Van Life: 7 Biggest FEARS and How to Overcome Them!
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After a day or two I was over my fear I'm 57 and my family thought I was crazy. 😆 🤣 😂 I'm 9 months into my vanlife and now they're saying you're smart. I'm happier than ever! I don't care what people say or think I'm living life According to what makes me happy! ❤️ 👍
Awesome I like your choice, I'm happy for you 😀😊. Take care and trust your gut instinct in situations where things don't feel right. 🙂👍🌄
I’m in a van 🚐 now, living off grid on my property in rural area.
Love it
The main reason I can't do van life is that I'm not a US citizen.
As it should be; live your life according your what makes you happy, not what others think you need to be happy. Good for you
Same here almost 2 years in. Will never go back ✌️🚐❤️
I bought a 15 year old van.
Took out the seats and bought a twin mattress.
Sleeping bag. Hit the road, and I make it up every day as I go.
Best advice.
Just Do it.
Wow, impressive.
When I moved into my SUV 3 over years ago, I had very little notice since I made the decision to leave my abusive wife and Beach House.
One of my favorite tools to help me live a safe and secure life is my good old Boy Scout Hand Book! It's full of tips and lessons on not only Living outdoors but Thriving in Life as well. I had no idea that the lessons learned in scouting would prove so valuable to me today. Knowledge is the Best Weapon to fight fear and with it, I'm quite Safe, Secure...
And so Very Happy!!!
Remember, the hardest move on any Journey is always The First Step...
I love that you're using the Boy Scout handbook!
Sorry to hear about the abuse. But happy you are living g your best life now
@Rick Cooper. you are proof that having a dreamy beach house which most people would “die” for is not all that people think. I lived with being beaten for years. never ever thought of leaving. You have already done the hardest part by leaving. You will be the happiest you have ever known as time goes by. Good luck and so many blessings to you
@@Gene.Guazzo My biggest hurdle was to find the courage to leave...
After that, Life just kept getting better.
I once spent a fortune to Live near the beach, in a house...
Now I get to sleep ON the Beach, in my SUV....FOR FREE!!!
I now travel the world with all the money I save.
Sorry about your previous problem but I'm glad you Decided to leave without issue.
What year SUV do you have?I have a 1997 Ford Explorer it's a little tight but it works for me. I hope the SUV you have is working for you.... Safe travels
I wanted to start car camping/overlanding. Got the rig all setup... but was afraid to actually do it. Had a friend berate me (in a good way) and basically talked me into just sleeping in the driveway one night. Then went on a weekend trip with friends. Then spent two weeks out. Then a month. So on and so forth. What ended up happening is that I got addicted to being out and I dont want to go back. It is life changing, but in the best way possible.
That's a great suggestion. At least for me. Think I'll try it.
Love this! I'm at the same place.
What a great friend!
Absolutely! No one will make you make it an all or nothing thing except yourself. I kept my apartment for the first 6 months. I slept my first night in the parking lot. Over five years since I let go of my apartment, for me, there's been no regrets.
Great way to do it.
Great information. Fear doesn’t keep you from dying. It keeps you from living 😊
Well said!
You said it!
WELL SAID😊
Great quote!✌
Like Bob said, a certain degree of fear is healthy. It’s kept me alive through many risky undertakings (no pun intended) during most of my 73 years.
It’s better to move in silence, and achieve what you want to achieve in life without anyone knowing. Too many people and family members out here that will crush your ambitions and dreams in life. 💚💚💚
You got that right, being an adult and my only child is an adult I don't have to keep him and his family abreast of every move that I make or ask them for their blessing. Because yes that's exactly what they would do..."Only because they love me"
Thank you, Bob. Getting my van tomorrow. Been wanting to do this for several years. Im going to take baby steps. I might even name my van "Baby Steps". Say a prayer for me.
Baby Steps lead to wonderful adventures 🎉🎉
Awesome name. I love it. Baby steps.
First step. Insulate.
Never know what your temps will be.
Four season proof.
Minimum. Otherwise it will rain inside. Tint windows or black them out.
Learn how to STEALTH CAMP.
GET A JUMP BOX.
have tools for basics. Study study study study....
Wacth tons of videos
Get ideas.
Never ever stop asking questions about the van life.
This time around has beem since 2-21.
This is my third time. Im 56. I still need to work. But...im debt free. Be free.
Enjoy
I'm still saving for van and emergency fund. Vans are so EXPENSIVE now.
Do you know that the day I bought my RV at the dealership and told the salesman I was leaving that day to drive RT 66, he actually told me he “hoped I had a gun with me.” What a vote of confidence! The day after buying the RV I started out. Returned home 6 weeks later. I learned a lot on the way. But FEAR a was never an issue…..I always play the “so what if?” Game. What if I have a flat tire? Okay then this will happen. What if I get lost, breakdown, get sick???? I go over the whole scenario until the end. It’s called life. I just live it.
Great advice!
All the information you presented here has been what I've been thinking about. I'm a senior woman in a small car and 2 dogs. I've practiced sleeping in my car and while doing so, made copious notes on what needed to be better. I'm very close to being ready. I'm hoping by May I'll do my 1st solo trip with my dogs to the GC. Wish me luck. And maybe one day I'll see you on the road. 😊
What is the GC?
Cathy Jordan: G
Grand Canyon
@@MyCleverHandle Grand Canyon.
Congrats on your journey! Now, enjoy LIFE!!
I really appreciate this video. Fear is a real inhibitor. I lost my husband in 2020 we camped together for 40 years. Now at 76 I started setting up my sienna. I would be so much more comfortable if I had someone to caravan with. The idea of meet ups sounds perfect to get comfortable and make friends .
Yeah. Sounds great.
Definitely need to have a buddy. Someone whos got your back.
Seriously.
Its still dangerous out there alone.
