Just wanted to add on 3 extra points: - The communication you mentioned is a double edged sword. If people don't take it in stride and use it to grow or improve, it's basically a landmine for the relationship, and as you already mentioned there's not really ways around it. - I think most people casually wander into a long distance relationship without a plan. You mentioned being prepared, but the other part is planning for how long it'll be a long distance relationship until you close the gap. - Some people are significantly different in person than online or on a call. Me personally, I feel like a lot of my expression is just choked when it's just calling, and feels more empty. I think an LDR that is golden is one with a plan for the future and where both people have been together in person.
Long distance is both good and bad because a relationship can last longer with distance but eventually y'all will have to have a normal relationship, before y'all grow apart! My friend was in a long distance relationship that lasted awhile but once they moved in together it only lasted 5 or 6 months
Agreed, me and my fiancé 🇵🇭 have been in LDR for 4 years till I went to see her last month. What those years taught me as a man is knowing myself better, we communicated everyday and how important it is. But for us putting our faith first and learning to let go self ego and selfish desires. I feel so free in our relationship because I trust her 100% to have my best interest as I know she can trust me 100% to do my best for her or to grow. Our faith is the foundation of our relationship. Knowing that we have a God who works on our behalf and is a blessing!! ❤ thanks for this video! And pray you and yours treasure your relationship and one another all the days of your life.
This was so beautifully written! LDRs truly are an eyeopening experience with so many lessons to teach if you're willing to embrace them. Instead of focusing on how much the distance sucks, focusing on 'what can I do to bring more to the table.' It really does take a lot of trust in our partner but also in ourselves. I also appreciate the pov you provided, from the man's perspective. Thank you for sharing and taking the time to watch my video! I really appreciate it!
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Just wanted to add on 3 extra points:
- The communication you mentioned is a double edged sword. If people don't take it in stride and use it to grow or improve, it's basically a landmine for the relationship, and as you already mentioned there's not really ways around it.
- I think most people casually wander into a long distance relationship without a plan. You mentioned being prepared, but the other part is planning for how long it'll be a long distance relationship until you close the gap.
- Some people are significantly different in person than online or on a call. Me personally, I feel like a lot of my expression is just choked when it's just calling, and feels more empty. I think an LDR that is golden is one with a plan for the future and where both people have been together in person.
Long distance is both good and bad because a relationship can last longer with distance but eventually y'all will have to have a normal relationship, before y'all grow apart! My friend was in a long distance relationship that lasted awhile but once they moved in together it only lasted 5 or 6 months
Agreed, me and my fiancé 🇵🇭 have been in LDR for 4 years till I went to see her last month. What those years taught me as a man is knowing myself better, we communicated everyday and how important it is. But for us putting our faith first and learning to let go self ego and selfish desires. I feel so free in our relationship because I trust her 100% to have my best interest as I know she can trust me 100% to do my best for her or to grow. Our faith is the foundation of our relationship. Knowing that we have a God who works on our behalf and is a blessing!! ❤ thanks for this video! And pray you and yours treasure your relationship and one another all the days of your life.
This was so beautifully written! LDRs truly are an eyeopening experience with so many lessons to teach if you're willing to embrace them. Instead of focusing on how much the distance sucks, focusing on 'what can I do to bring more to the table.' It really does take a lot of trust in our partner but also in ourselves. I also appreciate the pov you provided, from the man's perspective. Thank you for sharing and taking the time to watch my video! I really appreciate it!