Massive amounts of pressure, the inner critic, and resenting people who don't hold themselves to such a high standard...this is all 100% me. This has been extremely illuminating and EXTREMELY accurate to me.
It feels almost comical how accurate the perfectionist descriptions are for me. I also made the connection that Monica from Friends is probably a type 1.
As a One, I relate so much to what you said about people ignoring their issues... it is very NOT me to just let it slide (which would be really healthy), but I learnt to just talk to myself first (who am I to tell anyone what to do?). Then again - when they actually ASK for advice, that's another story, I never ever can be that friend who just wants to make you feel better. Expect brutal honesty once you ask.
I'm an INFP and always thought I was a Type 4 until recently. Now I'm starting to align more with Type 1, but it's never listed as a likely Enneagram type for INFPs... Not sure why as Fi seems to be a very Type 1 related function when it comes to being "good and moral".
this video is just me. it's crazy how these kinds of videos make me feel reassured that there are people like me out there! loooooooooooved this video, emma! your thoughts mirror mine and it's so very comforting, so thank you for that. love!💕💕💕💕
Okay wow as an en1, I relate to this video on such a fundamental level--specifically the part when you said how every decision made would have to be the exactly right one, which is something I struggle with daily. And it really is a road block sometimes. Thank you for sharing this video, I really enjoyed it!
"being Good doesnt equate or needs to be perfect, and being perfect doest equate or needs to be lovable" ..... OH I LOVE this quote.... it reflect my inner mind as it comforts myself from my inner critic. By the way you look so profound !!!!!!
My best friend is a type one and sometimes I get frustrated with her perfectionism. So this video was really interesting to watch, so maybe I can help her or at least understand her more.
Wow you pretty much summed up my life. You sound like an sp. I'm a 1w9 sp. The only thing that I hear a lot about type ones that doesn't really apply to me is the constant inner critic. But yes, what I think and do revolves heavily around morality and justice. Everything in my life needs to be orderly and organized, whether physical or digital. I have a white board with all sorts of never ending to do lists lol. One of my weaknesses as an sp is focusing on myself too much and being too isolated/distant from people. You're right I need to let go and have fun too.
I'm a 2w3! Insightful information on these Enneagram types! I stumbled upon your channel through the TH-cam algorithm today. My MBTI channel does the same. Thanks for sharing! 🌟🌟🌟
If I used the enneagram I would probably be a type one too. So many of the things you talked about are what I do! But I actually use and prefer a different personality system that applies to more than your personality because it is actually about the kind of energy you move through life with. It is called Energy Profiling and Carol Tuttle is the lady who came up with it. She also has so many other resources to help you live your truth as she would say. I am a Type 4 in this system, which sounds a lot like the type 1 you are talking about. I am super interested to see what type you are in her system, and I would love to hear your thoughts on other personality systems too!
This is the 2nd video I’ve watched on enneagram. I saw a brief intro, I took a test and it came up 1. Now, here I am. I’m not ok with myself. My life has ground to a halt. I’ll see how enneagram study works.
I strive for perfection so I can be the standard. If I'm not progressing then I have no purpose. Everything must be orderly for efficiency. I must make things better, not just for me but for everybody without bias. There is right and wrong, but I must be just and impartial in my judgment.
Do you know where to find everything? If so, you have some method of organization. I'm organized in different ways within various spaces (ie. kitchen, bedroom, work, car) and in some of those spaces it doesn't seem organized to the onlooker.
One of the Enneagram 1s basic fears is to be criticized and condemned. So Emma may I ask : do you focus on or tend to make the wisest decisions and form concrete stances ? And be beyond criticism that no one can effect your attitudes and stances or persuade you otherwise unless if it’s in your own favor ; because you always follow the most valid course of action with simultaneously going with your gut feeling , as if you just know deep inside you the right thing to do naturally. which is typical since 1s are in the gut/body triad. Peace out ✌️ ~
Super interesting! I'm a 1 and I usually get along with 3s but I always butt heads with 7s. I have a hard time I think because they come off as irresponsible and selfish to me where I feel like I put so much pressure on myself to do the responsible/moral/selfless thing to do so I know it's not their fault but ugh so hard to not get frustrated
My enneagram is Type 9: The Peacemaker. I'm not sure how many of those exist, to be honest. After retaking it, turns out that I'm a Type 3: The Performer also.
Aaaahh! I'm so glad you know what this is!!!! I've kinda become obsessed with enneagram and have found the No Chill Enneagram and Enneacast podcasts to be great resources for information and laughs. I'm an enneagram 2 with a strong wing 1 and I've found Brené Brown's books so helpful when it comes to that side of myself. The insight she gives on judging/perfection really helped me with forgiveness and finding peace of mind.
