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  • @JessicaLSantos1
    @JessicaLSantos1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +251

    Melissa, the fact that you even had to make this video is so sad. You were beautiful then, and you are beautiful now. I am 28, and you are an absolute inspiration to me for aging so gracefully. Congratulations to you, for being an elegant and poised woman, no matter what people say, no matter the weight.

    • @londoncalling8121
      @londoncalling8121 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree. Some of these accusations will be malicious and not borne out of genuine misunderstanding. By answering them you risk fanning the flames and being drawn into a never ending saga. Now you've admirably addressed the issue Melissa, leave it be. You are a dignified lady and have no need to lower yourself any further to their petty level.

    • @JessicaLSantos1
      @JessicaLSantos1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I love my boxers she looks way too young to even be a grandmother!

    • @veegee5969
      @veegee5969 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jessica Case i

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      aw, thank you so much, Jessica. I really did feel like I needed to address it. The comments were coming so frequently. I really hope it will put it to rest now. Oh thank you so very much!!! You are so sweet. Love, Melissa

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I love your user name!!! It's so cute. I am so grateful to you for this. You are so kind. And I would be thrilled to be your honorary grandmother!!! Many thanks Melissa

  • @ambernelsonwood5508
    @ambernelsonwood5508 7 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    Like I always tell my eight children, when people say something mean or hateful it tells more about THEM, then it does about YOU! Just continue to be your warm, gracious and beautiful self. I for one, will continue to follow you as I'm sure many feel just as I do!!

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh wow, Amber. You are a busy woman!!! Thank you so much for your kindness. I am truly grateful. Much love, Melissa

  • @Melissa55
    @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Please bear with me answering comments. I'm spending the day with Kristinn on Thursday and keeping several of my grandchildren all day Friday and Saturday, so I may not get to comments until Sunday or Monday. I apologize, but I'll try my best. Thank you all so much! Love you all, Melissa

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Hey Jackie. I have tried several of his products in the new line and I just didn't like them. They made my face greasy and my skin quality just didn't look as nice. My dermatologist was selling it and I spent a bunch on it and didn't like it. They even tried me on samples and I didn't like those either. So she just told me to stick with what I had always been using. A lot of people really like it though, so you might, too. I knew he wasn't affiliated with the old company, but it works so well for me that I hate to switch. I appreciate it so much! Love, Melissa

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You know, you might really like it a lot. It might be worth a try at least. Let me know your thoughts. Love, Melissa

  • @sksbc3895
    @sksbc3895 7 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Why in the world would a stranger feel compelled to email someone like this and call them a liar after the person has answered the initial question? For Melissa to have to go through this kind of explaining really bothers me. Melissa is one of the most down to earth and grounded TH-camr's and doesn't deserve this kind of nonsense. I know for me at 55 yrs old, I have a more filled out look (compared to in my 40's) from not just mid life weight gain but from hormones as well. It happens, our metabolism slows down, fat distributes differently and we change as we age....deal with it naysayers! If you're lucky, you experience it for yourself one day....and if you're REALLY lucky you'll look as good as Melissa does!

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      What a sweet comment and I am so grateful. I really did look different and I felt that I needed to talk about why I did.
      You said something interesting, too, in that fat distributes differently. I think some of the skin under my cheeks is jowls. That happens as we age and I think it has settled there. Well the weight gain contributed, too. And being sick before. That you so much and I send you much love, Meissa

  • @ecampbell5837
    @ecampbell5837 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is absolutely absurd that people would even care enough to email and message you about this. Weight gain and/or cosmetic procedures are entirely your personal business. You are beautiful and people are jealous and sadly often love to hate. You are an inspiration and there is so much more to you and what you bring to your channel than physical appearance. I think for the most part people can see how genuine and kind you are so just shake off the noise and be happy! You are a joy to watch and I learn so much from you. Thank you for doing your videos I truly look forward to watching !

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for this, Erin. I think people felt deceived because they thought I had something done and wasn't admitting it. So I felt I had better just address it and move on. I hope people will let it go and believe me now. You are so sweet and I really appreciate it so much. Love, Melissa

  • @flametexas
    @flametexas 7 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    Don't apologize for being beautiful. I can't tell you gained any weight... you look gorgeous. People are just rude and sometimes just plain ole jealous... do not let the views of some possibility mean spirited people hurt or stop you. I love your videos and sweet spirit... keep up the videos and we enjoy you! Your body may need the weight... don't rush... you look great check with your doc? I think you look healthy! As I said I can't tell.... stay well.

    • @knk9657
      @knk9657 7 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      I agree...it's jealousy and insecurity that drives people sometimes....sometimes we can look better than we did five or ten years ago...this has happened to me, my teenage daughter and I were looking at some pics of me about 7-8 years ago, and she said mom, you look way better now than back then...I agree...I haven't had any work done, but just starting taking better care of myself, and caring more what I look like, and showing more interest in beauty...it pays off sometimes....!

    • @flametexas
      @flametexas 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Photo lover 63 you are absolutely correct! And products get better and through TH-cam we are introduced to some great products ... both skincare and beauty!

    • @hannahwiggins455
      @hannahwiggins455 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      texas flame mock I agree with everything you said! I don't see the weight, I think she looks so great. She's just so gorgeous that some people can't stand it and have to lash out at her. 😞

    • @flametexas
      @flametexas 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hannah Wiggins absolutely! Melissa and several other youtubers I watch and learn from have received similar comments... its uncalled for and rude.. if they don't like it simply change their viewing, but no need for being rude. These women put a lot of time and effort into these videos and I for one appreciate it. I have found so many great products and make up tips.

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I really appreciate this so much. I can tell it in my hips, face and in my clothes a lot. Everything is really tight now. I have wondered if my body needed the padding in case I got sick again. Or it's the ice cream! lol. thank you so very much. Love, Melissa

  • @MaryEllenAfter60
    @MaryEllenAfter60 7 ปีที่แล้ว +155

    Hopefully you will be able to put this to rest, Melissa. You are beautiful inside, and outside. Loved the story if your reasons to eat ice cream. I will remember all of those excuses. Thank you very much for mentioning my channel. We have a lot of the same philosophies on skincare. I don't/won't mask either. I look forward to being a viewer of your "masking" party. You know I love you too, my friend. There is no doubt, you and Kristinn will have a wonderful time together tomorrow. Many blessings, prayers, and peace...MaryEllen

    • @lou7758
      @lou7758 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      what a lovely message!!! x x

    • @Theuniverseguru
      @Theuniverseguru 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'll have to go check out your retinA transformation after finishing up with this video! I turn 37 later this year and it may be a good time to research this.

    • @Beauty_Is_Free
      @Beauty_Is_Free 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      MaryEllen - what is the reason for not masking? I know I've heard you guys talk about it, but I can't remember the reason you don't.

    • @aslansown
      @aslansown 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You won't believe the transformation!

    • @dianedemnicki4118
      @dianedemnicki4118 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi MaryEllen, you are such a good sweet person your skin is amazing too! I forgot to ask Melissa, but why do you not mask either? I had been sick with cold flu bronchitis for 4wks. just getting over it. My skin and hair look messed up. I did a hair mask yesterday so a little better now. Thought I might try the masking party tonight I have oily combo in summer and dry combo in winter. My pores got larger? Anyway LOVE you too sweetie. May GOD bless you and everyone, Diane

  • @JoannaDeVoe
    @JoannaDeVoe 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You do NOT owe anyone any kind of explanation about anything. You are a beautiful person inside & out, Melissa, and that rubs some people the wrong way- generally people who are unhappy with themselves.

