People can be lonely and fearful anywhere . I discovered a long , long time ago ( 86 yrs now) not to spend to much time in ones head. You can get beat up there. Turning your focus outside yourself is healthier and is good for your soul. The world is full of magical, beautiful things if you look for them. Love your out look on your travels and enjoy your channel. 💖
I did want to mention for all the single ladies who are watching this you should have a weapon I know of a gal who does have a gun and she's a single lady camper you can have a gun pepper spray bear spray Hornet Wasp spray Works to something that you can defend yourself with if necessary
As a woman who has been alone a lot, the one question I get all the time is, don't you get lonely? I always respond, no, I don't mind my own company. Some people travel better through life walking alone. And fear? Well, you can die once or die every night. You go girl.
@@ButterflyTracks I agree with you. It can be scary being alone. Like Carol, I have been alone a lot and don’t mind my own company. It can be scary being alone. But it can also be challenging to travel or to be on the road to seek new scenery or new experience alone even if we don’t have a special companion to share our journey with.
I once felt anger and hatred when someone would ask me don’t I get lonely being alone. Now I have been a witness to many of those who can not fly SOLO. I have found the BALANCE, PEACE, SERENITY, within myself. Unfortunately, I now find those that want to attach themselves to me to comfort the irritability they feel when the SILENCE is too loud for them. I try to gently tell them to practice SELF LOVE, and to embrace the SACRED SOLITUDE OF THEIR JOURNEY. You must create your own JOY!!
If there are any ladies thinking about this.... do it. I'm 59 and was full time for 2 years in western Canada until last fall, when family issues left me no choice other than to rent apartment for a year to help my daughter. I can't wait to get back out there. Its amazing never once felt unsafe. Never felt lonely, ( labrador with me) and other RVers are amazing. Nothing to lose and everything to gain. Go for it :)
True, if you are otherwise healthy and can afford to deal with a mechanical breakdown or other financial emergencies. I, personally, wouldn't go now, simply due to physical disabilities. If my health improves and if I no longer need constant medical care, it would be a consideration. If my condition worsens and I'm on my way out anyway I might hit the road because... nothing left to lose at that point. Just know that one mechanical breakdown at an inopportune place and time can be fatal and in an undignified way. If you're prepared to accept that then fire away. No time like the present.
Hi I am so glad to come across your channel! I’ll be 60 in July and trying to figure out what I want to be when I grow up😉 My mom passed away last year and after caring for her five years w dementia and being bedridden I’ve lost who I am. I have two grown sons but they have their own lives now so it’s just me. I’m cleaning out the apartment now it’s a job between hers and my stuff going to storage for now at least. I’ve been looking at vans and small campers wondering if this is something I want or not. Your videos will give me something to think about thank you ☺️
Hi Mad TWC. 👋 I know that empty house feeling, thinking there has to be more. There are several ways you may find to fill that emptiness. Traveling is exciting and every day is new and different.
I'm not sure I'd keep most of my stuff. Even if there's nice, well-made furniture, jewelry and antique audio gear (well, THAT stuff should be able to find a solid buyer, but it's not right away.)--you'll get a rude awakening trying to look it all up online to see what it's worth. I'd suggest pawn shops and maybe an estate sale, or Guitar Center for music stuff, as a bird in the hand is better than buying storage for months when it's almost May and prices are the highest. I'd give my friends X amount if time to come get whatever they want, and start heading over to the thrift store, by packing up the trunk of obvious stuff I don't need (doesn't fit, out of style and so on...) You might have a neighborhood app for that, too. Look out, your mother's glassware and China might languish online. Much of that is full of lead and heavy metals, too. So, probably ok for us older people, not so much for small kids. Don't leave food/booze in particular (leeches more) IN containers for long. Collector's anything will probably languish online. I think I've sold a set of 3. That's it so far. It got less than I paid for it, for sure. Books-the rule is: avoid much I can easily get at the library. Don't keep books I've outgrown or don't look nice on the shelf (get rid of most dust jackets). I'm keeping the cds. I like fidelity. MP3s are awful. Dvds, same. I've had stuff vanish off my computer, so we won't do that again. Thousands of my files-gone...
I would say go for it , family are advising us o go into sheltered accommodation ,or a home . No way stay independent and you will discover yourself and your destiny and purpose in life. Don’t trust your well being to your own children and in-laws even . You can make it .
You are an inspiration! I'm not lonely either. I talk to myself, I talk to the little dog, I talk to the air, I talk to my mom who passed a few years ago. It doesn't matter if they are in hearing reach or not. I'm good at keeping my self company. Didn't we always try to have our kids occupy themselves so we could get things done? We needed to teach them to take care of themselves once in a while, and how to be resourceful. It's no difference. I love my own company, and my Lord is always with me. I'm not alone.
Your vlog was coming from my heart. Steps are not always baby in size. Sometimes it’s a plunge just go and stopping the “Analysis paralysis”. I dreamed and studied for about 3 years the nomad track after I saw my first TH-cam Van-lifer…what a joy I found to look forward once retiring. A year and a half ago I found my van, sold my home and possessions, found a huge shop( prior business) on an acre in a very small town and state. After working on the van I’m now on the 6th day out traveling in the southeast heading at a leisurely pace stopping a couple of nights in campgrounds here and there. I agree with your astute observation, to go while the door is open because you never know when it will close! Thank you stating it so beautifully. Take care Stay safe! 🚺
Oh, Gma. We are kindred souls! ❤️ Your story is mine. I dreamed of being a travel writer 2 decades ago, studied videos and was planning to go, bought my van and was putting it all together. Then my house sold WAY too fast, I only had days to get rid of everything. No storage unit. My poor van was packed so you couldn't find the bed. I gave away, threw away and hit the road to sort it all out. But I feel I have to be gentle with people that shouldn't leave the nest too soon. They can't all take flight like we did. 😊
Please pray for me ladies I so much want to do this journey but my other half is afraid he's afraid to make changes pray that God will open his heart and his eyes to let go all this materialistic thing enjoy taking every moment
@@kellierae7602 praying for you. I hope your other half can take the plunge. Probably it’s overwhelming for him, but if he went he would enjoy himself. Sometimes some people need a little push.