Especially at 76.
Im 56 and have some physical abilities to fend off the evil.
But......
Learn learn learn.
Get some mace.
Get some types of protection.
I have a BurnaSD pistol.
Just wacth your back.
ALWAYS BE AWARE OF YOUR SURROUNDINGS
Small steps is key. We sold our house and got a big camper , 34ft . We stayed in a camp ground that is year round for 500 per month, utilities included. Even doing that it is a step in the right direction.
How did you find a campground like that?
@@kathyharmon2093 just do a Google search there’s places all over the country like that.
I used to have 34 and 25 foot trailers and rented a 1/3 acre lot in Oregon for $450 a month. Water/sewer was $130 a month minimum. I now live in Costa Rica in a 7 bed/5 bath house with 4 car garage on 23 acres paying $153 a month rent. My water/Sewer/trash is $6 a month, my electricity $12 to $15. Internert $12, Cellphone $4. National Health Catre that pays 100% costs $65 a month for self and wife. A hwell of a lot better than the $170 a month for 80% coverage with Medicare my first month retired. My biggest fear with an RV was having a break down when moving. And that happened when hit by a semi in a heavy rain. Coulkd not identify the truck and that is why I rented the lot for 9 years. The 34 ft trailer was no longer road worthy and would not have been allowed in a trailer park due the damage.
th-cam.com/video/MyExsBo7m58/w-d-xo.html
We're at that campground
That's a smart move. You can find places to live like that all across the country.
I always say "Fear is the greatest motivator on the road to success"! April 8th I'll be heading out on a 7 month, 8,000 mile trip Bob.....couldn't have done it without you and the community! Been following you for 12 years 😀
Dam? 8000 miles? Where?
Great video! I have suffered anxiety driving more than 1/2 hour from my house by myself due to some past trauma I have really been working on this for years and I recently drove 2 hours by myself. I have never been so proud of myself for that. It has always been a reason I didn't think I could nomad life. Now I know I will be able to do it!
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I WILL REMEMBER your courage and Strength when I let fear overwhelme me thank you You ROCK 🥊
You are obviously going to beat your fear because that is great progress!
I don’t like to travel probably over 50 miles from my house. Afraid of having an anxiety attack. My mine wants to be adventurous but this fear holds me back. It is stressful at times feeling this way.
How did you overcome this?
Been in my van for 2 years now. It really is true freedom. My biggest suggestion is have a reserve fund for unexpected break downs. It does happen but you shouldn't fear it. The vanlife community is very friendly and many are very willing to help others in need if you find yourself struggling.
What's your favorite state to post up in?
Thanks for the story. I bought a Subaru for living in.
I am having great difficulty locating other car livers in my community where can I find these ppl? I tried Facebook but not much on there
Winston Churchill said when asked what is success....to go from failure to failure with no loss of enthusiasm. When I decided just over 4 years ago to retire (58 at the time) sell the condo and get a Promaster Cargo Van, I was also really apprehensive. It was just so much easier and safer to continue doing what I was doing and earning a paycheck in the process. Long story short, I followed though because life is more than just work, work , bought the van , fixed it up and have now travelled the western side of the country from the west coast to TX and straight up to SD and ND and all the states in between. Every year do I travel a rectangular block starting in the south and ending in the south again. Best decision I've made in years. Not everything is fun and games for sure but at the very least do I feel that I'm getting some life out of life. We have the most wonderful parks and historical places to visit and visit again.
Right on
ABSOLUTELY.
My plans as well.
Living in my cargo van
A lil rough
But no rent.
As a carpenter
In WA.
Wow
The rent here is stupid high.
Now....
Bc of that..im now debt free.
Fk the tax man as well.
And the crime.
Fear doesn’t stop you from dying..It prevents you from living.
Fear is a great passenger but you can’t let it drive you.
Your points about natural disasters was spot on. I live in Florida, and every year we spend most of June buying hurricane supplies, packing up stuff we can just grab and go, and making evacuation plans for the season. It's tiring, and meanwhile we have to worry if we even have a house to come home to. It'd be GREAT to just start the van/rv, and get outta dodge, with our mobile home in tact. I've been wanting to live the rv life for a very long while. I travel quite a bit already, because I have a roaming spirit. I'm finally trying to conquer my fear, stop neing so attached to my "stuff", and start selling some of it off, packing up for a small storage unit, and gonna sell the house and get a rig. Thanks, Bob. You've been an enormous influence for the 8yrs of me dreaming about the nomadic lifestyle. Gonna actually do it now. ❤️
I was 70 when I bought my first RV and went on the road working remote. I felt safer in my RV and in the campgrounds where I stayed then I did in some of the areas that I worked and walked in in the cities where I lived. I learned you have to trust your gut and use common sense. If a place doesn't feel right don't stay there. I'm met amazing people on the road and I found for the most part the people you meet on the road and in campgrounds are trying to have a peaceful life and get away from all this stress and craziness everywhere else. Fear to me is staying where you are and being unhappy or uncomfortable and stressed. I had to sell my RV because of medical issues at the time but By next Spring, I plan to have a new (to me) camper van, which will be easier to get around than the larger class C that I had before, and plan to work independently remote and travel this beautiful country!! and Bob it was your videos and a couple message you sent me that gave me the courage to do it the first time. Best time of my life...thanks!
As a senior, one of my biggest fears would be if I had a health emergency while out in the wilderness. I have some health issues and, along with my age (73) and my wife's reluctance to make the move, we have decided to stay in our sticks and bricks for now. I love your videos Bob, and have been a follower of yours for quite some time. We have a compact SUV that I could convert in no time should the unthinkable happen and I suddenly found myself alone. I love camping, having been doing so every summer since I was only 9 weeks old, as my parents were great outdoors enthusiasts.
