90 Day Fiancé: Oussama Drops a BOMBSHELL on Debbie!
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 24 ก.ย. 2024
- ET's Melicia Johnson breaks down the must-see moments from season 4, episode 7 of ‘90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way,’ from Oussama telling Debbie he wants her to leave Morocco, to Gabe revealing he’s trans to his friend, Trey, who he’s known for a year. ‘90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way’ airs Sundays at 8 p.m. ET/PT on TLC.
Melicia should be the host of the 90 day reunions. She would actually ask and say what we're all thinking. The current host just sits there and let's the cast members argue.
True...She'll be the best host
Completely agree!! Melicia gets how the show works and is so personable, she’d be an amazing host for the tell-alls.
Great idea!
Sooooo trueeee!!!! She should!!!!!!💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
The producers control the questions so there's no point.
Debbie is a O.G. She's the most emotionally intelligent person they ever had on this show, which isn't saying much, but still.
Not saying much at all. Crazy old lady moving one way to Morocco. She’s as delusional as Nicole (both the one with Azan and with Mahmoud). 🤦♀️
Agreed! She's too good for this show.
If she's intelligent enough she won't give oussama her precious time. She deserves way better than oussama and being poetic or vibing at a literature frequency doesn't make a person's soul a genuine person. A guy who doesn't appear horny or dirty minded upfront doesn't mean he is a decent guy. Oussama is just unattracted to her and pretended to act all gentleman. But gotta praise Debbie for handling the situation well and being direct with shady oussama
No, dating a kid compared to her age is not mature in any level, it is creepy, when he was 7 a fundamental age, how old was she?
Malicia you are absolutely gorgeous honey
Grandma Debbie giving 101 classes on how to deal with a manipulative person. She isn't having this fool and I love it!!!!
Too late to act smart now. She should have never went there.
I love her !!! But I think they are gonna work out that's a huge age difference age ain't nothing but a number but 24 is young but he doesn't seem 24 I believe he truly loves her!!!❤❤❤ She's no fool!!!
@@katiemcdonnell9250
As a moroccan .i can say that he is in love with the green card 🤌🤌
Stfu...you must have been in the same situation. Grow up! Lol
@@gardabella714 with the money
Im proud of Debbie for having control and not going off on him. Goes to show she has control which is fantastic to see!!!
She's a grown up!
The woman lives in a fantasy world. She is way too old for him and should go back to the states.
@Belltown Daisy Not sure I would have been as cool, calm and collected myself! But with cameras rollings, I don't know...lol.
@Belltown Daisy Another 24 year old farmer?? Lol, probably to tell the truth! But in Morocco, she will likely find guys who want to take her for all she's worth! And as much as I love Morocco and would hang out for a while regardless, I don't know if she's that into Morocco, or she was just into HIM who just happens to be in Morocco!
@@skontheroad He is obviously a scammer. Shouldn't she know better? Is she slow minded?
My god, I’m learning how to be in a healthy relationship from doing the opposite of these ppl on this show.
LOL I watch these shows so I never end up in drama like this lol
I feel much better about my poor life choices 😆
Yes I learned how how to spot a narcissist and the red flags 🚩 🤧 big Ed as example.
😂😅 right on fartemis
Do the opposite!
That hotel in Morocco was absolutely beautiful. Melicia, I love how you respectfully call her Miss Debbie.
They all look like that. Morocco and Moroccan design is stunning. I was in a hotel once and couldn't stop taking pictures it was so gorgeous!
Wow Debbie is a great person!
She is so calm, funny, sweet, super cool lady.
She is not like any other 90day person:
No crying
No smashing /throwing things
No yelling
No swearing/insults
No showing cleavage/skin/ flashy clothes
We don’t need any of that!
I hope the program makes a separate show for her cuz she’s cute and deserves the spotlight
Yes indeed!
She’s entertaining I’d watch it
She is delusional.
I love Debbie, she is my age and we could have lots of fun as a friend.
Imagine cleaing the clothes of a 20 year old boy. smh. She is dumb.
You can tell Debbie was a stunner when she was younger. She is still beautiful and fun! Dude would not have chance with her if she was younger. I wish she was dating someone older. The way she carried her dress while leaving the room was epic. That's why he was mad haha
She is STILL really pretty though!