I'm in the process of selling everything. I'm trying to figure out my plan of being on the road. Fears are a reality. I have been telling myself safety and plans are not truly fear, but the wisdom to take care of yourself. The what if-s....I am conquering by telling myself "what if you have an enjoyable time?" Thank you Jan, for the insight.
What a great outlook on fear and loneliness. I’m so excited to take this journey with you. Thank you for bringing those of us who are unable to begin our adventure yet with you!
Greetings from New Zealand. I'm really enjoying your channel. I have learnt from others that you need park your vehicle with the nose pointing towards your exit so you can get out fast for your safety if nessary. I really appreciate your openness. Thank you.
RE:Minute 7:14 You have no idea how accurate this feeling is for me too. I am so happy you began this journey and shared with all of us! Thank you Jan!
Aloha from Hawaii ( Big Isl ) Wow 81yrs Old....Looking Good ! Godbless🤲 Just seeing your Video Felted your a Good Human Soul and Down to Earth. I'm Happy your enjoying Life and Traveling 😊. I've been Working in the Healthcare Fields with Seniors 🧓👵. Just Retirement Early in this Pendemic 🌎. In the Future I'll Travel and enjoy Life ! I'm Happy your Enjoying Your Life! Hea Age it's a Number ! God give you excellent Health 🙌 Enjoy it ! Looking Foward for More Videos... Mahalo for Sharing !!
Aloha, Larry. Thank you for working with elderly. It must have been really hard and very rewarding. I hope you have a chance to live your dream. Actually, I was talking to my future self in 10 years. I'm 71 now. 🙂
Our Facebook group for women only is very supportive and full of information. We have women only meetups and caravans. I hope you can join us. When you apply for membership please agree to the rules so moderators will accept you. 💙🦋💙 Butterfly Tribe Women who Camp: facebook.com/groups/794347871824247/?ref=share
Hi, Jan. First time viewing your site. You are handling being on the road well. I was forced to live out of my car many years ago after a bad divorce. You have a good set up:) Much more serene existence than mine was. I would not choose to go back to that for myself but, if it became necessary, it’s like riding a a bike:) I found the hygiene and bathroom issues the toughest to cope with. That and not looking obviously homeless. That said, you get to really know yourself and to become self reliant out of necessity. You are doing a great job of being on your own. Kudos❤️👍
Hi Susan. 👋 Taking off prepared and excited to see the most beautiful sites in the world is so very different from what you went through. I'm sorry you had to go through that. You must be a very strong woman.
Once we differentiate lonliness with aloneness, we can really appreciate being alone. In fact, we crave it. However, we are never really alone, God is always with us.
Thank you for your input on camping about loneliness & fear. I think it is necessary to trust your own instinct and hear the little voice we all have. Safe travel ma'am.
Hi OGLola 👋 I would say "you go girl" but you are already going! Good for you. 👍 🙂 Safe travels. Let me know if you have any questions I might help you with.
@@flyg74 It may take your family a while to get used to the idea. Show them you are thinking it out, planning as much as you can and trying to be safe. They are still in the negative "what if" stage. Work on getting them to the positive what ifs. My family is supportive and and enjoying watching my journey. They weren't at first because they care and they worry.
Lived much ofy life in NM. Miss those sunsets. And yes, wind and cold this time of year are a real thing there. People don't realize how cold the desert can get. Hope all continues to go well.
glad I found you ... I like how you think ... I've been surrounded by people and been very lonely ... you're only lonely if you don't like the person you're with ... you go girl! you've got it figured out!
I am fixen to be 54 and fear has held me back. Funny that you said baby steps, that is exactly what i been doing. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and experiences with me. Prayers go out for safe travels. 🙏
I’m generally fearless but I do listen to my gut. 2 1/2 yrs full time and loving it. I do carry bear spray, air horn, fish bite loud alarm, car alarm and a 9mm Luger none of which have I had to use. I have a motion sensor lights on van doors so if someone walks up I can see who it is. I also have window vents so I can hear them talk and do not have to open my door.
Hi Patricia where do you get sensor lights for your van doors? Would love this! Oh and I’ve camped on BLM land and some are so close to a main road and very quiet 🤫
You are amazing, such a strong women! Thank you for sharing your adventure with us and those are two cute travel companions you have. Safe travels and look forward to your next video.
Jan! I'm so grateful (and not surprised) that I found you! The universe is definitely YELLING at me. My name is Jan, I have 🦋 blue Butterflies on everything because I've been drawn to them all of my life. I've been watching and dreaming of van life for about 5 years now, I started with Pam the van, I believe she goes by Wild she goes now. I'm 62 years old and bored. But I still have obligations that keep me rooted... but I can't wait! Anyhow, I'm a smoker, love smoking, and I'm really bad at being TOLD to do something. But I have really bad circulation and have been told to quit if I want to live... and keep all of my body parts... lost a toe to bad circulation. So I hope you don't mind, but I'm going to use your intro words..( I remembered I could fly), and your videos as my motivation for my future. I still can't belive I found a TRAVELING JAN who loves BLUE BUTTERFLIES! Thank you SO much for sharing your journey. I hope you stay safe, and have the best time of your life!
Wow, Jan! 💙 🦋 💙 I want you to stay healthy so we can meet sometime in the not too distant future. I won't tell you not to smoke, but saving that money could go toward a van and gas. 🤑 Life is already short and health problems could be your cocoon. Get started breaking free of the cocoon 'cause you can fly!!!
Almost forgot. We have a new Facebook group for women who are interested in traveling and camping. It's for women only. A safe place to exchange information about nomad adventures, caravans and meetups. Butterfly Tribe Women Who Camp 💙 🦋 💙 facebook.com/groups/794347871824247/?ref=share
@@ButterflyTracks thank you for replying. Yes! I will save allot by quitting, a carton of cigarettes is $50 and more lately.... and yet I continue! Oy! I hope we do meet someday, Jan is becoming a rare name, so I'm always happy to meet a name sister. ( and thanks for NOT telling me to throw out "those nasty things" lol! Stay safe Jan
For 8 years I was a pilot car and traveled all over the place and got paid for it. I got to see a lot of the US. I loved it. God Bless and keep you safe...Happy Trails 🤠
I have forced myself to learn a new vocabulary. I am not “Alone”, I am “SOLO”. I HAVE CREATED A SANCTUARY with my life. My SOLITUDE is my DIVINE PEACE. These words remove all fear from living the BEST LIFE I can give myself. I see people that need to be codependent to be able to feel complete!! I don’t judge. But… tomorrow is not promised to no one!! LIVE LIFE, and LIVE IT FULLY!!
