CIA Spy: How To Get Anything You Want From Anyone

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  • @TheBrettWay
    @TheBrettWay  หลายเดือนก่อน +79

    Thank YOU for watching this episode I hope you find it valuable and applicable for your day to day life! Thank you Shopify for making it possible by sponsoring todays show: Shopify - Sign up for a $1 per month trial period at shopify.com/wgmi.

    • @nerkok.9080
      @nerkok.9080 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      😊

    • @valeriek8077
      @valeriek8077 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No greater fundamental human truth than Spiritual Dynamics. Bustamante and his kind will keep society between stage Blue and Green. He doesn't have the solution, because he is the problem. His solution is to master the game of abundance (green) and scarcity (blue) without realizing there is plenty for all (yellow) and excess leads to suffering both individually and societally (red).
      That said, as an overnight father of two boys .. I get it. As an example, spending finite family energy to recycle only to have it thrown in the ocean seems pointless--humans are not ready. I am sad to say that likely I will rejoin the problem, but with awareness which I will pass on to my boys. If everyone could do this we could end suffering (yellow) in two generations.

    • @WEldiraoui
      @WEldiraoui หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes

    • @Dhirenrai-h8h
      @Dhirenrai-h8h หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hey thebrettway do u think that people like us can be successfull ?

    • @cook5444
      @cook5444 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@nerkok.9080😂

  • @Erykah_Mia
    @Erykah_Mia หลายเดือนก่อน +528

    “Highly empathetic people don’t like people!” Omg dude gave the secret away 😂😂😂 he is so right

    • @Upgraydde-yo-pitch
      @Upgraydde-yo-pitch หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Indeed lmao

    • @InvictusAlchemy
      @InvictusAlchemy หลายเดือนก่อน

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
      People are learning too much outside of the DSM -5 certified scope of practice. Quick! Go reverse psychology trick as many people as fast as possible to gaslight people into distrusting their intuition and their own sense of empathy!
      “People with high EQ, high empathy, and anxiety, they can pull themselves out of that and tap into and use that same system for their own individual benefit, and now, they’re the puppet master. You can now create *artificial* relationships. You now know the *method* for manipulating people to do what you want them to do.”
      Actually, sir, you just explained psychopathy and sociopathy. We have you and Evy along with a bunch of other psychologists to thank for knowing that because you’ve given us these definitions over and over yourselves.
      Empathetic people who know how to self regulate coregulate with and empower others to do the same for themselves at all times. Often, and especially, to protect themselves and each other from those who would take exploited advantage.

    • @icaangelmassage
      @icaangelmassage หลายเดือนก่อน +83

      We like people, we don't like the influence society has on ppl n how it brings out the worst in ppl.

    • @Felicia594
      @Felicia594 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      Empathy how sad it is to realize all people are narcesist!😮😅

    • @themancave614
      @themancave614 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      😂 it's crazy but it becomes a burden the voices and feelings are too much and they not even yours

  • @rebeccamiller8772
    @rebeccamiller8772 หลายเดือนก่อน +111

    I love that Andrew said to be cautious of the words you use, and then caught himself calling the customer the “target.” Great interview and super entertaining!

    • @JoJo.mp4
      @JoJo.mp4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Target like in marketing man!

    • @Aryisk
      @Aryisk 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@JoJo.mp4 or hunting haha

    • @JoJo.mp4
      @JoJo.mp4 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Aryisk no, dude marketing is the thing to comes to mind
      Same thing with mark, you thing about a guy named mark, or leaving a mark, definitively it would never mean anything else

  • @Eli.j.777
    @Eli.j.777 หลายเดือนก่อน +197

    CIA out here publicly psyop-ing TH-cam 😂

    • @StarseedPhilautia
      @StarseedPhilautia หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Its absolutely brilliant. I'm so proud of America in this moment.

    • @shaun787max
      @shaun787max หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      I think there’s more too it that’s everyone’s initial reaction to the content but he says things that show you how intelligent he is and how (hopefully) intelligent others in the agency are

    • @Facere.
      @Facere. หลายเดือนก่อน

      In your heart that's how you feel.

