I am a Christian. I wish my husband and I could have had these principles to build our relationship on. Married 49 years and we really don't have a developed relationship. This is such good information! GOD BLESS ISREAL!!!!❤
I've also heard it said ' your strengths are also your greatest weaknesses' So much great marriage advice here. Thankyou! I'm a Christian, watching from New Zealand 😊
What a wonderful couple. I also live in Toms River, NJ. I think it is so important for people to have some marriage training through a Jewish married couple.
I really liked your idea about vacations in theory. But in reality, my wife and I have very different concepts of vacations. She wants to go to a hotel or beach and sit and do nothing (OK, well not nothing. She wants to sit and talk and connect and wake up late. But in my mind that's nothing and I hate sitting around "chilling"). I want to go snowboarding, or surfing, or hiking/ sight seeing. Wake up early and fill the day. So she hates when I want to take off too do these things, because she never wants to come and she also feels like I never want to spend time with her because she never wants to go do activities.
One of my favorite living l'chaim episodes. Great interview. Invaluable tips. This episode is underrated!! Great job on the interview, Yaakov Langer! Keep up your holy work
The problem is that a lot of people define love as physical only. Which is a big mistake. But as Rabbi Epstein says, if people don't connect in the living room, there is no bedroom. Such "love" does not last very long. Take it from someone who is married for decades. A marriage has to be like wine. The more it ages, it has to get better, you learn to overlook things that bother you b4. That is if it is a healthy marriage. Unfortunately some couples stay together for the sake of the children. That is very sad. Marriage is not a honeymoon or a hotel that you check in and out. It is continued work. I feel bad for people who don't get it. Wonderful interview.
I listened to this whole podcast, and the intelligence of Rabbi & Rebitzin Epstein blows me away. I think this is a must listen to podcast for anyone who is thinking of getting married!!! If you are a parent of a child who is getting married, the best thing you can do for them is make them listen to this podcast. (Unfortunately, today, the parents have no control over their children, so good luck to you to get them to listen to it. If I had only had this podcast when I was dating, I think I would be in a much better place today.
Great advice for two emotionally healthy people. I think its important to explain… All this advice falls to the side when you’re dealing with a spouse that is incapable of having these conversations. Big ego, personality disorders, addiction, etc…
This is wonderful information on such important topics and came at a perfect time for our family ❤ We have a young daughter who just in the last couple months was pursuing a relationship (faster than any of us thought it would progress) and the book on dating sound like an answer to our recent prayer ❤
Soooo good! Wish you had undertitles and explanation for all the hebrew words and sayings like your brother does in Kosher money. As a non- Jew sometimes it' s hard to understand.
The episode we didn't expect, but all really really need!! How can I sign up for the kallah class refresher course with rebbetzin epstein? Is there a link?
Very intelligent young man and woman, I wish I could have met them thirty years ago and saved my marriage 😢 I was so forgiving and never threw my exhusbands many affairs up after he apologized, but you can only take so much and what if they bring home a disease and I couldn't understand the sex affairs because we had a wonderful sex life and we were good friends, I'll never understand why he did what he did maybe a sex addiction? I forgave him so many times because we were married and had beautiful family 😢 and I've never been remarried or dated because most men are just in it for the sex and I would feel cheap if I did that, and being single is not so bad, I do whatever I want and I am a caregiver now and I love helping people and he never wanted me to work or volunteer, so I feel blessed but my children are still going through trying to understand and I don't want to stay your Dad was a whore, so they just don't understand the divorce everyone really suffers from a bad relationship, so I say work on your relationship get some good counseling like these guys ✌️❤️🙏
Women aren’t either. It’s just a common thing as women receive a ring (doesn’t have to be a ring but traditionally is) when they get married and the man does not.
Shalom. God bless Israel. Yeshua loves you all. Thank you for sharing and teaching us! Interesting about having 12 days apart from each other. How often do you suggest doing this please?
Not sure how this came up in my feed, I disagree. Children most definitely come FIRST. & need the attention of at least ONE parent....if not both, in a household. Children come first.
It's not an either/or. Children benefit tremendously from having parents who are in sync, and that takes investment. Of course, it's a balance. Notice, for example, that he takes his kids on father-child 'dates.' Giving attention to your marriage doesn't mean neglecting your children.
If u listened closely to what he was saying, he says that first comes the marriage and then the kids come second. You need to listen through to the end.@@Anne-mn3rh
If you work on your marriage and have a great one, you will automatically have more time with your children. The key is to have a great marriage first, then your wife or your husband automatically won't need so much of your time from you, and guess who wins? Your children. You have usual at least a year after your married to worry about children, take that time and build your marriage and you will have a great life. But one thing to remember, marriage is something that always needs work even when it's a great marriage.
The best thing you can do for your children is a stable loving marriage. It gives them security and when spouses love and appreciate each other the children feel loved and accepted. Because each child is half mom and half pa. First God, second spouse, third kid and after a pause the bigger family, friends....