I’m obsessed with you. And I’m a full on Type 1. One test scored me at 98%. My nickname growing up in the family was Mr. Perfect. 😫😫 I am a wing 7 tho. ;)
I thought wings could only be the numbers on either side of your type, so type 1s are either wing 2 or wing 9? I'm really new to this so I could be wrong
i fucken sat here n redid my test bc i forgot n yikes i feel like ones and sixs are just...peak slytherin culture. we should discuss this sometime. :o i related to a lot of this as a type six aha.
Dear Emma, I'm a certified Enneagram teacher. Please take some time to look at the other types. You're talking with your hands, Ones don't do that. Resentment is automatic; at your age it would be extremely to be able to think it away. Ones don't talk with your happy, happy upbeat sound and cadence. Being a One is painful. They don't chuckle when admitting the difficult parts of type One. The inner critic can't be ignored. I believe you're identifying with type One in order to avoid your real type. That song isn't a type One anthem. Sort of perfection equals failure. Complete and utter failure. Tiny details and beauty is entirely another type. It's not the things we do; it's our MOTIVATION to do each of these behaviors. Please consider what motivates you. For example, why do you order the things you do in a day? Ones feel that the WHOLE WORLD is being held together with its weight on their shoulders. Noticing everything about them is another type. If you feel happy about finding your type, it's unlikely that it's your true type. Finding your type for most types feels like a punch in the gut. It's everything you didn't want to know about yourself. You've given a contradiction in this video; black and white thinking and shades of gray (you). Only one type can hold a contradiction that easily. Ones: Ghandi, Nelson Mandela, Hillary Clinton. They make a difference. Please don't give advice until you know much more about the Enneagram.
I'm a 1w2 and I talk with my hands. Perhaps the traits you describe would be an unhealthy type one. When I'm disappointed by my efforts I look for the lesson in the experience. I never consider anything a failure. I think she can chuckle at herself because she is familiar with those attributes of her personality. There is a sense of intrigue and delight in knowing you're a 1 because as a perfectionist type we want to understand ourselves more so we can continue striving towards being the best version of ourselves. When I first took the test, my whole office knew my results before I told them. I think Emma's description is spot on.
Type 1..happy to see I am not the only one that is having all this traits..gosh its hard
Massive amounts of pressure, the inner critic, and resenting people who don't hold themselves to such a high standard...this is all 100% me. This has been extremely illuminating and EXTREMELY accurate to me.
It feels almost comical how accurate the perfectionist descriptions are for me. I also made the connection that Monica from Friends is probably a type 1.
As a One, I relate so much to what you said about people ignoring their issues... it is very NOT me to just let it slide (which would be really healthy), but I learnt to just talk to myself first (who am I to tell anyone what to do?). Then again - when they actually ASK for advice, that's another story, I never ever can be that friend who just wants to make you feel better. Expect brutal honesty once you ask.
I feel both seen and attacked
EXACTLY!!!! 😂
I'm an INFP and always thought I was a Type 4 until recently. Now I'm starting to align more with Type 1, but it's never listed as a likely Enneagram type for INFPs... Not sure why as Fi seems to be a very Type 1 related function when it comes to being "good and moral".
Healthy fours look like ones
Catherine Dicus I have actually finally come to the conclusion that I am a 5w4 😂 what a rollercoaster that was
@@stardusstie Glad you found your type : )
@@stardusstie u left the INFP type 1 cult. i hope u find ur way to happiness, fellow 5w4 😔
Same here... check your childhood patterns! That speaks alot
this video is just me. it's crazy how these kinds of videos make me feel reassured that there are people like me out there! loooooooooooved this video, emma! your thoughts mirror mine and it's so very comforting, so thank you for that. love!💕💕💕💕
aww yayy! that fills my heart to the brim to hear 💕💕
the way my ears perked up when you mentioned uhgood by rm!! taste!
9:47 OMG! I'm a one hard at this moment! I noticed the microwave immediately and when you talked about details of ascetic I was confirmed type 1
Okay wow as an en1, I relate to this video on such a fundamental level--specifically the part when you said how every decision made would have to be the exactly right one, which is something I struggle with daily. And it really is a road block sometimes. Thank you for sharing this video, I really enjoyed it!
Thanks for sharing, I'm a type 1 as well and it's been hard to find a good balance. Lots of encouraging stuff in your video, I enjoyed it!
Son/daughter of 2 types 1: Poor Poor kid haha!
We are all flawed, so true, isn't that what makes us great though?
I'm also a type 1 and I recognised myself so much in what you said ! Calming down the inner critic voice is such a struggle! :0
Also type 1 here! Agree with everything you said; totally me. Also listened to that song and yup, brought me to tears lol
"being Good doesnt equate or needs to be perfect, and being perfect doest equate or needs to be lovable" ..... OH I LOVE this quote.... it reflect my inner mind as it comforts myself from my inner critic.