As a person with sketchy health, that is really my biggest fear. If I'm alone in a remote area and fall, or get seriously ill, what then? I have been an outdoor, self-sufficient woman my whole life. So many of the fears you've mentioned are not an issue with me. It is the picture I have in my head of being immobile, needing physical help and not being able to get it. And echoes in my head of my family and friends saying, SEE??? Lol. Does anyone else struggle with this fear?
Health will improve in many ways, diet will include far less fast and processed food,les screen time on the couch , more fresh air..will be out of your new and normally smaller living space getting in tune with oneself in nature as we did pre computer, tv..with remote and maybe 8 channels until signing off air for the night.. reading more books, hiking, camp maintenance, more interpersonal communication and actually meeting other free born souls, a supportive community ..most helping a stranger far quicker than most family or friends...the ones thinking we are the insane ones for choosing to live the short life we are born into living in America and visiting the places the rats in the American Scheme...always saying..."man I'd love to"or " one day before I die id like to" ...while at home living to work.. enviously watching your new travel channel .. trying to figure how to see such beauty with the 7 days a year "vacation" after requesting permission to have a measly week per year excused from the daily commute to the same dang door leading to their security and daily grind working 240 days same ol sheeyat required to uphold their proper societal abnorms consuming at least 43% of the slave wages on rent, mortgage, utilities alone before fuel, car and home insurance,cable , home and vehicle maintenance, and chow depletes the remaining income.most already sick of the house they pay on 25/40 years ...most dying long before paying off and life's savings towards desired destinations now spent by spouses new spouse.
Few may live at least to or couple years past retirement and bucket list scratched off unable to hike Yellowstone (out running that bison) skydiving with fake kneecaps, shoulders, or the dang hoverchair. Viagra now useless as a screen door on a submarine...balls now do hang low or sagging teets rubbing waistline. Meds making the sun intolerable and bikini useless as teets on a boar hog. Plenty of time to chill" securely" when having depends soiled arse cleaned by strangers, fed with a slingshot in hospice . Grandpa spent 43 years in GM plant the other 46 years in a papermill...1st Dead 11 months into retirement, the other 34 months and my dad died this past June 23 months after retirement. Not I McFly!!!! I'm breaking the cycle at 49 yrs of age . And my family and friends think I'm the insane one.. technically I am with MRDD and extreme PTSD and constant anxiety..yet they still haven't realized they are the fools far more mental than I
Society Norms are the calling of capitalist agenda. This rats outta that race.. I'll take my cheese fresh...keep the elusive moldy cheese y'all hope to win one day.
I strive to roll my doobies while living in that van down by the river....lake..ocean shores I'm toking near or at. Fear dying...not living ✌️🍄🚐⌛
Thanks Bob, vanlife starts in 9 days for me and its starting to get real.
I started my nomad life in August 2020. Brand new travel trailer and I’m in the mountains of Colorado north west of Fort Collins. I spent three nights in the trailer the second night I had a bear at the door which was really cool that fourth day I went down to Fort Collins to get food. By the time I got back a Fire had started near me. They wouldn’t let me to my camper and all of my worldly possessions. I slept in my pick up truck on the side of the mountain road talking with the authorities daily. On the fourth day, they escorted me to my camper going in the back way. The fire was only a half mile away from the camper. It was a very interesting way to start nomad life. And I survived.
This is a timely video Bob! We are in the beginning stages of getting rid of everything, even my toys! Thank youv for your sage advice! We hope to be among the nomad community soon! Thank you!
Hang in there . I aswell
I might not want to get rid of all your toys. You gotta have something to play with while you’re out adventuring
@Buck Jones have you watched any of the sad videos of how many people are getting the knock and being told to move on even when you are parked legally. we are being forced to BLM land for which i am thankful to have. But one tuber said it got to the point where he had a fake sign made for his van just to be left alone. I know from where I live they are really cracking down in the San Diego area. They are putting signs up everywhere that says you can only park in public streets between the hours of 11pm and 5 am. Before you start out, please investigate these videos. It will be heartbreaking impunity what should be a new beginning.
Do share - how will you get rid of your things?
I'm having trouble getting it done; Goodwill donations? Garage Sales? a vendor?
So far it has been difficult
@@crackerjack6075 A few of the BEST videos I've seen on the info you're looking for is on the 'Brooke and Pippa' channel... If you go to her Playlists, you'll find one titled "Preparing to Live on the Road" In that playlist, you'll find Part 1 and Part 2 videos titled "Downsizing to Move to a Car, Van, RV etc" I found these videos EXTREMELY helpful! Good luck!
Bob knows how to present issues in his always great videos BUT what also needs acknowledgement is his commenters! Very helpful, encouraging and careful sharers! I always read them. So proud of you all!
Bob Wells is incredibly wise, immensely intelligent, and enormously helpful. I watch the his videos and come away inspired with growing faith. Thank you Bob.
Things that really helped me feel more comfortable: 1) Tint & Window covers. 2) Focus on Stealth over function. Basically, there’s no reason to bother a car that looks like a car. 3) Preparation. Have a plan for Getting Sick, Using the bathroom, Breakdowns, Police, Breakins, Hot/Cold extreme weather, Where to park. 4) Find a way to sleep laying down. Sleeping in the driver seat works for a little while, but it’s a huge difference to be able to lay down and STRETCH out. If you sleep in the driver’s seat, taking off your shoes can lead to dirty or wet socks/feet. It’s also not really comfortable.
If you have all three figured out, I’ve been able to sleep in the parking lot of a busy down town gas station and slept like a baby.
I’ve been sleeping in my car (Various models) since college. Decades ago. Covid really threw a wrench into sleeping in the car with everything closing so I went with diaper wipes.
I like our option. We have a small self built underground house near the Great Lakes and Canada. We also have traveled extensively much of our adult lives, spending 5 months or so in various other locales, hot springs, mountains, ocean beaches.
