Debbie is completely AT FAULT in that Usama debacle. With age is supposed to come wisdom. Wisdom would have told her to leave that lil boy alone. Debbie should have been doing what an almost 70 year old woman should have been doing; dating an AGE APPROPRIATE man. That boy could have been her grandson and EVERYBODY knows it, INCLUDING Debbie.
Genders reversed little would be said. And, really, so what? He was left none the worse off AND he was a very demanding and rude. HE was trying to use HER. She footed the bills and, besides thinking he was getting a free ride to America, his sister also and she did and may have continued to send him money.
She literally called someone a predator on the tell all when she's a predator. Also she didn't need to tell all this weird s hit to her date..... cringe
I agree with you however I understand why she lied about her age with this date. I can't imagine how many men around 65+ are looking online for someone to date, so I get why she lied. Doesn't make it right, I know, but I get why she did that.
Ego, ego, ego thinking she's so special to be able to interest a man young enough to be her grandson. She makes me cringe with embarrassment, except she's the one who should be embarrassed and isn't. She's a show pony who dresses like a fool to attract attention.
Yea she has too many people fooled. She rubbed me the wrong way as soon as she defended Kris the addict abuser. Shows she has no discernment. Also she’s giving big Ed vibes by going after super young guys 🤔🤔
Debbie needs to change her hair style. It would look cute if it was shoulder length! And she's dressed like a 14 year old! Please guys, let's be honest, she needs a makeover!
The question I have is…. What happened to Jen who wanted Debbie’s son Julian’s phone number? Did they end up going out? They seemed into each other at that tell all 👀
@@jacquiandp-dog7755 I can't say I'm not wholly unsympathetic with offspring in some cultures. Ties, ingrained since birth. ingrained hard to break from. Perpetuation of the family for support is very important, I think to become less so. And I think not a bad thing. Decades ago a young Indian woman, living in the west, told me her mother-in-law "would not allow her to cut her long never-cut hair" which the girl herself HATED. And if she did Cut it her husband would be disgraced--so said that mother-in-law. Little freedom of choice with that kind of pressure. That, I think, is the whole idea. In case of women, if so-controlled when young--may feel it is "their chance" to bully themselves. Incomprehensible to me, but my upbringing was totally different AND I am not Indian.
Amazing match.. I don't blame she son for be so concerned any son or Daughter will be worried once there father or mother looking for a match on the evil internet 😅😅😅😊
Glad the date went well, but I don't see it working long term between them. But super happy she had a good date I'm sure it'll give her more hope and confidence in finding the right person!
I feel like if anything you might as well be honest on a dating profile if they dont like it....screw them you dont even know they exist yet....I feel like we should take that part and feel more comfortable about being honest online.....eitherway a wolf can only hide in sheep's clothing for so long and if you see the signs rip that sheep skin off yourself and run fast
I love how you speak so respectfully of the people. I always try to speak about people when they are not there in such a way that they would not be offended if they were indeed there. You do that well.
An artist???😳😳🤪 we saw what Ossama thought was art. Debbie needs a stylist asap, yes I know some thing she has her own style but her style needs help. She needs someone to show her how to do makeup that looks good on older women & a cut & style her hair. Long no style hair isn’t an attractive look as you age. When Debbie said she had to lie about her age? What? No Debbie lying on dating apps is not how you start a relationship, then when you tell the truth you are untrustworthy & that’s how they will view you. If you think a person won’t be interested in you at your real age then that’s not the right person & you should move on. Don’t Lie!
@@SonetLandman Debbie would look a lot better with her hair cut & styled. Some older women make the mistake of thinking long hair that looked fine when they were younger makes them continue to look young, for most it doesn’t. It doesn’t do Debbie any favors, she could use some help with her makeup too. Most of the time the best thing to remember is less is better. I have the feeling Debbie has not changed her hairstyle or makeup since she started wearing makeup & that was a long time ago.
@@danasandoval624 🤣🤣 I must say her style of dress dates back way more than 67 years. It has Fred Astaire vibes. It boggles my mind that anybody could believe or think that she was 57 years old.
