I swam at the same swim meet as Lochte back in 2014 and he literally would stay hours after the meet just to take pictures. He doesn’t have a good common sense but he’s a good dude at heart
Holy cow the PRESSURE on Ryan as a kid that in order to be great--he heard he had to win a gold medal and break a world record!!! OMG, and on top of all the family divorce turmoil? Those people throwing negativity at him, take a look at what he was dealing with in his childhood. Glad he survived and no wonder he's so emotional about it all!!!! What he had to do to be acceptable to his parents...my gosh. He had to win gold and break a world record for his Dad to say today you're great. Are you kidding me? Guess he never heard about loving your child no matter what they accomplish!
Wow. This response is so sad, and perfectly encapsulates why so many fail to achieve what they are capable of doing. Many who have excelled in their fields have talked of setting goals while young, and working hard to achieve them. The first I heard was Dick Scobee, who was unfortunately was killed in the Challenger accident. He spoke of striving to be an astronaut since he was a young boy, and setting smaller goals for each step of the way to help him reach this. His words motivated me in my own life. Ryan was clearly well loved and well raised. Loving a child means giving them an accurate sense of both themselves and the world in which they will have to function as adults. It's very important for boys to be focused and directed to use their energy to achieve goals, but this certainly help girls too. The key, though, is that results come from hard work - a lot of hard work! Ryan was very fortunate to have parents who raised him to become a responsible adult and work hard toward goals. Far too many parents today are failing in raising their children and we see the results on video every day as we watch teens commit crime after crime. Having parental expectations is absolutely necessary for the success of most children. These can be as basic as attending school, actually learning the material and graduating. Studies clearly show that anyone in the US will live a comfortable middle class lifestyle if they do three things: graduate high school, get a job and stay employed, and wait until after marriage to have children. Most kids need direction from parents to achieve these - and to set and achieve other goals for their future. As Jackie Kennedy said: "If you bungle raising your children, I don’t think whatever else you do well matters very much." Showering your children with meaningless praise and 'participation trophies' actually harms a child by giving him an unrealistic picture of himself and his capabilities. Many of these children lose their motivation to work hard and achieve goals for themselves because they already believe that they are as good as or better than others in critical ways. When setting goals and expectations as a parent, one must be realistic and truthful - as Ryan's father was when he defined a "great" swimmer for his son. It's a parent's job to teach their children to work hard and to prepare them to succeed in the world. If they are already "great," they have nothing to work toward because they are already at the pinnacle. Words matter!
All any kid ever wants is for her/his parent(s) to believe in them. How many parents miss the boat in this regard? Too many to count but society gets to experience what happens to many who never get validated or any type of kindness from the people they look up to the most--their parent(s).
Ryan, you are a great athlete. God gave you these abilities and made your dream come true. I watched you at the Olympics and cheered my fellow American on. Great going and I wish you and your family peace and happiness. Thanks Ryan for representing our country. God Bless You.
This broke my heart. I wrestled since the age of 12 because my father was a wrestler. I thought if I showed him I could become great that he would take time out of his work schedule to see me compete. I was crap when i started, but by 17 I was the first seed in regions, swept regions, and lost in districts. You know what my dad told me? Nothing, because he was on a business trip. The next year I won the state title for 215 lbs (before they made it 220). My coach was more proud of me than my father. I literally picked up the sport for him, trained for 6 years, won state, and he texted me good job. I dont think people understand, sons just want their fathers to be proud of them and tell them that without being prompted. A nice "I love you" helps as well, but we don't say that in an Irish Catholic family. Ryan, I am happily jealous your dad got to see you compete at your prime, because I still think on the shit my dad missed.
Brendan , Your personal story, breaks my heart. I want to share Ryan’s Interview and send your comment, for my Brother, to our father. ☮️💟 PeaCe&ReSPeCt, Shelley
My hope is you can release these feelings of your Dad missing out on your best performances as a wrestler. No doubt...I am sure it was disappointing not to have his support...especially following in his footsteps. But you were still able to forge your own path. Others were there to appreciate your performance (i.e. your coach). Just know that for whatever reason your dad didn't have it to give to you in that moment (the support). I hope you can forgive him for that (if you haven't already 😊). Be well and be at peace.
