Yes, and so many people choose to overlook that fact. Instead, they wanna call the girls “fast” without even wondering *why* they’re doing what they’re doing.
@@NubianP6 exactly. When the mother was speaking about all of her pregnancies from 14 and up, i immediately thought molestation. So sad that the mom is trying to deflect and down play her experience instead of getting her help
I was going to say this. And instead of taking them to therapy and getting to the root of the issue they call them fast and talk down on them and beat them as if they’re not worthy. It’s always been weird how ppl will shame young girls for being hyper sexual, but never actually get them the help they may need.
"defamation of character" is hard to claim when you get on TV and the first thing you do is air out your own daughters teenage abortions. Be a better mother
That was completely uncalled for. She wanted to humiliate her daughter on national tv. Except what she did was show herself as a cruel, uncaring, narcissistic person.
Exactly. She is suing her daughter for defamation of character and yet she is trashing her own daughter's character because of what she allowed to have happened to the child when she was only four years old.
Got damn...she said you want my GED ma you wanna take my GED and frame it...I WIll...give that lady sumn to get out of bed about every mornin..not only did he emphasize wit her when she needed it but he willing to uplift her too...everyday she wake up and that GED ain in her house she kno it's in judge Mathis office...hell most folks parents won't even put they child GED on the fireplace or the living room tabel...she kno hers somewhere where prolly on his and his kids or grandkids at
I already figured judge was gonna find a reason to dismiss the mother’s case anyway the same way he did with that white mother who antagonized her daughter and ignored her being abused.
She said she's been there since she was a baby.. Said she sent the girl out the house a trifling mess.. WHY DIDN'T SHE ENCOURAGE HER HUSBAND TO GET CUSTODY OF HIS CHILD... WHEN SEVERE NEGLECT WAS OBVIOUS????
@@INDIGO.GODDESS_573 how do you know she didn’t? If anything why isn’t that energy being brought to the father considering that is HIS child he brought into this world?
My daughter was molested at 5 and she told me about it immediately and not for one second did I not believe her. The man who did it is currently locked up for 26 years. Always believe your children first. My heart goes out to the young lady and I give prayers for healing. That mother is the perfect example of what not to be
You know what, that is SO honest and raw. it's a normal human flaw to believe someone over what you think you know, and find out different. You chose to change your mind AND try to make amends AND let others know that they're not alone, and it doesn't make them a terrible horrible evil one-sided person. That's bravery. This mother didn't give a f-. I'm glad that judge flipped out at her. It hurts that it won't affect her ~at all.~ She'll walk away thinking that nothing was HER fault and that everyone else is just Against Her. That's a personality disorder that destroys everyone around her.
Her step mom is going off about her step daughter and I'm here for it! She spoke so many positive things about her and that goes to show that a child doesn't have to be biologically yours for you to love them as your own.
And that sometimes, the apple rolls all the fucking way down the hill and far as fuck away from the tree. She couldn’t be anything less like her biological mother. She protects her children.
@@porschemcginnis2764 agree with you! Blood means nothing, it is love, caring, respect and being there. I was adopted by my stepfather who raised as his own and I am so grateful!
@@littlelily831 Yes. “Getting rid of the baby” is exactly what it is! It isn’t “choosing her health” like this ignorant judge said. So having a baby was going to make her physically sick or incapable of living or what? I thought this judge was smarter than this.
@@BS-dq1kz it was also being considerate of the audience physically and watching on screens like we are because it can be a trigger for some. Also, you CAN become physically sick and incapable of your previous everyday lifestyle after childbirth. It's just not talked about as much as it should
@@BS-dq1kz yes at 14 15 16 ect would be bad for her health she would have just started puberty not to mention her mental health and the physical and metal up bringing her child would be living in
This behavior is cyclical. As the daughter mentioned, her grandmother did the same to her mother. Kudos to the daughter for choosing to do the work and breaking this toxic generational curse.
Curse? No one put voodoo on this family. Everything they did was a choice they made themselves!! The daughter CHOSE to take a different path. Choices. Choices are we make for ourselves and our own lives. Let’s stop giving glory to a so called “curse” and hold individuals accountable for their behavior.
