That was me. And then i got to highschool and had the same teacher freshman and junior year and i was so thankful bc he is black so he taught history in a different view and ranted about the racists in the world. Its great he is the reason why i love history.
Black women need to stop supporting tv shows and music that betrays them in a negative light. Our money and support is worth a lot so be careful what you support.
@@JD-dh3yn Oh boy, I wonder why! Maybe years of slavery, slave mentality, being told you are not good enough as wife or mother or anything good, being called hoes or bitches, being stereotyped, being told you will never compare to a white women, beauty wise or education, always being shown in a bad light in media, are constantly labelled and criticized by random people who are racist or dont care, and... do I need to go on?
@@MahouShoujo-Studios Oh...for a minute I thought you were talking about the plights of a black man until I saw the female pronouns and gender identifiable markers in your statements. Long story made short...black men suffer same things plus the threat of death every day but we keep on living, making the most of opportunities, fighting, and loving those around us (even our enemies who can sometimes be our own black woman). God never promised us a rose garden.
Lysol. You have my love and respect from the heart I love all black women with all my heart , you all are beautiful women and are valued alot. I wish I had a black women to be my wife , I would be so blessed. You all have my love and support with the love of God I wish I could give you all a hug so you could feel the love in my heart that I have for you all and you could feel just how very special you all are. I love you with all my heart and I accept you in my heart. ☺☺☺☺
Here's the main problem...... You are internalizing and listening to another culture that has never liked or loved you. When I was young I listened to a lot of that mess until I figured out that we were never liked! There was never a point where they liked us so why am I listening to a people who's only every said negative things about me?!.... That's when I woke!.... Instead of moving away from my blackness I moved towards it!.... I actually love being black because it means I don't have to be fake or phony. I live in my truth and no one else's. The world is gonna always try to put you in a box so it's up to you weather or not you want to see walls....... Wow! I just made that up!
James I agree us black females should never look to white people to accept us but alot of black people's like to put us down and we are getting tired of it.
abianah howell: If you live to be 100 years old you will still have only been on this planet a fraction of a millisecond in the vast and endless scheme of time. Barely registering as a blip on the radar of time. So how will you spend your time here?..... Never waste valuable time and energy on people who don't even understand their own journey and self value. Your purpose is very personal. No one (not even your identical twin) will have your journey. Don't let the propaganda's and worries of the world hold you down. Finding your joy and inner peace is the only thing that matters.
Lordcron many black women don't care what other cultures say, this video felt like it was. More directed to black men because it seems like they are the ones that push these stereotypes the most. There is a huge section on TH-cam and Twitter dedicated to bashing black women done by black men. I think black women can tolerate what other races say about us but when it comes from a black man it hurts the most. That is why the girl in the video said that only black women understand black women.
Then I'll say this.... It matters when and where you meet men. And most of all it matters at what point in a mans life you meet a man. Don't fall for a pretty face in a bad crowed and expect him to be a good man. Church and College events for example are a great way to meet quality guys. Then there are some very good Dating websites that screen men that you can use as well. Some guy you meet at a dark club or some bar drinking 9 times out of 10 won't be the guy you want...... You want quality? You gotta actively seek it. Don't expect your nice looks to attract a quality man. Then when you think you have one don't put on short skirts and tight clothes. Dress like you expect to be treated. If you want a quality man you have to be a quality woman........ Men pick up on things like language and slang. What you have on and most of all where you like to hang out or allow him to take you. Treat yourself like you expect a man to treat you so that way when and if you run into a good man then he already knows your a lady and not a chic. Lastly don't expect every man to treat you like gold and say nice things to you. It's not realistic. Not all men are bad and some of them will treat you like he sees you treat yourself.....
I'm so sorry that black women have to feel this way, you are precious wonderful strong virago is worthy beautiful women and oh so unique!! I honestly hope that things will change soon and that women of all colours and creeds can stand together as all the wonderful unique people we are! I for one am not a racist and try my hardest to treat everyone with respect and love and build up and NOT tear down! Hugs to you all, peace xx
No one needs to stand with anyone. Men don't stand with other men. We stand with people that are like minded. If you just stand with everyone you are bringing yourself down.
It’s Starts in the home. It’s Important how little girls are spoken too! Many moms are Incredibly harsh and mean to their daughters. As a woman of color I speak words of Encouragement and beauty to my daughter. She’s NOT being raised with a complex Love is within ❤️
It starts with a SOLID Family! When little Shortstop comes home from a bad day at school, NOBODY can convince her of how Beautiful she is than Dad! I noticed growing up in a house with a Father both of my Sisters best friend was Dad!
I am black and I raised in the white community for years. They all mostly treated me like a woman and they are friendly. They don't see my skin color. They welcome me all the time. I sleep in their houses and I shared their foods. Even white men flirt with me. I gotta say they have great parents raising them well and teach them to see everyone as equal. I would do the same. Racism comes from racist parents from the old generation pass to their children, they are poison. To me what I observe, racist parents are jealous that the young generation getting more freedom so they pass racism to their children to keep them seperate from getting along with other races. Messed up. White people and other races who are against racism are REAL and BEST. They are my hood. They are the true human race, racists cannot be the human race. Period
Okay hunnie only because YOU didn't experience racism does not mean it doesn't exist I live in a mostly white town and I get bullied for being black a Lot
if you are mad about black women feeling empowered and speaking out about being oppressed then you are part of the problem. you clicked on this video know what it would be about, get over yourselves.
Sydney Robinson are black men even kind to black women? I always see y’all bashing black women for simply breathing and this is coming from a white woman.
Now listen to me I am a white woman and you probably are going to say something hateful about this video but that is not true I truly agree to this video and I am truly upset about how screwed up this society is rn and I just want to say all women who are being push around and made fun of and are thinking that aren't beautiful are the fighters they are beautiful and so so wonderful
I'm Native American and I remember when I was working in all male environment, the men (they are native too) use to make mean comments towards black women . It was disgusting and sad. Then these same men complain about racism from white people. LOL. These same native men also put down Native American woman. Sick ! Sick ! Anyways , I think black woman are beautiful. I see them in Hawaii , New York , and across Canada . I don't know what they're talking about when they say black women are unattractive. I see beautiful black women everywhere.
yasmine bear I really want to see what you look like because you got a lot of Mongolians claiming to be the original people of America. So-called black people are classified as black or African-American with many of us are clearly indeed Aboriginal . Native American and Aboriginal is different
The FEW attractive "black" women that gave me a stiffie were usually mixed race or dark skinned latinos. I have yet to see an attractive pure black women.
I wish it was true. I've gotten more hate from other black women than I have from any other group of people. I'm not "black enough," my hair isn't curly enough, I "talk white," etc. all from other black women. I'm not trying to be anybody but myself, and I wish other black women could appreciate that.
Mmmmm... What country are you in? Black women have their own backs.... Black women DO NOT have each others backs nor does anyone else. Black women struggle enough with having their own back..... Black women do not lift other black women up in business or socially.
They should talk about how black women treat each other in the workplace. Colorism amongst Black people. Black supervisors and administrators advocating hispanic females over black women. Black women being catty in front of other ethnic groups against each other.
@@LadyPinkster Of course if I believe, you're a woman right? They are more likely to be nicer to you than me being a guy. I think most women (espsecially Black) are being "brainwashed" into disliking men in today's society.
I can't say I know whats its like to be a discriminated against for my skin on a daily but my Mom is black and has told me a lot and its so sad. Stay strong everyone.
I'm a white girl in high school and we had a project about things that are happening in the world now and one of the subjects were black lives matter. My teacher asked everyone who supported black lives matter and I proudly raised my hand. I was the only one in my class who raised their hand and I was laughed at by my peers. I don't feel ashamed.
I don't get it anymore. This BLM movement is confusing. Isn't it about supporting every race and being treated equally? Why isn't everyone supporting it? Or is it just another thing where idiots confuse it with something else like how some idiots think feminists are people who want females to be stronger then men?
Kayuune Okay, 1. Feminism is a cult about female superiority. 2. BLM can be classed as a terrorist group due to the definition of terrorism. Basically, being either one makes you a sexist or a terrorist.
Just because you don't look like someone who is perceived as beautiful, doesn't mean you're not beautiful. Flowers and sunsets are beautiful and they look nothing alike.
Saw the title and automatically thought "Oh lord, here we go..". I swear black women are always pinned out to be "angry" but when women of other races have the same attitudes, it's "sexy and spicy"
Demon Spawn If your mom is black, why do you think it’s ok to address Black women as “hoes” ? You’d think that you’d have a little more respect, but I guess not.
Sometimes I'm disgusted with people. Do they not know how strong these black men and women are to overcome the white domination I have the upmost respect for them and I have the upmost respect for anyone except people who are discriminative in any way. If you're discriminative in any way you're as important a one grail of sand because that's what you are one grain of sand in a beach of accepting and loving people.
AGAIN, the generalizing of black people. Black people are not "All strong" because they fought against racism. Some helped, some didn't, and some just secured their stereotypes, making it hard for other black people to convince bigots they were decent. This video falls under the latter of the 3
Best1nDaLobby They are still individuals, even with correlations, but yeah. There are other issues than racist white people, like maybe criminal black people?
Lavar Ball Lots of times black women wear weaves because they don't want to deal with their natural hair. The fake eyelashes and nails is something all women do. Not just black women. Also you can't tell me their is not black men is don't dye their hair blonde. nowadays there is tons of them.
Lavar Ball and no I'm 15 and I wear weave(braids) at times because our frizzy hair is extremely annoying and it takes lots of time to do, putting it in braids makes it easier for us to just put it in a ponytail and go. Keep in mind, WE DONT HAVE WAVY HAIR so it's harder for us to just keep it in one place, and plus lots of people tend to shame frizzy hair, so I just wear it in braids.
@@lowereastsideastrologist7769 they even drive angry and I don't put their kids in the car seats nobody's ever buckled. They curse of their kids in the supermarket, as the kids run around with diapers that haven't been changed in a month
i'm white so i can't speak for woc because i've never known and never will know the struggles woc have a to go through but for all my black sisters out there just know that i love you, i stand with you and you are worthy of every good thing there is in the world ♥♥♥
I'm a white girl who has been born and raised in the South. Racism is a huge problem in society, but especially in the South. Black girls get called names and get a lot of hate at my school. I can't stand racism though. Everyone is the same Caucasians, African Americans, Asians, etc. Just because someone's skin tone isn't the same as yours doesn't mean they're any different. It's what's on the inside that matters. Think about how you would feel if you were ridiculed because of your skin tone before saying it to or about someone else.
You say all that but do you speak out to defend the Black girls that get bullied? I don't believe you do. So by staying silent about the problem means you are part of the problem.
***** She spoke out on a YT video about the situation, she didn't speak out to defend the Black girls that were being bullied. She only used this platform to get likes, to benefit her, to fit her narrative not to speak about how she stood up against racism with Black women. If she did, she would have said she did. But I wouldn't believe it because that is what people do. Always staying silent about others sufferings because it doesn't affect them personally especially when it comes to the mistreatment of Black people. I won't even respond to the rest of your post because it's ignorant and disrespectful.
I am actually a kind sweet woman but the moment I get angry cause someone disrespect me I am labeled as an angry black woman, and it is usually a BLACK MAN calling me it.
Hey everyone. I'm from South Africa, and even though the population is a majority of black people, the racism here still thrives everyday. In schools we can't even have our natural hair in Afros without being called untidy and dirty. We are Africans fighting to be African in Africa. To all my black sisters, you are beyond beautiful, you are POWERFUL beyond compare, and we've got to stick together ladies. #BlackGirlMagic
Afros are called dirty and untidy. Blacks girls are told to relax their hair to make it look neat. That's racist. Our hair is discriminated against because it doesn't look like white people hair
I'm Jamaican 14 year and we are even though not much we are place in boundaries. Afro as they call them is our natural hair. It's was grows out of our scalp yet businesses and schools require that we change that. We have to straighten / cream ( burn with chemicals) to the point that it has to look like the straight hair. In Banks and institutes they must look like this. Before Never was there schools that would allow us to wear our natural hair untampered because we had to fit the mold of refined which was according to them three white woman. No anymore. Things are starting to change.
