I dated a girl from Guyana. Never thought about her colour? I just thought she was rather attractive, with gorgeous eyes and that was it? She liked my soft Irish accent, humour and I was tall. When we went to Dublin? My family and parents just treated her as one if the family. Too much is made about race and colour. If you like someone? That's it!
Her Father was black. I suppose you would say African descent? from Guyana. Mother white English. Myself? Belong to a hugely extended and close knit Irish/Scottish family group. She had to pass my three older sisters scrutiny, little protective I guess? As I'm the baby. Three older brothers? not bothered in the slightest. My mother Irish and Father Scottish. She got a whistle stop tour of Ireland and Scotland seeing everyone.
@fenugreek lover What fuckin difference does that make? You people always making it about color and complexion (i.e., Indian, Black). Gosh, its its just skin color that's all.
@@theesleekgeek73 To be fair I know some completely non-racist friends who just dont generally find black women attractive, and I'm sure that works vice versa. It's not just colour, we have different bone structures etc. And there's nothing wrong with that.
@clivemitchell4316 lucky you sadly or maybe not depends but Gambia has become the granny holiday destination as they fling themselves at young Gambian men especially British woman over 60 its in the national newspaper grab a gran big boys
People from London don't usually have a clue what's going on in the rest of the country In fact Londoners might as well be from a different country than the rest of us !!!!
I hope that you don't mind me adding a comment. I am an American guy. I've watched several of your videos (which are very good by the way). I've lived all over the United States too. My dad was in the military; so, we lived in places like Virginia, Tennessee, Texas, etc. My dad is from the northeast and my mom is from the south. I was actually born in Alabama (although I never actually lived there aside from the two weeks following my birth). I currently live and work in the Silicon Valley (not far from San Francisco). Still, I am politically conservative. That said: You are an incredible woman and any man in any country would be exceptionally lucky to have you! Why? You're highly intelligent, personable and beautiful. You have a remarkable personality and a contagious smile. In addition, kindness and goodness just pour from your soul. I think that this is the most important thing in finding love. It isn't the joining of two bodies (although that is obviously a part of it). It is the joining of souls (if that makes sense). The outward appearance is so fleeting. I read a study recently in which men and women were asked questions about what makes someone "beautiful." I was actually surprised that the top answer for men was a woman who is young (between the ages of 19 and 22). What will become of their "love" if it is based upon little more than a short period of that woman's life? When I was in college, I majored in engineering and political science (weird combo, right?). In the freshmen seminar class for engineering, our professor pointed out the need to figure out whether or not we really liked our major (engineering). Why? He argued that we needed to like our major because it is what we would probably be doing for the next 40 years. This is why true love can't be based on little more than someone's outer appearance. If a marriage or lasting relationship is going to succeed, it has to be based upon something much deeper than what we look like. Our race, religion, culture, etc. will always be a part of who we are. At the same time, such things are little more than tools that chisel the character of our souls. Consequently, I feel that love has to be based on that soul. Thank you for sharing so much of your inner thoughts on your channel! Good stuff!
Some single black guys hardly have time for leisure, they're always on their GRIND. It can sometimes be a bad decision if one can't find a balance. Nice seeing 2 black women creating a masterpiece.
Wow! Finally someone I can connect with! I love to travel too! I live in Atlanta and was in London last month and absolutely loved it! And I totally agree with your observations. I made the exact same observations! When in London, I felt like the "Black woman chip on my shoulder" that comes with all kinds of stereotypes was offloaded! Guess what? A handsome, educated Londoner stopped me at the tube station, chatted me up, and we've been dating ever since! I can't wait to see where the love journey takes us! I am subscribing to your channel and your friend's!
+Tintin my thoughts exactly! The chip is definitely unloaded. Such a heavy burden to always be carrying! Glad you found a lad here's hoping it all works out! Thanks for subbing!
Because UK has a small population, the women also have high expectations. As British men, we are very family oriented, not obsessed with hypergamy so we marry shortly after being together
Yeah there was a guy I went on a date with two years ago and he told me he was talking to other women and that I should do the same. I don't like to do that because if I only date one person I only date one. That was our first and last date because I just want to be with one man and plus we didn't really have much in common. I am now seeing a British guy and I have a lot in common with him and he's a total sweetheart.
@Spider Bloke A true Englishman is top of the line. it doesn't get any higher than that ! I am a Black American Woman so i know ! UK fever , catch it ! :)
The Matrix. Now I am picturing you secretly wearing one in the privacy of your own home and rushing to change as soon as the door bell rings. Am I taking your comment too literally?
I lived in LA for two years, my ex was Afro Cuban. I had so many fights with Black Americans, it was really amusing. Also, back in UK I have had Black, Asian, Chinese Girlfriends. I don't see a colour, I see a human being, for me smile, laughter are more important. Secondly ladies, I'm English and British, I have French, Italian, Norse and Celtic blood. If you are born in England you are English and British then you have your cultural background. Ultimately we are all sums of our own being, who we are as a person, individual is everything. Thank you for your time ladies.
technationuk - Asian as in Indian/Pakistani/Bangladeshi? It’s good you’re open to all, it’s our character and personality that define us not skin colour or ethnicity.
@@abcxyz-cx4mr Yes, Asian as in a Indian Girlfriend. Thank you for the reply. It is nice to see people who are not caught up in a person's colour, future or religion. We are all unique in our own little way, we just have to take the time to find out about one and other.
English doesn't just mean white, posh and from London! Just an observation, as so many Americans seem to think that's exactly what England is. There's a whole country outside London, and other countries outside England. Come to North West England!!!
i have absolutely no problem with interracial dating , but i will not stray , i love my dark sweet chocolate , that's my confession , and i'am sticking with it , Black women are the sweetest women in the world.
I'm a white British bloke whose always fancied African/ Afro Carribean/ African American women and I'm not entirely sure why. I've never been on a date with anyone (of any ethnicity) so I don't really know what to expect from dating.
I'm so going to watch all your videos of London cause I'm planning my dream vacation to London n your videos are giving me a lot I need to know before I travel thank you
You're welcome girl. Jut realized you reply to almost every comment here. That's rare & a good reason to subscribe to your channel. Keep them videos coming.
