It’s ok to be who you are but all of who you are is NOT ok [The Table Episode 3]
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@@BigNorm87 FACTS!
WEALTH IS QUIET,
RICH IS LOUD,
POOR IS FLASHY.
"Blackmen can never protect a woman who they can't correct, it just doesn't work that way."
-Dr. Frances Cress Welsing
You know what frustrates me about these conversations..….... Is how the men have to keep breaking something soooo simple down. I really think women love the freedom of putting themselves in chaotic situations while simultaneously being a victim and complaining about their actions they've purposely put themselves into 🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️
Freedom without consequences. Credit without blame. That’s what they think being a man is.
That’s their natural. Let’s not get mad at a woman for doing womanly things. We just have to adjust and make sure the message it transmitted in the correct way without losing her nor the essentials of the content. All in all it can be frustrating 😂😂 but we must stay patient in our actions to reach the greater goal.
Someone pretending to not understand you is a way to frustrate you so that you become emotional instead of logical. It’s intentional. It’s designed to frustrate you.
On the contrary, I believe conversations like these are necessary, because a lot of people, especially african americans, don't have the father figures, or school teachers, to have these very simple conversations with. People go into adulthood with such ignorance, and it starts from young. Not everyone is given the same opportunities to learn, and not everyone is trained to know when to listen and absorb knowledge.
@@chasehlee7197 lmao no cap that hurt my feelings because that's the exact opposite of what we go through. I'm grateful for the mistakes I've made and if I did it again on purpose I won't complain just take the action of my decision
40:59 mother's telling their kids"dad ain't shit" is the prime example of "sick'em boy" and it's sad, a pity.
I think that more gals are going to need stuff to happen to you, before you gals are honest 😮
I'm glad she brought up sitcoms. I'm currently writing one on a positive black family.
We are not in our infancy. We are in our ignorance when there are better examples it’s not lack of knowledge it’s a lack of will
The minute he ask her, Do you know how to play Chess.😂😂 She just couldn't simply say no. She had to say , I watched before. 😂😂.
Black Ice said it well "external blingers is all we can be because on the inside we've been given nothing to shine on.."
Social media is making people's highlights of celebrity life seem like life goals when you don't really know what's the reality. It's sad. Aspiring to be shallow l highlights and not living a life with substance. Shit is crazy.
The God father God rest his soul said “we are taking the highlight reels of the super successful and using it as a measuring stick to compare to our everyday life.”
The reality is most people don’t know the amount of effort and work it takes on a daily basis to become super successful. They (women) will only focus on the outputs, never the input.
Her idea of protection is ridiculous. Call your brother call your dad call your uncles those are the only ones designated to protect you. Again protection is our obligation to them then what is their obligation to us?
They will proudly tell you they have none
yea, women who are concerned with words need to stay tf at home. babies know someones mean words can't actually harm you. bw's confusion that physical violence is appropriate retaliation for mean words IS the epitome of ghettoism & valuelessness.
Community Protection is a utopian concept when it comes to it being practiced here in this country. No community (besides maybe the Hispanic community) operates at this illogical capacity. Most ppl are hyper-individualistic and only care about people close to them.
There is no problem with protecting someone who is not the aggressor in a situation that you can discern to be the case. At best you could at least call the police for them.
Male burden to women is maintaining “Security.” Physical security, financial security. The female burden to men is maintaining her “Beauty.”
I love this conversation, watching the other twoepisodes I can see the evolution. It was no longer Male versus Female but about how we can build together.
What young females hold in high regard in a man dictates what the young men will aspire to be. In other cultures what the woman hold in high regard is different than the community. They look for intelligence, hard working, ingenuity, a life plan, comes from a good family, stability, & etc. Big difference. SMH
But BW are criticised when they have those standards.
Why young "females" but "men"?
Absolutely…Every time I go into a Chinese food store I see a couple. In the Korean store I see a couple. With rare exception, a black man will not be able to convince a black woman that that is a worthwhile life. Black women would rather be single and struggle (miss me with the $100k salaries because I don’t see that when I go into black neighborhoods and all the black women in towns like mine are married to high earning men).