@@SonetLandman yes I agree she doesn’t look at all anywhere in her 50’s. Perhaps men are a bit more lenient when guessing someone’s years but Jenny looks her age most definitely. I do believe she has some Botox done on her forehead which is why I don’t understand her not getting a haircut & style more age appropriate & someone to show her how to apply her makeup correctly. The eyeshadow looks like she put it on with a spoon. I don’t think her clothes fit the Fred Astaire time either. That time was very classy & dressy looking. Debbie seems stuck in the 60’s somewhere with a hippy vibe. I can see her joining a commune & trying to be a flower child, problem is she seems stuck with that look. People think she is eccentric but really it’s just a case of she never moved on from a time she apparently thought she looked her best, like the silver mini dress & silver boots. I don’t think Debbie is the sweet grandma person people think she is, we saw a bit on the tell all when she backed Chris & called Jamie a name. She also made a comment that i can’t completely remember now but was racist & no one said a word. I think there is a very odd & weird side otherwise how could she has pursued a relationship with a guy in his 20’s? In the preview it looks like she has another guy lined up so i guess we will see.
@@danasandoval624 😅😅. She puts her makeup on with a spoon. You are funny. I think we shall have lots more of conversations about Debbie in the future to come. Looking forward to it.
I'm glad she was honest right at the first date about her age lie. The guy seemed like a pretty normal guy. Of course our comparison for her last relationship was 😬
4:16 oh Melissia...you understand miss Debbie logic here...which is lying at men by her real Age...if any man lies about his age...my gosh you kill him. But because Debbie is a female it's ok we should all of us to understand her fears and accept the fact that she lied about her Age And all the excuses you gave to make that lie logical are just nonsense
I just hope Russ had a 2nd date with Debbie even marrying her I love Debbie she is a pure soul she reminds me of my friend who loves youngsters but she died happy coz of COVID & had to leave her young boyfriend behind with sorrow. I hate COVID cause she was my confidant..I love you Debbie I love you hope to see you one day you live life to the fullest.
Why did she reveal so much .She knew that young man was using her for money .Why would you tell that to anyone on a first date .She wanted him to think she has it going on she looked like what she is and older women that guy won’t be back unless TLC offers him a lot of money.
I don't know if Russ and Debbie are a good match: he looks too "conventional" for her. I do like Russ: he is handsome and the kind of guy who would attract me.
Russ was done once she told him about dating a 24 year old, you will not see this man again. I saw the look on his face after she told him that, he was horrified. And she is so old-timey looking, she needs to spruce up her wardrobe a bit.
Sometimes it is hard to like her especially after she supported a compulsive liar at the tell all but based on her young taste and lying bout her age to her current potential...😅 Julian is such a sweet guy though, i would totally date him.
Debbie could easily appear 10 years younger if she gets her hair professionally colored and straightened. On older, lighter skinned women, I believe darker hair makes one look more youthful. Do that with the hair, start derma planning/ skin treatments, drink more water, and lose at least 15 pounds. Dress more appropriate for body type. She has the youthful energy❤
So Russ is against Ms. Debbie online dating, so he should probably help her find someone . Aren't there any single respectful decent age appropriate police guys where he works to set her up with?
Girl never never talk about your ex with your new date 😂
Yep
Wise words too many should hear 😂
She is not some cute old lady. She’s actually kind of creepy for dating someone that could be her grandchild
AMEN!
The word is predator.
Agree
Oh come on . Nothing wrong with that .
Oh come on . Nothing wrong with that .
She needs to stop bringing up the 24 year old into the conversation i makes her look crazy and it is weird
Russ didn't look sure when Debbie said they should have a second date 😂😂
Ugh!
He looks like the kind that CAN'T say no to someone's face. This guy is too young for her. He would ghost her soon. Watch this space
He still had half a glass of wine and was like 'whelp, it was great meeting you. Let me walk you out.' That's southern for nah...bye bye now. 😅
And yet, she's clueless!@@RachelAli1791
Totally agree!
Debbie is completely AT FAULT in that Usama debacle. With age is supposed to come wisdom. Wisdom would have told her to leave that lil boy alone. Debbie should have been doing what an almost 70 year old woman should have been doing; dating an AGE APPROPRIATE man. That boy could have been her grandson and EVERYBODY knows it, INCLUDING Debbie.
Absolutely 💯 agree
Yes,,,
Genders reversed little would be said. And, really, so what? He was left none the worse off AND he was a very demanding and rude. HE was trying to use HER. She footed the bills and, besides thinking he was getting a free ride to America, his sister also and she did and may have continued to send him money.
Exactly!!💯
@@albertfinney1328 she used him. He even made him have sex with her and he didn’t want. She is an old woman who is trying to be cool…grandmother
The fact people r calling Debbie a joy and delight after dating a 20 year old while if a 67 year man did it we’d call him a predator
Because it's different. And also we have plenty of old men dating almost children on this show and they've never called them predators.
Exactly
Also, didn't Debbie call someone else a predator at the tell all? When she was dating a 24 year old.
She literally called someone a predator on the tell all when she's a predator.