Posting here because your other video about reverse culture shock is closed to commenting. As a British born American I can say from a white male perspective that we find black women attractive, oh boy we do. I think that with the stigmas and attitudes here in America, most of us would rather err on the side of caution and stay within their race. I guarantee you that if you have a nice personality and make it known that you are open to biracial relationships you will be busy! I think that's it, we dont get the vibe that the good looking black women sitting at the next table are open to conversation, leading to a phone number, leading to a date later on with a white guy. In fact, hate to say it but the opposite is probably closer to reality based on my experiences. There are probably millions and millions of us who would jump at the chance to date someone like yourself. I hear the locker room talk and it's by far more positive than negative. Good luck and happy hunting! 😎
I'm engaged to a beautiful Filipina and getting married next year. Race, socioeconomic status, colour and anything else is completely irrelevant. We both love each other and we are both Christians.
So true about british guys! Sometimes i wish i could just marry my husband over and over again. And yes he is middle class which comes with very good manners!
I couldn't agree more with these lovely ladies. I'm a Black American and whenever I'm in a tourist destination in America I'm constantly getting hit on by English women. Was very interesting.
I was one of those white blokes dating black women in London. I was in London for about 2 years on secondment with my bank about 6 years ago, am from one of the whitest places in Britain, and I almost exclusively dated black and Indian women, completely and utterly by accident. I just found that very attractive black and Indian women were/are generally much more down to earth, funny and interesting than the white women in London, and far, far less arrogant. I’m now married to a stunning black American and we have a beautiful little daughter together, and I still can’t believe how lucky I am.
I think most British people don't care what colour you are, if we see a women we're attracted to that's it. I'm a man your a woman (man-man women-women). The thing that makes me the most proud about being British is that for most British people we see a person first not colour, nationality, religion etc. And I would just like to add both of you are very beautiful.
can i ask a question? I've never met a person that is Black British, Black French, Black German. They dont label themselves as Black. They say im Bristish, I'm french or I'm German. Why do Black people in America say I'm African American and not I'm American. I think if you label yourself as different then you are different, but if you label yourself as just American then your the same.
@@tonner385 i get what you mean. I'm from Martinique, a French overseas territory in the Caribbean. I've been living 10 years in London. When I introduce myself I say I'm French from the West Indies/Caribbean. The terms "black/white have always made me feel uncomfortable as it is not acceptable in French culture to describe/reduce someone to their skin colour, especially in public spaces. It's considered offensive and racist. Now, some may use those terms in private conversations (this you have no control over). But in public, they would think twice before using them or they would get the side eye, and would have to apologise.
I noticed, those in tracksuit are usually Eastern Europeans. I dated a posh English man in London, and he placed so much value on me. Showered me with love and care. I mean, I felt very feminine and sexy just being with him. I'm still fairly new in America and I have yet to find such men here.
Just found this channel. Can you give us tips on how to meet British guys? I feel like it's impossible to meet anyone outside of work and I'm in my 30's
The ratio of men to women here in America is like 1:4. Reason being is that a lot of black men are either in prison married or gay. Guys end up playing the field because women here are extremely competitive with one another and the ratio is so high in favor of the men. Some women come at you harder if they know that you are married here in this country.
English means anyone born in England regardless of race. British means anyone from England, Scotland or Wales (or you can call them English, Scottish or Welsh if you know where they are from - otherwise British is the safest term to use). Northern Irish are from the UK but not Britain. Britain is the largest island of the British Isles and contains Scotland Wales and England. The UK is England, Scotland, Wales and Northern Ireland. The rest of the island of Ireland (which is not Northern Ireland) is The Republic of Ireland which is a separate independent country. Not part of the UK or Britain. Clear?
@@pootubekeepsdeletingmycomm4328 Not just any White person , hmm Polish have migrated to UK and now Ukrainians are coming ! Real English don't classify them as English . Heck you talk about the facial differences in the Poles . Dirty mouth , clean it up you .
I so agree with you! I definitely experienced good reception when I was there. Skin colour was not an issues at all for most (I’ll go ahead and say most :D)
Just this morning, I met a very nice british guy, but he's black british and I'm African-american. I found this video bc I was online trying to find out info on black british guys (in case there are differences from the general info about british men). Let's just say, I couldn't find anything!! Would you be willing to share some insight? Perhaps, the next video with you and Love Fleurette could comment on it. (crossing my fingers)
Ideally most British white people prefer if you ask them which part of Britain they originate from, they will identify with the region they come from. There are countries and regions in Britain where many people are resistant to the idea of being labelled British - Scotland, Wales, Northern Ireland, Cornwall, Kent, etc. These regions are effectively living under British occupation.
So in reverse does this mean that as a white European male I'd have the best option to date black girls in the US than in London? Cause obviously in London I am competing with many more guys. :D
I am a Caribbean American woman, born and raised in New York City. White men do date black women here in NYC. It is not as common as you seeing white men with asian women, but it happens. I only date white men, and have since 18, and I never have a problem in Nyc with white men dating men. It's easy, but quality is lacking because most men of all nationalities in Nyc just want to hookup. it is a big hookup culture in Nyc and i'm not interested in that. You will have no problems dating black women in the US. You must approach us first though @wemema
Kells ，I'm from china and want to know something about the dating culture in the west.I heard the majority of western people have sex before commitment,is that true?A british white girl told me they usually have sex on the fourth or fifth date and then they become loves.......and many couples in london were friends with benifits before they commit with each other.She told me of that,I don't know if it's true?
You can't marry someone without knowing your sexual compatibility if you want a honest and love relationship. It's important have all experiences as much as possible before the official commitment in order to be more confident and realist. Many in Western think like this.
Nice collab video! I know its old but its a nice one! I used to talk to a British guy on the phone for a bit-- he was def a bit low class-- it surprised the hell out of me!
so are you actually referring to black men or white? iam curious to know it seems your saying British to mean European(white) so could you be more specific this discussion is very vague.
People who are entitled to carry a British passport are British,whatever their race. Of course some non white people may struggle with that. Go to a cricket match between India and England and find out which country the non white British passport holders are supporting.