    • @Upgraydde-yo-pitch
      @Upgraydde-yo-pitch หลายเดือนก่อน

      He’s not psy oping anyone who isn’t a pansy ass lmao . He blatantly tells people how they recruit for the CIA. They put you in a room with 10 other idiots and if you’re smarter than the other idiots then they pull you aside and tell you the truth about how the system works. So it’s not psy oping the ones who read between the lines lol

    • @InvictusAlchemy
      @InvictusAlchemy หลายเดือนก่อน

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
      People are learning too much outside of the DSM -5 certified scope of practice. Quick! Go reverse psychology trick as many people as fast as possible to gaslight people into distrusting their intuition!
      “People with high EQ, high empathy, and anxiety, they can pull themselves out of that and tap into and use that same system for their own individual benefit, and now, they’re the puppet master. You can now create *artificial* relationships. You now know the *method* for manipulating people to do what you want them to do.”
      Actually, sir, you just explained psychopathy. We have you and Evy along with a bunch of other psychologists to thank for knowing that. You’ve said yourself psycopaths cannot feel empathy but they can mimic it, and sociopathic people feel emotions but they’re completely self-centered.
      Empathetic people who know how to self regulate coregulate with and empower others to do the same for themselves at all times. Often and especially to protect themselves and each other from those who would take exploited advantage.

  • @MeadowsDream
    @MeadowsDream หลายเดือนก่อน +54

    After dealing with a pathological narcissist I’m so much more aware. I am glad I’m not as ignorant and innocent as I was before, it has really opened my mind and I try to keep it open! Love watching these videos I always learn something new!

    • @MatrixxPhoenixx
      @MatrixxPhoenixx หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Most of my life I wore pink glasses and loved to help ppl then went thru divorce with covert narc and all bets were off. Broke my pink shades and now I wear hater blockers 😂 I still have a service to provide and I quickly keep it moving 😊 I've also learned to be highly suspicious of other's intentions.. not sure I could ever truly trust again 😕

    • @StandOnThat
      @StandOnThat 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Women cant do what men can do

  • @Uncommony
    @Uncommony หลายเดือนก่อน +85

    How to win friends and influence people has taught me so much, rather than the 48 laws of power, which is great to know but very dirty. Stay Uncommon!

    • @HilloFX
      @HilloFX หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Dirty, how?

    • @Uncommony
      @Uncommony หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      @@HilloFX a lot of underhanded tactics and sneaky tactics which are just not for me but they are great to know and understand.

    • @HilloFX
      @HilloFX หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@Uncommony Oh, so like unethical tactics?

    • @Uncommony
      @Uncommony หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @HilloFX Yes, and some stuff sound like they would come from a coward rather than a strong, confident man.

    • @ThefutureselfLah
      @ThefutureselfLah หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Its definitely help to be on the defense. I appreciate 48 laws as a person who can be naive at times 😂

  • @RealityReload
    @RealityReload หลายเดือนก่อน +101

    00:03 Learning to manipulate people for desired outcomes.
    01:55 Stress inoculation techniques for dealing with distress and positive stress
    05:35 Conversation map is a tool for intelligence collection
    07:24 CIA spy technique: Asking multiple questions to assess person and conserve mental capacity.
    11:00 Preparing for various responses when initiating a conversation
    12:44 Build relationships with influential people
    16:34 Sales process influences customer decision-making
    18:20 In reactive relationships, underlying reasons are often different from what is apparent.
    21:55 Understanding the brain's processing and its impact on perception.
    23:47 Understanding the other party's incentives and perspective is key to gaining leverage in negotiations.
    27:11 Building a narrative through emotional messaging
    29:07 Influence through existing narratives
    32:55 Building a perceived relationship with an audience.
    34:46 Control perception by allowing myths to thrive
    38:09 Maintain control in conversations to avoid manipulation.
    39:36 Being authentic is crucial for building a credible image online.
    43:25 Highly empathetic people may be manipulated into relationships under societal expectations.
    45:19 Society is conditioned to maintain a stable system.
    48:57 CIA officers begin to question their skills and trapped in a cycle
    50:46 Espionage techniques have ancient roots
    54:22 Understanding the power of manipulation and responsibility
    56:11 Memory recall in personal interactions is selective and influenced by the 80/20 rule.
    59:43 Last impressions are more important than first impressions
    1:01:21 Understanding the difference between public persona and private self
    1:04:58 Understanding the concept of being in someone's secret life
    1:06:35 Use personal, sensitive information to influence and gain trust
    1:09:49 CIA drills anti-spiritual beliefs, spirituality vs religion
    1:11:48 Cultural and religious organizations use behavioral patterns for influence
    1:15:25 Practical body language cues reveal behavioral insights.
    1:16:52 Body language signals trust and distancing
    1:20:20 Transcendental Meditation syncs and energizes the brain
    1:22:07 Repeating a mantra in any language helps focus the mind.
    1:25:41 Wealthy people are already hopping to different countries as a trend.
    1:27:19 Globalization's impact on supply chains and rise of isolationism
    1:31:08 CIA officers use practical skills to maintain America's superpower status.
    1:32:58 Focus on high impact changes to your product
    1:36:37 Utilize incremental improvements for success
    1:38:18 Launching a business involves uncontrollable variables and risk analysis.
    1:41:56 Bitcoin is seen as a nefarious tool by the CIA and federal government.
    1:43:51 Bitcoin used for covert operations to protect US tax dollars
    1:47:11 CIA agents often become contractors after retirement
    1:49:04 Retirees working for private companies but brokering introductions and contracts.
    1:52:27 CIA has a specific technique for hiring and cultivating employees.
    1:54:17 Matching employee personality types with company goals
    1:57:39 Focusing on the 5% with potential for significant impact
    1:59:23 Practical tips for everyday life

