Women are ATTRACTED TO NICE GUYS (hear me out - not clickbait)

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  • @CaseyZander
    @CaseyZander  ปีที่แล้ว +25

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    • @TheMegaGamingWizard
      @TheMegaGamingWizard ปีที่แล้ว

      very one dimensional video.

    • @davidallahgod3217
      @davidallahgod3217 ปีที่แล้ว

      If a guy says he's high value,
      They are not!
      High value men don't say they are high value, or a alpha male etc...

    • @davidosalsero2519
      @davidosalsero2519 ปีที่แล้ว

      Please be aware that your presentation style is poor in this particular respect. You have a habit of regularly saying "KAY". It does not add anything to the dissertation and, in fact is both disjointing the speech plus is frankly likely to annoy the listener. Thanks, KAY, David.

    • @Awesam3rd
      @Awesam3rd ปีที่แล้ว +1

      simply the difference between a good guy and a nice guy be the good guy don't get taken advantage of

  • @shafaqali
    @shafaqali ปีที่แล้ว +403

    Let’s keep it simple.
    There are Nice Guys and there are Gentlemen.
    Nice guys are ready to take any form of disrespect and still be nice.
    Gentlemen are Gentle, Caring but won’t tolerate any BS from anyone.
    Notice the word difference:
    Nice vs Gentle, Guy vs Man.

    • @thomtalone9453
      @thomtalone9453 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Be kind not nice. Yes, be a gentleman, show respect and don’t allow disrespect to enter the relationship.

    • @jerrys1
      @jerrys1 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      That is a great way of putting it. “Nice guy” is a term that means something negative now, and for good reason. Gentleman is a better term to use

    • @carrocesta
      @carrocesta ปีที่แล้ว +4

      you nailed it dude!

    • @jerrys1
      @jerrys1 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Anthony Manzio spicy

    • @cheezedoodlenygguh6229
      @cheezedoodlenygguh6229 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Rather just be a savage 🤣

  • @coolazul4204
    @coolazul4204 ปีที่แล้ว +424

    They are attracted to nice guys just not simps who are overly nice for no reason they’ve gotta earn nice treatment otherwise they will walk all over you

    • @Woodwose88
      @Woodwose88 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Simps are nice as a way of manipulation of a situation, conditionally expecting results for their exerted actions. A mans purpose is to give unconditionally with no expectations but is happy to share his abundant resources and thus knows it will eventually be reciprocated by a woman willing to recieve and raise her man up to his higher purpose

    • @theworldisimmense
      @theworldisimmense ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol basically the nice guy is the average to ugly guy.
      And the badboy /asshole is the good looking guy period

    • @zeushualde4570
      @zeushualde4570 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      they attract to good guys not nice guy

    • @coolazul4204
      @coolazul4204 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Anthony Manzio you obviously haven’t dealt with any cool woman

    • @oluwajuwonloowojori8049
      @oluwajuwonloowojori8049 ปีที่แล้ว

      Not as much as Toxic guys

  • @c4blew
    @c4blew ปีที่แล้ว +134

    Agree. Treating women like shit works with many women, and these women also might not be interested in men who treat them right...but it only works with low quality women that have either mental or self-worth problems that will create lots of problems within a relationship. if you want a high quality women that is fun to be around, you need to treat her well, without being a pushover or simp.

    • @redline350zHR
      @redline350zHR ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yess i agree completely

    • @cheezedoodlenygguh6229
      @cheezedoodlenygguh6229 ปีที่แล้ว

      Vvomen are hiveminded creatures. Nothing about makes one more special than the other. They are designed for submission.

    • @magicalesquilax7232
      @magicalesquilax7232 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      100% true, well said.

    • @ACORNyMOFO
      @ACORNyMOFO ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So what you're saying is most women I look quality. Got it.

    • @KentPetersonmoney
      @KentPetersonmoney 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Women like that always end up with men that abuse them.

  • @tnave80
    @tnave80 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Makes 100% since. Been married 10 years. I do the same thing with my wife. It's all balance and respect for one another. I like red pill content. I've learned a lot from it. But I 100% agree with your message. To simply it. The Golden Rule. Don't do onto others what u wouldn't want done onto u. Your right u can be nice to your woman. But your woman needs to know u have a backbone as well. 100% agree with u bro

  • @d-vision2426
    @d-vision2426 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    A "bad boy" is simply a nice guy with an edge and self respect.

    • @Mcgee833
      @Mcgee833 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      A bad boy is a player who knows how to manipulate a women. Not acting too nice or too bad. Basically game.
      No wonder women initiate most breakups/divorces. They fall for the game. Break when they see the real personality.