It’s called the wall
@@mcmong02 leave ur mom outta this
So you saying that she did not choose him when she was younger, but now she is old, that he should choose her? lol But now she is an old woman and want a younger man to take care of her. How unfair is that?
@c0br41 no that's what you said. Why couldn't you just make your stay without trying to put it on me
She’s old enough to be his grandmother! She was so misguided thinking this young man would actually love her.
His grandmother not his great grandmother, im 67 my great grandchildren are toddlers.
All in all its still ridiculous to think he loves her.
@@justiceseeker you got that right! Why would she actually believe that she has so much in common with someone old enough to be his grandmother? It’s crazy!
@@justiceseeker I changed the great part! 🤗
Not very bright and never give money$$_
Huhuuuu, I see there is still hope for everyone, I never thought 67 years Lady could be searching love in 20s years old guys. I'm 34 years old when In 20 s guys approaching me I say I'm not your match kid lol 😂. Good luck Mrs Debbie
Debbie is still a flower child of the 60’s. I love her.
She's not a flower child. Debbie is just cluttered, messy, stale-in-the-attic old person. She's daffy to be looking for love with someone who is completely out in left field! These 2 have nothing in common. Will Ousama's parents want him to have kids???? They usually do.
But the 60's are over..
drugs are bad
Yes, she definitely gives me carefree and “live life to the fullest” vibes
Yep
When Oussama is in his 20s but def looking like he is in his 50s 😂. Debbie is better looking than him age-wise.
Stop it🫣
He behaves like a naive grandpa who just enjoys writing poems in his retirement. Nothing else but poems. Debbie clearly didn't have enough experience with men that's why she was won over with his poetic vibes. It's sad she locked herself up for so long and didn't see the world. A kind but naive soul like hers are often being targeted on by opportunists
Bs but funny
He looks older than her.He s a jerk
Drop the creep.
Shout out to Debbie for handling this awful situation with strength and grace. No swearing or any type of aggression, just making Osama look so little . ❤❤
She is still simple minded.
So horrible! How embarrassing for Debbie. My heart break for her. She needs to fly home immediately.
It's just a reality show
These idiots feeling bad, sad and embarrassed ... smh
And forget that creepy fake artist.
I would have him drive me to the airport, pretend to leave and turn around and go to Rijad and rent a nice hotel for at least a week and enjoy.
Agree. So many red flags it's the Indy 500...
Right, and never come back, this is a terrible union. It isn’t go ANYWHERE.
If he wants a traditional wife, he needs to be a traditional husband and PROVIDE for his wife. He needs to provide a house and ALL THEIR NEEDS.
This 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Melicia is the reason I take the time to watch 90 day videos. She is able to say what we all are thinking but without ever coming across as disrespectful. The girl has a talent, for sure!
Run Debbie as fast as you can to the airport and go home! Cut your losses and move on.
But not towards me...
Yep, book it home. ASAP.
Yes. Their are some intelligent, considerate and wise 24 year olds. And, because of this, they don’t have relationships with 68 year olds.
Touche!
Right I’m 24 and there’s no way I’d date someone in their 60s!
When I was 24 I loved a 44 year old woman. I ended up marrying a girl my own age. I should have trusted my instincts.
@@marknewton6984 we all make mistakes honey and hindsight is 20/20. I fell in love with a man 17 years older than me when I was 35. We kept in touch for years. He died in 2021. Love is hard. 🌻
I think Debbie is so sweet however, I can't imagine her not seeing this coming. Uprooting your life for a guy you met living at home with his daddy.
She is naive. And gave him money. Typical middle age internet scam.
How did she even pack not knowing how long they were staying? It sounds like she thought this was a permanent move and he thought it was just a visit.
@@marknewton6984She’s actually a senior citizen. He’s a ridiculous idiot, riding his skateboard at 24, and he doesn’t have a job. She can’t be naive enough to believe him.
@@JLynnEchelon Airhead Alert! She is not bright.
@@JLynnEchelon but that was exactly it
He really told her to give up her entire life to move there and then was like "nah"
He is an internet creepo.
Yup 😂
She’s entirely too old to be foolish about love or men.
