Melissa, I watch you faithfully so obviously, I enjoy you! I’m 70....so a bit older but you have been such an encouragement to my walk in life. I never took good care of myself and it shows,....but you’ve renewed something inside of me that makes me want to pay more attention to myself. You have helped me to rejoice in my senior years and have inspired me to care about all things that are part of me! Thank you so much for that! I’m a stranger to you but you are a friend to me!
I can't tell you how much I appreciate this. You know, I kind of feel like we've paid our dues and it's okay to take care of ourselves. I really do believe it's important to appreciate this age we are now. Some of the years have been tough for all of us at times, I have a feeling, so it's kind of nice to think of the things that give us joy. I really think it's a good example to set for younger people too. I remember my daughter told me she looks to me to see how to grow old. I take that seriously. Anyway, I'm babbling. I so appreciate this. Thank you for brightening my night. Love, Melissa
I really enjoyed this video not only for your thoughtful points but for your heartfelt sharing. Thank you! PS - My mom is 92 and does her morning "exercises" 5 days a week, is a fashionista and enjoys her makeup and skincare! I love when she looks in my car mirror and tells me how good she looks! It is the cutest thing ever.
Carol P - your note touched my heart. My precious fashionista mama passed to Glory last year. I treasure how she took care of herself. The day before she died at 96, she put on makeup before she saw the handsome firemen coming to take her to the hospital. She was on Facebook (by herself) and jointly we did her Instagram called Being 95. Please tell your mom she inspires me.
I'm 41 and am just beginning to understand what it may be like in later years. I do worry sometimes that I won't enjoy the aging process, but I really hope to. I am so grateful to you for your wisdom. People need to speak of this more. It's a fact of life and there is no reason we shouldn't be able to enjoy and appreciate this process. Thank you for sharing your joy and appreciation of aging.
Hi Melissa, when you talked about enjoying your age, whatever age it is, I thought of my mother. She always said that she could never imagine herself being 80 years old. That she knew she was “old” if she hit eighty, etc. Well, guess what age she passed at? 79! I will always remember that and know how powerful our words can be. She put a spell on herself! But she actually lived a long life for having 7 open heart operations (rheumatic fever when young) and 4 children. ❤️ Love your videos!
I'm so so grateful for you, Melissa. Although I rarely if ever write to you, I do watch all your videos and enjoy you greatly. Today, it was a special blessing to see you. You are a beautiful reminder that our health and well-being are not just about what we put on our skin or hair, although those things are wonderful as well, but more importantly, so much of our beauty radiates from the inside out. I love how you talked about having goals at all ages. At 68 years old, I continue to set and achieve goals large and small each day. I love you, and thank you for being YOU! xo
Volunteering at my local animal shelter has helped me look younger (70) because it makes me happy and I smile more. Giving back to my community also came with a bonus of making some new, wonderful, friends!
I totally agree with you here! Aging has never bothered me and I have enjoyed every stage of life. Being in my sixties now, I will say is such a comfortable place to be. So much less stress, so much more time on my hands, and loving life ❤
You made some very good points! Some days I still can’t believe I am in my 60’s...always heard my parents talk about how fast time goes by and laughed at it when younger. I do enjoy not having all of the stress of younger years and raising a family, to get to do what I want to do, when I want. Sure wasn’t that way when young...lol I had two daughters by the time I was 18 so it seemed I had to grow up fast and never time for enjoying me. Well, I do enjoy me now and it is one of the pleasures of getting old. Thank you Melissa I always enjoy your videos and your sweet smiling face!
This is so true isn't it? I can remember being young and hearing the "older folks" talk about time flying and kind of rolling my eyes. You really don't get much personal time with raising little ones. It's all about, well, getting them raised. lol. Thank you so much fo this, Sheila. I really appreciate it. Love, Melissa
I loved this video! The idea of accepting our age and setting goals really hit one for me. I've been in a bit of a rabbit hole of depression (a lifelong battle) and you've pumped up my attitude to pull myself up and get back into living. ❤️❤️
This is a joyous video Melissa! I think exactly the same as you. I still get so excited about life and love goal setting. Last year a friend and I walked an extra 1000 miles as a goal and it was a wonderful experience. I'm 67, I feel fabulous and I have every intention of staying that way. I refuse to consider any alternative! Keep on with these lovely posts, they warm my heart xx
I love your sweet spirit and intelligence. It’s so refreshing to watch your videos. They are a respite from all the toxic fighting and cruelty going on in the You Tube Beauty community. Thank you for such informative and uplifting videos.
Wonderful "tips"! I actually follow a lot of them. After too many years of not caring for my body (smoking, drinking, not sleeping enough, eating poorly, etc), I'm probably the healthiest internally than ever (at 63) since I've quit all that nonsense. Now I suffer with sciatica, but my husband and I hike portions of the Appalachian Trail yearly. I've put in a few hundred miles now and that's the only time my sciatica doesn't act up! Walking, climbing those Appalachian mountains, and sleeping in a tent for weeks on end make me feel youthful again! Amazing! So I'm a firm believer in STAYING ACTIVE, whether it's exercise in your living room or a gym, or bike riding, yoga, swimming, running...whatever you can do to stay active is a good thing. And having a hobby is great too. Keep the mind active as well! I am an artist, and I try to stay involved with my community art group. I just love your videos...you seem like such an sweet, genuine, Southern belle (Tennessee? Kentucky?), and I thank you for your videos.
I don’t comment much, but I just want to say how much I have enjoyed watching your videos over the last couple of years. Thank you for sharing your tips and philosophy on aging, I agree with you on all points! You are like sunshine and I appreciate you taking the time to share your bright light with all of us.
So many gurus on every single thing nowadays, but just from this video I can learn principles that apply to many aspects of life: - Few quality spending. That work that best for you > Many low costs that wear out. - Less is more with moisturizers. Make the body work. - You get to enjoy growing old. Many ppl would give everything to live to 65 - goals. Having goals and Achieving them are not just for success but for feeling good. A goal can be showering for the day :) - Weightlifting. Yoga, be as limber as i possibly can - Sleep on your back
You are very adorable with your sweet way of talking ..I have a beauty suggestion for women and it is greek olive oil soap , a pure green soap with only 3 ingredients ..
