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- Are you experiencing romantic feelings for someone that go beyond a mere crush and involve a strong sense of sexual tension? Understanding the intricacies of sexual tension is essential for navigating complex romantic connections. In this video, we unravel the mystery and shed light on the distinct characteristics that separate sexual tension from a simple crush, providing valuable insights for individuals seeking clarity in their own love lives.
If you're wondering whether your crush is attracted to you sexually, we have a video on that as well: • 4 Subtle Signs Someone...
Writer/Researcher: Michal Mitchell
Script Editor & Manager: Kelly Soong
Voice Over: Amanda Silvera ( / amandasilvera )
Animator: Yoki
TH-cam Manager: Cindy Cheong
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References:
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Santos-Longhurst, A. (2019, August 26). Do we have sexual tension, or is it just me? Healthline. Retrieved December 21, 2022, from www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/sexual-tension
Zane, Z. (2021, November 2). 8 telltale signs the sexual tension is mutual. Men's Health. Retrieved December 21, 2022, from www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a28635292/sexual-tension-signs/
Braucher, D. (2016). Why do I feel so awkward? Psychology Today. Retrieved from www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/contemporary-psychoanalysis-in-action/201602/why-do-i-feel-so-awkward
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How important is intimacy to you in a relationship?
More than my life.
More important to me, also closeness.
Quite important, actually. I have been in few relationships but there was no intimacy, so I didn’t hesitate leaving them. Now, I’m in a loving relationship
both emotional intimacy and sexual intimacy are important to me
Not sure how exactly intimacy is defined, but all I know is I need a partner who can reflect the amount of care and love I give them.
trust me, it will be slightly difficult to reflect 100%…
edit: To be honest, I care wayy more about emotional, rather than sexual intimacy. Why? Because I value emotions over appearance
Me when I want to talk to my crush: "Hi. Nice weather you're wearing."
😂😂😂
Me when my crush talks to me and I'm intimidated by his awesome pick up line:
🙆♀️😱😶🥸🤓🤯😊
😂😂😂😂😂
Oooh, I heard a fun one!
"Did it hurt when you fell from the vending machine? 'Cause Mann, you're a SNACK!"
@@purplerain0517 "machine"? "Mann"? "MANN VS MACHINE"!!!
Sexual tension is a gentle way of saying horny 💀💀
horny is a short-term mood, not a long-term feeling
Omg rlly?
frfr
@@vibaj16then why have I been feeling feral for the last 5 years
@@vibaj16 Um… hypersexuality
I’ve experienced sexual tension with someone I ended up dating for years. The boiling point before the tension is handled is super freaking intense. Like your skin gets super sensitive, your breathing becomes shallow, your mind goes blank, you feel confident but also shy, and you’re lowkey going feral lol.
I ended up making the first move by acknowledging out loud my attraction to him and then it was was on. We had a healthy, happy relationship and the sexual tension never left. We just didn’t need to try and hide it anymore lol.
How is the relationship going so far?
@@Psych2go He broke it off due to his declining mental health and he didn’t think it was fair for me to be in a relationship with him knowing this about himself. Didn’t even know he was sick up until he broke it off and the relationship was great up until that point. We’re on good terms, I was devastated obviously but it was nothing compared to how he was feeling in general. There was no malicious intent from him what so ever. He is doing better little by little which is fantastic; actively taking steps to get his mind and self right. I don’t know what the future holds but I’ll be forever grateful for what we had.
@@87alsjthAww, I’m really sorry it didn’t work out for you in the long term, but I’m glad he had the self awareness to recognize that he was declining before he took you down with him. It’s also a blessing that you two broke it off relatively amicably. That’s pretty rare. Best of luck with your futures. Sometimes, it’s nobody’s fault when something doesn’t work out. The timing simply wasn’t right. If it’s meant to be, it’ll be, and no power on this Earth will be able to stop it. When love is real, it always finds a way. 😊♾️
@@87alsjth I've just learned the hard way that I need to remember to always walk by faith. The moment I get arrogant, and too headstrong, and think I'M in control, I lose the ability to truly understand the flow of what I'm meant to understand in my present circumstances. If I learn to just .... breathe, and give my will over to Him who created us, I'll be guided through any trial, and any hardship.
