90 Day Fiancé: Debbie Meets Oussama’s Parents

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  • ET's Melicia Johnson breaks down the must-see moments from season 4, episode 11 of ‘90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way,’ including Debbie meeting Oussama’s parents for the first time… and they have thoughts on the 40-year age difference. ‘90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way’ airs Sundays at 8 p.m. ET/PT on TLC.
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  • @Apple-hl7sl
    @Apple-hl7sl ปีที่แล้ว +274

    We gotta love this Debbie, she’s so sweet and kind hearted. I hope she stays the way she is

    • @noticiasfaisca2685
      @noticiasfaisca2685 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

    • @ciandahebe5692
      @ciandahebe5692 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂😂 I love her to bits

    • @msKita43
      @msKita43 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She's in her 60s, I think she's set in sweet

    • @noticiasfaisca2685
      @noticiasfaisca2685 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@msKita43 cos she is ridiculous and nympho old egyptian?
      remember when you called me " old woman" being even younger than you?
      and that i should not be cheeky,just cos i post my photos online? huh?
      but an old rug like this,as long as she goes after cheap ugly arab man,she is OK ,GOOD TO GO?

    • @ciandahebe5692
      @ciandahebe5692 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@msKita43 🤣🤣🤣

  • @UserName-iq7uu
    @UserName-iq7uu ปีที่แล้ว +386

    It’s so obvious he’s using her. If u don’t see it, you are delusional.

    • @marknewton6984
      @marknewton6984 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I agree. But I think Debbie is the deluded one.
      .

    • @nancyayala2217
      @nancyayala2217 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I agree with you

    • @Nic-bi2sz
      @Nic-bi2sz ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I disagree

    • @marygonzalez-xe7nx
      @marygonzalez-xe7nx ปีที่แล้ว

      If someone can't see this is all fake, they are blind.

    • @KushQueen9
      @KushQueen9 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Right with his fake poetry something about hold my bones😂

  • @KushQueen9
    @KushQueen9 ปีที่แล้ว +263

    Oussama's mum literally said nothing at all but her eye movements made me laugh 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @letspartyallthetime
      @letspartyallthetime ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Her whole face had me! 😂

    • @Hopefulgeek
      @Hopefulgeek ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Did she had like a tear on her right eye?? Maybe it's sweat or I'm crazy 🤣

    • @annasmith727
      @annasmith727 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeap, side eye 👀

    • @bethanhamer.8669
      @bethanhamer.8669 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      She is like wtf 😂😂

    • @crush9265
      @crush9265 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ahahahahha

  • @kerryadams9100
    @kerryadams9100 ปีที่แล้ว +390

    Debbie is his golden ticket to the states. Debbie should run to the airport and get away from him as quickly as she can.

    • @Mojosfire
      @Mojosfire ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Her son tried to warn her, and of course he was correct as the majority of us already knew just like him.

    • @anthonyporter1556
      @anthonyporter1556 ปีที่แล้ว

      Her dumb flighty ass should have nvr went there in the 1st place. Don't feel sorry for her at all.

    • @lounic0216
      @lounic0216 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      And her age to putting his name to her will.

    • @RK-su4hs
      @RK-su4hs ปีที่แล้ว +3

      “Love knows no reason”
      let’s hope for Debbie that some good comes out of this situation for Debbie

    • @njabumabu5224
      @njabumabu5224 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      He wants a green card, she wants a hot, young man. Fair trade

  • @triniasmr4503
    @triniasmr4503 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    I never liked him ...I think he's using Mrs. Debbie to get to the US...Mrs Debbie you are such a sweetheart and you deserve better than that weirdo...

    • @kas3966
      @kas3966 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly, he is such a weirdo 🤢

    • @marknewton6984
      @marknewton6984 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey Debbie-- drop that weirdo!

    • @Ana-ot8lm
      @Ana-ot8lm ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Loll😂

    • @yosrrr
      @yosrrr ปีที่แล้ว +3

      he seems like he can throw hands anytime he gets mad i dont know but he gets me very uncomfy

    • @snsn7251
      @snsn7251 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She better no marry him

  • @roguelove807
    @roguelove807 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    I think what Debbie means by "normal" is that they're all just sitting around and smiling at her. I think she expected them to dislike her when she first meets them, so their reaction was a surprise to her because it was normal and not weird or super awkward. I don't think it had anything to do with their looks.

    • @skontheroad
      @skontheroad ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I think Debbie was expecting super religious. She has been to Morocco before so she could have been anticipating stern, observant, modest people which may be intimidating for her.

    • @TJ-wz3tt
      @TJ-wz3tt ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Agreed

    • @kasiagirl4708
      @kasiagirl4708 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agree as well!

    • @cuisinemarocaineofficial8835
      @cuisinemarocaineofficial8835 ปีที่แล้ว

      نحن المغاربة متواضعون

  • @nicholasgarrick8855
    @nicholasgarrick8855 ปีที่แล้ว +193

    I think Debbie is super sweet i hope she find someone closer to her own age.