To the comment about Rabbi Epstein seeking a Rav before he decides whether one should get married or not. I would like to inform you that Rabbonim seek guidance from Rabbi Epstein, and they ask him to make this decision!!!! Yes, there are times that Rabbi Epstein would approach the Gedolim to help him out in some instances. He is a very wise person, and he's not embarrassed to ask Rabbonim!!!! I know this for a fact!!!!
Telling people that they should marry or not is a very big responsibility you need a rav to back you or u may get into problems that people can get very upset with you. There have been people who did this a received a lot negative feedback. And had to stop doing mentoring like u. Please seek guidance from a rav!
Just for your information, I know for a fact that the RABBONIM turns to Rabbi Epstein to guide them on whether someone should get married or not. Besides, Rabbi Epstein is a Rav himself!!!
I am a Christian. I wish my husband and I could have had these principles to build our relationship on. Married 49 years and we really don't have a developed relationship.
This is such good information!
GOD BLESS ISREAL!!!!❤
I've also heard it said ' your strengths are also your greatest weaknesses'
So much great marriage advice here. Thankyou!
I'm a Christian, watching from New Zealand 😊
Really incredible to be part of the Living L'Chaim family! Kudos to Yaakov Langer for bringing so much awareness on incredible topics to the world!
I remember rabbi epstein in Brooklyn around 2020 he is such a warm guy
What a wonderful couple. I also live in Toms River, NJ. I think it is so important for people to have some marriage training through a Jewish married couple.
I really liked your idea about vacations in theory. But in reality, my wife and I have very different concepts of vacations. She wants to go to a hotel or beach and sit and do nothing (OK, well not nothing. She wants to sit and talk and connect and wake up late. But in my mind that's nothing and I hate sitting around "chilling"). I want to go snowboarding, or surfing, or hiking/ sight seeing. Wake up early and fill the day. So she hates when I want to take off too do these things, because she never wants to come and she also feels like I never want to spend time with her because she never wants to go do activities.
One of my favorite living l'chaim episodes. Great interview. Invaluable tips. This episode is underrated!! Great job on the interview, Yaakov Langer! Keep up your holy work
Love. Rabbi Reuven and the wife are wonderful. God bless everyone.
The best
LOVE... thank you to our amazing leaders who are inspiring and guiding us in our day and age!!! This was great
The problem is that a lot of
people define love as physical only. Which is a big mistake. But as Rabbi Epstein says, if people don't connect in the living room, there is no bedroom. Such "love" does not last very long. Take it from someone who is married for decades. A marriage has to be like wine. The more it ages, it has to get better, you learn to overlook things that bother you b4. That is if it is a healthy marriage. Unfortunately some couples stay together for the sake of the children. That is very sad. Marriage is not a honeymoon or a hotel that you check in and out. It is continued work. I feel bad for people who don't get it. Wonderful interview.
Thank you so much for making this invaluable conversation available to us all. Truly wisdom words and a call out to everyone married! ❤
It’s also great prep for anyone who is looking to get married. Thanks for watching! ♥️
LOVE !!
This is what we love watching hearing !
And in Chinuch.
I shared this with many young couples ! Your zechut. !!
Tizku lemitzvot.
What a powerhouse of a couple.
As a non jew this was still an interesting listen 🇦🇲👍
Glad you enjoyed. We want everyone to benefit and live a happier life from our content. Thanks for watching brother.
I listened to this whole podcast, and the intelligence of Rabbi & Rebitzin Epstein blows me away.
I think this is a must listen to podcast for anyone who is thinking of getting married!!!
If you are a parent of a child who is getting married, the best thing you can do for them is make them listen to this podcast. (Unfortunately, today, the parents have no control over their children, so good luck to you to get them to listen to it.
If I had only had this podcast when I was dating, I think I would be in a much better place today.
Ya wish I heard this too while I was dating. Good call.
Great advice for two emotionally healthy people. I think its important to explain… All this advice falls to the side when you’re dealing with a spouse that is incapable of having these conversations. Big ego, personality disorders, addiction, etc…
Thanks!
Thank YOU
Really enjoyed this episode, thank you for posting. 🥰
This is wonderful information on such important topics and came at a perfect time for our family ❤
We have a young daughter who just in the last couple months was pursuing a relationship (faster than any of us thought it would progress) and the book on dating sound like an answer to our recent prayer ❤
“Intimacy” = Into Me See - Rebbetzin Esther Jungreis
We have known them for years I remember when they were just starting out on Avenue N. Great people!!
Love. Loved this episode. More like this!!
Love!! I absolutely loved this episode!!
Soooo good!
Wish you had undertitles and explanation for all the hebrew words and sayings like your brother does in Kosher money.
As a non- Jew sometimes it' s hard to understand.
Yaakov here. Ok I hear this. Need to to do this.