I hope you find true peace and love in your life! Remember, aside from Heavenly Father and Jesus... you need to love yourself before anybody else can love you back fully. ...I know this doesn't apply to YOU... but perhaps you could pass the message along to your friend.
It's detrimental to the healing process for mental health.
✌💙
in order for anyone to love
I kinda relate to that feeling of skin gets super sensitive, mine was cold around him and when he touched me my body releases heat and the breathing and my heart goes throb, basically all you mentioned
Timestamps
1). Feeling euphoric to the heart races 0:52
2). Holding that eye contact 1:30
3). Always on your mind 2:04
4). How do they hug you? Touch you? 2:48
5). Why am I smiling? Why are you so funny? 3:25
6). Awkward or flirty 4:20
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
@@sbplankton_1999 💙💙💙💙💙💙
Im going through that right now!!!
ppl like you who put timestamps are the best, psych rly sucks D for not trying to do shid. fk u psych
@devil ktty not a problem happy to help
Thank you 😊
When I was having a crush on my friend (now bf), I felt the exact way. The way he held his gaze on me was very intense. His long gaze was enough for me to understand that there was a lingering sexual tension between both of us. His stares were so long and intense I blushed and had to turn away gaze elsewhere. Those days were fun 😂
Having crush with you bf? That didn't make any sense???
@@mygod2529 Now bf that is. He used to be my friend.
@@mimi19932 ohh
@@marinmarinna7372 what??
dayumm, I don't have a crush but just imagining them staring at me intensely and for so long makes me wanna shrink into a ball and bury myself- how long did it take before you two made it clear?
Unfortunately there is a guy who I have mutually chemistry with but he admitted that he's merely sexually attracted to me and not emotionally into me. We are in different times in our lives so it makes sense.
Ewww what a creep
It's good that he didn't waste your time.
Same (though I was also only sexually interested) but he wasn't honest and he just ran away after something happened between us lmao. We were "friends", I guess, but he just stopped talking to me hahah
Really? Well get on over here😆
Same. Its that thing, dont be guilty for this or sad. It happens and im sure you're going to find someone who you can connect more ✨️
Wait, you guys actually interact with your crushes? And there's physical too? Wtf?
It's probably about friends-to-lovers type of relationship
yeah here my crushe keep wondering around me , seems more like Pokémon then actuall human to me , i need to catch her
@@beenor826 best of luck
I had two children with mine and we recently got married ❤
@@kpdolly Good for you but not everyone gets such happy ending. All the best for your marriage 👍
Welp, this confirms I've never had sexual tension.
I never had meaningful interactions with my crushes lol let alone sexual tension 😂
Do you want sexual tension? Or perhaps have you only experienced one sided sexual tension?
Well I've had it once and got brutally rejected. There could be worse
@@RedPhoenix550 can't get rejected that badly if you never admit your feelings
@@vibaj16 that's right but I genuinely thought that she liked me back.
As an asexual I find this super interesting, since I feel a lot of these but in a romantic way, I think I‘ve never felt a sexual tension
Romantic Tension then!
Demisexual here! I know what you mean, I've had this on both a romantic and a sexual level, but it can take a long time to reach the latter.
As an ace, I was getting confused before I saw your comment, because I experience everything with my crush, but I never wanna do the "thing". Ig it's just intense romantic feelings 😅
Same, and honestly, even after watching literally every video regarding sexual tension and sexual attraction, I still don't get it xD
i’m so confused because i’ve never felt any of that
just a heads up, even if there's palpable sexual tension, that does not mean they are into you, still be prepared for rejection and disappointment
So what would be the outcome in a situation like that
@@karinalemus2305 nothing, there's no outcome, you just move on
This makes absolutely no sense.
@@JesseBrown-qf6zpYou can be sexually attracted to someone without being infatuated with them and even if you both were infatuated with eachother there might be a situation where one just doesn't want that kind of relationship at the moment or they already have a partner so they can't do anything with those temporary feelings they have for you.
