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Entrepreneur Justin Waller and film director Axel Axe delve into the ultimate guide to becoming a high-level man. They talk about making money, fitness, getting women, breakups, dating multiple women, networking, brotherhood, the state of working men in America and The Real World online school. Justin Waller gained recognition online by appearing in a lot of podcasts with Andrew Tate and Tristan Tate.
Together, they share their wisdom, experiences, and practical advice for personal growth, success, and self-improvement.
In this dynamic conversation, Justin and Axel explore the traits and habits that contribute to becoming a high-level man. They discuss the importance of mindset, discipline, and continuous learning in achieving personal and professional excellence. From setting and achieving goals to building strong relationships, they provide actionable strategies for men seeking to level up in all aspects of life. JWaller and Tristan Tate recorded an interview covering all of the current issues involving males, and that is how Axel first discovered Justin.
Drawing from their own journeys, Justin and Axel discuss the challenges they've faced and the lessons they've learned along the way. They delve into topics such as self-confidence, leadership, effective communication, and the importance of personal well-being.
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Adios mi amor 🖤
Amor God will give you two daughters 😉
@@ellamedic8963 and they will be amazing
@@AxelAxe I am sure they will. But even good women get their hearts broken. I just don’t think it’s ok to intentionally play with a woman’s heart. At the end of the day, manipulation is manipulation. It’s still negative act commited regardless of who is on the receiving end of it. Its like saying murder is ok because the victim was a bad person. If you’re such a high value man, why engage in something so negative and shallow? And forgive me I am not saying you are doing that, but just speaking in general. Both of you come of as very mature men, especially you. However, I think Justin preaches some things that I find hard to believe he even follows himself.
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What is the name of the song ?
Make a list on notes on your phone, of everything wrong with the person you were in a relationship. All the things that you didn’t like, their behaviours, the way they treated you. Every time you think about them read that list and remind yourself why that person wasn’t the right person for you. Worked for me. I was over it within a month.
That has worked for me as well. Works like a charm.
Just made mine and it is good reading material.👌
great advice - thanks
Nice trick mate, but I don't think this gonna work out for me cuz I genuinely want to keep all the good things and memories of her, also wishing the best for her even when the breakup hit, she blamed it all on me. The last thing i said to her was : Thank you for everything. Then 2 week later i blocked all social connection to her and our mutual friends that i know i rarely see them again. It been three months now, i don't want to beg,try to get back or anything like that, i still love her i know but this is the time i need to learn to love myself first. i haven't get over the breakup yet but i know i will, eventually.
@@hoangdo1539 Why would you want to keep good memories of her if she blamed you for everything!? If I read that correctly, that don't make no sense! Like, yeah I get the "taking the high road" mentality; but you can't let someone have power over you. Meaning, you got to not think about them and move on. Ik it is hard as fk, but you got to TRY to not remember her especially if she blamed you for everything! So what if you don't see her friends or her posts anymore. If you truly care about your mental health and yourself; please don't put anymore power into thinking about someone who obviously blamed you for everything. Unless she was right to do so, then that is different. You need to give this up to Jesus my friend and keep doing you. As ez as it is to say, somethings happen for a reason and probably best that way!
“Don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner”
Tough way to live life.
Heat, is such a fire movie.
That’s a heat quote, Robert deniro
@@millionairebully indeed
@@frankielyman8769 Was hoping someone would notice 😂
This logic applies to any woman you're in love with, wether you're together or not. It's going to be hard as hell to let her go, because in your heart you know you're letting go of all the dreams you had about her, all the futures you wished for. But as a man you have to reconcile with the fact that your dream for yourself as a man with a legacy with honor and pride, that if she is actively going against that for whatever reason, if she isn't chasing you rather than you chasing her. That's a wrap, it's already over, the dreams you had with her are already dead you just haven't realized it or don't want to swallow that pill. The sooner you remove yourself from that equation and move on, the better off everyone will be. You don't have to be spiteful or angry about it even though that is indeed how you might feel, ultimately exiting with class will position you in the best place you can see yourself looking back on it all. And how you see yourself in all of this is truly all that matters.