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      I appreciate this so much, Joanna. I do have to say I feel better just talking about the differences and getting it all out in the open. I feel I can put it behind me now. Love and thanks, Melissa

  • @fptnyc
    @fptnyc 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I am new to your channel and thus far I love everything that I have seen. I just turned 50 and live in NYC. It breaks my heart to see you so vulnerable and more to watch you explain yourself about your look and your weight. I wish for the day in which we, women, support each other regardless of our looks. If our core values are limited to outside appearance then we are really in trouble. I think you look gorgeous and never ever feel you have to explain yourself. Thank you for inspiring many of us to take care of ourself at a mature age. Blessings.

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      aw, thank you so much for your kindness. And living in NYC must be so exciting. What a kind person you are. I so appreciate this so much. I really hope this video will settle all of this. I feel better after making it. Love and thanks, Melissa

  • @TheBTDEB
    @TheBTDEB 7 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I cannot imagine people actually emailing with such nastiness. Everyday, I am amazed how adults act like middle school girls.

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Some of it was quite hard to take, to be honest. Hopefully that is all behind me now! Thank you so much. Love, Melissa

    • @selenenajera4477
      @selenenajera4477 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don't pay any attention of what people say or comments your beautiful and aging beautiful I remember when I was younger I would let comments or people would say about me get to me now I'm don't care I'm care free .. people always going to talk regarding if your right or wrong 🤷

  • @Marienkaefer4
    @Marienkaefer4 7 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    You poor thing! Why do people have to be so awful to one another? Keep your spirits and your head up high! You are a wonderful spirit!

    • @lynnrose7562
      @lynnrose7562 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I agree!

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh gosh this was sweet. I keep crying and this brought a lump to my throat! Thank you so very much. Love you! Melissa

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      aw, thank you so much, Lynn!

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      I appreciate this so much.

  • @laurahargrave4602
    @laurahargrave4602 7 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Its an absolute shame that you have to get on social media and explain or defend yourself! I'm 54 years old and I've certainly gained weight over the last few years. I can't understand anyone being negative against any you tubers, especially somebody like you!! What does it matter to them!? You're stunning and they are just jealous!!

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      I really appreciate this so much, Laura. I think the difference in my appearance made people feel like I was lying to them. I'm just glad I got it out in the open and can move on now. You are so kind. Many thanks, Melissa

  • @eleniandthecards
    @eleniandthecards 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you for being so upfront and transparent with us. I wouldn't watch this channel if I didn't admire you as a Southern woman, and I know that you will do just fine with or without the weight loss.

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      I really appreciate that, Eleni. I am really glad I made the video and explained everything. It was getting so hard to deal with so I just wanted to lay it all out. I appreciate it. Love, Melissa

  • @susanschafer1248
    @susanschafer1248 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Melissa, You are the epitome of what beauty and grace are. This is an older video but I watched it again. Love you, Sue xo

  • @debbiejaxel9205
    @debbiejaxel9205 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Melissa, you are not getting older, you're getting BETTER! Stop even addressing these negative comments from people. You are an inspiration to anyone over 60, believe me. Look forward to your videos!

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh Debbie I like the way you think!!! lol Love you lots and I sure am grateful to you. xxx, Melissa

  • @jancruser8496
    @jancruser8496 7 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Melissa, people are just jealous and petty. Those of us who follow you know that you are the real meal deal. We know you don't lie, shame, shame, shame on all the naysayers. IT'S JUST PURE JEALOUSY! Don't let them get you down, those of us who know and love you know that you are as beautiful on the inside as you are on the outside. You have been blessed with a wonderful gene pool and you take care of yourself. Period! You're a true Southern woman, and for all those people who suggest that you are a phony "bless their hearts." And we both know that that means!!! ;-) XoXoXo And I think you look better now than you did in the earlier videos. I'm a total Team Melissa girl, but you really do look better, you look so much healthier now...

    • @sksbc3895
      @sksbc3895 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      +Jan Cruser.... you hit that nail on the head. Jealousy...that's all it is. They only wish they looked like Melissa!

    • @dvorahmariscal7963
      @dvorahmariscal7963 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Jan Cruser - I wish I looked more like Melissa! Melissa you look exquisite now. A tad bit too thing before although still beautiful. I wish my face would gain some weight and smooth out my lip lines! 💞😍🍦🍷🎂🍓

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh Jan, you brought tears to my eyes. You are always so kind and I really appreciate you. I really am hopeful that people will believe me and the accusations will stop. lololol, we do know what "bless their hearts means" lol Love it and I love you dearly. Many thanks, Melissa

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh thank you . I did want people to know I wasn't lying and explain why I look different. I hope it helps! Thank you so much. xxx, Melissa

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh gosh you are so sweet and kind! Thank you so much. I wish some of my weight gain had gone to the chest area! lol. Thank you so much. Love, Melissa

  • @colleenbarry1708
    @colleenbarry1708 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Melissa, I'm so sorry some people have been so rude to you. You are such a beautiful person inside and out! Sending you so much love and peace! 💗

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      That is so kind of you, Colleen. Thank you so much and love and peace back to you. xxx, Melissa

  • @beachbayby2
    @beachbayby2 7 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    girl you look fantastic!!... you look younger with a few extra pounds...i never noticed before until you did the side by side...keep doing what you're doing...Kim

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      I appreciate it, Kim. I was kind of surprised at the difference when I did the side by side. So I'm glad I explained it in the video. Many thanks! Love, Melissa

  • @janedelaney4327
    @janedelaney4327 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Melissa consider it a compliment that they are so jealous and envious. Please after this disregard the haters. Mean people don't matter. They really don't

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much, Jane. I do feel better just getting all this out and talking about it and now I can let it go and get back to normal. I am really grateful. Love, Melissa

  • @carolpeterman5725
    @carolpeterman5725 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just started watching your videos and love seeing your pretty face, beautiful hair and sunny disposition. I don’t see that “happiness” in people very often. I too am 62 and can relate to everything you are saying. Keep doing what you do- I’ll keep watching. You are such an inspiration to the over 60 ladies! All of the negative comments are from unhappy, jealous, miserable people. Ignore them.
    You are awesome!

  • @debbieweaver4082
    @debbieweaver4082 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I laughed out loud when you were telling about your justification for your ice cream and Starbucks habits. My best friend was the same way about her Starbucks weakness and had to quit. You are beautiful with the weight gain, don't change a thing. Thank you for sharing.