    • @katella
      @katella ปีที่แล้ว +10

      It is very difficult to find an older man who is open and lively and not just looking for a cook/ housekeeper or nurse.

    • @cristinagusatu6323
      @cristinagusatu6323 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I don't understand how some old ladies looking at yong Men is ok if it is over 50 or close . Age 24 is too yonger

    • @ciandahebe5692
      @ciandahebe5692 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      When she sad "what🤯"

    • @JasmineDev
      @JasmineDev ปีที่แล้ว +5

      The problem is, men don’t want someone their own age. And the older you get, the harder it is.

    • @JasmineDev
      @JasmineDev ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@katella I absolutely agre. Younger people have no idea how much things change as a woman ages.

  • @nicholasgarrick8855
    @nicholasgarrick8855 ปีที่แล้ว +248

    It was Oussama's mom face expressions for me 😂😂😂.

    • @angelheart5963
      @angelheart5963 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      He's the image of his mum

    • @apple2479
      @apple2479 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yesss!! 😂😂😂😂

    • @nursetinalouise
      @nursetinalouise ปีที่แล้ว

      Making arrogant ugly faces like Mahmoud

    • @marknewton6984
      @marknewton6984 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mama knows!

  • @leostarings2535
    @leostarings2535 ปีที่แล้ว +248

    The host is exactly right! The support from the parents is a type of investment in their son, to eventually go to the USA and bring back some of them green bills.

    • @zanelemofikoe2374
      @zanelemofikoe2374 ปีที่แล้ว

      Host? Melicia?

    • @leostarings2535
      @leostarings2535 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@zanelemofikoe2374 The beautiful black lady who is hosting the show.

    • @zanelemofikoe2374
      @zanelemofikoe2374 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@leostarings2535 Melicia

    • @9teen9t4
      @9teen9t4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I wish Melicia hosted the actual show, she's 1,000% better than Shaun.

    • @jb1593
      @jb1593 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's all fake ! Just Young Actors from overseas !

  • @Hopefulgeek
    @Hopefulgeek ปีที่แล้ว +387

    I'm rooting for Debbie to walk away from this mess.

    • @lindatita6610
      @lindatita6610 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Me too
      That man is weird.

    • @LadyPLM
      @LadyPLM ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Me too! Come on back home Ms Debbie… you GA peach! Southern belle!! Come on back 🏡 home!!!🌸🌺

    • @TJ-wz3tt
      @TJ-wz3tt ปีที่แล้ว +14

      He's in it for that green card! Now we know

    • @teresanoverr-chin828
      @teresanoverr-chin828 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Please please just get out now!!!!!

    • @aussiegardener1773
      @aussiegardener1773 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@TJ-wz3tt Exactly. "we go USA" and we live there

  • @ArtingFromScratch
    @ArtingFromScratch ปีที่แล้ว +148

    His family wants to get rid of their burden. No job no skills... he isn't a good catch so let him be someone else's burden

    • @angelheart5963
      @angelheart5963 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Bingo

    • @leslienava3076
      @leslienava3076 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Dude 😂

    • @shelbyjames1894
      @shelbyjames1894 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      For real! In that culture especially, they have expectations of men he is not living up to.

    • @angelheart5963
      @angelheart5963 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@shelbyjames1894 totally he has nothing to offer at all just wonky eyes 👀 missing teeth and madness inside oh and cats

    • @60wwediva
      @60wwediva ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Damn that's fucking cold man lmfao. I get what you're saying but fuck for all that just disown him and say he isn't their son anymore or he can just pass on. Like, let's be brutally honest, the daughter is probably on the same level as Ousssama but possibly more on the normal side (not into the chickens and art etc) but because she's a woman and the only daughter they have, they probably give her a pass culturally to be a bum until she "marries" or "hopefully marries well". I'm positive his sister isn't better off than him.

  • @ilkacolon7469
    @ilkacolon7469 ปีที่แล้ว +191

    The mom's face 😂

    • @69Fabulosity
      @69Fabulosity ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Shes looking at Debbie like she's an insect👀😳😂😂😂💯❗️

    • @marknewton6984
      @marknewton6984 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Says it all!

    • @jannalam6861
      @jannalam6861 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@69Fabulosity she's looking at her like she smells bad 😂

    • @kiaq1153
      @kiaq1153 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@69Fabulosity BAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHA

    • @baryn1997
      @baryn1997 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂😂😂

  • @ramilive301
    @ramilive301 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I am Moroccan and I apologize for this behavior on behalf of my entire country. I believe that people who have visited this wonderful country know that this person is just a victim of mismanagement by the government. He is a 24-year-old unemployed artist, the son of a modest family, with a silent mother whose unhappy gaze reveals her feelings. She sees her son marrying an older woman and must accept it in order to see him in a better environment and so he can take care of the rest of the family afterwards. It's a feeling of despair and pain... Please do not have a negative view of the people or culture, just the look on his mother's face and her mood explains everything.

    • @jb1593
      @jb1593 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am Moroccan and I think It's a fake story, just for the show !! Oussama is ravaged by this, thinking this will be not seen in Morocco !!