That’s very well articulated
great post, this is why i suffered so badly in 2019 from my previous r/s which my Ex completely shattered me and broke me. i'm in a new r/s and recently i accessed my google drive backup and saw so many old photos and videos of us and all the memories came back and my brain was playing tricks on me with the good memories only. Took me awhile before i had to think back of all the nasty memories and sad times i was dealing with alone whilst i was in the r/s too. it's painful thinking back about the what if's moments but crazy that hald a decade has passed since that happened
I separated from my wife 6 months ago. It was so hard. I begged her to stay. I was very weak. But now I’m getting over her. She has parties and slept with random guys. While I have set up a business. Gone back to college, gym, read books, no coffee, I have started making smoothies
Keep working on yourself and don’t worry about anything else. You will think about her but eventually that will fade away. Don’t stop growing man. There is so much to Life that you can experience if you keep on that path
@@AxelAxe thank you I need that comment. We have kids together so I can’t not see her. But i know that I’m on the right track for self improvement
@@fireblade8905 I’m in the same situation, but with time your thoughts will change towards the things that now matter to you and you will move ahead. Thanks for sharing and being honest man. I appreciate your time
@@fireblade8905 trust me, her time will come sooner than later. Especially when you get younger woman and have more kids with her, unfortunately your other set of children might also get jealous but that’s the game
Remember the long game, brother. I am in the same boat - separated 2 months ago, but no kids. I'm sure she slept with at least 1 random guy as well. Remember, the long game: focus on where she will be in 5 years and where you will be in 5 years. Women with body count are a depreciating asset, whereas you're an appreciating asset assuming you do things right
When i had my first break up i was such a miserable bet@ I kept trying to get her back. Now i realized this one thing. If a woman leaves you she is basically saying. I can find someone better than you. When i realized this breaking up was no longer an issue. I showed that woman they won't find someone better by outworking all her potential partners. Out of all 4 break ups 3 tried to get back with me instead😂
That’s the way to go. Be polite and always a gentleman. Then outwork everyone
would you say its a money thing.
@@maureenpether5265 Mine was a money thing.
This si fucking true
“I'm sorry it's come down to this
There's so much about you that I'm gonna miss” 🔥🔥🔥
Adios mi amor
Take care
11 years ago I got dumped by my first girlfriend of 3 years which sent me into a spiral of depression for 6 months, which I came out of a completely different much stronger person and have used all the pain, grief and loss as a catalyst to completely transform myself into a very financially successful man with a very respectable job, a great husband and a son who takes care of any problems his parents have with money.
Some of the worst things that happen to you can be complete life changers if you can find yourself in the chaos, it's almost like the old you dies and you're reborn again with a new mission in life. Remember, energy can never be destroyed only converted, turn the extreme negative into incredible positive.
Thats the way to go!!! It is hard at first but you will become better and better
How long did it take you to move on?
Walking away from someone I'm deeply in love with is the most difficult thing I have ever done. However, it's what I must do in order to find my destiny. Strength, heal, and move on. I love the full episode. Thank you for an incredibly invaluable message. 🙏🏻
Thanks for sharing Collin. You’re right it is difficult and that shows you actually had massive love. Don’t let that keep you from living in the future.
Keep ahead and build yourself. 🙏
@@AxelAxe thank you king. 👑
Real love is letting themselves go when they want to leave. That version of you had to die so new version of you can be created.
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i FEEL you bro believe me im still trying to fix it , but she is so stubborn and of coarse its aalll my faauuult wtf
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@@AxelAxe lol you got the bots running rampant in your comments
@@glitchinthematrix555 thanks for letting me know. I'll block them asap
You've got to be a man. Even though it hurts don't show any emotion. If you show emotion you lose they will never call you back. Even if she doesn't call you back, she won't forget you.
Imprint yourself in their minds forever. Always a gentleman, always the best man they have ever come across.
i agree.its just doing it
Been through the emotional rollercoaster and properly indoctrinated within college programming…now, I’m looking forward to the colder, lonelier and service oriented path of my masculine journey. Thank you for the advice.
Doesn’t have to be lonelier. Make sure to add good brothers to your pack man. It makes a huge difference in life
I think that either if you want to heal as soon as possible or get her back strategy should be the same. Accept the breakup and walk away.
One of the hardest things to do, but after you go through it once you will be ready forever.
You're right, and for a dude it's the only path that is open, which keeps your self-respect intact.
@@Mr.McWatson word
@@Mr.McWatsonYes and most guys nowadays will beg, plead and chase after a breakup. So you not only walk away with your dignity, you show her that you have strenght and stand up from the crowd.
@@roger9162 exactly
Absolutely true. Have done the breakups with girls my whole life like this and was always respected for this over a long time after the breakup.
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I used this advice this last week, ole girl left but wanted me to beg for her back the next day when she texted me, i told her straight up “if you want to leave, leave i wont hold you back” and reacted the same way as said in this video
Is very interesting how they will leave but still want for us to chase them. Adios
Take care
I did this twice in my life. I am glade someone out there is spreading the same message. We all want our women to be better, but when they start to disrespect and go their own way, it is time for seperation. I know the feeling and difficulty it has become for people, but it feels ten times better when you know you are living a better life after a long journey of self improvement. Let her know from your stories and pictures that you are doing just fine without her. Make sure you are having the fun and awesome things she misses. It is not for revenge, it is for yourself and motivation to move into a new part of your life. Just like Justin said, if she comes back, it is up to you to do the right thing. Make up a tight rule for her, make her undestand she has to pay double the price to enter back in your life. People need to be accountable!
You said it perfectly
You say it perfect❤
Do you think it's okay to allow her back into your life if she does?