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      lolol, oh girl, the excuses we came up with. We are big University of Tennessee football fans. So if they lost, we would look at each other and say, "I need ice cream. Stat". and when we won we would say, "I'm so happy. Ice cream to celebrate" lololol Thank you so much. Love, Melissa

  • @kathienickerson
    @kathienickerson 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Melissa - you are so beautiful - inside and out. Please don't listen to those who are are so negative and hateful. We watch your channel for your honesty, your inside tips on skin care, makeup, clothing, etc - and we watch for YOU! Always so uplifting and positive, and such a joy to watch. Thank you for all that you do for us, and please keep all these wonderful videos coming! Sending you lots of love and hugs from FL xoxoxo

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh Kathie, thank you so much. This touched my heart so much. I tell you, reading this has just been so uplifting. I am touched and so grateful. Love to you, Melissa

  • @jankelb
    @jankelb 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    It's a shame that people have to be mean. You are beautiful inside and out. Love to watch you and learn about different makeup.
    xoxo Hugs, Jannie

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      I really appreciate this so much, Jannie. I am hopeful that doing this video will help people understand why I look different. Thank you! Melissa

  • @jacquelynfalivene8629
    @jacquelynfalivene8629 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Melissa, you are so beautiful - inside and out, and such an inspiration! I am so sorry and saddened that the jealousy and hatefulness of some women drove you to the making of this video. You don't have to apologize or explain to them! Unfortunately, there will always be unhappy people who have to tear others down in order to feel good or better about themselves. I think you are a lovely lady... I'm 51 and hope to be half as gorgeous as you when I turn 60! Much love to you!

  • @LisaMonique
    @LisaMonique 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm so shocked you would get those messages and emails! You are just absolutely lovely and I've just started a Retin A regime again after seeing your videos. I got a prescription about 18 months ago to start then, but my daughters took both my tubes (one with acne scars, the other with keratosis pillars on her face and neither live at home) so I needed to get another prescription or order online (I opted for latter, it will take me too long to go back to Dr). I'll be 53 in August and hope that I can look as fabulous as you when I'm 60. And you look younger every year! I love your most recent car videos, I laughed out loud at some of the answers!

  • @sarahjane9264
    @sarahjane9264 7 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I don't understand why women care what other women do. I have botox in my forehead, juverderm in my lips and silicone in my chest. Who really cares!? You look beautiful Melissa, and you do whatever you want to do. I wouldn't care if you came on here looking like a Kardashian. I'd still think you are the BEST! I'm sorry people are so rude and you felt the need to do this video. You shouldn't have to defend yourself. Know that the other 99.9% of us love you for who you are XO

    • @ashisfun21
      @ashisfun21 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sarah Jane Exactly! I am only 34 and have had botox, fillers and also breast augmentation 10 years ago. WHO CARES? You other petty women need a hobby or maybe better sex.😂

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      I really loved this comment, Sarah. I could tell the comments were getting more frequent and more accusatory, so I felt something had to give. The name calling was hard to handle. I just couldn't understand that. And I totally would have admitted to having anything done. I just don't because of the Crohn's and being afraid it would throw me into a flare. But I would have taken them along with me to get any kind of procedures done. You are absolutely gorgeous. Thank you so much for such kind words. Much love, Melissa

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      hahahahah, I love the better sex! It sure does cure a lot!!!! xoxoxox

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are so right, Laurie. xoxoxoxo

  • @nancypalmierievans6333
    @nancypalmierievans6333 7 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    You are so beautiful.....just stunning. I wouldn't worry about losing weight because you look better now than you did then. Don't let negative people make you feel bad about yourself. Honestly, I think they are envious.

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh Nancy, thank you so very much for this. I am so hopeful that this video will make people realize why I look different now. I hope so! Thank you and much love, Melissa

  • @KMYA4ME
    @KMYA4ME 7 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    DO NOT APOLOGIZE TO JEALOUS WOMEN!

    • @phoebepurvis3630
      @phoebepurvis3630 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      KMYA4ME YESSSSSSSSSSS! ! xxx

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      aw, thank you for this. I am feeling better after making this video. I really feel I can put it behind me now. Thank you so much. Love, Melissa

  • @Melissa55
    @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

    +La Petite Marie aw, don't cry! It's so much better now that I've addressed it. I can let it go now. I am so touched by your comment. It really is fine though. You are such a sweet person and I sure am grateful that we are friends. I hope you know how much I appreciate you. Love and thanks, Melissa

  • @Theuniverseguru
    @Theuniverseguru 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm so sorry you are having to explain yourself. As a fellow youtuber, I can relate to this so much. People will go out of their way to make rude and mean comments about my looks, race, etc. What a shame. You are so beautiful inside and out, just radiating joy! What does it even matter to them what you have or haven't had done? They need to find their own joy instead of attacking others. Just love you and your videos.

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are so gorgeous! I can't imagine anyone every making a mean comment to you! Thank you so much for commenting. Your positive attitude is so inspirational. Much love, Melissa

  • @LauraRaeBeauty
    @LauraRaeBeauty 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Melissa ...you are perfect the way you are. It upsets me to think you have had to deal with these type comments. Anyone can see from knowing you that you wouldn't lie to everyone. I am the same as you. I support what anyone wants to do in regards to Botox but it is not for me. I have fought hard to keep my weight down most of my life. I truly have a sweet tooth and I love ice cream too. I had some pralines and cream today! Afterward I told Danielle that I had to take a break from the ice cream. Lol I go through periods where I eat more sweets and times when I am better at resisting them. You are drop dead gorgeous and these brutal comments all go back to one thing...jealousy! Love you lots..Laura

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am truly grateful to you, Laura. I have been blessed to be able to know you and your beauty and grace always inspire me. Pralines and cream is my very favorite. I hope some day we can have a bowl together! Yes, it's an ebb and flow of craving them. It probably has to do with cycles, even though I don't have that anymore. I still think it lingers in my body. Love to you and thank you so much for this. xxx, Melissa

  • @gaylal.7862
    @gaylal.7862 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are beautiful and your skin is amazing!! I have never questioned anything you have told us. I appreciate all the information you give us about skin care. I for one am thankful for you and your willingness to educate your TH-cam community!! You look amazing!!!!

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That is so very sweet of you to say, Gayla! I don't think I'm educating much! I think I'm the one that's learning from everyone else. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't learn something from someone on here. It's wonderful. anyway, thank you so much. Love, Melissa

  • @nancyboykin8769
    @nancyboykin8769 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I have also gained 15 pounds since turning 50. I also have chubby cheeks with no filler! Also, I have Crohn's and have had 2 surgeries. I was terribly gaunt and actually lost 25 lbs. You naysayers out there need to get a life, and quit accusing Melissa55.

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh wow, Nancy, it's like we are having so much of the same experiences with our bodies. I have to think the Crohn's affects our whole bodies, including our faces. I don't think people realize how difficult this disease it. It pretty much can consume your whole life can't it? Bless you and I wish you good health. Love you lots, Melissa

    • @nancyboykin8769
      @nancyboykin8769 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, your weight can fluctuate wildly. I have naturally chubby cheeks, but when I am at my sickest, my face becomes gaunt. Found your videos only recently, and I love them. Most of my friends are much younger, and it is nice to listen to someone who is going through things that are more relevant to me in this stage of life. I am turning 60 in September...not really looking forward to it, but, it is better than the alternative!

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      The same thing happens with me. My cheeks seem to swell and deflate. lol. You are going to do great turning 60. Truly I am having the time of my life! Love and thanks!

