I'm out of the abandoned house project
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 ส.ค. 2024
- I've had to leave the renovation project of the abandoned house.
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Elise, when I was 40, I made a big life decision to get divorced. I was second-guessing my choice, but I knew things couldn’t go on as they were. I called my Grandma, and she said, “ Honey, you are young enough and beautiful enough for your fresh start”. Those words were like a bright shaft of sunlight pouring out of a break in the clouds. She was right. It took about a year, but I got that fresh start.
I’m going to say this to you, Elise: “ Honey, you are young enough and beautiful enough for your fresh start”.
You aren’t a failure. You tried something, it didn’t work, and you’re moving on with your life. You shed your old apartment with the moldy bathroom, and now you’re going to shed the excess things that are holding you back, and I know there is something amazing just waiting for you to turn the corner!
The clothes are just things. Your health and your happiness and your family are priceless. I am super proud of you!
For anyone else reading this who could use a little gentle encouragement, my Grandma had her fresh start at 85 years old, lived another 7 years in great contentment and peace, as the most beautiful woman I’ve ever known. It is never too late to be young enough and beautiful enough for your fresh start.
Such a lovely story, I too had an amazing nana, sadly she passed from dementia complications but she had a great life and passed in her late 90s this year. Memories of her fill my heart❤
OMG! Beautiful words! Tears of happiness! Thank you!🌷
The most amazing thing I have ever read! Thank you very much!
Dear Elise just to say .... been there and done that...with similar feelings and thoughts, learning more about myself in the process and also growing in my gratitude even in the challenging moments. I also grew in my wonderful companion relationship, our Father in Heaven, 😇, He helped me learning in His peaceful and loving teacher. And challenges became a training for better moments ahead. Your art and love for many things is your key to newer and better moments ahead. I also learned that tomorrow won’t be a good one unless I make today being a special one. Keep up with your hopes and as many have told you, you have a long time ahead💫🎉💝
Beautifully said and shared for us all. This is perfect for Elise
I am old enough to be your grandma. YOU are not a failure. the ones who made you feel as though you had to call your family to escape in the middle of the night with your belongings are the ones who failed you. crying IS allowed. it is a pressure release for the tension, sadness, and grief you are feeling. stick close and lean on your family and friends. you got this. you are the sun and this event is just a mere eclipse. you will be shining bright before you know it
You are the sun and this event is just a mere eclipse. So perfectly stated, Tracia!
I am also old enough to be your grandma and I second everything Traci’s said.
Much love and admiration from Eastern North Carolina, USA 🇺🇸
Will you be my grandma ❤
I agree with every word you have said x
@Tracia Smith , when she spoke about leaving with all her belongings in the middle of the night it broke my heart.. if that’s how it went down.. don’t feel she had the support she needed from her boyfriend.. hope I am wrong.
I had a bad feeling from the get go but was hoping I was wrong. Always make sure stuff is in your name. And frankly don’t trust ppl who aren’t family. So glad you didn’t get rid of your little cottage for them
Agreed 100% of everything you said!!!
Excactly what I was about to write!!
This exactly. Never go into something this big with anyone who isn’t married to you or blood related, unless there are legal documents and contracts done beforehand. I am sorry for her though but she will bounce back without a doubt.
Sometimes there are certain family members that can let family down or you know you can’t trust a relative, and sometimes you can trust some friends a lot more than family.
All the best Elise ♥️ I left my home for a partner and found myself alone and homeless. This was 5yrs ago, now I’m living ‘my dream’ in a cottage in the forest. I love it here and I wouldn’t be here if things didn’t happen the way they did as painful as it was at the time. You got this girl 🙏🏻
Same. I left my home for a partner of 5 + years. With a month he left me alone and homeless. I had to sell EVERYTHING quickly for Pennys. ... That was 19 months ago. Im finally in an nice apartment and able to see things clear ( I realized my BF was emotionally abusive ) .... he took everything from me, and he lost nothing. ( He has a 1/2 million home, 3 sports cars paid for, e.c.t. And didn't spent a dime helping me get back my home, instead he caused me to lose every single thing. ...... Your going to be ok, whats important you are young and beautiful and have family and friends. Hang in there sweet girl. xx
Bless your heart! I’m 65, and I’ve come to accept that life is a rollercoaster ride in the dark…all we can do is hold on tight and pray that there are some smooth tracks ahead! You haven’t failed at anything! You saw a unique and special opportunity, and you grabbed for it! If you want to grow and develop, that’s what we do! No matter the outcome, it’s more about the journey & what it teaches us. Give yourself time to grieve and time to heal, and never stop grabbing for the next adventure!💞🙏🎄
Amen 🙏
Well said, Ms Suzanne! ❤️ I agree 100%, I’m 54.. when you look back, you realize everything happened for a reason,,, even the painful moments.