I was just thinking something similar today: in the space you occupy, within your skin, you are a sovereign being with full power and rights to take charge of your life and live it to the fullest.
I too am a solo woman camper/car camper. I bought a tent with full intentions of camping. Fear kept me from going. 4 years later I told myself i will never go if I'm waiting for someone else to go with me. So, i packed up and went! I love going solo. Let me tell you a hidden gem. Sugarite canyon state park in New Mexico. Small and lots of trails to explore. Happy camping! 🌅
I have been doing this for 5 years. At first I was nervous, not really afraid, but I made it work. At first I was nervous about BLM camping, but now I love it. I love the privacy. But I do still deal with loneliness. However, I do camp with others, within a few days I find myself ready to go back to being alone. I prefer being alone in a beautiful place.
Love your videos! Your voice is so calm and soothing. NM has some of my favorite state parks; reasonably priced and consistently nice. Looking forward to more of your adventures…..thank you for sharing!
I wish I had done this years ago but now I have a back injury and I really don't have that much Mobility but I sure love watching all the videos of all you guys who are doing it
You can be in a party full of people and be totally alone. Solitude on the other hand is an oasis for the mind, the ultimate tranquility we all secretly desire
So glad this 70 yr ran across your videos a couple of days ago. I think I’ve seen them all now. I full timed in a large motor home for 13 years, then moved to tent camping the past two summers. Now have an older Pleasure Way van and in the process of getting it put together the way I want. I like your take on being safe, not fearful. Reading Walt Whitman over the top of the images is really cool! What you say, how you say it, and what scenes you show are meshing wonderfully. Thank you and keep ‘em coming please.
Hi Pam, I too am a 70yr old solo vanlifer. I have been full time in my van for 2 yrs now and spent a short time in my suv and before that I car camped for a couple years. Not howdy! The things we learn on this journey! I just discovered Jan’s site and am so looking forward to meeting up with the group often.
Hi Charlotte. 👋 So far, the meetups I've been to have been with women who are part time or new to vanlife. I'd love to have a meetup that is for fulltime vanlife women. I wonder if part timers would be offended.
Your right. Most of what we fear never happens. 2 years ago I wrote here that I was leaving. But my van had too many issues. I am on the last repairs. Maybe this Spring.
Well, hello there ! We were stationed at Holloman AFB from 1976-1979 just fresh from BT. I love NM where my oldest daughter was born and we have gone back on family’s vacations several times over the years. Retired in Austin Texas and no plans to move anywhere anymore.
Just watched your video. So glad you changed your mind about rest stop. I looked up safety info on them and the answer was not to stay the night. Your talk on fear was right on point. I hope to be out there at the end of the year but I’m buying a class C. I have some health issue where the Van won’t be comfortable for me and being a senior comfort is big for me. And you are so on point about being by yourself. Also Bob and Susan have this sort of meetup thing for people that don’t want to travel alone. You don’t have to stay in a group you’re just meeting up with people who want to be around other people be not be with them. The video on how to do it is on TH-cam. But thank you for posting. I’ll look at your other videos too. Have safe travels.
I'd go to safety rest stops, Loves, pilot n petro etc.So much is true of what you said. You are truly a strong and brave woman your determination is breathtaking
Thank you for sharing, I like being alone, it actually has helped my inner being... your smart to go with your feelings, if it doesnt feel right change it
I agree with your perspective on travel companions. So true that one's plans are altered when its necessary to consider another's plans. Your editing has beautifully improved! Nice transitions and music inserts. Great job!
Great video Jan. Love the plan to watch your own videos later in life. You are so right, facing your fear, overcoming it, then you look back with pride, a sense of success and "why did I think that was so tough?". Be well!
I think it was beautiful in its own way. Quiet. That's tranquil. God to heal bad nerves. One reason I'm playing catchup on your video sequence, is because after having poison ivy for about 6 weeks, I got shingles for about 6 weeks. On the top n rt. side of the head.Forehead, face over to the ear and in my nose and began in my eye. So now I'm binge watching cause I feel as if I don't want to miss a video. I love all the scenery, music, anecdotes, poetry and just some good smarts, intuition and wisdom. You're also spot on with loneliness and fear. I can't start out, but I can sleep in my driveway. Test out my bed system to see if it needs tweaked before heading out. I also just watched Bob Wells n Brian's self-defense video. Hope for the best, but prepare for the worst. I even asked about what type of handgun would be advisable for me, me stature, age, strength. If we don't ... we'll always wonder. Hmmm... 🤔 What if. On fear of isolation, breakdowns, ... I hear there are Caravans of RVers, vanlifers and carlifers. So one might catch up with a caravan, or begin one. 🤔 I'm not sure sky BLM land. 🤷♀️ Well that's enough binging for now. Have a God day/ evening/ night and take care.
First Time here and really enjoying your vacation from the unreal world we are living in! I’m gonna be around a while, I can tell. I’m 70 and it just dawned on me - Seems I lost the last 10 years. They weren’t fun. Foreclosures, betrayals, Loss and plenty of bad advice. Re-evaluating and praying for divine guidance. Atleast I like mysel. Always feel better alone. Used to go to Italy, alone- 6 times, but in reality I was never alone. Back to square 1, now. Do I dare brush off my easel and go to the beach and become the Artist I am, trapped in a Catlady’s body? Well, I better do something, quick! Wish me luck! Thanks for being an inspiration, Jan!
I love the peacefulness of that campsite. I'm glad you're showing this because I know where I can park with an RV..I just don't know where conversion vans and minivans can park/camp. I'm gonna be following your travels like crazy. I know exactly what you're talking about when someone rides with you . I had a friend who at the last minute decided she was gonna ride across country with me. We have different times that we wake up different things we're interested in different music and times you want to be quiet when nature calls for it and it did make it somewhat challenging. It takes away that freedom you have when you're out there even when you love them!