Also she didn't need to tell all this weird s hit to her date..... cringe
@@fleur3370 a 24 year old? Big whoop ya'll never called any of the men predators.
Debbie acting like she is the victim in that yet she shows she lies about her age to get younger guys & to get what she wants.
💯
I agree with you however I understand why she lied about her age with this date. I can't imagine how many men around 65+ are looking online for someone to date, so I get why she lied. Doesn't make it right, I know, but I get why she did that.
I can’t be the only one who thinks of Melicia as your “best friend “ lol I look forward to her recaps 😍
Same
Me too, I love her recaps
She is beautiful too
Literally everyday!
She has a very classy way of saying what we all are thinking.
Debbie "Ousamma is a snake, he lied to me!" Also Debbie: "I lied about my age, I had no choice!".
He didnt care she lied about her age its when she talked about her ex he got disinterested in her
My daughter is dating Debbie's niece's son. I was surprised when I found out. Small world
Small world
she lost him at 24
Debbie talks too muxh about questions that were never asked
Debbie can be a hair product model . She has gorgeous hair ❤
starting a relationship off with lie isn't very healthy. even if russ says it's okay, it's not..
I would love to know Debbie's hair routine. She has great hair.
She really does haha. Genetics mostly I’m sure.
Yes!
Melina stop pandering to Debby!
Debbie speaks like a child!
Debby just wants ATTENTION!!
Usoma just wants 💰 MONEY!
Debbie IS a child😆
Ego, ego, ego thinking she's so special to be able to interest a man young enough to be her grandson.
She makes me cringe with embarrassment, except she's the one who should be embarrassed and isn't. She's a show pony who dresses like a fool to attract attention.
Yea she has too many people fooled. She rubbed me the wrong way as soon as she defended Kris the addict abuser. Shows she has no discernment. Also she’s giving big Ed vibes by going after super young guys 🤔🤔
Yes, I was beginning to second guess myself.she creeps me out, can’t watch her parts. Cringe just watching her
@@ajheartsong😂😂 this is a good one.
LMAO "theres a special feature called 'block'"
Russ seems cool, I'm afraid Debbie is gonna blow it with TMI
Omg PLEASE someone put Debbie on the golden bachelor or bachelorette 😂😂😂
🤣🤣
Yes plz Debbie it's a light that illuminate even the darkest corner
Debbie needs to change her hair style. It would look cute if it was shoulder length! And she's dressed like a 14 year old! Please guys, let's be honest, she needs a makeover!
let her cook 😂
Debbie rubs me the wrong way but she was right about the characters looking like her ex😂😂.
Her neck doesn't look 57 years old.
The whole of her does not look 57 😂😂😂. What do you mean?? I am 59. I should know.
@SonetLandman !!!
Sumn wrong with her psychologically 😅
Russ do not want to go on a other date with her
Would you? 😅
She needs to do something with her hair
The fact that she lives in a place called "Sugar Hill".
😂😂
Internet dating is the worst😮😮😮😮she looks and sounds in her 70s
Exactly. She looks at herself with rose tinted glasses.
She probably is. Look at her neck.
@vblackwell3347 I know I don,t think she,s funny or sweet completely mad 😠
😅
@@vblackwell3347 I meant the whole of her look 67 not only her neck 😂. Sorry, I can see now that my comment could read completely the opposite.
I love your commentaries lol. “The shocker was actually you staying, DESPITE his age” 😂😂 speak factsss
Lol same.
She’s always on point!!!
Great recaps always melcia enjoy your thoughts 👏🏽👏🏽.
You are absolutely perfect in every way. Great host. The greatest. Thank you very much
Why do I feel like Russ is a paid actor lol they just put him in there 😂
Exactly. Me to. 😊
The question I have is…. What happened to Jen who wanted Debbie’s son Julian’s phone number? Did they end up going out? They seemed into each other at that tell all 👀
NOT as far as I know.
That would be on another spin off!! Maybe Jen will be on the Single life?
@@irenetsomidis2167 Well dunno and won't be waiting to see. Interesting to see others but some are highly, uh, unusual.
No she went back to her Indian guy, then they eventually broke up anyway.
@@jacquiandp-dog7755 I can't say I'm not wholly unsympathetic with offspring in some cultures. Ties, ingrained since birth. ingrained hard to break from. Perpetuation of the family for support is very important, I think to become less so. And I think not a bad thing.
Decades ago a young Indian woman, living in the west, told me her mother-in-law "would not allow her to cut her long never-cut hair" which the girl herself HATED. And if she did Cut it her husband would be disgraced--so said that mother-in-law. Little freedom of choice with that kind of pressure. That, I think, is the whole idea.