We garden in season and enjoy it. Solar electric since 1984.
I’m 74 years old.
Thank you so much for being the light of reason and wisdom you are, Bob! A dear friend and I were just speaking of you when this video popped up on my phone. It came at the perfect time! I'm heading out full time in two months. My mind is made up, and there's no turning back !
For me, it’s incredible watching the growth and evolution of VanLife-styles here on TH-cam. I’ve been living and vagabonding in a variety of RV’s (and raised a family) starting back in 1971. Yep, over 50 years of no rent or mortgage. Being a performing solo-musician allowed us to travel wherever we wanted to go, and I would get work in-house at resorts, and would often be there for a few years, so we weren’t traveling constantly…. Living on Faith, Grace, and Gratitude…
Happy Trails!
The money thing (and break downs) is the tough thing, for those who have to move soon and are poor seniors! A lot cannot take on jobs. Will have to start out without much of an emergency fund, and have vehicles that aren't in really good shape.
My family members are worried about me running out of money, and another one said “Don’t throw your life away! You’re better than that!”
Same here with my daughters
That's ignorance speaking on behalf of your relative. Who's life is it? Yours or theirs? Other people will destroy your dreams faster than anything else. Live your life, not theirs!
Sounds familiar...
It is difficult when those who you love so dearly and love you as much, are afraid for you. They may not understand the attraction or even look down on the life style. That is common. You may have your own fears. Let them know this is really important to you and you want to try it. They will likely have a rebuttal. You can acknowledge their concerns, but you have done a lot of research and this is something you ARE going to try. You know there will be bumps in the road and you have tried to prepare for them. None of this may work with them, but you will know you you have done what you could, in a calm and mature manner.
So they want you to stay plugged into the Matrix? Crabs in a bucket.
One of my favorite mantras is "do it afraid"... sometimes I just go ahead and start something even with fears lingering. 99% of the time, the experience is far easier and more rewarding than I could have imagined. Success in the experience gives my brain the proof that it possible!
Not being handy is a tough one. Almost forces me to need to buy everything new. A challenge.
Repairs can add up and cost a fortune if done by experts.
Need to figure out how to keep receiving physical mail is another one.
Got to have a physical address to renew drivers license, keep auto insurance etc.
Probably need a physical address for Medicare and VA benefits.
Will do it anyway but these things need to be addressed more often.
There have been several videos on this. Look up “mail service”.
Bob has videos addressing all these things. Check it out😊
Yes, there has been several videos, along with Bob's basic videos.
I think one of the biggest obstacles for me has been just being overwhelmed with all that needs to be done, the process of selling each and every item in my house, $5 for this, $15 for that, all the emails and calls and not wanting to give out my address to strangers to come check out the sofa, etc. I don’t feel attached to my stuff, but the process of getting rid of it all piece by piece … I just feel overwhelmed.
Secondly, what about when I’m too old to do this anymore? Perhaps too old to drive? Or health issues require staying put in a certain city? My house mortgage is 3.75%. Friends have said in todays economy, I’d be foolish to give that up, but I don’t want to be a landlord.
Hi Steve, we had a living estate sale. After paying the estate sale company their 35% we ended up with around $6500. It wasn't a lot, but a nice safety net. Good luck.
Just an idea ... but.. how about closing up the house and having the mail held and leaving for two weeks to a month? See what you think? See how you feel. I don't have a rig yet but when I get one that is what I plan to do. Just put things on 'pause' and head out. Or at least that is my tentative plan. :)
I sell on ebay part time and I can understand your trepidation about all those little things as I feel the same way. On top of that I know a lot of people sell on Marketplace but I don't want people coming to my house as I live alone.
In life there will always be roadblocks and there will always be options. Usually somewhere in the middle is what fits.
I woukd suggestbhaving an Estate Sale. Put as much in 1 or 2 rooms or the garage to sell. Have a few people at your home during the sale. For the larger items, take 1 person back at a time to look at them. In your ad for the estate sale, tell them they need to come with cash, their own lifting help & a vehicle/trailer to take the item(s) they buy. Whatever doesnt sell, donate it & there are charities that will pick up your larger items for free by scheduling it, except most don't take mattresses for health reasons.
Someone suggested to go on a month trip as a test, thats a good idea too just to get started 😊👍🙏 Good luck.
If you want to go, give your stuff away. Hire a property manager to take care of the landlording stuff, real estate companies offer that service. It will be tax deductible (I’m not a tax expert)
Find a management company and rent to CORPORATIONS. Their is new travelers in the CEO world. No more hotels. Or look into Traveling Nurses.
I've been a nomad for 7 years already, my biggest fear used to be breaking down in the middle of nowhere. Somehow I overcome that, now the fear I have after 7 years, is the new member in my family which is a cat. I always travel with dogs without a problem. But I had to rescue a cat from my sick and old uncle. I've been rescuing dogs and cats for over ten years now, I guess I could easily find a home for this cat. But......... There is a huge butt here........... I always wanted to travel with cats, but I was always afraid of losing them. Long story short I like cats better than dogs, I want to keep this one. But I really need to overcome my fear of having a cat on the road. Well first of all I'm a sucker for cats, but this one is special because he used to belong to my uncle. I really need to learn how to travel with cats, I would take any suggestions, ideas, and advices thanks.🐱
Check with Sara and Aaron at a channel called (I think) That Rv Overthere. They have a cat named Pam that they travel with. Best of luck with the new fur baby.
I have always traveled with cats, my take is that they are too smart to run away, they leave that to the dogs. Good luck
IMHO don’t let the cat out unless on a leash; too many dangers, predators.
I’ll be travelling with rescue cats.
Watch Dawn of Vanlife. She travels with a cat
The Cat Lady Van. In Canada. On TH-cam. Excellent!!!