I've loved every decade of my life, but so far the 60's have been my favorite. Your beauty practices have really paid off, Melissa. Enjoyed this so much!! I didn't use moisturizers until the last few years. Now most nights I need a lightweight moisturizer. Claims don't impress me, but results do!! Love you, my beautiful friend..MaryEllen
aw, thanks, ME. I have learned a lot from you and I am grateful. You have the most beautiful skin. I love that: claims don't impress me, but results do. That is so true. Thank you and love you! Melissa
Melissa~ I do believe this is one of my all time favorite videos ever!! I loved this, so true on goals and stretching , I love how you spoke it!! xo Lori
Melissa...so many of my thoughts echoed and the ability to laugh at and with ourselves to keep aging in perspective and not let it become a negative if it can be a positive...😊....I was so happy to see your face. We were heartbroken about Nashville and looking at places that were damaged or gone where we'd been last year on our visit. Those awesome people that were up at the crack of dawn in the community volunteering and fixing yards and homes for the ones who had suffered damage and loss.. just warmed my heart to see that. It's good to know you're well honey...🤗🌹
Yes, a sense of humor and learning not to take ourselves too seriously are good ones. awwww, thank you so much. Yes, Nashville and surrounding areas have really been hit hard. Thank you and much love to you. Melissa
I do stretches 3 times per week. I think it’s so important. Thank you for these tips. You’re beautiful inside and out. I turned 60 a couple of months ago, and I love this time.
Listen, I just turned 38 and I absolutely appreciate every word you’ve said today. You always give the best, realistic advice. Thank you so very much for sharing the wonderful tips and advice. And for reminding us that there’s still a bright side to aging. Great, great video.
Love you, Melissa. Your videos are never boring.....always on point and I usually pick up a useful tip. You've only been sleeping on your back for about a year or so I think? Thanks for sharing all these great tips!! Xo
I loved this video and you are so right about staying limber, keep moving, stretching, etc. I found out after my knee replacement surgery that it is an ongoing daily routine. I made the mistake of thinking I would be 100% when I finished physical therapy so I stopped doing stretches, etc and when I tell you my joints froze up and it was painful just to walk, well let me just say I won't be making that mistake again. Enjoying our age, that is another thing I want to copy my mother on and from what you have said about your mother the same thing applies! They both sound like not only were they beautiful women but they held their heads high and took each day with a spring in their step! Lord willing, let all of us mature women be the best we can be b/c we are examples not only for others but for our children and grandchildren! Love and Hugs sweet Melissa!
Hi, l recently started watching your videos. I'm 67 an have also used retin a since my 40s. I've found it works better than anything. I've always been a side sleeper but hated the wrinkles on my declotee. I use that little horse shoe like pillow...you use for sleeping on airplane. Keeps you sleeping on back and keeps your face up.
I also used Mary Kaye back in the 70s. And I've been washing my face the same way as the consultant said also. Remember how the wash was? Using that balm stuff with water? It's so different now. I have such a hard time sleeping on my back bc I have chronic back pain. I've tried everything and just can't get comfortable. I remember when you talked about the ears in one of your previous videos and now I always take care of my ears every time now. All great tips ❤💚💜💙💛 p.s. Another tip is to wear gloves when cleaning. I've been commenting on young women's TH-cam cleaning videos to use gloves. My sister has used gloves for years and her hands are so much younger looking than mine. Water and harsh chemicals will age your hands so fast.
Oh my gosh, yes. That balm really got it off. Remember mixing your mask? I think it was probably oatmeal based. Now yes, you might need to sleep where it's best for your back. I notice ears now, and it does make a difference. lol Thanks so much, Cathleen. Love, Melissa
I love your tips! I do yoga daily and it does wonders for keeping limber. I've heard you mention no moisturizer in the past and it makes sense to me, but I struggle with this one. Also, regarding sleeping on my back I seem to go in fazes. I'll be on my back awhile and then all of a sudden I'm back to sleeping on my side. I need to get better at that. I love glycolic acid for all over the body thanks to you and sharing that in the past (Glytone). Thanks beautiful Melissa. I'm in my 50's and whatever advice you give I'm going to listen, because you're one of the most gorgeous 60+ year old woman I've ever seen. Lots of love xo
I have gotten away from Yoga, but I need to get back to it when I can. Well I need to make the time is what I need to do. aw, thank you so much, Holly. You are so kind. Love, Melissa
Hello there Melissa,all the way from South Africa. You are a beautiful lady Thank you for your wonderful channel. I really enjoy it. These hints i have used for 45 yrs, it was passed on from my grandmother who btw lived to 94. They may sound silly but it doesn't harm the skin. Not able to afford cleanser or a face mask many yrs back I used to peel my potatoes when I came home, clean all my makeup off and gently rub the peels on the face and let it dry. It tightens the skin beautifully. Wash off with lukewarm water. Last but not least I take some handcream and put a teaspoon of sugar in my hand, gently rub til sugar melts and rinse off with lukewarm water, I even use my sugar and cream to get a lovely cleanse for my face. So soft afterwards. Take care.
Melissa, Beautiful video and beautiful messages. So grateful for your friendship and very grateful for your voice on beauty and positive outlook at any age. Learned a new few tips today from you and as always felt uplifted with your inspiration. Thank you for both.... Adore you, Jennifer Xx
What wonderful wisdom spoken from the heart! I’m honored to be close to your age, and it’s never too late to aspire to everything you share! I’d love a video where you talk more in depth about “goals” that help you want to wake up and start your day! We are truly never too old to have goals!
Thank you Melissa for your words of wisdom. You brought tears to my eyes. I'm turning 50 this year and seeing the changes in my body and face has really made me feel really down about myself. I do what I can with skin care and exercise but in the end you can't stop time. Thank you for reminding me that every day is a blessing and I'm so lucky to have made it to this age when so many people have not. God bless you ♥️
I am 50 years old and I have never felt as free as I do now. I have embraced my grays. My wrinkles. My body. I love that I can still be beautiful and happy. I am in grace with aging.
Good morning beautiful!!! And you are! I believe at every junction in life, one has to have a passion, something or someone that provides a smile or motivation each day. It can be anything from a pet, reading, writing, cutting the grass, knitting...anything. It’s a reason to improve our self and minds and to bring joy to others. For me, that’s what the privilege of aging brings! Blessings:)
You are so right about sleeping on your back. I never thought I could do it but after being forced to due to breast cancer surgery, I never switched back. With 3 pillows, it’s a breeze! I can notice now when Ive shifted to my side because I wake up with lines on my face and chest. Every little tip helps!