  • @andreasanderson2280
    @andreasanderson2280 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I feel so strongly about this issue that for the first time ever, I signed on to TH-cam to make a comment. Melissa, you are beautiful inside and out and you do not owe anyone an explanation.Life happens to all of us. It is so generous of you to take the time and expense to make these videos for us to enjoy. Why women have to try and bring other women down is beyond me, but what is really telling is they did not have the guts to make public comments, instead doing it by private methods (this is bullying). To show my support for women who youtube after 60 I have subscribed to your channel and also MaryEllen’s as these are the ones I enjoy watching with the limited time I have for TH-cam. You are my first subscription ever❤️ Aandy

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh Andy, I am so very honored that you cared enough to sign up. I do feel a lot better after addressing this issue. The accusations have been going on for a while and I just wanted them to stop. Anyway, I really appreciate this so very much. And thank you so much for subscribing and for subbing to MaryEllen, too. I am so honored and I know she will be, too. Thank you and much love, Melissa

  • @jansk8tr
    @jansk8tr 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Melissa, I found you about two months ago quite by accident when you were reacting to an anti-aging ad photographed by a young model. I have followed you fervently ever since including many of your old videos. You exude southern charm, enthusiasm, positivity, and honesty. You have carried me through a long illness and two surgeries. There will always be people like those you mentioned, and I'm so sorry that you had to endure this ordeal. Girl, if you lived close I would absolutely love to be a good friend of yours. Stay faith-filled and happy!

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Janet I thank you so very much for this. I am so very sorry about your illness and your surgeries. I hope you are on the road to a recovery now. Chronic illness is so hard and discouraging. It makes you realize how important good health is. Thank you and please take good care of yourself. Much love, Melissa

  • @elizabethslade1153
    @elizabethslade1153 7 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    You are beautiful! It makes me sad that you had to explain this because of cruel comments. God love you!!! You are Gorgeous!!

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      aw, thanks so much, Elizabeth. I think it was a good thing that I addressed it. I really didn't want people thinking I was a fraud. Thank you so much. Love Melissa

  • @judycrick5795
    @judycrick5795 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Melissa you look great absolutely beautiful !!! I'll be turning 60 soon and started using retin A i hope i look half as good as you, and Mary Ellen.. xoxo

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh Judy, Happy Birthday. You are beautiful and look absolutely amazing and well I just wish I could give you a hug!!! :) Thank you and much love, Melissa

  • @deeannroberts4358
    @deeannroberts4358 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Melissa: You have to ignore any type of negative comments like that. You are absolutely stunning! You are beautiful inside and out. I started watching your channel about a year ago so I never saw you looking any different than you do now so thank you for sharing the side by side pics. It's obvious that you are healthier in the later videos. You just have a glow about you that you didn't have back then. I know we all have a goal weight that we feel our best at so if you aren't there, I understand if you want to lose it...but girl, you are so beautiful, your skin, your hair, your style, your gorgeous blue eyes...need I say more. Just my opinion but I think you look amazing just as you are. Dee Ann

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      I really appreciate it, Dee. I truly did try to ignore them, but they just kept coming. and they have been getting worse. And the names I have been called you wouldn't believe. I just couldn't go on like that. It was too painful. It was either explain or delete my channel. Anyway, I do feel better and healthier now. I would feel a bit better losing some of it. My clothes are too tight. I really appreciate this comment so much. Love, Melissa

    • @vickietrauth5463
      @vickietrauth5463 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      We

  • @kathyhammerling4661
    @kathyhammerling4661 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Darlin' Melissa, my mama taught me that you are what comes out of your mouth. You are an example of a soft word turning away wrath. Those unhappy folks that wrote unkind, ugly things are only reflecting back what truly are. Thank you for being a lovely and gracious soul. Lots of love and blessings to you!

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      aw, Kathy, thank you so much for this. You are the one with the lovely and gracious soul. I am so grateful. Much love, Melissa

  • @joya6414
    @joya6414 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    One of the many, many reasons I watch your videos is that your honesty and integrity shine through. You are so real! I watched this one in shock that people could find you dishonest, and have the nerve to make accusations. Keep being you Melissa...smart, funny, sweet, real! I enjoy every minute.

  • @Lori42ish
    @Lori42ish 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are a beautiful women with a beautiful spirit. I hate that people have attacked you in this way. I have watched some of your older videos and never did I ever think you had work done. As a matter of fact I think you look beautiful now and then. But your face is glowing more now. It must be the late night refreshing ice cream and Starbucks latte's. Hahahaha Just keep moving forward you are an inspiration. I'm 52 and you make turning 60 so encouraging and exciting. I love your videos and your wisdom. Michele from Missouri. My husband and I did a military tour in Knoxville Tn. We loved it there. ❤️

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      aw, thank you so much, Michele. I did feel I looked different but could tell it was from being ill and the weight. lol the ice cream and Starbucks sure do make me happy! lol. What a kind thing to say. Oh how neat that you were in Knoxville. Did they convert you to become a Vol fan? lol. Love and thanks, Melissa

    • @Lori42ish
      @Lori42ish 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Melissa55 oh my gosh the whole town was orange when we moved there. Lol Yes they did for the time I was there. But I'm a Texan through and through. I'm also working on getting the ice cream and Starbucks off me as well. We are fixin to go to Jamaica for our thirty year anniversary so I'm working hard at eating clean. ❤️

  • @terrystutts4931
    @terrystutts4931 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Blue is your color Melissa! Looks wonderful on you ❤️

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      aw, thank you, Terry! Much love, Melissa

  • @moosellips5970
    @moosellips5970 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The people making negative comments are just jealous of how good you look at your age.
    Most of us believe you its only a tiny minority that don't

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      I appreciate this so much, Christine. I really hope this video will help people understand. Many thanks, Melissa

  • @Melissa55
    @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

    +Marina Luna I really appreciate this so much, Marina. Some of the comments were difficult to read. They hurt my feelings. But hopefully this video will end that. Many thanks. Love, Melissa

  • @DawnsLifeover40
    @DawnsLifeover40 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh Melissa, this breaks my heart for you. You have been such an inspiration to me ever since I found your channel. My thought is that the world is full of people who are hurting. Their actions are a result of not knowing better, or not caring (which is worse because it's an indication of a hardened heart). You are one who strives to be a light in a dark place (the world), so the darkness either brightens or resists the light to squelch it. There is good news! The light (love/ positivity) always wins! Physics (laws of nature)even backs this up!!! What I would do is think of it as a test of your character. Meaning stay full of love and positivity (for me this is where the rubber meets the road in my prayer life). I am praying for you and your beautiful light to shine even brighter! Much love, Dawn

    • @DawnsLifeover40
      @DawnsLifeover40 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      One more thing, you don't need to lose a pound! Enjoy your treats with Doug😘

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much, Dawn. You are such a beautiful woman. It really brought tears to my eyes. I really like the thought of staying positive and full of love when it hurt me. I would read the comments to Doug at night and he would tell me to say a prayer and forgive them. But I truly think I needed to make this video. I really appreciate it. Love, Melissa

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      aw, thank you so much!

  • @lynnrose7562
    @lynnrose7562 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The off the shoulder look is very flattering on you.

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      aw, I really appreciate that Lynn. I've always worn them and have a feeling I'll be this little 90 year old woman still wearing them! lol. xxx, Melissa

  • @l.e.decker8986
    @l.e.decker8986 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I don't think I've ever left a comment on youtube or anywhere else for that matter, but I just wanted to say that I think you are just precious! You seem like the best of all my southern relatives rolled into one. :)

    • @fayemullinax3023
      @fayemullinax3023 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      you are beautiful and you do not need to lose any weight. I have also been on Prednisone off and on for the last ten years and have gained alot of weight. I need to get back to my original weight so I can feel better about myself. you are beautiful so please don't worry about some jealous women!