@@wilmab4120 The issue with this line of reasoning is that from an evolutionary point of view it just doesn’t make sense. If there is mutual infatuation then the urge to procreate becomes an overriding consideration. Good luck trying to resist nature’s great imperative.
You find yourself panicking Infront of that person
i have been watching this channel for yearssss now…their voices are so relaxing i just love this vibe
Thank you for noticing! We have lots of talented voice actors that dub our videos and make amazing content. We're so glad that you like their vibe!
I’ve had sexual tensions with someone online. We started off as online friends playing video games to asking abt our socials and talking more personal. Talking became playful, and playful became flirting to the point where we both shyly admitted we were into each other. We had “moments” virtually but ofc it ddnt last long since ofc being physically near one another is easier than having to get those built up feelings without being near one another.
no.
dont play roblox
lock your doors dont think about area 51 ambience
ohio
@@kuflang8438wtf
I had a mini panic attack I was watching this and when it came to “they are on your mind” he messaged me! And it was funny cause I was actually thinking about him too, and I also realised we have almost all of these!
I used to think for whole my life that I'm asexual but then he suddenly appeared and changed my mind since I totally fall for him. Unfortunately my crush for him is useless because he's taken and I just want this feeling to disappear so I would be in peace again.
I am in the same exact situation, always thought that I am Ace but until he showed up, for the first time in 33 years, I felt like I wanted to hug a guy. He started flirting, and I was over the clouds, but one day, he ghosted me. I heard from one of his friends that he is now taken.
Meditation and not having contact for a longer time can help. Feelings change over time
I'm too depressed to feel anything
I hope everything gets better for u bro
Im too ND tp feel correctly
real
I’m just scrolling through all the comments then i see this outta nowhere 💀
go outside bro it really helps im not being funny im deadass
What’s funny is a lot of people do the exact opposite of all of these things when they like someone, so this is only half of the story🥰
*Timestamps:*
0:54 Feeling euphoric? To the heart races!
1:32 Holding that eye contact
2:06 Always on your mind
2:50 How do they hug/touch you?
3:29 Why are they so funny?
4:22 Awkward… or flirty…?
yep, precisely *nothin‘* I could (and could’ve) ever relate(d) to xD
enjoy your day! :)
Suggestion: a video about people that are still incredibly socially awkward no matter how hard they try to change and always end up making a fool of themselves, especially to the opposite gender (like me).
You must give people a good laugh huh?
That would be an interesting video to watch. I feel like I've been there before.
Just like your same gender lol, men will never give the same bullshit women do, and their signs are clear as fucking day.
as a neurodivergent, you might be neurodivergent 😂
Interesting animation change!
I really enjoyed the difference in technique and especially the transitions. It's dynamic and interesting to watch, but I think the blobby main characters were too cute to be forsaken - the character design used here is gender specific and ripped whereas the previous ones were more endearing and universal, which I think make more sense for a fun psychology channel 😊
soooo trueeee
agreed !! these new animations caught me sooo off guard
agreed, I thought I was the only one who preferred the original animations and characters for the same reasons you mentioned. These new characters are something out of a teen romcom that I would be too old and jaded to relate to lol
I kinda agree but also to be honest with myself I only clicked bc of the animation style 😅
nah, i prefer the old ones 😭😭😭
Perfect timing 💀
The eye contact thing as an autistic adult makes me cringe. When someone tempts to look at me I look at their eyes then look away. Eye contact scary
sammmeeeeeeee
As an autistic, I only could make eye contact with person I really like intimately. 💀
As someone with anxiety, same here
These videos make me calm but they also make me wish I had more sentimental relationships
This is honestly important at the moment but crazy it was recommended to me so quicly😭😭😭
We're so glad the video came to you at a good time! Did you find the video helpful?
Crushes are freaking terrifying. How do people not get rejected by the people they like?
