Toxic Pick-Me's Dangerous Advice Endangers All Women | "Be Polite To Men Who Hit On You"
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A wise woman once said ‘being nice might get you killed’.
A friend's dad told her when she was 12, "it's okay to be rude" in regards to strangers pursuing her. He understood the psychology of how girls are socialized to be polite and respectful and how older men weaponize that against them. He also gave her "permission" in a way, as a man to be rude to other men. Most young girls need some kind of encouragement or permission because they're too young to have that level of confidence. Regardless of who says it: tell your young daughters this and repeat often.
Be rude to creeps
Never ever be nice to men. Even if they're not interested in you it still doesn't work out well for other reasons.
@@lillierose5304this. I told my baby sister to never ne nice to or help males. That's how Ted Bundy operated...looked for women that would "help him".
Men: We are strong and alpha!
Also men: Boohoo! She didnt give me her phone number😢😢 let me throw a tantrum...😤
Yep, mantrums and male tears everywhere, yet they are so emotionally in control.
@@ImaniForester 🤣🤣🤣 they are walking contradictions
😂 YUP. Fun fact, a 25 year old XY has the same level of impulse control as a 10 year old girl. Stay safe ladies
MEN ARE LOGICAL
@@digimonalvatrax2738 how if they are throwing tantrums for a simple no
Pick Mes are truly dangerous
i got to really think that they are more dangerous than men
if hitting on women had no harmful consequences and men were always polite while hitting on them and took no for an answer women would be polite to them too
In my more radical days, I would have questioned why we even accept the violent language they use to describe interactions with us. Say what you want about gen z but rizzing at least evokes some imagery of wooing or flirting. hitting on sound exactly like “give me your number or I’ll get angry” 😂
💯 Exactly, they're upset at the consequences after they prove themselves to be unsafe
@@tyturner7110it’s literally called “hitting” on. A technical variation is “bashing on”, but the only difference is one of cultural slang.
If this woman has daughters, they are in serious trouble. 😢😮
Poor baby girls were probably touched by the males in the family and the b*tch did nothing.
Have you noticed that the pick me never get picked😂😂
Right, those desperate women are pathetic, wanting lowlife males to harass them
Yep. They're basically Femcels who would welcome any male interaction (even from the creepy ones).
And when they do they get cheated on and dogged out heavy
@shanicrystal8671 and they forgive the men and blame themselves
Why can't she make a song for dudes asking them why it's so hard for them to be nice to us.
🤣🤣🤣 FOR REAL - literally. LOVE the response songs
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
True ! She is too busy speaking re* pil* men ideas from her mouth. Mens feelings are more important to her than women´s lives. She is disgus***.
Cuz she's a fucking PICK ME
Exactly
At this point, i walk fast and avoid eye contact. Women just wanna be able to EXIST without being damn bothered.
If I ever become this much of a pick me, please someone put me out my misery!
🤭🤭 same
😂😂😂
@summermarie5626 Thats an oath baby! I expect you to take my ass out as well if I start endangering other ladies like this!!
😂🤣💖✨️
You can’t be nice to them all, they take it as a form of consent and don’t read between the lines to leave you alone. The male ego is as fragile as melted butter. If you keep giving a ‘soft no’, they never understand that ‘no’ is a complete sentence.
If you were an ounce of nice, no matter how harshly you reject them... They still push
It's absolutely predatory. It's their way of finding out the "weakest" to pursue because to them, being nice is being weak. It happened to me so often when I was young and didn't know how to deal with the relentless pursuit.
Tell your daughters, "don't be afraid to be rude" because that's what they're counting on. Women and esp girls are conditioned to be nice and never rude. Being rude isn't a crime esp compared to the crimes they will commit if you're nice.
@@lemon1657oddly enough I've noticed they relax better around women that are not nice to them a pick me would definitely be nice to them not always though because they don't really get along well with gay men, lesbian or feminists so often times they are like wannabe trad wives they may of gotten picked a few times in there lives they did everything a good wife was supposed to do and still they didn't get picked there just as single as cat ladies if you really look at it only I see being a cat lady as a sign of wealth and having a dusty bf from another race as a sign of poverty.
