You can tell them the truth and they'll STILL try to force you into a relationship. Women will always want a relationship as long as you don't want it.
Facts, I relate. 3 good, 4 bad, 7 years total. Ended up homeless with her having two cars and I have not seen my kids in two years. For the love of God, if you do not have kids, get gone. Seriously, take a tent. I ended up under a bridge because I was trying to be peaceful and financially smart. The reason you can't escape, is because that's on purpose. Get gone, do it silent.
The best thing is delete all socials and tell them your gonna focus on yourself then they will get bored of you because most of the time they want a boy to talk with constantly and it will make it impossible for them to contact you
It's really easy. Since she is so attached you have to do it the right way. Simply send her a message that says "Honey, I need you to get your clothes out of my closet. They are too big for my new girlfriend.
after watching this, i tried to meet up with her to end our relationship, but she brought a present for me, which is a music box with our photo on it, i couldnt say what i had to say.. :(
Another struggling fellow here. I exceeded the three month mark, regrettably i'm four months in. This girl's in a sense.. Somewhat manipulative. Although I don't see malicious intent behind it? Not with the facts being: she's only been in one relationship that I know of, deals with understandably heavy anxiety and appears inexperienced with more intimate topics. I keep trying to break things off and drift from the relationship, but she's persistent in reeling me back in with the guilt of hurting her feelings! Wasn't but awhile ago that i'd tried to bring up my disdain with our relationship. I even confessed to my lack of excitement in her presence. When that was presented she wound up disconnecting herself from the conversation, infuriated with me, only to come back and beg when I tried to explain to her that I doubt there's any way to pick ourselves up from this.. There's little happiness on my end, when I know there's so much more I could have, something that's even actually healthy. Unfortunately even in my efforts she seems to blanket me with more guilt in response, doing so through her overly dramatic behaviour. It's as though we cannot even hold a fulfilling conversation.. After moving in for another shot to express my honest opinion of our relationship, she pleaded me to grant her another chance. I told her i'd think about it.. But is this the time for the grand break off? This has just really been eating at me. Cause everytime I tried before I was met with some sort of overly dramaticized tantrum of sorts. This might be my only chance, just seeking out help with putting that nail in the coffin without swerving off track. Many'a thanks.
From my personal experience I would suggest you tell her the truth and cut her off. I just got out of a relationship with a needy clingy girl. You will always be to blame for how she feels .....when she's happy she'll love you like nobody else when she's sad she will blame you and tell you that you are not good enough or that you are not loving her the way you should. Again I'm speaking from experience when I was three months in I was exactly where you were but she convinced me to stay with her we ended up moving in together and it only got worse anytime I would leave there was a fight if I wanted to play my video game or watch TV she would start a fight even if I was studying for my nasm exam she would tell me I'm spending too much time studying. There's nothing you can do for her she has to learn to love herself and be happy from within she is looking for external validation which is only temporary and you happen to be in a cross fire take my advice and get out while you still can.
Been in a long distance relationship for over a year and gone to see her a lot in different countries and love each other and stuff but I know long term it won't work but if I break up Id feel horrible becausse she'd be crushed... What do I do
b Genesis Wow, you came in a very old video to ask for advise! Well, that's why I came here as Well XD I also have this long distance relationship, and as much as I am sure that it won't work, I am also sure that she would be totally crushed and maybe me to! AHHH, I wish I never got into this relationship!
I'm trying to breakup with a girl since 2 years. She's not ready to leave me. When she calls me I don't pick her phone. When she texts me I reply 12-15 hours later. Still she's not ready to leave me. What should I do?
Bro! You are brilliant!! What can I do to kick it all the time and have coffee with the intelligent of my kind... The tribe... Sonic boom THEE GOOD energy all day..?.
I was looking for an answer in the interwebs to an issue I saw this video and clicked on it and my question was answered in the first 5 Seconds welcome to man up. That's all it takes is to man up LOL
So I have a girl that's a friend but for awhile we wanted to be more,and I told my dad about her and he said that she isn't the one and I trust my dad, so how do I kindly just cut it off??