    • @dirigible806
      @dirigible806 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      You are the true hero! Thank you!

    • @K1llerSchniTzel
      @K1llerSchniTzel หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks men ❤

    • @BucolicLife
      @BucolicLife หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Live long.

    • @bruce_dasilva
      @bruce_dasilva หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Receive all the blessings

    • @irenitele8497
      @irenitele8497 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you! 12.44 is rather "everybody deserves a cup of coffee", rather than talking to influential people. He says everybody can be of interest (even not influential ones)

  • @JennyThePhilosopher
    @JennyThePhilosopher หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    I've watched a lot of interviews with Andy, and you brought several concepts that I don't think he explained anywhere else, at least not to the same level of detail. You were obviously well-prepared and able to ask great follow-up questions! I never watched you before, but I just subscribed.

    • @kim-jrgenarnetvedt811
      @kim-jrgenarnetvedt811 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Are you serious? This kid was surprised about all his answers! The only reason Andy had to go deeper than in general was because he realized that he needed to with this kid .
      you gotta be kidding me!

  • @Marouane-l4b
    @Marouane-l4b หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Best INTERVIEW with bustamante ever

  • @IbnSharif24
    @IbnSharif24 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    This is the first interview of Andrew B I ever watched from beginning to the end. This man has gained my respect. He opened my eyes to a whole different perspective of thinking.

    • @timebot000
      @timebot000 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      these x agents speaking Out, really help me to recognize local agents that pose as friends, blowing thier cover effortlessly😂

  • @brendapolar8506
    @brendapolar8506 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This man is another level! Wow thank you so much for having him on!🎉🙌🏼🔥

  • @KoiAcademy
    @KoiAcademy หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This is a great interview!! Stress innoculation is such an interesting method for reducing high energy! I'll have to check it out more info about it.

  • @yelena3285
    @yelena3285 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Big fan of Andrew.I share Andrew video with my family and friends, find it so valuable.

    • @GroundbreakGames
      @GroundbreakGames หลายเดือนก่อน

      Because you are easily brainwashed.

  • @legionjames1822
    @legionjames1822 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Best Brett interview. Interviewers want subjective info on world politics while Bretts got the gravy on human behavior. I vote for a round 2. I like the repoir of brett counseling and coaching.

  • @ariliumallidvine
    @ariliumallidvine หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    The power of suggestion is extremely powerful and "they" know it.
    We have to know it as well and we are also powerful.

  • @ivanecho
    @ivanecho หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Best interview with Andrew B of everyday spy thus far - thank you to both.

    • @drk0-64
      @drk0-64 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Best since James Bond

  • @mamavalpromise
    @mamavalpromise หลายเดือนก่อน +59

    We are high-empathy because we are hypersensitive, hyperaesthetic, way too tuned-in to the subtle nuances of all the beings around us. All of their shenanigans compete with our internal flow for our precious attention and we must struggle to maintain our sense of self in the midst. It's not that we don't like other people; it's that they make it so difficult for us to hold a line.

    • @Upgraydde-yo-pitch
      @Upgraydde-yo-pitch หลายเดือนก่อน

      Or they take our kindness for weakness almost every fucking time so no I generally don’t like people unless they are of the same intelligence level mentally and emotionally 😂

    • @22lamont
      @22lamont หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      All that you said is true.. that being said I don’t think I like ppl even more 😂

    • @AnasA.Ansari
      @AnasA.Ansari หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Do empath like empath?

    • @fondrees
      @fondrees หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​@@AnasA.Ansariif they are both real empaths, nothing worse than encountering a fake. Someone virtue signaling or playing one upmanship or faking it to manipulate someone into a desired outcome.