It’s giving “boy mom” energy. Like her son didn’t get the “wow, omg I’m so flattered and you are so great and amazing and handsome and I would totally date you if only…” type of no. He got the no, cut scene, no notes, type of no.
Yh right 😂 and they want women to accept their dusty sons like it's a check mark to their upbringing that females like my son because ohh I taught him well so he can't be rejected.
I'm seeing it from that perspective. I don't know if I'm making sense.
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Omg, I see it! And it does give boy mom vibes
Yes, she is advocating for her sweet mama boy that was refused by that bad bad bum girl who should have rather feel honoured by her petit prince giving that evil gurl some attention. So the mum said hold my beer sweety, your mummy will arrange it for you. And this is how she started singing.
Or slapped
As a woman myself I don’t claim that cringy woman or her stupid song
@twinkletee22 Amen!!!! I'm also INSANELY proud that everyone has said their peace and explained what they're feeling, without just attacking the pick me, and denigrating her body or style!!
Very proud, and I'd expect nothing less from this group!
Imani has done a kick ass job on focusing the group to be intelligent and come up with solutions, plans for the group, and civilized discussions 💞💞💞💞
It makes it SO MUCH HARDER for people to say the group hates men; when we clearly don't, it's the opposite. We KNOW they can do better and refuse to accept the bullshit.
Phone companies need to make it so you can call the cops while taking a video
Or while you’re connecting to cops video is on audio too. Cause we can’t FaceTime 911 ? Can we. ? This very good idea 👍 maybe you invent something. But yes your right to connect location right away and video audio
Inb4 creepy men start calling to demonstrate their dicks, similarly to how they call crisis help lines to hear a woman's voice and get off to making her uncomfortable.
This is a very good idea!
Great idea !
@BigBiteDoughnut this is fcking genius!!!! I'm making an app, I'll msg you when it's done to get you on the pay wheel!
Btch we're doing this!!!!!!!!!!!! 💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞🤣😂
He asked to help me with my bags off the train, and I told him no, but he hung around and wouldn't go, he kept harassing me so I searched around to see a conductor to tell him to leave me alone.
Scary. Thank you for sharing and sorry this happened to you.
I clapped and sang the song 🎶 while reading your comment.
lol what a manly task to ask a woman to help a man with his luggage 😂
I've unfortunately made the mistake of being nice to men over and over again. I regret it every time. It never works out well. Men view you in a sexual way, so unless you're interested in him in that way, don't be nice.
That's all they view any female as: nothing but sexual objects. I feel sorry for their sisters and daughters. You seriously can't even look at them without them thinking you want them
Men are always looking for a transaction. It's rare they will be nice just for the sake of being good people.
So many get surprised when they get into relationships with men then eventually figure out their life becomes transaction after transaction. They don't even keep in touch with their own friends out of care and concern. They contact eachother if they want something or if they're bored and need "something" to alleviate the boredom. Not because they care.
I remember a speech by Elisabeth Gilbert when she talked about how Jesus is regarded as a messiah by just doing what the average woman has always done. Except the average woman wasn't elevated and worshipped.
Ever if a woman was regarded in that way, she would have been accused of sorcery, killed and never heard of again. Not have a major religion modeled after them.
Alot of males view politeness as you being interested in them.
@@winning3329 yes
Actually, even if you are interested in him, you still shouldn't be 'nice'. He will disrespect you and think he can treat you badly.
Ive always said desperate women and pick mes bring dangerous situations to other women and should not be in your friends circle.
Decades ago, I had a "friend" like that. We couldn't go anywhere without her saying, "don't look now but that guy is checking you out." My answer was always, "I don't care. If he was interested, he'd approach me politely." She was very manipulative and would wear me down until she'd convince me to talk to men I would usually ignore. It never worked in my favour.
Fast forward to recent times and EVERY one she associated with in our small town has dropped her, even those who were close friends to her. Everyone finally figured out she was bad news.
I was nice to a man and he followed me all the way to the subway station.
Unless youre paying my bills I dont owe you kindness and respect.
After many negative interactions, I cannot even make eye contact to any men in public. I walk my head high ignoring them like they are all a bunch of ghost. And I can still feel they stare...