  • @nickp3949
    @nickp3949 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I’ve always said it as strong nice vs weak nice. Strong nice is ding kind and respectful to people because that is one of your values as a man. And if someone tries to take advantage of you, you stop that shit immediately. Weak nice is being nice BECAUSE YOU’RE AFRAID. Afraid of confrontation, afraid of people not liking you, afraid of not being accepted, etc…that’s weak nice. And being weak nice will get you friendzoned every single time.

    • @SolesElegance
      @SolesElegance ปีที่แล้ว

      I have only been too nice with a girl who made me wait 5 dates to fuck.

  • @NahuCommNS
    @NahuCommNS ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Resumed: Be a masculine man, don't be an a-hole, put yourself first, don't give them excessive attention.

    • @Mcgee833
      @Mcgee833 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Just be a player.

  • @bradleyhall7728
    @bradleyhall7728 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Guys, please don’t overthink it really. People just want to make money when they post videos on how to act with a girl . Truly, it’s about being a gentlemen - nice, kind, and charismatic . If a girl is not giving off any interest, don’t give her interest back. If she likes you, keep it so that she has to work for you (depends on the girl, but i believe that the dynamic is better this way). What I mean by this is still show interest, flirt, etc but realize that she must show something to table. If she is not doing much, don’t be afraid to walk away. There are so many out there. Don’t become fixated!

  • @fabianosterwalder5495
    @fabianosterwalder5495 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    👍🏻 I used to be a Mr. Nice Guy. I stoped being one, but it never felt right to be an Alpha or whatever, because I looooove being nice and I also love having nice people around me. In your video, you just provided the missing link that I was searching for : being nice, definitely IS nice and appreciated. Being nice in order to expect something specific in return, is not so nice. Thanks for your excellent advice and super work !

    • @kurbicksan4917
      @kurbicksan4917 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are still a Mr Nice guy sorry but it's true.

    • @mryeetus6075
      @mryeetus6075 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ⁠@@kurbicksan4917liking to do nice/kind things for people you care about doesn’t make you “Mr Nice Guy”.

    • @RedShirtMenace808
      @RedShirtMenace808 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@kurbicksan4917exactly lol

  • @alexalvarado767
    @alexalvarado767 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I’ve been living your message for the last couple of months. It’s been great! My girl knows that I’m nice because I want to be and I will not hesitate to check her if she does or says anything I do not like. It’s created an amazing dating dynamic

  • @anthony-leesanchez6219
    @anthony-leesanchez6219 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I really love your new content Casey! This is probably one of my favorite videos from you because it gives me permission to drop all the acting and be who I actually am.

  • @erica2280
    @erica2280 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Thank you Casey! Although your videos are geared towards guys, they’ve taught me what traits to look for in quality men.

  • @Mom_Luvs_Tech
    @Mom_Luvs_Tech ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Thank you Casey! You’re making the dating world better for both men and women.

    • @deniseeugene1852
      @deniseeugene1852 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Everything that this man is saying is spot on. Casey men either have it or they don’t. It’s comes from within them. Women can sense it. And that is what separates some men from the other. The innate confidence that you can attract a desirable woman. And keep her interest.

    • @Introvertedalpha
      @Introvertedalpha ปีที่แล้ว

      😁

  • @saleme.d.7440
    @saleme.d.7440 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The FIRST real great advice about dating and women i've came across.

  • @selfmadecollectibles
    @selfmadecollectibles ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Wow CZ thanks for this message. It’s so eerie that you made this video just as I’ve been trying to exhibit more of this behavior lately. I was the nice guy who had to be but I managed to walk away from the relationship. However, it’s true I was too nice then and got walked all over. I’ve been consuming yours and other RP content since but I’ve noticed the messages out there going so RP that it almost carries a womanizing mentality with it and I just didn’t feel that fit me. So I’m striving for a balance and I know it can be done cuz I’ve done it before. I’m a nice guy by default but my value sunk pretty low prior to this last relationship and didn’t have many options hence why I felt I had to be. Fast forward 6 months and I’ve improved my value. She hit me up 2 weeks ago and ever since I’ve been demonstrating my masculinity while not foregoing my ability to be compassionate and the like. She immediately responded well to the compassion I showed but I’m currently in the back off phase cuz she evidently thinks she’s going to do me like before and I had to exert my boundaries. We’ll see how it goes…
    Gonna check out MBT. Thanks again.

    • @borise4104
      @borise4104 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How did your story end?
      what I think. if your relationship is not in a good state then any "[she] responded well" is not what you want to seek.

    • @selfmadecollectibles
      @selfmadecollectibles 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@borise4104 She responded well the compassion because I spoke her language but ultimately I've just been trying to perfect mine.