Wow. This response is so sad, and perfectly encapsulates why so many fail to achieve what they are capable of doing. Many who have excelled in their fields have talked of setting goals while young, and working hard to achieve them. The first I heard was Dick Scobee, who was unfortunately was killed in the Challenger accident. He spoke of striving to be an astronaut since he was a young boy, and setting smaller goals for each step of the way to help him reach this. His words motivated me in my own life. It's very important for boys to be focused and directed to use their energy to achieve goals, but this certainly help girls too. The key, though, is that results come from hard work - a lot of hard work! Ryan was very fortunate to have parents who raised him to become a responsible adult and work toward goals. Far too many parents today are failing in raising their children and we see the results on video every day as we watch teens commit crime after crime. Having parental expectations is absolutely necessary for the success of most children. These can be as basic as attending school, actually learning the material and graduating. Studies clearly show that anyone in US will live a comfortable middle class lifestyle if they do three things: graduate high school, get a job and stay employed, and wait until after marriage to have children. Most kids need direction from parents to achieve these - and to set and achieve other goals for their future. No one blessed with good parents is a "poor baby." As Jackie Kennedy said: "If you bungle raising your children, I don’t think whatever else you do well matters very much."
What Lochte accomplished as an Olympian is inspirational. He made a mistake, but death threats? Life is about learning. He certainly learned.He has confronted his poor judgement despite the lack of support of many. He is a champion.
After this interview I kind of feel so bad for him. In order to be GREAT in your father's eyes you need to win gold and beat a WR? (That kind of breaks my heart). What happeneds when his records all get surpassed, will he be nothing in his father's eyes?
You’re so right, as a parent of a 28 yr old son, it never occurred to me when he was younger to tell him you’re going to be a failure unless you achieve/win (insert goal of the parent). That’s effed up.
@@magnoliab928 I have all daughter's ranging in ages but this still would never occur to me as a parent. I understand trying to motivate your children but that IS NOT THE WAY TO GO ABOUT IT. I find it completey heart breaking.
These interviews are painful. Ryan seems so lost and removed from reality. I think he’s really struggling emotionally. Not taking way from his achievement. Unreal swimmer, just feel sorry for him...
G3oc3nt1c He made up a story about getting pulled over and robbed by the police. Then he tested positive for an “ prohibited intravenous infusion”. He’s a liar, a juicer, and an all around shitbag
Why are you interviewing this person? Don't you remember that he committed crimes in Brazil and made the U.S. look terrible? I believe in people making mistakes and in giving second chances but in this situation: 1. He was not charged with any crimes and wasn't even reprimanded for his actions. 2. The way he initially lied about being the victim is just straight evil and malicious. 3. It's nearly impossible to believe that he actually learned something from this situation after the obvious leniency he was given due to his status as an Olympic athlete. Basically, my point is Ryan Lochte is trash and who cares if he used to be a good swimmer. Michael Phelps the GOAT lol.
I swam at the same swim meet as Lochte back in 2014 and he literally would stay hours after the meet just to take pictures. He doesn’t have a good common sense but he’s a good dude at heart
and you stayed hours after the meet to watch him. how sad
@@Don-hn8qw 🤣😂🤣😂
@@Don-hn8qw what’s so sad about having heroes?
This is a great series of interviews with Lochte and the people in his life.
What an unbelievable interview. I had one perception of Ryan Lochte before this interview and a totally different one now. Good guy and humble.
same here.
O Ryan, I love you !! GOD BLESS YOU..!!! ❤
Holy cow the PRESSURE on Ryan as a kid that in order to be great--he heard he had to win a gold medal and break a world record!!! OMG, and on top of all the family divorce turmoil? Those people throwing negativity at him, take a look at what he was dealing with in his childhood. Glad he survived and no wonder he's so emotional about it all!!!! What he had to do to be acceptable to his parents...my gosh. He had to win gold and break a world record for his Dad to say today you're great. Are you kidding me? Guess he never heard about loving your child no matter what they accomplish!