Yes they consider even accidentally looking at them an invitation to be standing over your table seconds later.
I’m not even attractive, and I know that some men who are extremely desperate, will take your politeness and mistake it for some kind of attraction or something.
Omg I thought I was insane for not even wanting to make eye contact let alone even greet them cause they get it inside their head that you want them. I wasn’t nothing but ten years old when I went to the store to get some snacks after playing with my friends and this man who had to have been in his twenties tried following me but little did he know, my mom was lurking cause she didn’t want me going to the store alone and she approached him, saying,” She’s only ten years old.”
@@fieryblaze1737 what is crazy, is that isn't even enough sometimes.
I will go out of my way to not be approached if I have a feeling it might happen.
2 weeks ago, I was walking to an appointment. Notice a guy going the same direction and I knew the next intersection have traffic lights that takes forever. I stayed 15m behind on purpose not to be close to him, and when noticing he was turning around to look at me, I decided to cross to another direction and pick up a coffee instead of walking the same direction as him.
Guess what... Before I reached the coffee shop he was standing in front of me, blocking my way, introducing himself, offering me his hand to shake and complimenting me, asking for my name.
The guy stank of BO, was wearing running gears,.. The audacity.
I looked at his hand like if it was alien, said "I am not interested in having a conversation" and then walked passed him to enter the coffee shop.
It is exhausting.
Wear sunglasses & if they think you looked at them say you weren’t or ignore them
the choice to use a children's melody to address potentially dangerous adult behavior is condescending and shows a lack of awareness of 'the big picture' in a way that is unbelievable and ridiculous. I agree with "👏👏no".
I had a guy beat me up and break into my house because I rejected him
THAT HORRIFICC I AM SO SORRY I HOPE HE IS IN JAILLL
Yikes...im so sorry...😢 is he in jail!?
@@copperredd only for a week and he bailed himself out and he still stalks me to this day on social media and messages my friends 😭😩☠️ the police barely did shit
@KaitlynChavarria-tk9gz I'm so sorry love, I wish the police weren't so damn useless.
"WhY dOeSn'T aNyOnE rEpOrt--" because it does nothing except make it worse majority of the time. 🙄
Learn to use a pewpew darlin, learn to clean it, and how to carry safely. Get a shocker and keep it in your purse or pocket.
Studies show that they don't just lose interest, they escalate.
Please stay safe, PLEASE keep a diary of every single interaction, and TELL YOUR FRIEND AND FAMILY!!
The more people that know and can keep an eye out, the better!
💞💞💞💖💖💖✨️✨️✨️✨️
Be safe and take care of yourself darlin!!
@@KaitlynLoveXoIf that's the case, Second amendment rights are yours also!
Women should not feel forced to give numbers, social media handles to any man under duress. This has to stop, it really 🤬me off. I didn’t make it through the video because that singing was too much❤
Yeah she was annoying.
Even my wedding ring doesn't turn them off nowadays 😅😅😅
I hate pickmes. Why can’t they just leave women alone and go after the men? I’m not putting myself in danger just because men have hurt feelings.
Dont be nice to them EVER. they dont deserve politeness, dont even look at them or interact with them, make them feel invisible as possible.
Last night I was sitting in my car with my dogs, parked off to the side in a Taco Bell parking lot. To the farther right of the front door. No cars around me AT ALL. An old man comes up from the back on my passenger side and I can tell he is looking in my car, but I let it be. He goes in. Minutes later, I am still parked there, totally minding my business, and he comes out. He walks STRAIGHT up to my driver's side, less than 3 feet away from my vehicle. And I FEEL his eyes just staring into my car. Almost instantly, my dog that usually never barks at anyone but is reactive to other dogs? She's BARKING at him. I didn't make eye contact, threw my seatbelt on, and put my vehicle in reverse and left. My DOG could even tell how weird that was.
Do not be nice. Being creepy does NOT deserve niceness.
Because they see any politeness as invitation to proceed further with their sh**.
Exactly. And when you reject them politely they don't stop or all of a sudden you're a fkn bitch, etc. women should not even give these beings the pleasure of seeing their body. Cover up and don't dress provocatively.