@@elielsaban8218 thats something very personal for you to decide. Just be careful and aware of all the issues you had before and make an assessment with a calm mind whether or not those issues have been resolved. There is no denying that in the back of your head you will always be questioning if you’re making the right choice and that might sabotage any chance for the relationship
@@elielsaban8218 If she comes back to you, you have to make her pay double the price. Either the money, or something that hurts her in the guts to sacrifice for you. I am not talking about revenge, I am talking about responsiblity and opportunity cost. She needs to pay for that cost so that she can get hold of YOU! If someone wanted something from you, ask for the price, then bail, then comes back after a few month after the market price rise for 20%, do you want to sell to her for the original price or 20%? Of course not!
Same situation rn, and I'm dealing this heartbreak really in a hard way since 2 weeks and I cant eat properly, I cant do my job properly and day by day being haunted by memories, this video somehow boost my shattered ego.
I know how you feel brother.
Watch my [dark mode] video. It will help
Get laid with other women
How are you now bro?
@@PrashantSingh-rp6mf hopefully he's good but im finished bro
Getting my heart robbed a few years ago was unimaginable pain, and it made me so much more kind when dating and leaving women. No one deserves it in vane.
Very true
I’ve always said to any of my past GF’s when they have decided or myself to end the relationship that once this boat sets it sails it never comes back.
Being able to walk away at any given second is the most power a man can ever obtain no matter how attractive or cool she is.
If you don’t respect yourself why should she have respect for you.
Can you sleep with her sometimes just for control?
Walking away is for quitters, shows extreme weakness. Nothing will ever work for you if you continue being a quitter. It is not a super power to be cold and disrespectful by leaving someone you claim to love.
I have always practiced this very good advice, never go back or look back, straight forward. Break ups should be very short. “ It’s just not a good fit”, never explain why, then leave and never look back.
Difficult but is the best for both parties
I just did this minutes ago. My wife and daughter have moved out.
Glad I was able to cowboy up. Thank you.
My thoughts are with you David stay strong and be there for your daughter. I know from experience that the next few months will be extremely difficult for you man. But turn pain into fuel, and use that fuel to improve as a man.
@@AxelAxe thank you for the advice and the video. I honestly think my emotions would have gotten in the way if it wasn’t for this. I am forever grateful.
I have always been there for my daughter and always will be.
I’m determined to win my rodeo this time around. The sky is the limit for this cowboy now.
@@davidlr7665 100%% David. Replay this whenever you’re feeling down brother. We are here for you man.
Good for you bro my wife was from Columbia i told her to watch our for American woman they are jealous and will ruin a good thing. Anyways after 4 years of marriage and building her career up and her credit etc....she decided to come home one day and NOT tell me where she was. I did not ask but i let it be a test to her... Guess what she did not come home again hahaa jokes on her i immediately changed the locks. No contact NOTHING. Watch out guys woman are smart they want to keep the door open to get help from you example help her fix her auto, fix her home, give her financial advice etc... Please guys don't be a SIMP cut them off COLD let them figure out life's problem on there own. Woman now just need to sleep with a lawyer,accountant,mechanic and keep them all in friends mode so they can come up NO WAY do that let them suffer on there own
I'm in the same boat, wife left with daughter. How do you overcome bitterness and jealousy? I workout until I want to throw up, but the negative thoughts are inevitably
Every man. Needs to hear this. Thank you.
Thanks for your time listening 🙏
to anyone in need to hear this. never give up. you are never alone or first one to suffer, its all needed to grow up as a person. life is never easy but we never stop and grow, love is always in the air. grind. promise yourself to always stand up stronger. cherish the experience. peace brothers all over the world. value your health and serenity, take care.
Perfectly said. Hope the best for you as well. 🙏
This is priceless advice.
Th aka Tommy. What was your favorite section?
That's self respect... 🔥
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I needed this, this week.
Glad to be of help
I really appreciate this video. Thank you
Glad it was helpful!
People don’t tell you what you need to hear but this right here told me what I needed to hear because I was that dude blowing her up asking for closure asking why she doing this and it came to a point where I stop calling an this video was the reassurance that I needed to know that I was doing the right thing by letting her
Now you will never make that mistake again
Hell no
This information is precious and will surely save a lot of lives and homes. This is god sent. Thanks.... glad i subscribed
Thanks
Thanks brother. I don't know if I needed the encouragement to stay the course, but it sure as hell doesn't hurt
We all need it to stay the course. Stay strong man
Might be the greatest advice I’ve received through my break up
Talking from experience it definitely works
Going to watch this everyday to remind me about my decision
That’s exactly why I asked this question. Having this reminder is going to be a life saver.
Bro, just did that for the first time a week ago
Ur giving me the best news ever
You’re past the worst week.
This is so inspiring man going through this shit right now and it absolutely helps thank you guys
You’re going to have a couple weeks of pain, but it gets better
Bruv, I see you man. Keep killing it
My dude!!!!! Thanks so much. Whenever you’re in LA hit me up bro. We need to grab some food and catch up.
Wow, learnt a lot from this!