  • @FamiliaOrtiz94
    @FamiliaOrtiz94 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Please Debbie protect yourself from this guy..his goal is to get to United States….you’re an amazing human and we wouldn’t like to see your heart broken by him.

    • @willemlenteren1485
      @willemlenteren1485 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We think that oposite

    • @Marka7419.
      @Marka7419. ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@willemlenteren1485 42 years difference is too much 😂😂

  • @Desysworldoffun
    @Desysworldoffun ปีที่แล้ว +47

    That's exactly what I thought to. They obviously want him to get to the states so he can take the rest of his family

  • @crazyonebyfar
    @crazyonebyfar ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Surprise surprise.......Debbie's son was right

  • @Beastboy1994
    @Beastboy1994 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    Mother Oussama’s face the whole scene hahahahahaha

    • @marknewton6984
      @marknewton6984 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      The mother looked scared and disgusted.

    • @noorgonzalez1076
      @noorgonzalez1076 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This is what we have come tooooooo😮😢

    • @katella
      @katella ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's not easy being a mother. When I hear mothers of babies complaining about their children, I have to think, Whoa! That's nothing compared to what comes later.

    • @km4336
      @km4336 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @sarachloe328
      @sarachloe328 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@noorgonzalez1076 wich relation?

  • @roguelove807
    @roguelove807 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Does anyone else give Melicia's videos a thumbs up before watching the video? I do every time and I've never been wrong. Melicia is awesome ^_^

  • @MrBeard-ig5zc
    @MrBeard-ig5zc ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Summits mom is much more fun to watch. When she starts wailing and making threats.

    • @sChick-vy3vi
      @sChick-vy3vi ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Sumits mother is more concerned about what people will think about her vs her own son's happiness.

    • @60wwediva
      @60wwediva ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@sChick-vy3vi Stop. Please stop. Learn to understand traditional Indian culture before you talk. In India especially the families who are still very heavy religious, traditional and old school, within that culture your livelihood revolves around COMMUNITY AND WHAT EVERYONE THINKS OF YOU. It's a less shallow Version of South Korea. Who the son married, what he chooses to do with his life occupation wise and personal life makes or breaks the family in the community and amongst the extended family & town cause your childern actions & life choices are a direct reflection of you as a person cause they are all unit. America doesn't have family values and America pushed individualism meaning you're family ie separate of you and regarding the family name and protecting it means nothing. America doesn't have a singular core culture so many don't understand why Summit mother is upset. Summit knows damn well why. In Asia since India is technically a part of Asia, ones perception in the city, town, by neighbors and family affects everything more so than gossip. She may be shunned to being an outsider or isolation from the community and not accepted anymore possibly even harassed or worse cause she has a son doing such a thing. It's a different world man. She's harsh but I understand why. Also shes old. When she was summit's age the culture and values as well as society was probably vastly different back then.

    • @katella
      @katella ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@60wwediva I think we all know this. That doesn't negate what 1970's Chick said.

    • @60wwediva
      @60wwediva ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sChick-vy3vi Also she cares about herself more than Summit wanting to bed this old woman cause with india being a very tight knit culture built upon family they are all dependant upon each other until they get married or one moves away for better work opportunities or to do something niche like Bollywood or something in the arts etc. Summit lived depending on his mother and his mother probably did everything for him like he a teenager when he is a grown man so that puts a rift into it all. Also shes old. Not elderly but she's getting up there. She's in that stage where old people become self centered only seeing their life as primarly important cause they are finished raising the kids. This was such a blow especially since Jennie knew her as a friend and didn't talk to her about it first, she was sleeping with Summit behind her back and smiling in her face like it was all okay. That's like a 69 year old friend of yours or boss knowing you forever and knowing your daughter by default then starts dating her secretly for a long time and starts banging her then you find out without him even considering to at least that share that then he proposes things that break up some tight values and foundations you have. Think about it like that. The mom isn't the nicest person and she needs to calm down but Her feelings are valid

    • @60wwediva
      @60wwediva ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sChick-vy3vi I believe people who aren't Indian or from India shouldn't speak on the mother cause that's an entirely different world & they aren't a regular American family.

  • @DarlingNikki2
    @DarlingNikki2 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Melicia has me screaming with her reactions to Oussama and Debbie's flaming hot mess, I mean, relationship. 🙄🤣

    • @lucybarke2529
      @lucybarke2529 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂 Melicia is the best - you're the best 😍👍

  • @saraneuss4089
    @saraneuss4089 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    he is with her in order to move to the US

    • @mandlas.4305
      @mandlas.4305 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      That's exactly what happened with Mohammed from the previous season

    • @dianattz4253
      @dianattz4253 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Said by every american 🙄

    • @shelbyjames1894
      @shelbyjames1894 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Dianattz yeah but this is very obvious it's true this time.

    • @oliverarrow8431
      @oliverarrow8431 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mandlas.4305 where Mohamed is from?

    • @delrey874
      @delrey874 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yanks shut up, no one wants to go to America, don't worry.