Pick me´s are dangerous, they can get you in all sort of big trouble. As soon as you spot one do not interact with them any more. She will probably find out the truth the hard way. Men words are coming out of her mind.
Can we talk about why she chose a children’s song to address grown women? Says a lot about her mental state if you think about it.
That threw me as well. Speaks to her and the type of men she's defending childishness.
Because it’s a simple rhythm!! Duh
It's because she most likely has a male child fathered by a man she agrees with no matter what he does.
if you are polite to a creep, you BET you wont shake him off and only encourage him to go after you. My friend rejected a creepy man who wanted attention and he was towering over her acting like he was not listening. Her male and female friends were more harsh and this old creep was threatening to start a fight... in bright daylight around crowd of ppl
this woman needs to be forced to watch the show "I Survived". 80% of the stories are about women who get kidnapped off the street and SA'd. also she must not know that marriage by kidnap used to be real worldwide! and it's still legal in some places!
GEN X HERE AND ALL I GOT TO SAY IS
I
AM SO PROUD OF ALL YALL
U R HERE TO WALK YOUR PATH AND EVOLVE AS HUMANS
U R NOT HERE TO BE THE TOY OR THE WHIPPING POST FOR SOMEONE ELSES SELF HATE
I AM SO PROUD OF YALL
BLESS YALL AND FEEL YOUR POWER
🙏🏾💕
Fellow gen X here. Yas! These channels are so important.
I don't even make eye contact but they still wont take a hint smh.......
Its never enough for some men, so do what is best for your safety and future peace of mind.
He asked for a bottle of water and when I came back with it he grabbed me by the throat. Lucky my coworkers that he didn't know were there matched his energy. That's why.
WTFF IS WRONG WITH THESE MENN
What!? 😢 what happened after!?
Ask them how much money they make as the first thing you say to them i'm sure that'll hurt their ego & run away
😂😂😂
@@nooneasked32 Ask a woman about her weight or age and watch her ego crumble
@@pacmiller7564Ok. women are not the ones who pursue y'all so what's your point? I'm sure when an XY disturbs a women to ask for her # he can see her weight and age. I thought y'all were supposed to be the logical ones, that was a purely over emotional and illogical comment
@@pacmiller7564 Also, sounds like you are endorsing P3do0. Files. I wouldn't be surprised if you and your kind (redpillers) were all on meghans law
@@pacmiller7564Also, sounds like you are endorsing P3do0. Files. I wouldn't be surprised if you and all the other XYs who think this way end up on Meghan's law
I once had a guy come up to me at a laundromat and ask me “Do you have babies?” no intro, no nothing. I was one of the few lucky ones in that he took “My dryer just stopped I gotta go” for an answer.
Also. Taser Girl 👍😎👍 I wanna hang out with her
Gotta love the taser girl! She has the right energy.
No no no do not be nice to creeps that makes them think you want them around when you don’t we do not owe anybody nice pleasantries, that was the stupidest cringiest embarrassing song I ever heard in my life
This is one of the most important chanels on this fckn platform. thank you for doing this and sharing wisdom, knowledge and awareness👏 💛✨
Thank you so much!!💕💕
This a lesson in learning after the weekend 😭
I'm so loving the palm women clapping back. The black guy was on point.
I can’t believe at her big age she got on TT to sing that song 😳😭like… GIRL!!
“Cuz I don’t want it to happen to you.”
This. This right here.
4:30 - That girl, chef's kiss! ❤
i'm glad that woman deleted her entire account
Thank you! This made me cry!
Kudos to everyone with a literal clap back. I'm truly sorry for what you have endured. I've been there myself along with countless others. Society needs to do better by all of us.
Learn a few sign language signs … men hate extra effort lol
Every time she claps twice, she’s actually saying pick me!
Stephany ffing nailed it with the cucumber chop
Shoutout to mama for making a song 😊 id sing songs like this to my kis if i had any
I was a skinny, boobless, flat bottomed, 11 year old girl, the first time an uncle stopped his car to talk to me. He asked me my name, where I live and if I wanted to come with him or meet him somewhere. I wish I had not been trained to be polite and accomodating. I did not get in the car because my cousin walked up the road and came up to me. Did not even know what that was about until I was older and had gone through lots of encounters like that.