@@aliinwonderland656 yes
Did 67 year old Debbie really think that she was going to have a good marriage with a 24 year old from Morocco? How could that marriage ever work?
i know she should know better & get someone her own age
I agree, what the heck was she thinking??!!
It could work
God reading your comment makes me realise how sick this really is … so wrong
weil in the first episodes we could see their connection through their art so i thought could it possibly be real .but then u see the shift when they meet so he was maybe stringing her along
I just want the best for Debbie. She makes me think of a fun quirky aunt that's a little weird but is the sweetest person you'd ever meet. Which really makes me hope her relationship works out, but...not super sure about Oussama 😅
She is a naive old woman
Widow Douglas has left the building.
When he saw her in the real life he couldn’t see himself with such an aged woman. He is probably embarrassed . Poor Debbie she is so sweet but any man young enough to be your grandson cannot be your lover.
Ousama hes seem à good person but that not enough for marriage. He should know what he want first
@@dulcemoutinho5820 Very much so.
Imagine if that was said to Angela! Complete chaos. So refreshing seeing someone in control of her emotions. You rock Debbie!
I could see her cigarette flying all over the place just thinking about it 😂😂
Is it just me or does anyone cringe everytime Debbie says mom and dad .. girl you're older than them
As she said she just Debbie.
Hahaha the feeling is mutual
@@jingledianon7008 im like for the love of pete will you stop calling them mom and dad... she could even say your mom and dad to him you know?
🤣 I was going to comment on that 😂
LOL all over the floor now hehehehehh !!!
What are these women thinking getting married to men old enough to be their grandchildren?
That goes for men too in my world.
@@nancyayotte2297 yes it does but what are these 60 plus women thinking when the start going out with men from conservative countries and younger than their own sons. With age comes wisdom and clarity. What the hell happened to all that.
It's to experience the romance they never had in their younger days. Perhaps also the validation that they are still attractive? Jus let them enjoy their later years, if they have the energy to keep up with the younger ones
*young enough
You mean: Men young enough...
These men are so damn young--not even close in age.
Is it just me or does Debbie's voice sound like a Simpson's character? Just saying
rude
She reminds me of Aughra from dark Crystal!
marge's sisters
Or Marge Simpson herself. Duh!
@@Lex_3328 but it's really not, it's called an opinion.
I would love a dating show for older folks!
No. Too much wild hair on the face or head, fat, flabby not attractive to see all that coming together. 😂
Great idea!!
Where they date people their own age, not their grandchildren's age!
This is the show
True, for anyone over 30.
Debbie's son will be so happy. He was totally against his mom moving over there. Happy for her son. He is getting his mom back.
Are we really sure that Debbie son is getting her back. We don’t know if she’s going back yet. This is very sad.
Melicia spoke for all of us who have been hurt by someone who sold us a dream just to manipulate us. Thank u.
Isn't 90 Day fiance full of couples like that? Gaslighting & manipulation. It's such a common word apart from green card
It's called narcissist.
When Debbie burst out that Nala 🦁 necklace ..I lost it 😂😂😂😂
Maybe she is a Leo
That boy just got shock to see that he's dating his grandma haha 😂😂😂😂
Lol
He thought he could press on for green card, but his mind tells him to bear with it but his heart just went dead cold like his eyes whenever he sees Debbie face to face.
Sticker shock. Buyer's remorse.
The comment I was looking for
Yup
The way Debbie ripped into Oussama 😅 MANNNN! I was crying laughing and clapping for her at the same time. This is a moment I’ve been waiting for in all my years of watching 90 day…
I agree and she did it with class
if i were her i wouldnt unpack her bags... run debbie
Run for home away from that jerk.
Every time one of these foreign men tells an American woman,he wants her to be able to cook for him and take care of the house,people always give the "oh,he wants another mom"and you'll notice that if it's a foreign woman who comes to the US and expects her man to be the breadwinner,no one says "oh,she wants another dad".
No they call them gold diggers
Debbie's son:"I told you so!"
Debbie 😢😢😢 she should know better at 67yrs old. He is 24 and still growing up.
She seems delusional. And he is a fake.
Honestly, he is way too young.