    • @FractalCodex7
      @FractalCodex7 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Psychic abilities are a skill. Like any skill it can be used for good or evil; ergo the Dark Empath.
      Whether someone with high empathic ability "likes other people" is a really weird generalisation.
      It depends on how awake the empath is, which person, or type of person, we are referring to and how loving the empath is.
      A sleeping empath can fall in love with an abusive narcissist, an awake empath will not.
      A highly loving empath with little shadow will still be able to operate from a Divine Mind perspective and feel compassion for evil doers. Wounded empaths who haven't done the inner healing work will not.
      95% of people on this planet are unevolved self-centred NPCs. So yeah these people are generally not well liked by empaths.
      I'm so over being reincarnated back onto this prison planet so I do have moments of frustration where I say stuff like "f* humans, they are so stupid" etc... But at other times of greater inner peace and balance I experience high empathy and compassion for all people.
      It really depends on our own internal frequency and modern society is drenched in disgusting frequency, so it makes sense that empaths are picking that up and then losing their compassion being overwhelmed by all the nefarious crap going on around them.

  • @SebastianEsqueda
    @SebastianEsqueda 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    So this is why u kicked me out of the office 30 minutes prior... haha good vid brotha

    • @TheBrettWay
      @TheBrettWay  หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      thanks for taking one for the team lmao

  • @ruthjocaccivajjio274
    @ruthjocaccivajjio274 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Love this “everybody’s worth a cup of coffee”…. I’ve always said this. Networking has been my way of life.
    Love the description of what empathetic ppl are about….. so true.

  • @mariocasarez3896
    @mariocasarez3896 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    This was one of the best podcasts I've heard from Bustamante! Keep up the great work! Pars Adelante!!

  • @ganstery1
    @ganstery1 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You got my favorite dude I love listening too. I listen to Andrew on my way to work all the time and his content is so cool. I am enjoying your content as well, the more I watch the more engaged I become, the more views of your videos the more excited I get your content inspires me bro! Thanks for this awesome vid.

  • @mikejames86
    @mikejames86 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Loved every second of this. As a sales guy who is empathetic. Pulling ppl out of the average idiots out there to become something greater.

  • @dariocroes
    @dariocroes หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    This interview was absolutely fantastic! Incredibly intriguing and mind-blowing!

  • @kjhhkntj
    @kjhhkntj หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Conversation mapping- had no idea this concept existed. I’m going to experiment at a networking event this evening.
    I look forward to watching the rest of this conversation. Cheers!

  • @renaissancemaneric8019
    @renaissancemaneric8019 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Props for landing this guest, Brett

  • @fearlesslivemore222
    @fearlesslivemore222 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you so much for this one..🙏🙏🙏
    One of the best podcasts i had ever seen!!❤❤❤

  • @homesignup
    @homesignup หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    omg so true ....lmao I don't like most people and I don't drink Kool aid or fall for pep talk at my workplace. I'm an INFJ or rather 55% INFJ, 45% ISFJ (his wife is an ISFJ) as per MBTI testing. Empathy, HSP and some anxiety are in my wheelhouse. Talking to ppl one on one and understanding them intrinsically and building a rapport comes naturally to me without all the "extra training" lol but I love listening to Andy. Thanks for the interview Brett!

    • @FractalCodex7
      @FractalCodex7 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Same here in terms of traits, except I tested as ENTJ. Always been an intuitive empath with above average IQ. Initially a rule follower but now I'm awake a rebel against the Beast System.
      Thank you David Icke for the red pill 🙏

  • @yelena3285
    @yelena3285 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Big fan of Andrew. Truly valuable.

    • @GroundbreakGames
      @GroundbreakGames หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ok bot.

    • @yelena3285
      @yelena3285 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@GroundbreakGames you try too hard, relax

    • @TheLettersJaye
      @TheLettersJaye 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@yelena3285 trying hard by saying bot?

  • @AlphaConviction
    @AlphaConviction หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    SO MUCH GEMS DROPPED FROM ANDY. KUDOS SIR ✊🏼

  • @yadayadayehayeha
    @yadayadayehayeha หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    this is solid, straight talk and final core deal... take action do whats good when u have the right idea.

  • @dab5328
    @dab5328 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'll say this guy is right on about the first points and preparation (talking out loud, muscle memory, etc). I've been super stressed about presenting and this exact role playing and practice exercising absolutely works.

    • @jasonpgallery
      @jasonpgallery 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yeah in sales I’ve learned a bunch of NLP things tie downs and psychology tricks. Really at the end of the day being honest and connecting with people and serving them is what gets the sales that stick.

  • @DomSolo_1
    @DomSolo_1 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This is one of the best podcast episodes I’ve seen in a while. Great job and lots of respect to the both of you!

  • @thechatterbot
    @thechatterbot หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    0:38 “You try very hard.” “Thank you.” I don't think that was a compliment. You a try hard

    • @MUGGLE137
      @MUGGLE137 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That's amazing!!! You picked that up fast!!
      Talk about emotional intelligence!!

