The Adult Guide To Dealing With Rejection | Ep 79

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 28 ม.ค. 2025
  • This week on the pod we are tackling the topic of rejection: romantic rejection, career rejection, familial rejection, you’ve got rejection? We’re talking about it. Lindsey opens up about her relationship with her father and how that has affected her romantic life. Devon reveals how a summer camp experience potentially scarred him, and Daniel shares how loving his mother gave him a false sense of reality with women. The trio also throw it back in true Ned’s Declassified fashion by sharing advice to viewers who wrote in on our youtube community notes tab.
    Is Devon in his yacht boy era? How does our trio feel about rejection in Hollywood?? And what is the scariest kind of rejection???
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ความคิดเห็น • 95

  • @BirdiliciousBox
    @BirdiliciousBox 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

    Yo Devon straight up looking at Lindsey while talking about being scared about romantic feelings for other women was savage 😭

  • @Forgan_Mreeman
    @Forgan_Mreeman 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    I cannot imagine sharing deep personal details like this and uploading it to the internet for the world to see. much respect to you all

    • @mollyarrowood3071
      @mollyarrowood3071 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Doesn’t leave much mystery does it?

  • @ElizabethH-d5e
    @ElizabethH-d5e 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Daniel is the most naturally hilarious storyteller!

  • @maureene7138
    @maureene7138 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    Pursuing medicine has caused me to learn to deal with REJECTION. I had to apply to medical school multiple times before getting accepted. I went through minor depression and low self-worth during this process. By God's grace, I continued to pursue this goal and finallly got in. I'll be starting in a week. I'm very grateful for the rejection in hindsight because it allowed me to mature greatly as an individual. I firmly believe God's timing is the right timing

  • @SSj3reLiefYeezY
    @SSj3reLiefYeezY 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Episodes like this are where y'all shine the brightest, loved this one

  • @rosiesworld22
    @rosiesworld22 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    This podcast can't get any better! Love the chemistry between you guys & all the laughs you guys bring each pod! 😂❤️

  • @sAv_Doll
    @sAv_Doll 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    "Rejection is redirection" - Daniel " Rejection is gods protection" - Katy Perry 😁😁 luv'ing these life lesson series!!!👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

  • @theresag.4188
    @theresag.4188 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    When they run out of episodes pls don't stop! I watch for their personalities for sure and their chemistry! 😄💯 and if it ever ends make your own with eachother 🙌

  • @Enki0906
    @Enki0906 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I love the Naruto figurine in the background behind Daniel, all thats missing is an Aang one! I would also like to say, when you guys were talking about self awareness, it truly is my biggest issue. Being hyper aware of everything you're doing, what you should be doing, what you shouldn't be doing, how something is going to affect me, it can be truly crippling being hyper aware because you start being really hard on yourself because you know what you should be doing, how you should be feeling, etc. Being on either side of the spectrum, whether having no self awareness and having hyper awareness can be detrimental to your process of growth. Don't be so hard on yourself and challenge one change at a time, being self aware is the first step, it takes time to move through the growth process, you are good enough, you are worth the change. It's about the journey, not the destination!

  • @jeshuaneverson6649
    @jeshuaneverson6649 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This podcast is my literal therapy. 🙌🏾 Thank u 3 for talking about real topics that we all experience and go through in life. Watching these have genuinely been so beneficial to my life lately 🙏🏾

  • @Jutto958
    @Jutto958 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I really needed an episode like this that says you are not alone in not only have rejection anxiety but having a certain reaction and that first comment Devon read hit home. Thank you very much

  • @TYfariguy
    @TYfariguy 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Yeah *MORE* community tab interaction episodes, I really like this format and this connection it gives us to you guys ❤

  • @ch3ngg
    @ch3ngg 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    thank you for reading my comment, hearing me and giving your insight. it feels nice to know that im not alone, that all three of you related to what i said. il be listening to this episode on repeat and will take on your feedback/advice. ive also just finished watching the journalling episode and i love how lindsey and and devon broke down journalling and how it's helped them. definitely will be trying some of the journalling prompts. thank you again, rejection is redirection.
    edit: i resonate with what devon said about being aware but not knowing what to do to change it. im in that limbo right now.