@@thesun-N-moon8885 Generational curse is a saying it's not literal. I guess a cycle is more accurate term. It means folks repeating abusive behavior because it is what was done to them. It's common and takes work to break. Glad the daughter isn't repeating what happened to her.
@@jaydub4661 maybe if we call things what they are instead of using victim mentality terms the younger generation would understand that our parents had choices and chose to continue on a path of destruction and will choose a better path… We gotta stop telling our kids they is cursed…..
The AUDACITY of the biological mother to take her daughter to court for calling her a bad mother when she's STILL being a bad mother. I'm glad to know all her church friends will see and hear about this episode.
@@lisai2110 you gotta remember that she never spoke on it until she was with her father & conceived her first child. She didn’t want to be separated from her siblings. She was definitely a strong resilient girl to go through all that. I wonder if he knew about the abortions tho.
@@patronadre5573 PLEASE say it again! She's not her stepmother, she's the mother who stepped up! I love their relationship. May God bless & keep you all uplifted!❤❤
This one made me tear up when he said he'd frame her diploma. All she wanted was love and acceptance from her mom. But she doesn't even like her own daughter. So sad.
She can't love anything or anyone!! Unfortunately, the mother has been through far worst than the daughter. The daughter said it "break generational..,..' the mom been molested and whatever she been through was abusive, which is why she is detached and toxic. 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
Yeah you could tell right away, after the daughter spilled the tea and the judge went back to the Mom ( and I use that word loosely) and started asking her questions she acted like she forgot what her daughter just said.. "What she say?" But the judge recalled.. 🙄 wow what a joke..
Bless her! I've been molested by my mother's husband, beaten by my father, abused by my grandparents, raped twice by strangers, gone to war in the US Navy and continue to have lifelong mental health issues. I've attempted suicide 3 times because I have a hard time believing I am worthy of love. Abusers of children deserve death, because they ruin a child's life! I'm so proud of this young women. It's the hardest thing to voice thr abuse you endure while looking at the abuser or person supposed to love and protect you. Step mom is an angel for being an actual mom to this lady. 💗 GOD BLESS
You are definitely worthy of love. It's just too bad we can't choose our parents. I hope you've found some peace and self-love now, and if you haven't yet, I really hope you get there.
At 23 my father asked me to do the most disgusting act as we were discussing my marriage the next week. I was so furious, he molested me a couple times when I was a child. He died the day after I got married. I married an alcoholic. I had no self esteem. I am disabled, now I am a widow of 3 years, I met a good man after my divorce from the alcoholic, it to me 14 years to leave and divorce him. I was the bread winner. My late husband was good to me and he was everything to me and we were married 22 years. We both were retired, I miss him and yes, I have mental health problems from abuse. It can destroy a child. The hardest part is I believe in God and wonder where my father is in eternity. Not a lot of people go to heaven if they don't repent. I have forgiven them, no, he wasn't the only one that abused me. It haunts me consistently.
Children don’t lie about being molested . This young lady had a very tough childhood ! She’s very damaged ! The Stepmother is very supportive ! I am glad this young lady has someone to support her!
No, a few do but someone taught them that. That is very few. Most are telling the truth. Sadly, I feel when the parent objects too much. When you can investigate and see how much one parent is depending on the accused abuser, you can see why the adults are supporting the liar and going against the child.
@@ace_the_creator6614 you literally repeat what I said to claim its not truth?? Lol if A higher authority told them to lie. Who are they lying for?? Themselves or for their parents??
@@zoedaflower9914 I was saying that the first sentence was a lie. And it honestly depends. Some children do seek attention when they feel they aren’t getting enough. Now, ofc, I’m not saying that all children do this cause there are some pretty terrible cases out there but I have read some on a kid lying to get attention.
Mama was lost from jump. Started this case wrong. She went on a rant basically putting down her own child. She didn't even acknowledge she was a prior druggie. Smh continue to do well young lady. Proud of you!!!