I just told them the truth. I said listen, i like you and wanna have sex and he was like wtf 😳 that was straightforward and he agreed. I honestly dont regret it. I regret catching feelings though.😢
Ppl who I like always liked me back. I never had problems w that
Yoki is an awesome animator! Love this team, the narration, everything blends. Well done 👏
What happens if you have sexual tension, but can't morally have sex, because one or both of you are already in a relationship. What happens psychologically if you reject the feelings of sexual tension instead of acting upon them?
Definitely in that situation now and it sucks. The feeling of unrequited love is lowkey upsetting when you dwell on it.
@@katherinemurphy2762 Yeah, it can truly suck. I can relate to that. Also, that even years later, you can think back and regret you didn't go for that opportunity, because now you will never know what it could have been like, you missed your chance. Could also be the other way around, that you feel relife that you didn't let your impulses of hornyness control you, for momentarily pleasure that probably would have created problems.
@@simondewit6119true. But unfortunately can't get the tension out of mind after no contact in professional setting.
@tammystewart10 yeah, I also have personal experience with this. Not acting upon those feelings because it seemed as a bad idea at the time and I don't like cheating, and then the opportunity passed and life moved on. Many years later I still regret, it pains me and I can't get ridd if the feeling of a great loss. It's fucked up, how those feelings can lingre. It truly sucks. I mean, it doesn't stop me from living my life, but whenever I think about it, I know in my heart I missed out. I hate that feeling.
I’m in this same exact situation and it sucks 😭. I’m not in a relationship but the guy I like is in one (married lol) yet he’s the one who wanted to hang out with me at a bar and when we parted ways we hugged 3 times and each time he kissed me on the head. The sexual tension was definitely there but I absolutely refuse to be his side chick omg
As someone who easily attracted to guys(even though some of them have average looks)I can confirm I experience all of this. I still remember that I held eye contact with two guys(quite a while ago and different times and places too) my heart feels like it's going to explode and the way that they both smiling (while having that good-looking face) makes my mind blank and I wondering to myself why I still look in the eyes with him so I quickly looking away after realized he looked at me while smiling (after realize I looked at his direction, he smile that makes me still remember it bcz it's such a sweet smile to the point I wonder if it's a genuine smile) btw both guys smiling while looking at me(so I naturally smile back) and it's such a sweet smile, I wonder if they stole the girls hearts with that very sweet smile (like how can someone have a sweet smile that make other ppls couldn't stop thinking about it)
Oh my gosh, I have serious issues.
I was in a very bitter dark place and at my addiction recovery meeting, where I did nothing but talk about how deeply depressed I've been, over a man I've fallen in love with, amongst other stresses in my life.
And then it turned to me lamenting...and then swooning over him. And as we were all parting ways, one of the people smiled and made eye contact in salutations, and as I had JUST watched a Psych2Go thing on flirting that day (daydreaming of the man I love) I was like "oh my gosh...I think he was trying to flirt with me?" And then mentioned it to try to make him jealous because... I'm a douche sometimes. And I was feeling so rejected and invalidated and abandoned...and I acted like a child.
To be honest, the only reason it was flattering was because it made me aware that I hadn't given up on the entire institution of love. And I thought he'd given up on me, and I was so hurt I didn't want anything to do with men, at all...for a long time.
The guy in my meeting wasn't even my type... he's tall. And tall is intimidating and scary.
It was just nice I think on a psychological level, to know that my own brain didn't consider myself as unlovable. Even if it was just a measly smile.
I think my brain needed to reassure itself, because... I don't get reassurance from anyone but my kids. ...not trying to have a pity party.
Just on my healing journey.
Ok my brain can only do so much
To manifest my sweet prince...
Because I'm only human.
...time to pray like crazy.
@@purplerain0517 you have kids it seems, it's normal to still feel attracted to other guys(it's not cheating it's not like you guys doing something intimate) btw have a good rest!
@@purplerain0517 ? Are you talking about my description
@@calethamesbczihatederuth6423 my bad. I thought you were being vague on purpose. Sometimes I can't Stan T he brain I have..