This lady says it all, every word I would have said myself. ❤
So true. I am 58 and life has had it’s trials but each one brings us to a better understanding of ourselves and so a richer life
@@kellyrobin718 Kelly, you are SO right! I had an epiphany when I was 51 when I found myself in a shocking situation that I wasn’t prepared for. As I waded through everything that had changed so dramatically, I found myself looking back at my life and realized, for the first time, that all the tough times ultimately ended up changing my life for the better. Sometimes the change was obvious right away and I could see that my prayers were answered. But a lot of the time it took much longer than I expected, and I didn’t realize that my prayers HAD been answered…maybe not in the way that I expected or even understood, but they had. And having finally understood the reality of my life, I was able to trust that while whatever I’m going through may be incredibly tough, I will survive, my life will get better, and I will learn a valuable lesson! I was finally able to trust God (whichever God you worship) or fate (if you don’t believe in God) to know what’s best for me! 💞
I’m sad to see you suffering the loss of a dream. In my 80 years, I’ve learned that when a path I’m on ends, I will find a new one. One that’s even better because I’ve learned so much from the past ones. You are creative and ambitious. You will be just fine.
I second that!
I love those words, thank you.
Very wise words, Thankyou !
14 years ago I left a rather wealthy but soul crashing self esteem destroying life. I may not have much but it’s all mine. I own outright a tiny house 399sf & it’s all I really need. It’s absolutely beautiful & cozy that I share with my sweet little dog. I have a wonderful family & I am happy. Never settle & just keep moving forward with your dreams. You’re young, beautiful, intelligent & hard working. I have no doubts you will achieve much. ❤️🙏
Those of us who are a lot older than you are were never comfortable with the dad buying the house, but I know that we are so sorry that your relationship suffered the way it did, and that you were treated so badly. We all know, though, how much you’ve accomplished in your young life, and you will continue to do well.
Agreed. Never felt right
I second that agreement.
You need to be compensated for all the work you did in that house along with your mom. Can’t believe these creepy people. You are so precious I hope those losers leave you alone.
I’m not sure they need your respect. Yuck! Their giant loss!
You all are jumping to conclosions. She's filming from the boyfriend house . If you look in the old videos the piano , blue walls, picture above the piano says they still together. I'm thinking maybe the house has mold in it and that's why the move.
I felt worried when you first showed the abandoned house, I thought it didn't seem your style and that you were being influenced by other people to take on this project. I wondered about the house they convinced you not to buy, perhaps that was the house for you. I regret decisions that others have made for me. You will be fine, look at how you've created a wonderful business, and the work you've done on the tiny house. Life is full of ups and downs, the good and the bad. All the best to you
So sad for you 😢 never put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket..your a strong young lady..keep going beautiful x
This. I remember seeing the video where she told us about moving and his parents buying the house from under her and just knew this was a manipulative situation that she needed to get away from x
@@smnailartist9563 Do you think they resell it?
@@luisahydrangea3783 no idea. I'm hoping that elise realised they weren't right and left and made the decision herself. That will make it much easier for her to move on. Xx
@@smnailartist9563 His parents buying the house from under her (them, her and her boyfriend), sounded realy bad.
@@smnailartist9563 my thoughts exactly... seemed dubious and about control.
I would write them an invoice for every freaking nail you pulled out of their floor!I'm so sorry,big hug!
Without a written contract, I doubt they'd pay her a dime for her sweat equity, plus she felt the need to move out in the middle of the night!? ( what kind of boyfriend allows that ?) no matter it is his father ? , I Agee with you tho, Id still write a list of ALL her sweat equity labor, and send that Father a bill.
If the break you had to make had to be done in the middle of the night, very quickly, with the immediate help of your family, that is conclusive proof that you have made the absolute right decision. You have made the right decision. Take all the time to process things that you need. It may not feel like it right now, but this is the beginning of being in a good place and it is so great that you have such a lovely family who are there for you as you rebuild.
It doesn't sound like YOU are a failure but someone failed YOU! Things will get better I promise! It just takes time. 😘
Exactly!..
Yes. 💯
Yes!!
Amen
Yes..💯♥️♥️
I don’t think I’m alone in saying I feel almost relieved for you. You are the captain of your own ship again. So sorry for the heartbreak though ❤
Yes I certainly agree, she is her own person, A strong independent person.
Who is loved and respected by all that Follow her.
I 100% agree here.
I am sorry… what happened with the property? She seems so heartbroken.. don’t think it has to do with a house..
@@paulinejustliving I think maybe her and the boyfriend might have broke up. She is such a sweetheart and really wish the best for her.
@@paulinejustliving I think there was a breakup involved.
When people show you who they are, believe them. Hold your power close to you.