I disagree with that if someone is born in England and clearly part of English culture, I'd consider them English, Black or any other heritage, British is an easier term though and includes more people.
But by law If you dont hav english blood U can never b english Thats y there is so Much problems With people gettin deported People hav no idea They deport people all tbe time For no reason But it never makes the news
I disagree about the English comment. If the guy/girl has been brought up here then he/she is English. In the same way had the girl/guy been brought up in Scotland etc, then that guy/girl would be Scottish. Wherever your family came from, you are now English, Scottish, Welsh etc.
It's Kells No. The young lady in the video is right. Even black people born here don't feel they are English, Scottish, Irish or Welsh - we see ourselves as British citizens or Black British.
It's Kells People from Germany or Poland will say they are English after a couple of generations. But it's harder for black people to forget they are from the Caribbean or Africa because it's obvious. Lol.
+Rose Marie hmm is that a self fulfilling tho? Meaning, are we imposing that restriction on ourselves or would people actually scoff at a say 3rd generation English person who's great grand parents were from Jamaica (black descent). As far as I know English (Londoners) are rather tolerant and would likely be ok with it. Thoughts?
When the British man like us, he will tell us? I not sure about that. I like one guy and I think he like me but we never talk. I'm so afraid to ask and he never come and try nothing. Just eyes contact. Like a game. I want to go and ask but...
In regards to seeing black guys in London we go out but, you should know how the door policies working in some bars and clubs. White guys always get priority when getting in these places, black men are left outside.
I'm a Black woman in the United States, & thinking about moving to the UK. Is the dating scene really better than the U.S? Also does age matter? I'm over 40 (still a looker though) lol. Thanks for this video and yur answer
For me dating just felt lighter, more fun and fulfilling, especially interracial dating… it seemed wayyy easier and more natural than in the States, the white gentlemen were cool and interested in stepping forward to initiate a potential relationship. Over 40 doesn’t matter the age criterial for everything we have in the States seems to be a bit later in life and relaxed overseas. I’m excited for you to give the UK a try! I highly recommend even if it just to learn about yourself from OUTSIDE of an American perspective. This alone is paradigm shifting! ❤️ love to you on this journey! Keep me posted!
@@ItsKells Thank you sooooo much for your response!!! I'm working on getting a nice nest egg saved up so that I can relocated to the UK with as little trouble as possible until I find a job there. After my (unexpected on my part) divorce, my whole world turned upside down. I'm just now learning to walk again (so to speak) and you've given me hope! So nice to see such a beautiful woman be so caring to reach out to a stranger like you did for me. I shall keep you posted!!!! Thanks again!!!🤗🤗🤗
Why are black women with English accents just so damn cute and charming? I apologize to those I've offended with my opinionated observation. I'm sorry, in fact I don't care who've I've offended by my honest appraisal. If I had a do over on my marriage choice (38 years on) who knows? "Of all the words of tongue and pen, the saddest are these: it might have been." Don't live a lifetime of regret!
canin trovert - no problemo, in the past few years a lot of US-Americans and Canadians have moved to Germany so I know visas are easy to attain for Germany.
I think the disproportion is just based on what we see. The proportion in most american East coast cities is 52/48 women to men - but it seems more skewed because in US Women go out and socialize more and in larger groups. American men stay home with their video games and doritos. I think in the UK it is a bit flipped; the men go out to the pubs with their mates and women are perhaps less social in that particular scene.
I live in the Black Country in the Midlands near Birmingham, so its very much a cultural mixing pot. I prefer a black girl because they are strong women but also very strong on there family. So you have all the love but the strengths that goes with it!
I have been trying to find a way to live in England for a while and I found I just cant unless Im rich or marry a british man. I'm not trying to marry someone to go to England. Although I am an American, I would have to be a doctor or have exceptional talent to get a work visa to live and work in England. It is not easy migrating there at all. I would go and stay there for 6 months if I had a remote job that allows me to travel all over the world.
I will definitely keep my wits about myself. I've watched (and thumbs up'd) your other videos too. I plan on taking it slow & having as much fun as possible without getting too smitten especially with that accent. 😁
Thank accent will get you everytime, BUT what I realized is that once you've dated more than one you realize what is charming and what is a regular, run-of-the-mill old British bloke lol
I'm half American and have Colombian AKA Spanish so basically I am mixed and I have light skin with curly hair so you can clearly tell that I have Spanish features and also American features from my dad. I don't speak Spanish and I tried but I could never learn. My parents were an interracial couple. I am seeing a British guy and he is so sweet and gentle to me. He always tells me how beautiful I am and very affectionate. We tell each other about our country and we both are pretty shocked. For example he can't understand many things about Americans but the same goes with me towards England because I don't understand how they don't season their Foods other than using salt? 😂 If either one of us leaves our country to be with the other it will be an adjustment if that happens.
You're British if you were born in England, Scotland or Wales. A Scotsman, for example, is both British and Scottish...it does NOT matter if you're black or white (6 mins 54 secs). A black guy born in England is both British and English.
English means "white"? What the hell are you talking about? English means from England. There are loads of Black Welsh people... they're not English. It's got nothing to do with race, they're nationalities. To an American the best example would be all Californians are Americans but not all Americans are Californians. English people (of all colors) are British but not all Brits are English? It's not rocket science people.
British is a Nationality... But English is a race. It comes from the word "Anglo". If you're raised in England, but not anglo, you're just a British raised in England.
English is absolutely not a race, anymore than Scottish or welsh or Irish is (and they aren't). England is a country, and people from here are English. Race has nothing to do with it.
@@sleepcrime I think I can reply this better than any American as a Native Hawaiian. English means "white" because white people are the "Native People" of UK. English people have History that goes back 1000 years or more in the UK. English people build those beautiful castles and buildings UK has(like Big Ben). Same thing applies for Hawai'i. If the black American girl was born in Hawai'i she'll be looked at as a "black girl that just happened to be born in Hawai'i". Native Hawaiians like myself will never accept her as one of our own. From a Native Hawaiian!
