BeachyBlondeWaves you're wrong. 3.5% of adult Americans are gay, lesbian or bisexual, this excludes all of the closeted ones. But 7% of millennials are LGBT so that number is going to get to 10% probably within the next 20 years. And it's not even because more gay people are suddenly appearing, being LGBT is becoming more and more accepting so people feel more comfortable coming out rn as opposed to 1885 where you would be completely shunned and beaten up
Lavender Violet Some people come across like that by myself then come across like I’m giddy but it’s just myself mechanism of protection and reaction a lot of my actions don’t come out the way I want them to eat now because I have like a problem like fun people do like when they laugh at their meeting to either cry or feel sad or a different emotion it’s just that sometimes that’s the way that you react so I can understand her once my friend said something extremely harsh and I couldn’t help legit not awkwardly smile just smile and just be like oh my God I thought you were going to come even something worse but no it’s just the way that I react and she knew that so she didn’t make me feel bad but some other people did you get really mad at them I don’t remember exactly anymore because it been a long while but that’s not usually how my reactions are in everybody around me has learned to understand it maybe for heard something like that because she did seem extremely worried they’re going to have to go through some major shit
I call BULLSHIT on the fact that she was "catfished". This woman is a straight up lesbian. She trying to cover it up. That explains why she took it so hard that her daughter is gay as well. My gay-dar be ringin off the hook lmao 😂😂😂
+Yhwh yhwh I watched the video carefully. Her mom is disappointed,but didn't want media backlash. I met people who voted for gay rights,have a gay friend....but soon as their child came out gay they want them out!
Saving/me I think because she's her only child. She has dreams for her daughters her life. Thinking she won't have a biological grandchild possibly. It makes it harder. Where as with the other moms they have many children
+Micaela Morton lol and a lot of times thats true. I've seen old people who has a gay child,but never any grands their family goes extinct. Some adopt,but not genetically the same.
So many "religious" people have forgotten that or just don't care (because they know it's wrong) but, when they pass away and they're being judged by Him, He's gonna want to know why they were doing His job. But hey, that's they're relationship with God. I stay in my lane.
Michelle, so true. I'm a raised Christian and born-again. God is the one who told me He made me gay. I was freaked out and pretty surprised, since my church & religion heavily preached against homosexually and demonized it. God has also told me the same thing: only He judges, not us. God showed me how my being a lesbian was a gift from Him. TBH, I didn't believe Him. But once I processed the false programming, including the internalized hatred all marginalized people get, I really got to see His Prophecy in action. Having the personal relationship & spiritual visions of God and Jesus helped me immensely in accepting my in-born lesbianism. I could never understand why it was called a choice, since I would've never ever, in a million years, choose such a thing. I did years of trying to "pray the gay away." On very rare occasions, I've seen some people being successful in having heterosexual marriages, but then, sexual orientation & gender identification are on a continuum. It was a difficult path, especially with some of my family being fundamentalist (I was one, too; forgive me, Father, for my own sins of self-righteousness my elders taught me). However, they were totally accepting because they love me. Bless them. Love is not supposed to be conditional, folks. In hindsight, my personal growth from being different caused me an immense expansion in my ability to love, release the disease of judgmentalism, be far more compassionate, and open my eyes to Truth. God has blessed me beyond compare. GBU & TYJCY.
Elaine Marie congratulations!!! Don't worry about the negativity of others. They don't understand the lifestyle. I am 100% straight but I fully support gay rights. You have to what is right for you. We each have our own relationship with God and no one else can say anything different. Let them say what they must. You are living for you. The world is full of too many people who quote the Bible and what they believe, but it doesn't have to be what you believe. Continue being you!! 🌈😃
jacintamrsdarcy Jim Bob and Michelle would rush those kids away to whatever place they sent their pervo son Josh, to have those gay kids rehabilitated to heterosexuals. Lol
Kondor, not so fast. Read the Bible on that subject. If they believe the Bible as they say, they are disregarding it big-time. And Meri only had an online relationship - no physical affair. Remember Kodi divorced her so he could marry Robin, also. Maybe this kid sees being gay as a way to get out of the male-dominated thing.
If you’re a serial monogamist then you don’t understand polyamory let alone polygamy. Do not forget she wanted to live this lifestyle! Just like every relationship there are rules and boundaries. She went behind her husband’s back and emotionally cheated on him. It doesn’t matter how many wives he has. She agreed to a closed off relationship and family with her husband and sister wives.
watchgoose which part of the Bible? The part where Abraham, David, Solomon, Moses, and Jacob had multiple wives? That’s just a handful of polygamists in the Bible. The part in Deuteronomy where it says to stone your daughter for having premarital sex? The Old Testament is still part of the Bible. If you believe in the 10 commandments and Adam and Eve then you’re following the Old Testament. The Bible isn’t al a carte.
It's crazy how much your life changes when you go to college and outside the bubble of your family. Especially if you are sheltered. I remember before Mariah went to college, she was one of the most religious of the kids and says she wanted to be in a poly relationship.
GurlProblemz my brother did the same thing. that kid slept with a bible at night. he was trying to run so far from who he was. at 18 he started college and it was only a few months in when he came out. it really wasn't a shock. all his friends were girls, he never brought home a girlfriend, he was obsessed with fashion and having the latest styles, and was flamboyant. now he is 25, serving our country in the air force and happily married to a nice guy.