There’s a guy in my condo with a young girlfriend and everyone is just embarrassed for the guys.. we thing the same thing!
Gotta say....I enjoy your recaps more than the actual show!....great job!
Poor Debbie stuck with Oussama bin lyin'
Love this comment lol 😂😂😂
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You cracked me up...oh lord...2 good!
😂😂😂😂
I wanted to reach out and apologize on behalf of all Moroccans for any negative experiences you may have had. It's important to remember that not all Moroccans are the same and that there are good and bad people in every group. Please know that there are many of us who stand with you and support you.
I also want to encourage you to stay strong and never lose hope. You are capable of overcoming any challenges that come your way and achieving great things. Keep pushing forward and know that there are people who care about you and believe in you.
I love Debbie, she's quirky and I love differant, when I say differant I mean in a great way.
She's a diamond and that punk doesn't deserve this wonderful lady.
Debbie you're a legend and you deserve better love, you're far too worthy of him. ♥️🇬🇧♥️
She is not very bright.
She is a nut
You are lovely too
Come on now! He’s only 24 years old. She should have known better. Stop viewing this from a Western lenses. He was using her for that Green card.
Debbie deserve someone who is serious and treat her as Queen. Shes a lovely human being. ❤️
Debbie is so full of life and seems really kind, I wish things workout well for her but that’s hard to see in this situation lol
She seems nutty 🥜
Because she wants to get some from a kid?
It will not work. Sorry.
@@NN-ws7cq im telling u ...people overlook how she is 3 generations or so older than him
This whole show is so messy and, yet I cannot stop watching it. Debbie and Oussama are the most intriguing. I feel like he is looking at Debbie as an ATM machine.
Of course he is! What can she have in common with a 24 year old kid!
He’s looking for a MAID 😂
He is a creep.
And $$$
No, that’s his culture.
He needs to look for some Redbull to wake up lol. Dude looks like he's struggling to keep his eyes open, like he's on some opioids or something. Run, Miss Debbie, run!
@@DarlingNikki2 chill he has type 1 diabetes
Ousama is going to find out what Debbie is made from and it's not being his second Mom to him.
Omg when he leaned over and said “call me,” I was shook!
Took me smooth out 😭🤣🤣🤣🤣
Does he mean Debbie needs to call him?😂
Oussama realized what he was getting into. He’s 24 and she’s almost 70! 😮
He wanted a green card but realized he won't get 😂
43 years difference in life experiences.
A Fiasco.
Well said. ❤
A friendship on line would probably be best for Debbie and Oussama. Perhaps they are in need of companionship instead of marriage. Connecting with folks on a deeper level is hard to find these days. I agree with Melicia Oussama should have been upfront in the beginning. Perhaps Debbie could have asked more questions before she sold everything to move to Morocco but here they are. Morocco is a patriarchal society so I wasn't surprised with Oussama not asking Debbie what she wanted in a husband. I tutored men from Morocco in English trust me there are very few who don't subscribe to the patriarchal ideology. Final note..it not allowed for unmarried Moroccans to shack up or stay with a woman in a hotel that's why it was in Debbie's name. ( It's my guess) Morocco is an Islamic country. Just saying. Great content.😊
My guess is that Debbie actually paid.
Patriarchal societies it is not a ideology it is a ‘natural low’ because only like that society can survive, evolve and organize.
The natural law is the participation of the eternal law in the human being. In other words, it is the rational understanding of the correct way of acting of the human being while alive.
The natural law is responsible for guiding the moral actions of human beings, rational earthly beings, while they are alive. St Thomas Aquinas
Oussama already clarified that if he had been upfront about the test drive, Debbie wouldn't even come to morroco. That's the kinda man who knows he's being shady and justify the reason for being shady instead of feeling apologetic. They can remain chauvinistic for all they want, just stick to morrocan girls who are submissive. It's just sickening to know these men don't have the wealth or status but act like they are right in every way and expect their sugar mama to bow down to them. 90 Day is a very educational reality TV show, makes us steer clear of such men.
He has the weirdest look on his face like somebody’s feeding a baby, something like sour, and he’s like shaking his head up and down, but his face is all squinty😂😂😂😂Debbie tell him bye & reimburse you for that worthless trip
He can say the most romantic words to u but eyes remain soulless. How to connect on the romance level?