Glad to hear it! What part hit you harder?
This is really helping me now
Best of luck man
Walking away & letting Go when you dont want to is hard AF! Ive already sent 2 text in 2 weeks. I guess im putting the phone down now! 👍
You’re totally right it is very hard. But you can do it and it will get easier with time.
This is some of the best 8 minutes I’ve ever seen on the internet.
Really appreciate you saying that. Sometimes we think we are the only ones dealing with this but I’m finding so many men learning to navigate this.
Hope you watch the full episode too.
Thanks for your time 🙏
Same. Thanks for sharing the stuff ain't easy but just like rodeo even if not an 8 a second ride, the trick is to not bust your face on the gate because it's essentially the same thing. Lots of these relationships are a loaded gun/a bucking bull waiting to stomp on ya once they throw ya off.... ain't no point in reasoning. Ya ever, EVER, see a cowboy go try and reason with the bull once they're bucked thefck off?! No! They run for the gate and let the clowns deal with em instead and try to even when injured ride and exit with style but still get out with the guts to ride again next time with more know how than before
@@hellbentholland1008 that metaphor is the perfect way to explain this. You nailed it
Just focus on yourself,if they're want you, they will come, don't Chase.
Very true
Great advice. I'm starting to like this Justin Waller fellow.
The so for checking out the clip. We have a full 1h episode that you might find very interesting
real STAY HARD!!
Great stuff here!
Thanks Chris. I appreciate your time
Where can I listen to the full podcast ? Amazing advice !
just click on my channel name and is the pinned video at the top
Amazing brothers so true
So glad the show is helping you
It is the game, you stand by your guns and if they test you…..you never look back. Hurts but it’s the right thing to do 👊
Give a couple warning shots first.
@@AxelAxe yes, if they deserve them 👍
I want the non simp country music playlist 💪🏾
I’ll subscribe to that and I don’t even like country lol
" I am really going to miss you, but I am never going to be your back up plan or any plan " !
LOVE IT!!!
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My gf/mother of my daughter left me after 15 years together! All because i work nights and didnt put in as many hours as her. I worked, picked up every extra shift possible to pay the bills. I paid the DTE & WIFI bill every single month for the past 14 years. It hurts so bad inside. I feel 💔. I did all the laundry in the house. I cleaned, i washed her work clothes every single night so she didnt have dirty work clothes when she woke up after working the night shift i would get home and make sure her n our daughter had clean clothes for the morning. She threw me away like trash when i showed her love, gave her attention, put my whole heart into her. Always asked how her day was. Just a month ago on my birthday she was talking about having another baby! Now she kicks me out in the cold, not even 2 weeks into our "break" i find out she was sleeping with our downstairs neighbor! I feel like this breakup is so 1 sided. I feel broken inside while she acts like nothing bothers her and she lives this amazing life smh i always thought after 15 years together that she would think of me or have SOME love in her heart for me. I havent spoke to her since. She abandoned me & replaced me as if she never met me! I dont get it. Sorry for the long rant guys. Jus need advice bad. 15 years jus for her to forget about me and have no love for me after that many years and a kid together! I just do not get it
Now the only person that should matter to you is your daughter. Make sure she sees you strong and building yourself back up.
You must find a way to leave that job and move to a daytime gig.
You need to sit down today and write down 3 things you want to accomplish to feel like a beast.
Use this pain as fuel to get up and go make more money and become way more successful than that **s neighbor and show your ex from afar who she is missing.
You will not have weakness in you.
You will only move forward.
You will win.
The advice above is poor. What you aren't understanding is men feel like because they put food on the table she will stay. You literally just said she left because you were not there, not emotionally for her. You maybe there financially and physically but you didn't marry her did you. 15 years and she's still your gf. I've been trying to explain this to men. Women want a man who is emotionally there for them. The lack of vulnerability will ruin your relationships. You said you had an amazing 15 years together to you. She wouldn't have left then. You were not fulfilling her emotional needs as a woman. She went to the person who was there and listened to her. What is there not to understand?.
@@cha9165 there is a lot of truth in what you’re saying but you’re also missing the point of view of a man. We give love as providers and protectors. It goes both ways.
@@cha9165 Yes yes it's always the man's fault. He needed to change and be there for her cause she was perfect for 15 years. There wasn't anything she needed to work on, correct? Her flaws weren't a deal breaker for him but the guy downstairs was for her because he was going to make all her problems just disappear, right? Give me a fking break!!
This is helping me a lot.
Glad to hear that. What are your goals for this year?
@AxelAxe is getting back in the gym and getting my life back on track.
Keep it up man great work
Watching this on daily basis 👏
Glad you enjoy it! Did you watch the full convo?
@@AxelAxe sure man.
Watch all the Podcast and precisely The Break up Rules video and The definition of Dark Love Video.
Helped me out alot lately
Am a software Engineer and A personal Trainer 22 years old doing quite well for my self at a young age .