  • @Mojosfire
    @Mojosfire ปีที่แล้ว +79

    I've had the feeling from the very beginning that, that's what his parents were really about, because of the way Oussama was pushing for her to meet his parents so soon. What parents would so easily agree to their child marrying someone with a 43 year age difference without there being some scheme to it?! Practically none would agree to it.

    • @jannalam6861
      @jannalam6861 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      The same parents who know that this relationship is scripted and theyre getting paid to go along with it 😂

    • @donnasimino329
      @donnasimino329 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Also, there will be no grandchildren.

    • @Mojosfire
      @Mojosfire ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jannalam6861 lol true.

    • @annasmith727
      @annasmith727 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes

    • @JulieDeuxFois
      @JulieDeuxFois ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Uhmm many muslims wouldnt oppose their son marrying an older lady. Prophet Muhammad himself had a much older wife named Khadija, and the general consensus for muslims is to 'be or do like the prophet'😊

  • @curiouskitty3251
    @curiouskitty3251 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    The mom looks like she wants to shrivel up and disappear 😂

    • @noorgonzalez1076
      @noorgonzalez1076 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🙇🏻‍♀️😩😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @katella
      @katella ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I feel sorry for a person who is so powerless.

  • @kiatequila424
    @kiatequila424 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Debbie is such a beautiful person, I know in my heart a good man is going to find her. She’s older but he’s lucky someone like her is even speaking to him.

    • @randomwiwer1953
      @randomwiwer1953 ปีที่แล้ว

      wait wtf hhhhh don't be silly she should be the one lucky

  • @isaacyo
    @isaacyo ปีที่แล้ว +13

    As a moroccan living in the states, Ossama is definitely using Debbie to cross to the states. Very obvious

    • @tropicalelive9724
      @tropicalelive9724 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree with u when he reach he’s goal he will leave her .

    • @loulou-te6cb
      @loulou-te6cb ปีที่แล้ว

      What about Debbie madness, oussama’s motive is immigration debbie marrying a 24 yo is mental illness

    • @ikraa950
      @ikraa950 ปีที่แล้ว

      مغربية وتفضحي ولاد لبلاد وباز لوجهك

    • @MidnightxCrow
      @MidnightxCrow ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@ikraa950 mssamya rassak hakak ou mataybanch lik hadchi li taydir fih 7chouma et 7ram Yad7ak 3la siyda?

  • @OriginalFatma
    @OriginalFatma ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Just here to say that this is a well known and agreed upon phenomenon in North Africa! It is called the "old lady foreigner", everyone understands that the man is using the "old lady foreigner" for a visa and agrees to it, well, not everyone agrees but it's a well accepted social phenomenon (only for men of course), the idea is that it's okay to use her and give her some "good years in her ending life" so he can establish a better life in Europe or America. When he took her to that coffee shop and read the poem, she was swooning that he "claimed her" in front of everybody and wasn't ashamed of her. Everybody there understood very well what was happening, and this scam is so well accepted that men are even proud to flaunt it around. Him bringing her to that coffee shop is like him flaunting an American passport at everyone. So, he is proud of what he's doing, not ashamed.

  • @Cherish1056
    @Cherish1056 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Nah a 40 year age gap is not acceptable. Osama is still a kid 24 years old. If Debbie was a man there would be nothing cute about this.

    • @60wwediva
      @60wwediva ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Right. They are in 2 different phases of their life. His is beginning and hers is slowing down. Shes delusional and possibly seeking sex if she thinks this is okay. Very unacceptable. Grooming almost.

  • @elsaescutia8921
    @elsaescutia8921 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    "Our plan is u will take me to the US, we start our life there, if u cant accept this we can stop all this" Debbie us such a sweet heart💔💔💔

    • @lucybarke2529
      @lucybarke2529 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      "Our" plan which Debbie will fund - he's hilarious, not messing around 😀

    • @elsaescutia8921
      @elsaescutia8921 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@lucybarke2529 she gotta wake up ASAAAAPPPPP

    • @coyotedust
      @coyotedust ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How did you like that smirk he made at her when he finished his sentence? That right there scared me. He's not safe to be around. Accidents can happen.

  • @marsargoxmiso1695
    @marsargoxmiso1695 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    He’s using her and I’m sure his family is looking at this as an opportunity for him to get a better life and opportunity

    • @wiseup8729
      @wiseup8729 ปีที่แล้ว

      And he could inheritance her house.

    • @Sofiamarawani
      @Sofiamarawani ปีที่แล้ว

      Of course

    • @vivekjk6729
      @vivekjk6729 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      yep, he is using a wrinkly old woman to achieve his dreams. it all evens out

  • @maryamyousaf4727
    @maryamyousaf4727 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Melicia should be the host for 90 day fiancé

    • @k.b2457
      @k.b2457 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I was thinking! I wish she could do Love is Blind as well

    • @maryamyousaf4727
      @maryamyousaf4727 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@k.b2457 yes that would be great lol

  • @nicholasgarrick8855
    @nicholasgarrick8855 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Great recaps as always melicia
    thank for being the voice of reason we love you bestie😂❤.