I love the taser girl. You practice pressing the button on that taser so that in an emergency the response is smooth and without hesitation.
The vein diagram of Pick Me's and Boy Mom's is a hell infested globe.
just like how that guy on the video said it a lose-lose situation being polite makes them think that your into them and making them think that your acting hard to get so again being polite it just not worth it .
These responses are fire, they are so talented.
I can't be kind to creeps who hit on me...
I won't be kind to creeps so I can breathe
Because last time I was polite
'brother came to my room at night
And gave extra trauma for all my life 👏🏽👏🏽
Yeah. He told my parents I liked it. I was 10.
I'm so sorry that he did that to you, I hope you are healing day by day and got the support you needed.
Or men can leave women alone.
Is it that difficult to be nuanced?
I seriously wonder what she means by “hit on” because harassment and assault are not it. Some men don’t know the difference or simply don’t care how they come across while others simply don’t have good intentions.
I think I can speak for myself as well as many other women when I say that we don’t have a problem being polite to men who approach us politely and know how and when to back off.
I love how poetic we are. It rhymes and all
The way the Internet clowned this woman SMH she made it easy clapping to a nursery rhyme but wow 😂😂😂
Oh gawd! Don’t even get me started on some of them not being able to take no as an answer. I’ll never forget I worked with some weird mother and son who got mad after they tried scheming to get me to date her son. I wasn’t attracted to him and she harassed me, gave me evil eye anytime I seen her as well as gave people sob stories, pointing out I was the one who didn’t like her son. She even tried following me one day and I had to get up and move somewhere else just to keep her away from me cause she wouldn’t go away.
A guy like that will be single forever.
He needs to be single forever. Society and the dating world don’t need mommas boys to the extreme in the way.
The way I would've ran to HR, sis!
The woman that tells the story about being pregnant in the 7-Eleven I love, especially her sarcasm. It’s just so ridiculous to even entertain the idea that we need to be nice to anybody that gives us attention
3:25👏 my favorite
I'm just gonna come out and say it cuz people are tiptoeing around the fact that....... she doesn't look like she gets hit on often.... when u have to mentally prepare yourself everytime u leave the fckn house to be harassed ,fearing for your safety....... you don't give a fck about being polite to them.... wtf...... if everytime men left the house ... women were at every corner asking them for money and favors.... then cussing them out when they refuse..... they'll probably get it
They would enjoy that. If it were men who were a foot taller and 50 to 100 lbs heavier than them saying and approaching them as they do women, that would teach them.
They need to feel the fear. Having women they can overpower who ask for money or favours isn't a threat at all. It's an ego boost because men claim that they "need to be needed."
Put the fear into them.
After too many times of working with male co workers and being polite and nice to them (as all humans should be), they always took my politeness as an invitation, and they would touch or speak to me inappropriately. Got so bad I had to hide from them at the work place, steering clear of them and when leaving, I had to duck out too fast for anyone to see me. Most of the time they were in supervisor positions, so I feared if I called them out I'd lose my job. Now I don't even want to be polite to any man in the work place, like every again. Just be a robot. Do not talk more than whatever the job needs. Don't be friends with male co workers, because they always take advantage of that and get so creepy
6:29 this one gave me chills and i almost cried. All fax no printer.
That stems from the stupid idea that a man hitting on a woman is a sign of interest. It is not. One respects what one fears to lose if one does not behave properly. Hitting on women randomly is about reaffirming his power to do and say whatever he wants to women to no consequence. And no matter the consequence, being ignored, politely denied or even openly rejected are all consequences he will not tolerate, for he expects none. Women, be unpleasant, be self-centered, be free to belong only to yourself, but mostly, undo the belief that interested men might hit on you on public places. Interested men will show their interest and offer you an out; abusers won't.
Wow very true!!!!!!!
People like her don't love themselves. They have little self-respect for themselves.
Being nice to them - you're playing with your life! Keep S &W close by ladies. That's the world they've created with their foolishness and also the one we live in, act accordingly.
Yes! I choose 2A. It applies to men and women!
Yes! I choose 2A. It applies to men and women!
Being polite got me stalked by the janitor at my job for 6 months.