In case of women, if so-controlled when young--may feel it is "their chance" to bully themselves. Incomprehensible to me, but my upbringing was totally different AND I am not Indian.
Debbie needs to tone it all the way down. The other Debbie found someone her age so this one can too
Red flag Debbie 🚩 green flag her date
I agree. He looks like a nice solid guy.
"i'M SURE NOT TELLING YOU. You'll have a swat team out there." Ha Ha Ha.
I love this host Melicia, she cracks me up lol.
They don't seem like a match to me. Debbie needs an introvert to balance out her eccentric nature. The quiet type would be perfect with her.
he wants his Green CARD to be an artist in AMERICA! lol. JULIAN is funny and a good son
Amazing match.. I don't blame she son for be so concerned any son or Daughter will be worried once there father or mother looking for a match on the evil internet 😅😅😅😊
Why she feel obligated to tell him the truth??? She don't even know him ! She already scared him off
If Russ is smart he’ll run… who wants to start a relationship off with a lie
Awww Russ when he smiles looks like a pleasant man go ahead Debbie!
Ms Debbie is a predator
Glad the date went well, but I don't see it working long term between them. But super happy she had a good date I'm sure it'll give her more hope and confidence in finding the right person!
I feel like if anything you might as well be honest on a dating profile if they dont like it....screw them you dont even know they exist yet....I feel like we should take that part and feel more comfortable about being honest online.....eitherway a wolf can only hide in sheep's clothing for so long and if you see the signs rip that sheep skin off yourself and run fast
Awesome commenting as always melicia 😊
Going to a date and talking about her ex non stop...poor guy. Russ run...
I love how you speak so respectfully of the people. I always try to speak about people when they are not there in such a way that they would not be offended if they were indeed there.
You do that well.
An artist???😳😳🤪 we saw what Ossama thought was art.
Debbie needs a stylist asap, yes I know some thing she has her own style but her style needs help. She needs someone to show her how to do makeup that looks good on older women & a cut & style her hair. Long no style hair isn’t an attractive look as you age.
When Debbie said she had to lie about her age? What? No Debbie lying on dating apps is not how you start a relationship, then when you tell the truth you are untrustworthy & that’s how they will view you. If you think a person won’t be interested in you at your real age then that’s not the right person & you should move on. Don’t Lie!
She really does not look 57. I am 59 and most definitely don't look like that.
@@SonetLandman Debbie would look a lot better with her hair cut & styled. Some older women make the mistake of thinking long hair that looked fine when they were younger makes them continue to look young, for most it doesn’t. It doesn’t do Debbie any favors, she could use some help with her makeup too. Most of the time the best thing to remember is less is better. I have the feeling Debbie has not changed her hairstyle or makeup since she started wearing makeup & that was a long time ago.
@@danasandoval624 🤣🤣 I must say her style of dress dates back way more than 67 years. It has Fred Astaire vibes. It boggles my mind that anybody could believe or think that she was 57 years old.
@@SonetLandman yes I agree she doesn’t look at all anywhere in her 50’s. Perhaps men are a bit more lenient when guessing someone’s years but Jenny looks her age most definitely. I do believe she has some Botox done on her forehead which is why I don’t understand her not getting a haircut & style more age appropriate & someone to show her how to apply her makeup correctly. The eyeshadow looks like she put it on with a spoon.
I don’t think her clothes fit the Fred Astaire time either. That time was very classy & dressy looking. Debbie seems stuck in the 60’s somewhere with a hippy vibe. I can see her joining a commune & trying to be a flower child, problem is she seems stuck with that look.
People think she is eccentric but really it’s just a case of she never moved on from a time she apparently thought she looked her best, like the silver mini dress & silver boots.
I don’t think Debbie is the sweet grandma person people think she is, we saw a bit on the tell all when she backed Chris & called Jamie a name. She also made a comment that i can’t completely remember now but was racist & no one said a word. I think there is a very odd & weird side otherwise how could she has pursued a relationship with a guy in his 20’s?
In the preview it looks like she has another guy lined up so i guess we will see.
@@danasandoval624 😅😅. She puts her makeup on with a spoon. You are funny. I think we shall have lots more of conversations about Debbie in the future to come. Looking forward to it.
Damn he is cute. Im 67 i think i shall look into online dating
I'm glad she was honest right at the first date about her age lie. The guy seemed like a pretty normal guy. Of course our comparison for her last relationship was 😬
I am 57, and I would never believe Debbie was the same age as me. She looks her age.
Russ looks like a very nice guy. I don't think they are a match.
4:16 oh Melissia...you understand miss Debbie logic here...which is lying at men by her real Age...if any man lies about his age...my gosh you kill him.