BUT THEY ALL SCREAM AND YELL WHEN THEY GO IN FOR THE INTERVIEW !! ITS CRAZY IN THOSE INTERVIEW ROOMS WITH THESE PSYCHO WOMEN !! SECURITY !!! SECURITY !!!
Im sorry I can't understand what you've been thought because I'm a white guy but my Mom is black and talks a lot about it. Stay strong. #BlackGirlMagic
Anastasia GR im black actually married a black woman which i regret and I can tell you every woman on her side of the family is myth the moment you tell them how it is get ready for the attitude bomb
As a Black man, I'm telling you Black women are the best! Always know that & take that with you no matter where it is you go, or what it is you're going through!
Oh god these comments are horrible Black women deserve respect They are strong And beautiful This goes for Race sexuality gender Everybody deserves respect and Everybody should feel Confident And amazing💕✨
Latina women can display the same characteristics as 'angry black women' and be called sexy, fiery or sassy. Italian or Greek women can display the same characteristics and be called hot-blooded, passionate, protective, big hearted. Black women get labeled angry and aggressive.
Wavyisland _ Shes using one race to compare and how it’s not fair that there’s different descriptions for different cultures that hold the same characteristics. It’s completely disgusting.
You can be the most beautiful woman ever, but once she opens her mouth and it sounds like love n hip hop or Cardi B Automatically drops the self worth of any woman.
thats just aave tho. cardi can be obnoxiously loud but most black people from the hood or Bronx speak in that manner. why should that drop the self-worth of a women? If a see a black with a Bronx accent I do not think of him as uneducated but as uniquely him.
When you are a black woman, your heritage and legacy can not be obliviated. My grandfather´s grandma was a slave and she was dressed as a doll and closed in a gift box when she was little on her white owners birthday. When she finally was free, her kids never had a father, a last name. They never had shoes. That´s the past, but sadly is also the present. When white people says black poeple are angry for no reason, they need to look closer.Are u really treating me as a person or as your fetish, as your maid, as your subordinate, as your inferior, as your pleasure, as your new slave? Sorry, but I have to figth back. Not with my fists, but my education, my culture, my tradition, my legacy, my heritage. I have to figth back for my grandfather´s grandma story: her name was Gabriela, she was a slave black woman and I wish she knew I remember her, I´m proud of her and what she was.
Dear Mitzi: I loved your response.I was not refering only to the Internet, I was also talking about real life, where racism had morphed into new forms: subestimation, under recognition, mocks, fetish...I´m happy to find people like you, who only cares about character, but I also have to deal with a lot of other persons who shows tolerance and respect in appearence, but do the opposite. For a long long time I kept in silence. Say nothing, do nothing, don´t show yourself as offended because they will come for more, I used to tell myself. But that´s not the way. I´m not a perpetual figther but I have to say something, because I have a voice. many black people in history never knew how to defend themselves, how to explain themselves, or never had the oportunity to. I´m a social cuban researcher and I´m doing everything I can because racism is toxic for evryone, white, asian, black pleople, no matter what. I can not hesitate or hate my white side because of my genetics. I figth for both.
Nice post. It is indeed a tragedy what has happened to our ancestors in this country. I as a black male just finds it very hard to legitimize anyone’s ignorance in my direction. When I hear racist comments, and I know I’m not everyone else, it can’t bother me. Race was invented in this country, after Bacon’s Rebellion, to make slave ownership more economical, and to disrupt the poor planters who at one time were both white and black. So now since slavery is no more in this country, the whites that use race only use it to boost their ego. Responding to such rhetoric, only strengthens their ego. It’s from a place of power to not expect anything from whites. They don’t own your faculties for seeing and understanding. Truly understanding the ego at play, it will be impossible for you to be emotionally compromised by race. But if you wish to believe in race, you’ll be subscribing to the very thing that was created to enslave you.
@WhiteAndProud @WhiteAndProud did u not read what I just said the black women stereotype is 'mostly true to my experience' and ill still back it up till this day
this is the saddest most true thing on earth, it's so hard to be a black woman and I love black women, black women are treated as less than human, when will the torture end
It is a brutal path. I hope there is a sweet reward in the afterlife when it's all over. One good thing about life as a black woman is that you experience so many facets of the human condition intensively, I mean it's amplified. I feel I'm expert in it, quite frankly.
Are you implying that a lot of black women treat people a certain way? As a black girl i've gotten multiple comments in public stores on different days and years about my natural hair ( wow that's nasty...does she comb her hair?) and I hadn't even looked in the direction of the person. I heard them from behind me... I was just standing there.. being black... never replied... just left the store & continued to try and keep my esteem from lowering..again...... so It might happen again but I don't deserve karma for my hair texture.
+Genie B. I think you misunderstood me. As a black woman myself i believe that you treat others as you would like to be treated. What goes around comes around. A lot of people think black women are angry but let them live in our shoes for one day...
Thank you and Michelle is a beautiful women by anyone standard. At 4:12 the ideal that they did it alone? Really, that's why no Man will choose you, men want women not a woman who thinks she a man!!
I think it's horrible that people are treated this way. I am white, so I'll never really understand how you feel. I have learned from my parents, friends and myself that everyone is equal and there should be no one left behind. it's horrible that people are still racist. I love people. I don't care how they look like
My bestfriend is a black man and he refuses to be with a black woman, especially american black women . He tried, he married a beautiful black woman. Shortly (2 years later) he divorced her. I asked him why. The way he explained it was, she was always quick to pick a fight, not just with him but others who would simply look at her wrong. He also said she always acted competitive and bossy and her greed and control became unbearable.
And? What is the point of you making such comment? Other people can easily bring up various anecdotes of horrible White, Indigenous, Asian, Latin, Mixed etc women that they were married to. Are those anecdotes true representations of the majority of the populations listed?
@@medusavee8649,4 years later you ask this question,so I will choose to indulge in your tardiness. My point is, it is more common for black men to choose to date outside of their race than it is any other race ,because most of them tend to feel insulted and emasculated by their own.
+eva shaw "Lord have mercy...white people shit"-a comment she made on Twitter. There is no outrage over it and the many other things she has said because she is black and for some reason we act like minorities talking negatively about white people is not equally as racist as if it were the other way around. Modern social justice is full of double standards my friend
Her comments had no where near the amount of had people where giving. Plus, those comments surfaced after they started attacking her, your aegument is invalid.
The sad thing about it too is that you would expect in this type of society where mostly negatives are stacked against us, we, black women, would stand up for each other but in so many cases we're victims to society's perception of us and continue tearing each other down
As a 16 year old dark skin girl, I can admit that no I used to not have the confidence that I do now and I really had to work on myself in order to be this way. It was really hard for me dude like I remember just wanting to be different so much but at the same time, I didn’t want to over do it in like a stereotypical kinda way. I’ve felt targeted every since I could remember. And I just hate the fact that it took me this long to finally be who I am now. My future kids will be confident. This is btw random but, I’ve never had a boyfriend. I mean I talked to some boys every once so often but it’s just not real to me.
Don’t care about boys! Having a boyfriend is not important and don’t seek for validation from boys! Focus on yourself only, your dreams, your career etc :)
I get up as a black woman and travel to wherever I want to, I don't really care how am being perceived by others ... I'll never ever disrespect anyone till you come and step on my toes.
Hey beautiful black girl, I think none of this video are true at all but I dislike this video. I think you are a happy beautiful black woman. I love black girls.
THATS THE PROBLEM !! YOU DONT CARE HOW YOU ARE BEING PERCEIVED !! MOST OTHER RACES CARE VERY MUCH HOW THEY ARE BEING PERCEIVED !! AND EVEN IF SOMEONE COMES AND STEPS ON YOUR TOES YOU STILL SHOULDNT DISRESPECT THEM !!
+Vitor Campelo Are you conviently forgetting about the white Brazilian who had the black woman in chains not too long ago? Brazil is known for ignoring black problems.
You'd be angry too if somebody stole everything you had. Got any dreams...Ill take them too!!!! The messiah was birthed by a black woman. *Wait they stole that too!*
Jesus is the Messiah, He is a Jew. Read Gospel of John chapter 4. His mother, the Virgin Mary is a Jew. Jew is not black. I'm a black man, who is a Christian saying this.
I as a person from Germany didnt even know that black women are seen like that, I dont think we have this stereotype in germany but maybe I just didnt notice bc I'm white, also I'd never describe a person by their skincolor like they do in crime series "white tall man" "tiny black woman" I'd never ever do that and I dont get why americans tend to describe people by skincolor rather than other attributes.
Ehrlich gesagt macht es mich traurig das Rassismus noch so stark ist in der USA. Sowas würde man fast nie in der Schweiz oder eben in Deutschland sehen wirklich schade.
Leider irrst du dich... Rassismus ist hier sehr verbreitet, vor allem in Orten in denen es nicht viele Immigranten oder Ausländer gibt. Der Grund dafür ist einfach Angst vor fremden Nationen. Wir als "weiße" bekommen ihn einfach nicht zu spüren :/
It would be nice to have an intelligent conversation about black women without every racist person with an ax to grind commenting and pretending that they know and have personal relationships with black women, enough so to make an intelligent observation. Seriously, I had to quit reading the comment section a third of the way through. We need our own space.
I grew up in Inglewood-LA and to this day, I have experienced very unpleasant situations in public transportation and restaurant involving black women. All very ignorant and entitled. I dont understand why....
My experience with random encounter with Black women through years were nothing but bad experience. I would accidently almost hit their cart at a market and apologize but instead they would stand there giving rude comments and yell at me and would not go away. So yes there are many of those rude, annoying, angry black women that thinks the world is against them and that they need to instigate unnecessary situations.
Agreed. I’ve met a few very sweet black women. But most of the time they’re rude, loud and abrasive. I know how I sound, but it’s just the way they’ve treated me. I remember being at the grocery store and there was a family of black girls the mom and a few daughters. The two daughters were riding around on handicapped driving carts, and I tried to allow them to get by and go ahead of me in the aisle. I was kind of just standing there and the one girl (looking disgusted with me and with such attitude) says “let her go first cause she don’t know what she doin” like excuse me I was trying to be nice and give them passage to the aisle we were both in. And 9 times out of ten they’re rude and have attitude to me and I know it’s because I’m white. It’s so wrong and annoying.
@Cmitch I completely agree with you. 99% of them are aggressive. When I drove by accident scenes where blacks were involved, I felt compassion for the other, white people, because black cant settle the problem peacefully, they always yell, and behave aggressive. I was always afraid of getting in an accident with black people. Recently, I had my very first light accident. I made a light scratch on black people's car. I apologized and was ready to exchange the information, but they took a bat out of their trunk. They were very aggressive. It is painful for me to remember that day. In addition, we lived in white (chinese, Vietnamese, Slavic people, white Americans) apartment complex. We had never had noice, police on the property. When the management decided to let the black people live in there as well, the noise, police, and fear appeared. They think that only they live here, they don't respect "quiet time" at night completely.
***** not true, it's a common misreading of some data, black women are just more likely to have a bachelor's than black men, but that gets misinterpreted as more bachelor's degrees than anybody
I'm white and I will never understand the struggle and racism that Poc and woc feel but I want you all to know that your are an amazing culture and you deserve complete respect 💙
My culture deserves respect and we don't ask like how they ask for it just saying in my country they steal and kill the other races here and are very racist to us
Thug Culture that is. Blacks in America has no culture like the whites in America. Eventually all race lose their culture in America though. Ask any African about their thoughts on blacks in American ghettos, they'll tell you that they are no longer black people lol. Now for the civilized respected blacks, yeah I feel their pain.