I work out and am jacked take care of my parents and yet got dumped after a 1 year relationship.
I have been doing self improvement since i was 18 and i was always used to be considered and still a high value man between my peers and family and friends and girl friends but after getting dumped which isn’t my first heartbreak at all i used before getting all the red pill content on youtube i used to self improve to become so high value not to tolerate any female bullshit any more which is the case in this video.
This video always keeps be as implied having the “iron-mind” and always improving. Watch it every morning before heading to work and during my cardio sessions post workout everyday for the past 3 months
Keep it up man wish you all the best
@@daherhammoura9526 that’s impressive and you should be proud of your hard work and progress. Hopefully we meet one day and we can talk about your whole experience. Keep your head up and you will find a multitude of good women who will see your value and bring love to your life.
Stay getting better.
@@AxelAxe sure will❤️❤️
Looking forward
I agree with most of this, except that "there's no pain greater than heartbreak". Been through that and also been through health issues. Depending on the issue, health issues can be a much stronger pain. Fortunately, I overcame it. Also, the pain of being poor in an environment with none to little opportunity where you have your family going hungry etc.. i imagine that's even a stronger pain
I think other than the pain of mourning the death of someone you love, heartbreak is up there
Ever tear an ACL
Sir J waller,
Am just another cowboy who just had his heart broken.
This was really important life lessons.
Live&Learn
..never beg for love...
Well said
JW is the man 👊🏽
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What video are you guys talking about in the beginning? can you guys post it
Search J Waller and Tristan and you will find it
The Iron Mind 🤯 Every man needs to hear this.. what a wake-up call.. 😅 If you don't respect yourself, a woman never will 👊 It's hard, fellas. I'm going through it right now..
Stay strong brother.
I walked away last April and never looked back, how r u dealing with all this man? Stay strong!
me too i try to fix it and all i get is that its all my fauuult total fuckin bs , they wont listen its total heart break man
Hell yeah!
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He’s giving free game
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Literally just had to send that text today. She knows what ahe did on this day.
Time to go dark
I’m feeling it now … gave it my all and ended up angry and hurt in the end … I got full custody of the girls and waited for her to stop drinking … she couldn’t do it and she was the one saying it’s over … CowBoy up
So glad to hear youre staying with your daughters. Make sure to love them and show them what a true strong man is. Life is hard man but we gotta keep going. I'm away from my kids but I do my best to stay always present.
I appreciate ❤
Our pleasure 🙏
Needed this! Going through it now. Had the woman I wanted to spend the rest of my life with walk out. Hit her with the one text and walked away.
It’s going to be a difficult few months, but I promise you if you focus on yourself and becoming better you will find success in all areas.
Strength 💪🏼
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I face this and I did it, I said bye and walked away. After a week I was weaker than her and I respond to one of her wpp stories, being alone in other country, with non support group played games with my mind. I don't feel proud, after this we end up in a video call, and same story I told her the same. Lets take some distance.
I thought because was me braking up was going to be easier, but I was wrong.
I comment this cuz now I realize what was my error, why I contacted her again. I took the decision but I started doubting.
So my advice if someone is facing the same thing so doesn't make the same mistake is...
Understand why you walked away, put it on paper, I don't write a lot, but putting in on paper believe me it helps a lot.
Also write how this decision is going to help you in the long run, and read it any time you start doubting.
And work on yourself, and enjoy the process of becoming better.
Well said Bruno. I hope you can remain strong and build yourself up. I would add to call a close brother or friend when you start having doubts. Someone who can remind you of why you’re making that decision in the first place
I wish I had heard my old man. He told me just this and I ignored it because I felt like she was the love of my life so I needed to do everything within my reach to get her back. Her 2 sisters and her mom reached to me and I told them to help me because I loved her so much and I also talked to an older woman witch is my friend and also hers. It’s been almost a month since the break up (8 years and 7 months of relationship). Idk if that strategy would work but probably would do way better than what I did. Today she sent me a message saying we’re adults and we shouldn’t involve other persons in our problems, so what I did only made her feel more confident and mature. It was when I finally understood and said goodbye… Idk what the future is going to be for “us”, but right now I just went ghost on every social media and I’m fully committed on self improvement. I guess I should be better to get better things because what she did with me was a proof of her no-love for me and that it was only a passion.
Probably one of the hardest things you will experience in your life, but there will ne a lot more you will learn from this.
I’m happy you’re approaching it the proper way now and have found a new direction. Focus on that path and get better. Don’t worry about what could have been different. Only focus on the future
@@AxelAxe thanks G, I really appreciate your advice 🙏🏻
Whatever he said is true !!
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I begged, I cried, I brought up past happy memories with her. I tried everything and the more I tried the more she looked down on me and lost respect. Trust me it’s going to hurt like hell, but Justin is 1000% right here. Just say sorry it did not work out send that last text and WALK AWAY!
