Unconscious motivation of 1: Compulsively perfect themselves and others and to be right. Unconscious motivation of 2: Compulsive need to be needed. Unconscious motivation of 3: Attain success and avoid failure at all costs. Unconscious motivation of 4: The need to be special and unique in order to compensate for the missing piece Unconscious motivation of 5: To gather as much info about niche subjects to fend off inadequacies and getting caught up in the world Unconscious motivation of 6: To feel safe and secure Unconscious motivation of 7: Avoid pain and anxiety by continously focussing on wonderful unlimited possibilities in life Unconscious motivation of 8: To assert power and control over environment or other people in service to hiding or denying weakness or vulnerability in themselves from others who might leverage it against them and hurt them. Unconscious motivation of 9: To avoid conflict at all costs, maintain connection, status quo, conserve energy.
Dude this is all apart of every human being ever ,... the issue is that these people pull apart everything about us then depict all of them and making it unnecessarily complicated by over analysis 😢... We all want the same things emotionally in one way or another .... and all we need to do is bring love into this and stop hiding our emotions by avoiding them or over complicating them like in this video it's that simple lol
I wish i learned this when i was a child. So many of my negative experiences could have turned out positive. I will make sure my kids learn this at an early age.
I feel like since we shouldn’t take the enneagram until we are 25 contributes to this. You could have told me I was a four when I was 5 or even 18… would have gone through one ear and out the other. I think enneagram is best felt in your 40’s and later.
If, as you say, the 8 is the most controlling...then what is meant in AH Almaas' book - Facets of Unity - about the Holy Ideas....that with each type there is a specific reaction and a specific difficulty and the specific difficulty of the 4 is 'controlling'....the other types had their difficulties but controlling was specific to the 4...so how does that controlling differ to the 8 being controlling.....
So we are narcissists as children because we evolved that way? Not because of original sin? Plus, children can’t be narcissists in the real psychological definition…children are trusting, teachable and the most open to being loved. That is why Jesus said that you must become like a little child to enter the kingdom of God.
Unconscious motivation of 1: Compulsively perfect themselves and others and to be right.
Unconscious motivation of 2: Compulsive need to be needed.
Unconscious motivation of 3: Attain success and avoid failure at all costs.
Unconscious motivation of 4: The need to be special and unique in order to compensate for the missing piece
Unconscious motivation of 5: To gather as much info about niche subjects to fend off inadequacies and getting caught up in the world
Unconscious motivation of 6: To feel safe and secure
Unconscious motivation of 7:
Avoid pain and anxiety by continously focussing on wonderful unlimited possibilities in life
Unconscious motivation of 8: To assert power and control over environment or other people in service to hiding or denying weakness or vulnerability in themselves from others who might leverage it against them and hurt them.
Unconscious motivation of 9: To avoid conflict at all costs, maintain connection, status quo, conserve energy.
Deserves major thank you. Not just because I’m a two. Appreciate you :)
Dude this is all apart of every human being ever ,... the issue is that these people pull apart everything about us then depict all of them and making it unnecessarily complicated by over analysis 😢...
We all want the same things emotionally in one way or another .... and all we need to do is bring love into this and stop hiding our emotions by avoiding them or over complicating them like in this video it's that simple lol
I wish i learned this when i was a child. So many of my negative experiences could have turned out positive. I will make sure my kids learn this at an early age.
It should be taught in schools. why not?
I feel like since we shouldn’t take the enneagram until we are 25 contributes to this. You could have told me I was a four when I was 5 or even 18… would have gone through one ear and out the other. I think enneagram is best felt in your 40’s and later.
Love Ian! ❤
I'm glad I watched this. I've never seen the enneagram explained by a 4 before. It was fun!
I've just noticed the 4 on the phone. Nice touch!
I think I may be a 9, and I legitimately kept zoning out when you explained the 9.
Excellent presentation. Thank you!
I lost my marbles when he mentioned Sufjan Stevens - let's go 😆👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻!!!
those frames though!
You should have more screen time on diagram then your self. I needed to see what you were talking about to the audience.
If, as you say, the 8 is the most controlling...then what is meant in AH Almaas' book - Facets of Unity - about the Holy Ideas....that with each type there is a specific reaction and a specific difficulty and the specific difficulty of the 4 is 'controlling'....the other types had their difficulties but controlling was specific to the 4...so how does that controlling differ to the 8 being controlling.....
Thanks
The enneagram is NOT an ancient personality typing system, not unless for you ancient means the 1960's.
I am a 7 and Wing; 6/8 and Arrow: 5/1
Amazing!!!
27:27 type 5
Thank you! A very 5 thing to do of you.
I have BPD and I see myself strongly in all of these. What to make of that I do not know but I’ll never stop searching for the answer.
there's a few tests that you can take online to determine what you are : )
Keep reading about each number, at one point it will became clear for you too. :)
I’m a peacemaker and I use peacekeeper
Apex Legends? My man!
It's not ancient.
Research it - from reliable sources.
Literally a 5 with some 4
It is called wing. 5w4 ;)
The part that doesn't make sense is assuming a dominant emotion with a particular triad.
You mention god. Which god are you referring to and what is this god’s personality type?
god is one. not a one but one with all
I m number 4
18:00 type2
Pretending that there's a dichotomy that's always present of being under stress or not being under stress is not realistic.
الرجال هذا يتكلم صح
How to be a healthy 2
Develop the quality of an healthy 8, study the quality of an healthy 2 and strive to became that. 🙏
So we are narcissists as children because we evolved that way? Not because of original sin? Plus, children can’t be narcissists in the real psychological definition…children are trusting, teachable and the most open to being loved. That is why Jesus said that you must become like a little child to enter the kingdom of God.
Mmmmmmm 🤔😒