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People can be lonely and fearful anywhere . I discovered a long , long time ago ( 86 yrs now) not to spend to much time in ones head. You can get beat up there. Turning your focus outside yourself is healthier and is good for your soul. The world is full of magical, beautiful things if you look for them. Love your out look on your travels and enjoy your channel. 💖
Words of wisdom, Barbara. 💙 I love your philosophy. Thanks for joining me on the journey.
I did want to mention for all the single ladies who are watching this you should have a weapon I know of a gal who does have a gun and she's a single lady camper you can have a gun pepper spray bear spray Hornet Wasp spray Works to something that you can defend yourself with if necessary
Thank you so much Barbara! You just inspired me!
Wonderful words of wisdom
@Barbara Allen :: What is the recipe to get out of one's own head? ☮️💟
As a woman who has been alone a lot, the one question I get all the time is, don't you get lonely? I always respond, no, I don't mind my own company. Some people travel better through life walking alone. And fear? Well, you can die once or die every night. You go girl.
Hi Carol. 👋 I love your philosophy. ❤️ Life can be beautifully simple but most people overcomplicate everything and end up scared and depressed.
@@ButterflyTracks
I agree with you. It can be scary being alone.
Like Carol, I have been alone a lot and don’t mind my own company. It can be scary being alone. But it can also be challenging to travel or to be on the road to seek new scenery or new experience alone even if we don’t have a special companion to share our journey with.
Agreed : )
I once felt anger and hatred when someone would ask me don’t I get lonely being alone. Now I have been a witness to many of those who can not fly SOLO. I have found the BALANCE, PEACE, SERENITY, within myself. Unfortunately, I now find those that want to attach themselves to me to comfort the irritability they feel when the SILENCE is too loud for them. I try to gently tell them to practice SELF LOVE, and to embrace the SACRED SOLITUDE OF THEIR JOURNEY. You must create your own JOY!!
@@humanchildofgod3126 Being alone is a power most people can't handle. Their loss.
If there are any ladies thinking about this.... do it. I'm 59 and was full time for 2 years in western Canada until last fall, when family issues left me no choice other than to rent apartment for a year to help my daughter. I can't wait to get back out there. Its amazing never once felt unsafe. Never felt lonely, ( labrador with me) and other RVers are amazing. Nothing to lose and everything to gain. Go for it :)
Words of wisdom and experience! Thank you, J O. 😊
So great. I just saw a video from someone else whose life was changed for a while to help her daughter.
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True, if you are otherwise healthy and can afford to deal with a mechanical breakdown or other financial emergencies.
I, personally, wouldn't go now, simply due to physical disabilities. If my health improves and if I no longer need constant medical care, it would be a consideration. If my condition worsens and I'm on my way out anyway I might hit the road because... nothing left to lose at that point.
Just know that one mechanical breakdown at an inopportune place and time can be fatal and in an undignified way. If you're prepared to accept that then fire away. No time like the present.
Where did you stay in Western Canada? I’m 74 and solo traveller but can’t afford campgrounds. Thanks.
@@margmcgill1645 good questiob! I want to know too. I want to see Canada.
Hi I am so glad to come across your channel! I’ll be 60 in July and trying to figure out what I want to be when I grow up😉 My mom passed away last year and after caring for her five years w dementia and being bedridden I’ve lost who I am. I have two grown sons but they have their own lives now so it’s just me. I’m cleaning out the apartment now it’s a job between hers and my stuff going to storage for now at least. I’ve been looking at vans and small campers wondering if this is something I want or not. Your videos will give me something to think about thank you ☺️
Hi Mad TWC. 👋 I know that empty house feeling, thinking there has to be more. There are several ways you may find to fill that emptiness. Traveling is exciting and every day is new and different.
I'm not sure I'd keep most of my stuff. Even if there's nice, well-made furniture, jewelry and antique audio gear (well, THAT stuff should be able to find a solid buyer, but it's not right away.)--you'll get a rude awakening trying to look it all up online to see what it's worth.
I'd suggest pawn shops and maybe an estate sale, or Guitar Center for music stuff, as a bird in the hand is better than buying storage for months when it's almost May and prices are the highest.
I'd give my friends X amount if time to come get whatever they want, and start heading over to the thrift store, by packing up the trunk of obvious stuff I don't need (doesn't fit, out of style and so on...)
You might have a neighborhood app for that, too.
Look out, your mother's glassware and China might languish online. Much of that is full of lead and heavy metals, too. So, probably ok for us older people, not so much for small kids. Don't leave food/booze in particular (leeches more) IN containers for long.
Collector's anything will probably languish online. I think I've sold a set of 3. That's it so far. It got less than I paid for it, for sure.
Books-the rule is: avoid much I can easily get at the library. Don't keep books I've outgrown or don't look nice on the shelf (get rid of most dust jackets).
I'm keeping the cds. I like fidelity. MP3s are awful. Dvds, same. I've had stuff vanish off my computer, so we won't do that again. Thousands of my files-gone...
@@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 Loads of good advice there. 👍 Thank you.
God Bless you for caring for your mother. Don't ever grow up too much.... I don't plan to!!
I would say go for it , family are advising us o go into sheltered accommodation ,or a home . No way stay independent and you will discover yourself and your destiny and purpose in life. Don’t trust your well being to your own children and in-laws even . You can make it .
I like how you said that having a plan B or even C is not out of fear it's just being smart. So true.
Hi Travel Grandma! 👋 I love your channel ❤️ Have you done a live stream yet? I might have missed it.
You are an inspiration! I'm not lonely either. I talk to myself, I talk to the little dog, I talk to the air, I talk to my mom who passed a few years ago. It doesn't matter if they are in hearing reach or not. I'm good at keeping my self company. Didn't we always try to have our kids occupy themselves so we could get things done? We needed to teach them to take care of themselves once in a while, and how to be resourceful. It's no difference. I love my own company, and my Lord is always with me. I'm not alone.
You are so right, April. Indepence + confidence + peace of mind = freedom to enjoy the world.
Amen and Hallelujah!