100% true
I was seeing this great girl for nearly two and a half years. I had come to love her, but never showed it, I couldn't face it. She loved me but didn't want to delude herself that I loved her, so she moved onto another man behind the scenes during the last six months of us seeing each other. I had to walk away after finding this out. It's killed me, and her.
Next time don’t be afraid to show your love when you feel it. Although if she went either way another man I don’t think she loved you as you think. Just my opinion and I don’t know the details. Hope you move through the pain and find love soon. I’m sure you will. Trust me you will.
wow.thats bad.sorry man but your better off without her
How are you going now brother? In a similar kind of boat at the moment
Justin, you should totally do the gospel of country music. Such great advice in country music
I’ll direct the music video lol
Agree 100% here. My wife left me after 16 years (she was having an affair)4 years ago. I did exactly as Mr Waller says ( off my own back) Roll on just over 3 years and i met an amazing girl and have never looked back. And guess what? the ex now calls and texts frequently as is said here!.
Im in great shape but always remember your self respect and dignity, sometimes you just go to turn the other cheek, and dust yourself off. Yep you will feel like shit for a couple of months but work on yourself, physically and mentally
Oh and this vid was a random one that came up!
That part at the end of your comment is the key. You will feel terrible but is only temporary.
Can anyone tell me or help me find the video they are talking about in the beginning? The some million views one about Justin? Much appreciated
Search justin Tristan gentleman game and you will find it
@@AxelAxe thank you my friend!
I'm 56 and I was living with my girlfriend for a year, we where together for 3 years before and I proposed 8 months ago. I started calling out her BS/double standards, not in a rude way, but with open communication and with examples. I checked all the boxes she said she wanted in a man, came home 4 weeks ago and got blindsided with a letter that basically said "that we are a love story, not a life story " and how she loves me, basically 5 sentences of BS. I read it and looked at her and only said "okay" pack my stuff up and was gone in a hour. I haven't talked to her since and won't, but I left with my self respect/dignity. She my not want to be with me, but she'll remember that exit...Stay strong men..
A true gentleman
I love it ❤❤❤ 💫💫💫
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Is there a link to the J Waller video he is referring to in the beginning?
Search J wallet and Tristan gentleman podcast
@@AxelAxe I found it. Thanks!
Great interview with J Waller.
@@carterjm 👌
After one year of my breakup, This makes so much sense.
how do you feel now after 1 year?
@@AxelAxe It get's better as the time passes by, I'm talking to a new girl... She's beautiful, Trying to focus on my career also.
@@bhati938 that’s good to hear What’s your career?
@@AxelAxe I'm a student right now actually, I'm preparing for an important exam... So i just started taking my studies seriously again after the breakup.
Excellent advice here 💯
Appreciate that. What specific part hit you stronger?
@AxelAxe When Waller described letting a girl know 'I'm really gonna miss you...take care.' That is some cold truth regarding an optimal action which is very difficult.
@@nomad3A word. That realization is the pure truth. You wont just stop thinking about her. You will miss her, but from far away
@AxelAxe I need to implement that myself. The truth is often uncomfortable.
@@nomad3A is a constant battle man
Wow Justin just describe my life , I am 22 year old truck driver trying to build a legacy, gf of mine of 3 years left me .. she was a gem and my only friend
Your whole life is ahead of you. I know you will be very happy in the future. It sucks now, but it will be only a memory of the past
@@AxelAxethank you I appreciate it a lot
I had left a comment on this video before this. If the context is that hes gotta take the loss and walk away after the woman tells him she found someone else then it makes sense that he walks away and he doesn’t bend. You definitely should respect yourself as a man and yes she will return in cases like that. This is assuming he didn’t just mess up a ton of times until she decided to become emotionally invested elsewhere. If that’s the case, he’ll be the one to come back.
We are in the same page now
Disagree, people do come back after becoming emotionally invested elsewhere. Leaving one relationship for another does not guarantee success. Every relationship has it problems so the dumper is just swapping out one used car for another. May not have the same problems as my last one but it's sure gonna break down on the side of the road at some point.
I’m going through it really bad right now. Really really bad rn. I feel lost. I’m strong, I’m 22, I hit the gym like crazy for years now, I have a stable job, and yet I still feel like shit because of how she made me feel. Sometimes it just feels like I can’t anymore.
We have all been there brother. It takes time, but you are capable of so much, you will find love in the arms of someone who respects you and honors you.
Do not think for a moment that this is the end. This pain is only temporary. You have all the time in the world. I promise you in the future this moment will be just but a memory and how you act today will determine the outcome.
Please keep me updated. Every month message me and let me know how you’re doing. You got this man
U need to talk to urself bro why do u think u needed her to be loved when did that start bc it usually comes from childhood if u loved urself more and we’re comfortable for it in the end ofc it wouldve hurt but ud be fine bc u know u love urself
What’s the song that he talks about? I can’t find it.