@@sleepcrime When you have ancestors that stretch back 1000's of years you can't help but, want to protect it. If you like I can help you get in contact with a Native American man and he can tell you all about why "gatekeeping" is important. I'm sure Native Europeans don't want to go down the same path the Native Americans did. From a Native Hawaiian
Jonny Bravo Let your other blokes know where it's at. There's BW who desire WM and other races, but few approach with the assumptions that we're only interested in BM.
I dated a girl from Guyana. Never thought about her colour? I just thought she was rather attractive, with gorgeous eyes and that was it? She liked my soft Irish accent, humour and I was tall. When we went to Dublin? My family and parents just treated her as one if the family. Too much is made about race and colour. If you like someone? That's it!
Her Father was black. I suppose you would say African descent? from Guyana. Mother white English.
Myself? Belong to a hugely extended and close knit Irish/Scottish family group. She had to pass my three older sisters scrutiny, little protective I guess? As I'm the baby. Three older brothers? not bothered in the slightest. My mother Irish and Father Scottish. She got a whistle stop tour of Ireland and Scotland seeing everyone.
The l need to move to London 🤗🤗
@fenugreek lover What fuckin difference does that make? You people always making it about color and complexion (i.e., Indian, Black). Gosh, its its just skin color that's all.
exactly... yea yea
@@theesleekgeek73 To be fair I know some completely non-racist friends who just dont generally find black women attractive, and I'm sure that works vice versa. It's not just colour, we have different bone structures etc. And there's nothing wrong with that.
I'm white english guy, and currently seeing a black girl from Gambia. She's beautiful!
@clivemitchell4316 lucky you sadly or maybe not depends but Gambia has become the granny holiday destination as they fling themselves at young Gambian men especially British woman over 60 its in the national newspaper grab a gran big boys
I'm a black woman who just started dating a fantastic British man & this video made me smile! Thank you so much ladies.
+KIMBERLY SIMMONS becareful and have fun!
KIMBERLY SIMMONS we’re not so caught up on race over there 👍🏾
Hey how did you meet him? And are you all still together? (If you don't mind my asking).
He white
@@17yogabbagabba we stayed together for about a year but the distance became an issue.
That's It ! I'm moving to London !!
Tianitra
Right!
My luck is horrible over here. I always have NO problems overseas..
!!!!!!!! London isn’t the only place in Britain, try Northern Ireland !
People from London don't usually have a clue what's going on in the rest of the country
In fact Londoners might as well be from a different country than the rest of us !!!!
Andy Greaves I'm from London, and I can vouch for this, in London you have to go out of you're way to catch news about the rest of the country
Caressa Clark have you ever been to Dubai? Are they also into black girls ?
I hope that you don't mind me adding a comment. I am an American guy. I've watched several of your videos (which are very good by the way). I've lived all over the United States too. My dad was in the military; so, we lived in places like Virginia, Tennessee, Texas, etc. My dad is from the northeast and my mom is from the south. I was actually born in Alabama (although I never actually lived there aside from the two weeks following my birth). I currently live and work in the Silicon Valley (not far from San Francisco). Still, I am politically conservative.
That said: You are an incredible woman and any man in any country would be exceptionally lucky to have you! Why? You're highly intelligent, personable and beautiful. You have a remarkable personality and a contagious smile. In addition, kindness and goodness just pour from your soul.
I think that this is the most important thing in finding love. It isn't the joining of two bodies (although that is obviously a part of it). It is the joining of souls (if that makes sense). The outward appearance is so fleeting. I read a study recently in which men and women were asked questions about what makes someone "beautiful." I was actually surprised that the top answer for men was a woman who is young (between the ages of 19 and 22). What will become of their "love" if it is based upon little more than a short period of that woman's life?
When I was in college, I majored in engineering and political science (weird combo, right?). In the freshmen seminar class for engineering, our professor pointed out the need to figure out whether or not we really liked our major (engineering). Why? He argued that we needed to like our major because it is what we would probably be doing for the next 40 years.
This is why true love can't be based on little more than someone's outer appearance. If a marriage or lasting relationship is going to succeed, it has to be based upon something much deeper than what we look like. Our race, religion, culture, etc. will always be a part of who we are. At the same time, such things are little more than tools that chisel the character of our souls. Consequently, I feel that love has to be based on that soul.
Thank you for sharing so much of your inner thoughts on your channel! Good stuff!
Thank you for chiming in. It’s awesome when you actually get intelligent comments, unfortunately rare on TH-cam😂. So refreshing!
Some single black guys hardly have time for leisure, they're always on their GRIND. It can sometimes be a bad decision if one can't find a balance. Nice seeing 2 black women creating a masterpiece.
+Czar hahaha ok gotcha, grind away!
I’m clearly on the wrong part of the globe 🌏💕!
Nah uk ain’t all that can confirm that as an English myself it only gets worse the further up north ya go
There's no 'lockdown', we just dont believe in being unfaithful/playing around
Thats a total no no
+Firey Flower understood!
@@kwasia100 that comment 😂😂😂
There are some people who do multiples at once, but generally it's looked down upon as unsavoury behaviour
@@kwasia100 well said about the blacks!
@@anm4340 Blacks?? tf is wrong with u
im a black girl dating an english man and he is the most amaizing guy ever
+Joleen Mwaka yay!! ❤️
Please are all british guys uncut ...thats the fear for some of us here
+miss Acj hahahaa
miss Acj most are
mine is cut and he's probably among the small percent of the ones that are cut most are uncut 😁
Wow! Finally someone I can connect with! I love to travel too! I live in Atlanta and was in London last month and absolutely loved it! And I totally agree with your observations. I made the exact same observations! When in London, I felt like the "Black woman chip on my shoulder" that comes with all kinds of stereotypes was offloaded! Guess what? A handsome, educated Londoner stopped me at the tube station, chatted me up, and we've been dating ever since! I can't wait to see where the love journey takes us! I am subscribing to your channel and your friend's!
+Tintin my thoughts exactly! The chip is definitely unloaded. Such a heavy burden to always be carrying! Glad you found a lad here's hoping it all works out! Thanks for subbing!
best of luck to you.
It's Kells I think because London is more like a global city, I imagine that experience would be like in New York.
+Horatio Huskisson london was a better experience for me than NYC.. london is amazing
Welcome, love! hope all is still going well with you and your English guy!