Thank you! I found out about Kosher money because of you! .. well, maybe through Jesus via yourself
Amazing content, much to learn, much to implement, much to share. Thank you for this fantastic interview
Amazing awesome bh
Thank you all . Lots of good luck
This was amazing thank you!
LOVE LOVE LOVE awesome episode THANK YOU!
Love. Come visit our mountains in Colorado. Thank you for this amazing interview.
I enjoyed this conversation 🤗
Thanks for sharing the LOVE ❤
L.O.V.E. 💙💙🤍🤍💙💙 this broadcast. Thanks for a great show. 🇮🇱 Am Yisrael 🇮🇱
Am Yisrael…Chai!
So much wisdom, thank-you !
The episode we didn't expect, but all really really need!!
How can I sign up for the kallah class refresher course with rebbetzin epstein? Is there a link?
100% send us an email and we’ll connect you. Hi@LivingLchaim.com
I’m a non Jew and my husband and I got engaged after 4 weeks of dating and married 3 months later 😂😂😂😂😂. We have been married 18 years
Love...great content!
Great talk
Amazing. Thank you 👍
LOVE. Sending lots and lots of it from South Africa.
Love. This was really inspiring.
Wonderful! Solution oriented!
So powerful
Love. Amazing!
Love!
amazing! am Israel chai! ממש קידוש השם. הכל לטובה! אל תגידו אוף תגידו פרק ק'!
Love ! Thank you
Very intelligent young man and woman, I wish I could have met them thirty years ago and saved my marriage 😢 I was so forgiving and never threw my exhusbands many affairs up after he apologized, but you can only take so much and what if they bring home a disease and I couldn't understand the sex affairs because we had a wonderful sex life and we were good friends, I'll never understand why he did what he did maybe a sex addiction? I forgave him so many times because we were married and had beautiful family 😢 and I've never been remarried or dated because most men are just in it for the sex and I would feel cheap if I did that, and being single is not so bad, I do whatever I want and I am a caregiver now and I love helping people and he never wanted me to work or volunteer, so I feel blessed but my children are still going through trying to understand and I don't want to stay your Dad was a whore, so they just don't understand the divorce everyone really suffers from a bad relationship, so I say work on your relationship get some good counseling like these guys ✌️❤️🙏
he compromised your trust and the relationship to fill a void in himself. may God help both of you heal.
Love 🎉 what is the Name of Book. Can we get it in SA?
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what are the "kosher" Florida options?
Following the Torah, "Love thy Neighbor"
Notice how this video doesn't get as much views as how to get rich. Our society is sick!!
love !
How do I get a magnet?
I got one of those!😂❤😊😊
one of what?
Are Jewish men not required to wear a wedding ring or am I missing something?
Nope. Men are Not required to have one
Women aren’t either. It’s just a common thing as women receive a ring (doesn’t have to be a ring but traditionally is) when they get married and the man does not.
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Shalom. God bless Israel. Yeshua loves you all. Thank you for sharing and teaching us! Interesting about having 12 days apart from each other. How often do you suggest doing this please?
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Not sure how this came up in my feed, I disagree. Children most definitely come FIRST. & need the attention of at least ONE parent....if not both, in a household. Children come first.
It's not an either/or. Children benefit tremendously from having parents who are in sync, and that takes investment. Of course, it's a balance. Notice, for example, that he takes his kids on father-child 'dates.' Giving attention to your marriage doesn't mean neglecting your children.
If u listened closely to what he was saying, he says that first comes the marriage and then the kids come second. You need to listen through to the end.@@Anne-mn3rh
If you work on your marriage and have a great one, you will automatically have more time with your children. The key is to have a great marriage first, then your wife or your husband automatically won't need so much of your time from you, and guess who wins? Your children. You have usual at least a year after your married to worry about children, take that time and build your marriage and you will have a great life. But one thing to remember, marriage is something that always needs work even when it's a great marriage.
The best thing you can do for your children is a stable loving marriage. It gives them security and when spouses love and appreciate each other the children feel loved and accepted. Because each child is half mom and half pa.
First God, second spouse, third kid and after a pause the bigger family, friends....
God, spouse, children in that order.
To the comment about Rabbi Epstein seeking a Rav before he decides whether one should get married or not.
I would like to inform you that Rabbonim seek guidance from Rabbi Epstein, and they ask him to make this decision!!!!
Yes, there are times that Rabbi Epstein would approach the Gedolim to help him out in some instances. He is a very wise person, and he's not embarrassed to ask Rabbonim!!!!
I know this for a fact!!!!
Why are you wearing such a long wig?
Yaakov here. I’m not wearing a wig at all.
Telling people that they should marry or not is a very big responsibility you need a rav to back you or u may get into problems that people can get very upset with you. There have been people who did this a received a lot negative feedback. And had to stop doing mentoring like u. Please seek guidance from a rav!
Just for your information, I know for a fact that the RABBONIM turns to Rabbi Epstein to guide them on whether someone should get married or not. Besides, Rabbi Epstein is a Rav himself!!!
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