    • @revelation6472
      @revelation6472 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Is was the laugh right after for me

  • @Antarcticist
    @Antarcticist หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Wow, this conversation resonated so hard with me. The timing on this conversation was so perfect,,
    I learned so many new things and confirmed that I am on the correct path.
    thank you for this Brett and Andrew.

    • @Kim-nz1he
      @Kim-nz1he หลายเดือนก่อน

      Me too 🙋‍♀️

  • @jamesdaniels7533
    @jamesdaniels7533 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This was one of my favorite podcasts on this channel ❤

  • @toddphipps5496
    @toddphipps5496 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The sound! Great pod. However, listening to this with ear buds was a challenge. I'm not being critical, I just thought you would want honest feedback. The caliber of guests you are interviewing on your podcasts expect the production to be crispy clear, and audible. I picked up a lot of low frequency interference, buzzing, and low to high shifts of volume in the same person's voice, as they are talking. I noticed this in both voices.
    I listend a second time on an external speaker and it was the same.
    It's most likely a quick fix, but I thought you would appreciate the feedback and consider it as a way to improve your sound quality to help improve your overall quality and increase views, subscriptions, etc. No intentions of being critical, being a know it all, or telling Aman his business, my friend. Thank you. Enjoyed the pod, thoroughly! Both times!😅

  • @krzysztofchudak-morzuchows4695
    @krzysztofchudak-morzuchows4695 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great lesson for those who are eager to learn. The guy conducting the interview is still a kido, but everyone needs to learn some lessons the hard way. Life makes us humble; this allows us to reflect on words and give them appropriate meaning in time.

  • @gloriamitchell3518
    @gloriamitchell3518 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    A lot of learning in which to implement in my everyday life.

  • @AwakenedVibration
    @AwakenedVibration หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I have a brother-in- law who is in the CIA, and an uncle in FBI. Neither of them are allowed to be on social media, nor their spouses.
    I’m curious how he’s a’spy.’

    • @krystalklear7793
      @krystalklear7793 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      He WAS a spy,
      & MAYBE he's recruiting?

    • @ИльясУалиев-о1с
      @ИльясУалиев-о1с หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Maybe being out in the open talking CIA is the assigned mission 🤷

    • @darrenjames9751
      @darrenjames9751 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ИльясУалиев-о1сexactly. This is definitely his mission, and we are the target.

    • @FractalCodex7
      @FractalCodex7 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@ИльясУалиев-о1сobviously... you don't openly talk CIA shop without approval and remain breathing.
      In most cases whoever has a big following is an asset. Hard to believe anyone considers someone like Andrew Tate to be legit. Omg the stupid hurts!

    • @fondrees
      @fondrees 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@ИльясУалиев-о1с I think it must be, there are something like 30 or 40 CIA or ex -cia members of Congress. I am sure they have social media and I am sure they are doing there jobs or have gotten permission. There CIA links are invisible on their social media accounts. This is divulging a lot of generic information, but information nonetheless. I am quite sure they all sign NDA,'s. So probably he is still working for them, promoting a narrative. To what end? Who knows.

  • @miriampopa5436
    @miriampopa5436 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Eustress...distress!
    True!👍

  • @dilfui3154
    @dilfui3154 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    little different from the usual business stuff, but Brett's interview skills carry over perfectly - would love to see more

  • @vettoc520
    @vettoc520 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Really enjoyed this podcast. Big fan of Andy who is always dropping knowledge in a way that’s relatable and understandable 👍🏼

  • @CharTheStarMeetsLadyBleak
    @CharTheStarMeetsLadyBleak วันที่ผ่านมา

    He broke down why Rockefeller funded education & why Jefferson wanted an educated civil society.

  • @fionastube2011
    @fionastube2011 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    As a highly empathetic person, I am now also a scared person. Yikes. Would really like to read some of the CIA screening tests.

  • @justinjones9042
    @justinjones9042 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Love the pool analogy, I knew it . Thankyou . I truly truly appreciate someone just said it .

  • @Johnny-b6t
    @Johnny-b6t 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I watched you from the beginning now I watch you on Skinwalker Ranch you have knowledge I love to listen.You make lots of sense....