Thank you so much, Tina, and I am so sorry about your cancer. Yes!!! I do three pillows, too! Maybe that's the trick? Bless you so much. Thank you! xox, Melissa
Keeping your arms and upper body strong is so important! In the past few years on two separate occasions, I've been witness to two elderly ladies (then in their 80s) fall down and were unable to push themselves up from the ground because of weak upper body strength. They were both very embarrassed by it and accepted only minimal assistance, taking them each a very long time to get up. Pretty arms are very nice to have, strong arms are essential.
Ohhh Ms Tennessee! Thank You for a wonderful video on EVERYTHING! You speak the truth and at 68 soon to be 69😳I agree a gazillion percent! Just can’t tell you how much I look forward to your ideas and philosophy.My goodness I just wish you lived next door! Lol...and I am sure all of your viewers feel the same. Thank you for your time and wonderful wisdom that comes from your huge heart ❤️....as big as Texas! Have a great day, week and yessssssss!....we are enjoying our age ....most of the time😉☺️😘😘😘😘 Bless you and your family Ms Tennessee....so okay....getting my 5 pound weights out AGAIN🤭😳😜 ❌⭕️❌⭕️❗️
Thank you so much, Julie!!! I don't know if I have any good philosophies, but I do think when we get to our ages we've sorted through some things that don't work. I sure do appreciate you. Love and many thanks, Melissa
You are beautiful. I'm 45 year's old. Always been a Skincare junkie. I have been using anti- aging skincare since l was in my early twenties. Lots of sunscreen too. I now use a good handful of products with skincare that l really like, l stick to that because it work's. I'm a new sub and enjoy watching your video's. You are honest, cheerful and have a beautiful smile and personality, that is also key to good health as well how we age. It shows on our face as well our skin. I never rub my face, always gently pat it when applying my skincare product's. l let my face breath a bit with a jade roller for circulation. Small thing's we all can do to make a big difference in our skin's appearance overall is important. Does not need to be costly, like you stated and l agree 100%. Small changes can make a big difference. Keep smiling beautiful. Beauty comes from within first before it can shine to the outside. Much love from Ontario Canada 🇨🇦♥️
Couldnt click the subscribe button fast enough!!! You are so beautiful, elegant, and classy. All the work you put in your drop boxes is mind blowing, so genuine!! I adore you already 💛
I really enjoyed this video. I wish I could sleep on my back but because my neck and back hurt so bad all the time that laying on my side helps relieve some of the pain. If I lay on my back to long it starts hurting and even my pain medication doesn't help. Love that color top on you.
Oh Julie, I am so sorry. Yes, the most important thing is for you to try to get as comfortable as you possibly can. No back sleeping!!! lol (I sound bossy. ) but Doug has back problems and he has to sleep on his side with one leg over a pillow to take some of the pressure off his back. Trying to alleviate pain is the most important thing. Thank you so much. Love, Melissa
You are beautiful, gracious, and wise! Thank you for these tips! I would love to hear about your exercise routine. Thank you for all that you do...it is always such a pleasure to watch your videos...uplifting!
My Beautiful Melissa....you were the one who taught me of washing face with cloth upward and I do it that way since now!..I knitted mine also and think of you so many times when doing it....and than zi go apply my skincare and put that vitC serum on my nose and ears too!..again sweet Melisas tip....and I got a pair of those ankle weights you do and do your leg workout!.....see how influential you are...thank you!.....I will really try to think and make goals more..it sounds so good....big hugs to you...Jana x
Love this video Melissa. Your tips are spot on and I agree 100% with everything you’ve shared. Age is an attitude and if we think young I believe we’ll feel younger. Simple goals of moving and staying limber work for me but I need to ramp it up a bit and start listing some weights. Thank you for sharing this Melissa.
Oh man, this video needs to be required viewing for all young women. Some seriously wise tips, and sharing what has obviously worked for you, my sweet friend. 🤗. I can knock a small child down with my long bat wings, and tend to curl up tight, on my side in the fetal position...waking up with sheet wrinkled face that can stay till mid morning. Ha I loved this video, as you have a gift of sharing your wisdom, that’s always sprinkled with humor and compassion. ❤️. I love you, as always!
aw, you're just so sweet, Cindy. Always make me feel like a million bucks and you always have. I just appreciate it and love you dearly. Thank you and love you forever. xox Melissa
Love your channel, I like to keep beauty routine simple, I don’t want to obsess about my appearance but still want to look nice, your skin routine is doable, I can’t believe your 65, your an inspiration, i turn 53 this summer 😀
I am 25 but I am loving what you’re sharing. It’s interesting to see the perspective of someone who has all this life experience. You have a such a warm voice and kind message! Thank you for sharing your advice 🤍 In regard to your moisturiser; when did you stop using this? I find my under eyes and eyelids really need the extra moisture, did you have this? Did it get better once you stopped using moisturiser? Was there a transition period? I would love to see a video of things you wish you did when you were younger for your future! Or things that you are glad you started doing when you were younger! Also a video on your diet if that contributes to you looking so great!!! Thanks 🤍🤍
This was so great, Melissa! I try to sleep on my back but always wake up on my side. And I never thought of skincare on the ears! haha Thank you for a lovely video. Jennifer xx
Melissa, I love your videos. You are just a wonderful person & I’m learning so much from you. I just turned 50 & I’m going to use your skin care regimen. I think we live close to each other. I live in Cleveland,TN. Please keep making your videos. Im learning so much with how to take care of my aging body. Thank you and God Bless you 😊
I really enjoy this type of video. I learned those same Mary Kay tips when I was a consultant in the late 70’s. I need to start taking all my photos lying down! 😊 Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us. Have a wonderful week. Xoxoxo 💕💕
Oh my gosh Melissa, I needed this. I think I need to stop the moisturizer- I have natural oily skin and I have noticed since I have been wearing it my own natural oils and glow have left the building! Will experiment to see if tightness comes back! Glycolic on the décolletage and arms and hands here I come- I have same spots. Sleeping on back I just started and yoga! 50 has hit me hard -to accept the aging, but there is goodness to it also and many don’t see old age so it is a blessing! 😊
Hi lovely Melissa. I respect you and your opinions. I think you are a special lady. Just so you know. I am 52 and I am with you on moisturizers. I buffer my 1% Retin A with it to stave off irritation. Aside from that I have never used it. I have tried to. I feel like everyone else does. But I don't like it. Never liked it. Only recently I have heard specialists say you don't need it. Cody Montarbo says that and Dr. Stefani Kappel says that. Pretty sure Penny too. And when I hear it said I think "I knew that!" In fact I think skin becones dependent on the stuff. It gets lazy. So then you need moreccx and richer and better. Just stop is what I'd say to someone. Stop and the skin will adjust. It is smart. I am glad you share my sentiment about moisturizer. Here is to more happy days. Wishing you love peace good health and happiness - this cannot last forever...can it? Lol...no! 💜
You taught me about the upward strokes. I have only slept on my back in the last while and it makes a HUGE difference. You gave great tips - I need to do weights on my arms! Love you my friend and thank you for sharing these. ♥ Elle
I love Mary Kay products. Oh yes, sleeping on your back is great, but it is so hard for me to do. Oh I don't want to look down into a mirror. I hate even when I have to bend over and reach for something. Your hair looks so lovely. lol, oh those spots bother me so much. Melissa it is so important to stretch and strengthen. You are totally correct. You don't appear to be aging at all!