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Gosh this touches me so very much. And it touches me more that you don't usually comment. I am so grateful for this. Thank you, Melissa

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much for this, Faye. I have such a love hate relationship with Pred. I'm been on high doses off and on during my life. Many times by IV. It always made me feel better, but the weight gain and the change in my face were sometimes hard. You are wonderful and I am so grateful to you. Love, Melissa

  • @sharp12003
    @sharp12003 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Dear sweet Melissa how terrible that you have to try to defend yourself against negative people. There will always be people who want to tear you down. Don't let them bother you. They are just jealous of you. You are beautiful & are ageing so well. Keep being you. You are honest & genuine. That is one of the reasons that I keeping watching you. I know that I can trust what you say. xoxo Lisa

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      aw, thank you so much, Lisa. I did feel it was important to address the changes and then hopefully people will quit accusing me. That is my hope anyway. I am always so grateful to you. Thank you so much. Love, Melissa

  • @diydecorate
    @diydecorate 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are beautiful inside and out. Sounds like some bullies were trying to pick a fight. You have handled this question (although you did not need to) with your usual grace and style. No Twitter or other social media scrapping with the instigators. You just delivered your side plain and simple on your channel. I'm so proud of how you handle yourself. I watch a lot of youtubers, some young and some my age. There's a lot of drama on TH-cam. You are so above all that. Really classy. Glad to be a sub. Let the haters hate, you have the perfect revenge - REAL beauty!

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh thank you so much! It's been going on for a while. I tried to just ignore it, but it started escalating, so I thought I better address it. I'm glad to get it all out and then get back to normal. Oh there is a lot of drama on TH-cam lol. I try to stay far away from that! lol. Thank you so much and much love, Melissa

  • @MsKaterinaKo
    @MsKaterinaKo 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I know you have had 2k comments so far so I don't expect a reply or anything, but watching your videos has been inspiring in many ways. Not just skin care, but your positive attitude and your lovely marriage and family. Noone should be able to comment anything nasty, and if they do it's only out of jealousy. Weight gain doesn't count for anything if you still look as thin and fabulous as you do :)

  • @gala9593
    @gala9593 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love your videos and i believe you look amazing and i do not believe you have had work done. My Mom is 66 and she looks amazing, she doesnt have wrinkles, none literally !! You dont have to prove anything to anyone !!
    I believe you are a beautiful soul and it reflects on the outside 😊

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am so grateful for such a sweet comment. Your mother sounds amazing. Ask her what her secrets are!!! Thank you so much and much love, Melissa

  • @Kalindrome
    @Kalindrome 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It is such a shame that people have to accost you with all this negativity. You don't owe anyone an explanation -- you look amazing!

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much, Kalinda. I really hope now that this put an end to the accusations. I appreciate it. Love, Melissa

  • @rxstrmom
    @rxstrmom 7 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I do not even know where to begin. Jim and I are hooked on Dove's ice cream sandwiches at night, before bed. But, I had already gained weight from getting married, eating 3 squares a day and menopause. Here's the deal...I could lose weight but it would show in my face. My doctor said I'm not overweight for my age and height and since I'm not willing to have surgery/fillers I would rather my face stay fuller than my butt to be smaller. #%@# anyone even insinuating that you've lied. That's all I have to say. love you...xoxo patti 🎀

    • @SCsweettea
      @SCsweettea 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      rxstrmom i agree with you 100%. You and i are a few years older than our beautiful Melissa, and we both know the benefit of being a bit heavier than our weight as a younger woman. Being too thin also shows up in our arms and legs in an unflattering way. I am tall like Melissa and i definitely like that AARP 15 on me nowadays. Love you patti.

    • @rxstrmom
      @rxstrmom 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      :)

    • @catherinejane5188
      @catherinejane5188 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Catherine Deneuve Quote: “At a certain age, you have to choose between your face and your a--.”

    • @paulawhite2546
      @paulawhite2546 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Catherine Jane Perfect! Unbelievable that people are so judgemental sitting behind a screen. I imagine they hope to inflict hurt. Losers. Pathetic meany head losers.

    • @cynthiahinton6483
      @cynthiahinton6483 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I was going to post that quote! It is perfect.

  • @LittlePoet
    @LittlePoet 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh Melissa don’t you fret...everybody who matters knows you are honest as the day is long. I think you have always been beautiful...my dear Lord. I have noticed a real uptick in TH-cam “haters” the last few months and it gets very stressful. I know I have gained weight and it does bother me.Getting older is tough and then doing it in front of the camera in front of thousands of people every week is not easy. I know it goes with the territory, but still, we have feelings and we work very hard to create good videos. Sometimes a soul just gets tired and needs encouragement, not negative comments. And how many people in our lives share all this that we are going through? Our community support is so crucial and just know I am always here. My Mama once told me, “ never ever let them see you sweat” and I live that. It helps keep us whole. Much love to you always, Susan

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much for this, Susan. I've noticed the negative comments picking up, too, It must be something in the air! lol. Oh girl, getting older isn't for the weak, that's for sure! I am hopeful this video will explain the differences in the way I look. I feel better talking about it anyway. Many thanks to you, Melissa

  • @debbiemayo3498
    @debbiemayo3498 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Melissa, I just found your channel and was so glad to discover a channel with someone over 60. I'm 60 myself and it's been very difficult for me. I feel like baby boomers don't take the aging process too well. In my mind everything is done and there's not much to look forward to. Your videos have been such an inspiration to me and I thank you so much for doing them. When I'm feeling down, I just watch you. You are so beautiful, so sweet and so down to earth and your topics are very helpful because u cover so many things I'm unsure of at this age like makeup and what's appropriate to wear. You have given me hope as I face this aging thing! I eagerly await everything u do!

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh Debbie, thank you so much for such a sweet comment. I truly feel we have so much more living to do. So much yet to accomplish. so many goals to still meet. Please take good care of yourself and know how grateful I am for your kind words. Love, Melissa

  • @becuteforme
    @becuteforme 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    They are so JEALOUS! That's the only explanation. You should be flattered! :-*
    My name is Leticia and I am following you on Facebook. Just letting ya' know. :)

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      aw, thanks so much for this. And it's so nice to see you! I appreciate it. Love Melissa

  • @barbiegirl4224
    @barbiegirl4224 7 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Melissa you are glowing. Have anyone ever tell you that you resemble Christy Brinkley .

    • @Diane-yq3im
      @Diane-yq3im 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Melissa is prettier than Christy - AND hasn't had all the work Christy has!

    • @maryl8910
      @maryl8910 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Bxd8 Pat yes, I've told her she is youtubes christy Brinkley!