Everyone in these comments is so amazing. I wish I had you all on speed dial to motivate and reassure me when things don’t go well the same as you are doing with Elise. When I have my next setback I’ll be sure to come back to these comments and read them as though you are speaking to me. Bless you all and Elise, like a very wise man once said, every setback is a setup for a comeback. You are going to be alright honey ❤
what helps me is writing kind words to myself in my journal so when Iam in a bad stage or when I am not kind to myself I can read them back
Even in the darkness, you still have yourself! Never loose or give up on yourself 😊 When no one seems to be there, remember the person you were, are and will be! Continue to fight and live a good life: you owe that to your past self who gave her best to get you here 💚 Future you will say “Thanks” 🤗
You are welcome🌷
I think all this great love is to share! We all need a kind word in hard times! So take them! They are for all of us too! Elise is now the connection to support each other! Take care! 🌷
well, let's make it a thing!!! Support groups are for real and so so important and valuable. I will say kind words of support to you.. next time you feel like you can't think clearly or stuff is too much to handle, just come back to this message ;)
Remember that this too shall pass. Place your hands on your heart and breathe. You are here, you are special, your are just as special as everyone elsein this world, you are safe, you are important, you are capable (and requiring and asking for help still means that you're capable) and you are very loved. Remember all the past times when things seemed like there was no way out and then you found one. This too shall pass.!
I was so sad to watch your video today. You are such a remarkable woman, and so wise to step out of a situation that wasn’t right for you. A lot of people don’t leave. You will look back at yourself in a year and be so proud of yourself on how well you have done. Hugs!
I honestly had a “bad feeling” about this abandoned house. It just seemed too good to be true.
Time to pick yourself up and resume reaching for your dreams, not anyone else’s, just yours. In the meantime we will all be here rooting for you. 😘
Never seemed quite right...
I have to agree, sorry. Something didn't seem right. Hang in there, one door closes another one opens.
I too experienced a”bad feeling” when I watched the blog where the boyfriends father had secured the tittle deeds secretly, warning bells were ringing.
@@Julia-373 Could not agree more.
Yes I too was afraid of the choices she was making. Sounded kinda too good to be true. But, we all make mistakes and we grow from them. Elise you'll be all right and stronger from it. Just give it time. Glad your family was there to see you through this. We all love you.💗
Maybe I’m cynical, but I had a bad feeling about the abandoned house. The people involved seemed to be taking the power and initiative you had about building/finding a home for yourself away from you. A situation like that diminishes you, and I’m glad you got out so quickly. The speed of things falling apart so quickly can feel like whiplash, but it’s a sign of your strength, not failure or a weakness, that you got out so soon. I hope when you’re ready you can move forward and create the home you always dreamed of for yourself.
It did seem very high handed and controlling to just buy that house like the bfs family did. It definitely raised my eyebrows.
Yah, something was definitely off about this situation. It wasn't the right thing for Elise, and I know that she knew this going into it. She felt it. But that's OK, God is going to make a way for her.
I agree, sadly! 😢
I think Elise tried to see the best in people which is a beautiful thing. Unfortunately people take advantage of that especially when a woman like Elise is so motivated and powerful in her own life. I think it was incredibly controlling to buy the house, the boyfriend’s dad is old enough to know that he put Elise in an impossible position so she’d be most likely to say yes. His son didn’t sound like he was at a point of buying property and jumped on the back of Elise’s potential. I hope that when she does buy a home it’s 100% hers. If she finds the right person to share it with later, amazing. But she’s a self-made woman and she should reap the fruits of that in the stability of having her own home.
I thought so too
I was concerned when you said your bf's dad bought the house. You will recover from this and will end up stronger at the end. Time to smile and find another beautiful home. We are all here to support you and cheer you on.
Only ASSUME what happened, too, but... maby people wont ve SURPRISED. and will also be very disappointed for Elise but at the same time... i think its best. It was probably too far out for right now in her life.
Elise is a solid owrai hard worker, tenancious and GOOD, and everything will work out.
Yup.
Even so
Bugs HUGS and support for Elise at this tough time.
Hope there is no long lasting rift within boyfriends family, father son; but it was a bad situation from the stary WHATEVER happened. Many "warned " elise, but there is a huge chasm between what yiu can say here, to be given as wordly advice, and what is meddling, rude, assumptive, judgemental etc. Its always the advice giver that ends up on the outer and its usually better to hold ones tongue and just be there with encouragement later.
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I also thought the same about bf's dad
@@HumanimalChannel emotions often cloud judgement for sure. She has to walk her own path.
So glad you are letting your family help lift you up during this difficult time. It is not a sign of weakness to get out of an unhealthy situation, but shows a strength in character and that you are a survivor. One day at a time.
My heart breaks for you….you know this might be a blessing in disguise. I’m sure it doesn’t feel this way at the moment. Be thankful you didn’t buy this home with “them”. Something better is coming your way. Focus on your health and do what makes you happy. Surround yourself with what makes you happy to get through this tough time in your life. Sending all the love and healing vibes your way. ❤❤❤❤❤
None of us know the complete details and that is ok. I didn't like hearing about your bf's dad buying the house and thereby controlling the situation and the future of the house. Honestly, I'm not sure that he is worthy of the respect that you're giving him.