It stuns me when the media portrays dark women to be loud, 'always there for a fight kind of attitude' and asians are always 'submissive' and 'does as they are told' kind of attitude, if this is how people categorise races, how do people categorise fair skinned people? are they 'just-right'? --- This is, to me, how races/backgrounds are shown through media today, and that is not okay
Not just today, I think it's always been a thing. Think back to HAROLD AND KUMAR which is like a little over 10 years old at this point. It was the brown guy who was being pestered to get into the medical field and they put the asian guy in accounting (math) and like OMG, they actually did that? I never noticed on my own... it was a black guy that pointed it out to me.
Fair skinned women are categorized in movies as either the manic pixie girl or the girl that is just "eh" and has to change her looks to be liked. Tan girls are the average in film and television.
actually when I see Asian. especially women. they are always strict, and loud and using a terrible Chinese accent. it's horrendous. same with indians. I rarely see them without a fake Indian accent. and mexians. lol all minorities except black people have to use terrible fake accents as if they weren't born in America. smh this country.
I've never dated a black girl or I would never know the struggles of a black woman but I'm Mexican but I think black women are beautiful I would love to date one
@@junkooksxdumpster9415 nahhh yo this isn't an issue to "calm down" about. once you realize that we live in a gynocentric anti-male society where males and masculinity are being eliminated, is when you WILL change your mind about this issue
@@mgtow-balance3409 And that's their concern, not yours. People are allowed to do what they want without the criticism of someone else. Smh, there's a difference between RESPECTING women and being a simp. Don't blend the lines.
No, Dawn's Light. I wasn't trying to be funny. I think it's very sad that the most unprotected woman is the black woman. If she wasn't angry, and aggressive she would be devoured.
I had to do a lot of scrolling to see what people was talking about the comments being "toxic" and I'm surprised I found such hateful and discriminatory comments. Me being a 13 year old african-american young lady sometimes feel like my generation is hopeless. And these comments takes the icing off the cake. I feel like as an african-american I shouldn't be put down based off of stereotypes nor the color of my skin. We all aren't angry its a damn emotion but the "angry black women" thing is what the media wants you to see but its just a human being expressing her emotion! So for the people who commented saying disrespectful and discriminatory bs you are part of the reason why black women are stereotyped this way and the only reason we are expressing this emotion is because we are tired of feeling like these stereotypes define us as black women. Which They Don't! who every read this to the end thank you for hearing what I had to say.
REd Diary yeah no sadly enough you guys do it to yourselves. Living in the south my whole entire life and only being in all black schools there’s really no other way to put it but these “stereotypes” you think are false sadly are very true and real maybe not around where you live but here in Georgia it’s all too real Every black woman I’ve came across we’re all loud, obnoxious, ignorant and over the top just mean.
Vu Nguyen Well then you need to go away from the south because there are so many smart, well spoken, powerful black women where I live. We just don’t get the attention we deserve.
Chocolate Queen Im just saying my experience with black women have all been negative I would love to move up north maybe Washington or something to see another perspective but sadly around my area they uphold the stereotypes that’s no exaggeration either.
She said it for me at 2:53. I had a terrible experience at the doctor's office yesterday and they did not understand why I was upset when my appointment was delayed 3 hours and I still couldn't eat and I started my period at the same day. Wouldn't you be frustrated? I really felt alone and that everyone was making me seem like I was a crazy person in that situation. Plus I was paying for a home health care company to take me to and from my appointment and I had to pay by the hour. So I'm at paying extra hours because their office was running behind. And they greeted me with attitude when I asked them how much longer it was going to be. I really wanted to throw everything about office but I didn't want to be labeled an angry black woman and go to jail. And it was really irritating when the doctor brought me back and condescendingly tried to explain to me how surgeries work and that I was disrupting the office when his employee got an attitude. Don't be surprised when you come to someone without attitude and you get it back. This is not the first time I've been treated like this in an office and I really feel like it's because the staff and the majority of patients are white.
ANYONE WHO ACTED LIKE YOU WOULD HAVE BEEN REPRIMANDED! DO YOU ACTUALLY THINK IT WAS BECAUSE OF YOUR RACE? ? THERE WERE PROBABLY SEVERAL OTHER PEOPLE JUST AS FRUSTRATED AS YOU WERE THERE. !!
+Truly Girly wow your comment made me feel so bad .... I didn't even know that's what it was like... how could people be treating someone like that cause of there race and colour of skin... society these days
I've met both, sweet and kind, and the opposite not so sweet and not so kind...so all I know is that there are those you are and those who arent, whether whatever your skin colour its irrelavant. It all depends on our personal lifes experiences, we just have to learn from those experiences and try to not repeat the bad ones. Being angry is very toxic for ourselves it does no one any good especially yourself or those you love. Let go of the past, and look forward towards the future positively. I know it's helped me out a great deal. Luv you all ,and remember we are all worthy!
Hello I'm Glen from Massachusetts it Makes me mad sometimes how I see a black woman get mistreated and I'm a white guy who are very much Love black woman One of my best relationships was worth a black woman and then it was an acceptable but I was too young at the time the fight against it now I would fight against it
Lol I'm black and sometimes I wish I could be white cause of their hair is so soft and straight, I see a lot of white girls complaining about it saying it's 'boring' I myself think it's beautiful. Does that give me black guilt? I think not
I used to work in the kitchen of a French restaurant and the chef would ALWAYS have an issue with my face or tone. My perpetual "attitude", which would simply be me being stressed out or frustrated. I had to forcefully make my demeanor stoic to avoid any complaints from anyone (and then people would think I was unfriendly). But then he'd be screaming and throwing tantrums every five minutes when something went wrong or he didn't get his way, of course.
If we want to end the perpetuation and misconception, let's stop supporting media that perpetuates the misconception. For instance, people obsess over shows like Love and Hip Hop etc. and cheer it on as "entertainment". Stop supporting this foolishness that paints a caricature of black women.
Misconception? media? Just got to a place any where in america that has a high concentration of blacks and tell me if thats media, misconception or reality? smh the denial is real.
It bothers me that black women can't show emotion. It's like in order to be seen as a "good" black woman I have to pretend that I'm happy and upbeat 24/7. I have major depressive disorder so it's hard for me to stay upbeat. The worst experience I've had with this was during thanksgiving when I wasn't as happy as my mom thought I should be (because I was going through a bout of depression) and my mom told me I was acting like an angry black woman. That's sad. No I wasn't angry I was depressed and her saying that was what made me truly angry.
I watched a video just now witch title was : why white man is so angry ? so (as a white male) perfectly understand your feelings . By the way most of the black girls i have meet has nice personality .
Girrrrrrrl don’t let them get to you like that all race are mad 😡 and they tell us we are mad because we are Not,so we could look stupid by not knowing how to stand up for what’s right.
Most of the black women I know don't mess around with other black women, because of all the drama. They have to respect each other. Black women rarely have time to socialize with other black women because they have to hustle and bustle all their lives.
I'm black, not angry but sometimes stressed and very sad. Having to navigate equal amounts of racism and sexism at full capacity with limited opportunity in life (simply due to my ethnicity)takes a toll. For me being a black women is like earning a PH.D to stay in kindergarten forever.
+Wallie _ lol, I beg to differ about not having special priveleges for being white or non-black rather. That's fine. I understand that. However, I don't want special privileges, I just wish I could actually benefit based on what I've actually merited.
Wallie _ I have no doubt you earned what you have. Yes, white people definitely benefit from being white in many ways. You get instant credibility. I see this on a daily basis. Even the Harvard Business Review did an feature article a few months ago on diversity, and it said that they observed cases where some white men actually gave wrong answers when tested on job interviews, and the review board members would blame it on them having a bad day or give them the benefit of the doubt more than anyone. With women and minorities, they were penalized severely for making a mistake. For some minorities, the review board would try to find fault even with the right answers. I know there are white men who are smart, hardworking and who earned the right to sit at the table. But they do benefit from their social status, whether it's actually merited or not. Same with a black woman but the opposite end. A black woman is penalized based on social status, whether that penalty is actually merited or not. That's just social order.
I've seen where black men stood and watched a pregnant black woman get hit by her boyfriend because they didnt want to get involved. I've been called lowball names by men i dont even know and yet always told to let it go, be cool, don't say anything, don't get angry, noone has the right to tell me how to feel about my own self respect.
🎶 your friends, in both cases , gave the type of advise that would , perhaps avoid an altercation, escalation or worse. Police responding to a domestic call are more likely to be hurt or wounded/killed than a bank robbery. It's the worst call they can get , practically. In your second case , your friend is quite correct to ignore comments from strangers . You are precious, not the folk that disses you . Why give them ANY reaction ? That is how unimportant that they are !!
@@haza123b4 oh so thats why its nornal to abuse us(verbally,physically) cuz we're the only women with Above average independence and super human strength strong enough to protect ourselves from all the monsters in the world you're smart
When your used to racist comments and it doesn’t even faze you anymore 🤦🏽♀️.Honestly I’m looking at the comments and I’m seeing a lot of self hating people like who hurt y’all .
There was alot of hatred being delivered in the comments but thats there opinion & we all have opinions. In my opinion I absolutely LOVE black women. I love that black women still even have love within they hearts for the man. Black women in general are very sweet & kind. If you can crack that shell & you get to actually talk & spend time with her & get to know her deeper you've got a pass but gotta use it wisely cause it can get real uncomfy if you a simp or an alpha male. Its all about knowing how to deal with certain types of personalities. We all have fallen short & made mistakes but i can say that nothing make a man feel better than a woman who is not a thorn in his side, i need that im happy to see you look, & im happy to come home & be with you. Love yourself & love eachother.
I SO AGREE--I am a white woman, raised in a normal middle class family, nice home etc. but my mom was critical, she made a science out of destroying my confidence HOWEVER my father smiled. He made me feel loved --I can't imagine having no daddy in the home.
everywhere i go their is a beautiful back woman taking care, sacrificing for others without a complaint or appreciation. she just does it. black woman have been the backbone of our society. its time we take care of her
Anal Del Rey Open your eyes, go to a nursing home or mental institution or health home care, go to a factory go see how hard they work, they are angels. True they are not the only ones but they do >>> than their share. Everyday I thank a bw
Why is it that everyone else can be "opinionated" or "angry" about something and it is not discussed? It is basically like telling black women that your emotions and opinions don't matter- be quiet. Black women have to fight for everything that they get. Don't ever expect us to stop standing up for ourselves.
Better One as hard to believe as it sound grown women act like kids and shove people. A black lady once told me “you better not be on my way” because she was walking fast at a grocery store and I guess i was on her way so she proceeded to shove me. I have experienced a lot of similar incidents. When i have any interaction with black women 9 out of 10 are rude. No other race of women are this angry. I don’t know if you are black, I really don’t want to generalize but when you experience something like this on a daily basis. It’s hard not to.
The way she was portrayed is depressing to me honestly like no matter what, some ones gonna hate black girls just for being born that way but we are truly strong and the empowering will raise us up
UMA yes prejudice people do exist whether you recognize the judgements based on race or not. I observe it on a daily basis, nurturing has nothing to do with that other than nurturing of the self regardless of hate, thats my nature!