Hi Melissa, I was thinking of you this morning because of those terrible tornados in TN. I am so happy you and your family are all ok. It is heartbreaking to see the devastation on the news. I enjoyed hearing your beauty tips. I don't do well with moisturizer either. I always seem to break out because my skin isn't dry. I have tried different creams or moisturizers and it doesn't work well. Exercise is so important to keep limber and healthy. I use some stretchy bands and light weights. I love that royal blue color on you. As always your hair and make up look lovely too. I hope you have a beautiful day! I'm going to go organize my art studio. That is one of my goals! Love, Karen
aw, thanks, Karen. It was a few hours west of us, but we did have a family that had moved over there that got killed. a young couple and their little boy. It's been heartbreaking for the whole area. awwww, thank you so much for this. I just love you to pieces. And I have on my Pink in the Afternoon as we speak! lol Much love, Melissa
I am 23. You are such an inspiration to go on about self care! I have good skin, received compliments on it several times. Part genetically from my parents, part from my taking care of it ever since I was 18. Careful with what I eat the last 2 years *been having some digestive issues because of some ptsd issues*. About stress, I can't say I do it well but I try. Its hard. But mindset matters a lot! I think the most, and then it is the self care. I admire you lots. Hope I get to age beautifully like you. Much love from the rural fields of Romania!
I loved all the beauty tips Melissa!! You certainly are an ageless beauty! I cant imagine there are any batwings on your arms!! :):) Love you!! xoxoxoxoxoxoox Carol
HI Melissa, Mary Kay was my first venture into skincare too! And I remember the directions just as you described. You look beautiful, so whatever you are doing is certainly working! I hope that I can look half as good as you when I am your age. 💖 Great idea about putting sunscreen on the ears. Bat wings... you made me giggle. Stretching is so important, I have noticed big differences since I turned 50 in how tight my muscles have become. I really want to start doing yoga. Goal setting is so important, I always like to have something to look forward to. I loved this video Melissa! Lots of love, Cathy xoxo
Melissa I have only been watching you for about a month and a half. I want to say Thankyou very much. From Day one I sent for the Obagi. I want say I have been using Retinol for 2 years now this March. But in these short weeks that I’ve combined both and added the vitamin see as well. My skin hands an neck look unbelievable. Iam 67 and when I go out with my 51 year old Daughter.People think we’re Sisters. I really enjoy watching you and learning new things. Would love it if you ever decide to write a book. Thankyou again❤️
I appreciate it so much, Margie. Oh that is just marvelous. Yay!!! Thank you for telling me that. It's so encouraging to me. Love and many thanks, Melissa
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Melissa, I watch you faithfully so obviously, I enjoy you! I’m 70....so a bit older but you have been such an encouragement to my walk in life. I never took good care of myself and it shows,....but you’ve renewed something inside of me that makes me want to pay more attention to myself. You have helped me to rejoice in my senior years and have inspired me to care about all things that are part of me! Thank you so much for that! I’m a stranger to you but you are a friend to me!
I can't tell you how much I appreciate this. You know, I kind of feel like we've paid our dues and it's okay to take care of ourselves. I really do believe it's important to appreciate this age we are now. Some of the years have been tough for all of us at times, I have a feeling, so it's kind of nice to think of the things that give us joy. I really think it's a good example to set for younger people too. I remember my daughter told me she looks to me to see how to grow old. I take that seriously. Anyway, I'm babbling. I so appreciate this. Thank you for brightening my night. Love, Melissa
I really enjoyed this video not only for your thoughtful points but for your heartfelt sharing. Thank you! PS - My mom is 92 and does her morning "exercises" 5 days a week, is a fashionista and enjoys her makeup and skincare! I love when she looks in my car mirror and tells me how good she looks! It is the cutest thing ever.
Carol P - your note touched my heart. My precious fashionista mama passed to Glory last year. I treasure how she took care of herself. The day before she died at 96, she put on makeup before she saw the handsome firemen coming to take her to the hospital. She was on Facebook (by herself) and jointly we did her Instagram called Being 95. Please tell your mom she inspires me.
OMG that's awesome!
I'm 41 and am just beginning to understand what it may be like in later years. I do worry sometimes that I won't enjoy the aging process, but I really hope to. I am so grateful to you for your wisdom. People need to speak of this more. It's a fact of life and there is no reason we shouldn't be able to enjoy and appreciate this process. Thank you for sharing your joy and appreciation of aging.
Hi Melissa, when you talked about enjoying your age, whatever age it is, I thought of my mother. She always said that she could never imagine herself being 80 years old. That she knew she was “old” if she hit eighty, etc. Well, guess what age she passed at? 79! I will always remember that and know how powerful our words can be. She put a spell on herself! But she actually lived a long life for having 7 open heart operations (rheumatic fever when young) and 4 children. ❤️ Love your videos!
