Why Do Women DIVORCE Men Who Earn Less Than Them? | Japan Street Interviews

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  • @overthewebb
    @overthewebb 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    The student with glasses spoke so much sense, I'm double her age, but she sounded so sensible. Same for the older woman in this, both spoke so well. Others were ok, but not as good as the student and older lady

  • @virtueofhate1778
    @virtueofhate1778 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    I think it should have also be noted, that in these cases the divorse is initiated by women 80% of time. So even after all this feminist/equality/etc. blabber women still want a partner who is superior to them in all aspects.

    • @johnhancock4802
      @johnhancock4802 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Classic case of eating your cake and wanting it too.

    • @Aeris_InJapan
      @Aeris_InJapan 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      feminism has been invented by Edward Bernays and his friend to enslave womans directly to the capital and turn them into docile consumers.
      there has never been any freedom in a "capitalistic" society, neither for man and even less for womans.
      feminism doesn't serv womans interest, it servs the capitalistic interests, it turn their possibles happiness into a product that can be harvested upon for more gain.
      sex work is prostitution for instance, the end result is usually depression, suicide.
      same for all the "woke" tendencies, it's just an update to turn people into even more big consumers, sell the dreams, get your subcriptions to lgbt product brand, change sex, become dependant on pill and on the state.
      there is no freedom in this movement either, it's pure enslavement.
      in fact real feminism only exist in a society that wouldn't value capital market.

    • @fjorddenierbear4832
      @fjorddenierbear4832 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Fyi, in the USA women initiate about 75-80% of ALL divorces regardless of reason. I imagine that's similar in Japan too, but haven't checked.

  • @111milltown
    @111milltown 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I love this channel. My Japanese is getting better with every interview!!!!! Good Job!

  • @_H_2023
    @_H_2023 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    17:46 Oh this lady is wonderful, I enjoyed listening to her views on life/family; from the start you could tell she was admitting to having a sweet tooth for in her own words "So many delicious things". I enjoyed the video, many thanks.

  • @Yurio_Tanaka
    @Yurio_Tanaka 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    10:19 so this woman has not only accepted before the cameras that she will end up leaving her current boyfriend to get another one (probably a 40 year old man) when she thinks about getting married, but she also wants her future husband to earn more money than her (which translates into more working hours) 16:39 and she wants him to help her with the housework.... What is she going to do then? take advantage of the hours her husband is not at home (because he will be working hellish overtime) to cheat on him with another man? that will be her contribution to the relationship?

    • @ootts456
      @ootts456 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      What do you expect head is unstable, body is always moving, can't take the convo seriously. her brain is as empty as her bf's bank account

    • @s.z.x.01
      @s.z.x.01 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sekkusu and other superficial dopamine is all I can think of

  • @tkmad7470
    @tkmad7470 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Traditional gender roles are deeply ingrained into us for good reasons. When a woman has a child someone HAS to provide for them. In the west women have tried to replace the husband in that role to the government. I think that's a huge mistake.

    • @acmelbourne
      @acmelbourne 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And its been in most cases a failure, the government can provide some things but nothing can replace a decent fatherly figure.

  • @muajin
    @muajin 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I'm waiting for him to ask why do newly married couples sleep in separate rooms/beds as early as one year after marriage. Most friends of mine sleep in different rooms or beds 1-2yrs after getting married. I know it's common after the wife has kids, she is often seen as a mother and not as a wife. This leads to a lot less love making, so the husband finds it elsewhere. :(

    • @RobertDniroLHC
      @RobertDniroLHC 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Not all newly weds only the ones (which are most) where the woman married bc she had to settle or married des-ite not being attracted to the guy since most guys are unattractive in the eyes of woman…most result in this situation

    • @madmax8620
      @madmax8620 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah... my wife farts in her sleep soooo loud... and she doesnt think my balls are cute anymore, just smelly

    • @ericastier1646
      @ericastier1646 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@RobertDniroLHC Yes i agree with Robert, materialistic gold diggers are legions and they will marry for money, not for true love. The man then wants to secure her loyalty by having kids since mother hormones are strong she won't be able to walk away from his life that easily. The woman gets pregnant, the man got his child and the woman never loved him anyway she focuses on the child and there was never any love from her in the first place but now she no longer needs to pretend and she avoids any romance situation with her husband. Then it's her not him that will cheat. I know several divorced women who went through this exact pattern. Women are beaches , they will lie about being in love too, gold digging is probably at its highest in human history these days.

  • @acmelbourne
    @acmelbourne 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Another good interview, some of those young women are extremely naive they fail to take into account that if they continually out earn men then who is left to date or marry, take a look at whats happening in the West there's heaps of single highly paid women in their late 20's and 30's+ that can't get a date let alone keep a BF.

  • @hansgruber2509
    @hansgruber2509 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    This is a perfect example of hypergamy in women and they say men are shallow

  • @bobertoroberto953
    @bobertoroberto953 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Why is it that when a man provides for a woman it’s good, but when a woman provides for a man it’s bad? Wouldn’t paying for dates, buying gifts, paying for the wedding, proposing, and being the primary breadwinner be a representation of strength and independence?