I know, it's very unfortunate but if you can you should talk to your mom about it or any black woman you are close to. Trust me it'll help to hear advice from her. Never forget how beautiful you are. #blackgirlmagic xx
Why can't people just stop being racists? Black men are being pushed around too. My best friend Joey and I go to conventions like comic con, otuka con, and cosplay gathering all across America. We go and he carries our clothes and I carry our prosthetics and makeup. One day he pulled a muscle in his wrist so he couldn't carry the clothes bags because they were heavier so he carried out makeup. In the makeup bag we have a machine to mix the solutions to make the foam prosthetics. He got pushed into a wall by a security guard and they guy broke the machine because it looked 'dangerous'. The only reason the security guard broke it is because Joey's black. I've never had any of my belonging broken by a guard. Guards will even sometimes pull him and I over saying we looked 'suspicious'. Honestly we probably looks suspicious because Joey is the only black guy there. Racism is still here. People who say its gone need to open their eyes.
@@fatfishtaco All black women aren't like that tho.. Why is this a stereotype for only black women?? I've seen many Hispanics even claim that they're loud, bc of culture! Black women are also not angry all the time! Just bc you've seen some that way.. Doesn't mean any other black female is..
fatfishtaco You just haven’t seen it for it to be your experience, like the other races of women. Like half of all black women wouldn’t act crazy like that that’s only from the experiences that you’ve seen. But for you to say that other races don’t act that way is stereotyping which is bad
The thing I hate the most is that at my school when they talk about black slavery they always look at me...😓
Hayla Sivils I can relate 💕
That was me. And then i got to highschool and had the same teacher freshman and junior year and i was so thankful bc he is black so he taught history in a different view and ranted about the racists in the world. Its great he is the reason why i love history.
Look at them back with confidence and kno abt yo history
Hayla Sivils my school doesn't they talk about "the white" stuff no offense but I wish I could learn what REALLY built america not take it
Hayla Sivils Oh God, even when they don’t I know they are thinking it..
Black women have to have their own backs. That's why many are so tough & seen as masculine.
true story!!!!!!
+νιѕα νιѕα 💪
Reso Priazk Type in The Truth on Why White Women Secretly Worship Black Women On TH-cam.
😂😂😂
That’s not true
Black women need to stop supporting tv shows and music that betrays them in a negative light. Our money and support is worth a lot so be careful what you support.
Miss desire Independance Type in The Truth on Why White Women Secretly Worship Black Women On TH-cam.
Miss desire Independance finally a black female that tells it how it is! You have earned my respect! blessed are you
Miss desire Independance This goes for Black Men too.
Miss desire you black ladies are beautiful & gorgeous there is a lot to love about you.
Miss desire Independance at times we get so caught up tho cause we have been so brainwashed for so damn long.
Strong does not mean being loud and beligerate.
Jupiter El okay Becky whatever helps you sleep at night
@@JD-dh3yn and where does self-esteem come from? Exactly. You just proved that while thread's point :O imagine my shock
@@JD-dh3yn Oh boy, I wonder why! Maybe years of slavery, slave mentality, being told you are not good enough as wife or mother or anything good, being called hoes or bitches, being stereotyped, being told you will never compare to a white women, beauty wise or education, always being shown in a bad light in media, are constantly labelled and criticized by random people who are racist or dont care, and... do I need to go on?
@@MahouShoujo-Studios Oh...for a minute I thought you were talking about the plights of a black man until I saw the female pronouns and gender identifiable markers in your statements.
Long story made short...black men suffer same things plus the threat of death every day but we keep on living, making the most of opportunities, fighting, and loving those around us (even our enemies who can sometimes be our own black woman). God never promised us a rose garden.
@@ascotthumphrey It can be used as a reference for black men too. I wasn't trying to be sexist.
you don't have to be physically attracted to someone to give them respect.
Lysol - Girl PREACH!
Lysol - lol tell that too the growing number of black women not married in there 30’s and 40’s
Lysol - Type in The Truth on Why White Women Secretly Worship Black Women On TH-cam.
Lysol. You have my love and respect from the heart I love all black women with all my heart , you all are beautiful women and are valued alot. I wish I had a black women to be my wife , I would be so blessed. You all have my love and support with the love of God I wish I could give you all a hug so you could feel the love in my heart that I have for you all and you could feel just how very special you all are. I love you with all my heart and I accept you in my heart. ☺☺☺☺
Amen bbg
Here's the main problem...... You are internalizing and listening to another culture that has never liked or loved you. When I was young I listened to a lot of that mess until I figured out that we were never liked! There was never a point where they liked us so why am I listening to a people who's only every said negative things about me?!.... That's when I woke!.... Instead of moving away from my blackness I moved towards it!.... I actually love being black because it means I don't have to be fake or phony. I live in my truth and no one else's. The world is gonna always try to put you in a box so it's up to you weather or not you want to see walls....... Wow! I just made that up!
James I agree us black females should never look to white people to accept us but alot of black people's like to put us down and we are getting tired of it.
Lordcron Thank you
abianah howell: If you live to be 100 years old you will still have only been on this planet a fraction of a millisecond in the vast and endless scheme of time. Barely registering as a blip on the radar of time. So how will you spend your time here?..... Never waste valuable time and energy on people who don't even understand their own journey and self value. Your purpose is very personal. No one (not even your identical twin) will have your journey. Don't let the propaganda's and worries of the world hold you down. Finding your joy and inner peace is the only thing that matters.
Lordcron many black women don't care what other cultures say, this video felt like it was. More directed to black men because it seems like they are the ones that push these stereotypes the most. There is a huge section on TH-cam and Twitter dedicated to bashing black women done by black men. I think black women can tolerate what other races say about us but when it comes from a black man it hurts the most. That is why the girl in the video said that only black women understand black women.
Then I'll say this.... It matters when and where you meet men. And most of all it matters at what point in a mans life you meet a man. Don't fall for a pretty face in a bad crowed and expect him to be a good man. Church and College events for example are a great way to meet quality guys. Then there are some very good Dating websites that screen men that you can use as well. Some guy you meet at a dark club or some bar drinking 9 times out of 10 won't be the guy you want...... You want quality? You gotta actively seek it. Don't expect your nice looks to attract a quality man. Then when you think you have one don't put on short skirts and tight clothes. Dress like you expect to be treated. If you want a quality man you have to be a quality woman........ Men pick up on things like language and slang. What you have on and most of all where you like to hang out or allow him to take you. Treat yourself like you expect a man to treat you so that way when and if you run into a good man then he already knows your a lady and not a chic. Lastly don't expect every man to treat you like gold and say nice things to you. It's not realistic. Not all men are bad and some of them will treat you like he sees you treat yourself.....
I'm so sorry that black women have to feel this way, you are precious wonderful strong virago is worthy beautiful women and oh so unique!! I honestly hope that things will change soon and that women of all colours and creeds can stand together as all the wonderful unique people we are! I for one am not a racist and try my hardest to treat everyone with respect and love and build up and NOT tear down! Hugs to you all, peace xx
*vibrant not virago!!! Blooming autocorrect!!!
i appreciate you :)
+i you probably think all white people are racist
No one needs to stand with anyone. Men don't stand with other men. We stand with people that are like minded. If you just stand with everyone you are bringing yourself down.
Your amazing u know :)
It’s Starts in the home. It’s Important how little girls are spoken too!
Many moms are Incredibly harsh and mean to their daughters.
As a woman of color I speak words of Encouragement and beauty to my daughter.
She’s NOT being raised with a complex
Love is within ❤️
thank you!!! precisely a fact
As they cross the line you put them in their place
❤🙏🏽❤ they re harsh becaz their mom s were harsh
N now u....ur breaking the cycle
💝🙏🏽💝🔥🔥😍 takes quite a powerful spirit, thank u. 🌷
It starts with a SOLID Family! When little Shortstop comes home from a bad day at school, NOBODY can convince her of how Beautiful she is than Dad! I noticed growing up in a house with a Father both of my Sisters best friend was Dad!
If her father isnt about, she gonna lose it.
I am black and I raised in the white community for years. They all mostly treated me like a woman and they are friendly. They don't see my skin color. They welcome me all the time. I sleep in their houses and I shared their foods. Even white men flirt with me. I gotta say they have great parents raising them well and teach them to see everyone as equal. I would do the same. Racism comes from racist parents from the old generation pass to their children, they are poison. To me what I observe, racist parents are jealous that the young generation getting more freedom so they pass racism to their children to keep them seperate from getting along with other races. Messed up. White people and other races who are against racism are REAL and BEST. They are my hood. They are the true human race, racists cannot be the human race. Period
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Okay hunnie only because YOU didn't experience racism does not mean it doesn't exist I live in a mostly white town and I get bullied for being black a Lot
+Person Anon she's just saying how it was for her, not saying it doesnt exist :/
Ahem👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾prays the lord🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Lucky you
if you are mad about black women feeling empowered and speaking out about being oppressed then you are part of the problem. you clicked on this video know what it would be about, get over yourselves.
Preach👏🏼
Best comment ❤️👑
Thank you!!!!
yes
I LOVE U RIGHT NOW
I see Freddie in the thumbnail *i click*
Wow what an original comment
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Same, and Daysha as well for me
Black women need to stop tearing each other down and for no reason. Let's be kind to one another.
And try to be kind to your black man! Please?
Sydney Robinson are black men even kind to black women? I always see y’all bashing black women for simply breathing and this is coming from a white woman.
@@youngrossy7873 shut
Summer Fruit you shut up
You're absolutely right. After all, we're all we have...EACH OTHER.
Now listen to me I am a white woman and you probably are going to say something hateful about this video but that is not true I truly agree to this video and I am truly upset about how screwed up this society is rn and I just want to say all women who are being push around and made fun of and are thinking that aren't beautiful are the fighters they are beautiful and so so wonderful
I made a typo at the beginning of that I was gonna say this: you think I am probably going to say something hateful about this video.
U ARE AWESOME THX FOR NOT SPREDING HATE
Preach it!!
PREACH
Are you one of these modern "Feminists"?
I'm Native American and I remember when I was working in all male environment, the men (they are native too) use to make mean comments towards black women . It was disgusting and sad. Then these same men complain about racism from white people. LOL. These same native men also put down Native American woman. Sick ! Sick ! Anyways , I think black woman are beautiful. I see them in Hawaii , New York , and across Canada . I don't know what they're talking about when they say black women are unattractive. I see beautiful black women everywhere.
generalizing much
yasmine bear well you people are racist
Single Guy From The U.S.A. Don't worry my friend. I bet you'll find someone soon! 😊 Maybe you could ask some friends to set you up on a date.
yasmine bear I really want to see what you look like because you got a lot of Mongolians claiming to be the original people of America. So-called black people are classified as black or African-American with many of us are clearly indeed Aboriginal . Native American and Aboriginal is different
The FEW attractive "black" women that gave me a stiffie were usually mixed race or dark skinned latinos. I have yet to see an attractive pure black women.
"No one really has my back except other black women" That is so true.
LIES
***** Well she said it, I agree with her, and I imagine we are not the only ones. Soooo you can't change how a person feels
I wish it was true. I've gotten more hate from other black women than I have from any other group of people. I'm not "black enough," my hair isn't curly enough, I "talk white," etc. all from other black women. I'm not trying to be anybody but myself, and I wish other black women could appreciate that.
Ironic eh?
Mmmmm... What country are you in? Black women have their own backs.... Black women DO NOT have each others backs nor does anyone else. Black women struggle enough with having their own back..... Black women do not lift other black women up in business or socially.
They should talk about how black women treat each other in the workplace. Colorism amongst Black people. Black supervisors and administrators advocating hispanic females over black women. Black women being catty in front of other ethnic groups against each other.
Most of my worst experiences are from Black people but not as bad with the other groups
@@domusic7683 Same! I'm black and that's embarrassing! How you get the most problems from your own race!?
@@Ejejesksjs My bad that was longer than I expected lol
@@domusic7683 that's crazy because I have had mostly great experiences from black women
@@LadyPinkster Of course if I believe, you're a woman right? They are more likely to be nicer to you than me being a guy. I think most women (espsecially Black) are being "brainwashed" into disliking men in today's society.