GurlProblemz Yup. That's what happens when strict parents keep their thumb over their kids abd keep them under constant brainwashing. Eventually, the kids see what the real world is like. There's a reason the duggers are never encouraged to go to college.
Lol, she probably wanted to be in a poly relationship because there would be more ladies then guys. The idea of sharing a husband was probably never an issue since he would have to split his time making it easier for her to end up closer to a female wife.
My heart really goes out to Mary, she seems so lonely, sad and lost. Kody hesitated on the seperation/divorce question! I'm not here to judge anyone's life style... but how attentive can 1 person be to 4 wives and 18 children??? When you are spreading yourself that thin certain people are going to suffer... meri and janelle have both said they feel isolated and that they don't get enough attention... and what a coincidence they are his 1st and 2nd wives! He is like a child... he gets tired of his toy he wants a new one!
Don't think he did, as he said "I'm not going to leave" - which for me sounds, unspokenly, like, "but Meri is free to leave" So he basically said this family will go on with him definitely, with or without Meri
I agree with you about Mary I feel so sorry for her. And with the problems with Mary I don't think Cody should have taken another wife even if he loved her BECAUSE he needs to work it out with Mary and to try to give her extra TLC. So sad Kody and her agree it's not a loving relationship.
I cannot wait ... I always said that. There are too many kids for this not to happen. They will probably do something to spin it, but it's going to happen and come out. I am an ally for the LGBTQ community and i think it's always best to live your truth.
I hope not, I can’t imagine the life of a gay kid in that family. That family is so brainwashed they would more than likely put them in a gay to straight conversion camp.
She looks so much happier Im glad she came out!! On another note I LOVE JANELLE !! She is the realist out of the wives and she works and pays bills too. lol
Growing up Mormon (but not the polygamist kind), I think this girl is very brace for speaking up, and I'm very glad that her parents are mostly accepting. When the dad said that he felt it was God's job to judge and his job to love, that's the reaction all Christians should have when their kids come out as gay.
We all sin... You cannot tell me a gay person is worse than a rapist and unworthy of forgiveness. I would hate to be judged so harshly for my sins, wouldn't you?
Mary needs to divorce Kory. she's not happy and hasn't been for a while. I also think that she hasn't felt the same way about her religion for a long time, I'm not sure if being paligmist is her thing anymore.
Yes I know that. I should of said she should leave him. I haven't watched for probably two seasons now but I was watching when she got the divorce and I always thought she divorced him cause she wasn't happy.
I don't think polygamy was ever her thing, frankly. It seemed fairly clear to me that it was something he wanted and pressured her into.. I've always felt so bad for her..
A marriage between One wife and a husband is hard enough to keep happy and healthy but multiple wives, this is heartbreak waiting to happen bc it is NOT sustainable.
Good for Mariah!! I'm thankful that her family still supports her. Being gay is not a choice. I don't understand people who treat it like it is a choice. Being born gay is something that just happens and it tends to happen to amazing people.
Of course the first wife has the most trouble with the other wives, she knows what it's like to be the only wife, she knows what it's like to be the only one getting the attention that a wife gets, she may have been supportive of the other relationships but I doubt that's what she wanted, I also doubt that she had much of a say in the matter even if Cody would have respected her decision it's likely that she went along with it because she didn't want to loose her family.
I feel bad for Meri. Instead of asking her what they could do to make her happier the whole group (Kodi and her sister wives) have clearly focused on their feelings of anger and betrayal. She looks like someone who hates her life. Glad there are other adults in her daughter's life though. It was the other moms who showed the most acceptance
+Thais Macedo Is it though? I couldn't look my child in the face and tell them I love them, and then worship and pray to a god that supposedly condemns them to hell for being themselves.
videogal the second you have a child you get this feeling of unconditional love, nothing your child does will ever make you stop loving that child, your love will be stronger than any other feeling you have. Besides, if you truly are so devout to following the bible, you'll know that depending on which version you read the word love is mentioned 300-500 times, as opposed to judge which is mentioned around 100 times. it's clear God wants us to love and not judge. I personally feel we all fall incredibly short and are in absolutely no position to judge anyone
This is a wonderful reaction from a family! It’s okay not to agree because of your religion as long as you still support and love your friends and family regardless! They made her feel comfortable and loved and like it will all be okay!
Very sad, it good example of why polygamy is not the best thing. If Kody had more time for Meri the marriage might have had a chance. Sad they took on more then he could handle or anyone could for that matter.
Lilleybugglane that was so he could legally adopt her children so that her ex husband couldn't take them away if something happened to her (he is abusive and neglectful etc).i haven't watched this show in well over a year so not sure if the adoption is final or not
This is so funny. They were upset she is gay, ok. But, are they upset with their twisted lifestyle? no. Meri knows deep down Kody doesn't love her one bit, he's an unstable man, spreading himself too thin and giving these women way less than they deserve as his wives, because he can't truly love them all, that's not how marriage works.
I’m so happy that her mom, the sister wives and her father accepted her and didn’t push her away. The sister wives made the situation when she came out so much better. I was so glad to see the one yell out she thought she was going to say she had cancer to lighten the mode and they jumped up to hug her.
I've been waiting for one of these kids to come out. I never thought it would be the oldest though for some reason. Good for her for living her life truthfully.