What I know about you, Elise, is that every project/venture that you start, you put your entire heart & soul into, look at the transformation of your garden cottage, it's lovely. Focus on you, on healing and allow your family to be there for you. Thankfully, you still have your cottage, your business and the physical store. Allow time to guide you as to which direction you should take next, don't rush. Take care. ♥
Dear Elise: I have been enjoying your content for well over a year but I haven't commented before. I'm quite bit older. What I'd like to say to you is this: never feel that you have failed, in any way. You are an amazing bright, intelligent, courageous woman! Yes, courageous. We don't have failures, we have learning experiences. It came to me that you were meant to move forward, and I feel that you have a bright path waiting for you, whatever that will be! You are not a person who waits for life to come to you, that is certain. Your vlogs have held me up on days that were a bit hard; someday, not too far away, you will feel your joy. There is a home for you, one that is meant to be. Tonight I will say a prayer for your overall security, for peace, and for what is right to come soon. How blessed you are to have your family! Blessings are coming. Valerie
I too love your amazing videos! I am 68 years young and wish I had your spunk when i was your age! Who knows where i would be! We all have some various ups and downs but moving forward in your life is the best option! My life is great right now no one knows how long that will last but positivity it the key! LIVE,LOVE,LAUGH AND BE HAPPY! My daughter in law gave me this when I was down and loved it - “IF YOU STUMBLE MAKE IT PART OF THE DANCE”
All this is clearing out of your life to make lots of room for happier things. I promise one day you will look back and say if that hadn’t happened, my life would never have been as great as it is ❤
I love this message Claudine 💕
Claudine I totally agree with your comment & I wish her well
I think watching your video's we can see what you are alluding to, signs are always there. I am impressed with how quickly you took the reins and decided to get your life back. Imagine how great things will look in two months, six months. Good for you!
I’m so sorry you are going through this. There was something off about the situation from the start. The way his dad manipulated the entire situation from pressuring you into a house you didn’t really want to putting in an offer behind your back. It seems like they wanted to take your power away from you and put themselves in control. I honestly think this was there plan from the start. But you are free now to grow and evolve on your own. You will get through this and come out better for it.
100% agree
I was kind of outraged when his dad swooped in and bought the house from under you! It was a very underhand and controlling thing to do. This was supposed to be YOUR home. Wtaf 😮 I think you’ve dodged a bullet and I’m talking as someone whose dodged a few in her day ❤
Yup
Serious red flags
Seems very manipulative
I said this was going to happen. I am not surprised at all.
Im so sorry you are going through such a diffiult time. There was something that didnt sit well with me when you shared that your boyfriends Dad stepped in and bought the house without your knowledge. One thing I have learned in my 52 years is that these difficulties usually create space for something better and for what is meant for your highest good. Sending love and hugs.
Oh no, I missed this information 😟 when did she say this?
@@chrisqueen3809 early on when she was looking at the home
I agree! I had the worst feeling about the situation. It felt weird that the parents swooped in and bought it out from under her. It felt controlling. I’m so sorry that this happened, Elise.
That was the strangest part, the boyfriend’s dad suddenly bought that house?? Why?!! I never felt right about that either, now I know I was right to have that gut feeling about it all regarding that house !
@@Missylou_art thank you
You are not failing. You live and you learn. That’s life. I wish you the best 🌈🌈🌈. And as my mum says: “when something doesn’t work it’s because something better is waiting for you” 😘💜
From Puerto Rico I say to you...just be safe and look up to the skies...God is there watching over you. You are stronger than you think.
Hi Elise, I'm Italian and the translation of the video didn't make me understand very well but I felt your malaise. I am sorry for your suffering but I am sure that after this moment you will be stronger. I've been following you for a while, I like you and the way you do. This renovation series was fascinating but in this case I have to say that I was not very convinced, I had the feeling that it was not a suitable place for you. it's a strange thought since I only know you through videos. Either way, I am happy that you are now safe and grateful for your family. Shine darling. Sending love and hugs 💞🫂😘🙏
Sorry for the google translation
You're an amazing woman Elise. You've accomplished so much in your 20s. You will continue to evolve. I'm sorry you are hurting right now. 🥺
She makes hard work look so easy. Wish I could do it.
@@juliaheger8127 And she is so content and happy while she works!
OMG! I’m only a few minutes in and I’m devastated for you!! I saw you working so hard and I wanted to keep reminding you of ‘sweat equity’! You worked so hard! I’ll have to watch til the end to find out what happened and where you are now living😢. You are too amazing to not have a comeback! Remember this from someone old enough to be your Mother…..never hitch your wagon to someone else’s dreams! Get selfish and only put your hard work and efforts into what is completely yours!! It’s not selfish..it’s self care! ❤️❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️😢🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️
@bossyboots I L❤️ve how you write this. Thank you for sharing. Here here X X X
I’m devastated for you Elise, you have worked so hard… life is challenging, it doesn’t feel like it right now but you are strong and beautiful you will heal and life will be good again. I’m 72 I know it will. Much love Elise and to your family. 💕💕💕🌟🍒
I left my family, my apartment, my company, my friends to move to my husbands country (we had lived together 5 years in my country). Long story short, the biggest mistake of my life and I had to move in with my parents at 34 years old and rebuild everything again - I'm so thankful for them but of course it stings and makes you feel lost. He took everything I owned, had inherited and my beloved dog and today it's been a bit more than half a year since my divorce went through (over a year since I applied for it) and things do get a lot better, I still have only gotten a fraction what he owes me but I'm still happy. Focus on yourself, what makes you happy, your goals and get support from your family and friends.