I can't say I know whats its like to be a discriminated against for my skin on a daily but my Mom is black and has told me a lot and its so sad. Stay strong everyone.
***** Thanks! I'm glad someone else is positive in the comments. Have a nice day.
People should be more like instead of saying that discrimination is 'non existent' just because they don't experience it. Thank you
+Matthew The Neko Boy awe💜💜 people just need to learn how to accept everyone for who they are. And btw U r awesome.
MISSAMISA Thanks! You're awesome too! :)
Everyone has experienced racism at some point in their lives. You being white doesnt invalidate it.
I'm a white girl in high school and we had a project about things that are happening in the world now and one of the subjects were black lives matter. My teacher asked everyone who supported black lives matter and I proudly raised my hand. I was the only one in my class who raised their hand and I was laughed at by my peers. I don't feel ashamed.
Respect :)
I see you are the only racist in your class. Congrats.
I don't get it anymore. This BLM movement is confusing. Isn't it about supporting every race and being treated equally? Why isn't everyone supporting it? Or is it just another thing where idiots confuse it with something else like how some idiots think feminists are people who want females to be stronger then men?
+Kayuune If you want support every race why aren't you supporting the black people in their movements?
Kayuune Okay, 1. Feminism is a cult about female superiority. 2. BLM can be classed as a terrorist group due to the definition of terrorism. Basically, being either one makes you a sexist or a terrorist.
Just because you don't look like someone who is perceived as beautiful, doesn't mean you're not beautiful. Flowers and sunsets are beautiful and they look nothing alike.
The best thing i’ve heard today
Saw the title and automatically thought "Oh lord, here we go..". I swear black women are always pinned out to be "angry" but when women of other races have the same attitudes, it's "sexy and spicy"
STAND OUT FROM THE CROWD
No, its anger.
Demon Spawn If your mom is black, why do you think it’s ok to address Black women as “hoes” ? You’d think that you’d have a little more respect, but I guess not.
@@demonspawn9770 Imagine taking pride in your own self-hate lol
Lili Marie how I’m expressing self hate. I’m a male , I’m criticizing females I’m not self hating myself you unintelligent moron..
Sometimes I'm disgusted with people. Do they not know how strong these black men and women are to overcome the white domination I have the upmost respect for them and I have the upmost respect for anyone except people who are discriminative in any way. If you're discriminative in any way you're as important a one grail of sand because that's what you are one grain of sand in a beach of accepting and loving people.
*grain
favorite comment so far
dil speaks the truth
AGAIN, the generalizing of black people. Black people are not "All strong" because they fought against racism. Some helped, some didn't, and some just secured their stereotypes, making it hard for other black people to convince bigots they were decent. This video falls under the latter of the 3
Best1nDaLobby They are still individuals, even with correlations, but yeah. There are other issues than racist white people, like maybe criminal black people?
Interesting question: Why is it that black men degrade black features on women when they have the same features?
T I O N A H J because black women wear weave fake eyelashes fake nails makeup and dye their hair blonde
Lavar Ball Lots of times black women wear weaves because they don't want to deal with their natural hair. The fake eyelashes and nails is something all women do. Not just black women. Also you can't tell me their is not black men is don't dye their hair blonde. nowadays there is tons of them.
Lavar Ball, because black women do something that all women do...your answer lol.
Lavar Ball and no I'm 15 and I wear weave(braids) at times because our frizzy hair is extremely annoying and it takes lots of time to do, putting it in braids makes it easier for us to just put it in a ponytail and go. Keep in mind, WE DONT HAVE WAVY HAIR so it's harder for us to just keep it in one place, and plus lots of people tend to shame frizzy hair, so I just wear it in braids.
Lavar Ball you're stupid. Have a good day
im black and not angry.......irritated at times sassy all the time but not angry lol
feel the same 😊
@@kano3030 Eww
GaLaXy G!RL 🙄 WE (GOD) love you SISTER'S!!!!!
The angry black woman is not a myth.
Nope. Stereotypes exist for a reason.
Literally stfu
@@knucklehoagies good job u proved their point
@@knucklehoagies just admit you an angry, nappy headed, black woman 🚗☁☁☁ 🤣🤣
@@lowereastsideastrologist7769 they even drive angry and I don't put their kids in the car seats nobody's ever buckled. They curse of their kids in the supermarket, as the kids run around with diapers that haven't been changed in a month
i'm white so i can't speak for woc because i've never known and never will know the struggles woc have a to go through but for all my black sisters out there just know that i love you, i stand with you and you are worthy of every good thing there is in the world ♥♥♥
AGREE >
*have to go through
♡♡♡
Awe … thank you … we love you too!
Thank you💜
I'm a white girl who has been born and raised in the South. Racism is a huge problem in society, but especially in the South. Black girls get called names and get a lot of hate at my school. I can't stand racism though. Everyone is the same Caucasians, African Americans, Asians, etc. Just because someone's skin tone isn't the same as yours doesn't mean they're any different. It's what's on the inside that matters. Think about how you would feel if you were ridiculed because of your skin tone before saying it to or about someone else.
You say all that but do you speak out to defend the Black girls that get bullied? I don't believe you do. So by staying silent about the problem means you are part of the problem.
She is not apart of the problem however i agree to stand up for what is right!
ZeeReeGee Ok maybe she'll do it next time, good point
***** She spoke out on a YT video about the situation, she didn't speak out to defend the Black girls that were being bullied. She only used this platform to get likes, to benefit her, to fit her narrative not to speak about how she stood up against racism with Black women. If she did, she would have said she did. But I wouldn't believe it because that is what people do. Always staying silent about others sufferings because it doesn't affect them personally especially when it comes to the mistreatment of Black people.
I won't even respond to the rest of your post because it's ignorant and disrespectful.
how would u know she didnt defend the black girls that r getting bullied just because she didnt put it in her comment smh
"God made one race the HUMAN race , and humans made RACISM ." Absolutely the truth.
i dont even belive in god ((no disrespect to anyone who does ♡)) and this is still one of the truest comments ive ever read
true.
The one comment in this comment section that I actually agree with. You are amazing
Truth
There is no god
I am actually a kind sweet woman but the moment I get angry cause someone disrespect me I am labeled as an angry black woman, and it is usually a BLACK MAN calling me it.
That's very deep.
Sad :(
u mad bro
Because you are angry. Black men calling it how they see it.
@@conservative8989 indeed they act like it's rocket science lmao
#BlackGirlMagic
???? what the you mean????
#blackgirlmagic
+Wth... I think that's stupid
too and I'm black
You're quite ignorant, sir. Or ma'am. Sorry, I can't see a profile picture so you're probably a coward, as well.
umm... that's my friends blog...
Sad thing is depending on where and who you are you don't even have other black women. We've been taught to tear ourselves and each other down.
Guess I'm not going to America and staying here in London..
why don't you go back to your job
sienna l Going to take your advice
Well than what are you waiting for? ^
Good Choice
+Wth... Don't bloody come to London nobody wants you here you massive steaming pile of cat vomit
0:17 they forgot over sexualized.
@To the point. i'm sorry? have you not watched the damn video?
They over sexualize themselves. Look at how wap was defended.
@@jkenll19 that's just young people having fun-
@@Jasmine-re9dh until they get they're lab results back.
@@Jasmine-re9dh they are young people who are over sexualizing themselves.
Dear black women, you are beautiful, you are strong and you deserve the same respect as everyone in this world
And I have your back, I will always fight with you for what is fair
+Shersai thank you
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Dear black women, what's your opinion on muslim or middle east women?
Hey everyone. I'm from South Africa, and even though the population is a majority of black people, the racism here still thrives everyday. In schools we can't even have our natural hair in Afros without being called untidy and dirty. We are Africans fighting to be African in Africa.
To all my black sisters, you are beyond beautiful, you are POWERFUL beyond compare, and we've got to stick together ladies. #BlackGirlMagic
? what does afros have to do with racism
Afros are called dirty and untidy. Blacks girls are told to relax their hair to make it look neat. That's racist. Our hair is discriminated against because it doesn't look like white people hair
I'm Jamaican 14 year and we are even though not much we are place in boundaries. Afro as they call them is our natural hair. It's was grows out of our scalp yet businesses and schools require that we change that. We have to straighten / cream ( burn with chemicals) to the point that it has to look like the straight hair. In Banks and institutes they must look like this. Before Never was there schools that would allow us to wear our natural hair untampered because we had to fit the mold of refined which was according to them three white woman. No anymore. Things are starting to change.
+theroxieheartshow this is exactly how I feel.
+pupper doge I wish it were that easy hahaha 😅
buzzfeed could literally post a video with a black person saying that racism is wrong and white people will still find a way to get offended by it
deadass
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right?!
fr
There should be more sweet, kind, intelligent brave and problem solving black women in media.
amen
BUT THEY ALL SCREAM AND YELL WHEN THEY GO IN FOR THE INTERVIEW !! ITS CRAZY IN THOSE INTERVIEW ROOMS WITH THESE PSYCHO WOMEN !! SECURITY !!! SECURITY !!!
@@flatearth9140 no,just...no
@FLAT EARTH no
Oh really? then who is that girl on 1:33? I know her from another video I swear....
#BlackGirlMagic 👩🏿💪🏿✊🏿
Holy ShitApples!! Thanks you guys for the likes!!😚❤👑
Im sorry I can't understand what you've been thought because I'm a white guy but my Mom is black and talks a lot about it. Stay strong. #BlackGirlMagic
+Matthew The Neko Boy we need more people like you.
✊🏾☝🏾💪🏾 #blackpower
👩🏾👧🏽👌🏽👏🏽
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i was typing into google "why are black women so" ...and then angry came up . I was actually going to write STRONG.
still a stereotype
why would you look that up
sarah Because it’s the truth, that’s why.
Anastasia GR 😂😂😂😂
Anastasia GR im black actually married a black woman which i regret and I can tell you every woman on her side of the family is myth the moment you tell them how it is get ready for the attitude bomb
This whole “angry black women” thing is just perpetuated by the media.
It’s so annoying and it needs to stop.
Absolutely, & hey Black Women have the right be "angry" over this. Its time Black Women get the love, respect, & praise they so deserve!👑👑👑
Nah it's as real as it gets
Jamais Nah you're just ignorant.
Excuse me?
lion fish That's still not ALL black women!
As a Black man, I'm telling you Black women are the best! Always know that & take that with you no matter where it is you go, or what it is you're going through!
Maybe for you but I’ve had some pretty bad experiences
@Daniel Anderson ‘’You bIack women are the best!’’ WeII, that wouIdn’t sound racist if it was a white man saying this
You must’ve been drunk when you commented this.
@@kingzuna8007 doesn't mean u should group all of them like that
@@Onepieceistheworstanime 🤡
Oh god these comments are horrible
Black women deserve respect
They are strong
And beautiful
This goes for
Race sexuality gender
Everybody deserves respect and
Everybody should feel
Confident
And amazing💕✨
yesss
They are not beautiful
*cough cough*
I'm allergic to all the ignorance
🖕🏻
+Sasha Muchi that must be very sad indeed, but I keep with my statement, they are not beautiful
+Eradicated Noodle caugh caugh I'm allergic to idiots to
If you don't like Buzzfeed's videos, don't watch and don't subscribe. You are not being forced to see it.
+David Michael learn how to speak correctly please.
speak?? can u hear them then???? um...
Facts!
Latina women can display the same characteristics as 'angry black women' and be called sexy, fiery or sassy. Italian or Greek women can display the same characteristics and be called hot-blooded, passionate, protective, big hearted. Black women get labeled angry and aggressive.
jills911 But they are not talking about Latina women
Wavyisland _ Shes using one race to compare and how it’s not fair that there’s different descriptions for different cultures that hold the same characteristics. It’s completely disgusting.