  • @mryeetus6075
    @mryeetus6075 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I haven’t bought MBT but applied some of your stuff. It has helped. Got a girl a little while ago. I won’t reply for a while mostly cause I’m busy and she always replies within a few minutes. I do nice things but I’ve also made requests and set boundaries that she listened to. I get compliments from her every day and shes great to me. Thanks Casey.

  • @sparshrastogi2646
    @sparshrastogi2646 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is bang on. I used to be in the “have to be nice” category. I learned this the hard way after my last breakup.

  • @GDOrtiz
    @GDOrtiz ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Where I live women love nice guys, especially when they are over 35 yo, single mother of two and jobless, then they "magically" realize that nice guys are good options.

  • @dariusjones5557
    @dariusjones5557 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Casey's right.
    Even tho he never said it I'm saying it.
    A lot of the red pill movement is wrapped up in exposing negative toxic women to validate their reasoning of why you shouldn't deal with them. It's nothing wrong with that cause the information is needed, but hears the thing, we get what we focus on, so if we're focusing on negative stories about women, then by default we also start to become negative. This is why I don't view much red pill content if at all any anymore.

    • @frugalfitness2896
      @frugalfitness2896 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yeah and if you treat a good one (few as there may be) like a toxic one you're setting yourself up for failure.

  • @dkeith520
    @dkeith520 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Ultimately dating is supposed to be fun. I don’t know how or when people forgot that but that’s the truth.The best advice I can give is that if you not having a good time just stop, work on yourself, experience life, and try again later.

    • @ItsmeDevii
      @ItsmeDevii ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree with you. Some people forget this and suffer later on in their relationship

  • @ToxiCisty
    @ToxiCisty ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I think the main mistake guys make is they’re so afraid of being a simp nice guy that they give off a vibe that lacks authenticity, “tough guy”, “ignore them all”.

  • @capelamedia4608
    @capelamedia4608 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    A nice guy who has the ability to walk away who always win 🏆

  • @Sizzlor1337
    @Sizzlor1337 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I really appreciate your new videos and the perspective you teach now, it seems obtainable and real. Genuine masculine power, not the fake stuff.

  • @mav3ric100
    @mav3ric100 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love this, Casey! That's how I have always been since childhood! The thing is most girls would feel that good energy and automatically friendzone me thinking I was the second type of nice guy. I'm decent looking (people other than family and friends tell me) so as I got older I became "intimidating" or "mysterious" to the other sex and that allowed me to pull by obsfucating my nice guy positive energy on first impression.
    I think many guys need to understand that duality. You need to basically have standards. That's what Casey means by "Reciprocity". I hate conflict not because I don't know how to handle myself, but because I don't care to have stress in my life just for the shits and giggles. I was raised in a positive environment so that's how I grew and express to the world. BUT, I expect that same treatment back. I understand the world is made of different people with different backgrounds, but if I come at you positive and you hit me with negative, I reassess faster than a speeding bullet and deal with you the same, no hard feelings, just not deserving of my positivity or kindness.

    • @TheBoon14
      @TheBoon14 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Last line is so relatable, well said.

  • @smokeclouds8
    @smokeclouds8 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    This content is amazingly humbling and authentic, it's unfortunate these glorified dating coaches and pick-up artists get most of the attention when CZ is putting out knowledge that truly makes sense. Ever since I've aligned with this content I've learned being honest with myself creates the most gains.

    • @jerrys1
      @jerrys1 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Every guy should watch some uncle C

  • @SamoanGooner
    @SamoanGooner ปีที่แล้ว +14

    It comes down to your definition of what a nice guy is. Most people think a nice guy is a pushover, someone who submits easily, has no back bone and a people pleaser. To me, that’s a simp.
    You can be a nice person and have confidence in yourself, you have a strong foundation of confidence in your being. You know who you are and what you’re about, you know your strengths and weaknesses and you’re not afraid to stand up for yourself.
    I’ve always believed that if you feel the need to embarrass others to make yourself look strong or superior, it shows you lack confidence on the inside and you’re a dick. One of the things I don’t like about Alpha’s, but we Sigma males look at the world differently compared to those Alpha divas, lol.
    You can be a strong confident male without feeling the need to look down on people.
    Why do I think alpha’s are divas? They need to be in the spotlight to shine, take them out of the light and they can’t shine anymore, lol.

    • @cheezedoodlenygguh6229
      @cheezedoodlenygguh6229 ปีที่แล้ว

      If you hate on alphas you're a beta not a sigma lol coper

    • @SamoanGooner
      @SamoanGooner ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cheezedoodlenygguh6229 hmm… I have a trolling personality. I come from a bloodline of Alpha’s and Sigma’s, I turned out to be more Sigma. Me making fun of Alpha’s is banta. You should learn to take a joke. There’s a difference between insults and trolling. No point in Alpha’s making fun of others and they can’t cop what they dish out.