  • @nicholasgarrick8855
    @nicholasgarrick8855 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I'm thinking that whatever oussama told his parents it was probably a lie.

  • @KellySilva-pw8qj
    @KellySilva-pw8qj ปีที่แล้ว +17

    “Ok, let me calm down” 😂😂
    You are just adorable! Love watching you 😂

  • @nancyelmon4544
    @nancyelmon4544 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Debbie is so cute. I adore her.

  • @deborahmayo966
    @deborahmayo966 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    I just love Debbie she is so sweet that you have to always take here side

    • @marknewton6984
      @marknewton6984 ปีที่แล้ว

      Except for giving that bum and his family money$$.

  • @samahnour5423
    @samahnour5423 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I wanna meet Debbie so bad and give her a huge hug! she’s soooo sweet ❤❤

  • @sdd123
    @sdd123 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    He is totally using the sh$t out if her.

  • @carmenmiranda8963
    @carmenmiranda8963 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    He does not love you Debbie. Run away from that. Hurry. He is playing you like a violin. You are toooo much of a LADY for him, he does not deserve you. Your son was right from the get go.

  • @nicoleo3523
    @nicoleo3523 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Debbie could find happiness with a guy closer to her age in the US. No need to travel so far. I do think she’s an absolute gem.

    • @60wwediva
      @60wwediva ปีที่แล้ว

      She doesn't want one her age and she doesn't know how to find one cause she lacks social skills and probably too scared to do online dating or apps or ask her son for help. Plus men like Ousamma accept a woman her age easily. Notice she didn't have to go through awkward ass dates or a whole back & forth Q&A session of getting to know him. It's like how once your options are limited when you get a little older as a woman its best to find an older man or old man cause they make the process smoother plus rejection or asking them our doesn't sting like someone your age.

    • @vivekjk6729
      @vivekjk6729 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@60wwediva she is like 80, why do you need a man to begin with? just live with your cats

  • @JJ-uo5bv
    @JJ-uo5bv ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I really look forward to this commentary. It's very insightful. I wish it was a little bit longer.

  • @margaidaimil8861
    @margaidaimil8861 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Debbie is the cutest soul in 90 days ever

  • @katyahladka4651
    @katyahladka4651 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Lolll took me a little bit to figure out why they were so "nice". Cut to the clip where he tells her that the plan is to have him move to the USA and it all clicks.

  • @loism1965
    @loism1965 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Ossama had a LONG talk with his parents BEFORE Debbie got there so.... they are all in on the plan which is for his son to get to the USA... it so obvious. Poor Debbie she wants a companion. Ossama on the other hand has plans of his own IF and WHEN he gets to the USA.... I hope Debbie realizes this isnt TRUE love. This is what's in my best interest.. and for Ossama it's get to the USA!

  • @lissiiii
    @lissiiii ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Oh boy he really wants to move to America so bad what she was expecting

  • @justfacts105
    @justfacts105 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    At least he isn’t beating around the bush 😅. Debbie should have heeded to her son’s warning before moving so far to be with her grandson who in return sees her as his green card.

  • @zrtopics2418
    @zrtopics2418 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The mom’s facial expressions are screaming….😂😂

  • @barbrothersmrc3775
    @barbrothersmrc3775 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Everyone is picking on Osamma while no one is talking about Debbie and the way she wants to use Osamma to live her retirement and her dream as a young person again.
    Both want to use the other to serve their interests instead of finding a win-win solution. And don't forget that this is only a TV series, so it is possible to add some drama to it to attract audiences.
    In addition, the TV show tends to show Osamma on the devil's side and Debbie (the American) on the good side.

  • @skontheroad
    @skontheroad ปีที่แล้ว +15

    In the Moroccan culture, how high the pour is (of the mint tea) shows the guest how honored and important they are to the host (much like "how deep the bow is in Japanese culture).

    • @thephantom73
      @thephantom73 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's bullshit lol

    • @skontheroad
      @skontheroad ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thephantom73 Nope! It's not!

    • @thephantom73
      @thephantom73 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@skontheroad that's just how you are supposed to pour the tea in Morocco how height you go means nothing

    • @skontheroad
      @skontheroad ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@thephantom73 There is an art to pouring tea in Arab culture. Part of the ceremonial aspect of serving tea is the pouring of the tea--the higher the height of the pour, the greater respect the host is showing to the guest.

    • @thephantom73
      @thephantom73 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@skontheroad bro I'm Moroccan and I've never heard such bullshit, maybe it's a thing in another country, but not Morocco

  • @Godlovesme91
    @Godlovesme91 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Debbie is such a sweet heart ❤️

  • @sookie4195
    @sookie4195 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    These couples certainly don’t plan ahead. They need a show called, Living in a Fantasy.” Ossama’s parents are smiling because Debbie will support them too.

  • @minnchi5125
    @minnchi5125 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    They definitely don't seem like a real couple even despite the age difference. 🙄

    • @jannalam6861
      @jannalam6861 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yup totally fake couple

    • @60wwediva
      @60wwediva ปีที่แล้ว

      She seems loopy and goofy as hell. Sweet lady but no way she thinks this is normal.