Idk how people get into a polygamist relationship. I know that if my husband wanted to have other wives... I’d be heartbroken because I’d just want him to myself lol.
Oh ya...the CatFish story, the one Robyn's friend set her up for, trying to get rid of Meri...Robyn destroyer...1 by 1 until she has Kody all to herself!!
He didnt say that at all, and btw, it's ok if a parent disagrees with their child. You can still love your child and not go along with what your kids choose....
He never said she was going to hell..... all he said was I'll judge.... you love so there for he is letting the good lord do his job while he is doing his job as a parent
I'm honestly amazed at how accepting the parents are. I don't know why, I just am. I suppose that I'm not thinking rationally, since the parents preach acceptance for their lifestyle so I should not really be surprised. Oh well, it's something that changes how I felt about this family and if the hugs and kindness and acceptance they're showing the daughter is true and not just for the camera, then wow, awesome, they're not as bad as I imagined.
I don't see how he can love all the wives the same. Can he believe that his wife having 4 husbands can love them the same. Bs. How can one not be jealous?
I love that her family accept it even tho it's not something they would believe so this is parenting done right . I think more parents should be like this .
Meri you'll be waiting a long time for a romantic relationship with Kody he has too many choices. He's getting older now probably happy to get rid of 1.
She use to say she wanted to be a sister wife so bad! I wonder if she still believes in her faith at all. I know many gay Mormons who do. I’m happy for her and I hope she has an amazing life. She seems lighter and brighter. She is beautiful.
I love how her own mother is just sitting there while the other mother Robyn got up and hugged her. But I do like what Cody said.. he's right it's not his right to judge. That's his daughter, it's her life and she has to live it. She's doing the right thing and living the way that she wants to. 💙
As a mormon (LDS) this pisses me off. @ 1:36 when Cody calls himself "mormon," that's truly wrong. He's FLDS, and oftentimes actual mormons get confused with this cult. It is, without a doubt, a cult. As an actual mormon I'm disgusted at her biological mom's and Cody's behavior. I believe people are born gay. For them to say that they "never saw it coming," just shows that a) clearly they haven't paid enough attention to her, probably because cumulatively they have 18 kids. It's really not hard to tell if someone is gay or not, generally speaking. It really pisses me off and pissed me off when her biological mom said "now I have to mourn the loss of the life we thought she would have." I don't like swearing but bitch you shouldn't mourn anything, celebrate that your daughter was brave enough to come out to you probably knowing your reaction. I was really happy though when that one sister wife (the blonde one, sorry I don't know her name,) said right after "whew I thought you were gonna tell us you had cancer!" Even though it wasn't her biological daughter, she behaved maturely and got up and hugged her. Good on her. Sorry for the rant, I'm just very passionate about this.
Allison Linner They aren't FLDS, they're AUB. There are dozens and dozens of Mormon polygamist groups and yes, most of them consider themselves to be Mormon. Historically speaking, the LDS church has been the one to shy away and drop the name. It wasn't until recent years that mainstream Mormons started using the name again, so you can't really be pissed off. This is coming from a Mormon who grew up a few blocks away from BYU. 😉
Allison Linner And he straight up says "fundamentalist Mormon" that's what the LDS church calls them, too. They ARE fundamentalist Mormons and I think you might be surprised at how similar they are to our church in theology and culture.
Mormonism is a cult. PERIOD. It is a fantasy based on "religion" and it is not ok. And yes, I was born and raised in the thick of it in the middle of it all in Utah. Joseph Smith lied and you are a fool for still believing his lies.
I think that the mom and the dad especially the mom don't really want to admit that they don't agree with their daughter. Primarily because they're on tv. The other mothers couldn't give a shit because they're not related.
karenKristal check out their housing, i bet you could find a schematic by searching for their show, "sister wives"..each wife & her family subunit of kids & pets have their own 'house' (subsectioned off from a larger house) & the only husband is on. a "rotation" so he's with a different wife/family each day & night.....
I don't watch the show, and came across this on TH-cam. I can honestly say I'm truly beaming with their responses. I LOVED the one that said "oh honey, I thought you were gonna say you had cancer"! All coming out stories should be this beautiful 💕🌈
she has auburn hear, short nails, a nose ring, and is wearing a flannel.... how did they not even remotely suspect she was gay? like seriously she is out their looking like the epitome of wlw culture and they are absolutely shocked that she likes girls
My mother is very religious and we could not be further apart on prominent social issues. Still, not one day has gone by where I have doubted her love. She has always supported me while still being honest about her beliefs. I can respect that and respect this family for role modeling this approach. Meri...girl do you.
The best thing your family has done for her was to support her! Good for you guys! Life throws s lemons when you want oranges but, see people see there lives as ruined but it isn't its just changed. God never gives us more then we can handle and in the end were you loving or were you selfish? People especially in these days need to see loving! Thanks for helping the world! 😘
i liked what dady said.."God told me that u ll love,i ll judge."...so nice and so true.dont worry dad.if u love your kids as a dad,imagine how much more God loves them as their creator and God dont judge us with anger but with love.just like we do for our kids.
True unconditional love CAN'T be turned off ! There isn't 1thing my kids could do to make me stop loving them!! All I ever want is everyone alive ,healthy and happy!