Bob is such a good man
I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past, I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone, there will be nothing. Only I will remain. - Frank Herbert
Bob, for being an introvert (as you said yourself in another video), you have such a gift for helping humanity! You're a good organizer & motivator! God bless you 🙏
I have been working on my van for about a year now. I have made great friends on these nomad groups. They are experienced and so helpful to my preparations. I am a bit scared, but I want it too badly to let my fear take over. I also have anxiety. But I feel this could help me in my situation. If you want if bad enough, you will make it happen. Thank you!!
take baby steps. first you’re driveway for several times, then weekends at campgrounds.
I can’t live in Washington state anymore I was given a 1995 Thor extra large motorhome with less than 50,000 miles on it I’m on Social Security so the repairs take a while unbelievably this is the second motorhome I’ve been given must be the way I look this time is an escape I want to get out of Washington State all the bad all the water under the bridge the rain the coldSo I’m gonna go bacon and quartzite and I hope to see you all there and I’ll be looking for you Bob ha ha
I too have anxiety and I find it might increase the first night or two (bumps in the night, oh noh!) then once the adventure takes over it I use anxiety pills far less than I ever do at “home”.
Jump. That's what I keep telling myself. I've planned and iterated my car for years. But the weather has turned and I want to do the thing I said I'd do last year.
In the car camping/backpacking/bike-packing world, there is a term “packing your fear”, which basically means over-prepping & packing for every contingency (aka, trying to pack your entire house in a backpack/car/trailer, etc). Faced with not being able to feasibly do that, hard choices are made. But eventually you realize you don’t necessarily need everything you think you do. At the same time, you realize that you might need things/skills/methods that you didn’t need in a brick & mortar house.
Unless life dictates otherwise, ease into it with shorter trips with more amenities and moving to longer ones with fewer amenities.
My family totally freaked out when I told them I was going to start camping solo. After a few short weekend trips at local state parks, they lost that fear (and so did I). Those trips eventually migrated to longer ones and more remote ones. Their fears (and mine) have diminished quite a bit.
Am I ready to nomad F/T? No. Not ready to give up my career and home-base at my age. I might do it when I retire, but that will also be a decision with my husband who probably won’t want to do it given his history (unwilling nomad for many years).
The one that sticks with me is the fear of breaking down.
Right now I'm working and living in my class B. I had a major breakdown one Christmas Eve. It took 2 months for it to be fixed.
Thankfully, I had a local church family, and the mechanic was fine with me staying in it while working on it. Bob's video on 'camping out' in a U-Haul truck has relieved that fear for the future.
I grew up camping. But I watch videos on nomad life for tips and tricks, you interview such clever people! I finally have plans and accumulated my initial no build build from my house. I set up base camp. It is comfortable for ME.
All done as I fulfilled Plan A, no mortgage on a 5 acre native edible food forest in the mountains... aka base camp. Now my nomad home
Bob I met you two years ago in Scaddin Wash. I had prepared and watched your videos. I was in an Altima with house battery, mobile solar panels, bucket, inverter, and had the best time. I knew the Altima was too small for me and two dogs so I went back to AL, lived off grid for two years to save for a bigger rig.
I am on my maiden voyage right now in my 2015 GMC Savannah and revisited the spot where I met you those two years ago. I'm camping with a friend I met then and we have kept in touch this whole time.
I'm happy as a clam and want to thank you
I would love to be a nomad! Your advice is excellent and psychologists would completely agree. I realized while watching this video is: How would I keep my five cats safe and happy in a van??? (I also have two dogs, but they’re easy.) So, still watching your video, I opened my Amazon app and searched “portable large cat enclosures” and now I’m not fearful anymore. It would be a big change for them, but I think they would love being outside. It would be a lot of work for me, as I have chronic pain and can’t move well, but I’d probably have lots of help! ❤
Yep the fear is natural. I’m feeling it right now as I’ve sold or tossed all my possessions except a few things I’m taking with me such as my tools and guitar. I remodeled my home and is for sale. I’m buying a f-250 and a northern lite slide in camper and I’m going. This is my gift to me for my 60th birthday.
Thank you for this great video Bob!👏 A lot of great information. Your information works for nomads as well as others like me who’re looking to eventually get land and camp out while building a homestead. Both concepts come with similar pros/cons/fears etc. just like most things in life. It’s good to having the skills to deal with the ups and downs of any new aspiration or dream.
Fear of enough money and inclement weather are my two biggest fears, namely tornados. :)
The number one thing on my list is to walk through all the things I fear. And there's only one way of doing that, step by step is a cinch mile by mile is a trial. The fear I had in living in a van quickly dissipated when I spent one week alone in Colorado. It took me nearly 10 years the totally plan it out. But now I'm loving it.
I think the caravans would be a great way to begin my nomadic life, to learn, make nomadic friends and fet out there :-)
I agree with you Bob, I personally think that fears are most hereditary: others puts fears on us mostly, especially in this modern world where you can heard everything and the opposite of everything. But one thing is the solution: have your go in life, and face the fear because usually that fear will become your strength!
If you bail out of rat race, 🐀🏁 it will be hard to go back if you have to. Try to find rent without recent history and recommendations.
@@user70331 Credit is a thing of the past w/me anyways, it's too expensive, making others rich!
I shouldn't need recommendations, credit checks, etc...my word is my bond. If that doesn't get it, nothing else surely won't! Just my opinion!
There are three (3) main causes of most human fear. 1) Not knowing, 2) Not being sure. and, 3) Not being prepared. In this life, anything that can go wrong, and at the worst possible moment. - Murphy's Law
@@user70331 - It's easy if you have a wad of cash. I once paid 6 months in advance because I had made so many prior mistakes, errors and omissions nobody was going to rent to me and then... I flashed the cash. Suddenly the landlord's welcome mat rolled out. Another time, I wanted to rent. The asking rental fee was $850. I offered $1,000 in cash each month. The property manager lady could hardly wait to get her greedy manicured fingers on my cash.