I have a serious affliction for brits 😍 I'm Latina and I loveeeeeeeee British men
+KareMel SWIRL welcome to the club 😜
wish british girls would say that about us british men lol your beautiful kare :)
ian your all drab brexit brits
what? you dont make sense there explain thankyou :)
God, if only I could visit England!
I really want to move to the u.k after hearing that the men there only date or see one female, here in the US it's hard to find men that are genuine.
Because UK has a small population, the women also have high expectations. As British men, we are very family oriented, not obsessed with hypergamy so we marry shortly after being together
Yeah there was a guy I went on a date with two years ago and he told me he was talking to other women and that I should do the same. I don't like to do that because if I only date one person I only date one. That was our first and last date because I just want to be with one man and plus we didn't really have much in common. I am now seeing a British guy and I have a lot in common with him and he's a total sweetheart.
My guy is certified English White .He's the best love i ever had, only the virus is keeping us apart . US & UK ALLIES !
@Spider Bloke
A true Englishman is top of the line. it doesn't get any higher than that ! I am a Black American Woman so i know ! UK fever , catch it ! :)
Hope you all are back together now!
@@ItsKells
We chat everyday and he will be here next year for sure ! :)
I'm from South London and you would never catch me in a....tracksuit...
+The Matrix thank GOD 😊
amen
The Matrix. Now I am picturing you secretly wearing one in the privacy of your own home and rushing to change as soon as the door bell rings. Am I taking your comment too literally?
I lived in LA for two years, my ex was Afro Cuban. I had so many fights with Black Americans, it was really amusing. Also, back in UK I have had Black, Asian, Chinese Girlfriends. I don't see a colour, I see a human being, for me smile, laughter are more important. Secondly ladies, I'm English and British, I have French, Italian, Norse and Celtic blood. If you are born in England you are English and British then you have your cultural background. Ultimately we are all sums of our own being, who we are as a person, individual is everything. Thank you for your time ladies.
technationuk - Asian as in Indian/Pakistani/Bangladeshi? It’s good you’re open to all, it’s our character and personality that define us not skin colour or ethnicity.
@@abcxyz-cx4mr Yes, Asian as in a Indian Girlfriend. Thank you for the reply. It is nice to see people who are not caught up in a person's colour, future or religion. We are all unique in our own little way, we just have to take the time to find out about one and other.
technationuk - Not a Problem thanks for the promo reply. Exactly, i couldn’t have said it better myself! Nice to come across likeminded people.
*prompt
I love black women,they're more genuine.They seem to be really shy or the oppisite.I like the regal shy ones.
Simon Taylor hello, there!
Simon Taylor hello, there!
Priya Sahoo
Hey you...wow! your not shy but you look like a queen
+Simon Taylor haha loved your original comment btw 😊
It's Kells
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English doesn't just mean white, posh and from London! Just an observation, as so many Americans seem to think that's exactly what England is. There's a whole country outside London, and other countries outside England. Come to North West England!!!
i have absolutely no problem with interracial dating , but i will not stray , i love my dark sweet chocolate , that's my confession , and i'am sticking with it , Black women are the sweetest women in the world.
+ikatel Charles ❤
I second that ✊🏿... love my black women.... nuff luv from the uk
ikatel Charles disagree. being sweet do not depend on race.
Each to their own.
💜💜💜
I'm a white British bloke whose always fancied African/ Afro Carribean/ African American women and I'm not entirely sure why. I've never been on a date with anyone (of any ethnicity) so I don't really know what to expect from dating.
Ask a lady out then! Go ahead! I’m sure you would have so much fun especially since you fancy us
@@ItsKells oh i wish I could. I was seeing an Ethiopian woman from my uni prior to the pandemic but we broke off contact during the pandemic
U can give it a try
@@carfreeneoliberalgeorgisty5102hai there, feel like giving it a shot ?
I'm so going to watch all your videos of London cause I'm planning my dream vacation to London n your videos are giving me a lot I need to know before I travel thank you
+Darian Lamour so glad they help!
Thank you
can't believe I watched all this girls stuff till the end. Good job!
Feeling the vibe from Kenya
haha thanks!
You're welcome girl. Jut realized you reply to almost every comment here. That's rare & a good reason to subscribe to your channel. Keep them videos coming.
+Tain Bluxx you're appreciated! Thanks
I'm about to book a trip to London! Lol
+CurlyBronzeBeauty do it, do it!
Posting here because your other video about reverse culture shock is closed to commenting. As a British born American I can say from a white male perspective that we find black women attractive, oh boy we do. I think that with the stigmas and attitudes here in America, most of us would rather err on the side of caution and stay within their race. I guarantee you that if you have a nice personality and make it known that you are open to biracial relationships you will be busy! I think that's it, we dont get the vibe that the good looking black women sitting at the next table are open to conversation, leading to a phone number, leading to a date later on with a white guy. In fact, hate to say it but the opposite is probably closer to reality based on my experiences. There are probably millions and millions of us who would jump at the chance to date someone like yourself. I hear the locker room talk and it's by far more positive than negative. Good luck and happy hunting! 😎
"You will be busy" 😂😂😂😂
Great video! I enjoy all of your videos, you have an awesome personality. Keep shining! :)
+Nessa Blue thanks hun! Glad you enjoyed it! Hoping to do more Collab videos in the future!
Kell’s smile is so infectious! Beautiful lady!
Thank you, babes ❤️
When your in love, you don't see colour you see only the love of your life!
So very true...!!
🙏💐🧚♀️♥️🧚♀️💐🙏
True 🙏
I'm engaged to a beautiful Filipina and getting married next year. Race, socioeconomic status, colour and anything else is completely irrelevant. We both love each other and we are both Christians.
@@ms.bubs4fun506 It isn't!
First gen, born in New York & raised in Texas, and Africa for a little while. Went to Africa when I was 2, come back as a teenager.
Love from London to all on here, especially black women 🌷💜
Hi
My god! I love your smile! it's making me smile too!
You two are soooo pretty. and so well-spoken!! I really enjoyed the video. Ya'll have a very positive energy.