A lot of these “moms” do they kids like that. Make they life miserable and then blame them for the few “mistakes” they did make or even worse what they learned from their own mother…
I was molested by several people growing up. My mother knew and didn’t save me. I have mental scars and I’m just now getting therapy for it at 44. I commend this young woman for telling her story.
My mother has been through the same thing and she’s 45. As a daughter of a strong woman like you, I want to tell you how proud I am of you for finding the beautiful things in life again. And especially for getting the help you need. You deserve to have an amazing life and I hope it continues to go up.
When she mentioned her mother saying “whatever happens in this house stays in this house” I hated when my parents said that shit! Because they knew and know they were doing wrong!
and the judge had to correct her a second time too! the mother said “there was a whole molestation thing” and the judge stopped her and was like “you need to speak on this more respectfully and not diminish what happened”
@@mistrterrancebutler I think he was just trying to diffuse the tension, you know that saying that a woman got rid of their baby is disrespectful to the woman and the baby especially if she’s standing 2 meters away
@@Gunkle_Jebbut she wasn’t a woman. She was a damaged 14 year old girl engaging in adult activities, because she was the victim of neglect and abuse. She was probably engaging in sexual activities, as a means of looking for love.
Well if I was paid to be on the show I would speak up on everything to get the most screen time WITH it being ALL TRUE SHIT HAPPEND not make shit up or make it seem worse than it is
@@chrisk6101 they only get paid a few hundred dollars or so. This is not making them rich, so them being paid a few hundred dollars is not enough alone for them to expose their childhood trauma. Have a little more compassion
@@mscece1900 lmfao clearly you haven't seen the real way the world is ain't nobody gonna have compassion for you when you bitch and complain and not try to do shit to make it better I have my issues n shit but don't hear me crying and bitching I keep moving forward and not look back
The daughter is fumbling, she shaking. . . It seems as if she's about to have a panic attack right there, you can tell this was extremely traumatic for her. Although it seems as if she's doing okay these are things you can never recover from and truly get over. I just hope she can find some peace just sickening what that lady did and let happen
If she was molested why doesn't she get a lier detectors test to prove she isn't living I just think she wants love from people because her mother didn't give it to her
@@shanelldent7975 unless u been raped please dont do that because this is the reason why people dont say nothing i got raped at 16 by my cuzin and u wont believe how people who raised me who watch me grow up and change my pamper say oh he just trying to get his life back in order fuck his life wat about minds the dream the ptsd that comes with it so why should she get one y couldnt the dude get one everytime u remember and tell ur story how hard it is how much it drain u
@@shanelldent7975 It's a shame that a traumatic event and the psychological and physiological aftermath isn't enough...let's further burden the victim by making them jump through more hoops 🤦🏾♀️....instead of a parent just believing and supporting their CHILDREN. She already made a statement. You would think an adult would be empathetic to what a child has endured. It's sad how you require nothing from the accused...
@@CosmicSoul333 burden the victim? You do understand a judge could have this done right it wouldn't be purposely burdening the victim if that person attorney request that it could very well happen. We really gone sit here and pretend like kids aren't coach to lie?? Not saying this is the case her but it definitely happens far more than people care to acknowledge
Being a victim of sexual abuse, I feel for this young lady. I grew up in fear and to this day fear remains. Having people out here who don’t protect their children is sickening. I’m glad that you was brave enough to tell your story. Keep your head up sis
YOU are resilience personified too sis! She told her story and u have shared yours. YOU have set someone free...TRUST. Thank you for your transparency.
I know how she feels. My mother was with him since I was 2 he started when I was 9 until I was able to fight back and tell at 13. My mother wrapped her hands around my throat and slammed me against the wall screaming he didn't do it when the police told her. She is still with him to this day.
Same. I love this "ain't having this for even a minute" attitude. A kid this young acting sexual usually stems from trauma, if not grooming to be an adult already. Needing attention and this is the way to get it. Exactly like the girl said: mom puts her down all the time, controlling, abusive. She was molested. THEN she gets blamed for the NORMAL OUTCOME of these things, and then she's an awful, horrible, depraved person for not having birth after birth after birth as a young teenager. wtf. That girl couldn't do NOTHING right.