  • @time2798
    @time2798 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Daniel gotta be tired of hearing about their relationship 😂

  • @iandrelu
    @iandrelu 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Great topic to talk about! Thanks guys for dealing with real stuff we all struggle with, keep up with this ⬆️

  • @DEADPRYNTZ
    @DEADPRYNTZ 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This episode deff made me realize an issue and defense mechanism that I wasn't aware I had, then how to navigate it moving forwards. Thanks guys!

  • @alisonclarke1127
    @alisonclarke1127 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Hi guys!!!! It’s so good to see you guys every Wednesday ❤❤❤ I love you guys so much big hugs from NYC

  • @ElizabethH-d5e
    @ElizabethH-d5e 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    loved this ep & format!

  • @a.a4974
    @a.a4974 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Just the episode I needed before a job interview on Friday :) I GOT THISSSSS

  • @chrisray7682
    @chrisray7682 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yooo I need you guys to keep investing in these high level convos about what you all have been through and just about life’s experiences. This channel will grow to be as big as the original Ned’s if you all can keep tapping that drum. Thank yall for sharing !

  • @devinvenable
    @devinvenable 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The yelling thing for joy is beautiful and I want to have a crowd do that because most people won’t try to do that with me… my heart couldn’t be anymore broken than it already was . Thank the three of you and your producers…

  • @Shanmania
    @Shanmania 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Like the new format so far!!

  • @rosee4414
    @rosee4414 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Somehow stressful yet helpful hearing your guy's stories lol. Always good to be reminded how everyone goes through it in one way or another

  • @SuperNASCARrocks
    @SuperNASCARrocks 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love this podcast. Every episode is great.

  • @GaneshXplorer
    @GaneshXplorer 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’d tell my sister as far as relationships “NO ONE has your happiness in a box with a bow on top for you it’s a gift you give yourself that you always had.”

  • @tiffanyblack6342
    @tiffanyblack6342 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m so grateful for you guys. Love this.

  • @Sav.vywlsn
    @Sav.vywlsn 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Being a female, how do you set boundaries with men in your life? Not strangers, but friends, family, coworkers. I’m such a people pleaser and have a hard time being rude (setting boundaries) because I’m afraid they’ll be upset with me. How can I let go of this need to please others above my own comfortability?

    • @kassidywilliams5878
      @kassidywilliams5878 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m also a severe people pleaser! It is so hard for me to put myself before others! I started going to therapy and my therapist said remind yourself that saying no is okay and you can be nice about it and stay true to who you are while still setting those boundaries!

  • @mrslehman569
    @mrslehman569 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you guys for making my Wensday! Loving the content

  • @FelineFrights
    @FelineFrights 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You guys fkn rock!! This pod is my weekly go to. I love it so much!

  • @Good-ish
    @Good-ish 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loved the topic from today video , also this podcast is like therapy for the trio

  • @inukimeko
    @inukimeko 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lindsey, saving the podcast and setting up the tone as always. 🙌
    Really solid ep! Reminds me of the Spotify eps. Great job all!

  • @kassidywilliams5878
    @kassidywilliams5878 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Definitely want to see a boundaries video!! ❤️ I struggle with that in every aspect of my life 😭

  • @Mrsoriano42022
    @Mrsoriano42022 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    it great keep this format really helpfull

  • @Aria23331
    @Aria23331 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Yall should bring reccie cannon aka buzz to the show since he doesn’t get any mentions and many want to know how he felt about the character he was playing

    • @mooop348
      @mooop348 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      i think about him all the time

  • @ravensallday1426
    @ravensallday1426 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Gotta love Lindsay’s dances at the end 🔥🤌🏾

  • @HelloBunny4000
    @HelloBunny4000 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love these type of episodes!! Yesss more porfavor ❤️

  • @Hasmoon1
    @Hasmoon1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    PLEASE DO BOUNDARIES NEXT EPISODE!!!!