@@user70331 already did man. I already been there and got the T-shirt. It can be done but obviously is more difficult.
Thank you Bob for always being a shining light for this community. 🙏
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I make sure I am safe wherever I go. I have a dog, knives, a gun (trained to use it). But first and foremost, I use my intuition. If it feels off I don't argue it away, I always listen to it. I have been to multiple countries and 49 states in America (can't drive to Hawaii) and never an issue I couldn't handle.I recommended this lifestyle to anyone who is at all interested 😊. It's been the best choice I've ever made 👍 Thank you for all that you do to help others.
One thing that worked for me was learning how to use and set up my gear before getting on the road. This included setting up my propane shower unit, cooking gear and my mobile GPS alert device ( in reach with a prepaid 12 month subscription). By the time I got on the road, I was confident that I would be successful.
I personally worried at first now I’m 2 1/2 years into this and I have never felt so much freedom. And I’m still working. Ate and Stayed at Cracker Barrel last night in Florida. But my guess is this lifestyle is not for everyone. If you want something bad enough you will follow through.
Thanks for those wise words Bob. I just turned 62 and retired. I'm going to hit the road as a full-time nomad. I don't have a lot of fears but the one I do have is breaking down but I believe I am prepared for that the best I can be
Wow
I have similar plans but retirement is years away for me. What did you decide to live in? Van, RV?
AAA Auto Club is the smartest money I've ever spent. Even for just around town.
AAA PLUS.
EVEN GET THE RV package. Thats what i have. Love it.
Get your jump box for sure
I have a Jackery and a Heater Buddy.
Propane to cook with. I use the green Bottles. I use the adapter i purchased online to fill the green bottles.
The flame part was purchased from Walmart.
You learn as you go.
Although ive done
Urban Camping twice before.
Even before it was fashionable.
You make some great points! It’s actually safer now than 35 years ago to be a Nomad. Back when I started only communication was good old landlines and CB’s. Now not only are Smartphones out there you can get a job using those phones while being a Nomad! Last few years I did stop and get a home base for health and economy reasons I admit. Now getting SS so got an old mini van and wishing for a small older trailer to haul if I can dredge up the cash. I trusted in a higher power years ago and made a leap of faith. Time to do so again. We get so attached to possessions that we forget that they become chains in our lives as far as importance. At the same time so much to see and learn outside of them . At 66 I have my fears traveling alone. But most of them have insinuated themselves from Others. Relatives, Society tells us “ go out there and something Bad will happen”😂. Well in the 30 years I did what is now being called a “ Nomad” I had the time of my life. Sometimes it was hard yes but then even “safely “ in your brick and mortar hard times happen. And I think my relatives secretly are jealous of my freedom.
I don't fear what might or might not be out there or wild animals or running out of money. And I make friends easily. My greatest fear is that I'll have a medical emergency and no one will be around to care for my fur babies while I'm in the hospital. It's not holding me back. But it is something I'm going to have to plan for ahead of time.
if you find my body with signs of my death being mauled you can almost bet my last words were "here kitty kitty"
Discovered you from Nomadland. Heading out in a Class C for at least 6 months to reconnect with myself. Hardly a classic nomad, however I support everything you do for your community as well as support your community. Please keep safe and do everything you do. You’re an incredible resource and motivator.
I’m a camper sniper that enjoys panorama ocean views parked in front of a mansion for the night. My only rule: Don’t stay a 2nd night ❤!
Fear is real, and you've given tips to embrace them and how to overcome them. Bravo 🎉
It is a reality of the economics in the 2000's. I started researching this 5 years before l retired. I found a cheap house in Seymour, Texas, 15K. Bought it, improved it. It's my base. I rent it to hunters during season. I live in my Van about 7 months of the year. Between Social Security, and rental income l clear about 35K. Not much but, l live cheap and love it.
There are only 2 fears, the fear of making a change, or the fear of never doing it. Id rather travel and lose everything that gives me security, than sit in my house for years to come!
Thanks so much for this video, this is exactly where I'm at right now. While I've always wanted to travel the country/do van life part-time I might potentially be looking at full-time relatively soon with my current circumstances if nothing improves. I go back and forth between trying to prepare and plan and fear/panic mode (I also suffer from anxiety issues, which certainly do not help). Thanks again for the understanding and the tips, grateful for you!
It’s scary at first, but with practice, you get used to it.
Bobs a great man, he lives to help his fellow human!
It’s been 2 weeks since I made a huge leap of faith, in myself and in my CAR/V creation, opting in a choice to live differently…and boldly and coldly taking an early plunge into the polar depths of temperature, as it is still somewhat colder in weather here in The Heartland..🌻…and the overall experience?…is still a bit scary…lol…But, as each day passes, so does the scary. Every turn of the wheel makes one stronger, and it is very important to ignore those naysayers and doomsdayers, and believe in oneself, regardless of age, younger or older of days, or younger or older in heart…lol. We get stronger as each day passes, as well, and we learn so much, as so many will soon know. To believe in oneself is a scary proposition, and with it comes responsibility in oneself and in a faith in oneself, but with each challenge met and each problem solved, a new idea to improve the roll is also discovered, through it all, and we become better, wiser and bolder, as well as older, and most importantly, becoming less colder, especially in heart and mind. Life is scary, if your let it be, but it keeps going, just as we all do, regardless…..and our journey continues, as well. Thanks for all you do, Santa VanMan, reminding us that we matter, and have worth and substance, regardless of age and such, and there is truly a special seasoning in getting older, like a fine wine, or some aged cheese….lol….of which I partake in neither, anymore…lol. I reference you as Santa VanMan because opening a video of yours is like getting a present, something that one can look forward to, like Christmas morning. And lastly, but most earnestly, thank you for helping so many people out there on the roll, and keeping the faith for us all. 🌻. Stay blessed, Bob. ✌️
This September I am doing it! I don't have to but it is too cold here in Colorado. My arthritis is making me go. been planning it for 3 years. My advice make sure you have an emergency fund. You will have car repairs, and motel stays. Hope I meet you someday Bob, Been watching you for years, keep up the good work.