    • @naturalLin
      @naturalLin 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Because women aren’t designed to provide for long term. She will develop resentment for him

    • @bushy9780
      @bushy9780 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      short answer: double standards

    • @naturalLin
      @naturalLin 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@bushy9780 there are more double standards benefiting women than men

    • @naturalLin
      @naturalLin 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @Ceasarsalate I’m acting based on what’s realistic. And hypergamy exists for women. No women is going to support a man for long periods of time unless she’s potential in him.

    • @Wirmish
      @Wirmish 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      In China the wife is expected to pay for the wedding.... and the result is.... MASSACRES OF WOMEN (by their own mothers).

  • @demef758
    @demef758 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Lots of interesting people in this interview. I loved the older woman, very wise and thoughtful. She is no doubt a wonderful grandmother. I have come to anxiously wait until the end for IJ to ask his Silly Question Of The Day and the interviewees' answers as they are caught off guard. "Did you buy the Emperor a birthday present?" Fun stuff!

  • @maiy8786
    @maiy8786 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Ofc grandma knows best.
    Very based.

    • @ForgotToLike
      @ForgotToLike 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes this generation are sad ideas

  • @jiyushugi1085
    @jiyushugi1085 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Marriages are more successful when the man marries down and the woman marries up.

  • @mztokyo7630
    @mztokyo7630 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Women never share their pot of gold.

    • @ForgotToLike
      @ForgotToLike 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Is just sad 😂

  • @dynadwynn
    @dynadwynn 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Queen Elizabeth and Prince Philipp have been together until death, despite her being higher in status than him. I think that can be a good role model

    • @acmelbourne
      @acmelbourne 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thats correct and the Queen routinely referred to Prince Phillip as her rock, the other famous person was Margaret Thatcher (keeping politics aside) and her husband Denise had a similar relationship.

    • @user-yc3fw6vq5n
      @user-yc3fw6vq5n 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Queen Elizabeth isn't Shallow, she has the old school mentality

  • @phantomboi
    @phantomboi 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    Please ask the woman what they bring to the table to deserve a high-value male.

    • @hansgruber2509
      @hansgruber2509 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      The answer would be occasional sex. LOL

    • @karatechopu3425
      @karatechopu3425 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@hansgruber2509not even, occasional onigiri 🍙 only.

    • @fjorddenierbear4832
      @fjorddenierbear4832 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Japanese women know how to satisfy a man. They are yamato nadeshiko, and virgins until marriage!!
      In reality only 1/3 of them even put out the basics of being a waifu...

    • @radfordj.286
      @radfordj.286 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They can do chores, oh wait even a child can do that, I guess it's just sex then.

  • @fionafidela
    @fionafidela 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Might have a biased opinion since I grew up in a household where my mom makes more money, but I think my dad's love language being act of service helps them to work it out since often times he does things that are equally, if not more, valuable than money. Especially he was the only man in our family for soo long that his strength really came in handy and another plus point my dad is a funny man, he takes things lightly lol. In many asian households, women manage the family's financial too so salaries are conjoined and seen as one, I think it helps too. Of course money matters but personally having a very calculating partner would ick me more. Say, I'm gonna live with him for 50 more years to come but he'd bring up "I do this, I do that, what do you do? What do you bring to the table?" every single time. For me, that's unbearable.

    • @Aeris_InJapan
      @Aeris_InJapan 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      probably dependant on personality, but I would gladly be into this.
      household care / kids / art work
      but most womans will ask : why you don't provide with strong cash
      but if they don't, I m open for it, I've also a friend whose father is living dependant on his wife, and she is making a lot even, this has worked, they have 2 childrens, big house, and been together for more than 3 decades apparently so far.

    • @fionafidela
      @fionafidela 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Aeris_InJapan Yeah, personalities and communication are keys here, along with how secure the husband feels. My mom's all serious and rule-bound, while dad's the laid-back type. But they've figured out how to navigate the whole salary thing without it being a big deal. Thankfully, mom doesn't bring it up in every argument, and honestly in their case, the pay gap isn't that huge anyway. And good luck!

    • @Aeris_InJapan
      @Aeris_InJapan 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@fionafidela haha good to hear if that work, as long as everyone provide something to the balance it shall be fine, would be good to have a society that accept the "lion dynamic" with wife going to hunt lol

  • @sonicase
    @sonicase 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    lol abrupt transition into talking about opening a pancake shop...lol ok

  • @overthewebb
    @overthewebb 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I would like to ask these women who are happy earning more, how they are gonna feel aged 60 with no-one around them. Working for a company for a man or woman is a fools game. Family is more important than money

    • @Wirmish
      @Wirmish 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They live in the present.
      They can't imagine their future.
      For them these kind of future is only for others.
      People are just living in the Matrix.