Every Asian engineer has multiple prospects, a black engineer is offered the leftovers after the women have run the streets in their 20’s.
That default is ENDEMIC of who they’re “dealing with” at that time in real time.
Protection doesn’t always mean physical it can be conversation towards something positive to help you
41:15 "A True Warrior doesn't need a sword" Thors from the anime Vinland Saga
This guy *gets it*👌🏿
"You have no enemies"
The brother in the red cap is SOOO damn irritating. His attempts at TRYING to say something deep and profound all the time is annoying. 🙄
He just be rambling 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Man it started to get on my nerves at the end.😂😂
Red cap definitely detracted from the overall quality of the podcast. These spaces are full of men and women who want to participate in conversations but have little of substance to say. It actually ties into one of the overarching themes in this video of aesthetics, pageantry, and rhetorical sloganeering being of greater importance to black people than cogent, grounded ideas that could make a meaningful difference. "God could never civilize the devil", GIVE ME A BREAK lol. Love bro's content otherwise.
When we put up socialites and musicians as leaders, its because those select few have been "allowed" to peer behind the curtain and live life out of the box.
They should have the freedom and experiences necessary to effectively help us out of this mess.
Because they don’t have sons and never grew up in the ghetto. They talk fantasy world. Don’t put yourselves in a position to be in danger.
😊 this was an absolutely great discussion and awesome panel... Everyone gave everybody time to work through their points and express themselves and kept the over talking each other to a minimum....💯
That is exactly how viewers can learn...
That's what we do here.
This was a great conversation
I love to see our people help our people!!! This is how we fight the black man vs black women online battles
Love the part about protecting black men, the men in my family sometimes don’t like when I say I will not call them for minuscule disagreements or instances where I’m disrespected by men because I know they may react in a way that’ll put them in danger. I rather deal with the situation and STILL HAVE YOU unless it’s a dire circumstance I’m not calling for your protection.
My friend was murder July of this year his sister was dating this new guy they all stayed in the same apartment complex one day there was a weird situation where his sister was yell for help from inside the apartment, my friend and his mom broke in to safe his sister and her boyfriend shot and killed the mom and my friend. This is how black women protect black men
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she set him up to get shot and got her brother shot instead. that's proxy violence like Pebbles on Top Boy. Women think they have ultimate control over other people and dont realize they don't until the situation goes in a direction she didn't imagine it would (what she intended was still chaotic and evil).
He didn't really have a clear choice in that situation. Sister screaming for help on the other side of a door. Most people going in.
@@bhillboy37 they were ppl who told her not to date that guy, I never meet him but after the incident I remember a lot of ppl saying damn we told her not to mess with that guy.
Ok she was on point this episode I will give her, her props
that man just died fighting at a the patriots game
They probably mean well, they just don't know well...
Wahala be like repentant feminist😂
Holmes kickin that 5%r ish. It was cool but he needs to take it down a notch. Even godbody dudes were living foul
Great conversation. And Peace to the 7
Appreciate you 👸🏽🙏🏾 teaching. My Brothers thank You Both
This was a good try. Having a convo with you and her is better. Adding the others people makes it harder to keep the women actually on task. BM are not competing with BW. That’s the trash feminism in her. The convo was worth it , however it didn’t resonate like it should have!!
Great take on the modeling. I believe and I’m not alone on this but we must take control of OUR media. We must change to the ghetto street poverty dead beat broken home etc narrative. Idk if Tyler Perry is up for that
if you don't control it, its not yours.
@@kreativeforce532 then buy it, and control it. However, we do control our minds and nobody force you to do anything. We as a people can force the change of we don't support what's going on in media from the participants to the audience. We need a moral standard that is followed from top to bottom left to right that will elevate us in a positive manner and that can not be sold nor bought.