  • @jamesdoody8632
    @jamesdoody8632 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am grateful to have not only discovered this channel but also to witness this shift in message. Truly genuine and humbling and I think a lot of guys need to hear this.

  • @Waterbug1591
    @Waterbug1591 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    There needs to be a clear line between the definition of "Nice guys" and "Gentlemen". Nice guys are commonly associated to the Beta male groups that chase women's validation and women hate them. Gentlemen are actual Alphas that operate on politeness, conscientiousness and generosity that benefit the vulnerable sex - women through chivalrous tendencies.
    I am 31 and have been approached by 13 girls my whole life, sexually confessed to by 1 same girl twice in 2 separate years and I was a generally "Nice", diligent person. I doubted that girls hated "Nice guys" until I realized I was a "Gentleman" instead of a "Nice guy".

    • @cheezedoodlenygguh6229
      @cheezedoodlenygguh6229 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol you bragging about being approached 13 times shows you care about their pathetic validation lame

    • @cheezedoodlenygguh6229
      @cheezedoodlenygguh6229 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Chivalry is geigh

    • @TheBoon14
      @TheBoon14 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@cheezedoodlenygguh6229 HAHA i'm starting to agree tbh

  • @Culturecancer
    @Culturecancer ปีที่แล้ว +3

    great vid standing up for yourself is at first hard but eventually it will feel naturally !

  • @shanelaing4402
    @shanelaing4402 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Amazing! Fantastic Video Casey! Really. I needed to hear this because this is 100% where I am at! I have people close to me who treat women like rags to be discarded once they are done with. But I don't like this, and I've been struggling with their concept because their strike rate is unfortunately high! But where I was struggling is that I hold myself to a higher standard and I'm sometimes swayed to believe that perhaps women do in fact want to be treated badly? I want to take a girl out, be respectful, be a gentleman etc. If I doesn't end in the bedroom thats fine. If it does, great, but they are to be treated well along the entire journey. There is a long, twisted story attached to where I'm coming from here but in short. My last fling ended in a very sick and unheard of way. But I'm content with how I behaved, I treated her well, I made her laugh, we had fun together, genuinely. But I won't stand for certain behaviours and cut it off the moment the ugly news dawned upon me. Keep it up mate. This is the way.

  • @Nah155-k4c
    @Nah155-k4c ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I like how this guy doesn't actually clip in between and makes this one whole sequences. Real 10/10

  • @philiproschactor
    @philiproschactor ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You always come across like a genuinely good person with wisdom and admirable qualities and I agree with what you say.

  • @crinawma314
    @crinawma314 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Yes... They want strong, confident, ambitious nice guy who is humble at heart.

    • @cheezedoodlenygguh6229
      @cheezedoodlenygguh6229 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Who cares what they want? Seems to change everyday. Let's just take their rights

    • @xentiment6581
      @xentiment6581 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@cheezedoodlenygguh6229 based and real?

  • @NerdSnipingBatman
    @NerdSnipingBatman ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I think the lesson here is to be genuinely nice to everyone, if she reciprocates the same interest as you, and treats you well then keep increasing how special you treat her in response to her reciprocity. If she stops reciprocating then respond in kind. Don't give her kindness if she isn't giving you the same, don't give her respect if she doesn't give you the same, don't give her loyalty if she isn't giving you the same. That's a fundamental rule: reciprocity. You should move together or not at all, but don't be a pushover. Don't do things for her that she didn't earn. Her just being pretty isn't earning anything.
    I think girls don't like "nice guys" who make it feel like being treated special is unearned. Think about it this way, how would you feel if all the sudden a girl starts treating you special like you're the love of her life and everything? It's off putting....she skipped steps because you didn't earn it.

    • @freedomdude5420
      @freedomdude5420 ปีที่แล้ว

      And the funny thing is that was one of the things in the red pill can’t do in the first place it’s too easy.

  • @justinmesser6026
    @justinmesser6026 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are right on. I was too cold and didn’t create enough or the right quality experiences with the woman of my dreams. I thought I had her bc she wanted to be with me forever she said…but if you don’t treat them like a lady and make them feel special while in a long term relationship, when shit goes sideways, you don’t even know what happened. She flips it off like a switch and her actions are justified bc she’s really not missing out on anything. Men, if you’re with the right kinda girl that’s better than all the rest, treat her like she is. Thanks Casey. 👍

  • @johnp7739
    @johnp7739 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is an expanded version of what Robert Glover talked about in his No More Mr. Nice Guy book. Be a good guy--not a nice guy. As Glover pointed out, "nice" guys are often simply manipulative and not that nice. They think that always being nice and non-confrontational will make others give them what they want....then are often angry when it doesn't work out. But they're too passive-aggressive to let others know when they've been wronged...they just hint at it or blow up occasionally.