    • @SamuelSamuel-zx9mu
      @SamuelSamuel-zx9mu 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@user-ul3wr1bl3lThat is true, but alot of women-friendships are superficial, so i doubt these "friends" would be there in times of need.

    • @fjorddenierbear4832
      @fjorddenierbear4832 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Men do not feel loneliness when alone as strongly as women. On average.

  • @Wirmish
    @Wirmish 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    In my country people finishing University are mostly women (~62%).
    They will have a better salary than most men.
    So... they will have a difficult time finding a men with a better salary.
    Most of these women will live without love, and they will die alone.

  • @Eccendentesiast.ja_
    @Eccendentesiast.ja_ 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You know what I think? If Japanese society wasn't so secularist, people would judge other for more than their materialistic value, and things like economic dualism (indirectly), the birth rate, and the happiness index wouldn't be anywhere as bad as they are right now.

  • @RobertDniroLHC
    @RobertDniroLHC 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Take the blackpill and youll understand every single phenomena regarding marriages divorce and dating lol…the reason why they divorce is bc she married him not bc she was attracted but she bc she had to settle and most woman have to settle since the ikemen are such a low percentage of men.
    Having been to japan ive met quiet a lot of ladies who are willing to pay for meals and even give you a salary if you are good looking,..its even been documented. So dont believe what they say watch what they do….all these rules apply to the guys who are average looking which acc, to studies in the eyes of women 80% of men are below avg looking

  • @darkdrake13
    @darkdrake13 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Older lady had a wise take. The girl with the glasses is intelligent has well though-out ideas.

  • @malvinelpinnoy
    @malvinelpinnoy 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I can say this channel is right at the top with these topics!

  • @BrunoBastos-b7o
    @BrunoBastos-b7o 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Could you make the english subs as optional and not hard coded? Would be cool for us who want to solely use the japanese youtube subs to immerse! Thanks!

  • @mztokyo7630
    @mztokyo7630 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Even with all the household appliances , gas, electricity, running water, women still say household chores are difficult.

    • @Wirmish
      @Wirmish 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The media are brainwashing women. They tell them to act like men: Don't stay at home, but go to work, make your own money, and be independent. Stop being a woman. Stop having babies. Stop raising their children.
      Technology and "western ideas" of gender equality, feminism, emancipation, etc, are destroying all "civilized" countries, because in these countries people no longer have enough children (women don't want to make babies anymore), and in the long run this means the slow disappearance of their civilization.

  • @KillingTimewithStyle
    @KillingTimewithStyle 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My partner makes more money than I do, but I am okay with that 😊. Hopefully she’ll continue to feel like she needs me around to help out or else I may become a statistic 😅

  • @bradlemcpherson5602
    @bradlemcpherson5602 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Possibly a flawed study. Consider that women who make more than their spouse also make much more than what is the norm for their gender. Now consider the divorce rate of men who make considerably more than other men. That is the control group. What is the result?

  • @lindaziella3212
    @lindaziella3212 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What happened to the word love. Working together and helping each other. Money isn't everything.

  • @PervyOldToadSage
    @PervyOldToadSage 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    眼鏡をかけた女の子はとても可愛いですね。僕は彼女の専業主夫になりたいです 😆🧹
    もう一人の女の子が男性はもっと稼ぐべきだと言いつつ、女性がズボンをはくべきだと言うのは変だと思います。どっちなんでしょう!?

  • @bushy9780
    @bushy9780 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    hypergamy

  • @ForgotToLike
    @ForgotToLike 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This just sad she make more leave him how about he leave her 😢

  • @borkug1566
    @borkug1566 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    AWALT

  • @mztokyo7630
    @mztokyo7630 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hypergamy enters the conversation.

  • @ForgotToLike
    @ForgotToLike 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She just get suga daddy

  • @rafae5902
    @rafae5902 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Man, their thinking is so different.
    It's like they only want to live with a boyfriend/husband because they are useful in some way... I mean, what about "being together with someone I love"?

  • @sarabeth8050
    @sarabeth8050 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for the interesting interview. It is a fact that women already are paid much less for doing the same jobs as men. Thus, if the man is making more, they are likely equal in their abilities. If the man is making less, he is inferior in work abilities to the women. Whether that should cause divorce speaks to the general state of that particular relationship.

    • @mztokyo7630
      @mztokyo7630 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Women do easier and less dangerous jobs and no overtime. Thus the wage gap is a farce.

  • @epsilonxvi5675
    @epsilonxvi5675 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    not true, i know lots of filipino have japanese wife who earn more than them. woman really gonna leave you if you start showing sign of narcism the wealth is doesnt matter

    • @Wirmish
      @Wirmish 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The divorce rate between Japanese+Filipino is 78%. Fact.

  • @donnalynlangmalakas3561
    @donnalynlangmalakas3561 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    you should go to okinawa and interview japanese girls tokyo people are more self centered.. there is nothing new in tokyo be alone and make more money tsk this channel is getting boring..