    • @anne-marielandry4465
      @anne-marielandry4465 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      diane anderson

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      aw, I sure do appreciate this so much. Whew, I am so flattered!!! I don't believe it, but I sure do appreciate you saying it. Love ya, Melissa

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh girl, I'm no where in that woman's league! But you are so sweet to say that. Thank you so much. Love, Melissa

  • @cecacademicadvisor
    @cecacademicadvisor 7 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Actually I like you better with the weight on. I would not lose a pound. So sorry for the ugly people. It is just a given when you go public. I would not give the negative stuff a second thought. What is that saying, sticks and stones can break my bones but words will never hurt me. : o ) With that said, you did a beautiful job addressing the issue. Very classy and with a lot of grace. You are a joy. : o )

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I just love you, Bev!!!! I have to say I feel so much better just getting it all out there and talking about it instead of letting it fester. I like things talked about and worked on and then people are usually ok. Thank you so much! Love, Melissa

    • @leslieellis227
      @leslieellis227 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bev Sivert agreed!! She looks amazing just the way she is❤️

  • @kimb2911
    @kimb2911 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm a newer TH-camr and I rarely comment on videos, but felt compelled to do so. Then, after reading all the comments all I can say is ditto, ditto, ditto...You have been such an inspiration to me and I thank you for sharing yourself with us. You are so beautiful inside and out and it's so sad that people have to be so negative and that you even have to address them. When I was teaching I had this adage hung in my classroom "A well adjusted, content person has no need to try to find flaws in others." Shame on them! We all love you!

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Goodness, Kim, what a gorgeous woman you are!!! Oh thank you so much for these kind words. I am so touched. I really hope after making this video that it won't be a problem anymore. It's the main reason why I addressed it just to get it all behind me. Thank you so much for this. Love, Melissa

  • @sharonheffren7755
    @sharonheffren7755 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Melissa, you do not owe anyone any kind of explanations ... none of what you explained needed to be explained to anyone!! You are a very beautiful lady, and if any fillers or whatever procedure, could make me look as good as you do, I would do it in a minute! I am close to your age, and I know how quickly & easily we can change after a certain age. I have been on a weight loss plan this year, and I definetly see the changes in my face / neck the most so far. I am sorry that you felt like you had to even address this issue with everyone because of a few people who can't just mind their own business.

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      aw, thank you Sharon. I did kind of feel I needed to explain myself. The accusations were getting worse and it was making me feel really bad about myself. I do want to get this weight off if I can, or at least some of it. I really appreciate it. Love, Melissa

  • @jkalous100
    @jkalous100 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Don't let the hate get to you. You look fantastic and I would be thrilled to look like you in my 60's.

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      I really appreciate this so much! Many thanks, Melissa

  • @BeautyByAnneMarie
    @BeautyByAnneMarie 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You are always so gorgeous! I was on a ice cream kick last year and had a little bowl every night--it's just so good! (I'm now working on losing 5 pounds LOL). I think you look great now and are very thin, I don't think you need to lose any weight at all, you look fantastic! Hope you have a fun weekend! Love you! xoxo

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      aw thanks, Anne. Oh that ice cream is soooo good! And decadent. And good! lol. You have a gorgeous figure. I really appreciate this so much and much love, Melissa

  • @KatEL777
    @KatEL777 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Melissa, you look so amazing, these women are very jealous and critical! Your true followers know that you are not lying, you are a sweet spirit and a good soul! Also, did you get a new camera? That might also make you look different, lighting and camera. You look great before and after so who cares! There is no need to explain or swear, especially on your grandchildren, don't do that! These people are not worth it! God Bless =)

    • @sandraperalta2685
      @sandraperalta2685 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Lady you look great now, no explanation need it.

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kat, this just means the world to me. Thank you more than I can say Yes, the camera was different. The lighting was different and even the room is different. I shouldn't have sworn on my grandchildren. That was very wrong of me. I am so grateful. Love, Meissa

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      I appreciate this so much, Sandra. Many thanks, Melissa

  • @StrongAndRaw
    @StrongAndRaw ปีที่แล้ว

    I also see a lighting difference AND your hair and skin coloring difference. One of the MAIN reasons I watch you...for a longtime, I might add...is your pure honesty!

  • @jodymbmw3460
    @jodymbmw3460 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    You really didn't have to share but thank you. I believed you and I think it is mostly because women aren't so secretive about getting things done to their faces and bodies. I appreciate the vulnerability of all you ladies who share makeup tips, etc. with us. I'm sure those who are criticizing wouldn't want to be so vulnerable. Just know that you have been very helpful to so many of us that follow you. I'm 55 and you've shown me lots and taught me lots. Keep it up and know you are appreciated.

  • @laraesanford8605
    @laraesanford8605 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Melissa, I think you look better with the extra 15. I wish I looked as gorgeous after having lattes and ice cream. looks like that's the fountain of youth.
    You are precious and please ignore the ones saying things. I've a strong feeling, they are jealous and just not nice people with horrible vision.
    You inspire me so much. Love & Hugs. 💗

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh bless you Larae! And I love this picture of you! It's just lovely. Thank you so very much for your kindness. Love, Melissa

  • @trishforney5867
    @trishforney5867 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So sorry Melissa you even felt the need to make this video :-(. Women are just so mean to each other. I personally am finding this age the hardest to adjust to especially because in my head I am still 35. Do whatever you want to do or not do with no regrets (lol working on that myself) and jeez people stop throwing shade and evaluate if you have your own issues...my guess...you do like everyone else!
    Melissa, you ALWAYS look beautiful!
    💓

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's probably a good thing I made the video. I was getting a lot of comments about it. Yes, I still feel so much younger, too. It's interesting isn't it? I am very grateful for this. Love of love, Melissa

  • @allysonbrown9159
    @allysonbrown9159 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You should be ecstatic as you look amazing! I actually think you look better now. More radiant and your body is amazing! You have not gained a lot of weight at all. Your body has changed but I don't think you look any bigger! Keep being the inspiration that you are xxx

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      aw, you are so kind, Allyson. I really do feel healthier now. I have energy that I don't remember having before. I really appreciate it. Love Melissa

  • @paddymcmarlar
    @paddymcmarlar 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    What refreshing honesty, Melissa! I've only followed you for a short while and had no idea you'd been so sick with Crohn's Disease in the past. I think you are a beautiful woman, inside and out, and you have amazing, glowing skin. I'll be 62 in a couple months and you look easily 10-15 years younger than me! I am now taking much better care of my skin and use a retinol product a couple times/week. I've also started using Rosehip Seed Oil and really like what it's doing for my skin, especially the dryness around my eyes. I will check out Mary Ellen's channel upon your recommendation.

  • @SAHMMNA
    @SAHMMNA 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your honesty with yourself and with your subscribers is admirable. You owe no one - anything. But, speaking to it and giving your LIFE a voice and being honest with what is happening with you, is AWESOME! We love you no matter what. And we are all lucky to be on this life journey with you. XO

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much for this. I really did feel it had come to a point where I needed to address it. And not for the people that were calling me names so much, as for the people that were asking me for more information. I wanted to answer them because they were so nice about it. Thank you so much. Love, Melissa

  • @MissCrystal
    @MissCrystal 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Well weight gain must be working for you because you look just as great as ever! I think as we age we do need a little extra weight in our face to look young and healthy. Sad that you had to address this but then again I know all to well the reasons. xo

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much, Crystal. It really was getting out of hand and has been for a while. They would start with "i don't believe you" and would end up with "you look like trailer trash". lol. So hopefully this will put it to rest. Thank you so very much. Lots of love, Melissa

    • @YT313YT
      @YT313YT 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is beyond shocking! These trolls are in a dark place, a pity. You are a beautiful person inside and out. ALWAYS REMEMBER....If you’re making a difference in the world, you will attract people who absolutely love YOU...as well as critics . I’ve had many women haters at work or in my small community and when I hear it I think, well I must be doing something worthwhile or look great 😉. It really helps my perspective on things... Peace and ❤️

  • @makelifesimplewithsandi
    @makelifesimplewithsandi 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You look gorgeous. Don't lose a pound!!