  • @AaronMooreUK
    @AaronMooreUK 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You guys should watch each episode of Ned’s like a audio commentary

  • @RyzerTheGamer
    @RyzerTheGamer 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I can tell Lindsey learned a lot in DBT, good for her!

  • @W_Gebby
    @W_Gebby 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    All I could think about for most of this episode was Devon's song "Settle" 😅

  • @sknl4015
    @sknl4015 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Daniel is 🔥 man. No Diddy. God bless you bro. 2024™

  • @bighonkies
    @bighonkies 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bruh, I was so blazed when i wrote that comment. My fingers started typing, and I kinda had a mini therapy session with myself. I didnt even remember typing that till you read it 😂😂😂
    I aint surprised Devon resonated with that though! I resonated with it myself when I heard it read back to me :P

  • @penblade10
    @penblade10 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Cool show, keep up good work.

  • @Carollovessws
    @Carollovessws 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Devon at 1:05 - 1:18 is the most pisces thing he’s said lol

    • @HelloBunny4000
      @HelloBunny4000 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wait I’m a Pisces what does this mean 😭lolllll

    • @Carollovessws
      @Carollovessws 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      bc he was just kinda going with the flow on how long he was gonna stay and said he’ll figure it out when the time comes lol not very logical where people plan this trip ahead of time. but living more in dreamy flow and living for the adventure if that makes sense lol not in a bad way at all ! just more in a pisces way :)

    • @HelloBunny4000
      @HelloBunny4000 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hahaha I love that!! As a Pisces that makes perfect sense 😭😂 thank you for explaining!!🫶🏼

  • @aidaid-fg5en
    @aidaid-fg5en 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Awesome funny episode 😃📺

  • @lesmokealotesquair8288
    @lesmokealotesquair8288 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ned yells like a single dad that went to go live with his cool younger brother

  • @blackronin821
    @blackronin821 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    switched to video when i heard about Lindsays shirt😂

  • @comicbookzen
    @comicbookzen 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lindsey is rocking those shorts and nail polish.

  • @jalanmoon1756
    @jalanmoon1756 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi Devon daniel and lindsey i love you guys so much of all ned show's im seeing it everyday on teennick im a big fan of you guys on the podco podcast thank you guys rejection is worst fear ever in mens life with women's bring your negative around and take the positive to yourself.❤😀😭💔😀❤️😍😀💞❤️

  • @Bezere28
    @Bezere28 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This format will be good to include guests in on.

  • @AlrightParty
    @AlrightParty 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Rejection can stick and define you for you entire life if you let it. It’s an essential step towards growth

  • @serenityq26
    @serenityq26 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    if its ok to "rage out" after being physically hut its ok to "rage out" after being emotionally hurt. pain is pain.

  • @XxX14cynthia15XxX
    @XxX14cynthia15XxX 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    For The longest I always felt like o deserved to be in the situation I was in because of what I wanted and what I refused to see. Now being away from that person and situation I can see that we were both lost and hurting but it was the best thing we did for each other. Even though we no longer speak to one another.

  • @alyssagoebel1312
    @alyssagoebel1312 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Pickles & Pickle Juice cures the hiccups 🥒 for future reference hahah

  • @xavierwashington5408
    @xavierwashington5408 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I really liked what Lindsey said, this should’ve been her tip. Feelings are always valid, but they’re not always correct. Really liked that. Also Devon is so thirsty for Lindsey, fucking pull the trigger, it’s pissing me off. This is the Phineas and Isabella situationship rn

  • @serenityq26
    @serenityq26 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    the full saying is: rejection is sometimes protection and redirection.

