Sarah Kay If I should have a daughter Segment from TED TALKS

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  • @MeganJoyce47
    @MeganJoyce47 2 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    Listened for the first time at age 14. Here I am 10 years later with a daughter of my own! Such a beautiful poem.

    • @BrainFoodCafe
      @BrainFoodCafe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      wow.. and 10 years later.. I am single again..

    • @diamondjackson3624
      @diamondjackson3624 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I first listened when I was 13 and ten years later for me too

    • @rawmansi
      @rawmansi ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i chanced upon this 10 years ago too! today i found it again :)

    • @kaynjt3247
      @kaynjt3247 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I am in the same position. It's incredible.

  • @TheKirstie92
    @TheKirstie92 7 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    This has been my favorite for a while, but I just lost my mom and listening to it again, it took on so much meaning.

    • @amberly3562
      @amberly3562 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      💕💕💕same, wishing you strength peace and love!

    • @brittneyc.brookes1455
      @brittneyc.brookes1455 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's heavy .. my heart is with you.

  • @demdelthepoet8885
    @demdelthepoet8885 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Heard this piece for the first time when i was 16-17, and now...i'm 29 and this piece still resonates with me 🥺🥺 and wow, Sarah sounds so young here!

  • @davelovesdrums
    @davelovesdrums 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Years later and this is still my favourite poem I've ever heard/read ♥️

  • @familyannamarie5052
    @familyannamarie5052 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I heard this 5 years ago when i was pregnant with my son... now I am pregnant with my daughter and I had to find this because I will write this down and remind her of these exact words!!

  • @mysticmoth1111
    @mysticmoth1111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    The first time I listened years ago I loved the beauty of the message. But now it's so much more powerful because I've internalised all the truths she shares.

  • @KylieFlowers
    @KylieFlowers ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I remember purchasing this book (one of my favorite poems) when you came to my high school (wow.. almost ten years ago?), and I loved this poem for the mom I could one day be. Now I read it to my daughter, turning one this week.. and I love it even more. Thank you, Sarah.

  • @pluviophile9419
    @pluviophile9419 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I remember in college, my professor in a major education course used to let us pick a TED talk and present it in class, I chose this. One of my all-time favourite.

  • @robertwalker4563
    @robertwalker4563 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Just in case you still swing through here Sarah, I want you to know that I still enjoy this poem regularly. I now have 2 daughters, I use this to help form my ‘North Star’. Thank you.

  • @littledreamer08
    @littledreamer08 11 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    My absolute favorite poem ever.

    • @anjel1884
      @anjel1884 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      get a grip.

  • @lindacosta5688
    @lindacosta5688 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    My daughter told me to listen to this
    She is my ❤️

    • @arjunaseneviratne616
      @arjunaseneviratne616  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Linda... it was the other way for me. I told my daughter to listen to this :)

  • @anneblackwood9013
    @anneblackwood9013 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Here I am years later still watching this to reparent myself lol

  • @Jennifer-z6c
    @Jennifer-z6c 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have heard this a million times but now I am 29 weeks with my baby girl. It hits different. Delilah.

  • @azraalagic6935
    @azraalagic6935 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is up to today still my favourite poem and it still makes me weep every time.

  • @princessmondejar9481
    @princessmondejar9481 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I was 16 when I first listened to this, I'm 20 now and I hear everything differently

  • @BantuMadikizela
    @BantuMadikizela 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    what a great piece!

  • @LadyMoonsparrow
    @LadyMoonsparrow 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    What a wonderful and powerful poet!

    • @anjel1884
      @anjel1884 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      who paid you to say this

    • @arjunaseneviratne616
      @arjunaseneviratne616  2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@anjel1884 its another person's opinion friend. If it doesn't fit your idea of it... it doesn't really mean a whole lot to either Carolyn or to Sarah. That is what creative work is all about. Some like your work, some hate it. But none who are creative artists attempt to either vilify other's for their likes and dislikes or attempt to shove their opinion down someone else's throat.

  • @CheqMaSwag
    @CheqMaSwag 10 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thanks Tumblr! that was amazing.

  • @joanclaeys9527
    @joanclaeys9527 10 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Ur inspiring

  • @love4075
    @love4075 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So beautiful i wish i had a daughter.😭

  • @mademax1
    @mademax1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    life didn't w8 for me to get back up again... kicked me when I was down...

    • @hariomkushwaha9773
      @hariomkushwaha9773 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Samee but you will get through it. Don't worry

  • @gordonpearson7494
    @gordonpearson7494 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So damn wise and beautiful.

  • @ManoloRafael
    @ManoloRafael 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    “They’ll be days like, my mama said”

  • @samoselan6590
    @samoselan6590 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Soooo trueee bestie!

  • @parentingbeyondbehaviours6382
    @parentingbeyondbehaviours6382 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    No hearts breaks that chocolate can’t fix (nice)

  • @stephenwestcole
    @stephenwestcole 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The solar systems?

  • @ChaChalynnnn
    @ChaChalynnnn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ❤ y Micayla

  • @davashe_n
    @davashe_n 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🥺🥺🥺❤️

  • @TKAllen
    @TKAllen 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    💙💙💙

  • @jeffjohnston1961
    @jeffjohnston1961 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Never mind

  • @jennib7387
    @jennib7387 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your brother did NOT commit suicide. It was a tragic accident. I have it on a Coroner's report.

  • @azzidopintea4953
    @azzidopintea4953 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oh Zendaya is a feminist?

    • @anjel1884
      @anjel1884 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      yassss she is ! a queen! unlike Sarah

    • @KR-vu9mo
      @KR-vu9mo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@anjel1884 what’s wrong with Sarah :(

  • @SomeCatchyName
    @SomeCatchyName 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    less is more

  • @guiandre9347
    @guiandre9347 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What's happening here?

  • @dmmusicmusic
    @dmmusicmusic ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this is so incredibly vapid and hollow, nothing could be emptier except those who applaud it or believe it has substance; damn, you people need to try and read some.

  • @Angelaalexisard
    @Angelaalexisard 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i can’t read by lamont carey is so much better then this crap

  • @Angelaalexisard
    @Angelaalexisard 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    worst poem ever

  • @Angelaalexisard
    @Angelaalexisard 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    this is terrible

  • @Angelaalexisard
    @Angelaalexisard 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i hate this

  • @Angelaalexisard
    @Angelaalexisard 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    this is soooooo trashhhh

  • @anjel1884
    @anjel1884 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    god, this is awful!

    • @hariomkushwaha9773
      @hariomkushwaha9773 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      If you hate her, then why are you here?

    • @anjel1884
      @anjel1884 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@hariomkushwaha9773 school made me watch.

    • @hariomkushwaha9773
      @hariomkushwaha9773 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@anjel1884 your school has good taste and you don't 😂

    • @anjel1884
      @anjel1884 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hariomkushwaha9773 lol youre crazed. you like a poem that is harmful where she just assumes what her daughter will be like and enjoy and stereotypes her, plus that god awful singing job in the middle of the poem is so random, uneeded, and straight up stupid. Hariom, get a life.

    • @hariomkushwaha9773
      @hariomkushwaha9773 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@anjel1884 haha you r funny (love the personal attacks on me but I'm more self depreciating so i don't feel bad and i initiated that so prolly well deserved).
      Secondly, I honestly don't want to argue with you bcz you are probably a kid still in school and i don't want to waste my energy on this bcz i have realised long ago, that you can't change opinion of someone who doesn't want to. So have a nice day😂