AYE YALL WAS SNAPPING ERRYBODY MY HEART IS OVERJOYED AT INTELLIGENT HUMANS YALL CUTE ❤🎉
Omg 10:34 🤣😂 yes baby!!! Just cause your a minor, doesn't mean you can't be strapped with SOMETHING!!!!! 💞💞💞💞💞💞
I love that trans one ❤❤❤ yes the reason most terrible things happen to women is because of men
I had a friend who told me how sure can i be after refusing to sleep with him. I had to say no multiple times for him to get the memo and then he made up this excuse that it's the engineer in him who wants to know why I refused. I never talked to him again
Gross. *uck off is a complete sentence.
Seeing the baby with the tazer was funny 😂 love this new generation ❤ be mean and selfish babies. It will save your life.
12:44 YES MAMA!!!!! Bring her up knowing she doesn't have to shrink herself to not get hurt!!! ✨️✨️✨️✨️💖💖💖💖😭😭😭😭
12:42 Every mother needs to teach their children this
The original meaning of the word nice meant foolish. So no I'm not going to be nice.
Piano man changed it all up 😂
Sick of this stupid song
I love this so much. Tfs!🖤💫
We all started out polite…
Bless her for not having learned better. I wish we could all have the privilege of being this naive.
“No”…thank you. I’m not making a song for this. I said No.
Ok, the topic is very serious. However I also admire the absolute creativity of some of the answers. Anger really can be a source of creativity. 😅😆
She will never get picked. Not by a man who respects her.
4:49 this!
I’m thinking the couger-coat pick- me has six trafficking vibes. I’d stay the hell away from that Gillain wanna-be.
I was nice to a man once and he cornered me in a corner and kissed me, i was so scared and didnt know where that came from. Im so scared to be in the same room as him. He confused my niceness to me saying yes to him, he did not even say anything to signal he was into me. Im still traumatized
The lady in the green T-shirt is really smart.
she asks to be polite because she thinks that’s the reason men don’t hit on her 😂
When men flirt and show interest in a beautiful way of course we are polite even when we don't like them. But saying vulgar things is whole other deal.
A) This was painful to listen to OOF. Lol lots of literally, musically tonedeaf responses 😅
B) the piano man's response was fantastic!
C) I recently learned that Safeway used to have a policy for their cashiers to say something like "thank you Mr. Smith for shopping with us" as customers left. It went normal most of the time, when male cashiers said it to male customers, or female cashiers to female customers, etc. But female cashiers saying to male customers was the beginning of countless stalking cases. These deranged men took a polite corporate statement as flirting, as the invitation of their dreams. CRAZY, DELULU men! The store eventually walked back the policy.
I remember. There was a reason why they stopped it.
The local Starbucks started that mess of asking for your name to put on your cup. I was friends with one of the managers and explained to him why that isn't a good idea and why some people, especially women, will give fake names.
Fortunately pick mes dont get picked😊
Good video. Please look up Ruth George.
4:44 this
Be nice but firm don’t talk to kill time or anything to be nice thry don’t need to know you.. especially minors .
“ITS NOT ALL MEN!……but it’s 97% of woman?🤭
Ok so if all of u are saying no how is that makes u a pick me? 😂is that dumb song?
The only pickme was the originator of the song, the responses came from women with their own experiences of why NOT to follow her advice, and the men in the video agreed
Still looks dumb singing that song. Better they should ask themselves Y trashy men approach you!
When should a man approch you?
Next time please do without the clapping white women, their sentiment was very annoying!
I liked them.
Don't be racist
It goes with the song tho?
Stop being racist!
Stop being racist!
Pick me's? It's funny how the fake SIstAhUUd goes out the window when it's another female you don't agree with.
Coddling XYs feelings to the detriment of women's lives and safety??? Being called a Pick-me for giving straight up diabolical and lethal advice is far less harmful. She's lucky she'll live and learn from the experience, many women and girls who followed her shit advice weren't so effing lucky.
Sisterhood*
It's been an hour since you posted this dude. Still angry and alone on the internet?
Why do you think sisterhood requires agreeing with everything other women do? Do you always agree with your siblings? How unusual?
@@smokyquartz5817 Nah I'm just calling out you hyenas and your hypocrisy