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      aw, thanks so much, Sandi!!! I really appreciate it. Love Melissa

  • @bridgetcollins4997
    @bridgetcollins4997 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Melissa, please focus on all of the beautiful, supportive comments on here. That's what matters.

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      It truly has touched my heart Bridget. More than anyone could ever know. Thank you so much. Love, Melissa

  • @heathercosh5582
    @heathercosh5582 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Melissa, you don't owe anyone any explanation for anything. The fact they are sending those types of comments to you says more about their complete lack of character than anything else. I love watching your channel and the content you bring to us; you are an inspiration - just keep doing what you're doing!!

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are so sweet Heather!!! I am so grateful for such a kind comment. Many thanks for this. Love, Melissa

  • @juliesunderlin3603
    @juliesunderlin3603 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ugh.....people! Thank you so much for continuing to make videos for the majority of us that think you are wonderful and appreciate your product reviews and the information you share. You look and are amazing!

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      lol, that made me laugh, Julie - the ugh people part. hahah. Thank you so much and I sure do appreciate it. Love to you, Melissa

  • @gazellesneedlework7057
    @gazellesneedlework7057 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for inspiring us all to be our best and for sharing your knowledge. You are beautiful inside and out. You don't need to "explain yourself" to anyone. I saw the photo of your mom you shared. She was a stunning woman. You look so much like her. And...your weight is fine. Have the ice cream! We live in the South, and it's hot down here!!!

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      aw, thanks, Renee. And thank you so much for the kind words about my mom. I think my daughter favors her a lot. Anyway, I appreciate it and hopefully I can have that ice cream again soon! Love, Melissa

    • @gazellesneedlework7057
      @gazellesneedlework7057 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Melissa55 Melissa...there's a Starbucks three doors down from my house. It's so close, I can crawl to it in my PJ's! The venti cinnamon dolce latte is my favorite, as well--so I know what you mean about stacking on the extra calories. In addition to limiting my trips there, I now ask them to cut the syrup to two pumps, and I've started getting the coconut milk instead of dairy.

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh the temptations!!!! Oh yes, my favorite too. Now that's an idea to limit it. And you know I didn't realize coconut milk was less calories than cows milk! I'm going to do that. Thanks!

  • @jdeebeauty
    @jdeebeauty 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Oh dear! So sorry you felt you had to address this. You're way nicer than me. And I thought you looked like you had lost weight! You look thin to me! You have a very beautiful figure. I know that struggle though. Its real over here with nightly snacks. Keep your chin up and don't let them get to you... Its all a day in TH-cam. Love you.... xoxo

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      aw, thanks so much for this JDee. Oh no, not lost weight at all, darn it! It really is a struggle and oh those nightly snacks get me every time. And Starbucks. lol. Love you lots! Melissa

  • @noogagirl
    @noogagirl 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    OMGoodness, sweet Melissa, This is just so upsetting to me! Im so sorry you have to deal with such mean people! That is just how I see them! You are the sweetest and most honest beautiful person and you just simple should not have to deal with ignorant jealous people! You are beautiful inside and out and shouldn't have to try and figure out why some people want to pick you apart. I wish weight gain looked as good on me as it does you! Love you sweet friend, xoxo, Johnna

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh Johnna, thank you so much my beautiful friend. I truly hope this will put an end to it by doing this video. I'm just ready to get back to normal. I hope you are well and hope we can have lunch soon. I had so much fun when we met. Sending you lots of love Melissa

  • @leslieellis227
    @leslieellis227 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are so beautiful, Melissa! I can't tell a difference. Thank you for being so genuine and putting yourself out there

  • @happytrails699
    @happytrails699 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I cannot believe someone would private message you about that. I just can't believe anyone could say that. You are one of the sweetest people I know.

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      aw, thank you so much, Marla. Oh believe me, much more was said than what I shared here. I was called trailer trash, old hag, botoxed within an inch of my life, that I looked like a pole dancer, a disgrace to aging women, and that I wore cheap clothing! lolol. Thank you my sweet friend. Love you, Melissa

  • @lisahaser7
    @lisahaser7 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Melissa you are such a nice woman with a great personality...I love watching your videos! I'm so sorry people are leaving negative messages---why do people go out of their way to be mean! You are beautiful inside and out!

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for this Lisa. It really has been hurtful from some of them. some of the ones asking were respectful and I didn't mind them, but the others were quite hateful. Thank you so much! Love, Melissa

  • @1marianne
    @1marianne 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ice cream and Starbucks--yep. That will do it! Haha. I can't believe people email you about your face! What a world we live in. You look fantastic. Have you tried Arctic Zero? A delicious substitute for ice cream. Keep being you. Your honesty and genuine goodness are what make you so popular on YT.

    • @MascaratoMidnight
      @MascaratoMidnight 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Have you tried Halo? I featured it in a recent favorites video. It's AMAZING.

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's a deadly combination! Oh they emailed me about a lot of things. My hair, my clothes, how I'm a disgrace, how I'm trailer trash, you name it. Oh yum!!! Thanks for the heads up. Much love and thanks, Melissa

  • @Elisetinc
    @Elisetinc 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Melissa you are so sweet, those people need to get a life! xx

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      I appreciate it so much. I hope since doing this video, that everyone will believe me now. I hope so! Love Melissa

  • @TheDailyConnoisseur
    @TheDailyConnoisseur 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Melissa, people are so rude. That's why I'm always talking about etiquette on my channel! Ha! My best advice for trolls would be to not even engage them. They don't deserve it! Your channel inspires so many people and your positive lovely demeanor is one of the best parts of your videos! Much love to you, Jennifer xxx

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are really such a kind woman, Jennifer. I am constantly inspired by you. I do feel a cleansing after addressing this in my video. It was really getting to be a problem with the accusations. I hope it will be the end of it, but if not, at least I feel like I can let it go. Thank you so much for this. I am truly grateful. Love, Melissa

    • @TheDailyConnoisseur
      @TheDailyConnoisseur 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know what you mean about addressing it! It does clear the air personally. I've definitely done the same! Much love, Jennifer xx

  • @lilliekat4U
    @lilliekat4U 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think your pictures with the weight gain look fabulous!! I just started watching you in the past few weeks so never realized you had & think you do not need to lose an ounce in your face!! You really inspire me and have started taking better care of my face before bedtime. Some people are not happy with themselves so have to lash out as others. You are beautiful and keep the wonderful videos coming!!!!! Boreal

  • @CC-hj1xk
    @CC-hj1xk 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You look so much better with the few extra pounds!!! Don't change a thing!!!

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      I really appreciate that so much, Catherine. Thank you. Love, Melissa

  • @rlabarbera
    @rlabarbera 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You really shouldn't lose a pound. You look much younger than your age and you have a great figure! You look so much prettier now honestly (you were still pretty of course). Most women half your age don' look half as good. Anyone who would say otherwise is truly jealous.