Ok this is the only video I watch of kody where I actually respect what he says. He loves his daughter no matter what “my job is to love and his job is to judge”. No matter what you think about him I gotta say that was surprising to hear from him of all people. Good for her I hope she’s super happy
Cody isn't the ideal "guy" I would be caught dead with but I love how he looks and talks down to Meri and loves how he treats her like as if she's a child and makes her cry. And I love the way he glares at her sometimes. Cody only if u were as good looking as Logan.
I never saw that coming, I mean I did think one of them would come out as gay sooner or later, but I didn't think it was going to be her. Mind blowing.
Just remember, the biblical patriarchs had multiple wives, and even in the New Testament, they were never condemned or asked to leave all but one of their wives.
My problem with polygamy is that none of the people that live this way are ever happy. They are all miserable and they accept that as normal because they think that suffering through life is how they are supposed to live. If polygamists were all genuinely happy and there was no abuse going on, I wouldn't have a problem with it. Who wants to be miserable on purpose?
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I mean statistically one of those kids was bound to be gay.
Statistically more than one!
oddooddood because she thought 💭 one ☝️ man enjoying multiple woman why not me. Then she said Mom I'm gay.
BeachyBlondeWaves you're wrong. 3.5% of adult Americans are gay, lesbian or bisexual, this excludes all of the closeted ones. But 7% of millennials are LGBT so that number is going to get to 10% probably within the next 20 years. And it's not even because more gay people are suddenly appearing, being LGBT is becoming more and more accepting so people feel more comfortable coming out rn as opposed to 1885 where you would be completely shunned and beaten up
So true
I was waiting for it tbh. lol
"I'm Gay!"
"Oh honey, I thought you were going to tell me you had cancer!"
THE BEST REACTION
Right
That made me laugh so hard!! Ahh
pressurelwt glad she came out and told her mother and others
Absolutely!! Made me tear up..💦
Lavender Violet Some people come across like that by myself then come across like I’m giddy but it’s just myself mechanism of protection and reaction a lot of my actions don’t come out the way I want them to eat now because I have like a problem like fun people do like when they laugh at their meeting to either cry or feel sad or a different emotion it’s just that sometimes that’s the way that you react so I can understand her once my friend said something extremely harsh and I couldn’t help legit not awkwardly smile just smile and just be like oh my God I thought you were going to come even something worse but no it’s just the way that I react and she knew that so she didn’t make me feel bad but some other people did you get really mad at them I don’t remember exactly anymore because it been a long while but that’s not usually how my reactions are in everybody around me has learned to understand it maybe for heard something like that because she did seem extremely worried they’re going to have to go through some major shit
I love how she said oh honey I thought you had cancer
Ivy Edan I know, such a cute reaction :) Janelle has always been my favourite sister wife.
Me too. Janelle seems like a hard worker, a thinker and a really nice person. Not a fan of most of the family, but I love Janelle.
se descubrio su sexualidad cuando fue a a la Universidad, 🙈🙊
Ivy Edan That wife's reaction would have been mine!
I call BULLSHIT on the fact that she was "catfished". This woman is a straight up lesbian. She trying to cover it up. That explains why she took it so hard that her daughter is gay as well. My gay-dar be ringin off the hook lmao 😂😂😂
The real mom don't want to say how she really feels on CAMERA. The others are more accepting because shes not really their daughter.
Saving/me Ikr
+Yhwh yhwh I watched the video carefully. Her mom is disappointed,but didn't want media backlash. I met people who voted for gay rights,have a gay friend....but soon as their child came out gay they want them out!
Saving/me I thought Mari might have wanted Mariah to come to her first. Idk
Saving/me I think because she's her only child. She has dreams for her daughters her life. Thinking she won't have a biological grandchild possibly. It makes it harder. Where as with the other moms they have many children
+Micaela Morton lol and a lot of times thats true. I've seen old people who has a gay child,but never any grands their family goes extinct. Some adopt,but not genetically the same.
"Guys I'm gay"
*immediately breaks out the flannel*
LMFAO like when you come out are you rewarded with flannel
adrian m and draws in thick eyebrows
m m u
I always thought she was my kind of think her mother might be too
m m 😂😂😂 gay is bag but i can have 4 wives. Yes she never dated because she was munching carpet
Cody's statement regarding his conversation with God about Mariah's sexuality is bang on. We are to love, not to judge.
So many "religious" people have forgotten that or just don't care (because they know it's wrong) but, when they pass away and they're being judged by Him, He's gonna want to know why they were doing His job. But hey, that's they're relationship with God. I stay in my lane.
Michelle, so true.
I'm a raised Christian and born-again.
God is the one who told me He made me gay. I was freaked out and pretty surprised, since my church & religion heavily preached against homosexually and demonized it.
God has also told me the same thing: only He judges, not us. God showed me how my being a lesbian was a gift from Him. TBH, I didn't believe Him. But once I processed the false programming, including the internalized hatred all marginalized people get, I really got to see His Prophecy in action.
Having the personal relationship & spiritual visions of God and Jesus helped me immensely in accepting my in-born lesbianism. I could never understand why it was called a choice, since I would've never ever, in a million years, choose such a thing. I did years of trying to "pray the gay away." On very rare occasions, I've seen some people being successful in having heterosexual marriages, but then, sexual orientation & gender identification are on a continuum.
It was a difficult path, especially with some of my family being fundamentalist (I was one, too; forgive me, Father, for my own sins of self-righteousness my elders taught me). However, they were totally accepting because they love me. Bless them.