@@purplerain0517 haha it's fine, I understand what you said(in your first comment) so I just shortened my reply by focusing on you to rest and reassure you that having crush on other guys beside your husband is fine(if it's bothering you, thinking it's cheating but it's not)and sometimes I also don't understand other ppls comment reply to me, so I had to ask them to say it more understanding (bcz I'm not that good with words too so there's some words that are still new to me)
This video alone got me blushing in my face & booty cheeks.
😳😳
Lmaooo
@@blending_inI can agree, it's something about her voice. I'm into dudes but damn I could listen to asmr from her every night and not get tired of it
@@JacobDaDJ I can definitely see where you guys are coming from but the comment took me off guard 💀
@@JacobDaDJ Amanda’s amazing but I was getting butterflies in my tummy from listening to the actual examples of sexual tension scenarios & getting fantasies in my head based off that shit.
My gym crush and I have been at this little game. We introduced ourselves a couple weeks ago and always notice/greet each other as soon as one of us pops up in the gym. So cute
For me it’s like an invisible bond between two people, you want to touch eachother all the time and it’s never enough or awkward you want to be inside their body
I’m meeting up with my crush in a little over an hour to tell her how I feel.
Good luck!
How was it?
@@asamitaka9014 She said maybe.
@@littlebillygoat Only just saw this but thanks. Much appreciated.
Heyy....what happened...I really hope it was positive!!
Experienced it once on someone I had a crush with. He suddenly kissed me while we're talking then i suddenly got terrified and shy at the same time. At that moment, I also don't want to let go from his kiss because who knows when it will happen again. Haha . I repeatedly dreamt of it in my sleep
If you're here to look signs if to confess or find if they think the same way, just *ask* them privately. You have nothing to lose except if you're not going to tell how you feel. Take it slow and you got it!
The crazy thing is that, I never experienced this before with any partner but recently I fell in love with a guy that made me feel too many intense emotions as this one and we already have done many things together. We still talking, let's see what the future holds but I do really feel something more than just sexual tension for him, that's for sure.
Temptation is everywhere. People, places and things we are exposed to.
I experienced this once. Wrong person, wrong time at the wrong place. I’m working on myself again. I’ve learned to accept her and I will never be. It’s complicated but let’s just say she wasn’t the right one. She was manipulative, needy, a cheater. I’ve learned that I wasn’t the problem. She was. My family and friends never really liked her and I understand why really. What I learned from the experience Is ignoring red flags because you want to see the “good” in someone will eventually cost you later. I’ve moved on from her and doing better than ever. It was fun while it lasted, but it’s time to wake up. I have more self confidence, worth and love. Going back to her will destroy all of that. I have no intentions of doing that though. When the time is right the right person will come. But for now it’s me against this we call life. Stay strong kings n queens.
Stay strong sir!
Just rewatched Pride and Prejudice and oh my - Lizzie and Mr Darcy are PURE SEXUAL TENSION in the air, haha
hello to all ace here who can't still understand this 😭 as an ace, i literally do all of this without any 'sexual feelings' (like long eye contacts, long touches, etc. to almost everyone lol.. i don't get heart races though when i see a romantic crush) 😭 i dont get awkward because i dont feel this 😢
Same, I don't even understand what it is I'm supposed to be feeling. All I know is that I've never felt it, yet, I've experienced a lot of the signs in the video xD
For me, I did had felt euphoric before around my "crush". Well, most of the sighs in this video. (Honestly I'm very confused if it is or not romantic attraction). It was full of strong emotions. But since this has been the only time I had such strong emotions, I really can't compare them to anything else. (I'm both on the aro and ace spectrum)
I feel INTENSE sexual tension w a guy I see all the time at work. At first it was just a whisper of… something. Like there was just something different about him. But then one day I went to hand him something and our hands lingered over each others so our fingers brushed and I stg in that moment it was like pure *electricity* coursing through us. We both looked shocked but neither one said anything. After that we started eyeing each other whenever we could. We smile slyly when no one is looking and laugh a lot, but it’s a fast paced work environment, so it’s dicey. But now I’m at the point where I almost crave to see him, but when I do I feel like a junky who’s favorite drug is within reach but they can’t have it- I even have dreams about him sometimes. It’s absolutely maddening yet strangely euphoric. Like an itch you just can’t scratch. I’m so curious to know how this plays out because it just feels inevitable, like two magnets coming toward each other no matter what, but the work environment is just so hard to navigate. I feel like I’m in limbo here 😭🤷🏻♀️🥹
Omg i m living the same thing at work
Ask to see him after work, before work, or at lunchtime. Women expect guys to always make the first move but itll be a good sign of courage and desire if you ask him. Make the magnets come together! Enjoy the rush! Lol
I appreciate the subtitles. It really helps.