How do I get rid of someone who won’t leave. Like refuses to leave and keeps coming to my house and just won’t get the fuck out of my life? She hits me and ruins everything I have with my family and when I try to make her leave it doesn’t work
Mines weird, we talked for like 2 weeks, we were cool casual.. met up finally and we hung out we were cool n that night had sex, that next day she was already showing signs of clinginess and attachment, shes struck me as the type that was flirty n kinda promiscuous, so this kinda freaked me out n i pushed away a bit while still trying to keep things cool n casual; then she starts with the mood swinging texts which pushed me further n weurded me out more; its been 2 weeks like that, keep in mind shes 24 im 34, i saw alot of red flags in this process but regretfully slept with her on the first date; we parted ways via text and i now have her blocked.. did i over react, did i duck out too soon, my gut said no, but idk, i do associate more with the pick up artist mindset so i get confused as to dating.. idk what i did.. keep in mind she mentioned using drugs n drinking n driving in the past n it was a def red flag for me.... this whole thing has occured in 1 month, maybe less... we havent met except for the one time
Has someone who really doesn’t have experience in this things, I literally unintentionally make her things that something was going on between us…. Don’t get me wrong I was really into the girl, she’s has literally the mentality and personality of a girl that any man would wife her up, we been talking for a good two months now, like we already together even if not officially….. this girl really deeply in love me since I’m her crush and first “boyfriend” let’s say…. My problem is that we went out for the first time a few days ago….. she didn’t look exactly how I expected…. she look like in her picture but like the bad version of it not as good as the pic…. So I was caught into the moment and keep doing the same mistake I that I was doing on the phone….. after I went home I felt like that all the love that I used to have to her was gone….. so my question is, how I’m gonna tell her that it’s better that we’re just friends, without hurting her feelings??
4.5 years I realised we are different people she not willing to improve still same person met 4.5 years ago so no hope for us I want gf who brings best out of me someone with lot of energy.
Umm i dont know what to do, im in a polly relationship which means we r dating sevral people, but we are all dating eachother. They all dont count me in but they still want me in the relationship. When they do count me in, its like they only want me. I've talked to them multiple times but they wont let me go. I dont want to be in this relationship anymore but i dont know how to get out.
We have been going out for 1 month and ı already break uo with her saying that ı am too nervous for a relationship cause this is my first relationship and ı am 18 years old 1 week later she came to me and we tring it again but ı know it wont be long term because ı wanna break up but ı said that ı love her lie but ı just dont hate her but ı dont know what to do probably a couple of months later ı am gonna tell her ı dont feel the same way about her and break uo with her
You can tell them the truth and they'll STILL try to force you into a relationship. Women will always want a relationship as long as you don't want it.
I tell her I lost my job and I'm going play video games and watch tv you would not believe how they disappear
🤣🤣🤣
Ooh God😂
I've already talked about Breaking up with my girlfriend every week and now it's been 2yrs in our relationship 😥😰
Man up and make a choice.
You either make a full decision or you quit whining.
Facts, I relate. 3 good, 4 bad, 7 years total. Ended up homeless with her having two cars and I have not seen my kids in two years. For the love of God, if you do not have kids, get gone. Seriously, take a tent. I ended up under a bridge because I was trying to be peaceful and financially smart. The reason you can't escape, is because that's on purpose. Get gone, do it silent.
oh no I hope I don’t end up like this
Me too bro 🤣 did you ever break up with her ? 👀
Same here
The best thing is delete all socials and tell them your gonna focus on yourself then they will get bored of you because most of the time they want a boy to talk with constantly and it will make it impossible for them to contact you
If the girl doesn't define her expectations before sex, that's on her. She's an adult too.
💯💯
It's like he's talking directly to me, I'm in the same scenario
I immediately saw this title I fucking clicked on it
It's really easy. Since she is so attached you have to do it the right way. Simply send her a message that says "Honey, I need you to get your clothes out of my closet. They are too big for my new girlfriend.
Savage!
Savage😂😢
😂😂🤣🤣
13 months. I guess this is the right advice. I'mma give it a go
after watching this, i tried to meet up with her to end our relationship, but she brought a present for me, which is a music box with our photo on it, i couldnt say what i had to say.. :(
Sick man
na bro I got you she did something similar to me too. 9months in
😂😂😭
😂😂😂
I got into a relationship too fast after my last one, and im in chernobyl damage control. Im literally pretending to laugh at her jokes 😅
FUCKING LEAVE HER DAWG LMAO SHE DOESNT OWN U
Me right now lol
Lmaoooo, just leave? It’s never easy but do it
@@somberspacegamingbro it not as easy as it seems
Six damn years. I collected my balls to break up this weekend.
Hey, I am proud of you. I am have been trying to break up for a whole week :(
Did You?