I'm so so grateful for you, Melissa. Although I rarely if ever write to you, I do watch all your videos and enjoy you greatly. Today, it was a special blessing to see you. You are a beautiful reminder that our health and well-being are not just about what we put on our skin or hair, although those things are wonderful as well, but more importantly, so much of our beauty radiates from the inside out. I love how you talked about having goals at all ages. At 68 years old, I continue to set and achieve goals large and small each day. I love you, and thank you for being YOU! xo
Volunteering at my local animal shelter has helped me look younger (70) because it makes me happy and I smile more. Giving back to my community also came with a bonus of making some new, wonderful, friends!
I totally agree with you here! Aging has never bothered me and I have enjoyed every stage of life. Being in my sixties now, I will say is such a comfortable place to be. So much less stress, so much more time on my hands, and loving life ❤
You made some very good points! Some days I still can’t believe I am in my 60’s...always heard my parents talk about how fast time goes by and laughed at it when younger. I do enjoy not having all of the stress of younger years and raising a family, to get to do what I want to do, when I want. Sure wasn’t that way when young...lol I had two daughters by the time I was 18 so it seemed I had to grow up fast and never time for enjoying me. Well, I do enjoy me now and it is one of the pleasures of getting old. Thank you Melissa I always enjoy your videos and your sweet smiling face!
This is so true isn't it? I can remember being young and hearing the "older folks" talk about time flying and kind of rolling my eyes. You really don't get much personal time with raising little ones. It's all about, well, getting them raised. lol. Thank you so much fo this, Sheila. I really appreciate it. Love, Melissa
I loved this video! The idea of accepting our age and setting goals really hit one for me. I've been in a bit of a rabbit hole of depression (a lifelong battle) and you've pumped up my attitude to pull myself up and get back into living. ❤️❤️
Good morning. I always look forward to your videos. It feels like you’re a good friend so honest and genuine and motivating. Don’t ever stop. 🥰
That is so kind of you. Thank you so very much! xoxox
This is a joyous video Melissa! I think exactly the same as you. I still get so excited about life and love goal setting. Last year a friend and I walked an extra 1000 miles as a goal and it was a wonderful experience. I'm 67, I feel fabulous and I have every intention of staying that way. I refuse to consider any alternative! Keep on with these lovely posts, they warm my heart xx
I love your sweet spirit and intelligence. It’s so refreshing to watch your videos. They are a respite from all the toxic fighting and cruelty going on in the You Tube Beauty community. Thank you for such informative and uplifting videos.
We love you and your content. Prayers and blessings, Melissa.
Wonderful "tips"! I actually follow a lot of them. After too many years of not caring for my body (smoking, drinking, not sleeping enough, eating poorly, etc), I'm probably the healthiest internally than ever (at 63) since I've quit all that nonsense. Now I suffer with sciatica, but my husband and I hike portions of the Appalachian Trail yearly. I've put in a few hundred miles now and that's the only time my sciatica doesn't act up! Walking, climbing those Appalachian mountains, and sleeping in a tent for weeks on end make me feel youthful again! Amazing! So I'm a firm believer in STAYING ACTIVE, whether it's exercise in your living room or a gym, or bike riding, yoga, swimming, running...whatever you can do to stay active is a good thing. And having a hobby is great too. Keep the mind active as well! I am an artist, and I try to stay involved with my community art group. I just love your videos...you seem like such an sweet, genuine, Southern belle (Tennessee? Kentucky?), and I thank you for your videos.
Melissa you look like a Hollywood movie star! You're absolutely stunning my dear!
Doesn't she? It's hard to believe she lives a regular life like the rest of us;)
I don’t comment much, but I just want to say how much I have enjoyed watching your videos over the last couple of years. Thank you for sharing your tips and philosophy on aging, I agree with you on all points! You are like sunshine and I appreciate you taking the time to share your bright light with all of us.
So many gurus on every single thing nowadays, but just from this video I can learn principles that apply to many aspects of life:
- Few quality spending. That work that best for you > Many low costs that wear out.
- Less is more with moisturizers. Make the body work.
- You get to enjoy growing old. Many ppl would give everything to live to 65
- goals. Having goals and Achieving them are not just for success but for feeling good. A goal can be showering for the day :)
- Weightlifting. Yoga, be as limber as i possibly can
- Sleep on your back
You are very adorable with your sweet way of talking ..I have a beauty suggestion for women and it is greek olive oil soap , a pure green soap with only 3 ingredients ..
Oh this sounds wonderful. What brand do you use and where can I buy? Thank you so much!
I've loved every decade of my life, but so far the 60's have been my favorite. Your beauty practices have really paid off, Melissa. Enjoyed this so much!! I didn't use moisturizers until the last few years. Now most nights I need a lightweight moisturizer. Claims don't impress me, but results do!! Love you, my beautiful friend..MaryEllen
aw, thanks, ME. I have learned a lot from you and I am grateful. You have the most beautiful skin. I love that: claims don't impress me, but results do. That is so true. Thank you and love you! Melissa
Melissa~ I do believe this is one of my all time favorite videos ever!!
I loved this, so true on goals and stretching , I love how you spoke it!!
xo Lori
Melissa...so many of my thoughts echoed and the ability to laugh at and with ourselves to keep aging in perspective and not let it become a negative if it can be a positive...😊....I was so happy to see your face. We were heartbroken about Nashville and looking at places that were damaged or gone where we'd been last year on our visit. Those awesome people that were up at the crack of dawn in the community volunteering and fixing yards and homes for the ones who had suffered damage and loss.. just warmed my heart to see that. It's good to know you're well honey...🤗🌹
Yes, a sense of humor and learning not to take ourselves too seriously are good ones. awwww, thank you so much. Yes, Nashville and surrounding areas have really been hit hard. Thank you and much love to you. Melissa
Being limber is important! My grandmother is turning 92 and she does daily stretches, and it has helped her with her balance and less body pains.
Oh I love this, Kellie. I want to be like that, too. Give her our best! Love, Melissa
You are so pretty, precious, personable & profound! Thank you for keeping us all younger in heart, mind and beauty. Praying for you!
You are obviously an expert....we are listening to your advice!! Thank you for sharing....
Oh believe me I am NOT an expert, lol but thank you. I'm just old. hahah. Love and thanks, Melissa
Sleeping on a satin pillowcase is amazing!! 🙌🏻💛
I do stretches 3 times per week. I think it’s so important. Thank you for these tips. You’re beautiful inside and out. I turned 60 a couple of months ago, and I love this time.