+aratsass1 ❤️️ thank you so much
My boyfriend is from England. I feel like he is the missing piece of my soul and vice-versa. ❤️❤️
Soo sweet, aren’t they ?🥰
This video made me smile....very nice.
+Cheree White 😊 glad it did!
So true about british guys! Sometimes i wish i could just marry my husband over and over again. And yes he is middle class which comes with very good manners!
British guys are amazing
I couldn't agree more with these lovely ladies. I'm a Black American and whenever I'm in a tourist destination in America I'm constantly getting hit on by English women. Was very interesting.
I'm West Indian...from Trinidad&Tobago and I love British men! Their accent is the sexiest thing ever! Wish I could live in London.
I was one of those white blokes dating black women in London. I was in London for about 2 years on secondment with my bank about 6 years ago, am from one of the whitest places in Britain, and I almost exclusively dated black and Indian women, completely and utterly by accident. I just found that very attractive black and Indian women were/are generally much more down to earth, funny and interesting than the white women in London, and far, far less arrogant. I’m now married to a stunning black American and we have a beautiful little daughter together, and I still can’t believe how lucky I am.
Lovely story. Treat her like a queen!! All the best to you and your beautiful family!
Cool ! :)
I think most British people don't care what colour you are, if we see a women we're attracted to that's it. I'm a man your a woman (man-man women-women). The thing that makes me the most proud about being British is that for most British people we see a person first not colour, nationality, religion etc. And I would just like to add both of you are very beautiful.
+Malcolm ODonnell Agreed, love Brits ❤️ Why thank you 😊
can i ask a question?
I've never met a person that is Black British, Black French, Black German. They dont label themselves as Black. They say im Bristish, I'm french or I'm German. Why do Black people in America say I'm African American and not I'm American.
I think if you label yourself as different then you are different, but if you label yourself as just American then your the same.
+Malcolm ODonnell it's not self prescribed
@@tonner385 i get what you mean. I'm from Martinique, a French overseas territory in the Caribbean. I've been living 10 years in London. When I introduce myself I say I'm French from the West Indies/Caribbean. The terms "black/white have always made me feel uncomfortable as it is not acceptable in French culture to describe/reduce someone to their skin colour, especially in public spaces. It's considered offensive and racist. Now, some may use those terms in private conversations (this you have no control over). But in public, they would think twice before using them or they would get the side eye, and would have to apologise.
Please say you have been other places in the U.K.? London is a very small part of England and is a poor representation of the whole country
I noticed, those in tracksuit are usually Eastern Europeans. I dated a posh English man in London, and he placed so much value on me. Showered me with love and care. I mean, I felt very feminine and sexy just being with him. I'm still fairly new in America and I have yet to find such men here.
I can't wait to visit London!! Point me in the right direction.
Just found this channel. Can you give us tips on how to meet British guys? I feel like it's impossible to meet anyone outside of work and I'm in my 30's
Sisters!!!! Such a collaboration!!!! Beautiful Queens!!! Very informative! I'm on my way😍😍
+Vanessa Ratcliff 😊😘 thanks for watching!
Hey! I just subbed to you, I'm planning to travel to London this summer:) So excited!!
+BarelyBold woot woot! You'll love it!
It's Kells I'm scared 😬 but I'm just gonna do it! Lol
+BarelyBold #protip you're never not scared as a adult, do it anyway ❤️
barely. be carefull major muslim problem in londonstan
like im scared to travel to us by myself lol :) but im gonna do it has to be done
The ratio of men to women here in America is like 1:4. Reason being is that a lot of black men are either in prison married or gay. Guys end up playing the field because women here are extremely competitive with one another and the ratio is so high in favor of the men. Some women come at you harder if they know that you are married here in this country.
English means anyone born in England regardless of race. British means anyone from England, Scotland or Wales (or you can call them English, Scottish or Welsh if you know where they are from - otherwise British is the safest term to use). Northern Irish are from the UK but not Britain. Britain is the largest island of the British Isles and contains Scotland Wales and England. The UK is England, Scotland, Wales and Northern Ireland. The rest of the island of Ireland (which is not Northern Ireland) is The Republic of Ireland which is a separate independent country. Not part of the UK or Britain. Clear?
id correct you there north of lreland is part of lreland not part of the uk
To be English you must be white. Respect the Anglo Saxon life ffs
@@pootubekeepsdeletingmycomm4328
Not just any White person , hmm Polish have migrated to UK and now Ukrainians are coming ! Real English don't classify them as English . Heck you talk about the facial differences in the Poles . Dirty mouth , clean it up you .
SOME British guys don’t really care about the skin colour, beauty is just kinda beauty to em
I don’t want to say most because that may be inaccurate.
I so agree with you! I definitely experienced good reception when I was there. Skin colour was not an issues at all for most (I’ll go ahead and say most :D)
@@ItsKells Definitely depends on the area, other areas can be, well, ignorant to say the least.
I feel like this is everywhere!
When she mentioned I got approached because I am black, personally I would approach you because of your good looks.
It’s both 😊
Please I'm interested in dating a British guy , please can you guys help me . I'm from Ghana
Born and raised in London and I have no luck dating here. I seem to meet more men abroad.
Just this morning, I met a very nice british guy, but he's black british and I'm African-american. I found this video bc I was online trying to find out info on black british guys (in case there are differences from the general info about british men). Let's just say, I couldn't find anything!! Would you be willing to share some insight? Perhaps, the next video with you and Love Fleurette could comment on it. (crossing my fingers)
Where's his family originally from? Africa or the Caribbean?
Ideally most British white people prefer if you ask them which part of Britain they originate from, they will identify with the region they come from. There are countries and regions in Britain where many people are resistant to the idea of being labelled British - Scotland, Wales, Northern Ireland, Cornwall, Kent, etc. These regions are effectively living under British occupation.
+Nicholas Miles 🤔 interesting
kent and cornwall? nahhhh.
wales at a stretch, scotland maybe, northern ireland definitely.
lol. you are funny.
Hi; would you say that they date AND marry or they just sow their wild oats?? Thanks for the info!!
I always enjoy your videos.. it's like talking with girlfriends Hi-5!