Yea felt it more than once. So I know about what you are talking about BUT... I was so lucky that every time I felt it, those persons weren't into me.
Can't relate but will watch anyway
I love the narrators voices for these videos why is it so soothing
Thanks Amanda for your awesome posts it's really educational.keep posting it and spread education to everyone in this world using digital psychology
Thank you! We'll pass the message along to Amanda :)
@@Psych2goi have a question, when I stare at him he doesn't look away.
My heart beats so much that I get out of the room as soon as I see him enter 😂😂
This is perfect timing actually. We had a moment earlier today, he was holding my hand after i initiated it- and then later when we said our goodbyes for the day he reached out an interlinked his fingers with mine am i going mad hello????AA is this my time??? Also he messaged me just now and my heart had a seizure lmfao. I sooo done for 😭
I have this gym crush and I am sure he has a crush on me. We are always checking each other out, but never went ahead and talked. It is really frustrating because the sexual tension is kind of insanely high.
It's almost 4AM and I haven't had a crush for years. But it's interesting, just in case.
crazy timing 💀💀
that touch thing. Honestly this video pointed it out, I didn't realise how touchy i've become with this girl i'm actually going on a date with soon. I normally feel like touch makes people feel uncomfortable so barely touch people, however it's both exciting and comfortable being touchy with her and given her body language she seems comfortable with it too.
I somewhat feel this way. But only ever with fictional characters.
Relatable😅
Funnily enough, I’m the same way, especially with my fictional characters , and I have an impressive collection of Anime and Video Game Waifus too. Ain’t nothing wrong with that. Sometimes we require a relationship more magical than we can get in our normal lives. Real life can be incredibly limiting. If real life girls aren’t good enough for you mate, that’s your choice and your right. You will never hear any judgment from me, because I’m the same way. Reality crises are a thing.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m not completely closed off the idea of a real life relationship, nor do I begrudge others for theirs, but as standards and expectations go, mine are almost impossible for anyone real to live up to. Hold out for your otherworldly Goddess my man, if that’s what you want to do. As long as you’re happy with the idea of living and loving vicariously through your favourite fictional works, then that’s all that matters. Don’t worry about anything else or what people say.
Well, I won't blame you for that 😄
Same! 😫
love this editing style
Can we talk about how calming her voice is?
I’m very oblivious (and let’s face it a bit of a dumbass) when it comes to dating and flirting but I think I do experience sexual tension with my crush. Maybe ? When we talk we always gaze pretty intensely into each others eyes but it doesn’t feel awkward. Once it was so intense (with other things like leaning into each other for talking, smiling etc) I’m pretty sure we would’ve kissed if we had been in a more appropriate setting. Idk why I just felt it. After all this, we were chatting with our mutual friends and he was all smiley and giddy. I think he felt it too.
Was/is this sexual tension ?
Me who had sexual tension with someone I’ve never even spoken to properly.
I have sexual tension with a coworker who works at a different location, but comes to my location a couple times a week. We rarely talk, but we are constantly keeping long eye contact and smiling alot at eachother. It definetly felt like sexual tension. Since i never get much of a chance to talk to him, I found him on instagram and messaged him there, and asked him out in a very respectful polite way. I also clarified who I am so he knows for sure it's me. He ghosted me. Now I'm confused and sad and hurt.
nothing to be confused about he’s simply not worth it and you deserve someone better that would never want to be away from you
His loss
He is only flirting and teasing. Let him go.