Wow. This response is so sad, and perfectly encapsulates why so many fail to achieve what they are capable of doing. Many who have excelled in their fields have talked of setting goals while young, and working hard to achieve them. The first I heard was Dick Scobee, who was unfortunately was killed in the Challenger accident. He spoke of striving to be an astronaut since he was a young boy, and setting smaller goals for each step of the way to help him reach this. His words motivated me in my own life.
Ryan was clearly well loved and well raised. Loving a child means giving them an accurate sense of both themselves and the world in which they will have to function as adults. It's very important for boys to be focused and directed to use their energy to achieve goals, but this certainly help girls too. The key, though, is that results come from hard work - a lot of hard work! Ryan was very fortunate to have parents who raised him to become a responsible adult and work hard toward goals. Far too many parents today are failing in raising their children and we see the results on video every day as we watch teens commit crime after crime.
Having parental expectations is absolutely necessary for the success of most children. These can be as basic as attending school, actually learning the material and graduating. Studies clearly show that anyone in the US will live a comfortable middle class lifestyle if they do three things: graduate high school, get a job and stay employed, and wait until after marriage to have children. Most kids need direction from parents to achieve these - and to set and achieve other goals for their future.
As Jackie Kennedy said: "If you bungle raising your children, I don’t think whatever else you do well matters very much." Showering your children with meaningless praise and 'participation trophies' actually harms a child by giving him an unrealistic picture of himself and his capabilities. Many of these children lose their motivation to work hard and achieve goals for themselves because they already believe that they are as good as or better than others in critical ways. When setting goals and expectations as a parent, one must be realistic and truthful - as Ryan's father was when he defined a "great" swimmer for his son. It's a parent's job to teach their children to work hard and to prepare them to succeed in the world. If they are already "great," they have nothing to work toward because they are already at the pinnacle. Words matter!
All any kid ever wants is for her/his parent(s) to believe in them. How many parents miss the boat in this regard? Too many to count but society gets to experience what happens to many who never get validated or any type of kindness from the people they look up to the most--their parent(s).
I'm in tears over here. 😭
Ryan, you are a great athlete. God gave you these abilities and made your dream come true. I watched you at the Olympics and cheered my fellow American on. Great going and I wish you and your family peace and happiness. Thanks Ryan for representing our country. God Bless You.
Absolutely! I totally agree~!! GOD BLESS YOU~!!!👍
nice discussion
This broke my heart.
I wrestled since the age of 12 because my father was a wrestler. I thought if I showed him I could become great that he would take time out of his work schedule to see me compete. I was crap when i started, but by 17 I was the first seed in regions, swept regions, and lost in districts. You know what my dad told me? Nothing, because he was on a business trip.
The next year I won the state title for 215 lbs (before they made it 220). My coach was more proud of me than my father. I literally picked up the sport for him, trained for 6 years, won state, and he texted me good job.
I dont think people understand, sons just want their fathers to be proud of them and tell them that without being prompted. A nice "I love you" helps as well, but we don't say that in an Irish Catholic family.
Ryan, I am happily jealous your dad got to see you compete at your prime, because I still think on the shit my dad missed.
Brendan , Your personal story, breaks my heart. I want to share Ryan’s Interview and send your comment, for my Brother, to our father.
☮️💟 PeaCe&ReSPeCt, Shelley
@@ms.mojo_risin
Please feel free . Thanks for your nice comment.
Brendan Thank You 💟☮️
My hope is you can release these feelings of your Dad missing out on your best performances as a wrestler. No doubt...I am sure it was disappointing not to have his support...especially following in his footsteps.
But you were still able to forge your own path. Others were there to appreciate your performance (i.e. your coach). Just know that for whatever reason your dad didn't have it to give to you in that moment (the support). I hope you can forgive him for that (if you haven't already 😊).
Be well and be at peace.