I can still make chayanne
On the second day of christmas, a girl who I love and I was dating for a couple of months, told me that she wanted to stop dating. I thought that we were going in the right direction. We were telling each other the "I love you's", cuddling alot, pretty much the whole couple routine. I asked her why because I wanted to have everything clear. And she told me that her parents were not going to accept it, at first. I didn't believe her so I kept asking different questions. Finally she told me that she was affraid that she was going to hurt me and that this was her reason to stop. I told her that we can work through it, but her mind was made up.
The day after I asked her if we could talk about it because her decision kept me thinking that we made the wrong choice. She didn't want to talk because we've already spoken about it all, but I didn't understand why this happened out of the blue. And then she told me, that not everything she said was true. Sometimes she even felt uneasy or uncomfortable when I would just simply touch her. That scared me. Because there is no way in hell that I would want to make her uncomfortable or uneasy. And I told her that if that was ever the case, that she would tell me that right that second. I've told her that multiple times, because this whole thing was her first time.
I asked her why she didn't tell me. She said that she didn't say or do anything because she wanted me to stay happy.
Right now it is 3 days after that happened and I still see her a lot of times. I'm a personal trainer and she goes to the gym I work at.
I don't know how to feel, or what to do
I do t know the whole story and the details but from what you’re sharing it seems like she might not be saying everything or sharing the truth of how she actually feels.
If you have tried multiple times to get to the bottom of it and find a way to make it work but she continues to say no, then I would advise you move on.
We won’t be able to understand women’s words, but we have to take their actions into account and proceed accordingly to your own values.
She wants things to be casual (fun).
She is in my college class, we see each other weekly, what is best, quick hellos/goodbyes? Or completely ignoring/avoiding?
If it needed terrible just ignore and just live your life. If it ended amicably just polite hellos should be fine
This video takes me back, I had a beautiful girl give me that ultimatum probably 20 years ago now, it’s either me or the military. My father told me to never make a life decision because of a woman. We used to listen to that song in the barracks and talk about all the women who bailed on us.
I learnt that lesson the right way. Now I’m 100% there with you. Never make major decisions based on women
Lol one of those comments on that songs video are mine. Haha This is great.
Me too
which video do you mean at 0:16 ?
Thank you in advance
is the video of Justin and Tristan together with a black background. I think is called gentleman talk
This is top-level insight & perspective, delivered at a level that provides value & actual solutions vs. the constant dribble of the same tropes repeated over & over.
5:07 - 100%. Women only love men they respect, not men they like.
5:29 - Only part I disagree with, mainly because she’ll likely never even know you won that “rodeo”, but that’s not your problem.
So glad you found it helpful.
I am a female. Women can also go through the same heart breaks and pain especially as in my case where they are not attractive at all. No man has ever been attracted to me and those i happened to talk with only move on after 2 or 3 days. Now there was this guy i met we had good chimestry. He complained about his ex cheating on him and that she was the only girl he ever dated and that it has been 5 years since he never dated any women because they are too hard to get, complaining also about how women are not faithful. I liked him and I was willing to have a serious relationship. I was very very very happy at each text he wrote me and I liked his personnality despite all what he was saying about himself that he is short, skinny and so on. I didnt even paid attention to those details and liked other things. Turns out after 2 weeks he told me that he finds me really cool but he can't see me as more than a friend because i am not attractive and he can't go through that while in the beguining he was saying that he is looking for a genuine nice girl who is honnest.
I am left really hard broken, really hurt and feel like I will always remain alone. And the sad part is I can't do nothing about it because men at least can work on their status while women their status isnt important only their looks matter. I am thinking about a face surgery but i am affraid
Thanks for sharing your story and being honest and open to share. You touched on a lot of elements that are true, but I think you still need to meet more people and will find someone who finds you attractive.
Women can do a lot with exercise, diet, hair styling, clothing, make up and some cosmetic surgery to improve. It is difficult but you just need to focus on what you can improve.
I hope you still keep your mind open to meeting other people.
Bro is such a cool phrase. Sincerely, 2004
Good year
I’m the one that caused the damage, and then was too far into a cycle of self-pity that I couldn’t bring myself to work on myself or us. She called it a day. I’ll admit I’ve been through the wringer these past few months. We’ve kept contact and had conversations, mostly because of her two kids…they still want me to show up for them as a role model, and I certainly don’t want to be the man who bailed on them. But, when it comes to their mother…goddamn it I’m gonna have to just walk away. If I don’t, I’m gonna be unhappy for the rest of my life. This really sucks…feels like I’m walking into a burning building. I never wanted any of this
I’m sorry you’re going through that Michael. Hope you find peace soon. It will get better the fastest you cut off the toxicity and get to work on your self. We win up to your failures and just work to become better
Ghosting a woman or abruptly quitting a relationship without a real conversation is emotional abuse. If you as the man want to leave her for your own reasons and she treated you good- then leaving her in a cold way via phone or short convo - isn't a " G " move...but a coward move. Many men aren't capable to communicate rightly and leave. .however if the woman treats him whole time bad then of course he should leave...but men dont understand the mental damage of ghosting or a short words break up....its a selfish act and should ONLY be done if you were abused as a man.