My fiancé was always drawn to me from the first time he saw me. We had our other partners. I wound up going out to the fuel station (worked at a grocery store) and well…. one day…he dared me to kiss him and I did. Time went on and we got closer and closer. I always wanted to see my fiancé, even when I’d just spent the day with my ex. Eventually, I broke up and we started dating. I still find him funny to this day, especially knowing he is being himself
I always found your videos informative & amazing. 😊
Eye contact is involved in certain flirting styles? Fvck that, I'm autistic, hate eye contact, and hate even more when people expect me to pick up on such stupidly subtle social cues. You wanna take me out? Just ask me up front, I love bluntness and how much easier it is for me to not have to blindly _guess_ what game everyone is playing with me all the goddamn time
Bro needs to discover rule34 or they're gonna be alone their whole life 💀
How can one be sure it’s mutual though …
Thanks for all of the videos it gave me better understanding
God! It’s sucks when it’s your co worker and you are trying to remain professional. 😑 the eye contact kills me.
Me and this person that I've known for a while met up about four weeks ago and now I know that what I was feeling was sexual tension. We admitted we liked each other but he also said he wasn't ready for a relationship due to his last one and because I am much younger than him and doesn't know what his parents would think about him being with me. (totally understandable) So I tried to distance myself but he ended up looking after me that same day and were still friends. A couple days ago we did more than just hug and we both felt really guilty. We agreed to just be friends and refrain from doing that "again" until we became official. But I have major feelings for him and don't know what to do.
Heyy! I went through something similar to you, there’s a age gap between me and the guy who was my close friend at the time. We just went with the flow and didn’t care what people say about our 6 year age gap. Now we been together for 7 years still going strong ❤ I say go with the flow he can be the one
@@arlenealatorre6346 thank you 🙏 but yeah the relationship didn’t really go well. I had found out he never actually liked me but my body but I guess it’s okay I mean I am hurt but I can’t change his mind 🫶 just have to move on now
Not even friends will hug each other (apart from not having seen each other in a long time) or take care of each other, you guys are just tripping calling it a friendship when it's obviously a relationship already 😅
@@Destinyawe sorry he um played me last month 🤷♀️ and other women so he only wanted me bc he was attracted to me
@@sunnyropiha4883 Yeah no problem. When a guy says he cares about what his parents thinks, he will never agree to be in a relationship with the girl, even if you guys somehow end up in a rs.
I know a similar story from another person.
A girl I know whose boyfriend didn't want his parents to meet her (even though their age is roughly the same) treated her poorly. The guy initially wanted FWB with her but she insisted in being in a rs first, so he agreed. A few months later, she broke up with him due to said treatment.
I will be explicit. As a guy, when we are only thinking of sex, we will just say 'yes' to everything a girl wants. Then once a guy gets what he wants from you, he no longer feels a need to play you anymore. It's similar to "pump and dump".
Girls make the mistake thinking that a relationship will tie the guy down and get him to commit to you. But for guys like these, all they're thinking is, "Once I get my sex, I don't need to bother with you anymore :)"
Even sexual touches is like a win for them.
I met this guy years back, we talked on and off. We started talking again recently. We would just talk about normal things like our day or interests. When we were near each other, i felt like I couldn't breathe. Every breath felt so good. My heart raced, and my stomach felt like it was dropping. We weren't even flirting with each other but just feeling the sexual tension while we talked was maddening.
We talked about what we experienced. When we first met, I felt this strong connection to him but we ended up not speaking. Everytime he came back into my life for a moment, I would always feel this strong connection to him. It seems like it never ends no matter how long time goes on. I am so addicted to him. I hang on his every word because he brings me that much pleasure. We have never had sex either.
He said he has never felt this way before, it is stronger than anything he has experienced before. When I am near him, I just feel so much pleasure throughout my body. I don't want to say I love him because we aren't there yet. I just don't know what to call it. I explain it as a really strong connection both emotionally and physically for me.
pls update! Im so curous as to why you guys havent done anything if he's not a coworker or old friend. He seems more like a hot aquaintance. why not go for it?
me watching this while lying on my bed and talking to no one
My crush is a fictional character and I get warm when ever I see them or I daydream about them.
Who is it ?