  • @우사민-r3c
    @우사민-r3c ปีที่แล้ว +12

    So his parents don't care if their son never has children? Or are they just not taking this too seriously.

    • @noorgonzalez1076
      @noorgonzalez1076 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Muslim men can have more than
      One wife

    • @nicoj1036
      @nicoj1036 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@noorgonzalez1076
      True, but will Debbie accept that?

    • @angelheart5963
      @angelheart5963 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I think there's little hope he would find a wife he has nothing to offer at all

    • @Ljounieh
      @Ljounieh ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@noorgonzalez1076 not in all countries

    • @ba-dy8hr
      @ba-dy8hr ปีที่แล้ว

      They know he is not gonna stay with her forever

  • @naomi5978
    @naomi5978 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    When Osama in the beginning said that Debbie sends him money, I knew then he was using her. Osama wants citizenship and Debbie to fund his family.

  • @SD-nh5yr
    @SD-nh5yr ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Sorry...Debbie is delusional.

  • @lindahkiyeng
    @lindahkiyeng ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I like when the dad said he noticed Osama really liked Debbie & gave him his freedom....awwww

  • @asian.draper6324
    @asian.draper6324 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I had a ex girlfriend weaponize my mental health against me. Hence, why she’s an ex. Debbie, run sweetheart.

  • @katiekincaid5026
    @katiekincaid5026 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She is such a wonderful person and so full of life! I wish all of the happiness to her!

  • @marieliana1288
    @marieliana1288 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Idk I can’t get into this season but I liked Debbie at first but she’s kinda just really irritating😭😭it seems like she can’t accept that she’s old

  • @laffin_out_loud
    @laffin_out_loud ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Debbie is amazing

  • @larissas03
    @larissas03 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Come on, how can she doesn’t see that he is after a greencard after all that life experience.

  • @tarapichardo1801
    @tarapichardo1801 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Melicia u are always on point...exactly go with that intuition 😊

  • @loulou-te6cb
    @loulou-te6cb ปีที่แล้ว +3

    We know oussama’s motive but what about Debbie’s ? Why would a 67 years old woman marry a 24 yo kiddo seriously this is sick

  • @missdebbie8131
    @missdebbie8131 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Let's not jump to the worst conclusion by Debbie saying they were normal. There is a large age difference, she's in a country with vast cultural differences, and, let's be honest, meeting the rents is nerve wracking. I love Miss Debbie, she's kind and naive and must be protected. So be nice.

  • @makeapositivedifference
    @makeapositivedifference ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I have been suspicious of Oussama from the first episode. I think this next episode is going to show his controlling side. He admits to his own "madness", and it shows in his art. I do believe that his family sees Debbie as a vehicle for Oussama to go to the US and have more opportunities with his art career. It seems he's disinterested in the farm life, and I'd bet they think he is better suited to a life in the states, and this show can get him started with name recognition. That said, Debbie deserves better. Once he gets to the US ( if they marry) I see him trying to connect with the art world to make a name for himself, and leaving her as soon as that green card arrives in the mailbox.

    • @60wwediva
      @60wwediva ปีที่แล้ว +1

      His personality makes him shitty and how he rationalized it but being opportunistic doesn't. Be for real, nearly anyone in his position would make the same moves and do the same thing. He would be a real idiot to not be this way and let whatever talent he has go to waste. Also lets be extremely realistic. I think you're inflating this a bit although your description of his game plan is spot on but it's inflated cause: art market is oversaturated already and you need networking, a lot of hard work with networking and even building a following through social media to be noticed then a lot of extensive time, hard work and resources put towards traveling to exhibitions & any event where he could display his work to be noticed. The show can help with that but it's still going to be a challenge even more so since his English isn't perfect & he has many visual setbacks in his looks like his eyes not being aligned correctly and his poor dental hygiene which is just him being poor over there. America is very looks focused and unless he has a major sob story and can appeal to a demographic which he doesn't & can't, he won't gain any traction. Catching the eye of someone with influence to shout him out is his best bet. Also he needs to grind on Instagram first & network. Follow the art scene on there and gain an understanding of it.

    • @60wwediva
      @60wwediva ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Rose who dated Big Ed did same thing but she was relatively likable, a single mom aka relatable but she was beautiful with some minor flaws that money later fixed. She also was lucky to be in a nation that easily makes stars out of people and celebrates their own so fiercely that even if it's a shitty American dating show to them it's a huge achievement plus she was a damsel then a woman who got celebrated cause she decided to dip & not take Ed abuse. Yet, however, people don't realize that rose, whether she was self aware of it or not, could afford to dip cause has so many factors working for her despite being in poverty & she has a family. She had a solid support system. She also doesn't live in a strict country either. Leaving big Ed wouldn't ever damage her or leave her worse off. Rose blew up in fame after leaving him and everything was handed to her on a silver platter. This girl has already achieved more than the average American or average mid tier American influencer who works mega hard to get noticed.