Once u make the decision and will not be convinced otherwise, there s no point in meeting up with a cold attitude to rub it in the other persons face that u dont want them nd have them get emotional nd/or shocked asking for a chance. I think its kinder to use a phone call or text. Then after if the other pesron wants an explanation or asks to talk in person then u may consider it.
In this case we were talking about the moment where a woman has clearly stated she doesn’t want to be with you or has found another man.
The real conversation has been had and she has decided to leave, therefore the best thing to do is to acknowledge that and peacefully say that you love her, will miss her and want the best for her. After that, is not ghosting, it is just carrying on with the fact that the relationship is over.
@@AxelAxe thanks for adding more information and I misunderstood it. It wasn't obvious to me since English isn't my mother's tongue...anyways- I think the best thing you can do as a man is also just to react peacefully and get directly into the no contact rule to protect yourself as a man from getting more hurt. And your version is great too. Sorry for my wrong assumption
@@jchula no worries. Thanks for your very thoughtful comment and for watching our videos. It really means a lot to us
Pyro chula lmao foh 😂
My heart is completely destroyed right now..i meat this girl a year ago and we started dating..the chemical was fantastic in every way, physically, mentally and emotionally..now she has suddenly decided to move to japan living me here...every night it's only pain, sadness and regrets
Why are you having regrets? You’re lucky you had those amazing times with her. Enjoy the memories and stand up strong like the man you are.
@@AxelAxe you're absolute right but I'm leaving with the doubt that I might have been used by her and I feel so stupid about it.. she's leaving me with no hesitation or remorse, knowing very well that my life is here...I'll move on! this is a promise to myself! ....never trust a woman, never!
You sound pathetic
how aare you now ?@@luomodiporlock3758
gotta be a g bro 💯💯
She said she would wait for me to change, and she would use her time to heal. We were together for 2 years. A month after we broke up she got with another dude. It sucks.
Then hurry up and do your healing, your building and your growth. Is all up to you to prove her that you’re the better man. And I promise you a wonderful woman will come to your life when you least expect it and it will be like nothing ever happened.
@@AxelAxe thank you for the wise words.
I do relationship coaching for women. I give them the same advice. You are spot on with the advice you are giving them.
Excellent! Thanks for checking out the interview. I'm watching one of your videos now.
I wish i could have 5 minutes with this man...
Check when he goes live
I was dating a chick recently who i really liked. She sent me a message recently essentially saying how she doesnt like that i dont approve of her having guy friends and that apparently she isn’t in that part of her life to have a relationship (i.e ‘i think i can do better’), which is straight cap based on her convos. I didnt argue, i just sent her “im sorry its come down to this, so much about you im going to miss”. She sent me a response saying how she doesn’t want to stop talking to me, its just that is her boundary and where she stands etc etc. Cold. No response. Not watching her stories. Hurts, but if she doesn’t have genuine burning desire - whats the point
You did the right thing. Continue to grow as a man and focus on building yourself. The right woman will come on your path. And your ex will most likely regret it
@AxelAxe appreciate it 👍
@@HOTSHTMAN53 what happends since ?
@@user-kg4zi5qh7q she posted me on her story as part of her “January Recap collage”. I saw that by previewing the story, but other than that I didn’t watch her stories for two weeks and whenever I posted something, she was first to see it. She hasn’t reached out, I havent reached out. If she ever reaches out, will demand a genuine heartfelt apology from her. Funny enough, on my explore page I see her liking photos and videos on “how to find a high quality man”😁😮💨she’s blind lol
But yeah. Apparently she likes to gamble and thinks she can do better, so not much I can say on that. Its her life, her choices. Forgive and forget. I’ve moved on as its easy for me to find another. But no matter what, I definitely left a lasting impression considering she has a lot of male friends in her orbit which she cucked. Probably isn’t used to getting rejected
The sound engineer should use less compression on your microphones, this will help eliminate the lip smacking noises.
We got new mics after this episode. Can you check the recent episodes and let me know if it sounds better?
This is a great video. I walked away a year ago after she asked for space. It still hurts but there is no way my will will ever break. And I know one day that phone will ring.
Time is a very strong force
3 years together, I thought she was the one. I'm next in line to walk this path..
Always keep walking ahead
@@AxelAxe thank you. I wish you all the best. keep your fingers crossed for me please
Break ups to make ups can happen but if you are dealing with a women that refuses to be accountable. It’s like taking to someone that has a legitimate mental condition. When I detected my ex was a Narc (she readily admits most her gfs are) but she isn’t according to her. It’s sad to see her operate like that. Like it honestly bothers me, too see the low character stuff she’s doing in post break up. She’s gonna get a disease messing around in that world shes messing around in. (Married dudes) if I woke up 1 day & saw she was married or engaged to someone honestly that would make me happy. But seeing her live how she is now is like watching a family member on drugs that won’t admit they have a problem.
You can only do so much