By the way you look so profound !!!!!!
I’m a 4w5 with a 1w9 cousin, and I think she is the greatest thing since sliced bread. Hats off to you, type 1’s 🎩
My best friend is a type one and sometimes I get frustrated with her perfectionism. So this video was really interesting to watch, so maybe I can help her or at least understand her more.
when you read it feels like a podcast, ♥
ahhh i love this and now i want to reread all the things about my type hahah
NAILED IT. I'm a type 1 as well and totally relate to all of this lol
This video was perfect!! I love when you talk about being a type 1 because I can really relate 💕
I finally took a couple different tests and it’s look like I’m a 4, which feels accurate. I’m also an INFJ
I'm a type 6 and I've *never* felt more heard in my *entire life*
I needed to hear about this from another type 1 to understand it from a healthy perspective
loved the video! i just wanted to say that u remind me of a female version of conan gray and you are a super stellar human bean
wow thank youuu i love being called a human bean.
This is SO helpful! Love your authenticity and honesty in sharing it too 🌹
Wow you pretty much summed up my life. You sound like an sp. I'm a 1w9 sp. The only thing that I hear a lot about type ones that doesn't really apply to me is the constant inner critic. But yes, what I think and do revolves heavily around morality and justice. Everything in my life needs to be orderly and organized, whether physical or digital. I have a white board with all sorts of never ending to do lists lol. One of my weaknesses as an sp is focusing on myself too much and being too isolated/distant from people. You're right I need to let go and have fun too.
Thank you for this video! I’m a type 1, too. I will definitely read that book now, you are the second person who recommends it.
I’m a type two, through and through, and I also cried listening to “Atlas: Two”, Sleeping at Last’s song for type twos :’)
Just took the test and I’m a type 5: The Investigator.
Me too.
I'm a 2w3! Insightful information on these Enneagram types! I stumbled upon your channel through the TH-cam algorithm today. My MBTI channel does the same. Thanks for sharing! 🌟🌟🌟
I’m type 9 the Peacemaker and my growth is type 3 Romantic and my stress is type 6 Loyalist
If I used the enneagram I would probably be a type one too. So many of the things you talked about are what I do! But I actually use and prefer a different personality system that applies to more than your personality because it is actually about the kind of energy you move through life with. It is called Energy Profiling and Carol Tuttle is the lady who came up with it. She also has so many other resources to help you live your truth as she would say. I am a Type 4 in this system, which sounds a lot like the type 1 you are talking about. I am super interested to see what type you are in her system, and I would love to hear your thoughts on other personality systems too!
I'm a type 4
With type 3 being really close
Me too :)
I’m a 2w3 so this was so interesting to watch
I'm a 1w2 and I find most of my favourite people are 2w3!
This is the 2nd video I’ve watched on enneagram. I saw a brief intro, I took a test and it came up 1. Now, here I am. I’m not ok with myself. My life has ground to a halt. I’ll see how enneagram study works.
I strive for perfection so I can be the standard. If I'm not progressing then I have no purpose. Everything must be orderly for efficiency. I must make things better, not just for me but for everybody without bias. There is right and wrong, but I must be just and impartial in my judgment.
I just took the test and I'm a 4 💗
Same.
I'm new to the enneagram and this was very helpful! I related to this a lot and appreciate hearing about your experiences as a fellow "reformer" (:
how can you be organized? I don't understand... I am type 1 and nearly everything fits to me and makes sense, but I am not organized .. so .. how?
Do you know where to find everything? If so, you have some method of organization. I'm organized in different ways within various spaces (ie. kitchen, bedroom, work, car) and in some of those spaces it doesn't seem organized to the onlooker.
One of the Enneagram 1s basic fears is to be criticized and condemned.
So Emma may I ask : do you focus on or tend to make the wisest decisions and form concrete stances ?
And be beyond criticism that no one can effect your attitudes and stances or persuade you otherwise unless if it’s in your own favor ; because you always follow the most valid course of action with simultaneously going with your gut feeling , as if you just know deep inside you the right thing to do naturally.
which is typical since 1s are in the gut/body triad.
Peace out ✌️ ~
Psychology and this kind of thing always interests me. So I took the text...I’m a type 4: the romantic
I'm a type two 😊 so cool to hear about being a type one!
I'm Type 1/5
I'm a three but I relate to ones so much!