So many good tips in this video Melissa! I am so glad you added more than beauty tips, staying limber and goals do contribute to good health.
Listen, I just turned 38 and I absolutely appreciate every word you’ve said today. You always give the best, realistic advice. Thank you so very much for sharing the wonderful tips and advice. And for reminding us that there’s still a bright side to aging. Great, great video.
Love you, Melissa. Your videos are never boring.....always on point and I usually pick up a useful tip. You've only been sleeping on your back for about a year or so I think? Thanks for sharing all these great tips!! Xo
I loved this video and you are so right about staying limber, keep moving, stretching, etc. I found out after my knee replacement surgery that it is an ongoing daily routine. I made the mistake of thinking I would be 100% when I finished physical therapy so I stopped doing stretches, etc and when I tell you my joints froze up and it was painful just to walk, well let me just say I won't be making that mistake again. Enjoying our age, that is another thing I want to copy my mother on and from what you have said about your mother the same thing applies! They both sound like not only were they beautiful women but they held their heads high and took each day with a spring in their step! Lord willing, let all of us mature women be the best we can be b/c we are examples not only for others but for our children and grandchildren! Love and Hugs sweet Melissa!
This did my heart so good! I love all the priceless tips. You’re wonderful!
Hi, l recently started watching your videos. I'm 67 an have also used retin a since my 40s. I've found it works better than anything. I've always been a side sleeper but hated the wrinkles on my declotee. I use that little horse shoe like pillow...you use for sleeping on airplane. Keeps you sleeping on back and keeps your face up.
You are a beautiful breath of fresh air! Thank you for sharing your positive, thought provoking insight!
I also used Mary Kaye back in the 70s. And I've been washing my face the same way as the consultant said also. Remember how the wash was? Using that balm stuff with water? It's so different now. I have such a hard time sleeping on my back bc I have chronic back pain. I've tried everything and just can't get comfortable. I remember when you talked about the ears in one of your previous videos and now I always take care of my ears every time now. All great tips ❤💚💜💙💛
p.s. Another tip is to wear gloves when cleaning. I've been commenting on young women's TH-cam cleaning videos to use gloves. My sister has used gloves for years and her hands are so much younger looking than mine. Water and harsh chemicals will age your hands so fast.
Oh my gosh, yes. That balm really got it off. Remember mixing your mask? I think it was probably oatmeal based. Now yes, you might need to sleep where it's best for your back. I notice ears now, and it does make a difference. lol Thanks so much, Cathleen. Love, Melissa
When Ms. Melissa is dishing out tips I’m all 👂! 😘
I love your tips! I do yoga daily and it does wonders for keeping limber. I've heard you mention no moisturizer in the past and it makes sense to me, but I struggle with this one. Also, regarding sleeping on my back I seem to go in fazes. I'll be on my back awhile and then all of a sudden I'm back to sleeping on my side. I need to get better at that. I love glycolic acid for all over the body thanks to you and sharing that in the past (Glytone). Thanks beautiful Melissa. I'm in my 50's and whatever advice you give I'm going to listen, because you're one of the most gorgeous 60+ year old woman I've ever seen. Lots of love xo
I have gotten away from Yoga, but I need to get back to it when I can. Well I need to make the time is what I need to do. aw, thank you so much, Holly. You are so kind. Love, Melissa
Hello there Melissa,all the way from South Africa. You are a beautiful lady
Thank you for your wonderful channel. I really enjoy it.
These hints i have used for 45 yrs, it was passed on from my grandmother who btw lived to 94.
They may sound silly but it doesn't harm the skin.
Not able to afford cleanser or a face mask many yrs back I used to peel my potatoes when I came home, clean all my makeup off and gently rub the peels on the face and let it dry. It tightens the skin beautifully. Wash off with lukewarm water.
Last but not least I take some handcream and put a teaspoon of sugar in my hand, gently rub til sugar melts and rinse off with lukewarm water, I even use my sugar and cream to get a lovely cleanse for my face. So soft afterwards.
Take care.
Melissa, Beautiful video and beautiful messages. So grateful for your friendship and very grateful for your voice on beauty and positive outlook at any age. Learned a new few tips today from you and as always felt uplifted with your inspiration. Thank you for both.... Adore you, Jennifer Xx
Marvellous video, Melissa. Thanks so much. Could you possibly share with us what type of pillow you use?
You’re my TH-cam Big Sister❣️Thanks for your wonderful tips and you have simply an adorable personality‼️I’m so glad to have found your channel….
Those are some good tips!! Thanks for sharing! :)
This is wonderful Melissa. Im late I know but better late than never 💜💛💚🐕🐾🐾
What wonderful wisdom spoken from the heart! I’m honored to be close to your age, and it’s never too late to aspire to everything you share! I’d love a video where you talk more in depth about “goals” that help you want to wake up and start your day! We are truly never too old to have goals!
Thank you Melissa for your words of wisdom. You brought tears to my eyes. I'm turning 50 this year and seeing the changes in my body and face has really made me feel really down about myself. I do what I can with skin care and exercise but in the end you can't stop time. Thank you for reminding me that every day is a blessing and I'm so lucky to have made it to this age when so many people have not. God bless you ♥️
Great advice Melissa. I always love your videos!!!
I am 50 years old and I have never felt as free as I do now. I have embraced my grays. My wrinkles. My body. I love that I can still be beautiful and happy. I am in grace with aging.
Capsule skincare is such a great idea!
Good morning beautiful!!! And you are! I believe at every junction in life, one has to have a passion, something or someone that provides a smile or motivation each day. It can be anything from a pet, reading, writing, cutting the grass, knitting...anything. It’s a reason to improve our self and minds and to bring joy to others. For me, that’s what the privilege of aging brings! Blessings:)
You are so right about sleeping on your back. I never thought I could do it but after being forced to due to breast cancer surgery, I never switched back. With 3 pillows, it’s a breeze! I can notice now when Ive shifted to my side because I wake up with lines on my face and chest. Every little tip helps!
Thank you so much, Tina, and I am so sorry about your cancer. Yes!!! I do three pillows, too! Maybe that's the trick? Bless you so much. Thank you! xox, Melissa
Thank u .u have helped me to deal with my skin problems .cant stop myself from commenting .u r beautiful both from inside and outside .