I am so sorry this has happened. I am 73 years old and have been heartbroken and thought nothing would ever be good again. It took some time and I survived and I would not change a thing. It was was meant to be.
Your subscribers are amazing and will stand by you.
Remember, you are beautiful inside and out. You are smart, talented and creative. You are strong and hardworking. You have a wonderful family.
You are young and you have time on your side. And last but not least, YOU DESERVE SO SO SO MUCH BETTER!!!
Prayers and hugs!
Praying for you Elise 🙏🏼. I remember commenting when you first found this house that I hoped you would still have say into what's happens even though it wasn't the way you wanted to purchase it. Whatever it maybe that's happened, know that this is temporary. I've subscribed to you for years now and have watched every video you have. And in those years I have seen you grow up into such a strong, resilient and responsible woman. You wanted a boutique, so you made it happen, even bought out your business partner and it's beautiful. You got a cabin and turned it into a fairytale summer wonderland. You will get a house when it's the right time. And you're already listening to music, that's a good sign of healing. It will take time, but it'll come. And your nephew's birthday and Christmas is on the way. Something to look forward to. Take care ♥️
Piece of advice from a lawyer: never give up on something that is on your name to be part of a common project where you are not sure where you stand with the property! Always make sure you are fully in control on the legal aspects! Alas, we are here for you and support you all the way ❤ Life has its ups and downs but you can do it! You can get on top of this 🙁 Stay safe and trust the future has something better in store for you 🤗
Yes, you did a lot of the work.
Remember, everything happens for a reason. Something tells me that something really good will be coming into your life.♥️
Clean deals
Good advice for her. Luckily more didn’t happened or a year from now.
You are not failing, you are learning. You are a businesswoman, and a property owner and have the ability to know when to get out and gather all people and resources together to succeed. You have a family and community that loves you. You got this Elise Buch!
So so sorry Elise that someone you loved has let you down and broken your heart...I am sure you are devastated at the present time but please try and be strong and positive and you will overcome all the difficulties. It is their loss as you are one marvellous Individual who is a very hard worker, a caring and giving person with a beautiful soul. Time is a great healer and you will be fine in time. Life can throw some curve balls but we just have to pick them up and run with them. Much blessings and love to you from Ireland....hang in there!!💕❤️💕❤️🇨🇮🇨🇮
We can tell you're heartbroken but I'm amazed by your attitude and how emotionally mature you are. You go girl, one day sun will shine again!!
I was a bit worried when his family was buying the house but you were putting in so much work (and money I'm sure). I know it may seem as if your life has blown up but better that it happens now and not later. Sounds like you have an amazing family and you have so many out here cheering you on and caring what happens to you. As many of us no longer in our 20-30s can and have attested to, when your life splits wide open, it gives you a rare opportunity to be whoever and do whatever you choose for the next chapter of your life. In the sadness and grief, I hope you can also feel the twinge of excitement at the possibilities. It will all work out and just remember--rejection is protection! Big hugs from San Diego, CA!
She didn't put any of her own money into the house.
@@rikkemeek1506 work is also a capital investment, enhancing the value of the property, and she put a lot of that in.
Sweat equity and time she put in = money
I stopped watching you quite awhile ago when you said you wanted to travel woth this new love life. You got rid of little Luna who was such a little rock for you. I wish you had her now or the ability to visit her and hold her. Never give up pets or family. They are the ones that will love you unconditionally. Im so glad you have such a wonderful family. Like i said way back.."Christmas at the Cottage" would be lovely. Soothe yourself your heart. Drink in all the love of your family. The right one will come.
It’s not the end, it’s the beginning. A brand new start ,on your terms. All your choices. No one to answer to. An exciting new chapter. You’ll be just fine. ❤❤❤❤
Elise, you are not a failure, you are a strong woman who has hit a bump in the road of life. I am sorry that you have been having a rough time lately and please give yourself time to heal - the cottage will help too even if you just put the woodburner on, cook up some food and curl up on your daybed with a good book.
Take care of yourself. Sending love and hugs.
Oh Elise, my heart is breaking for you. I am so sorry you are hurting. I hope I am not wrong in saying this but I am so relieved that you are getting out. I had such a bad feeling about this whole situation. I didn't want to say anything discouraging because it's your decision but I felt you deserve so much better and I was sincerely scared for you. I feel it is so much for the best that this happened now instead of later. But I am so sorry you are going through this. You have so many people supporting you here and you don't owe us any explanations. You are the master of your own life. Take all the time you need to process and heal. It's a bad place to be in when others try to control our decisions even if it seems like a good decision to make. You are so vibrant and bright and creative. When you are doing things on your own terms you just glow and we can all feel the radiance. It will take time to find your way through this but I feel you are going through a powerful transformation and you will grow a lot from it. Big hugs. It's hard going through an emotional shock. We love you.