I just keep thinking “poor baby...poor poor baby” all those expectations
Wow. This response is so sad, and perfectly encapsulates why so many fail to achieve what they are capable of doing. Many who have excelled in their fields have talked of setting goals while young, and working hard to achieve them. The first I heard was Dick Scobee, who was unfortunately was killed in the Challenger accident. He spoke of striving to be an astronaut since he was a young boy, and setting smaller goals for each step of the way to help him reach this. His words motivated me in my own life.
It's very important for boys to be focused and directed to use their energy to achieve goals, but this certainly help girls too. The key, though, is that results come from hard work - a lot of hard work! Ryan was very fortunate to have parents who raised him to become a responsible adult and work toward goals. Far too many parents today are failing in raising their children and we see the results on video every day as we watch teens commit crime after crime.
Having parental expectations is absolutely necessary for the success of most children. These can be as basic as attending school, actually learning the material and graduating. Studies clearly show that anyone in US will live a comfortable middle class lifestyle if they do three things: graduate high school, get a job and stay employed, and wait until after marriage to have children. Most kids need direction from parents to achieve these - and to set and achieve other goals for their future.
No one blessed with good parents is a "poor baby." As Jackie Kennedy said: "If you bungle raising your children, I don’t think whatever else you do well matters very much."
I wish Graham Bensinger's interviews was on Netflix.
What Lochte accomplished as an Olympian is inspirational. He made a mistake, but death threats? Life is about learning. He certainly learned.He has confronted his poor judgement
despite the lack of support of many. He is a champion.
After this interview I kind of feel so bad for him. In order to be GREAT in your father's eyes you need to win gold and beat a WR? (That kind of breaks my heart). What happeneds when his records all get surpassed, will he be nothing in his father's eyes?
You’re so right, as a parent of a 28 yr old son, it never occurred to me when he was younger to tell him you’re going to be a failure unless you achieve/win (insert goal of the parent). That’s effed up.
@@magnoliab928 I have all daughter's ranging in ages but this still would never occur to me as a parent. I understand trying to motivate your children but that IS NOT THE WAY TO GO ABOUT IT. I find it completey heart breaking.
These interviews are painful. Ryan seems so lost and removed from reality. I think he’s really struggling emotionally. Not taking way from his achievement. Unreal swimmer, just feel sorry for him...
He seems emotionally available and real. Far more connected and whole than the "bro" dude before that made a poor decision in Rio.
He seems to have some deep ‘trauma’ issues....
He's the Lou Ferrigno of swimming.
ohhh what this guy did here in brazil was a shame. really like your interviews Graham
What happened in Brazil?
G3oc3nt1c He made up a story about getting pulled over and robbed by the police. Then he tested positive for an “ prohibited intravenous infusion”. He’s a liar, a juicer, and an all around shitbag
He didn’t take any performance enhancing drugs. Chill.
Jeff S Prove that
Lol ok champ
dudes head is scrambled- he lied about being robbed-get over it man! youre a stud!
Loved the Virat Kohli interviews
The Lochte Files
aaron carter level daddy issues, tragic.
Is it me or did Pablo have a huge head??
Sounds like he’s on something
I dunno I still get such bad vibes from him . I watched this series hoping to feel differently about him. He still seems like a jerk.
He just seems like a kid
Random
A great liar
What no
Wop God You have no discernment whatsoever.
Why are you interviewing this person? Don't you remember that he committed crimes in Brazil and made the U.S. look terrible? I believe in people making mistakes and in giving second chances but in this situation:
1. He was not charged with any crimes and wasn't even reprimanded for his actions.
2. The way he initially lied about being the victim is just straight evil and malicious.
3. It's nearly impossible to believe that he actually learned something from this situation after the obvious leniency he was given due to his status as an Olympic athlete.
Basically, my point is Ryan Lochte is trash and who cares if he used to be a good swimmer. Michael Phelps the GOAT lol.
You’re a peasant
For the people reading the OP's comment: it is inaccurate. And he is toxic.
Very judge mental
Who hurt you?
@@MX-jo5dq I'm an Olympic Gold Medalist. You're a peasant baby~