I don't comment often but I watch and I appreciate you. Loved this video very much
Great tips Melissa. Need to pick up those weights for the arms!!! Thank you for sharing all your beauty wisdoms. ❤👏❤🤗
aw, thanks, Christina. The batwings just were killing me. Those weights have helped some. thanks girl!
Keeping your arms and upper body strong is so important! In the past few years on two separate occasions, I've been witness to two elderly ladies (then in their 80s) fall down and were unable to push themselves up from the ground because of weak upper body strength. They were both very embarrassed by it and accepted only minimal assistance, taking them each a very long time to get up. Pretty arms are very nice to have, strong arms are essential.
@@mikelobrien Oh that is so sad. I remember that happened to my mother in law, too. Many thanks!
I just found your channel and my mother in law and I are obsessed. You are so beautiful. Anything you say to do I am following from now on lol
Ohhh Ms Tennessee!
Thank You for a wonderful video on EVERYTHING!
You speak the truth and at 68 soon to be 69😳I agree a gazillion percent!
Just can’t tell you how much I look forward to your ideas and philosophy.My goodness I just wish you lived next door!
Lol...and I am sure all of your viewers feel the same.
Thank you for your time and wonderful wisdom that comes from your huge heart ❤️....as big as Texas!
Have a great day, week and yessssssss!....we are enjoying our age ....most of the time😉☺️😘😘😘😘
Bless you and your family Ms Tennessee....so okay....getting my 5 pound weights out AGAIN🤭😳😜
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Thank you so much, Julie!!! I don't know if I have any good philosophies, but I do think when we get to our ages we've sorted through some things that don't work. I sure do appreciate you. Love and many thanks, Melissa
You are beautiful. I'm 45 year's old. Always been a Skincare junkie. I have been using anti- aging skincare since l was in my early twenties. Lots of sunscreen too. I now use a good handful of products with skincare that l really like, l stick to that because it work's. I'm a new sub and enjoy watching your video's. You are honest, cheerful and have a beautiful smile and personality, that is also key to good health as well how we age. It shows on our face as well our skin. I never rub my face, always gently pat it when applying my skincare product's. l let my face breath a bit with a jade roller for circulation. Small thing's we all can do to make a big difference in our skin's appearance overall is important. Does not need to be costly, like you stated and l agree 100%. Small changes can make a big difference. Keep smiling beautiful. Beauty comes from within first before it can shine to the outside. Much love from Ontario Canada 🇨🇦♥️
Couldnt click the subscribe button fast enough!!! You are so beautiful, elegant, and classy. All the work you put in your drop boxes is mind blowing, so genuine!! I adore you already 💛
I really enjoyed this video. I wish I could sleep on my back but because my neck and back hurt so bad all the time that laying on my side helps relieve some of the pain. If I lay on my back to long it starts hurting and even my pain medication doesn't help. Love that color top on you.
Oh Julie, I am so sorry. Yes, the most important thing is for you to try to get as comfortable as you possibly can. No back sleeping!!! lol (I sound bossy. ) but Doug has back problems and he has to sleep on his side with one leg over a pillow to take some of the pressure off his back. Trying to alleviate pain is the most important thing. Thank you so much. Love, Melissa
You are beautiful, gracious, and wise! Thank you for these tips! I would love to hear about your exercise routine. Thank you for all that you do...it is always such a pleasure to watch your videos...uplifting!
I just adore you. And you have had no botox? Nothing? You are so blessed. You are so beautiful!!!! I appreciate you.
You brighten my day!! You are like sunshine!! 🙏🏼😘and thank you for this video! I agree with everything you said!
Well, I have to say that reading this sure brightened my day. I really appreciate it!!! Love, Melissa
My Beautiful Melissa....you were the one who taught me of washing face with cloth upward and I do it that way since now!..I knitted mine also and think of you so many times when doing it....and than zi go apply my skincare and put that vitC serum on my nose and ears too!..again sweet Melisas tip....and I got a pair of those ankle weights you do and do your leg workout!.....see how influential you are...thank you!.....I will really try to think and make goals more..it sounds so good....big hugs to you...Jana x
Fantastic video, Melissa! I really enjoyed this so much. You are beautiful inside and out!
You're my new favourite youtuber! Thanks for all the tips. I will start putting sunscreen on my ears from now on :)
Love this video Melissa. Your tips are spot on and I agree 100% with everything you’ve shared. Age is an attitude and if we think young I believe we’ll feel younger. Simple goals of moving and staying limber work for me but I need to ramp it up a bit and start listing some weights. Thank you for sharing this Melissa.
Oh man, this video needs to be required viewing for all young women. Some seriously wise tips, and sharing what has obviously worked for you, my sweet friend. 🤗. I can knock a small child down with my long bat wings, and tend to curl up tight, on my side in the fetal position...waking up with sheet wrinkled face that can stay till mid morning. Ha I loved this video, as you have a gift of sharing your wisdom, that’s always sprinkled with humor and compassion. ❤️. I love you, as always!
aw, you're just so sweet, Cindy. Always make me feel like a million bucks and you always have. I just appreciate it and love you dearly. Thank you and love you forever. xox Melissa
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This was SO helpful and so beautiful of you to share with us!! Thank you Melissa!! Sending you lots of love from the UK xxx
Looking lovely as always Melissa
Love your channel, I like to keep beauty routine simple, I don’t want to obsess about my appearance but still want to look nice, your skin routine is doable, I can’t believe your 65, your an inspiration, i turn 53 this summer 😀
Melissa, you are so fantastic. I loved everything you shared and the spirit in which you shared it. I’m so inspired by you, sweet friend!!
You are so naturally pretty, it is refreshing to see that instead of facial fillers and botox.
Great video, I really enjoyed your words of wisdom!
I am 25 but I am loving what you’re sharing. It’s interesting to see the perspective of someone who has all this life experience. You have a such a warm voice and kind message! Thank you for sharing your advice 🤍
In regard to your moisturiser; when did you stop using this? I find my under eyes and eyelids really need the extra moisture, did you have this? Did it get better once you stopped using moisturiser? Was there a transition period?
I would love to see a video of things you wish you did when you were younger for your future! Or things that you are glad you started doing when you were younger!
Also a video on your diet if that contributes to you looking so great!!!
Thanks 🤍🤍
This was so great, Melissa! I try to sleep on my back but always wake up on my side. And I never thought of skincare on the ears! haha Thank you for a lovely video. Jennifer xx
What a really uplifting video ... thank you 😊
Great message Melissa. Wise words from a beautiful woman.