Thank you😊
So in reverse does this mean that as a white European male I'd have the best option to date black girls in the US than in London? Cause obviously in London I am competing with many more guys. :D
+wemema 🤔 food for thought
I am a Caribbean American woman, born and raised in New York City. White men do date black women here in NYC. It is not as common as you seeing white men with asian women, but it happens. I only date white men, and have since 18, and I never have a problem in Nyc with white men dating men. It's easy, but quality is lacking because most men of all nationalities in Nyc just want to hookup. it is a big hookup culture in Nyc and i'm not interested in that. You will have no problems dating black women in the US. You must approach us first though @wemema
If you are healthy, educated, kind, and somewhat established and attractive you won't have an issue.
Kells
，I'm from china and want to know something about the dating culture in the west.I heard the majority of western people have sex before commitment,is that true?A british white girl told me they usually have sex on the fourth or fifth date and then they become loves.......and many couples in london were friends with benifits before they commit with each other.She told me of that,I don't know if it's true?
You can't marry someone without knowing your sexual compatibility if you want a honest and love relationship. It's important have all experiences as much as possible before the official commitment in order to be more confident and realist. Many in Western think like this.
I went to a Chinese university and there was definitely a lot of sex before marriage going on lol
Im black girl and I think British guys sound more romantic because of their accent
Haha I agreee!
Nice collab video! I know its old but its a nice one! I used to talk to a British guy on the phone for a bit-- he was def a bit low class-- it surprised the hell out of me!
so are you actually referring to black men or white? iam curious to know it seems your saying British to mean European(white) so could you be more specific this discussion is very vague.
People who are entitled to carry a British passport are British,whatever their race. Of course some non white people may struggle with that. Go to a cricket match between India and England and find out which country the non white British passport holders are supporting.
Right im moving to DC or NY
I'm a ginger white Irishman. I find myself dating black girls more than other races.
Always loved ginger i always thought they Re just real and kind ❤️ hai by the way
It’s a nice video but the music on the background is distracting.
It fades out at minute 5
I was talking to this English guy and i felt like he was going so fast lol
Haha it’s the accent I guess
Me too. I am moving to London.
There's more to England than London .
I disagree with that if someone is born in England and clearly part of English culture, I'd consider them English, Black or any other heritage, British is an easier term though and includes more people.
But by law
If you dont hav english blood
U can never b english
Thats y there is so
Much problems
With people gettin deported
People hav no idea
They deport people all tbe time
For no reason
But it never makes the news
You guys are so awesome love the content! Love you guys from Austin Tx 😍😍😍
+Sheena Simmons thanks sis!
U cute Sheena
Ahhh I need me a British guy! 😍😍😍😍 🇬🇧 ♥♥♥♥
Haha I feel you 🇬🇧🥰
Whatever sisters! As a white girl, you two are absolutely beautiful. I would (and I'm straight) 😘😉
love this!
+kynaat23 :x thanks!
I disagree about the English comment.
If the guy/girl has been brought up here then he/she is English. In the same way had the girl/guy been brought up in Scotland etc, then that guy/girl would be Scottish.
Wherever your family came from, you are now English, Scottish, Welsh etc.
+Daniel Crockett gotcha
It's Kells No. The young lady in the video is right. Even black people born here don't feel they are English, Scottish, Irish or Welsh - we see ourselves as British citizens or Black British.
+Rose Marie do you white people born there, but descendants of let's say Poland or Germany feel that they are English?
It's Kells People from Germany or Poland will say they are English after a couple of generations. But it's harder for black people to forget they are from the Caribbean or Africa because it's obvious. Lol.
+Rose Marie hmm is that a self fulfilling tho? Meaning, are we imposing that restriction on ourselves or would people actually scoff at a say 3rd generation English person who's great grand parents were from Jamaica (black descent). As far as I know English (Londoners) are rather tolerant and would likely be ok with it. Thoughts?
When the British man like us, he will tell us? I not sure about that. I like one guy and I think he like me but we never talk. I'm so afraid to ask and he never come and try nothing. Just eyes contact. Like a game. I want to go and ask but...
In regards to seeing black guys in London we go out but, you should know how the door policies working in some bars and clubs. White guys always get priority when getting in these places, black men are left outside.
+samuel Johnson hmmm, never heard that before! Wowzer
samuel Johnson thats total rubbish
Samuel, that's simply not true
samuel Johnson rubbish
It's Kells that's because it's rubbish.
I'm a Black woman in the United States, & thinking about moving to the UK. Is the dating scene really better than the U.S?
Also does age matter? I'm over 40 (still a looker though) lol. Thanks for this video and yur answer
For me dating just felt lighter, more fun and fulfilling, especially interracial dating… it seemed wayyy easier and more natural than in the States, the white gentlemen were cool and interested in stepping forward to initiate a potential relationship. Over 40 doesn’t matter the age criterial for everything we have in the States seems to be a bit later in life and relaxed overseas. I’m excited for you to give the UK a try! I highly recommend even if it just to learn about yourself from OUTSIDE of an American perspective. This alone is paradigm shifting! ❤️ love to you on this journey! Keep me posted!
@@ItsKells Thank you sooooo much for your response!!!
I'm working on getting a nice nest egg saved up so that I can relocated to the UK with as little trouble as possible until I find a job there. After my (unexpected on my part) divorce, my whole world turned upside down. I'm just now learning to walk again (so to speak) and you've given me hope! So nice to see such a beautiful woman be so caring to reach out to a stranger like you did for me. I shall keep you posted!!!! Thanks again!!!🤗🤗🤗
Of course! Wishing you all the very best! Onward and upward ✨
We date to marry, so yes
Kells you are so beautiful you can be picky whether you are in America or in London (smile).
+Emory Sims thank you 😊
You're welcome.
i really liked this video hahaha i didnt even realise these things happen until you said it haha
Why are black women with English accents just so damn cute and charming? I apologize to those I've offended with my opinionated observation. I'm sorry, in fact I don't care who've I've offended by my honest appraisal. If I had a do over on my marriage choice (38 years on) who knows? "Of all the words of tongue and pen, the saddest are these: it might have been." Don't live a lifetime of regret!