Love is not supposed to be conditional, folks.
In hindsight, my personal growth from being different caused me an immense expansion in my ability to love, release the disease of judgmentalism, be far more compassionate, and open my eyes to Truth.
God has blessed me beyond compare.
GBU & TYJCY.
Elaine Marie congratulations!!! Don't worry about the negativity of others. They don't understand the lifestyle. I am 100% straight but I fully support gay rights. You have to what is right for you. We each have our own relationship with God and no one else can say anything different. Let them say what they must. You are living for you. The world is full of too many people who quote the Bible and what they believe, but it doesn't have to be what you believe. Continue being you!! 🌈😃
Maria T it ain't right.
Kathy Myers Neither is judging.
Cool. Can't wait till a couple of the Duggars come out.
jacintamrsdarcy Jim Bob and Michelle would rush those kids away to whatever place they sent their pervo son Josh, to have those gay kids rehabilitated to heterosexuals. Lol
I feel so sorry for whichever one might be gay..
Ya. 1 in 10 means it's at least 2 of them...I hope it isn't any of the ones already married.
Hayley Sopik I think it IS
jacintamrsdarcy The scientific probability of one or two younger Duggar sons coming out as gay is very high.
They're all ganging up on the first wife for having an affair.... funny really!
Chloe Dempsey right? I was like hahahaha omg she was talking to someone else?! Gasp!! How DARE her! So hypocritical
Both statements were just, stupid.
Kondor, not so fast. Read the Bible on that subject. If they believe the Bible as they say, they are disregarding it big-time. And Meri only had an online relationship - no physical affair. Remember Kodi divorced her so he could marry Robin, also. Maybe this kid sees being gay as a way to get out of the male-dominated thing.
If you’re a serial monogamist then you don’t understand polyamory let alone polygamy. Do not forget she wanted to live this lifestyle! Just like every relationship there are rules and boundaries. She went behind her husband’s back and emotionally cheated on him. It doesn’t matter how many wives he has. She agreed to a closed off relationship and family with her husband and sister wives.
watchgoose which part of the Bible? The part where Abraham, David, Solomon, Moses, and Jacob had multiple wives? That’s just a handful of polygamists in the Bible. The part in Deuteronomy where it says to stone your daughter for having premarital sex? The Old Testament is still part of the Bible. If you believe in the 10 commandments and Adam and Eve then you’re following the Old Testament. The Bible isn’t al a carte.
Cody's greasy hair...discusting.
discgrosting
Metsasusi Disgousting.
Metsasusi disgusting
discunting
Your grammar... Disgusting.
I appreciate his answer about acceptance. he still acknowledged what he believed in while still believing in his daughter.
Come as you are.
Confirmed Russian Bot Funny..Jesus never judged the prostitute or tax collector yet he represented His Father. Its all about love.
I like how he doesn't force his religion on the kids unlike some people (cough cough duggars)
Love the sinner but not the sin.
Someone please give that husband a hair cut
hed rather die i think xD hes so into his hair
Camille Anderson And get the Mary to a cosmetics counter!
Camille Anderson 5pk
And a freaking shampoo. Gross.
Ig holds his brain in.
It's crazy how much your life changes when you go to college and outside the bubble of your family. Especially if you are sheltered. I remember before Mariah went to college, she was one of the most religious of the kids and says she wanted to be in a poly relationship.
GurlProblemz my brother did the same thing. that kid slept with a bible at night. he was trying to run so far from who he was. at 18 he started college and it was only a few months in when he came out. it really wasn't a shock. all his friends were girls, he never brought home a girlfriend, he was obsessed with fashion and having the latest styles, and was flamboyant. now he is 25, serving our country in the air force and happily married to a nice guy.
GurlProblemz Yup. That's what happens when strict parents keep their thumb over their kids abd keep them under constant brainwashing. Eventually, the kids see what the real world is like. There's a reason the duggers are never encouraged to go to college.
Lol, she probably wanted to be in a poly relationship because there would be more ladies then guys. The idea of sharing a husband was probably never an issue since he would have to split his time making it easier for her to end up closer to a female wife.
My heart really goes out to Mary, she seems so lonely, sad and lost.
Kody hesitated on the seperation/divorce question!
I'm not here to judge anyone's life style... but how attentive can 1 person be to 4 wives and 18 children??? When you are spreading yourself that thin certain people are going to suffer... meri and janelle have both said they feel isolated and that they don't get enough attention... and what a coincidence they are his 1st and 2nd wives! He is like a child... he gets tired of his toy he wants a new one!
Don't think he did, as he said "I'm not going to leave" - which for me sounds, unspokenly, like, "but Meri is free to leave" So he basically said this family will go on with him definitely, with or without Meri
Bess1201 they live close to me and a close friend of mine is close to the family. It’s sad what Meri is going through.
I agree with you about Mary I feel so sorry for her. And with the problems with Mary I don't think Cody should have taken another wife even if he loved her BECAUSE he needs to work it out with Mary and to try to give her extra TLC. So sad Kody and her agree it's not a loving relationship.
Christina Ford I know you can't put your all or give your heart to someone if your dividing yourself.
Christina Ford If Cody found out he GF is a feminist baby killer anti
19 kids and counting defs have a gay kid in that mix.
I cannot wait ... I always said that. There are too many kids for this not to happen. They will probably do something to spin it, but it's going to happen and come out. I am an ally for the LGBTQ community and i think it's always best to live your truth.