When face with adversity, asked the question How? How can we have control of our media, how can we change the narrative that is put out there about us, how how how. No weak victim minds over here. We don't stop at a wall, we find a door, create one or destroy the wall.
#Flamboyance is often a symptom of egoic #overcompensation.
Great thumbnail. Productive discussion. I had to keep fast forwarding through Reum Dr. Hotep.
I remember seeing a video of a woman arguing with her ex (who had recently got out of prison) at a family party. She chased him out of the house. Fathers, brothers, cousins came running to her aid. That guy pulled out a gun and shot everyone! Everyone! And went back to make sure they were all dead.
I think I saw this story....he was on drugs... PCP I think
🤔🤔🤔 She only respect a man if he's leading and giving advice in the right way, but notice she don't use the same metric for the women she speaks to.
Excellent conversation!
Your transitions from the prone to kneeling and standing has really improved since I've been watching. Keep up the good work. I gotta start training more myself
I really enjoyed this conversation! But I wish there is an option where you can call in and ask questions as the conversation develops. I have so many questions! Lol
CELEBRITIES ARE NOT LEADERS.
Proxy Violence is not Protection.
We ain't teaching sh*t. It's time for a good student to put in the effort to learn!!!!
"All of who you are is not okay" she spitting bare facts innit! Unless a man has a nuke there's nothing he can do to fully stop another man. Does the situation warrant atomic bomb level damage? Will the bomb dropper get off legally? Unless those men are a nation, no. Shooting isn't enough of a consequence as gangs have proven. Jailing is not a power that Black individual men have (not a nation), so that doesn't leave many options for consequences. 25:42
only those men who control the mass production of food (the land), goods and the rule of law can create & enforce consequences. In NATO that's white men currently.
This is a dope conversation they’re touching on all the nuances and all the interpersonal dynamics that’s going on in the black community in terms of all the things we seem to talk about in the quote on. “woke community very good conversation.
Allen with the circus bar 💪🏿
Don’t agree with the idea of meekness avoiding conflict. Bullies in our society are attracted to meekness. They’re the first people to disregard integrity.
Go to the store. Your friends and family pay the bill. This is the truth of marriage and becoming a baby daddy for most people.
Your homeboy goes through a break up with his wife or baby's mother. He needs help (financial and/or a place to stay).
Young guys, go ahead and get married or have kids. I pray you have family or friend backup to help you live.
I’ve been critical of porky’s perspectives sometimes but her responses this time seem much more grounded. I gotta give her props just like I gave her criticism. She went OFF this episode. Great convo y’all!
I enjoyed this conversation ❤
Im glad you did🙏🏿
Real talk sis👍
Wow...she has grown...
Damn good conversation 👌🏽💯
Thanks!
This was a dope intellectual convo 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Great job a love this.
Thanks Man. Hope you are well. 🍻
Thank YOU brother!
If you are a bad boss b&#%* and don't need no man, then keep that same energy when in danger. No man is obligated to put their life on the line for you, if he is not your husband (covering). If you brag about not needing a covering, then don't get mad when you get hit with everything imaginable, because you're not shielded. Remember, you don't need us in this feminist society.
Each one teach one. Word up
47:21 im the gentle giant lmaorotmff 🤣🤣🤣
This is full of gems
Preciate you brother!
Women love Drama ,if it ain’t Drama it not worth it😀
aaaah I thought was on now
If you are a woman in need of help arguing with a dude. I step in and say shorty calm down stop talking. Stop talking let me calm the situation down and whatever measures need to be taken let me handle it. If i step in and you continue popping off you are on your own.
Keep going!
She lost. She not perfect but still judging these men. Burnt
It's sad that Yall have to Teach so many GROWN black women how things are Really are. 😔😔
Good Lord man... Bro' you are a blessing and a gift. I hope there is some type of writing in you in the future to explain your ways of your thoughts. Hope this helps. 🍻 cheers mate.
Thank you so much brother! Writing a book is on my goals board 🙏🏿
It's OK to be who you are, but all of you is not okay......#BARSSSSS
2:10 80% of men are positive like the ones she know.