You Are not failing. You are protecting yourself. No need to explain. We are here when you return. Love and Prayers coming your way.
Dear Elise,
I’m so sorry that you are hurting. However, it does sound like you dodged something or someone that was going to cause you even more pain. Bravo to you for get out as quickly as you did and not sticking out longer, allowing yourself to be hurt further. I have been following your channel here for close to two years and you, dear Elise, have not failed. I have constantly been impressed by how strong, independent, and ambitious you have been. It is so refreshing to see someone at such a young age as you work so hard to fulfill a dream or a goal. You’ve lived on your own for many years; presumably paying all your own bills, you have run your own business both via brick and mortar store and on line, you purchased your own lot private, tranquil refuge by way of your cottage. You have done all things presumably on your ow; and, I don’t believe you’re even 30 yet! You are NOT a failure, not by a long shot.
You will get through this and you get even stronger. You have a wonderful, supportive family. You are never alone. You will be happy again and eventually (if you desires) the right person will come along. I’m the meantime, focus on only you and what you need to be happy. You will get that sparkle in your eyes back soon, I know it. Take some time to process things; maybe take a needed trip to your cottage. There is so much you have accomplished and there is so much more ahead of! Don’t rush, tusk your time. You will be ok.hang in there and be strong!
Yes. Well said 💗
@Chelsea what
Better now than when the house was finished and you put all the work, effort and money into it. Look forward Elise, 2023 will be your year.
Well said!!!👍
I discovered your channel because of your abandoned house project but I'm staying now because of you. Don't let anyone or anything dull your light. You are worthy of good things. We are all here routing for you. 💜✨
Same here.
..Maybe that's the one thing she can keep from it..
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Oh you should definitely check out her cabin series. It's something you dream of as a little girl and actually make it happen as a grown up
@@islandgirl1818 I have! I loved it!! 🙂
Me too
Sweet, sweet Elise. You do not owe us any explanation. I am much older than you, I am 67 and I can tell you this is an experience I would not wish on anyone. I want you to know that you are stronger than you think you are, you have a wonderful family who are there for you, and you need to take each day one at a time. Please take care of you! You deserve it. I am praying for you, I am praying you recognize the strength and talent God has given you. We all love you Elise remember that! God Bless
Omg. Safety is nr 1. Glad you are out off that house. Hug 🫂 from Iceland.
And just like the Moon, you should go through phases of light of dark and everything in between and though you may not appear with the same brightness you are always always whole.
Much love to you. You got this Elise💞
I love this. So true
Oh Elise. This life we live is full of ups and downs. Please know that you have so many fans supporting you and although that may seem like a lot of pressure, we do not hold you to any expectations or standards. Take the time you need to heal and keep that chin up! Lots of love
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I am always amazed that you can see beauty in things I can’t
The most important and blessing is that you have realized early and made yourself out within months...Don't worry...have faith on your inner resources.
We’re all behind you a million percent Elise. Take good care of yourself and I hope many healing blessings are coming your way. ❤
I am continually impressed by your strength and poise, Elise. Even in the most painful times, you are careful with your words and speak respectfully and thoughtfully. I am grateful you are an influencer because you demonstrate noble behavior in all circumstances. I am sorry for your hurt and your turmoil. You are not a failure! I am proud of you for stepping away from a situation that was causing you anxiety, and being open in telling us so. I pray your panic attacks ease up, and you find a peaceful space to be your creative self.
Chin up sweet lady. You followed your gut and did what you felt was right. You are an amazing designer and your forever home is out there just for you and will come at the right time and the right place. Take your time to heal and do a little self care for yourself. Plan things you want to do to your summer cottage. I wish you all the best and look forward to more of your videos in the future. Love and Blessings from Canada. 🇨🇦🇨🇦
A truly graceful, lovely, person. What a lesson for so many.
We are all with you Elise, and when a door closes another one opens , you will open the door that is right for you and we will be here to cheer you on.
This is your New Season.
Elise, the sun will shine on you again I have to honestly say that I was concerned that you took on such a huge project with the help of your boyfriend and his father. Somehow I felt it just wasn't you. You will find your own sweet slice of heaven perhaps when you least expect it. You are young, strong and such a hard worker. Hang in there. Hugs!!!
You're not failing honey, you're learning. You'll come out the other side stronger ❤️
Dear girl, take as long as you need to process whatever it is you are going through. These things are your real life and very personal, don’t feel you have to share details. Just let us come along as you heal and move forward. We believe in you. ❤❤❤
If you never try anything, you don't grow. This is an experience in the fabric of your life that you can tell when you're old. You will look back fondly some day, I'm sure of it!!
Oh, Elise. My heart is breaking for you. I’m so very sorry that you are going through this but something tells me that if you had to pack up and leave in the middle of the night, you did the right thing. All that matters is that you are safe. Everything else will fall in place in time. Praying for you my sweet girl.