I hope not, I can’t imagine the life of a gay kid in that family. That family is so brainwashed they would more than likely put them in a gay to straight conversion camp.
Josiah and Jed
I’ve often thought that too x x
She looks so much happier Im glad she came out!! On another note I LOVE JANELLE !! She is the realist out of the wives and she works and pays bills too. lol
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one of the moms said "i thought you were gonna say u had cancer"
Growing up Mormon (but not the polygamist kind), I think this girl is very brace for speaking up, and I'm very glad that her parents are mostly accepting. When the dad said that he felt it was God's job to judge and his job to love, that's the reaction all Christians should have when their kids come out as gay.
Miss Adjusted what do mormans believe?
She is sinning. Sad but true.
We all sin... You cannot tell me a gay person is worse than a rapist and unworthy of forgiveness. I would hate to be judged so harshly for my sins, wouldn't you?
@@onelastchance648 Jackass
Jon Harrison - Hey Jon. Do you watch this bitch show with your wife?
Mary needs to divorce Kory. she's not happy and hasn't been for a while. I also think that she hasn't felt the same way about her religion for a long time, I'm not sure if being paligmist is her thing anymore.
R C She has legally divorced Kody, since he needed a legal marriage with Robin in order to adopt her kids.
Yes I know that. I should of said she should leave him. I haven't watched for probably two seasons now but I was watching when she got the divorce and I always thought she divorced him cause she wasn't happy.
I don't think polygamy was ever her thing, frankly. It seemed fairly clear to me that it was something he wanted and pressured her into.. I've always felt so bad for her..
Are they still together? I though they were separated
PS...lol that Cody was worried about an affair...! He's having 3 affairs
A marriage between One wife and a husband is hard enough to keep happy and healthy but multiple wives, this is heartbreak waiting to happen bc it is NOT sustainable.
Kody the narcissist....
Good for Mariah!! I'm thankful that her family still supports her. Being gay is not a choice. I don't understand people who treat it like it is a choice. Being born gay is something that just happens and it tends to happen to amazing people.
andrea Love people are too hung up on God says its wrong. I think he was talking about when being gay was living in Sodom and gomora
besides this is a family with 4 wives
andrea Love 😂ur not born gay dumb ass
averiee C I thought being gay/homosexual was demon influenced
Kaylia Marie Solares I didn't say that either 😂
wauuww, Kody really wants Meri to leave...because he can t
Her husband has 6 wives so just let her have a nother boyfriend
L O Why does she have to be dumb? She can have a boyfriend if she wants. It's not like a bolt of lightning is going to come down and zap her.
Of course the first wife has the most trouble with the other wives, she knows what it's like to be the only wife, she knows what it's like to be the only one getting the attention that a wife gets, she may have been supportive of the other relationships but I doubt that's what she wanted, I also doubt that she had much of a say in the matter even if Cody would have respected her decision it's likely that she went along with it because she didn't want to loose her family.
I feel bad for Meri. Instead of asking her what they could do to make her happier the whole group (Kodi and her sister wives) have clearly focused on their feelings of anger and betrayal. She looks like someone who hates her life.
Glad there are other adults in her daughter's life though. It was the other moms who showed the most acceptance
'You love, I'll judge' - I cried my eyes out, so beautiful!!
+Thais Macedo
Is it though?
I couldn't look my child in the face and tell them I love them, and then worship and pray to a god that supposedly condemns them to hell for being themselves.
videogal j
videogal the second you have a child you get this feeling of unconditional love, nothing your child does will ever make you stop loving that child, your love will be stronger than any other feeling you have. Besides, if you truly are so devout to following the bible, you'll know that depending on which version you read the word love is mentioned 300-500 times, as opposed to judge which is mentioned around 100 times. it's clear God wants us to love and not judge. I personally feel we all fall incredibly short and are in absolutely no position to judge anyone
So beautiful? 😂 His statement was so ambiguous, meaning I love you and God will send you to hell.
"You'll love I'll judge" damn strong words.
to love does not mean acceptance. Nor would I allow that lifestyle around me.
Statistically, it was bound to happen. But who are they to judge anyway?? Lol
This is a wonderful reaction from a family! It’s okay not to agree because of your religion as long as you still support and love your friends and family regardless! They made her feel comfortable and loved and like it will all be okay!
She has a girlfriend now! They're so cute!
They live in Chicago now 😀
Now fiancee 🤣
So proud of her for coming out. It’s not something I agree with but thumbs up for her honesty and courage!
Good for her. Happy for the girl. I wish her the best.
I wish my parents were that accepting when I came out
Need a hug? 🤗 Free hugs here!!
so sad that they focused on the family and not her
Very sad, it good example of why polygamy is not the best thing. If Kody had more time for Meri the marriage might have had a chance. Sad they took on more then he could handle or anyone could for that matter.
Meri and cody ARE DIVORCED... they got divorced to he could legally marry ROBYN
Lilleybugglane that was so he could legally adopt her children so that her ex husband couldn't take them away if something happened to her (he is abusive and neglectful etc).i haven't watched this show in well over a year so not sure if the adoption is final or not
RQsuperglue it is
He sure is divorced from Mary, he's such a hypocrite
That's horrible she was his first wife
I can't believe one of the moms said that she thought she was gonna say she had cancer or something
"You love, I'll judge." Great response
Stephanie B He is schizophrenic. He's hearing voices that aren't there.