But because Debbie is a female it's ok we should all of us to understand her fears and accept the fact that she lied about her Age
And all the excuses you gave to make that lie logical are just nonsense
Yes, you tell her 😉😊
Ms Debbie turned him off he lost interest.
I just hope Russ had a 2nd date with Debbie even marrying her I love Debbie she is a pure soul she reminds me of my friend who loves youngsters but she died happy coz of COVID & had to leave her young boyfriend behind with sorrow. I hate COVID cause she was my confidant..I love you Debbie I love you hope to see you one day you live life to the fullest.
She xalled her malaysia lol
Why did she reveal so much .She knew that young man was using her for money .Why would you tell that to anyone on a first date .She wanted him to think she has it going on she looked like what she is and older women that guy won’t be back unless TLC offers him a lot of money.
Debbie looks like 77
He,s really good looking
Ho my God, I am crying and laughing, Bebbie is such a darling, and her son is so sweet, loved it when he asked for his address and SS#.
bebbie?
I don't know if Russ and Debbie are a good match: he looks too "conventional" for her. I do like Russ: he is handsome and the kind of guy who would attract me.
Hell yesss put her as the next golden bachelorette!!
She is Madonna haha
Russ was done once she told him about dating a 24 year old, you will not see this man again. I saw the look on his face after she told him that, he was horrified. And she is so old-timey looking, she needs to spruce up her wardrobe a bit.
What’s up with the one preview of a new guy Debbie’s dating that looks like Oussama in 20 years? 😩😭😂 She may not be over him just yet.
Um🤔. we don't need clothes to "feel good". Feeling come then go the way it's designed by God Almighty. We aren't to depend on preplanning " feelings".
BABY JANE of sugarhill.. but i love this woman. she has great hair but i think shes letting it be too wild
she is still lying about her age. she is considerably more than 67. guaranteed.
Miss Debbie is truly one of a kind, I can watch convo between her and Julien all day long, they are hilarious
We do realize these shows are scripted some of these conversations and scenes take many takes it's not real.
Debbie looks incredible!! I love her so much! And she raised her son well ❤
Sometimes it is hard to like her especially after she supported a compulsive liar at the tell all but based on her young taste and lying bout her age to her current potential...😅
Julian is such a sweet guy though, i would totally date him.
Sayonara Ousamma Bin Laden :))))
why did she tell him about ossama 24 yr old... shes way tooo honest. you could see that man lost interest
She lied about her age to this guy. Bad Debbie. Bad! Your son is a cop!
Debbie is so cute , I love her light hearted humour and personality !😅 hope she finds true genuine love ❤️ xxxx
Oussama is too young for my age, and I’m 39 !!
What happened to Ruben the cuCuban??
Aye he near Atlanta 😎😎😎
Way to go. He is cute and looks solid.
If Debbie is 67, then my 65 yr azz is 47 … BTW Melicia needs to host ALL TLC “The Learning Channel” 😅 90 Day here, there, everywhere Fiasco Reunions
You look like you're around the same age as her. Be humble.
Debby's hair is too much, she needs a hair makeover
I think Miss Debbie doesn't have both oars in the water🤔🤔🤣
I hope she has fun and finds real love.
Debbie could easily appear 10 years younger if she gets her hair professionally colored and straightened. On older, lighter skinned women, I believe darker hair makes one look more youthful. Do that with the hair, start derma planning/ skin treatments, drink more water, and lose at least 15 pounds. Dress more appropriate for body type. She has the youthful energy❤
I like Debbie and Russ together.
Miss Debbie is my favorite in this show
Russ is so nice to look at. At 66 he makes me tempted to go on line
TMI, to much inf🎉on the first day.
I mean he wasn't a minor or anything so what is the issue here?
I think she's closer to 80 than 70.
So Russ is against Ms. Debbie online dating, so he should probably help her find someone . Aren't there any single respectful decent age appropriate police guys where he works to set her up with?
Her date's name is Russ. Julian is her son.
Man her age are into girls half her age!! That’s the problem!
I love Debbie. She's so sweet.
The yea we didn't of it all 😂😂
Miss Debbie needs her own show
You are so pleasant to watch, a joy.
Debbie is delusional..😅😂
Melicia - you are so sweet but Denbie
😮
Debbie’s so cute
Me driving in the front of the passenger seat of the police car .😮I wonder what this button do? 🚔🚔🚨🚨Him : Bruh stop that😂😂😂😂
Mrs Debbie is just a ⚽ I love her😅😅go Mrs Debbie go😊 I am voting 4 u I really hope u find 😍