Your vlog was coming from my heart. Steps are not always baby in size. Sometimes it’s a plunge just go and stopping the “Analysis paralysis”. I dreamed and studied for about 3 years the nomad track after I saw my first TH-cam Van-lifer…what a joy I found to look forward once retiring. A year and a half ago I found my van, sold my home and possessions, found a huge shop( prior business) on an acre in a very small town and state. After working on the van I’m now on the 6th day out traveling in the southeast heading at a leisurely pace stopping a couple of nights in campgrounds here and there. I agree with your astute observation, to go while the door is open because you never know when it will close! Thank you stating it so beautifully. Take care Stay safe! 🚺
Oh, Gma. We are kindred souls! ❤️ Your story is mine. I dreamed of being a travel writer 2 decades ago, studied videos and was planning to go, bought my van and was putting it all together. Then my house sold WAY too fast, I only had days to get rid of everything. No storage unit. My poor van was packed so you couldn't find the bed. I gave away, threw away and hit the road to sort it all out. But I feel I have to be gentle with people that shouldn't leave the nest too soon. They can't all take flight like we did. 😊
Please pray for me ladies I so much want to do this journey but my other half is afraid he's afraid to make changes pray that God will open his heart and his eyes to let go all this materialistic thing enjoy taking every moment
@@kellierae7602 praying for you. I hope your other half can take the plunge. Probably it’s overwhelming for him, but if he went he would enjoy himself. Sometimes some people need a little push.
Lovely!
I'm a 52 man who lost a wife a year ago for prepping for the times ahead! Stay strong family from Ava Missouri 💪🙏🤠🌻
Hi Kowboy. I'm sorry for your loss.
@@ButterflyTracks
Everything is a blessing 🌻💪🙏🤠
Loneliness is a state of mind…our pets keep us busy too. I have 2 little dogs too. They are our life.
Hi Shellie. 👋 You are so right about fear and our fur-babies. ❤️ 💙
I'm in the process of selling everything. I'm trying to figure out my plan of being on the road. Fears are a reality. I have been telling myself safety and plans are not truly fear, but the wisdom to take care of yourself. The what if-s....I am conquering by telling myself "what if you have an enjoyable time?" Thank you Jan, for the insight.
Hi Old Enough! I think you've got this
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Enjoy your journey life is short😊
@@DebbieD7777 Words of wisdom. 👍
You can do more than what you think🌺
'what if you have an enjoyable time' That's great!
I'm glad I found you, you have a great outlook and very inspiring. I'm 78 and ready to go.
Hi Gloria 👋 Thanks for going with me on this big adventure. 🙂
Don’t delay. Enjoy every moment!
I'm older and thought It was too late to caravan but I will take a vacation to test out my options. Tu
What a great outlook on fear and loneliness. I’m so excited to take this journey with you. Thank you for bringing those of us who are unable to begin our adventure yet with you!
Hi Marilyn. 👋 I'm glad to have you with me. ❤️
Greetings from New Zealand. I'm really enjoying your channel. I have learnt from others that you need park your vehicle with the nose pointing towards your exit so you can get out fast
for your safety if nessary.
I really appreciate your openness. Thank you.
Hi Allison. 👋 That’s a good tip. Where to stay safely for free could be whole video. 🤔
Staying for Freedom comes of a feel when I'm wearing out west if you watch campervan coming he has all kinds of information on this
RE:Minute 7:14 You have no idea how accurate this feeling is for me too. I am so happy you began this journey and shared with all of us! Thank you Jan!
Thank you so much, Cheri. 💙
I carry 2 weapons in my RV. One by the drivers seat and one by my bed! So far haven't had to pull it! Thank goodness!
Agree, I have a few things handy. 👍
Your "What if..." thoughts at the end of your video were beautiful, and so true. Thank you for your inspiration.
Thank you, Dani. 😊
Aloha from Hawaii ( Big Isl ) Wow 81yrs Old....Looking Good ! Godbless🤲 Just seeing your Video Felted your a Good Human Soul and Down to Earth. I'm Happy your enjoying Life and Traveling 😊. I've been Working in the Healthcare Fields with Seniors 🧓👵. Just Retirement Early in this Pendemic 🌎. In the Future I'll Travel and enjoy Life ! I'm Happy your Enjoying Your Life! Hea Age it's a Number ! God give you excellent Health 🙌 Enjoy it ! Looking Foward for More Videos... Mahalo for Sharing !!
Aloha, Larry. Thank you for working with elderly. It must have been really hard and very rewarding. I hope you have a chance to live your dream.
Actually, I was talking to my future self in 10 years. I'm 71 now. 🙂
Glad to be sharing your journey. I’m always imagining myself doing what you do. 💚
Our Facebook group for women only is very supportive and full of information. We have women only meetups and caravans. I hope you can join us.
When you apply for membership please agree to the rules so moderators will accept you. 💙🦋💙
Butterfly Tribe Women who Camp:
facebook.com/groups/794347871824247/?ref=share
Hi, Jan. First time viewing your site. You are handling being on the road well. I was forced to live out of my car many years ago after a bad divorce. You have a good set up:) Much more serene existence than mine was. I would not choose to go back to that for myself but, if it became necessary, it’s like riding a a bike:) I found the hygiene and bathroom issues the toughest to cope with. That and not looking obviously homeless. That said, you get to really know yourself and to become self reliant out of necessity. You are doing a great job of being on your own. Kudos❤️👍
Hi Susan. 👋 Taking off prepared and excited to see the most beautiful sites in the world is so very different from what you went through. I'm sorry you had to go through that. You must be a very strong woman.
Once we differentiate lonliness with aloneness, we can really appreciate being alone. In fact, we crave it. However, we are never really alone, God is always with us.
Amen!
That's right you have us. You will never have to feel lonely ❤️
Thank you, Vienna. I'm glad to have you with me on my adventures. 😊
Thank you for your input on camping about loneliness & fear. I think it is necessary to trust your own instinct and hear the little voice we all have. Safe travel ma'am.