Love your channel, I too avoid using moisturizer for the same reason it causes my skin to get loose and my pores flare up. Thank you for your tips ❤️
Your proof that woman can look good at any age! You go girl!
Melissa, I love your videos. You are just a wonderful person & I’m learning so much from you. I just turned 50 & I’m going to use your skin care regimen. I think we live close to each other. I live in Cleveland,TN. Please keep making your videos. Im learning so much with how to take care of my aging body. Thank you and God Bless you 😊
I really enjoy this type of video. I learned those same Mary Kay tips when I was a consultant in the late 70’s. I need to start taking all my photos lying down! 😊 Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us. Have a wonderful week. Xoxoxo 💕💕
Oh my gosh Melissa, I needed this. I think I need to stop the moisturizer- I have natural oily skin and I have noticed since I have been wearing it my own natural oils and glow have left the building! Will experiment to see if tightness comes back! Glycolic on the décolletage and arms and hands here I come- I have same spots. Sleeping on back I just started and yoga! 50 has hit me hard -to accept the aging, but there is goodness to it also and many don’t see old age so it is a blessing! 😊
Hi lovely Melissa. I respect you and your opinions. I think you are a special lady. Just so you know. I am 52 and I am with you on moisturizers. I buffer my 1% Retin A with it to stave off irritation. Aside from that I have never used it. I have tried to. I feel like everyone else does. But I don't like it. Never liked it. Only recently I have heard specialists say you don't need it. Cody Montarbo says that and Dr. Stefani Kappel says that. Pretty sure Penny too. And when I hear it said I think "I knew that!" In fact I think skin becones dependent on the stuff. It gets lazy. So then you need moreccx and richer and better. Just stop is what I'd say to someone. Stop and the skin will adjust. It is smart.
I am glad you share my sentiment about moisturizer.
Here is to more happy days. Wishing you love peace good health and happiness - this cannot last forever...can it?
Lol...no!
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What an amazing video, I just hit 60 and your right, it is a blessing. XxM
So much good stuff here!! That triceps exercise is a favorite of mine, too. :)
Hado labo hyaluronic acid lotion is amazing it's like water and really moisturises by holding onto water in your skin 🙏
Thanks, Michelle.
Thank you for the video Ms. Melissa. I am 22 and learning so much from you 💖
You taught me about the upward strokes. I have only slept on my back in the last while and it makes a HUGE difference. You gave great tips - I need to do weights on my arms! Love you my friend and thank you for sharing these. ♥ Elle
I love your philosophy about getting older, thank you for making such awesome videos ❤️
I thank you so very much!!!
I love Mary Kay products. Oh yes, sleeping on your back is great, but it is so hard for me to do. Oh I don't want to look down into a mirror. I hate even when I have to bend over and reach for something. Your hair looks so lovely. lol, oh those spots bother me so much. Melissa it is so important to stretch and strengthen. You are totally correct. You don't appear to be aging at all!
Your 10 years wiser 😊 then me and I've learned so much from you. Thank you Melissa for sharing and always making us smile 🤗 Love ya! 💖
Oh thank you, Dee. I don't know if I'm very wise or not. lol, I sure appreciate it. xoxox
Hi Melissa, I was thinking of you this morning because of those terrible tornados in TN. I am so happy you and your family are all ok. It is heartbreaking to see the devastation on the news. I enjoyed hearing your beauty tips. I don't do well with moisturizer either. I always seem to break out because my skin isn't dry. I have tried different creams or moisturizers and it doesn't work well. Exercise is so important to keep limber and healthy. I use some stretchy bands and light weights. I love that royal blue color on you. As always your hair and make up look lovely too. I hope you have a beautiful day! I'm going to go organize my art studio. That is one of my goals! Love, Karen
aw, thanks, Karen. It was a few hours west of us, but we did have a family that had moved over there that got killed. a young couple and their little boy. It's been heartbreaking for the whole area. awwww, thank you so much for this. I just love you to pieces. And I have on my Pink in the Afternoon as we speak! lol Much love, Melissa
Another great video! Some of my favorite videos of yours, are the ones where you just tell us what you've learned in life. Thanks!
I sure do appreciate it. I don't know a lot, but I feel like I'm getting to the age where I'm learning to sort out the cr*p. lol Many thanks!
I really enjoyed this video. It was inspiring and helpful. Take care
I am 23. You are such an inspiration to go on about self care! I have good skin, received compliments on it several times. Part genetically from my parents, part from my taking care of it ever since I was 18. Careful with what I eat the last 2 years *been having some digestive issues because of some ptsd issues*. About stress, I can't say I do it well but I try. Its hard. But mindset matters a lot! I think the most, and then it is the self care.
I admire you lots. Hope I get to age beautifully like you. Much love from the rural fields of Romania!
just love your videos. such a sweet personality. love all your hints too!
I loved all the beauty tips Melissa!! You certainly are an ageless beauty! I cant imagine there are any batwings on your arms!! :):) Love you!! xoxoxoxoxoxoox Carol
HI Melissa, Mary Kay was my first venture into skincare too! And I remember the directions just as you described. You look beautiful, so whatever you are doing is certainly working! I hope that I can look half as good as you when I am your age. 💖 Great idea about putting sunscreen on the ears. Bat wings... you made me giggle. Stretching is so important, I have noticed big differences since I turned 50 in how tight my muscles have become. I really want to start doing yoga. Goal setting is so important, I always like to have something to look forward to. I loved this video Melissa! Lots of love, Cathy xoxo
Watched again. Great tips.❤
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I have only been watching you for about a month and a half. I want to say Thankyou very much. From Day one I sent for the Obagi. I want say I have been using Retinol for 2 years now this March. But in these short weeks that I’ve combined both and added the vitamin see as well. My skin hands an neck look unbelievable. Iam 67 and when I go out with my 51 year old Daughter.People think we’re Sisters. I really enjoy watching you and learning new things. Would love it if you ever decide to write a book. Thankyou again❤️
I appreciate it so much, Margie. Oh that is just marvelous. Yay!!! Thank you for telling me that. It's so encouraging to me. Love and many thanks, Melissa
I love this video so much...thank you!
Agree! from another 64 y.o. Enjoy your channel! xx k