+Richard Milner haha ❤️
Richard Milner
give me the American
Richard Milner right Britain Girls are beautiful
Are y’all still on London?? Omg pleaseeeee hang out with me 😫 I’ll be there in January and don’t want to be alone for a year + 😭😂😂
Not any more love, you’ll be fine!
I just want a british. Or german guy but im in america and i dont know where to find one..sobs
You can try and move to Germany or study there, it’s easier to get visas for Germany than it is for England or Britain.
@@sunflower9680 wow thanks
canin trovert - no problemo, in the past few years a lot of US-Americans and Canadians have moved to Germany so I know visas are easy to attain for Germany.
AYYY LEWISHAM!!
+leela 👋🏾
You two are gorgeous!
Thank you love ❤️
I think the disproportion is just based on what we see. The proportion in most american East coast cities is 52/48 women to men - but it seems more skewed because in US Women go out and socialize more and in larger groups. American men stay home with their video games and doritos. I think in the UK it is a bit flipped; the men go out to the pubs with their mates and women are perhaps less social in that particular scene.
that makes sense
Generally I wish British guys could be more approachable! Sometimes I feel like they are afraid to make the first move or something...
+Maura Sanchez I can see that
They are not as aggressive as American men.
Maura Sanchez - British culture is more reserved especially in southern England.
wow I need to come to London lol
+Percel Mack London's lovely
I live in the Black Country in the Midlands near Birmingham, so its very much a cultural mixing pot. I prefer a black girl because they are strong women but also very strong on there family. So you have all the love but the strengths that goes with it!
London isn't representative of England in any way, dear.
+MrDeWonderful yeah because it's a city on the moon not actually in England… 🤔
It's Kells I like your sarcasm. Nevertheless...
It's Kells regional differences do exist though. I live less than an hour south of Glasgow and I can tell you it's a totally different world up there.
Of course they do exist, but using “in any way” is a bit extreme
London
Is heavily mixed
Racially
The rest of england isnt like that
Much racial tension
Some people do
Not mix with other races
I have been trying to find a way to live in England for a while and I found I just cant unless Im rich or marry a british man. I'm not trying to marry someone to go to England. Although I am an American, I would have to be a doctor or have exceptional talent to get a work visa to live and work in England. It is not easy migrating there at all. I would go and stay there for 6 months if I had a remote job that allows me to travel all over the world.
I have a video on 8 ways you can move to Europe, check it out!
@@ItsKells THANKS! I am looking for it now!
I will definitely keep my wits about myself. I've watched (and thumbs up'd) your other videos too. I plan on taking it slow & having as much fun as possible without getting too smitten especially with that accent. 😁
Thank accent will get you everytime, BUT what I realized is that once you've dated more than one you realize what is charming and what is a regular, run-of-the-mill old British bloke lol
+KIMBERLY SIMMONS good girl 👏🏾😄
KIMBERLY SIMMONS lol ladies English accents do nothing for me. I've never gotten the hype over English accents but to each their own.
At present we have half a dozen black chaps who play football for England. Hence I would consider them to be English and British.
Are there any dating sites to find a British man ?
Bumble ;)
UK CHAT and Lycos UK CHAT
I'm white and been with a Nigerian girl for 7yrs
+ian neil 👏🏾
My goodness, you are two exceptionally pretty women. Love from Scotland.
I'm half American and have Colombian AKA Spanish so basically I am mixed and I have light skin with curly hair so you can clearly tell that I have Spanish features and also American features from my dad. I don't speak Spanish and I tried but I could never learn. My parents were an interracial couple. I am seeing a British guy and he is so sweet and gentle to me. He always tells me how beautiful I am and very affectionate. We tell each other about our country and we both are pretty shocked. For example he can't understand many things about Americans but the same goes with me towards England because I don't understand how they don't season their Foods other than using salt? 😂 If either one of us leaves our country to be with the other it will be an adjustment if that happens.
@@Faithandseekerofchrist 😂 bless you both
I wanna go to London but I don't know anyone there
+sun&kisses Nya you don't have to know anyone there to travel and visit
sun&kisses Nya come and visit, people are nice :)
+Daniel Guy ppl are lovely indeed!
black guys stay at home, after work, they don't go out a lot over here
You're British if you were born in England, Scotland or Wales. A Scotsman, for example, is both British and Scottish...it does NOT matter if you're black or white (6 mins 54 secs). A black guy born in England is both British and English.
English means "white"? What the hell are you talking about? English means from England. There are loads of Black Welsh people... they're not English. It's got nothing to do with race, they're nationalities. To an American the best example would be all Californians are Americans but not all Americans are Californians. English people (of all colors) are British but not all Brits are English? It's not rocket science people.
British is a Nationality... But English is a race. It comes from the word "Anglo". If you're raised in England, but not anglo, you're just a British raised in England.
English is absolutely not a race, anymore than Scottish or welsh or Irish is (and they aren't). England is a country, and people from here are English. Race has nothing to do with it.
@@sleepcrime
I think I can reply this better than any American as a Native Hawaiian. English means "white" because white people are the "Native People" of UK. English people have History that goes back 1000 years or more in the UK. English people build those beautiful castles and buildings UK has(like Big Ben). Same thing applies for Hawai'i. If the black American girl was born in Hawai'i she'll be looked at as a "black girl that just happened to be born in Hawai'i". Native Hawaiians like myself will never accept her as one of our own.
From a Native Hawaiian!
@@oliveraparicio8464 nationality isn't a matter of opinion. You're "gatekeeping" and it's nothing to be proud of.
@@sleepcrime
When you have ancestors that stretch back 1000's of years you can't help but, want to protect it. If you like I can help you get in contact with a Native American man and he can tell you all about why "gatekeeping" is important. I'm sure Native Europeans don't want to go down the same path the Native Americans did.
From a Native Hawaiian
I only date black women. Im just more attracted to them 😍😘😍x
Jonny Bravo Let your other blokes know where it's at. There's BW who desire WM and other races, but few approach with the assumptions that we're only interested in BM.
PERIODT!!!!!
Jonny Bravo
I love men , light and bright and UK White ! :) x
I'm literally smiling the whole video! Lol! I've dated an American guy. Never a British man.👀 Hmm...
😘