  • @charlesmaglia3697
    @charlesmaglia3697 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dude I’m 55 and I’m a nice but also a bad boy! Could have written this whole book! It’s all in the feeling, just have enough balls to check the feeling out! Don’t worry about outcome! I know you’re 28 and you’re right on track brother, but at some point true genuine feelings and commonality have to surpass! Love you, bro!

  • @Zemriel1
    @Zemriel1 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love your videos ❤ your content is very balanced within the manosphere, god bless 👊🏾

    • @Zemriel1
      @Zemriel1 ปีที่แล้ว

      How do I direct message you? I tried to before but I’m probably doing something wrong I will look for you in instagram 👍🏾

  • @ValentinesCreatives
    @ValentinesCreatives 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yeah. Sounds like growth right there 💯💪🏾

  • @dude7741
    @dude7741 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I have always been nice but what I did i will share and girls have attracted towards me: but
    1.Always have self respect
    2.Always keep boundries politely.
    3.Always listen more than you speak
    4. Always tell with your eyes
    5. Donot reply too early
    6.Have your personal life.
    7.Always have fun and try to talk non veg joke in a subtle way
    8. Always keep in mind that she doesnot have anything extra from the nature just a hole between legs made of flesh
    9. Always have women as friend becz women are hardwired to listen to their friend to select guys. Women donot choose partner with their Brian, they choose what the world their friend says that's why they choose performer artist sportsperson becz their biological nature tells them that the society has approved this man so let me grab this ship

    • @ItsmeDevii
      @ItsmeDevii ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I screenshot this💯

    • @ItsmeDevii
      @ItsmeDevii ปีที่แล้ว

      What do you mean by #7 non veg jokes?

    • @redline350zHR
      @redline350zHR ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ItsmeDevii same

    • @VanguardEternal
      @VanguardEternal ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ItsmeDevii he means adult jokes / double meaning stuff...

    • @ItsmeDevii
      @ItsmeDevii ปีที่แล้ว

      @@VanguardEternal is that bad when you talk like that to your partner?

  • @jigga9770
    @jigga9770 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I wish I could afford your course but I want to say that I really connect with all your videos and appreciate watching your free content. It’s helping me a lot. So thank you.

  • @TheMicahwitz
    @TheMicahwitz ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Casey, it’s tragic that no one else in the dating sphere is saying this. I see a ton of “masculine” content creators that don’t actually go out with women. Back in the mid-2000’s I learned from guys like David Deangelo (still great for fundamentals), Carlos Xuma, Zan, and Grant Adams. These guys taught that’s it’s okay to be a normal decent guy as long as you have the right mindset and demand respect from yourself and those around you. Keep up the great work man, your content is definitely needed, especially for all the manosphere kids that aren’t learning g the fundamentals of dating and keeping a good woman.

  • @djdanielbrown
    @djdanielbrown ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m glad you are touching on this subject because I have been wondering about being kind. I am kind because I want to be because there are to many too a$$holes out here, but I will not tolerate people who will disrespect me and I do say something about it. I have people best interest at heart that is why I am living my purpose and helping humanity transition to a better way of life that is aligned with their Higher Power and working with consciousness and energy. Thanks my man I appreciate your work. You are helping men be better and helping them be better in life and women. I’m going to try this with some woman who I have some interest in. 🔥❤️

  • @katon4444
    @katon4444 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    YESSS ! Two things here. 1) put limit 2) stop projecting other male/female toxic advices that doesn't belong to your mindset. Keep being nice bros !

  • @samnohra2139
    @samnohra2139 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I was actually stuck with this. I thought I had to be a dick to girls so they "respect" me and see me as alpha. Thats shit does not work. This vid exlplains it well.

  • @heae90
    @heae90 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It just sucks when you walk away because they aren't reciprocating and then they gaslight you saying you don't really care

  • @djzonex3539
    @djzonex3539 ปีที่แล้ว

    I agree with your key points. Situation we live today and dating market is crazy. Nobody knows what to do and who to listen to. Be more observant and develop yourself. Be useful, kindful, respectful.

  • @skizzler1232
    @skizzler1232 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I liked this video topic and how you delivered it I always appreciate your videos man.