  • @chefbrian26
    @chefbrian26 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    This is prob the best Andrew podcast I’ve seen. He went much more in-depth here than any other pod

    • @tailwind12
      @tailwind12 หลายเดือนก่อน

      any reasonable, US citizen with an IQ above 20 would ask themselves-especially IF they are a veteran or retired/veteran:
      why are these 2 on YT flappin their lips and jaw for hours, hours, and hours on any pod cast they can fidn while wearing childish 13yoa tshirt like you got at Disney World of:
      "everdayspy". how childish. from a "former" military officer? please. grow up!
      folks that talk this much and about his AF career also: BE VER suspicious of what they are saying and WHY?
      if someone is like 19yoa or the mentality of that age and think all this talk is "cool" and "wow" and "i never knew that" and OK i will buy his coffee mug and tshirt on sale:
      you are falling into their social media trap.
      retired and then i was a DoD contractor--sorry-11yrs in iraq/afghanistan taught me better-i do not listen to OR support these two yapping duo of "husband" and wife. nothing buy a marketing scam out of hollywood.
      they claim to have the creditlas? so teach at a university and stay off open-source YT with their never-ending story's.
      so bustamonte did like 8 or 10yrs agency and AF and going to "talk" for 20 about those 8yrs?
      if it is illegal or improper to reveal: the fact is their training was done in private and was not "designed" to be talked and gossiped about on YT years after they left the agency. and both "left" (which they can do) they did NOT retire with honor.
      they do not for some reason. possibly $ or just they are militants. either way not my "cup" of toxic tea i listen to millennials spill their perceived garbage about our society, nation and home because they did not like 'XYZ" at the agency.
      before being a DoD contractor i was with a city in florida for 20+yrs. was it perfect? no. though-provided me a good job, severed the public, beneifts and RETIRED of which i am grateful and thankful.
      years later do i go on YT and half bad mouth and spill 50% of "what i know" for likes, thumbs up and to sell a tshirt like a 14yoa child like these 2. never.
      retired/with pension-and teach online.
      2 "disguised" clowns these two are.

  • @benmoore7946
    @benmoore7946 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    58:53 anybody else catch the moment Andy hooked Brett like a master handler?

  • @CVET1111
    @CVET1111 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Great interview, very useful perspective.

  • @thomastmc
    @thomastmc หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's not just a car sales person. It's "used car" sales people that were disliked. The bad reputation came about from customers being manipulated and lied to by the salesperson in order to sell them junk for a premium price.

  • @RATTATATATATATA
    @RATTATATATATATA หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    16:20 As a professional car salesman with decade of experience now i feel myself as a CIA car salesman :D

  • @Sorayaraqs
    @Sorayaraqs หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    The beginning of this podcast is already a win! Pay attention people, this is free therapy. CBT techniques 🙌

    • @irenitele8497
      @irenitele8497 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      What is CBT please?

    • @UNRIGHTEOUSSINSEANTIFF
      @UNRIGHTEOUSSINSEANTIFF 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@irenitele8497 It's cognitive behavior therapy so study it

    • @UNRIGHTEOUSSINSEANTIFF
      @UNRIGHTEOUSSINSEANTIFF 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes indeed

    • @Islandbui242
      @Islandbui242 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@irenitele8497cognitive behavioral therapy

    • @dakotajacobson4250
      @dakotajacobson4250 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@irenitele8497"cognitive behavior therapy" is what the acronym is for.

  • @KevinoftheCosmos
    @KevinoftheCosmos หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    There's nothing I want badly enough to manipulate others for, unless it's out of spite for stealing from me. Namely, stealing my time.

    • @dawnmarshall1290
      @dawnmarshall1290 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      When you're asking for coffee, it s manipulation. When you're putting a baby to sleep, it's manipulation. Manipulation can mean that you have a need for help

    • @KevinoftheCosmos
      @KevinoftheCosmos 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@dawnmarshall1290 I don't agree. I'm talking about a deceptive and concerted effort to bend a person to my will. Not a suggestion. Not a comment. Not a request. Manipulation is manipulation. Moving the goalposts on what you think the word means doesn't change what it means.

    • @pmc9194
      @pmc9194 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Having seen Bustamante's stuff, in regards to influencing people's decisions and action, "manipulation" refers to the high-level intent behind those actions (influencing other people's decision making for *_your own_*_ personal_ benefit)... while the other intent is "motivation" (influencing other people's decision making for *_their_*_ personal_ benefit).
      These arent mutually exclusive. And if you've done any form of negotiation, including pay rises, or have threatened to escalate something if it wasn't dealt with eg. threatening to cut ties with a business again if they don't address an issue, then that indeed is a form of manipulation ("Coercion").

  • @christianscacchetti9178
    @christianscacchetti9178 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Anyone else think this guy’s voice sounds like Joe Rogan at times?

  • @dahnyul
    @dahnyul 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Awesome conversation. Just earned a new sub!!

  • @justinjones9042
    @justinjones9042 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Really enjoyed the expansion on perception and perspective. Very positive interview. I enjoy learning about the 2% .