Literally in this same position. 6 years. It has to be done ASAP
Bro, my girls got some problems and were coming up on three years and its fucking scary, but we need to break up
What if shes just crazy and didn't seem like that at the start of the relationship because she acted shy?
A Lost Soul That's called a Yandere fam..... Beware .. Let her shift away.
A Lost Soul ikr
More than 2 years..but I think this will help me doing it
I like another girl more than I like the one I have.I haven’t cheated on her but I don’t know how to breakup with her
I don’t want to hurt her feelings
Sameeeee
Damn howd it go
same bro bro
Another struggling fellow here. I exceeded the three month mark, regrettably i'm four months in. This girl's in a sense.. Somewhat manipulative. Although I don't see malicious intent behind it? Not with the facts being: she's only been in one relationship that I know of, deals with understandably heavy anxiety and appears inexperienced with more intimate topics. I keep trying to break things off and drift from the relationship, but she's persistent in reeling me back in with the guilt of hurting her feelings! Wasn't but awhile ago that i'd tried to bring up my disdain with our relationship. I even confessed to my lack of excitement in her presence. When that was presented she wound up disconnecting herself from the conversation, infuriated with me, only to come back and beg when I tried to explain to her that I doubt there's any way to pick ourselves up from this.. There's little happiness on my end, when I know there's so much more I could have, something that's even actually healthy. Unfortunately even in my efforts she seems to blanket me with more guilt in response, doing so through her overly dramatic behaviour. It's as though we cannot even hold a fulfilling conversation.. After moving in for another shot to express my honest opinion of our relationship, she pleaded me to grant her another chance. I told her i'd think about it.. But is this the time for the grand break off? This has just really been eating at me. Cause everytime I tried before I was met with some sort of overly dramaticized tantrum of sorts. This might be my only chance, just seeking out help with putting that nail in the coffin without swerving off track.
Many'a thanks.
From my personal experience I would suggest you tell her the truth and cut her off. I just got out of a relationship with a needy clingy girl. You will always be to blame for how she feels .....when she's happy she'll love you like nobody else when she's sad she will blame you and tell you that you are not good enough or that you are not loving her the way you should. Again I'm speaking from experience when I was three months in I was exactly where you were but she convinced me to stay with her we ended up moving in together and it only got worse anytime I would leave there was a fight if I wanted to play my video game or watch TV she would start a fight even if I was studying for my nasm exam she would tell me I'm spending too much time studying. There's nothing you can do for her she has to learn to love herself and be happy from within she is looking for external validation which is only temporary and you happen to be in a cross fire take my advice and get out while you still can.
@@expandyourmindthinkoutside1010 most relatable thing i ever came across thank you
Thanks for this. This is everything i needed to hear
@@expandyourmindthinkoutside1010 i needed this, it's been 3 long years
Why am i responsible for what goes on in her mind. And her expectations???
TE, you are not responsible for her thoughts. You are responsible for yourt thoughts. She is responsible for her thoughts
Needed this, thank man.
Been in a long distance relationship for over a year and gone to see her a lot in different countries and love each other and stuff but I know long term it won't work but if I break up Id feel horrible becausse she'd be crushed... What do I do
b Genesis
Wow, you came in a very old video to ask for advise! Well, that's why I came here as Well XD
I also have this long distance relationship, and as much as I am sure that it won't work, I am also sure that she would be totally crushed and maybe me to!
AHHH, I wish I never got into this relationship!
@@ramijoseph1164 its like you took the words ryt out of my mouth
@b Genesis
@afro Samurai
@Rami Joseph
Guys.. I wanna ask all three of you.. how did it go?
I'm trying to breakup with a girl since 2 years. She's not ready to leave me. When she calls me I don't pick her phone. When she texts me I reply 12-15 hours later. Still she's not ready to leave me. What should I do?
This is my tip if you are done your done let her hate you you could block her number
Any update 😂
1 year bros...
14 months bro
Today's the day😓
She shot me in the leg
That's not very cash money
Hbnj Fgyhnji omfg u serious?
Well you’ve fucked up😕
Bro! You are brilliant!! What can I do to kick it all the time and have coffee with the intelligent of my kind... The tribe... Sonic boom THEE GOOD energy all day..?.
I've been with her for one day I'm already tired of her as a gf but she's my best friend
Nikki annoynumus same.