You are not failing!!!! You are living your life and learning what you need to do to take care of yourself. Whilst it may be difficult presently, you will survive this sad, and I am sure, very frustrating turn of events. You are blessed to have your family and friends as well as a community of strangers on TH-cam who are sending out positive thoughts and praying for better days ahead. Take care!!!!🙏💛
Oh sweet Elise, my heart hurts for you. Take time for you. Grieve. Cry. Get mad. Whatever you feel is valid. Just know that you are a massively talented and spirited woman. You will always thrive. Your hard working and you grab at your dreams, there’s a big world out there just waiting for you. We are all here to pick you up Elise. We believe in you ❤
Beautifully said 💐
Agree completely, you were used to get the house the father-in-law wanted. Your agency was taken away. Just remember, you are amazing
So sorry , I did say that it was not going to pan out well , hug to u ,stronger for it xxx
The great thing about life these days is women have more options to do things for themselves. You've always been independent which gives you the strength to make the right choices for you. Much love x
Oh Sweetie, hang in there. I will be honest to tell you that I have lived many years and know for a fact that things really do happen for a reason. And if things around you get toxic you need to disengage and make sure you don’t stay in that situation because it will affect your health. Right now just remember you are young and healthy and above all you are strong and loved. And please remember to take care of you. Much love from California USA
I'm new to your channel so I've been watching older episodes. I too fled a relationship right after putting all my time and money into a kitchen renovation. I was in a dangerous situation. Trust me, your NEW home series you're filming now is FANTASTIC! You did the right thing fleeing from the BF and his father. Your new home is BEAUTIFUL!
I will be praying for you!
I’m sorry you are going through this trauma. Thank goodness for your wonderful family. You are so brave 💕 We don’t need any details, we just hope your spirits can rebound with happiness soon!
Oh, Elise. You’re not a failure! You made the best decision at the time with the information at hand. No regrets. Don’t look back. You have a beautiful life, a bustling business, family, and friends. This is but a bump in the road of life. You’ll see - in a year, when you’re looking back - that things worked out even BETTER. I promise! ❤
After being with someone for 16 years (married for the last 8 yrs) it was probably the scariest thing I had ever done. With a small child I made a new life for us. I was in a very toxic relationship and I couldn't bare my son having to see and hear it every day. It was very tough and even though I had thought about it for a very long time, there was one incident that changed my life forever and it took quite a while to finally be able to fully breath again. It's hard to see that things will work out and will be better at the point that you are right now I'm sure, but I can promise you it will be better. I always teel anyone I know who is going through a divorce/break up that to remember to breath. Everyone can give you advice on how to move forward with living situations, separating items, dealing with the kids, etc but nobody ever told me to just breath. I felt like I was holding my breathe for almost a year until my divorce was done. But once I took that first full breath I could feel the weight of the world coming off of my shoulders. And then I learned that only I control my destiny and my life now, and somewhere along my journey I have found my own power again. You can do it Elise, you are a strong powerful woman who is going to do amazing things.
I did not really understand what is happening but I wish you the best, seeing you sad made me sad. Be strong pretty Elise. 💋💗💙
Please look after yourself Elise. I hope you start to get your life back on track soon.
I watched you closely in your past several videos and seen such a sadness in you as “ You” always working so hard; and by yourself. It broke my heart for you. And, my heart hurts for you now. I’m so glad that you did what “You” knew you had to do. Keep your head up high sweetie and never feel guilty or shame. Lean on God. Lean on your family and you will persevere!!!
I hate that you gave up your apartment as you seemed to love it so, but this is all part of your journey, you just are taking a different path which I pray leads you to greater things and possibilities.
Your such a beautiful young lady inside/out and you will find “YOUR” perfect home and blossom even more. Your in my prayers.
It will get better soon keep your head up u got this we love u
God has his plan,He is a Good GOD,XXXX
I knew this would end up this way! You deserve to have a place of your own and you will! Too many hands in the pot spoils the soup! Keep looking, spend frugally in preparation of you home! Love, Italia
You are not failing ❤️ We all have these seasons. Someone shared this with me recently. “What if this painful breaking is part of a beautiful remaking?”
I'm glad your family has been there for you during this difficult time. I pray that you will come out stronger on the other side 🙏
The way I see it, you took a chance to do something big! And you did! And now you're making a big choice to do something else! And you are! Wow. You were brave (and human)...both times. And personally, as I was going through a break-up with all of the hurt and my lost dreams, a friend said to me, "You won't always hurt this much...I promise." I promise that to you, too. Sending so much peace, love and healing from Minnesota, US. 💚 Nancy
Trust your intuition. That house was not meant for you. Something better will come along!
ELISE I'M SO SORRY FOR WHAT YOU'RE GOING THRU, BUT YOU'RE A YOUNG BEAUTIFUL LADY WITH SUCH A CREATIVE, POSITIVE, AND CALM ATTITUDE. A VERY HARD WORKER AT YOU'RE YOUNG AGE YOU HAVE ACOMPLISHED A LOT ON YOUR OWN. ONE DAY SOON YOU WILL LOOK BACK AND YOU'RE GOING TO FIND OUT THAT THIS EXPERIENCE MADE YOU EVEN STRONGER BECAUSE YOU ENDURE DESPITE THE PAIN.