    • @60wwediva
      @60wwediva ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Also I'm mentioning Rose cause Rose had the same intentions as Oussama but she presented herself better and carried herself fairly well. On purpose or organically, she really came off like a young cinderella who was desperate to give her son a better a life at any means necessary even if it meant technically escorting and being a girlfriend to an old creep who is verbally abusive. Ousamma doesn't have that luxury to psychologically win the fans over by hiding behind a child and being a single father. He is very much a product of his culture & nation, the men seem very frank, straight to the point, blunt, WAY too honest and bold in conveying their information and thoughts verbally. They may be manipulative but they don't know social cues or how perception and learning restraint is essential in convos especially with Americans. Notice how rose wasn't a bitch to Ed or just straight up told him whatever she truly thought of him randomly with no filter like Ousamma does to Debbie? Ousamma has no social skills and doesn't know nor care about the fact that you should at least pretend to be 100% on the side of your sugar mama & not be harsh to them. Ousamma sort of makes it obvious to her that he's trying to secure his future and income through how little caution he takes. Rose was doing the same thing but she bared through a lot like a trooper and didn't directly lay it on Ed that she wanted to gtfo out of her country asap and get citizenship especially for her son.

    • @60wwediva
      @60wwediva ปีที่แล้ว

      So basically if he was fake or actually knew social skills and how to get ahead by pretending to be easy to deal with and so into her, his aspirations for USA would be seen in a positive light and not negative. I do think he's controlling and needs to stop. She needs to go home and apologize to her son cause he was right. Rose is now in Australia & dating an old real estate millionaire. She's living a new good life but it's counterproductive to America's values. Basically she's celebrated for sleeping with a nasty creep and putting up with terrible dates until she said enough & left then finding her success but if she were an American girl they would hold her more accountable on knowing what she is doing. Rose chose to still keep engaging older men with money after the horrible Ed experience and she settled with an older white male who could provide for her although she feels nothing for him (she looks at him the same way she looked at Ed tbh) Ousamma and someone like Rose are both users but it's all about intentions then they frame those intentions and present it. Rose family benefits tremendously off of her new life as well. Rose just didn't date someone crazy old. Ed was way older than her but not like 70 or something. I just think if Ousamma was fake or had some better background his scheme would be looked at differently.

    • @katella
      @katella ปีที่แล้ว

      @@60wwediva you've got a heap if problems yourself.

  • @meganelqanoun9477
    @meganelqanoun9477 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    As a person married to a Moroccan man it hurts my heart when so many others always jump to the “he’s using me for a ticket to the states” or anything like that. Moroccan people are some of the kindest and most hospitable people in the world and if you’re lucky enough to experience this it will be the best thing ever. I know each situation obviously is not going to be a happy one all the time and things fall apart but idk sometimes I think the tendency from this show just goes towards looking at the foreign people as users

  • @MT-US
    @MT-US ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Wow, just wow ... that teaser! I mean, seriously, I was wondering about he-who-has-no-job and therefore no income. She thought she was moving there, but HE is conniving and seems to have researched this out. He wants a Sugar Momma AND a green card (but no doubt will never work). His poor family... that must be humiliating to have a lazy son, right? Oy ... run, Debbie ... don't stop, block his DM and phone, and go home! You deserve better!! AND he gave you an easy out ... an ultimatum!

  • @sarahosinovsky4025
    @sarahosinovsky4025 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    First!! Oussamas sister is gorgeous!! Oussama better have good intentions with our Debbie !

    • @marknewton6984
      @marknewton6984 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The sister can come to the US. Rest of the family: Stay out!

    • @noorgonzalez1076
      @noorgonzalez1076 ปีที่แล้ว

      🎉🎉🎉

  • @jer1523
    @jer1523 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    He's using her for that green card

    • @Ama94947
      @Ama94947 ปีที่แล้ว

      Its so sad that Debbie don't seems to see this 😞

  • @rad4939
    @rad4939 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    As a morrocon citizen I would like to say that we reject this kind of relationships 😂😂😂 and we are not looking for old women to be their spouses, so please stop doing this to yourself grandma and leave

  • @shelleycollins7390
    @shelleycollins7390 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You THINK she would know better

  • @MinhSen11
    @MinhSen11 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Debbie is so gorgeous. I can't believe she can't find a decent man closer to her age.

    • @isabellancali5388
      @isabellancali5388 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What about Chuck, Libby’s father? 🙈

  • @Guillhrme
    @Guillhrme ปีที่แล้ว +6

    OMG 😢🤬 IT'S BETTER TO END THIS RELATIONSHIP RIGHT NOW BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE 🚩 STOP BRINGING SCAMMERS TO THE US WE’RE FULL ALREADY 😤😩

  • @saraneuss4089
    @saraneuss4089 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    He has shown his true colours and made his intentions so clear. He is just using her to go to America and his parents are involved in this plan so no objections from them at all which was weird and suspicious.

  • @CA-1954
    @CA-1954 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yeah Debbie bring Ossuma to the USA and get your son the cop to throw him in Jail.