Fear comes with change. Think of years at college, Always fear over the work, exams, money etc. But those years were most likely the greatest change in your life and growth of who you are. It is a time most look fondly back on.
We get comfortable in a static life and become fearful of change. This is a trap that leads to unhappiness. You become a prisoner of your situation. This static life is leading me to a nomad life. It is a way of living that you have no ties to a place or job. If something comes up, turn the key and drive to new opportunities. I've realized stuck in this house and city, I have no opportunity for change. It has become a prison. As a nomad, I have little idea what opportunities await, but regaining control of my life and the freedom it will bring I know will make me much happier with my life.
I love this! The funny thing is that Bob asked me if I was scared when I told him it was our 1st time at Dome Rock. I told him “not at all”! We are only part time, but if you want to try this and are not ready for full time, just give it a shot, just one night. If you are anything like us, you will be hooked! I personally feel free when out and trapped everywhere else now. I feel full time will be in my future quite soon. Lol.
Recently my van was in the shop for a couple of weeks for much needed repairs. I had to use some of my reserve funds for a motel. I felt so cooped up in that motel. But I learned long ago from Bob to have reserve funds. This was my second breakdown in three years.
I didn’t drive much. I have a 12 year old car with 40,000 miles. That was my FEAR! Driving! So I bought a van and started driving. I still have some fear like when I went over Monteagle, and through Atlanta. But I’m getting better. I’m 70 female and I think it’s gonna be okay. Just gotta work through the fears and trust your gut. Hope to meet good friends.
By far, The most important message/video from Bob .... van-life is a possible and liveable way of life, even if many municipalities do not support it. Fear is a positive thing because it drives us into planning!
I am preparing for van-life in my due retirement and the Only fear I have to get over is how to find parking in Northern Europe in small towns. I build my life around the gym, buying water and electricity from the gym, obtaining a relatively new vehicle, spending on a good insulation and heating system, and saving on no-build setting. I can afford a weekend at camping sites for recharging batteries and laundry.
Please do go ahead and read Bob’s book from the 2010s about van-life - a book which is still very relevant to our days. This book will slowly shed off all the fear from you. Very recommended!
I try to have enough o everything to last for 2 weeks. Then when it,s time to move I restock on my way to my next destination. This really helps me to keep within a budget. Money for me is my biggest fear even though God has gotten me thru thus far.
I just bought my van on Friday. I'm going to make it livable.
As a fulltime RVer for the past 13 years I suggest that you sleep in your vehicle and move any “stuff” you have in your vehicle inside a tent if you need space for sleeping. I have done my fair share of tent camping and backpacking and I can tell you that I sleep better and feel more secure inside my jeep. Something about having a door that locks and the ability to drive off if I need makes me sleep better. Ideally you will have an RV, van, pickup truck or an SUV. But if all you have is a passenger car then figure out how you can sleep comfortably in that.
Keep it in mind that when you are sleeping in nature that you will be sharing that area with wildlife. None of these animals are interested and 99 percent are trying to avoid you, unless you are doing something to attract them liking leaving food outside. The noisest animals tend to be the smalles. Mice and squirrels out looking for nuts and berries on the ground make more noise than you might think.
I spent a whole year car camping from florida to Alaska and back. It was a great experience.
I am starting my journey, doing the research now. Probably my biggest fear is staying in shape. Lifting weights and going to the gym has helped me so much and I want to keep in shape. I will find a way. Keeping the body strong has so many benefits.
If you have a choice and are not being forced out right now, then just try it out for awhile on a test basis. It doesn't have to be permanent right out of the chute. Keep your current home and try a 2 week test run. If you are being forced out, then embrace it and go with it; still doesn't have to be forever.
Courage is fear that has said its prayers 😉✌️🚐
I have a van, but I have a stick built, also. I bought the van for more room for my 3 dogs. I have it fixed up as a no-build. I would have no problem being forced to live in it. However, the fear I have is it breaking down on the road, as it gave me mechanical problems right from the get-go. Although I have a wonderful mechanic, I am fearful of even going to the corner store 2 miles away.
Bob thank you! You are so right!!!
I just concurred my biggest fear of driving high elevations over the past two weeks by traveling cross country.... FL to AZ. God placed angels along the way and now I have a new perspective, minimal anxiety, and an increased energy to see more places around this beautiful country. :)
Great video, Bob. My fears are breaking down in the middle of nowhere and, strangely enough, not knowing where to find great places to camp in the middle of nowhere. I want to be out there with my dog by a river or lake where he doesn't need to be on a leash.
It's natural to be afraid to go from a 2 or 3 bedroom home or apartment and go to a vehicle. My husband and I have been living in a 30 ft bus for over 2 years and we love it. We're fortunate to have an acre of land and I've been very sick the past 2 years and I've had 3 major abdominal surgeries so unfortunately traveling is not an option right now. We live off grid and we live in a small town an hour from Vegas and the wind here is incredible sometimes and our whole neighborhood will lose power, but we're sitting pretty with our solar set up. We have 1250 watts and 720 amp hours of lithium ion batteries so we can use anything we want day or not . When you decide to begin a nomadic life you have to decide what's the most important thing for you. For us it was a powerful solar system. It was expensive, but we used our stimulus checks to help pay for it. I'm so glad we built a powerful solar system because it's made it so comfortable to live here and that's been incredibly important since I've been sick. This was a last minute decision for us so when we moved into the bus we had no solar or plumbing literally just a bed and a bucket for you know what. Over the past 2 years we've added little by little, but the solar was the first big investment. I think people sometimes watch videos and see all the fancy stuff other people have and they think that's what they need to get started and that so not true. We started with $60 batteries from Walmart and 2 solar panels and it was enough to charge our devices and lights and ti have our fridge one for several hours a day. Luckily it was November 2020 when we moved into our bus so it was really cold in the desert until March so the food stayed cold. People that aren't familiar with the desert don't realize how cold it gets in the winter. It can get down into the teens at night. If someone ever needs a place to park for a week or so they are welcome to park on our property.