Same
Bro
Lmao
I was looking for an answer in the interwebs to an issue I saw this video and clicked on it and my question was answered in the first 5 Seconds welcome to man up. That's all it takes is to man up LOL
It really helps~ Thanks...
lol. love that you have to say let her hate you
Step one
Just tell her it's over
Not that easy big guy lol
It's never easy, bruh!
So I have a girl that's a friend but for awhile we wanted to be more,and I told my dad about her and he said that she isn't the one and I trust my dad, so how do I kindly just cut it off??
Get a new girl
How do I get rid of someone who won’t leave. Like refuses to leave and keeps coming to my house and just won’t get the fuck out of my life? She hits me and ruins everything I have with my family and when I try to make her leave it doesn’t work
Legal action. Restraining order
Leave the town
3:16 Her name is literally Honesty 💀. What have I done guys
Mines weird, we talked for like 2 weeks, we were cool casual.. met up finally and we hung out we were cool n that night had sex, that next day she was already showing signs of clinginess and attachment, shes struck me as the type that was flirty n kinda promiscuous, so this kinda freaked me out n i pushed away a bit while still trying to keep things cool n casual; then she starts with the mood swinging texts which pushed me further n weurded me out more; its been 2 weeks like that, keep in mind shes 24 im 34, i saw alot of red flags in this process but regretfully slept with her on the first date; we parted ways via text and i now have her blocked.. did i over react, did i duck out too soon, my gut said no, but idk, i do associate more with the pick up artist mindset so i get confused as to dating.. idk what i did.. keep in mind she mentioned using drugs n drinking n driving in the past n it was a def red flag for me.... this whole thing has occured in 1 month, maybe less... we havent met except for the one time
Same it's like after the sex got super clingy scares me off
Me too but on a 1000% more worst in my case.
It's very hard 😔 trying 4years an still
Bro I’m going thru the same thing ;(( I’m at 4 years as wel
Im a little over 2 years in and i just don’t know how to tell her that I’ve lost interest
Im in 4 years and ive lost interest but she is my best friend and does everything for me. I just dont know how to deal with this
Yes, speak plainly like a real man!!! ❣️❣️❣️❣️🙆🙆🙆 Yes on the phone!!
I'm only one call away..🤔🙋🙏🏼✝️🙋❣️
So on call is better than texting, right?
Over a year she won’t let me leave and I don’t want to hurt her I feel sorry for her idk what to do
Itz been more than 2 years I am in a relationship n I don't wanna continue this relationship kindly help me out🙏
did you get away safely?
girl work and have more important things to do than call the douch at 4 in the morning lol.
Shes phoning and texting over and over shes depressed and crazy help
lol months? is this even a relationship? i just broke up with a girlfriend of 10 years. that fucking hurt. pff months.
7 months FML
Has someone who really doesn’t have experience in this things, I literally unintentionally make her things that something was going on between us…. Don’t get me wrong I was really into the girl, she’s has literally the mentality and personality of a girl that any man would wife her up, we been talking for a good two months now, like we already together even if not officially….. this girl really deeply in love me since I’m her crush and first “boyfriend” let’s say…. My problem is that we went out for the first time a few days ago….. she didn’t look exactly how I expected…. she look like in her picture but like the bad version of it not as good as the pic…. So I was caught into the moment and keep doing the same mistake I that I was doing on the phone….. after I went home I felt like that all the love that I used to have to her was gone….. so my question is, how I’m gonna tell her that it’s better that we’re just friends, without hurting her feelings??
4.5 years I realised we are different people she not willing to improve still same person met 4.5 years ago so no hope for us I want gf who brings best out of me someone with lot of energy.
Is there anyway to possibly keep it casual or have we already gone too far lmao
Thanks
Lol try 3 years
Umm i dont know what to do, im in a polly relationship which means we r dating sevral people, but we are all dating eachother. They all dont count me in but they still want me in the relationship. When they do count me in, its like they only want me. I've talked to them multiple times but they wont let me go. I dont want to be in this relationship anymore but i dont know how to get out.
We have been going out for 1 month and ı already break uo with her saying that ı am too nervous for a relationship cause this is my first relationship and ı am 18 years old 1 week later she came to me and we tring it again but ı know it wont be long term because ı wanna break up but ı said that ı love her lie but ı just dont hate her but ı dont know what to do probably a couple of months later ı am gonna tell her ı dont feel the same way about her and break uo with her
Omg this is my exact situation
Exactly my situation...
Same
Ok info.