  • @TheRaythion322
    @TheRaythion322 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The validation acknowledgement at 21:08 was amazing to watch 😂😂😂😂

  • @sarahkennedy1481
    @sarahkennedy1481 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    I find 90 percent of people tell me their intimate secrets. I really do not understand why but is true

    • @ruthjocaccivajjio274
      @ruthjocaccivajjio274 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      They sense they can trust you and you listen. I have the same thing.

    • @skylibrary5829
      @skylibrary5829 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Empath?

    • @SippEazy
      @SippEazy หลายเดือนก่อน

      That happens to me to

    • @tangyjoe4326
      @tangyjoe4326 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I’ve had the same even as a child. Well, adolescent more like. Adults I didn’t or hardly knew would unload all their troubles on me. As an adult I can’t count how many times someone has said to me “I’ve never told anyone this before in my life”. Often strangers. Even while waiting on my oil change at Jiffy Lube some guy just started telling me his troubles (I’m female by the way) and ended with saying that. It’s sort of flattering I guess that people trust me but it’s also kind of a burden knowing so many people’s secrets, especially when the person telling me isn’t a close friend to me but to someone I’m close to. Creates a very weird dynamic.

    • @getusome08
      @getusome08 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Look up INFJ Myers Briggs personality test. INFJ's often have folks come to them with problems.

  • @whocansaywheretheroadgoes
    @whocansaywheretheroadgoes 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you, Andrew. I liked you even before I ever listened to you.

  • @scorpio-girl687
    @scorpio-girl687 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The CIA version of ""How to Make Friends and Influence People"" 😂

  • @4seasons546
    @4seasons546 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Entertaining Good chat ❤ + Good useful information 😊 Thank you 🙏

  • @DavisMultiverse
    @DavisMultiverse 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    45:20 love this part 😄

  • @mattkestler179
    @mattkestler179 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm so glad XPac cleaned up his act and became a productive member of society

  • @90DayGoals1
    @90DayGoals1 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    High performing, empathetic, anxious people is who they look for.

  • @Celestial_Sapphire
    @Celestial_Sapphire หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Omg!!! I’ve never in my 47 years heard anyone describe my empathy and intelligence like here on this episode. I felt everything to my core when describing people with empathy that hate people. I hate people. And also have a lot of artificial relationships because ( that’s what society says I have to do). I can’t stand my mother. But I have to like her per society. 🤷‍♀️

    • @irenitele8497
      @irenitele8497 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @Celestial_sapphire, watch a video of him discussing narcissists and sociopaths you may find it enlightening! If you don't like your mom maybe there is a real reazon, not just a "choice" thing. Respect yourself and your choices. ❤❤❤

    • @IbnSharif24
      @IbnSharif24 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Like her or not, she has rights over you so respect her.❤️

  • @jessthemessenger8277
    @jessthemessenger8277 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    High EQ, Empathy, Anxiety... that's 100% me! 😩😩😩 Thank you for adding this perspective to my very existence ❤ & Thank you for sharing your wisdom.

  • @sogcezar
    @sogcezar หลายเดือนก่อน

    At exactly 43:13 the truth is spilled all over the place… it couldn’t have been more clear and real than that… I couldn’t agree more with this subtle and obvious bunch of facts…

  • @autumncastellanos2841
    @autumncastellanos2841 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thinking you're the best is lying to yourself because there will always be someone who knows more.

  • @0ne1nfinity
    @0ne1nfinity หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks for the upgrades. Leveled up! Muhahaha

  • @FranciscoQuinonez-tb7wv
    @FranciscoQuinonez-tb7wv 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    So what if you don’t want anything from anyone?

  • @DJ-fh7xn
    @DJ-fh7xn 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Excellent guest

  • @jabarwright4333
    @jabarwright4333 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I'm only about 10 minutes into this interview, but I just want to say to everybody if you want to learn these tricks a simple way to do it is honestly going to sales and just get a sales job for even a couple months. Sales teaches you how to speak like some of the best people in the world especially if you have a good sales coach or mentor as well.

    • @Athens8677
      @Athens8677 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      🧢
      no disrespect… But sales isn’t for everybody. You have to be really ready to accept a lot of rejection.

    • @tonykyle
      @tonykyle หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Athens8677Thats the goal, to be rejected and improve with time

    • @TheSantos173
      @TheSantos173 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I had a sales job for a year but then started to feel “burnt out” in regards to socializing. Even tho it was at a great location and not super demanding like some jobs are. I still struggle with developing relationships and talking out loud in front of groups like socials places.

  • @dinay8179
    @dinay8179 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I agree. I am highly empathetic and most ppl drain me.