  • @jimforemann8581
    @jimforemann8581 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I've always been a nice person and it's never worked with women. Even though I managed to get a few beautiful women for 15 plus years. I'm nice because that's who I am but it makes you appear week. So Casey's other videos we're really more beneficial to me cuz they didn't change me but they shifted me in the right direction I'm still a nice guy I can't change that

    • @jimforemann8581
      @jimforemann8581 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Anthony Manzio I'll be old as doc Adams in 2030

  • @donovonlee6434
    @donovonlee6434 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My guys, ima make it real simple for you. Most People do not realize that there is a distinct difference between what someone WANTS and what someone is ATTRACTED to. Everyone (not just women) WANTS a good partner, infact they all will tell you that, but most people are attracted to the BS types of people. You ever wonder why you hear the story "I don't know why I'm dating the same types of people"?? That's the answer. What they are attracted to Does Not match what they actually want. Most people do not realize that until later on in their lives when they are "done" with the dating game, and ironically, they end up with the same type of people they would turn down because they are not attracted to them. You're Welcome

    • @ericmueller6687
      @ericmueller6687 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly, it’s crazy because even what you are attracted to physically always ends up what you don’t actually want.

    • @righteousfroce1254
      @righteousfroce1254 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You would think being nice would attract girls more then some guynthat gives them an attitude. I actually find girls who give me an attitude less attractive.

  • @josipzubovic
    @josipzubovic 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    of all of your videos, this one is my favorite! keep the good job

  • @random_32114
    @random_32114 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you for focusing on this 'missing link' its more about being a gentlemen like james bond yet still being fierce and stand firm in his convictions and self worth.

  • @OLDPEDOJOE
    @OLDPEDOJOE ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I just got a whole ass chocolate cake delivered to my house with my name in frosting for my birthday from the chick I'm seeing, I treat her like a woman with respect and in return she loves and adores me. I have no words to describe how much love I feel from this "fuck buddy" it's insane. A few years ago, I would have never imagined women could be so sweet and caring; what he's saying is true, I'm also a recovering nice guy, I'm still nice, I just have boundaries.

  • @petermj1098
    @petermj1098 ปีที่แล้ว

    Respect and be kind to women who DESERVE kindness and respect. If a woman does not deserve kindness and respect for something bad they’ve done, do not give them any courtesy. Unless you are working at a job and forced to be polite never give courtesy to a woman who’s doesn’t deserve it.

  • @magicalviews6755
    @magicalviews6755 ปีที่แล้ว

    Uncle c you just changed my pov of view from past month really i mea really and all I want to say to everyone to stay dedicated to your work

  • @infinteuniverse
    @infinteuniverse ปีที่แล้ว +1

    wow. I was thinking about this the other day. In general, about being a nice guy to everyone. I will do nice things for people 2 or 3 times, if they do not begin to reciprocate after the third time, then no more nice things for them.

  • @BlaqcRain
    @BlaqcRain ปีที่แล้ว

    This is facts .... having to be nice is the absolute worst way to feel and operate ... WANTING to be nice is waaaay better and comfortable

  • @EXCLUSIVEJAYY98
    @EXCLUSIVEJAYY98 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow your content is getting much deeper

  • @PolVai
    @PolVai ปีที่แล้ว

    I used to consume Red Pill until I realized how flawed and many times simply untrue this set of beliefs is, but what you're saying is actually resonating with me unlike these pills mostly filled with toxicity.

  • @Jewish.Hotdog
    @Jewish.Hotdog ปีที่แล้ว

    Man speaking straight facts, the ability to turn it on and off at the snap of a finger is the power we have as men.

  • @JLaDrew
    @JLaDrew ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Casey, Outstanding thoughtful insight

  • @henryjoseph3093
    @henryjoseph3093 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's all about balance my friend.

  • @JALA578
    @JALA578 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Women will always like men they can respect. As long as you don't fold over for her or act "too nice" you'll be fine.

  • @RealityLVN
    @RealityLVN ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are different from everyone else in this space. Your message works if an individual chooses to apply it. Looking forward to more videos.

    • @LaneTheBrane
      @LaneTheBrane ปีที่แล้ว

      He's earning off this content! Don't presume otherwise

  • @Freskko
    @Freskko ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Masculine yet polite type of thing.

  • @jonthedawn
    @jonthedawn ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yes.. difference between nice and simps. facts brah

  • @zindagijeenede
    @zindagijeenede ปีที่แล้ว

    commenting for engagement.
    This shit needs to be heard in today's over expressive world.

  • @jefffaulkner2875
    @jefffaulkner2875 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What you're saying is true when dealing with adult women.
    Girls are a completely different animal.

  • @timgibney5590
    @timgibney5590 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Basically ... Women like good guys. Not nice guys. Being a jerk can get you laid but bf material is a good guy who is tough, competent, strong, good ethics, good personn, but not a pushoever or pleaser. Good guy also means to be good to himself by investing in himself by self respect

    • @Rob-nl5ge
      @Rob-nl5ge 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes. Be good to her but always be willing to stand up/walk away if/when bad behaviour occurs. Women hate a pushover.