  • @TheGoldBoyJ
    @TheGoldBoyJ 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Please try to get a cameo in Abbott elementary

  • @mollyarrowood3071
    @mollyarrowood3071 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Drop the survival guide part and talk about other topics other than just Ned’s… talk about things that are happening in the world now that people are interested in. You’d get more views and shares. 😊

  • @esmukhtert2005
    @esmukhtert2005 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Next old star is Reccie Canon and Hoover Twins Devon, Lindsey and Daniel💯💯💯😛😛😛🔥🔥🔥

  • @marybell4857
    @marybell4857 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I would love to have Shayne Topp and Damian Haas from Smosh on here to talk about their experience at Disney and Nickelodeon. Idk if anybody else would like that but I know that I will.

  • @erickvidbaz3086
    @erickvidbaz3086 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    42:32 what was that sound xD

  • @thebadassninja5847
    @thebadassninja5847 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    The episode starts at 0:27

    • @KMac-oi7iz
      @KMac-oi7iz 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Love your work thx ❤❤❤

  • @serenityq26
    @serenityq26 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    its always personal because you are always persons being rejected by persons

  • @thudderjohn
    @thudderjohn 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Any advice for a divorced, 56 yo man who recently came out as Bisexual. I haven't dated since March 1988. Working to rebuild my confidence and foundation

  • @niallpike1456
    @niallpike1456 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    True or false:
    When you're younger it's hard to take "No" for an answer?

  • @beccajean4418
    @beccajean4418 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Tom is my bff. Just friends. But when he opens the door it is cute.

  • @knightly2188
    @knightly2188 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    does anybody else see Bill Cipher on the chalk board?? ⚠️

  • @junniebear49
    @junniebear49 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lindsey, have you seen that everyone is saying the rapper Karrahboo looks like black you😂

    • @AmiriHipHop
      @AmiriHipHop 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Where are people saying this lmao? I haven't seen SINGLE person make that comparison.

  • @devinvenable
    @devinvenable 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    There’s a first for everything, right?

  • @beccajean4418
    @beccajean4418 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    do an episode on how to tell if he is into you.

  • @EdwardSanchezProductions
    @EdwardSanchezProductions 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I hate getting rejected from womens

    • @mooop348
      @mooop348 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      it's ok edward just remember it doesn't take away from your value ever, n rejection is redirection for who is right for you n they're worth the journey

  • @LupitaLaChona
    @LupitaLaChona 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi queens

  • @alyxxxandrya
    @alyxxxandrya 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    oh ew i’ve never been this early i’ll be back when the comments are funny sry 😂

  • @Marblesandbox
    @Marblesandbox 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Over the years, women have rejected me, text dumped me, cheated on me, emotionally abused me, and made false accusations against me. All of these experiences nearly drove me to end myself. Despite all of that, I would harm anyone. I just don't bother with dating women. This allowed me to achieve inner peace.

  • @danielmiccolis4113
    @danielmiccolis4113 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love barefeet ❤

  • @markcorrigan3930
    @markcorrigan3930 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    22:33

  • @Fac0999
    @Fac0999 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @hbbtamara
    @hbbtamara 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    devons style is very demure, very considerate, very cutesy.

  • @thatonegirl41
    @thatonegirl41 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’m so sick of us constantly circling the drain when it comes to Devon & Lindsey’s relationship we get it Devon she cheated on u but that was 16 years ago move on. Also Lindsey u knowing his ex gfs isn’t a flex it’s weird.

  • @crazycampero4108
    @crazycampero4108 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    4 likes in 1 minute of the video being uploaded 😂😂

  • @crazycampero4108
    @crazycampero4108 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    First jajajajaj

  • @Respect2theFallen
    @Respect2theFallen 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Me at 3:40 "Lindsey put your feet away, you betta make that money sell them toe pics"