DorkySophie & Life exactly
jills911 no they can't all races r different
You must not be we'll acquainted with Latin and Greek culture.
You can be the most beautiful woman ever, but once she opens her mouth and it sounds like love n hip hop or Cardi B
Automatically drops the self worth of any woman.
thats just aave tho. cardi can be obnoxiously loud but most black people from the hood or Bronx speak in that manner. why should that drop the self-worth of a women? If a see a black with a Bronx accent I do not think of him as uneducated but as uniquely him.
🎯!!!
Facts
Thank you
Cardi B is spanish though
When you are a black woman, your heritage and legacy can not be obliviated. My grandfather´s grandma was a slave and she was dressed as a doll and closed in a gift box when she was little on her white owners birthday. When she finally was free, her kids never had a father, a last name. They never had shoes. That´s the past, but sadly is also the present. When white people says black poeple are angry for no reason, they need to look closer.Are u really treating me as a person or as your fetish, as your maid, as your subordinate, as your inferior, as your pleasure, as your new slave?
Sorry, but I have to figth back. Not with my fists, but my education, my culture, my tradition, my legacy, my heritage. I have to figth back for my grandfather´s grandma story: her name was Gabriela, she was a slave black woman and I wish she knew I remember her, I´m proud of her and what she was.
Gladys Quesada Well said.
Dear Mitzi: I loved your response.I was not refering only to the Internet, I was also talking about real life, where racism had morphed into new forms: subestimation, under recognition, mocks, fetish...I´m happy to find people like you, who only cares about character, but I also have to deal with a lot of other persons who shows tolerance and respect in appearence, but do the opposite. For a long long time I kept in silence. Say nothing, do nothing, don´t show yourself as offended because they will come for more, I used to tell myself. But that´s not the way. I´m not a perpetual figther but I have to say something, because I have a voice. many black people in history never knew how to defend themselves, how to explain themselves, or never had the oportunity to. I´m a social cuban researcher and I´m doing everything I can because racism is toxic for evryone, white, asian, black pleople, no matter what. I can not hesitate or hate my white side because of my genetics. I figth for both.
Sweet Uncle Touch, you’re just stupid, try having both of the things working against you.
Nice post. It is indeed a tragedy what has happened to our ancestors in this country. I as a black male just finds it very hard to legitimize anyone’s ignorance in my direction.
When I hear racist comments, and I know I’m not everyone else, it can’t bother me. Race was invented in this country, after Bacon’s Rebellion, to make slave ownership more economical, and to disrupt the poor planters who at one time were both white and black.
So now since slavery is no more in this country, the whites that use race only use it to boost their ego. Responding to such rhetoric, only strengthens their ego.
It’s from a place of power to not expect anything from whites. They don’t own your faculties for seeing and understanding.
Truly understanding the ego at play, it will be impossible for you to be emotionally compromised by race.
But if you wish to believe in race, you’ll be subscribing to the very thing that was created to enslave you.
Not ALL slavery was 150 years ago??
Thank you for educating me, this video helped me understand more of your perspective. As a woman, I stand with you all in solidarity.
MillieFaye Tutorials People like you make the world seem better 💯💯💯
MillieFaye Tutorials I don’t like this video because it paints all white men as mysoginistic racists
Black is beautiful. I love my brown skin . Black people stop begging for white people to love you. Love yourself. Know your worth.
Thank you!!!!
"Black people stop begging for white people to love you."
Clearly black people are trying to get white peoples approval....smh
Queen LeLe
yesssssssss 🙏👍👍👍 thank you you understand this video is screaming for acceptance like its pretty pathetic
Mitchel why do you bring people down and insult them spread love not hate please.
A Bagel
Because people who look to hurt others are usually not happy with themselves.
I love everyone's differences because we all live on a beautiful and unique world
I'am against every steryotype but the black women loud thing is almost always true
@WhiteAndProud @WhiteAndProud did u not read what I just said the black women stereotype is 'mostly true to my experience' and ill still back it up till this day
🎯@@samlool7101
this is the saddest most true thing on earth, it's so hard to be a black woman and I love black women, black women are treated as less than human, when will the torture end
Nicole A Totally.
It is a brutal path. I hope there is a sweet reward in the afterlife when it's all over. One good thing about life as a black woman is that you experience so many facets of the human condition intensively, I mean it's amplified. I feel I'm expert in it, quite frankly.
nike jones nobody asked for your opinion uncle tom, go get you a white girl and stop hating on black women
nike jones I wonder what black women hurt you. you're making a huge assumption
They're treated as less than human? How?
I believe in Karma. Treat others as you will like to be treated.
You're Karma-o-meter has gone up (good) for that one comment my friend
Are you implying that a lot of black women treat people a certain way? As a black girl i've gotten multiple comments in public stores on different days and years about my natural hair ( wow that's nasty...does she comb her hair?) and I hadn't even looked in the direction of the person. I heard them from behind me... I was just standing there.. being black... never replied... just left the store & continued to try and keep my esteem from lowering..again...... so It might happen again but I don't deserve karma for my hair texture.
Genie B. No you don't gurl , black girl (technically im mixed) to black girl , tell me all your probs im here for you. :D
+Genie B. I think you misunderstood me. As a black woman myself i believe that you treat others as you would like to be treated. What goes around comes around. A lot of people think black women are angry but let them live in our shoes for one day...
Thank you and Michelle is a beautiful women by anyone standard. At 4:12 the ideal that they did it alone? Really, that's why no Man will choose you, men want women not a woman who thinks she a man!!
I think it's horrible that people are treated this way. I am white, so I'll never really understand how you feel. I have learned from my parents, friends and myself that everyone is equal and there should be no one left behind. it's horrible that people are still racist. I love people. I don't care how they look like
My bestfriend is a black man and he refuses to be with a black woman, especially american black women . He tried, he married a beautiful black woman. Shortly (2 years later) he divorced her. I asked him why.
The way he explained it was, she was always quick to pick a fight, not just with him but others who would simply look at her wrong.
He also said she always acted competitive and bossy and her greed and control became unbearable.
And? What is the point of you making such comment? Other people can easily bring up various anecdotes of horrible White, Indigenous, Asian, Latin, Mixed etc women that they were married to. Are those anecdotes true representations of the majority of the populations listed?
@@medusavee8649 🙄
@@medusavee8649,4 years later you ask this question,so I will choose to indulge in your tardiness. My point is, it is more common for black men to choose to date outside of their race than it is any other race ,because most of them tend to feel insulted and emasculated by their own.
See what's not mentioned here is that Leslie jones has made racist comments herself...
what did she say that was racist?
+eva shaw "Lord have mercy...white people shit"-a comment she made on Twitter. There is no outrage over it and the many other things she has said because she is black and for some reason we act like minorities talking negatively about white people is not equally as racist as if it were the other way around. Modern social justice is full of double standards my friend
Whos Leslie thooo
Her comments had no where near the amount of had people where giving. Plus, those comments surfaced after they started attacking her, your aegument is invalid.
congrats, thats the most idiotic thing i have read today on TH-cam.
You know what I hate is when you are black woman and you get told that your "acting white" when you are angry or upset. Emotions don't have a race.
lauren McGibbon ikr, that happened to me before, and im usually allways quiet
lauren McGibbon Exactly, I get driven to school by my parents and my friends walk and then I get called white. Now that gets me frustrated.
Ally Fowler h
lauren McGibbon ikr
lauren McGibbon. Stop trying to sound like you have white problems....smh
The sad thing about it too is that you would expect in this type of society where mostly negatives are stacked against us, we, black women, would stand up for each other but in so many cases we're victims to society's perception of us and continue tearing each other down
Ja Libah Type in The Truth on Why White Women Secretly Worship Black Women On TH-cam.
As a 16 year old dark skin girl, I can admit that no I used to not have the confidence that I do now and I really had to work on myself in order to be this way. It was really hard for me dude like I remember just wanting to be different so much but at the same time, I didn’t want to over do it in like a stereotypical kinda way. I’ve felt targeted every since I could remember. And I just hate the fact that it took me this long to finally be who I am now. My future kids will be confident. This is btw random but, I’ve never had a boyfriend. I mean I talked to some boys every once so often but it’s just not real to me.
never give up, girl. don't matter as they say. btw you are pretty. from spain
Don’t care about boys! Having a boyfriend is not important and don’t seek for validation from boys! Focus on yourself only, your dreams, your career etc :)
@@tonymontana9754 viva españa
By ur pfp i see why you never had a boyfriend......
do ppl target you though or do you just feel like they do?
I love all my sistas. Stay strong, stay proud
KaeGji thank you, our king ✊🏽❤
KaeGji 💝 thank you
KaeGji Type in The Truth on Why White Women Secretly Worship Black Women On TH-cam.
Better that tbh :)
Thanks 🙂🤗
I get up as a black woman and travel to wherever I want to, I don't really care how am being perceived by others ...
I'll never ever disrespect anyone till you come and step on my toes.
Hey beautiful black girl, I think none of this video are true at all but I dislike this video. I think you are a happy beautiful black woman. I love black girls.
Hey beautiful black baby girl, I dislike this title of video cause It's not true at all.
THATS THE PROBLEM !! YOU DONT CARE HOW YOU ARE BEING PERCEIVED !! MOST OTHER RACES CARE VERY MUCH HOW THEY ARE BEING PERCEIVED !! AND EVEN IF SOMEONE COMES AND STEPS ON YOUR TOES YOU STILL SHOULDNT DISRESPECT THEM !!
@@MuscleMan_Jones THEN YOU HAVE NEVER EVER MET A BLACK WOMAN IN YOUR WHOLE LIFE !! LOL
Yup! You're an angry black woman.
You mean "Black Woman who live in America"
Well this is an african american stereotype
Omg this is so very true...
Yes I'm from London and it's nothing like they're describing
+Vitor Campelo Are you conviently forgetting about the white Brazilian who had the black woman in chains not too long ago? Brazil is known for ignoring black problems.
+Vitor Campelo Average Brazilian isn't black. They look like Mexicans
The most disrespected/unprotected people in America are children, not black women.
Thank you
Nope it’s black women
They love playing victim
Wow the replies are disgusting 😔
@@loggedout8572 when y’all stop throwing hands at waffle houses that’s when we start respecting you
Yet what confuses me from all this,people will find away to get upset over these comments.
maria deng Type in The Truth on Why White Women Secretly Worship Black Women On TH-cam.
You'd be angry too if somebody stole everything you had. Got any dreams...Ill take them too!!!! The messiah was birthed by a black woman. *Wait they stole that too!*
Jesus is the Messiah, He is a Jew. Read Gospel of John chapter 4. His mother, the Virgin Mary is a Jew. Jew is not black. I'm a black man, who is a Christian saying this.
Jackie Lastrada what??
@@sterlingshelton7940 jesus is black it says in revaluations and Jews can be black and white for example drake
@@bunghole998 He's not black, and Revelation doesn't say it.
@@sterlingshelton7940 he was born in the middle east ofc he's not white
The comment section doesn't surprise me........
Black women are still disrespected........
Queen of the night
in my opinion black women have beautiful Hair and beautiful skin 2
the arabian falcon Thank you ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Queen of the night
u welcome i just saying facts that i love u skin so much that am atm looking for black queen to be my queen my wife :)
the arabian falcon Hahahaha!
Why?
I definitely know a lot of angry black women, but I can honestly say not all black women fall into that category.
Same!
They are generally miserable and vengeful. However yes.... Not all.
Not all AMERICAN black women are like that but most are
Generalization at its finest.
Thank you to those black women who don't get angry when they are not treated as they feel they should be. Shows great strength in my opinion.