    • @Mcgee833
      @Mcgee833 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So basically a women would be with a jerk easily for nothing.
      But if a good guy wants a relationship with her he needs to have this grocery list of good traits.☕️ 😂😂

    • @timgibney5590
      @timgibney5590 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Mcgee833 Women are not men. Men are not women. Being upset at this and bitter is a huge turn off. Women are judges of a man's competence in every species (not just humans). WHich buc gets the mate? The one who battles with the biggest horns and is strongest and wins!
      Which bird gets the mate? The one who has the best dance who made the effort and practiced and outside the other males.
      Humans who gets the mate? The man who makes her feel safe like 10,000 BC where the top leaders of the tribe respect and win provisions and fights and kills other men in battle. That is hot. Reason being is early man was nomadic. left behind == DEATH. so if you are bullied and a nice guy guess who doesn't get invited to the hunt or gets the meat? HER
      So be the man of the cave man days and be the top of the social queue and strong and tough with no emotions and she will fall in love with you and friendzone her nice soyboys.
      I know that is hard but Google "No More Mr. Nice guy?" It will change your life for women and work. It is not fair and sad, but as men it is reality. Women get kicked by weak behavior. It is biology from 10,000BC. She can't help it. Her emotions guide her to warriors and leaders who bring home meat from hunts.

    • @Returntonature145
      @Returntonature145 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@Mcgee833There is no way to tell what they really want. You have to experiment

  • @christianbest1562
    @christianbest1562 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’ve been watching you for a few years man. Always great content, and this is a really mature mindset. Being KIND and being “nice” are so different, it’s hard to believe so many people have confused the 2. Guys, don’t treat people like shit. Guys or girls. Otherwise you’ll end up like Andrew Tate, having all these strong opinions on women but not being able to normally interact with them 🤣

    • @tylergary5953
      @tylergary5953 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree with everything you said, except the tate part. He plays a character online and that’s what got him famous, and helped spread his points across. But there have been thousands of woman at this point who have come out and defended him and talked about how much of a nice gentleman he is and how well he treats them and how safe and protected they felt around him. Just keep in mind, the internet is a smoke screen. He’s just playing the game. He’s not nearly as much of a “toxic dick” that people believe he is, and woman vouch for that.

    • @cheezedoodlenygguh6229
      @cheezedoodlenygguh6229 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Tyler Gary You think everybody who isn't soft is "playing the game" the truth is some of us just don't care about the feeble-minded opinions of the irrational sex

    • @cheezedoodlenygguh6229
      @cheezedoodlenygguh6229 ปีที่แล้ว

      You clowns always talk about Tate but I repsect that man because he says what's on his MIND no filter. Y'all too busy catering to these vvomen.

    • @tylergary5953
      @tylergary5953 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cheezedoodlenygguh6229 Not exactly. I’m just trying to “play the game” with the op because he clearly has bought into the Tate propaganda. “You’ll end up like Andrew tate who has all these strong opinions on woman yet can’t normally interact with them”. Regardless I agree with everything tate says and I’m also a fan of him. And I also agree that most woman are feeble minded and ignorant, especially modern woman who are straight up delusionalz

    • @cheezedoodlenygguh6229
      @cheezedoodlenygguh6229 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tylergary5953 Yeah I agree with that I kinda jumped the 🔫 on my last night tirade 🤣

  • @melove4272
    @melove4272 ปีที่แล้ว

    I like your messages. It opens my twinkle eyes.Thank you!

  • @AstrxPubg
    @AstrxPubg ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I was going down a very toxic redpill mentality and your videos are helping me be myself thank you!

  • @JosephFarrier-c8q
    @JosephFarrier-c8q 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sometimes were just not meant to be just be patient one will come

  • @arielcandoleta5347
    @arielcandoleta5347 ปีที่แล้ว

    That's what it should be about, mutual benefit.

  • @joelashworth7463
    @joelashworth7463 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice, funny, confident, self- assured and laid back - what is not to like ? Nice, needy, awkward, tentative is a totally different vibe - but i do love your analysis here - you are spot on and it takes a real man to go against the current alpha male story - i think on tinder a woman is looking for a alpha - irl they are looking for someone who can make the texture - the daily lived experience better - you can do that through wealth (that is true) but the way a person makes you feel is free

  • @rickyking1790
    @rickyking1790 ปีที่แล้ว

    Casey you hit the nail on the head!

