adulthood. I blame myself for all the errors and mistakes I have been making😢
I was the same and i called for help everywhere including GP. I started throwing up and non stop crying. Like a destiny I met a beautiful family ( just about next street one minute from my house) who were deperate to have a puppy and so life experienced, took him from me on Day 9. The new family keeps sending me photo of the puppy and I am actually happy that he went to the right family with two kids who would play with him all day.
I grew up with so many dogs and I am very good with dog training. But having a new puppy was a totally different level. I now strongly believe that puppys are better with families, kids can play with the puppy, parents can just watch them relax, puppy can have heaps of playtime, it is just so much better environment for a puppy than a single person in a small house.
I feel for you everyone and i respect everyone who went through it succesfully.
I am very sad my lovely puppy went to a new family but I am really happy that he went to the right family spending quality time there instead of watching me crying and anxious.
Good luck with everyone. ❤
I learnt
You did the right thing. Sometimes it just not the right time in life, and that's okay! Congrats on finding a lovely home for your new puppy. Thank you for sharing your story.
I appreciate this video so much.
So good to know that i was not the only one feeling overwhelm and feel like i should do better.
I am about two weeks in with my new puppy and my feeling go through such a rollercoaster.
Today i was hidden from my puppy, trying to have some lunch peacefully.
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I went through this about a year and a half ago, I’m so thankful I got through it
Yes! It's so nice to get on the other side and have an adult dog! Puppies are cute but they are a lot of work!
"Be patient"
Like yeah hold on lemme just flip the switch in my head that rewires my thinking process into being patient. Never knew it was that easy.
😂 so true!!! How *do* you teach patience to yourself (or other humans)?
I am always telling my toddlers “I know, it’s so hard to be patient”, give them a hug and if needed I sing a little song I made up about how hard it is to be patient... it seems to help... sometimes I find myself saying these things to myself in my head and even singing the song! Haha. Maybe it doesn’t help a whole lot, but it does make me laugh at myself and that definitely distracts me from my frustration!
I wish I knew the magic formula. My best guess is to validate your feelings, try to be an optimist about the situation, make yourself laugh, or give yourself a hug and when all else fails there is chocolate! 😂😂
Brought my puppy home 3 days ago and I’m going through it! This video and these comments have helped a lot.
So glad you have been watching and found our videos helpful! Stay tuned.
I could listen to you talk about puppy behavior and training ALL day! You're amazing, thanks for the videos :)
Thank you for your kind words 🥰
Wow! This video is sooooo timely. Just got a puppy yesterday and already had a breakdown 😫. So good to hear this (hopefully) this time goes by fast.
Hang in there! It will get better. Pup just needs a little transition time.
How are you doing? I just got a puppy today and now I'm here lol
ohh yeah, I got my first Great Dane puppy over 10 years ago and I wanted her so bad, read and watched things for months and I remember sitting down and crying after putting her in her crate like day 3 of her being home and deciding she didn't like me and was never going to lol like OMG CANT DO THIS, I was soo upset and anxious and mad at myself for getting a puppy so I thought I was insane after I wanted her so badly! Anyway, she definitely did like me and she was my best friend and sweetest dog on the planet for 10 years of course. Sat on top of me whenever possible that whole time. Having to put her down months ago was so devastating. Important to remember it will be worth all the trouble and time you're putting in.
Picking up another dane puppy in a few weeks and I'm pretty sure the puppy blues will happen again but at least I'm prepared for that part and have some reference now, even though I've had a puppy I am now accustomed to having a older dog who's extremely calm and well behaved for years so going back to 10 years ago w dane puppy nightmare is going to be a challenge!! Can't wait though.