This is so funny. They were upset she is gay, ok. But, are they upset with their twisted lifestyle? no. Meri knows deep down Kody doesn't love her one bit, he's an unstable man, spreading himself too thin and giving these women way less than they deserve as his wives, because he can't truly love them all, that's not how marriage works.
Do these people have jobs or own a business or do they make their living from the tv show. They seem to take a lots of trips and spend a lot of money
they are worth each about 300,000usd net , they work and get a hefty payout between them all from each episode
I’m so happy that her mom, the sister wives and her father accepted her and didn’t push her away. The sister wives made the situation when she came out so much better. I was so glad to see the one yell out she thought she was going to say she had cancer to lighten the mode and they jumped up to hug her.
I hope Meri can get out and find happiness. And I'm so happy for Mariah 💖
Wait what? He can have 4 wifes he thought she was cheating?
I feel bad for those woman tbh
Scarlet Torres not me they chose that life
I've been waiting for one of these kids to come out. I never thought it would be the oldest though for some reason. Good for her for living her life truthfully.
Awww so amazing but the fact one of them didn't expect her was sad
"You love, I judge." LOVE IT
I love her personality already. I support her, I mean of course I would because I am bisexual myself
Your user is Emo At The Phandom of course you're bisexual.
Madi Rust Um, what does my username have to do with my sexuality? I made this account durning my emo phase in middle school.
“You love and I’ll judge”- good answer! ❤️
Moses Baca too good, he’s like a politician lol
If Kody is here to love not judge, then why doesn't he love his wives besides Robyn?
Look at the weight she released by being honest. We keep physical barriers to protect ourselves. She looks so much happier and free now
Mary get out that house and go live your life. You dont want to spend your whole life unhappy.
Idk how people get into a polygamist relationship. I know that if my husband wanted to have other wives... I’d be heartbroken because I’d just want him to myself lol.
Oh ya...the CatFish story, the one Robyn's friend set her up for, trying to get rid of Meri...Robyn destroyer...1 by 1 until she has Kody all to herself!!
So God "says" to Kody, "You love, I'll judge." So, in other words, he's still saying his daughter is going to hell. Father of the year.
Donn Godfather that is not what he is saying.Only God can judge not Cody.
Harajuku Barbie but god sends gays to hell so...?
ghoulsrule yh but Cody still never said that she was going to hell
He didnt say that at all, and btw, it's ok if a parent disagrees with their child. You can still love your child and not go along with what your kids choose....
He never said she was going to hell..... all he said was I'll judge.... you love so there for he is letting the good lord do his job while he is doing his job as a parent
What a great message "You L♡ve I'll judge"
I remember when the parents were asked about this years ago and Janelle said that with so many kids one of them was bound to be gay. And there you go.
I'm honestly amazed at how accepting the parents are. I don't know why, I just am. I suppose that I'm not thinking rationally, since the parents preach acceptance for their lifestyle so I should not really be surprised. Oh well, it's something that changes how I felt about this family and if the hugs and kindness and acceptance they're showing the daughter is true and not just for the camera, then wow, awesome, they're not as bad as I imagined.
I don't see how he can love all the wives the same. Can he believe that his wife having 4 husbands can love them the same. Bs.
How can one not be jealous?
gah came here with the biggest lump in my stomach worrying about her.. im glad it worked out ok for her with her family
That was the fakest "come out" I've ever seen lmao
Anna Bishop I absolutely have. Except my family wasn't acting lol
I love that her family accept it even tho it's not something they would believe so this is parenting done right .
I think more parents should be like this .
Same! I usually disagree with Kody but I really admire him for saying that it’s not his place to judge but to love his children
Meri you'll be waiting a long time for a romantic relationship with Kody he has too many choices. He's getting older now probably happy to get rid of 1.
She use to say she wanted to be a sister wife so bad! I wonder if she still believes in her faith at all. I know many gay Mormons who do. I’m happy for her and I hope she has an amazing life. She seems lighter and brighter. She is beautiful.
Hurrah we all want to hug you for telling us who you want to sleep with
"Oh honey I thought you had cancer " 🤣
I'm so happy for her for having the courage to come out, and I'm very glad that it went so well. ❤️
I love how her own mother is just sitting there while the other mother Robyn got up and hugged her. But I do like what Cody said.. he's right it's not his right to judge. That's his daughter, it's her life and she has to live it. She's doing the right thing and living the way that she wants to. 💙
RHDS her mom has a right to take time to process her feelings. She has the right to feel sad and be authentic instead of pretending to be overjoyed.
She reminds me of grace from degrassi
Avalanche Glory she reminds me more of Zoe because she was lesbian but couldn’t come out because of her mom being strict catholic
Except Grace isn't gay
I love the way there family sticks together even, especially through there disagreements
Cody is not happy about this. Watch his face .
Honestly can't take him seriously. Not only because of the polygamy but he's a grown man with blond teen surfer hair.