  • @xanderthegreat1487
    @xanderthegreat1487 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    he's very good ✅

  • @Upgraydde-yo-pitch
    @Upgraydde-yo-pitch หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    😂😂 when you use the meditation he’s talking about you’re able to leave the body or astral travel…. They can do remote viewing during this process look into the gateway process if you want to understand what he’s really speaking of

  • @jett888
    @jett888 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So much for Transparency

  • @DreadFox_official
    @DreadFox_official 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    We're all people, and if you realize that your life isn't any better or worse after interacting with any given individual then there's nothing to get yourself worried about

  • @janetwebb1507
    @janetwebb1507 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Gaining TRUST

  • @realsamg
    @realsamg 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you for sharing these Brett. I always watch your videos twice lol

  • @growing367
    @growing367 หลายเดือนก่อน

    0:30 whats ur energy
    0:55 high lvl excitement anticipation
    1:41 Stress Inoculation

  • @cmvamerica9011
    @cmvamerica9011 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Continuous incremental improvement.

  • @MacSwan
    @MacSwan 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Andy you did beautifully with Little Brett, I really have to hand it to you. I couldn’t have done it myself, the valley girl voice….

  • @markcowan63752
    @markcowan63752 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What are most of your podcasts about, Brett? Are you niche or do u have a broader general vision? This was good. Ill check out some more of yours, but your good mate. Nice!

  • @YakubBlackmann
    @YakubBlackmann หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It would be good thing to have time stamps for each topic

  • @BonitaSixx
    @BonitaSixx 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Im an empath and while i love all people (i try, dint always succeed, at least), i loathe a great deal of people for sure

  • @jasonkrick1614
    @jasonkrick1614 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Nice! Gonna get my buddies to buy me a cheeseburger every day now.

  • @camilistico
    @camilistico หลายเดือนก่อน

    What a great episode, the only improvement I would make is the audio goes in and out.

  • @janedavies703
    @janedavies703 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Awesome information😊

  • @ThiirdEyeTribe
    @ThiirdEyeTribe หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Loved the chemistry in this one. I was sitting here like I was also in the convo 😅✨

  • @humanistmanifesto
    @humanistmanifesto หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I wonder what they wanted in exchange for approving his book.

  • @andrewmiller6272
    @andrewmiller6272 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Self importance is man's greatest enemy.

  • @israelguerrero8253
    @israelguerrero8253 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    CAN THIS CIA AGENT EXPLAIN TO ME WHY I AM BECOMING BETTER AND BETTER AT BOXING AND BASKET BALL? WAY BETTER THAN WHEN I WAS YOUNG,CAN HE?

  • @cryptobra5933
    @cryptobra5933 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    29:00 just like when media started calling trump WEIRD. Now the public is using WEIRD as a slogan. This guy is a brain hacker

  • @ruthjocaccivajjio274
    @ruthjocaccivajjio274 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Just love Andrew.

  • @mayyang4104
    @mayyang4104 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hahahahaha this is so comedic to me, because I can relate. I wish there was a club for cia legacy children to “connect” on how strange it is to have CIA agents as parents. Does anyone else feel lonely because you can’t connect to regular humans but are insanely good at connecting to humans? Let’s also be real that this guy has antisocial pd. I’m not judging; that’s just the baseline of why he’s effective. So these techniques he teaches people is how to denaturalize empathetic connections, which is not bad or good because everything is socially constructed and ideologically implemented. You just have to practice normative ethics when you use these skills so as not to fall too far from a range of normalcy that would make you too visible or extreme. Everything becomes an opportunity, but it’s not clouded by all the bs jargon of “manifestation.” Anyway, if you really are good at these tactics, you’ll be able to see when others use them too and it becomes quite fun because you’ll connect but never really connect because you’re conditioned to never fully trust anyone because everything is transactional anyway. Well anyway, have ethical fun y’all!

  • @Dive-Deeper
    @Dive-Deeper หลายเดือนก่อน

    How did this man gain so much useful information about human interaction? It's not probable that he learned it all from his limited time in the CIA.

  • @irminalichtarska5490
    @irminalichtarska5490 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Great interview. Thank you.

  • @askbre
    @askbre 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I just wanted his hair regimen

  • @emmateape-ry9ev
    @emmateape-ry9ev หลายเดือนก่อน

    Luv this guy! V clever . Human behaviour..... fun ! Plus he is a great teacher . His deliverance it perfect n understood by all. . Great podcast

  • @filmawayvlad
    @filmawayvlad หลายเดือนก่อน

    Honestly, it’s at best 50/50 outcome. Easy to piss people off too by applying the puppet master stuff on people too.
    But the fellow is definitely smart. Speaking of journalists