Thank you, Diana. You are right. 🙂
Congratulations Brave Lady❣ Encouragement is a fine gift🤗👵🌞
Why, thank you. Ethel. 😊 Your words are encouraging. ❤️
I needed to hear this! I just spent my last dime on used 01 Dodge Ram van, gave my 30 days notice to landlord, selling all my stuff. Xoxo
Hi OGLola 👋 I would say "you go girl" but you are already going! Good for you. 👍 🙂 Safe travels. Let me know if you have any questions I might help you with.
@@ButterflyTracks thank you. My family and children against me yet they can’t offer me a place stay. :(
@@flyg74 It may take your family a while to get used to the idea. Show them you are thinking it out, planning as much as you can and trying to be safe. They are still in the negative "what if" stage. Work on getting them to the positive what ifs.
My family is supportive and and enjoying watching my journey. They weren't at first because they care and they worry.
@@ButterflyTracks thank you so much I feel better already.
Jan , you are so lovely and such a nice person to listen to. You look great. Keep Safe. You are very sensible. Greetings from Adelaide, Australia.
Thank you so much, Janet! 🤗
Respect. She doesn’t take unneccesary risks and learns as time goes on.Very open minded and logical.
Thank you, David. 🙂
I like very much your heartfelt comments on van life. Thank you!!
Thank you. S. Magdaleno. 🙂
Sisters on the fly or Van life with senior groups. Safety in numbers.
Hi Mary. 👋 I took advantage of their offer in Las Cruses. I'm very grateful.
Lived much ofy life in NM. Miss those sunsets. And yes, wind and cold this time of year are a real thing there. People don't realize how cold the desert can get. Hope all continues to go well.
Thank you, Wanda. 🙂 ❤️
Defently beautiful landscapes have fun and enjoy your view
Hi Daniella. 👋 Thank you for watching.
Love the snow 🌨️🌨️🌨️🌨️🌨️
glad I found you ... I like how you think ... I've been surrounded by people and been very lonely ... you're only lonely if you don't like the person you're with ... you go girl! you've got it figured out!
I am fixen to be 54 and fear has held me back. Funny that you said baby steps, that is exactly what i been doing. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and experiences with me. Prayers go out for safe travels. 🙏
Hi Raenae. 👋 Sounds like you're heading in the right direction. 👍
Hi Jan 🙋♀️ Enjoyed the video, beautiful scenery, stay safe and safe travels ❤️🙂
Thanks so much. 💙🦋💙
I’m generally fearless but I do listen to my gut. 2 1/2 yrs full time and loving it. I do carry bear spray, air horn, fish bite loud alarm, car alarm and a 9mm Luger none of which have I had to use. I have a motion sensor lights on van doors so if someone walks up I can see who it is. I also have window vents so I can hear them talk and do not have to open my door.
Hi Patricia. 👋 I think you've got it covered 😉
Hi Patricia where do you get sensor lights for your van doors? Would love this! Oh and I’ve camped on BLM land and some are so close to a main road and very quiet 🤫
@@patriciapeters5526 wow I like the longer bit stay safe🇦🇺
Thanks for another peaceful video, Jan. I really enjoy your content. There's enough frenzie in the world. Happy travels!
Hi Susan 👋 Thanks for being here 😊
You are amazing, such a strong women! Thank you for sharing your adventure with us and those are two cute travel companions you have. Safe travels and look forward to your next video.
Hi Carol. 👋 Thank you for joining me on this life-changing journey. ❤️
Hi Jan,
So beautifully put. I could feel the push pull of emotions and the peace of having overcome them.🥰
Thanks for being here. 💙🦋💙
Jan, I’m so glad I found your channel. You’re an inspiration and I appreciate your adventurous spirit.
Thank you so much, Ami. Welcome to the Butterfly Tribe. 💙 🦋 💙
Jan! I'm so grateful (and not surprised) that I found you! The universe is definitely YELLING at me.
My name is Jan, I have 🦋 blue Butterflies on everything because I've been drawn to them all of my life. I've been watching and dreaming of van life for about 5 years now, I started with Pam the van, I believe she goes by Wild she goes now.
I'm 62 years old and bored. But I still have obligations that keep me rooted... but I can't wait!
Anyhow, I'm a smoker, love smoking, and I'm really bad at being TOLD to do something. But I have really bad circulation and have been told to quit if I want to live... and keep all of my body parts... lost a toe to bad circulation.
So I hope you don't mind, but I'm going to use your intro words..( I remembered I could fly), and your videos as my motivation for my future. I still can't belive I found a TRAVELING JAN who loves BLUE BUTTERFLIES! Thank you SO much for sharing your journey. I hope you stay safe, and have the best time of your life!
Wow, Jan! 💙 🦋 💙 I want you to stay healthy so we can meet sometime in the not too distant future. I won't tell you not to smoke, but saving that money could go toward a van and gas. 🤑 Life is already short and health problems could be your cocoon. Get started breaking free of the cocoon 'cause you can fly!!!
Almost forgot. We have a new Facebook group for women who are interested in traveling and camping. It's for women only. A safe place to exchange information about nomad adventures, caravans and meetups.
Butterfly Tribe Women Who Camp 💙 🦋 💙
facebook.com/groups/794347871824247/?ref=share
@@ButterflyTracks popping over to face book now!
@@ButterflyTracks thank you for replying. Yes! I will save allot by quitting, a carton of cigarettes is $50 and more lately.... and yet I continue! Oy!
I hope we do meet someday, Jan is becoming a rare name, so I'm always happy to meet a name sister.
( and thanks for NOT telling me to throw out "those nasty things" lol!
Stay safe Jan
For 8 years I was a pilot car and traveled all over the place and got paid for it. I got to see a lot of the US. I loved it. God Bless and keep you safe...Happy Trails 🤠
Thank you, Debbie. 👋 You must have made some great memories.
@@ButterflyTracks Great Memories and alot of pictures. It was an awesome time to get to know myself and meet all different people. Love Love Loved it
Thankyou for showing such a beautiful scenic drive
Hi Kenneth. There are so many scenic drives! I want to see it all.
I have forced myself to learn a new vocabulary. I am not “Alone”, I am “SOLO”. I HAVE CREATED A SANCTUARY with my life. My SOLITUDE is my DIVINE PEACE. These words remove all fear from living the BEST LIFE I can give myself. I see people that need to be codependent to be able to feel complete!! I don’t judge. But… tomorrow is not promised to no one!! LIVE LIFE, and LIVE IT FULLY!!