Looks like contempt for some odd reason. Weird look!
Oddly specific and yet dead on! 🤣 He's sitting there looking like 😣😖 while Debbie is 😒
Don't give him any more $.
Why do these people keep marrying into different cultures when all they want is their spouse to change entirely??? SMH 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
Debbi3 is actually beautiful. I bet she was gorgeous in her younger years
50 years ago....
Girl ur analysis is always on point!! Love your commentary ❤
You are right because I am 66 and have been through the same exact thing that Debbie is going through. However I think it would be a good idea if TLC come up with a dating show for those who have not had such good luck at finding LOVE EVER lasting. I'm willing to stick my teeth into that and be your first client. Because there's a lot of Debbie's out here they have not given up on love.
How did it work out for you?
Debbie is such a free person, good on her.
Free...or naive?
I want the best for them both, just separately. ❤
You did not💀
What a powerful statement. Genuine & logical.
VERY separately!!
Lets be honest we all need a friend like Trey.
NO.
Omg Debbie you need to call the camera man
Awwwww I saw that! 😂 Go Debbie reach out to him boo! ❤😂
Where
Yesss this is the couple I'm here for lmao
She needs to go home and help to take care of her grandkids
@@jubernardi23 exactly!!! 👏
She reminds me of Carol Baskin……lol.
😂😂😂😂😂
LOL I was just thinking the same, totally!!
This is both a character and age issue.
Debbie is nearly 70 years old, there is no reason she should be even considering a man in his 20’s. My kids are in there 20’s, they have grandparents in their early 70’s.
Age is nothing but a number until you start speaking in generations. She is 2 generations older.
It’s a character issue- he should have been very clear on his expectation before she came.
They are both in the wrong.
I find the age gap creepy i would find it creepy if it was the other way around also I just can't imagine with such a age gap could last very long or having the important stuff in common but to each its own
But SHE sent the money...
Totally agree, she is so pretty for her age, but she looks old! It is a clear that it's gonna be a sugar-mummy / sugar-boy type of relationship
Actually he made a grown up decision for the both of them. We are always complaining about the people rushing into marriage and this is the opposite.
And everyone's complaining again 😅
Are u with me lions🤣🤣🤣
She is such a classy & elegant woman, best woman to ever be a cast member. Take note AngryAngie…
I hope to never see that screaming cow again...
Melicia is so pretty
Loooveeee these 90 day recaps sm 😩💓
Omg. Poor Sweet Debbie. 😢
Her son tried to tell her😂
@@Mila-lu4mb agreed. She shouldn't have gone.
Wake up Ms Debbie the Man is 24 years old and you are just si grandma for him
She is a simpo.
You mean poor totally stupid Debbie
When the beyonce "because you lied" played..I DIEDDDD 😂😂😂😂
I'm super pissed off because she went off being online for three years with this Man ‼️
Not internet savvy. Naive. Maybe not too bright.
Melicia, you are doing an incredible job😘! Beautiful delivery and breakdown!!!!!!!!
The way Osama says "ugh yeah" with a head nodd. Proud of himself. 😂
Lol😅
Don't smile Osama. Please
Debbie be real . What are you thinking??? You are 3 times his age and you think he will love you ???!!!!
These american women always expect it to be like it is in the states
I feel like she projected a lot. Probably he never asked her to move to marrocco
Exactly……she playing the victim after ignoring 1,000 red flags. Smh.
Melicia is THE best commenter ever!! She's amazing I wish they'd let her be the 90day fiancé host.
Yes, I really enjoy listening to Melicia! She has such a cool style, too! Shoutout to the editor(s), too, for throwing all those little pop culture references in lol!
Debbie is an old woman who is nice, naive but doesn’t have a head over her shoulder
She seems simple minded. A born internet victim.
Seeing his tooth missing makes me think that he has pulled this before. Someone gave it to him 🤛
I feel like Debbie would help a friend bury a body, so cute 🥰
😂😂😂love this comment
The guy in the back "call me" is hilarious 😂😂😂😂👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽
Nurse with a purse! A younger guy wants an older woman to take care of him and to pay for everything.