Very brave of her
Maddy Corrasa
As a mormon (LDS) this pisses me off. @ 1:36 when Cody calls himself "mormon," that's truly wrong. He's FLDS, and oftentimes actual mormons get confused with this cult. It is, without a doubt, a cult. As an actual mormon I'm disgusted at her biological mom's and Cody's behavior. I believe people are born gay. For them to say that they "never saw it coming," just shows that a) clearly they haven't paid enough attention to her, probably because cumulatively they have 18 kids. It's really not hard to tell if someone is gay or not, generally speaking. It really pisses me off and pissed me off when her biological mom said "now I have to mourn the loss of the life we thought she would have." I don't like swearing but bitch you shouldn't mourn anything, celebrate that your daughter was brave enough to come out to you probably knowing your reaction. I was really happy though when that one sister wife (the blonde one, sorry I don't know her name,) said right after "whew I thought you were gonna tell us you had cancer!" Even though it wasn't her biological daughter, she behaved maturely and got up and hugged her. Good on her. Sorry for the rant, I'm just very passionate about this.
Allison Linner They aren't FLDS, they're AUB. There are dozens and dozens of Mormon polygamist groups and yes, most of them consider themselves to be Mormon. Historically speaking, the LDS church has been the one to shy away and drop the name. It wasn't until recent years that mainstream Mormons started using the name again, so you can't really be pissed off. This is coming from a Mormon who grew up a few blocks away from BYU. 😉
Allison Linner And he straight up says "fundamentalist Mormon" that's what the LDS church calls them, too. They ARE fundamentalist Mormons and I think you might be surprised at how similar they are to our church in theology and culture.
All Mormons are in a cult no matter what anyone says lol it's fact
Mormonism is a cult. PERIOD. It is a fantasy based on "religion" and it is not ok. And yes, I was born and raised in the thick of it in the middle of it all in Utah. Joseph Smith lied and you are a fool for still believing his lies.
I think that the mom and the dad especially the mom don't really want to admit that they don't agree with their daughter. Primarily because they're on tv. The other mothers couldn't give a shit because they're not related.
Mel River it depends on the mother. Janelle really is supportive in that way since if she wanted, she would just leave
how do they afford to keep all these wives and children? I'm interested.
karenKristal check out their housing, i bet you could find a schematic by searching for their show, "sister wives"..each wife & her family subunit of kids & pets have their own 'house' (subsectioned off from a larger house) & the only husband is on. a "rotation" so he's with a different wife/family each day & night.....
They afford it by having a reality tv show lol
Also I’m pretty sure the church gives polygamy families money
I don't watch the show, and came across this on TH-cam. I can honestly say I'm truly beaming with their responses. I LOVED the one that said "oh honey, I thought you were gonna say you had cancer"! All coming out stories should be this beautiful 💕🌈
she has auburn hear, short nails, a nose ring, and is wearing a flannel.... how did they not even remotely suspect she was gay? like seriously she is out their looking like the epitome of wlw culture and they are absolutely shocked that she likes girls
My mother is very religious and we could not be further apart on prominent social issues. Still, not one day has gone by where I have doubted her love. She has always supported me while still being honest about her beliefs. I can respect that and respect this family for role modeling this approach. Meri...girl do you.
The best thing your family has done for her was to support her! Good for you guys! Life throws s lemons when you want oranges but, see people see there lives as ruined but it isn't its just changed. God never gives us more then we can handle and in the end were you loving or were you selfish? People especially in these days need to see loving! Thanks for helping the world! 😘
Cody's fault 100%
Gotta love Janelle. So sweet...🥰🥰. Good for her... I’m glad this young lady is finding her own way on her own terms.
i liked what dady said.."God told me that u ll love,i ll judge."...so nice and so true.dont worry dad.if u love your kids as a dad,imagine how much more God loves them as their creator and God dont judge us with anger but with love.just like we do for our kids.
True unconditional love CAN'T be turned off ! There isn't 1thing my kids could do to make me stop loving them!! All I ever want is everyone alive ,healthy and happy!
*"I'm a polygamist"* .... My Niggah
*I'm Gay* .... Gtfo of here!
Ok this is the only video I watch of kody where I actually respect what he says. He loves his daughter no matter what “my job is to love and his job is to judge”. No matter what you think about him I gotta say that was surprising to hear from him of all people. Good for her I hope she’s super happy
Why is this news? Lmfao
Lilith Von I know right? lol
You love and I'll judge.... the smartest thing I've ever heard this man say. I love that.
She has never been so beautiful. It's incredible how much living your truth will make you shine. ♡
So proud of youuyyy
"you love, I'll judge" That's good.
Is nothing sacred in families anymore? How sad!
Cody isn't the ideal "guy" I would be caught dead with but I love how he looks and talks down to Meri and loves how he treats her like as if she's a child and makes her cry. And I love the way he glares at her sometimes. Cody only if u were as good looking as Logan.
I never saw that coming, I mean I did think one of them would come out as gay sooner or later, but I didn't think it was going to be her. Mind blowing.
Meri and Kody was stunned because she always said she wanted to be in a polygamist marriage.
No one is really happy but no one dares say it😿...
Just remember, the biblical patriarchs had multiple wives, and even in the New Testament, they were never condemned or asked to leave all but one of their wives.
TruAgape1234 That was then this is now. It's been illegal for quit some time now.
My problem with polygamy is that none of the people that live this way are ever happy. They are all miserable and they accept that as normal because they think that suffering through life is how they are supposed to live. If polygamists were all genuinely happy and there was no abuse going on, I wouldn't have a problem with it. Who wants to be miserable on purpose?
not sure why people feel the need to air all this publicly, although I applaud their acceptance.