I CANT WAIT TO SEE YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL VIDEOS, TAKE CARE. WE YOUR FANS LOVE YOU!
GREETINGS FROM SOUTH TEXAS. USA
This too shall pass. I can’t count the number of times I’ve said that seemingly simple statement over and over and over again throughout my life. But somehow the troubled times do always pass and you become a stronger person on the other side. Sending positive vibes 🙌🏼✨
My husband and I have been watching you for three years through the pandemic you got us a lot of joy. We are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers and believe that only good things are coming in the future blessings to you from Dallas Texas.
How sweet that you’re watching these video’s together with your husband :).
ONE DAY SOMEONE WILL WALK INTO YOUR LIFE AND MAKE YOU SEE WHY IT NEVER WORKED OUT WITH ANYONE ELSE ❤ You had the right idea with the wrong people you are talented, intelligent, beautiful, kind and a go getter type so never share that with anyone else until you’ve got all you want to achieve by yourself 😘
dear girl, so not failing. How wonderful you have your gorgeous wee garden cottage.
I was so happy to see your face. I know it’s been terribly hard so that’s enough to know. We love snd support you on this channel. Don’t worry about us. We will be here. We hope you can move on knowing you have made the right decision and so take it slowly and thoughtfully and you will round the corner soon. 😘
You are not failing, you are learning and finding your way!
I am a mom of 3 daughters and i will tell you the same i tell them... Be a strong independent woman and buy your own stuff without any one else.. It sounds hard but it isn't, I had to do it myself and these days you have to rise up and be the Phoenix in your own story. Girl you can do it! We thankfully dont live in the 1950's and women have to make it on their own, then it wont be you that has to leave and start over 💜 all my love sent your way sweety💜💜💜
I'm going through a divorce right now, so I feel you on how hard it is to be trying to financially get your feet back under you and find a place to live in the current economy. Add to that the insane levels of emotional stress you have been under, and oof! All I can say is that I'm sorry. I'm sorry that you have been going through all this, and that it has left you struggling on so many levels. I'm glad that you have support from your family, and my hopes and prayers for you are that things will get easier, and that you will have room and space to heal. Be gentle with yourself. All of this sounds like it's been a lot.
Elise, on the topic of the economy's impact on the housing look market, I'm wondering if there may be rent-to-own opportunities for you to look into. Your realtor may be able to help you search for rent -to-own options. Or, she may know of homeowners who aren't able to sell their properties that would be open to such an arrangement. God bless you, you are strong, smart, and talented. From the sound of it, although this is a gut-wrenching disappointment and loss you are enduring, it seems like the fates literally swept the situation out of your life! I know, without doubt, that you will find exactly what you want. Stay strong. We love you!
Elise
Oh, Elise,
I just have to add my two cents even though so many here have already spoken for me. I am so moved by all the love here!! We cry with you, my dear. 😢 I’m so, so sorry for this intensely difficult process of having to let go of both your cherished dream of a new life as well as the comforting beauty of your old beloved nest, simultaneously.
Fortunately, your immediate loving and supportive family is joined by your larger adoring TH-cam family. I guarantee you that while we are disappointed for you we in no way think you have failed. We see you and we understand how strong you really are, while you may not feel so right now. You are one of my top two TH-camrs-the other being Jonna Jinton-for whom I always drop everything to watch a new video.
I send you so much love!! ❤❤❤
Thank you so very much for sharing.
Oh Elise, I adore you I am proud of you and constantly inspired by you. I am so sorry I hope you can process everything and heal. We were rooting for you. I'm going to add I have had similar experiences where I had to up and move and completely dismantle my "home" to rebuild and create a new one and the place I was looking forward to going didn't work out just that pit of many deep and dark feelings sucks. It does get better and the best thing is to just take your time and focus on you.
Never see life's challenges as failures, but as learning opportunities. You've entered a great challenge and will soon conquer it, leaving was just the beginning. I've grown with you through the years as well Elise, you are only one year my senior and I have always seen you as a friend. So as a friend, I tell you now; you will be okay, there are so many behind you that love and support you. You've taken your life back and I couldn't be more proud! You are strong, intelligent, loving and you are creative; always be you and never let anyone change that!
I second that, I wish we could all call around and give Elise a big hug. I think she will feel the positive energy we are all sending her. ❤️
We don't need to know all of the details. It's enough to know that you are safe. It's hard to see past the broken bits when your world implodes but out of the ashes a new garden can be planted. My heart aches with you...💗
Oh Elise, I feel for you. I know that you are a strong, hardworking young woman and you will come through this into a brighter future. Thank you for sharing.
Oh Elise! my heart goes out to you! Just give yourself time to grieve and heal, how ever long it takes, and know that we your subscribers and those who watch your channel will always be here for you no matter what. Stay strong, you've got this! Time to take your power back!
You didn't fail, the other people involved FAILED YOU: keep your head up and consider it as a lesson learned. BLESSINGS 💖
You are loved by us all