Haha I'm a type 1 and I absolutely treasure my type 3 and type 7 people as well!!! We complement each other for sure :)
Super interesting! I'm a 1 and I usually get along with 3s but I always butt heads with 7s. I have a hard time I think because they come off as irresponsible and selfish to me where I feel like I put so much pressure on myself to do the responsible/moral/selfless thing to do so I know it's not their fault but ugh so hard to not get frustrated
cannot believe how much of one I am, crazy
She said "in-errantly" at 9:05, the only h she dropped in the whole video 😊
I'm a type 7 and bf is a type 1.
My enneagram is Type 9: The Peacemaker. I'm not sure how many of those exist, to be honest.
After retaking it, turns out that I'm a Type 3: The Performer also.
I’m a type 4 and an INTJ and a Ravenclaw lol
me too type 4 and ravenclaw ✨ im a INFP thooo😁
Do vlog reading please
Like your brother Will I’m a Type 4 and Ravenclaw! ✌️
I'm a type 4 and found this so interesting! 💓
me too ✨🤍
Aaaahh! I'm so glad you know what this is!!!!
I've kinda become obsessed with enneagram and have found the No Chill Enneagram and Enneacast podcasts to be great resources for information and laughs.
I'm an enneagram 2 with a strong wing 1 and I've found Brené Brown's books so helpful when it comes to that side of myself. The insight she gives on judging/perfection really helped me with forgiveness and finding peace of mind.
Emma Green hey
awww love it!! is anyone a type 2?
i'm a type 5 🙆🏻♀️
Aww I'm also a type 1 😊🤭
What mbti type are you ? 😊
I also adore your videos, you're so thoughtful and sincere!
Waterflowerfairy I believe she is INFJ.
I'm a 1 and an INFJ too
wow very pretty face ! does your enneagrame type one is close to your mbti type .;( infp 1w2 for my part) cheers
Wwwoowwww @ meeeee
Lolol Type Ones unite!
i was @ing myself too so I FEEL YOU
I’m obsessed with you. And I’m a full on Type 1. One test scored me at 98%. My nickname growing up in the family was Mr. Perfect. 😫😫 I am a wing 7 tho. ;)
I thought wings could only be the numbers on either side of your type, so type 1s are either wing 2 or wing 9? I'm really new to this so I could be wrong
There’s no way your wing is a 7. Your wings are 9 and 1.
I am a type 4w1.
Just did the test type 1 omg 😂❤️
i fucken sat here n redid my test bc i forgot n yikes i feel like ones and sixs are just...peak slytherin culture. we should discuss this sometime. :o i related to a lot of this as a type six aha.
amo tus ring 🥰
Isfj energy
I just took the test for the first time and I’m type 9: the peacemaker! Interesting 🤔☺️
Lol I'm a 4, but I understand a lot of what you are talking about
i’m type 6 oo
Type 5 🕵🏻♀️
lol i feel SEEN
I'm type 6 :))
I'm a nine! Any other nine's out there? lol
1st comment. Love you Emma ❤💜💙
ESFP
i can see it in your eyes from the thumbnail that u are indeed a 1💀
Dear Emma, I'm a certified Enneagram teacher. Please take some time to look at the other types. You're talking with your hands, Ones don't do that. Resentment is automatic; at your age it would be extremely to be able to think it away. Ones don't talk with your happy, happy upbeat sound and cadence. Being a One is painful. They don't chuckle when admitting the difficult parts of type One. The inner critic can't be ignored. I believe you're identifying with type One in order to avoid your real type. That song isn't a type One anthem. Sort of perfection equals failure. Complete and utter failure. Tiny details and beauty is entirely another type. It's not the things we do; it's our MOTIVATION to do each of these behaviors. Please consider what motivates you. For example, why do you order the things you do in a day? Ones feel that the WHOLE WORLD is being held together with its weight on their shoulders. Noticing everything about them is another type. If you feel happy about finding your type, it's unlikely that it's your true type. Finding your type for most types feels like a punch in the gut. It's everything you didn't want to know about yourself. You've given a contradiction in this video; black and white thinking and shades of gray (you). Only one type can hold a contradiction that easily. Ones: Ghandi, Nelson Mandela, Hillary Clinton. They make a difference. Please don't give advice until you know much more about the Enneagram.
I'm a 1 and I talk with my hands. I don't relate to any of the other types. I think you are the one who needs to do more research.
I'm a 1w2 and I talk with my hands. Perhaps the traits you describe would be an unhealthy type one. When I'm disappointed by my efforts I look for the lesson in the experience. I never consider anything a failure. I think she can chuckle at herself because she is familiar with those attributes of her personality. There is a sense of intrigue and delight in knowing you're a 1 because as a perfectionist type we want to understand ourselves more so we can continue striving towards being the best version of ourselves. When I first took the test, my whole office knew my results before I told them. I think Emma's description is spot on.
Totally agree.
God, what a pretentious condescending asswipe you are. Do the world a favor and stop coaching STAT.