$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$
Hope the crew watches out for Debbie. That look in Osamas eyes when she walked out was saying…revenge planning.
She needs help. And a nursing home.
Yeah for Debbie!!! She cut right through the BS and let him know. He was just messing with her and she called him on it. Her heart is hurting and now she needs to regroup. Go home and be with your family because they are the people that truly care and love you. It hurts now but it goes away.
I hope she learned her lesson. But I doubt it.
I also think that he wants her to leave after awhile is that he wants to know how he feels in his reality.
That clip of the lion king took me right out…the editing 💀💀
I’m so glad Debbie called him out. She’s got good instincts and he doesn’t appear able to sweet talk her enough to convince her to stay. Go home Debbie.
And NO more money$$ for Snaggletooth!
Lol imagine TLC doing a wholesome show 😂😂😂
It used to be!! I used to actually learn from their programs
@@brianal7143you’re still learning. Learning how obese people live and how to not have a toxic relationship that’s based on crossing borders
So rare to find non toxic couples, but being the really nice couples become too boring for TLC.
they have MILF Manor.
@@douglasmiranda4017 true! 😫😂
I think oussama is totally right and very mature,talking on someone on internet doesn't mean that you know this person well enough to live with and go forward marriage
But he needed to let her know first before she leaves USA
How is Debbie almost 70 with no wisdom or common sense? She thinks she's marrying a 24 year old. In all honesty, Oussama is a con artist but he isn't wrong...dating someone online is very different to living with them everyday, experiencing them at their best and worse. She's so wrapped up in a fairytale that she didn't ask the questions that she should have before she packed up her life.Debbie is moving like a teenager.
Older does Not mean wiser!
I support him being honest to her parents.
She's old enough to know better. At least he's laying it on the line right at the beginning. Why is everyone mad at him?? At 24 he's a young adult.
Americans, principal American women are Delousinal, entlited and ignrant🫣😂🧐🤓
because this isn’t right at the beginning, this is three years into their relationship and they already agreed on their plans
Because she is a simpo.
Oussama didnt say anything wrong. And they communicated things well. People should stop with creating drama. Every relationship has discussions, opposities and trying to come to a compromise. Oussama said they need to save money-HE wants to save money so he needs time. He also wants to get to know her better in physical reality. Again, nothing wrong with that. These two will make it. Mark my words.
His friend is a REAL ONE ☝🏻
Debbie is suppose to be traditional, so when's he gonna support her financial. 😮
Never.
Thank you melcia for always be the voice of reason great recaps 😂❤.
I only watch her recaps instead of the whole show because she shows the best parts lol!
Your idea for a 90 Day the Senior Way would be amazing. I think a lot of people would watch including me.😊😊
I don’t even watch the show I just wait for Melicias recap 😂❤🙌🏾
I agree. I just watch the recaps. TLC wants you to pay for this content.
I absolutely love Debbie.
Maybe TLC should do love is blind, for seniors. I think Debbie would be the belle of the ball. She's so lovely.
She is beautiful, she is funny, kind, generous and her creativity is endless.
There is no reason, why this amazing woman, should put up with this awkward, oblivious, spoiled child.
There are so many men, that are her age, that would see her, as the treasure that she is.
She didn't go looking for some foreign toddler. He came to her.
She should enjoy her room, and have a couple drinks. Tomorrow she should hop on a jet and head home. Her son would be so relieved, and she could heal, in her own space, surrounded by her family and friends.
Fu** that man child. He doesn't deserve her!!!
Yes, I'm sick of seeing cougars and creepers chasing after young tail! People in their 60's and beyond can have great times together and I don't mean in a nursing home lol!
@@DarlingNikki2 Look at The Villages haha!
Melicia, this new 90 Day Dating show sounds like a great idea! You could be the host!
Really?he is not looking for a wife he looking a person of his house maid and somebody who are going to support him
She’s really pretty for her age. She’s the prettiest elderly lady ever on the show. Gibe the guy in the background a call. 😅
Debbie seems like a very nice person.
Airhead Alert!!
Debbie seems like a very naive person
You gotta love Debbie and her son is awesome too! Go Debbie!
Im here for Miss Debbie and her hair !!