I was just thinking something similar today: in the space you occupy, within your skin, you are a sovereign being with full power and rights to take charge of your life and live it to the fullest.
I too am a solo woman camper/car camper. I bought a tent with full intentions of camping. Fear kept me from going. 4 years later I told myself i will never go if I'm waiting for someone else to go with me. So, i packed up and went! I love going solo. Let me tell you a hidden gem. Sugarite canyon state park in New Mexico. Small and lots of trails to explore. Happy camping! 🌅
Hi Angela. 👋 I'm so glad you left your cocoon. Feels great to spread your wings, right? 🦋
Home is where you park. Accept your uniqueness and that your safe warm and embraced by the light and love of god. ❤
Glad I came across your channel, I enjoy the pretty pictures and music. Thank you!
Hi s Jordan. Thank you for watching. ☺️
I have been doing this for 5 years. At first I was nervous, not really afraid, but I made it work. At first I was nervous about BLM camping, but now I love it. I love the privacy. But I do still deal with loneliness. However, I do camp with others, within a few days I find myself ready to go back to being alone. I prefer being alone in a beautiful place.
Hi Sherry. 👋 You are speaking my language. 🙂
Lovely camp site with a beautiful 😍 lake
Thank you, Sandra. 🙂
Gorgeous Sunset! 🌞😀
Great content all is so true Thank You. 76 now with a camper and enjoy using it and will use it more!!
Good for you! 🙂👍
Beautiful images and I liked your take on life. Great to face and overcome your fears, THAT is freedom!!!
There is so much more to explore and new things to try. 🙂
Love your videos! Your voice is so calm and soothing. NM has some of my favorite state parks; reasonably priced and consistently nice. Looking forward to more of your adventures…..thank you for sharing!
Hi Bette. 👋 I could do a whole video on how great NM parks and rest stops are. Thanks for joining me on the journey. ❤️
I wish I had done this years ago but now I have a back injury and I really don't have that much Mobility but I sure love watching all the videos of all you guys who are doing it
Well I am not a nomad just an old granny but being alone has never bothered me.
Hi Cynthia. 👋 You are comfortable with yourself. That's the way it should be. Thanks for watching.
Love your dogs. 🤍🇬🇧🤍
Me too. ❤️ 💙 Thank you, Terry. 🙂
So glad to find your channel. Thanks for sharing...everything. God bless you abundantly.
Thank you so much, Paula. ❤️
You can be in a party full of people and be totally alone. Solitude on the other hand is an oasis for the mind, the ultimate tranquility we all secretly desire
Hi Hunter. 👋 Very well said.
So glad this 70 yr ran across your videos a couple of days ago. I think I’ve seen them all now. I full timed in a large motor home for 13 years, then moved to tent camping the past two summers. Now have an older Pleasure Way van and in the process of getting it put together the way I want. I like your take on being safe, not fearful. Reading Walt Whitman over the top of the images is really cool! What you say, how you say it, and what scenes you show are meshing wonderfully. Thank you and keep ‘em coming please.
Thank you, Pam. 😊 I'm glad to have you with me on the journey. More to come.
Hi Pam,
I too am a 70yr old solo vanlifer. I have been full time in my van for 2 yrs now and spent a short time in my suv and before that I car camped for a couple years. Not howdy! The things we learn on this journey! I just discovered Jan’s site and am so looking forward to meeting up with the group often.
Hi Charlotte. 👋 So far, the meetups I've been to have been with women who are part time or new to vanlife. I'd love to have a meetup that is for fulltime vanlife women. I wonder if part timers would be offended.
Loving your solo travel journey! I'm all about exploring non-touristy destinations too.
There is so much to see. 💙🦋💙
I think it always depends on the person. I love being alone where no one knows where I am. I wish you the best and safest experiences.
Hi Sky TechBits. 👋 Thanks for joining on this big adventure.
Your right. Most of what we fear never happens. 2 years ago I wrote here that I was leaving. But my van had too many issues. I am on the last repairs. Maybe this Spring.
I hope so! 💙🦋💙
Wow I know this park. I was stationed at Cannon AFB 1983-1986. Spent a lot of time here picnicking. How cool! Glade you enjoyed! Much Aloha!!❤️🌈🤙
Hi Kama'aina 👋 Thank you for your service. 🙂 Isn't it nice to revisit old stomping grounds?
Well, hello there !
We were stationed at Holloman AFB from 1976-1979 just fresh from BT.
I love NM where my oldest daughter was born and we have gone back on family’s vacations several times over the years.
Retired in Austin Texas and no plans to move anywhere anymore.
Thanks for the video. Sunset was beautiful.
Western sunsets are amazing. Thanks Lori. 😊
Thanks for sharing your adventures with us.
Hi Ginger. Thanks for coming along with me. 🙂
Really appreciate your candor, thanks!
Thank you, Shirley. 😊
I love that last shot! Good job! 🤗🤗🤗
Hi Finding My Muse 👋 I subscribed to your channel. 😊
@@ButterflyTracks oh my gosh - thank you so much! 😍😍😍 Let me make sure I’m subscribed to you as well! 🤗🤗🤗
Hi Jan, Beautiful footage! Thank you for your wisdom...
Hi 👋 CC_photo_lady. Thanks for watching. 💙
Just watched your video. So glad you changed your mind about rest stop. I looked up safety info on them and the answer was not to stay the night. Your talk on fear was right on point. I hope to be out there at the end of the year but I’m buying a class C. I have some health issue where the Van won’t be comfortable for me and being a senior comfort is big for me. And you are so on point about being by yourself. Also Bob and Susan have this sort of meetup thing for people that don’t want to travel alone. You don’t have to stay in a group you’re just meeting up with people who want to be around other people be not be with them. The video on how to do it is on TH-cam. But thank you for posting. I’ll look at your other videos too. Have safe travels.
Thank you, Lady V. Safety first. 👍 My timing has been off for the caravans.
Thanks for bringing us along on your trip. Beautiful scenery!
Hi DL. 👋 Thanks for coming along with me. ❤️
Very well made video you are very correct it is better to think of what might happen rather than fear what could have happened .