  • @Leila_Amel
    @Leila_Amel ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The age gap between the two of them should be a red flag. Nobody would be engaged with a woman who’s llike 3 times his age unless he wants to take advantage of her. She dumped herself into an awkward relationship and now she is facing the consequences

  • @tabithaharden1865
    @tabithaharden1865 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ousaama said he done had enough of the farm...ms. Debbie needs to just be ok with finding a youthful grandpa

  • @lainechange1765
    @lainechange1765 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Osama's Mama looks a lot like Glenn Close!

  • @zahraahmed5225
    @zahraahmed5225 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It is the Oussama mom’s facial impression for me 😂😂😂😂😂😅

  • @Simplelady022
    @Simplelady022 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Debbie has made me decide to be single for 12 years atleast then I'll be 55 years 😂😂😂😂😂.

  • @coraburch860
    @coraburch860 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    He’s very overpowering with Debbie but he masks it with what I think he convinces himself is just “honestly” but at the same time it’s probably good he’s direct. Just hard to know if it’s manipulation or no

    • @60wwediva
      @60wwediva ปีที่แล้ว

      She can't ever say later he tricked her or was being sneaky cause it's all out there that he made it clear he wanted a life in the U.S not her living with him in his own country rotfl. Debbie is so naive she's digging a hole for herself

  • @Medmodel
    @Medmodel ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Shes so sweet and kind

  • @lanarawi7997
    @lanarawi7997 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I m moroccan and believe every Moroccan is angry at oussama for his silly behaviour with Debbie we all attacked him on instagram .She is so lovely and cute and I wish her all the love

  • @funkdat2818
    @funkdat2818 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Debbie is so sweet

  • @stellamary204
    @stellamary204 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    " you will bring me to the USA ". Not even a discussion... a demand....yep Oussama you have to go!

  • @SamiBetaclub
    @SamiBetaclub ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We are moroccans and we love Debbie ❤

  • @noahleviton4117
    @noahleviton4117 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What on earth is Debbie still doing with this man? Run, Debbie, run!

  • @arizonacountrygirl
    @arizonacountrygirl ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Okay but @0:54 that "WHAAAAT" had me LOLing forreal

    • @DarlingNikki2
      @DarlingNikki2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was rolling! 🤣 That needs to be a meme and GIF like yesterday! 😂

  • @jaemontgomery6742
    @jaemontgomery6742 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I love Ms Debbie. I would love to meet her ♥️😂

    • @truthmatters4520
      @truthmatters4520 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I would love to meet her too. She has the coolest voice❤😊

    • @TJ-wz3tt
      @TJ-wz3tt ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too

    • @9teen9t4
      @9teen9t4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me three! 💚 Debbie and I'm going to be furious if this louse hurts her!

  • @attaherimalak4351
    @attaherimalak4351 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What's good in ossama and his family is that they are all honest about what they want. He did not lie and express fake emotiones, especially his mother. LOL!!

  • @lyna5184
    @lyna5184 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Oussama’s sister is soo pretty

  • @saraneuss4089
    @saraneuss4089 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He love bombed Debbie to get her there and now his mask is slipping. He does not like her and seems to find her annoying. She thought she was moving to Morocco. Meanwhile, he doesn’t want to discuss her living there bc his plan is to get to the states. Debbie is such a light. I hope she doesn’t spend these later years dealing with this foolishness.

  • @ingahowatson6470
    @ingahowatson6470 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Is he not worried at all to say that his plan is to go to US and if not, he wants to end the relationship. What if she brings him in anyway, wouldn't it be seen as marriage for papers? Would he still get legalized?

    • @angelheart5963
      @angelheart5963 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I cant see the border agency allowing that visa because of the age

    • @ingahowatson6470
      @ingahowatson6470 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@angelheart5963 That would make sense, it looks strange anyway, but with him making things so clear all the doubts fly out the window.

  • @juliabarone8852
    @juliabarone8852 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Osama turns into mad man

  • @angieholden9793
    @angieholden9793 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I so love the host she’s the ish and goat on the show. She keeps me laughing 😂😂😂

    • @9teen9t4
      @9teen9t4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I wish she was the actual host on 90DF - she's a million times better than Shaun.

  • @kathy_beauty1955
    @kathy_beauty1955 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He is too demanding and overbearing!!

  • @juliabarone8852
    @juliabarone8852 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    She's delusional

  • @lisaart6773
    @lisaart6773 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oussama's intentions are out! Debbie's son had some right suspicions about this relationship and that Oussama wants something from Deb, "Ticket to the USA"

  • @wani12
    @wani12 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Actually, North African parents don’t really care who their kids marry. You’d be surprised “what” some of us bring home. But let’s be honest here, a 24 year old man marrying a 67 year old woman… I mean, there has to be another reason but love ! We live in the real world ! She gets to be with a young man, he gets to go to America (for whatever reason) I don’t see the issue here

    • @Megthegoddess1
      @Megthegoddess1 ปีที่แล้ว

      I misread or you said they don’t care ??😂

  • @TheTowerofsong
    @TheTowerofsong ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I really like this lady! She is so pure❤️

  • @SD-nh5yr
    @SD-nh5yr ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Are we suppose to believe these 2???