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh bless you for this!!! I would like my clothes to fit again. They are pretty tight now. But if it doesn't happen, at least I'm healthier now. Thank you so much. Much love, Melissa

    • @rlabarbera
      @rlabarbera 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Your welcome! I meant it sincerely! Before you were pretty but didn't look as "well". Now you look vibrant, and beautiful and fresh and young. Some women are sooo jealous. Stay exactly as you are. You look just perfect!!

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! I can tell I was sick. I was actually kind of shocked. My coloring even looked a bit pale and gray. I am grateful to you.

  • @MQS11
    @MQS11 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Umm...If a few extra pounds will grant me your gorgeous face at your age then pile it on! 😝 On a serious note I am disappointed in those questioning your character integrity. Stay true to yourself and never change! We love you. 😘

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love you. I am truly love you to pieces! I am so hopeful that this video will do the trick! Fingers crossed it helps. Love you , Melissa

  • @Melissa55
    @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

    +Gloria Martinez I appreciate this so much, Gloria. I am glad I explained about the weight gain and being sick before. I hope people understand now. I appreciate this. Love, Melissa

  • @julykasa
    @julykasa 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for your videos! I'm 55 and love seeing other women my age talking about topics that effect us. I'm sorry people are so rude. Ugh. Hurts my head and heart. I've watched your older videos and see pretty much no difference. Even though I'm very small, I fight with my weight all the time. I gain weight from eating a healthy clean diet. It's very frustrating. The thing I like about you is your beauty comes from within. Thank you for being you! xxoo ~Julie

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much, Julie. It's been wonderful talking with other women about the things that affect us as we age. It is so frustrating to gain, or not lose weight when you really do try. You are so kind. Many thanks, Melissa

  • @catherinejane5188
    @catherinejane5188 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Dear Melissa, In my view you look younger and even more beautiful with a little fullness in your face! As we age, a little fullness looks youthful. Shame on anyone that accuses you of lying. I have gained a lot of weight in my 60's so I take my mother's advice and buy larger, looser clothes. When my clothes are a little bit loose, people always think I have lost weight. It is harder to take it off as we age, so I might as well be comfortable while I work on it. I too, love my ice cream :-). I am curious, why don't you mask?

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh bless you, Catherine!!! I'm going to give it a try to lose some of it so I can fit into my clothes, but if I don't, well, I'll just buy bigger sizes!!! Thank you so much. Love, Melissa. PS I don't mask because of all the chemicals I use in my skin care. I don't want it to interfere. oxoxoxo

  • @deborahm.9982
    @deborahm.9982 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You don't owe an explanation to anyone! Who do these people think they are?

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      aw, thanks, Deborah. I did feel better explaining it though - just getting it all out. You are so sweet! Love Melissa

  • @girlbossplan256
    @girlbossplan256 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    notification squad💄

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      aw thanks, Eve! Love ya, Melissa

  • @jeanjennings5712
    @jeanjennings5712 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Melissa, the problem with doing public videos is that "trolls" will have the pleasure (sick) of saying horrible things, accusing horrible things, and being simply evil. You took this issue and addressed it face on. Those of us who enjoy your personality which shines through your videos are here for one reason....we like you. You are fun, down to earth, and helpful with your experiences. Those of us who are here in enjoyment do not give a rat's behind about anyone's personal life....because we all have one. I suggest you never find it necessary to have to bare your soul or admit to anything embarrassing again. You are just fine as the lovely, funny and real person you are!

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks so much, Jean. I did feel like I just needed to talk about it so that I could move on. I think I can do that now. And I really appreciate it. You are very kind. Much love to you! Melissa

  • @debbieescamilla8821
    @debbieescamilla8821 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Melissa, I want to tell you - from my heart - you're lovely and you have the sweetest spirit. I've watched all your videos and have enjoyed every one of them. In my opinion you're even more beautiful now than when you first began your channel. It breaks my heart that you think you need to lose weight. You look vibrant and healthy, a natural beauty. You are amazing just the way you are.

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      This really touched me, Debbie. I just can't tell you how much I appreciate it. I would like to lose some of it because I can't fit into my clothes and I just don't feel good about myself. But I am healthy so I am very grateful for that. Thank you so very much. Love, Melissa

    • @debbieescamilla8821
      @debbieescamilla8821 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Melissa55 💕

  • @m.b.ortega544
    @m.b.ortega544 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I thought it was hilarious to watch how you dissected how you gained weight over the years. It was refreshing to see how honest you were with yourself. Anyways, you look beautiful either way: skinnier or fuller, but I think your face looks better with the extra fat. Maybe you should consider not loosing all of the extra weight. Last but not least you don't owe anybody on You tube an explanation. People can be sometimes so out of line.

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      aw, thanks so much, Maria! I tell you, it was a wake up call to see the changes. I did realize that some of it was that I was still ill back then and still recovering from the latest surgery. I am grateful for this. Many thanks, Melissa

  • @silverthorn2814
    @silverthorn2814 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    You are beautiful, i dont think on our death bed we will say , wish i hadnt ate that bowl of ice cream, enjoy your life be healthy , whatever that means to you. Know that you are just lovedb b y many

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Gosh that is so true, Lynn. And thank you. I remember someone saying you don't want to go into death with lots of regrets. You want to slide into it , like home plate, saying, "that was a hell of a ride". lol. I love that. Many thanks, Melissa

  • @dianehannan2168
    @dianehannan2168 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You look beautiful and healthy

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      aw, thank you for this Diane. I am so grateful. Love, Melissa

  • @sonjacarpenter9224
    @sonjacarpenter9224 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Melissa you know the saying "misery loves company". That's what I truly believe when I hear about individuals saying hurtful comments to others. Ignore them! They are miserable people that feel better when they tear down others. You are beautiful inside and out and their all jealous! Doesn't anyone know the golden rule? "Treat others as you'd want to be treated" That is how my mama raised me. I don't have time to shop around and experiment with skincare. I count on you to show me how to age gracefully! I'm 41 and I depend on your guidance and advise for skincare. Your regimen is quick and simplistic. Retina and obagi. I was spending hundreds of dollars on multiple products and then after watching you I replaced my eye cream with retina... brilliant! No more toner, etc. With thinning out my multiple skincare products I was able to take that money and buy obagi blender for nighttime and the other product for day time. Your a godsend!

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      I thank you so much for this, Sonja. I really hope this video will put an end to it. I do feel I can put it behind me now that I've said my piece. I appreciate you telling me this so much. And thank you for letting me know how the Retin A is doing. I am very grateful for this comment. Many thanks and much love, Melissa

  • @BusbeeStyle
    @BusbeeStyle 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm SO sorry you've had to deal with all of this negativity and all of the accusations. Just awful.
    I think you always look GORGEOUS!! The few extra pounds look great on you, Melissa! For real... but I know exactly what you mean. I'm on my hormone roller coaster, and one minute I'm lean and mean, and the next I realize I'm eating everything in site and have gained weight. I think I've gained ten pounds, although I haven't stepped on the scale because I'm too depressed about it. Fingers crossed we can both get back on track! It's SOOOO hard!! Love you! Erin xo

    • @Melissa55
      @Melissa55  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      It is so hard, Erin. And especially when I can't fit into things comfortably anymore. It's discouraging. You always look beautiful. And your figure is amazing. I am so excited to take this journey of the move with you. I feel like I get to move along with you! Love you and thank you, Melissa