Same, never felt that way over a real man, instead i felt that over friction characters reason why i'm so single
When my crush entered a room my body would take a screenshot and I’d be noticeably more stupid and slow until he exited the room
This is the answer I've been exactly looking for
Im traumatized
Ok but Who like Warhammer 40K ?
Well We both love talking to each other and we have fun conversations I her alot
Wow graphics team did amazing!
I’ve been single for about 6 years. I no longer have desire to be intimate or desire to be in a relationship
Yes to all of this. I wonder if she knows how much I like her? Just being around her makes me feel crazy in a good way ❤ 😍
The sexual tension between Leon Kennedy and I is super noticeable 😔
this animation is just too good and mad 😵💫
The art in this video is top-notch
😁
we went through all of this just for him to say hes STRAIGHT!?!?
I only felt that way about someone I never actually dated
this channel helps me alot
Why am i smiling and giddy the whole 6 mins of this video. Hay ambot
Don't need a 6 min vid to explain something you already know instinctively.
You know it's sexual tension when talking to someone as you feel it in your gut, back of your mind etc.
Most people either step over that line without realising or don't.
Yeah, it's just nice to see it on something. I have this with my baby and seeing this video is giving memories from when we first met. It doesn't have to be informational.
You’re right. It’s a very strong, intense intuition when you’re around that person. Or just thinking of them. You know it, that’s for darn sure.
Well thus confirms what i been feeling, time to just wait till the right time. To make my move
It’s official I am not delusional
It's hit me badly. I just met the guy, formed a crush, and became friends and now I'm experiencing this. I never thought this would happen at this point in my life. It's painful but I think he feels the same. Problem is he's probably going to leave so I don't want to get attached.
How does this differ from limerence? I've experienced many of these signs but without sexual tension (I can honestly tell the difference - I've also experienced them with).
From what I understand sexual tension is mutual (thus the tension) while limerence isn’t
Limerence is obsessive, whereas this is not
Okay, I do experiencing this Ma'am to someone, but how can I make that feeling gradually deeper and deeper? 🤔
My problem is that I can maintain my feelings to someone, but at the same time, not that willing to pursue it. Maybe if I know a couple of advice, then I would be able to.
Wow! The facts are all there.
I Wish i Had your Channel as a Teenager!! Great Videos ❤
The tension is so thick not even OJ Simpson could cut through it.😮
Yeah. But he sure can hack through it.
@@necrodamus5481 I know huh😵
Sounded more like a bed time story lol
I know I'm so late but I love the animation. It feels like the opening of an anime.
Hi i found a Spanish guy with a chanel called "Sapiencia práctica" with tons of views every month stealing all your content only traducing your vids. I dont know if you talked to him but if you dont i think you should know it because a great part of the spanish comunity is watching your videos from that chanel. He even have his own logo the only original thing from his chanel :/
Yo mencioné lo mismo en un vídeo de Psy2go hace tiempo!
Pero, me fijé que en algunos de los vídeos de Sapiencia Práctica ponen créditos a Psy2Go, por las ilustraciones y tal, así que supongo que tendrán un acuerdo?
De todas formas, está bien avisar de ello, por si acaso.
I've had rehearsals for a school play along with this guy for a while. I've seen that since i took my role (in which, funnily enough, i'm implied to be his wife, and therefore all our scenes are together), he's been trying to hit up a conversation with me, and just me, but i never quite lingered much on those because i got ankward. On our last rehearsal, he went to talk to me after he caught me staring at him and joked about not being able to stop smiling even though his role was supposed to be evil, and then made a very silly expression... Bruh, he's been living rent-free in my head since them
probably had like one moment of sexual tension in my life. i walked out of it because woman in question has a bad track record of her relationships and worried that stuff might be a fetish and i noped out
Bro when my crush talks to me he stares into my eyes so intensely, since im ADHD I struggle to hold eye contact period, let alone the added pressure of him staring into my soul I CANT EVEN LOOK AT HIM I GET SO NERVOUS LOL
This helped A LOT
Then what is difference between sexual tension and butterflies(Crush,infatuation)?
exaclty! i was looking for the same