Hello Bob, Thanks for another great video. I'm 63 now still working full time and have a good living arrangement ( low rent ) which allows me to add to my savings every month since gasoline went way I'm driving a smaller car to save money which allow me to buy a van in 2 years . Thanks again for all the info and videos .
The hardest part is the negative comments from family and friends otherwise I use my fear to motivate myself and prepare as much as I can. None of us has a crystal ball! Thanks Bob great video 😊
talk to people that get it and believe in you. don’t talk to the fearful and unbelieving.
Great video! Loved the solutions for the fears. One of my biggest fears that wasn’t discussed is my fear of how will I keep my meds and health intact. I have to store meds in a climate controlled environment…so I get anxious just thinking about how I’d need to have an AC running or dehumidifier all the time in a rig I’d have.
Good question. Sounds like power security is a top need. Some builds of vans (I’ve seen on TH-cam) are quite sophisticated for power, often for their internet/computer work. Maybe they’d have good suggestions that would apply. Keep asking. Good luck ✌️
I'm thinking about a climate control rig like a hybrid SUV. These are costly but allow for air and heat to keep things moderate at all times. I've considered every type of rig. Still not sure. But if you have meds a Prius or hybrid SUV could work.
I just remember my trucker days. I’m not exactly a people person but that was extremely lonely. I was much younger and had family and friends. Now I have nobody. I’m sure I would feel differently now but to get rid of my paid for house would be hard. I still got five years to go yet before my pension kicks in.
Fear of not being able to properly care for multiple fur babies on the road. Also, fear of not being able to get the cargo trailer towed in the event of a breakdown.
Bob well thought out video! It’s funny that anyone would think of you as a cult. I’ve watched so many of your videos I’d like to think of you as a friend. I know we’re strangers but knowing your story and how you became a nomad makes me feel like I know you or at least know what you’re about like helping people etc. fear is a great subject. I used to love going on trips but now that I’m alone that’s a different story. I guess since I’ve had to live myself just the thought of taking off has been on my mind lately. I kinda feel like I need someone to travel with me. Maybe do what you said about taking small trips might help me overcome anxiety or talk to someone like you mentioned. I’d rather be a doer than just sit here wondering how to take that 1st step. I’ve racked my brain trying to figure out how I could earn money if I had to pay for a repair on my car. I’m not broke and I still have options. This phobia of fear that you mentioned I can truly relate to it. I’ve had some extenuating circumstances that I would never put on social media because I don’t think anybody would understand nor would I want to share it. It would have to be in person with someone I trust. Like a small group of friends. I don’t want anybody to feel sorry for me. I just want to get over this fear which is paralyzing. I wish I could take notes of everything you mentioned, but I think I got the important ones. Bob, thank you so much and for your videos they’re never too long for me. 👍
I think those that have the most valid fear are the ones without family (especially older ones and those not in great health). I've watched a lot of nomadic ones for a lot of years here on youtube. It seems almost invariably when they come up against some especially difficult challenge, they call their family. A ride to the repair shop, or to do or help with repairs (and building their rig), staying at their home during repairs or when they're sick or just to take a break (from vanlife or whatever), advice on this and that, etc. For those who have a strong, loving and supportive family (something many take for granted, but an incomparable treasure that so many do not have), and they still have fear? Well, that doesn't seem reasonable to me by comparison.
I felt a whole lot safer when I was living in my 2005 Mazda 6s that had a security system then I would have in a women's shelter. The alarm was one thing but also I could turn the key and drive away.
No the video wasn't too long it was just absolutely perfect I do experience some of those fears. However I do have some camping experience. So I made the decision to do baby steps and just go locally a few times till I gain some confidence. I'm slowly building a no-build camper shell on the back of my F-150 2005 truck. So far I found a bed an end table and I bought a chair and I'm going to buy one piece of equipment each week till I have it all-- got a fishing trip to go on in May. I found this particular video especially reassuring I will probably watch it many times.
Dear Bob,
I really appreciate how respectfully you present information and how practical your advice is. ✌🏼
For me it is not the fear. It is finding the right vehicle. I already know I want a van most likely a high top. Also I was thinking of a van already made into a camper. Also for me it is that I'm not a mechanic and I'm afraid of mechanic issues on the road also when I see these vehicles I don't know how to examine them to make sure it is a good buy.
You are using Aristotle's golden mean to describe fear. Interesting and informative.
I'm going into my 4th year as a nomad. I love this life! I can't even think about going back to sticks n bricks. TY Bob for caring! I'm the happiest I've ever been!
Great video Bob as always. However what to people do when they get too old to live in an RV / Camper Van Etc? Thanks for all your advice. Jonathan 🇬🇧
If people are looking for a way to make money to put away for when they move into their vehicle, many people are candidates to be plasma donor’s, my former upstairs neighbor didn’t have a very high paying job but I convinced my landlord to rent to this young gentleman, that young gentleman probably made less money than any other tenant, he donated plasma often and was never late on his rent ( and probably saved lives with his plasma donations) excellent video Bob, I love watching you😊
Thanks for all you do Bob
Great video Bob!!