I think it would be good if we could have world peace where everyone is accepted and loved
That would be so dope 😂 maybe one day
too bad it's literally impossible unless humans go extinct
As much as that sounds nice I don't think it's ever going to happen
you're living in a fantasy land. This will never happen
never say never
I as a person from Germany didnt even know that black women are seen like that, I dont think we have this stereotype in germany but maybe I just didnt notice bc I'm white, also I'd never describe a person by their skincolor like they do in crime series "white tall man" "tiny black woman" I'd never ever do that and I dont get why americans tend to describe people by skincolor rather than other attributes.
Ehrlich gesagt macht es mich traurig das Rassismus noch so stark ist in der USA. Sowas würde man fast nie in der Schweiz oder eben in Deutschland sehen wirklich schade.
Leider irrst du dich... Rassismus ist hier sehr verbreitet, vor allem in Orten in denen es nicht viele Immigranten oder Ausländer gibt. Der Grund dafür ist einfach Angst vor fremden Nationen. Wir als "weiße" bekommen ihn einfach nicht zu spüren :/
lizuchis0912 Leider wird das sich in den nächsten paar Jahren wahrscheinlich nicht ändern.
alina Im Gegenteil, ich denke es wird sich verschlimmern...
This mostly happened in America.
It would be nice to have an intelligent conversation about black women without every racist person with an ax to grind commenting and pretending that they know and have personal relationships with black women, enough so to make an intelligent observation. Seriously, I had to quit reading the comment section a third of the way through. We need our own space.
@MadDilla ATCQstarr YOUR SOUL SHOULD LEAVE YOUR BODY
@MadDilla ATCQstarr I'm black and that's what she deserves
I grew up in Inglewood-LA and to this day, I have experienced very unpleasant situations in public transportation and restaurant involving black women. All very ignorant and entitled. I dont understand why....
And never tip
Black women aren't angry their frustrated, we are mistreated by everybody else and even our own people, wouldn't that frustrate you
No
lyricist 2021 preeaaach
lol clean your room
@Vanilla Ski are you upset?
@MadDilla ATCQstarr are you a black woman?
Black is Beautiful forever & always
Djenabou Keita Type in The Truth on Why White Women Secretly Worship Black Women On TH-cam.
50cent33 keep telling yourself this lie.
50cent33 what? If anything it’s the black women worshipping the white ones
Beck Herrera but black women set all the fashion trends and white women take them sooo😂
White is beautiful forever and always
My experience with random encounter with Black women through years were nothing but bad experience. I would accidently almost hit their cart at a market and apologize but instead they would stand there giving rude comments and yell at me and would not go away. So yes there are many of those rude, annoying, angry black women that thinks the world is against them and that they need to instigate unnecessary situations.
Agreed. I’ve met a few very sweet black women. But most of the time they’re rude, loud and abrasive. I know how I sound, but it’s just the way they’ve treated me. I remember being at the grocery store and there was a family of black girls the mom and a few daughters. The two daughters were riding around on handicapped driving carts, and I tried to allow them to get by and go ahead of me in the aisle. I was kind of just standing there and the one girl (looking disgusted with me and with such attitude) says “let her go first cause she don’t know what she doin” like excuse me I was trying to be nice and give them passage to the aisle we were both in. And 9 times out of ten they’re rude and have attitude to me and I know it’s because I’m white. It’s so wrong and annoying.
@Cmitch I completely agree with you. 99% of them are aggressive. When I drove by accident scenes where blacks were involved, I felt compassion for the other, white people, because black cant settle the problem peacefully, they always yell, and behave aggressive. I was always afraid of getting in an accident with black people. Recently, I had my very first light accident. I made a light scratch on black people's car. I apologized and was ready to exchange the information, but they took a bat out of their trunk. They were very aggressive. It is painful for me to remember that day.
In addition, we lived in white (chinese, Vietnamese, Slavic people, white Americans) apartment complex. We had never had noice, police on the property. When the management decided to let the black people live in there as well, the noise, police, and fear appeared. They think that only they live here, they don't respect "quiet time" at night completely.
@@olgacu470 slavic people are white they are indo-european first white people ever also every american is european descent
I completely agree, loud and rude!
@@Lismarie33 yep !
African women are amazing talented and beautiful.
lost in their mazes
thank you
+Zineb Benallag Then why is Africa such a shithole?
***** not true, it's a common misreading of some data, black women are just more likely to have a bachelor's than black men, but that gets misinterpreted as more bachelor's degrees than anybody
pupper doge you don't know how to read charts
dailycaller.com/2016/06/07/media-says-black-women-countrys-most-educated-group-even-though-its-not-true/
I'm white and I will never understand the struggle and racism that Poc and woc feel but I want you all to know that your are an amazing culture and you deserve complete respect 💙
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Move to zimbabwe if you want to gain perspective
My culture deserves respect and we don't ask like how they ask for it just saying in my country they steal and kill the other races here and are very racist to us
Sydney Morin. Thank you! Finally someone gets it! Thank you so so much for that!
Thug Culture that is. Blacks in America has no culture like the whites in America. Eventually all race lose their culture in America though. Ask any African about their thoughts on blacks in American ghettos, they'll tell you that they are no longer black people lol. Now for the civilized respected blacks, yeah I feel their pain.
It stuns me when the media portrays dark women to be loud, 'always there for a fight kind of attitude' and asians are always 'submissive' and 'does as they are told' kind of attitude, if this is how people categorise races, how do people categorise fair skinned people? are they 'just-right'? --- This is, to me, how races/backgrounds are shown through media today, and that is not okay
Not just today, I think it's always been a thing. Think back to HAROLD AND KUMAR which is like a little over 10 years old at this point. It was the brown guy who was being pestered to get into the medical field and they put the asian guy in accounting (math) and like OMG, they actually did that? I never noticed on my own... it was a black guy that pointed it out to me.
Fair skinned women are categorized in movies as either the manic pixie girl or the girl that is just "eh" and has to change her looks to be liked. Tan girls are the average in film and television.
+Shelby Watts umn. you must be white. no offense, but that's just probably why you think that.
actually when I see Asian. especially women. they are always strict, and loud and using a terrible Chinese accent. it's horrendous. same with indians. I rarely see them without a fake Indian accent. and mexians. lol all minorities except black people have to use terrible fake accents as if they weren't born in America. smh this country.
You realize that was racist right^
I've never dated a black girl or I would never know the struggles of a black woman but I'm Mexican but I think black women are beautiful I would love to date one
damn you mean to tell me that you couldn't contain your simping? you just had to let the whole world know, eh?
@@mgtow-balance3409 calm down lol
@@junkooksxdumpster9415 nahhh yo this isn't an issue to "calm down" about. once you realize that we live in a gynocentric anti-male society where males and masculinity are being eliminated, is when you WILL change your mind about this issue
@@mgtow-balance3409 And that's their concern, not yours. People are allowed to do what they want without the criticism of someone else. Smh, there's a difference between RESPECTING women and being a simp. Don't blend the lines.
That's good
The black woman is angry because she knows she's on her own in all aspects of life.
ok it's seems like you may be sadistically happy about that lmao
No, Dawn's Light. I wasn't trying to be funny. I think it's very sad that the most unprotected woman is the black woman. If she wasn't angry, and aggressive she would be devoured.
we all are.
Maybe if she wasn't so damn unpleasant, that would change.
have a blessed day sir.
I had to do a lot of scrolling to see what people was talking about the comments being "toxic" and I'm surprised I found such hateful and discriminatory comments. Me being a 13 year old african-american young lady sometimes feel like my generation is hopeless. And these comments takes the icing off the cake. I feel like as an african-american I shouldn't be put down based off of stereotypes nor the color of my skin. We all aren't angry its a damn emotion but the "angry black women" thing is what the media wants you to see but its just a human being expressing her emotion! So for the people who commented saying disrespectful and discriminatory bs you are part of the reason why black women are stereotyped this way and the only reason we are expressing this emotion is because we are tired of feeling like these stereotypes define us as black women. Which They Don't! who every read this to the end thank you for hearing what I had to say.
REd Diary aw it’s ok girl don’t listen to this assholes
REd Diary yeah no sadly enough you guys do it to yourselves. Living in the south my whole entire life and only being in all black schools there’s really no other way to put it but these “stereotypes” you think are false sadly are very true and real maybe not around where you live but here in Georgia it’s all too real Every black woman I’ve came across we’re all loud, obnoxious, ignorant and over the top just mean.
Vu Nguyen Well then you need to go away from the south because there are so many smart, well spoken, powerful black women where I live. We just don’t get the attention we deserve.
Chocolate Queen Im just saying my experience with black women have all been negative I would love to move up north maybe Washington or something to see another perspective but sadly around my area they uphold the stereotypes that’s no exaggeration either.
Stereotypes don’t come from nowhere
Harriet Tubman was a great black woman
black men wouldn't marry her though.
+jahmehkan horn black men all want Ling Ling
She's dead.
She said it for me at 2:53. I had a terrible experience at the doctor's office yesterday and they did not understand why I was upset when my appointment was delayed 3 hours and I still couldn't eat and I started my period at the same day. Wouldn't you be frustrated? I really felt alone and that everyone was making me seem like I was a crazy person in that situation. Plus I was paying for a home health care company to take me to and from my appointment and I had to pay by the hour. So I'm at paying extra hours because their office was running behind. And they greeted me with attitude when I asked them how much longer it was going to be. I really wanted to throw everything about office but I didn't want to be labeled an angry black woman and go to jail. And it was really irritating when the doctor brought me back and condescendingly tried to explain to me how surgeries work and that I was disrupting the office when his employee got an attitude. Don't be surprised when you come to someone without attitude and you get it back. This is not the first time I've been treated like this in an office and I really feel like it's because the staff and the majority of patients are white.
ANYONE WHO ACTED LIKE YOU WOULD HAVE BEEN REPRIMANDED! DO YOU ACTUALLY THINK IT WAS BECAUSE OF YOUR RACE? ? THERE WERE PROBABLY SEVERAL OTHER PEOPLE JUST AS FRUSTRATED AS YOU WERE THERE. !!
This made me cry so much...black people honestly deserve so much more respect than what they are getting #blackgirlmagic💪💋
+Truly Girly aweeeee your comment was so deep ... I'm not black but I'd really like to know what my life would be like if I were!!!
+Truly Girly wow your comment made me feel so bad .... I didn't even know that's what it was like... how could people be treating someone like that cause of there race and colour of skin... society these days
+Check One what you're saying makes sense but she wasn't even being racist though. Chill.
+Check One what's up?
People deserve respect based on their character, colour shouldn't play a factor.
I've met both, sweet and kind, and the opposite not so sweet and not so kind...so all I know is that there are those you are and those who arent, whether whatever your skin colour its irrelavant.
It all depends on our personal lifes experiences, we just have to learn from those experiences and try to not repeat the bad ones. Being angry is very toxic for ourselves it does no one any good especially yourself or those you love. Let go of the past, and look forward towards the future positively.
I know it's helped me out a great deal. Luv you all ,and remember we are all worthy!
Hello I'm Glen from Massachusetts it Makes me mad sometimes how I see a black woman get mistreated and I'm a white guy who are very much Love black woman One of my best relationships was worth a black woman and then it was an acceptable but I was too young at the time the fight against it now I would fight against it
amen
YES . THERE MIGHT BE SOME WHO ARE NOT LOUD!
Every human can express a wide range of emotions....including Black Women. Also, I see nothing wrong with expressing righteous anger.
And any race as well so stop even saying you met them as black
Black women are so beautiful. Sometimes I wish I was black so I could be as beautiful as them.
your beautiful in your own way every race has beauty
You are beautiful just the way you are, I promise you and thank you for the complement:)
You are beautiful just how you are
Oh, please. You wouldn't, trust me.