Thank you, and you are so right. ❤️
I'd go to safety rest stops, Loves, pilot n petro etc.So much is true of what you said. You are truly a strong and brave woman your determination is breathtaking
Thank you, Berni. ❤️
I really enjoy your view, your perspective...I really need do this also.....eight years in my humble abode and time to pull up the anchor...
Thank you, Ventusky. 👋 I understand your need to stretch your wings and test them. 🙂
Beautiful scenery. I am sure your dogs keep you a lot of company.
Yes, they do. They love the van. 😍👍
Thank you for the video. Blessings to you.
Thank you for watching, Gail.
Thank you for sharing, I like being alone, it actually has helped my inner being... your smart to go with your feelings, if it doesnt feel right change it
That's right. 🙂👍
BEAUTIFUL...sky, 🥰🥰😍
I'm learning to really appreciate the artistic displays in the sky. 😍
Your four-legged 'like toddlers' reference. Too funny! 🐾😆🐾 lol!
Thanks, Paris. They're a handful. 🙂
Thanks for sharing your beautiful mountains with me.
Hi Clara. 👋 I'm looking forward to sharing as much of America the beautiful with you as I can. ❤️
You go girl!
😊
I agree with your perspective on travel companions. So true that one's plans are altered when its necessary to consider another's plans. Your editing has beautifully improved! Nice transitions and music inserts. Great job!
Thank you, Watch Out! That means a lot to me. 🙂
Great video Jan. Love the plan to watch your own videos later in life. You are so right, facing your fear, overcoming it, then you look back with pride, a sense of success and "why did I think that was so tough?". Be well!
Thank so much, Ann. 😊 We all should live every day.
Great video thanks for sharing looking forward to the next episode
Thank you, Calvin. 😊
I think it was beautiful in its own way. Quiet. That's tranquil. God to heal bad nerves. One reason I'm playing catchup on your video sequence, is because after having poison ivy for about 6 weeks, I got shingles for about 6 weeks. On the top n rt. side of the head.Forehead, face over to the ear and in my nose and began in my eye. So now I'm binge watching cause I feel as if I don't want to miss a video.
I love all the scenery, music, anecdotes, poetry and just some good smarts, intuition and wisdom.
You're also spot on with loneliness and fear. I can't start out, but I can sleep in my driveway. Test out my bed system to see if it needs tweaked before heading out.
I also just watched Bob Wells n Brian's self-defense video. Hope for the best, but prepare for the worst. I even asked about what type of handgun would be advisable for me, me stature, age, strength.
If we don't ... we'll always wonder. Hmmm... 🤔 What if.
On fear of isolation, breakdowns, ...
I hear there are Caravans of RVers, vanlifers and carlifers. So one might catch up with a caravan, or begin one. 🤔 I'm not sure sky BLM land. 🤷♀️
Well that's enough binging for now. Have a God day/ evening/ night and take care.
I live your comments, Cheryl. 🙂 I feel like I'm reliving it all through your eyes. Thank you. 😊
@@ButterflyTracks You are certainly very welcome. And enjoy the rest of your week.
First Time here and really enjoying your vacation from the unreal world we are living in! I’m gonna be around a while, I can tell. I’m 70 and it just dawned on me - Seems I lost the last 10 years. They weren’t fun. Foreclosures, betrayals, Loss and plenty of bad advice. Re-evaluating and praying for divine guidance. Atleast I like mysel. Always feel better alone. Used to go to Italy, alone- 6 times, but in reality I was never alone. Back to square 1, now. Do I dare brush off my easel and go to the beach and become the Artist I am, trapped in a Catlady’s body? Well, I better do something, quick! Wish me luck! Thanks for being an inspiration, Jan!
Hey, Jan. Sounds like you're turning a page. 👍
Beautiful sunset pictures near the end...what an amazing experience it must be to see it first hand in wide-open country...just you and nature.
That's right, Beverly. "Just you and nature" is an indescribable connection.
@@leen8111 That’s right. I'll spend more time there someday.
Que linda y valiente♥️Nueva suscriptora ♥️
God’s Blessings on you dear. I understand I am lonely too.
Hi Kathy. 👋 I can feel what good soul you are. Solitude is beautiful. Loneliness is sad. But either one is a choice.
I love the peacefulness of that campsite. I'm glad you're showing this because I know where I can park with an RV..I just don't know where conversion vans and minivans can park/camp. I'm gonna be following your travels like crazy. I know exactly what you're talking about when someone rides with you . I had a friend who at the last minute decided she was gonna ride across country with me. We have different times that we wake up different things we're interested in different music and times you want to be quiet when nature calls for it and it did make it somewhat challenging. It takes away that freedom you have when you're out there even when you love them!
Hi, Brenda. 👋 Vans and minivans have more overnight options than RVs. I can take a drive up tent site. ⛺️
Give Coco and Susie a big hug for me. Hope that you are enjoying your "tracks".
Hi Sushi Roll. Suzi is in my lap now and Coco is asking to go for a walk. Thanks for watching.
This was a lovely video.
Hi Ida 👋 Thank you for watching.
Keep up the education. Thanks.
Thank you, Pat. 😊
Good talk on this video, following your instincts are always the right move.
Hi Jo. 👋 Thanks for watching. ❤️
Great advice, great video. 💛🇬🇧💛
Thank you. Terry. ❤️
Thank you!!!
Wow, you are an inspiration! Thanks for sharing your travels
Thank you, Aggie. 🙂
Great music!
Thank you, Rod!
I love the fact your doing this. I’m in process of selling everything.
Hi Susan. 👋 You are lightening your load. It feels good when you're done.
To see someone Living there Life is Wonderful. God Bless You. Happy travels
Thank you, Dirt Digger. 👋
Hello there Butterfly💜thank you for bringing us your little adventure
Hi Wanna Wander. 👋 Thanks for coming with me.
Great music!!!!!
Thank you, Shannon. 🙂
This is the 1st video of yours I have watched. Love your beautiful shots and love the music! Can't wait to watch more. Thank you. 💕
Thank you, Mystery. 🙂 I'm learning as I go. Thanks for being my guest on this big adventure.