Man dude with the glasses only one made a little sense
Life imitating art. Simulation and simulacra.
10:44 delusion is the new reality what?
18:05 its amazing how these women never know these things thats been going on forever was a thing.
46:49 we have not enforce it on ourselves because we do not own those shows those Networks
She capping every male friend I have we keep it real with each other women have a hard time with that I see that at work in family and friendships
“Hiding in plain site” I been saying similar sentiments forever. More relatable example is the Jews. They historically been under somebody’s authority, however, they seem to prevail. Slow but methodical, silently moving towards the top. They have concrete standards with a common goal and obedience. That’s what we need. Amongst other things of course.
I really do love the conversation so much is on point...I however do agree with the gentleman in the white shirt about feeling a bit hopeless because while a great conversation its alot of generalizing woman and placing blame... just more gender separation in a sense.
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Circus over substance! 12:07
Algo👍🏾
55:56 Homie is talking
Would Alan be interested in getting some local Israelites interviewed?
54:24 the lack of stealth, tact, and being full of flamboyance is a very west African trait. Myself I'm quiet and low-key which is unexpected and Black people don't respond well to it. (many country whites hate it too) However I don't have as much conflict as other brothers experience. We need to take a page out of our East African cousins book. They're quiet too, but they had the Mau Maus right. We can be stealthy and still handle business.
I'm also not influenced by music, advertisements etc
We have a power is so misleading. When it’s not true power. It can’t be when their power is given, its tolerated. True power is taken. And women aren’t able take power from men with out it being allowed or some form of trickery that’s not true power. When you have it only because the giant is distracted or sleeping.
You have a very limited understanding of what power is.
This signaling @3:21 is a repetitive pattern among female delegation, I think this needs further study, but also think the findings will be kinda bittersweet, and second realization for some
Women tend to go the softest approach and at tine is bad ..
22:10 mark..... she said a word
1:05:45 but see the world is documented we should learn fro. The history that is already out here.
See I love her image, and her mindset has change too adapt to good black men. When need more women to speak out like this and to hold other women accountable for there actions, because if we do it, then we'll get killed 😂😂
22;00 wow just wow
44:58 what? Noooo blk ppl always had money yes even during slavery. Us is black people lost class lost how to act being rich doesn't come from the amount of money you have. It comes from dignity and self-respect that you have for yourself.
22:13 SHE SAID THAT! THAT WAS SEXY LORD!
22:48 Thats not true KS was holding men accountable. 23:23 but i also understand what allen is saying right here.
The guy in the red cap waffles too much. This B!ack man is God talk is soo exhausting. Dr Obi please get another male host like Omowale Afrika, or whomever.
God couldn’t civilize the Devil. Interesting Frame of reference.
God created devil. Allah is All-encompassing, so how can the Master of Creation "not civilize" what he created? That is placing limits on Allah, The Most Glorified and Exalted, and that is "now-cipher". That is a no go sir.
@@brooklynstudent73 I’m repeating what the guy said in the interview did you watch the entire interview? I never said I agreed with it. But it is interesting play/use of words.
I was born in Sudan but by blood I’m Ethiopian/Kenyan Oromo Tribe, I was raised Muslim and I actually speak 3 languages. I speak Arabic fluently because it was my first language, so trust me I know how Great and Almighty God/Allah is, by choice now I’m Christian.
@@Mr.BigBadWolf I know you were repeating what was said. Its all good brother. Peace.
26:38 oh and Daphne Ford Sutton aka queen of accountability, @celebird exposed Roda was lying by the way.
And blk women jumped down blk mens throat about a lie.
28:28 and this isn't blk mens responsibility lol. Especially when respect for blk men isn't reciprocated
“It’s ok to be who you are, but all of who you are is not ok.”
Shook my tambourine on this one…
I enjoyed the conversation, but dude with the red cap need to get to the point. Is he trying to impress or is he having trouble conveying his ideas clearly?
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Modern women love the lime light especially with social media