Lol I'm black and sometimes I wish I could be white cause of their hair is so soft and straight, I see a lot of white girls complaining about it saying it's 'boring' I myself think it's beautiful. Does that give me black guilt? I think not
I used to work in the kitchen of a French restaurant and the chef would ALWAYS have an issue with my face or tone. My perpetual "attitude", which would simply be me being stressed out or frustrated. I had to forcefully make my demeanor stoic to avoid any complaints from anyone (and then people would think I was unfriendly). But then he'd be screaming and throwing tantrums every five minutes when something went wrong or he didn't get his way, of course.
If we want to end the perpetuation and misconception, let's stop supporting media that perpetuates the misconception.
For instance, people obsess over shows like Love and Hip Hop etc. and cheer it on as "entertainment". Stop supporting this foolishness that paints a caricature of black women.
Misconception? media? Just got to a place any where in america that has a high concentration of blacks and tell me if thats media, misconception or reality? smh the denial is real.
Black women paint a caricature of themselves, its only the one they deem uncomplimentary that they rally against. Real Housewives of Atlanta etc.
Agreed 💯💯
carlos bodie What about the Realhousrwives of orange county, or Beverly Hills? Double standards
Black women don't have to emulate white culture for black men's affection, they do it to compete with white women.
It bothers me that black women can't show emotion. It's like in order to be seen as a "good" black woman I have to pretend that I'm happy and upbeat 24/7. I have major depressive disorder so it's hard for me to stay upbeat. The worst experience I've had with this was during thanksgiving when I wasn't as happy as my mom thought I should be (because I was going through a bout of depression) and my mom told me I was acting like an angry black woman. That's sad. No I wasn't angry I was depressed and her saying that was what made me truly angry.
I watched a video just now witch title was : why white man is so angry ? so (as a white male) perfectly understand your feelings . By the way most of the black girls i have meet has nice personality .
Girrrrrrrl don’t let them get to you like that all race are mad 😡 and they tell us we are mad because we are Not,so we could look stupid by not knowing how to stand up for what’s right.
@@rolandiagale9271 lol..lmao..thats your answer..to denie that you guys are mad and angry is your remedy to the problem..wow!! Worst than I thought.
It's one thing to show emotion. It's another to show ghettomotions.
@@RespiratoryDrive-vy9ih lol..right on!
People are so stupid saying this video is racist...this is nothing compared to what is going on around the world today
Exactly
It's still racist
+Truth Hurts how?
+Truth Hurts no, its not racist, its just self-victimization
0))
Most of the black women I know don't mess around with other black women, because of all the drama. They have to respect each other. Black women rarely have time to socialize with other black women because they have to hustle and bustle all their lives.
Their not the only ones that got to work hard but the only ones that act like that
@@suckurmum2219 Was that necessary to say? There are other videos that talk about other races! Black woman have to work harder than others woman btw.
HUSTLE AND BUSTLE ? WHY ?
I'm black, not angry but sometimes stressed and very sad. Having to navigate equal amounts of racism and sexism at full capacity with limited opportunity in life (simply due to my ethnicity)takes a toll. For me being a black women is like earning a PH.D to stay in kindergarten forever.
omg, so true
Wallie _ I have a Master's of Science.
+Wallie _ lol, I beg to differ about not having special priveleges for being white or non-black rather. That's fine. I understand that. However, I don't want special privileges, I just wish I could actually benefit based on what I've actually merited.
Wallie _
I have no doubt you earned what you have.
Yes, white people definitely benefit from being white in many ways. You get instant credibility. I see this on a daily basis. Even the Harvard Business Review did an feature article a few months ago on diversity, and it said that they observed cases where some white men actually gave wrong answers when tested on job interviews, and the review board members would blame it on them having a bad day or give them the benefit of the doubt more than anyone. With women and minorities, they were penalized severely for making a mistake. For some minorities, the review board would try to find fault even with the right answers. I know there are white men who are smart, hardworking and who earned the right to sit at the table. But they do benefit from their social status, whether it's actually merited or not. Same with a black woman but the opposite end. A black woman is penalized based on social status, whether that penalty is actually merited or not. That's just social order.
Do you have a boyfriend?
I've seen where black men stood and watched a pregnant black woman get hit by her boyfriend because they didnt want to get involved. I've been called lowball names by men i dont even know and yet always told to let it go, be cool, don't say anything, don't get angry, noone has the right to tell me how to feel about my own self respect.
EVERYONE HAS A RIGHT TO TELL YOU HOW TO ACT IF IT AFFECTS SOMEONE ELSE !!
My boyz Tyrone, Ray Ray and Pookie would never do something like!
🎶 your friends, in both cases , gave the type of advise that would , perhaps avoid an altercation, escalation or worse. Police responding to a domestic call are more likely to be hurt or wounded/killed than a bank robbery. It's the worst call they can get , practically.
In your second case , your friend is quite correct to ignore comments from strangers . You are precious, not the folk that disses you . Why give them ANY reaction ? That is how unimportant that they are !!
*I thought black women were strong and independant.*
@@haza123b4 oh so thats why its nornal to abuse us(verbally,physically) cuz we're the only women with Above average independence and super human strength strong enough to protect ourselves from all the monsters in the world you're smart
When your used to racist comments and it doesn’t even faze you anymore 🤦🏽♀️.Honestly I’m looking at the comments and I’m seeing a lot of self hating people like who hurt y’all .
I know. It's disappointing.
LMAO I KNOW RIGHT
There was alot of hatred being delivered in the comments but thats there opinion & we all have opinions. In my opinion I absolutely LOVE black women. I love that black women still even have love within they hearts for the man. Black women in general are very sweet & kind. If you can crack that shell & you get to actually talk & spend time with her & get to know her deeper you've got a pass but gotta use it wisely cause it can get real uncomfy if you a simp or an alpha male. Its all about knowing how to deal with certain types of personalities. We all have fallen short & made mistakes but i can say that nothing make a man feel better than a woman who is not a thorn in his side, i need that im happy to see you look, & im happy to come home & be with you. Love yourself & love eachother.
Bob Tom You can think about black people as much as you want.It is your right to do what you want with your time. 😂
you accuse others of being hurt when you are the one who is hurt. projecting???
It has nothing to do with injustice... It's because entire generations of women are raised without fathers. It's not that hard to figure out.
Its an entire generation of women who believe their own BS. And when reality intrudes, the S hits the fan.
I SO AGREE--I am a white woman, raised in a normal middle class family, nice home etc. but my mom was critical, she made a science out of destroying my confidence HOWEVER my father smiled. He made me feel loved --I can't imagine having no daddy in the home.
@@marilynwillett804 your slow stop speaking on topics you don’t know about colonizer
I’m not angry....I’m just sad and don’t know how to express my sadness....
Therapist.
SCREAMING DOESNT FIX ANYTHING !!
FLAT EARTH we don’t all scream.
@@Lalaland-og9xr YOUR RIGHT !! NOT ALL !!
I mean you don't throw your emotions onto others so they can feel as horrible as you just go to a therapist
I'm a black woman and I'm proud
period 😐
amen there is nothing more beautiful or real or caring than a bw, nothing, nothing even comes close
you're not special at all for being black and a woman but that doesn't mean you're not beautiful
everywhere i go their is a beautiful back woman taking care, sacrificing for others without a complaint or appreciation. she just does it. black woman have been the backbone of our society. its time we take care of her
sun cloud 0 Evidence
Anal Del Rey Open your eyes, go to a nursing home or mental institution or health home care, go to a factory go see how hard they work, they are angels. True they are not the only ones but they do >>> than their share. Everyday I thank a bw
Why is it that everyone else can be "opinionated" or "angry" about something and it is not discussed? It is basically like telling black women that your emotions and opinions don't matter- be quiet. Black women have to fight for everything that they get. Don't ever expect us to stop standing up for ourselves.
bubbleschocolate you can have emotions but going around the world shoving people and being angry is not your right.
Better One....not one, but many. Don’t act like you don’t know what I’m talking about.
Better One as hard to believe as it sound grown women act like kids and shove people. A black lady once told me “you better not be on my way” because she was walking fast at a grocery store and I guess i was on her way so she proceeded to shove me. I have experienced a lot of similar incidents. When i have any interaction with black women 9 out of 10 are rude. No other race of women are this angry. I don’t know if you are black, I really don’t want to generalize but when you experience something like this on a daily basis. It’s hard not to.
There is no BLK women without the BLK man...
Lmao
Complains about being sexualized yet most Black women support Cardi B and Meg The Stallion.
100
They don’t know what they want, only chaos because they extremely hate themselves.
@J b you’re racist, you don’t even know if they’re white. Black racist.
@J b As always another clown that assumes when you tell the truth about a lot of black women they assume you white. I’m a black man you loser.
@@conservative8989 Lets tell the truth about black men those terrible statistics don't lie
The way she was portrayed is depressing to me honestly like no matter what, some ones gonna hate black girls just for being born that way but we are truly strong and the empowering will raise us up
Born that way? You have to be taught by someone. Nurture vs Nature. Look it up.
UMA yes prejudice people do exist whether you recognize the judgements based on race or not. I observe it on a daily basis, nurturing has nothing to do with that other than nurturing of the self regardless of hate, thats my nature!
Marsha Scott I know that's right👏👏👏👏👏
Chanel Parker and people don’t realize but y’all are the foundation of society according to some historians.
Stop victimizing yourself and stand up get a spine, stereotypes and bs happens all over the world, you are not a special snow flake believe me
im a young 12 year old black girl and im so emotinal to the fact some people dont accsept my skin color.I dont understand😯
Purple Purple ok thank u see that other comment is why i am so emotional god bless u
Its ok, there are always some people who wont accept but as long as you know you're beautiful, those comments wont get to you
Taylor Anle thank u
I know, it's very unfortunate but if you can you should talk to your mom about it or any black woman you are close to. Trust me it'll help to hear advice from her. Never forget how beautiful you are. #blackgirlmagic xx
Listen girl, dont listen to what all the haters have to say. Be you. #BlackDontCrack #BlackGirlMagic
Thank you for this. It really is sad how black women are portrayed in the media.
Why can't people just stop being racists? Black men are being pushed around too. My best friend Joey and I go to conventions like comic con, otuka con, and cosplay gathering all across America. We go and he carries our clothes and I carry our prosthetics and makeup. One day he pulled a muscle in his wrist so he couldn't carry the clothes bags because they were heavier so he carried out makeup. In the makeup bag we have a machine to mix the solutions to make the foam prosthetics. He got pushed into a wall by a security guard and they guy broke the machine because it looked 'dangerous'. The only reason the security guard broke it is because Joey's black. I've never had any of my belonging broken by a guard. Guards will even sometimes pull him and I over saying we looked 'suspicious'. Honestly we probably looks suspicious because Joey is the only black guy there. Racism is still here. People who say its gone need to open their eyes.
@@matt24680 black men are the ones pushing these stereotypes their all over social media reinforcing stereotypes
Angry, aggressive, loud, obnoxious, pushy people are best avoided.
The louder someone is, the less interested I am in hearing what they have to say
FACTS-making excuses for belligerent attitudes doesn’t change the narrative
Shaun Hensley yup. No one want to be with anyone that does that. I don't...for sure
@@fatfishtaco All black women aren't like that tho.. Why is this a stereotype for only black women?? I've seen many Hispanics even claim that they're loud, bc of culture! Black women are also not angry all the time! Just bc you've seen some that way.. Doesn't mean any other black female is..
fatfishtaco No one is blaming other people what are you talking about? It just seems like you put the blame on a group of people
fatfishtaco You just haven’t seen it for it to be your experience, like the other races of women. Like half of all black women wouldn’t act crazy like that that’s only from the experiences that you’ve seen. But for you to say that other races don’t act that way is stereotyping which is bad
Someone once said, hatred is only a reflection of people's own misery.
And my oh my, there are so many miserable people in this world.
yeah and someone said jesus was on their toast, must be true if 1 person said it
+Sky Dayer Man dude. You just killed my mojo.
Martin Vargic That's just too far.