  • @jordankuttler1859
    @jordankuttler1859 ปีที่แล้ว

    I discovered your channel by complete accident and I’m happy I did 👍🏻
    Greetings from France 🇫🇷

  • @sageoldmann5157
    @sageoldmann5157 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Women do like nice guys. As long as you’re 6’5” tall, make at least $1M a year, live in a mansion, and drive a Bentley. Even then they will divorce you, just look at Tom Brady, George Clooney, Brad Pitt, I can go on and on. Good luck out there.

    • @nathantinsley07
      @nathantinsley07 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That red pill is stuck in your throat

  • @markpino1508
    @markpino1508 ปีที่แล้ว

    I aint no prize guy. But i never had troubles i just turned half a dam century have no complaints on a marathon with your content good stuff here meeho! Carry in new seescriber 🤘

  • @KostasSiderisBarista
    @KostasSiderisBarista ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Secret is no put everything through a filter and adjust them to your personality. Let that sink in and think about it for different reasons...

  • @jeremyraves5814
    @jeremyraves5814 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Treating women well is what we are called to do as men

  • @samuelgomez2548
    @samuelgomez2548 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Finally someone who differnciates between attracting low quality hookup culture toxic wemen vs high quality good girl reserved wemen but we ignore red flags too just to get the box sometimes

  • @christopherbuckley7544
    @christopherbuckley7544 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    There's a big difference between "nice" and "respectable". After 5-6 dates where I initiated, I expect some initiation in "reciprocity". Funny thing though, when I stop initiating, guess what happens...yup, never hear from her. Evidently, either I was a really lousy date (not), she wasn't really interested (ie seeking attention), or her expectations were that the responsibility for a "relationship" was all mine...not what I'd call reciprocal. ;)

  • @mandela_explains
    @mandela_explains ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You just kept it💯, Casey, you're the shit!😎🤘🏼

  • @tequilachanel7312
    @tequilachanel7312 ปีที่แล้ว

    This makes sense! I’m definitely nice when I want to be I have “players in disguise” are flabbergasted when I switch up 😂

  • @skaltura
    @skaltura 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Others say "Kind, Not Nice" -- same thing

  • @williammaddux
    @williammaddux ปีที่แล้ว

    I like this concept. If I understand correctly, I can be my charming self and freely engage with women with my banter and jokes, but walk away if my efforts are not being seen, appreciated, or accepted.

    • @MasteryOrder
      @MasteryOrder ปีที่แล้ว

      If you enjoy challenging ideas and if mastery and masculinity are subjects that interest you, I invite you to explore the videos I share on the Mastery Order Channel.
      Challenge yourself with some ideas about manhood, explore your masculine potential to the maximum and become the kind of man you would admire.
      We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own opinions so that others can benefit from them as well.
      Looking forward to your points of view.
      All the best to you!

  • @LIKEMIKEGG7
    @LIKEMIKEGG7 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The correct word is righteous

  • @valentynabelofsky9374
    @valentynabelofsky9374 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I want this guy to drop a video on what HE is attracted to in a woman because he seems like a clone of the guy I want

    • @TheUnplugged1
      @TheUnplugged1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      feminity, submission, healthy body, fertility, physical attractiveness, caring, nurturing

  • @Mohdzn
    @Mohdzn ปีที่แล้ว

    im so happy and glad you talked about this

  • @mphonyovane2270
    @mphonyovane2270 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    For the record, you never do click-bait.

  • @jairos9866
    @jairos9866 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Well said! 👏🏾 Genuine content.

  • @pieterjansenvanrensburg7322
    @pieterjansenvanrensburg7322 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your latest videos are really good.. I agree with this! Makes sense

  • @vollumearchive5282
    @vollumearchive5282 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for making me feel not crazy for thinking this way, I was so confused with all the redpill content because ever since I was a kid I always wanted to be a good person/gentleman and be "authentic to myself", all this brainwashing that you should treat women like trash always felt weird like its not in my nature to do so.

  • @sameerforyou01
    @sameerforyou01 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good content brother. very insightful, very helpful thank you!!

  • @tequilachanel7312
    @tequilachanel7312 ปีที่แล้ว

    Also being a player for too long eventually leaves you lonely and washed up. You’ll put soo much manipulative bad energy out there that you’ll eventually reap it. In the end you play yourself.

  • @Duke_D888
    @Duke_D888 ปีที่แล้ว

    Facts CZ. Red Pill converted dudes can end up destroying what would have been beautiful relationships with the Ex’s.

  • @mandela_explains
    @mandela_explains ปีที่แล้ว

    You just kept it, Casey, you're the shit!😎🤘🏼

  • @briandiggs3508
    @briandiggs3508 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm a Gentleman to women But at the same time, I will check them if they get out of line quickly