Bullshit that's him being a good judge and a good person it ain't protecting her health she took the wrong road in life and she killed a child because she was mature enough to go around fucking men but didn't want to be mature enough to stop her lifestyle to care for another humans life... Because God forbid if a young woman has a child that's just so wrong because she's a child herself but nobody talks about how wrong it is that these little ass girls are going around acting like grown women not knowing how to conduct themselves as grown women and not knowing how to protect themselves as grown women are supposed to do so to me that's an excuse if you're going to act like a grown woman or a grown person PERIOD then you need to conduct yourself as such... PERIOD!!! THAT BABY DIDN'T ASK TO BE BORN INTO THIS WORLD SO IT SHOULD NOT HAVE TO BE STRIPPED OF GOOD AND BAD LIFE EXPERIENCES BECAUSE IT'S AN INCONVENIENCE TO YOU WHEN YOU WERE DOING SOME SHIT YOU WEREN'T SUPPOSED TO DO TO BEGIN WITH AND CAN'T NOBODY CONVINCE ME OTHERWISE I DON'T GIVE A SHIT IF SHE WAS A CHILD SHE SHOULD HAVE BEEN ACTING LIKE A CHILD NOT HAVING SEX AT THAT AGE
I grew up with a mom who was a single mom. She was emotionally detached from us all so we basically raised ourselves. For years I felt like my mom didn’t care about us. That shit hurts you sometimes especially since my dad is a deadbeat. Black mothers please love on your kids 💕 we need it.
My mom is finally getting counseling. My mom had a hard life and went through a lot. Forgive your mom…that’s the only way that you won’t pass this to your children. Generational curses are real.
This. My mother found out and told me, "if you're lieing your going to get him in big trouble so.." and never looked into it.. honestly seemed more annoyed I said something... black mothers can be sometimes the opposite of what we as black daughters, need...
I make it a priority to love on my son no matter how I'm feeling or what I have going on in my life. Being a single Mom isn't easy, but our children deserve to have that love. I also instill in him it's okay to talk to me about ANYTHING AT ANY TIME!
Most times, those parents grew up with MAJOR traumas that was never spoke about. They love their kids but don't know HOW to express love. I'm sorry, sis!!! You are everything!!!!!
What hurts me about this case (for the defendant), is even after EVERYTHING this trash-minded mother has put this beautiful young woman through, the daughter STILL aches for Mom to love her. God, please continue to wrap your arms around the defendant (&her support).
When she said “you want my GED ma”, I felt that. The pleading in her voice looking for recognition from the mother that just walked out and ignored her. Young lady bless you. You are more than your circumstances.
There is a special place in my heart for that stepmother. She doesn't judge or discourage that young lady in any way. In fact she stand right by her side and understands the struggles that she has been through, and will be there to support her in the ways that she can. You can tell how much that woman loves her step-daughter. That is what a true mother is, it isn't separated by blood.
Her testimony was so powerful so raw and real. There is no way you can fake that as a lie. This woman really lived this horribly abuse and I'm so proud of her coming out of it as a proud human standing on her two feet providing for her family and being a valuable member of her society.
“Were you on crack “ took me out 😭😭😭 This whole situation is heartbreaking. Her mother didn’t go hard enough for her and she gives off too many toxic vibes. Shout out to the stepmom ❤️
I love how the step mom was quiet the whole time until it was time to talk. She didn’t get combative about them allegations. She knew the truth - so she didn’t have to get an attitude. Said they prayed about it. Praise God for her. The girl is better off.
@@queenleorobi8253 her father moved in with her at one point. She said she was close with him and the mother was jealous of their relationship. So I'm assuming they both probably neglected her in some way but for some reason she is closer to her father.
As a Black Man, I’ve teared up watching this Sister tell her pain. Shame on ANY parent that allows these horrific events from happening to their child. In prayer to all who’ve been traumatized in this form of abuse. 🙏🏾
its not just being black,,its all colors that go thru this,,,,but,,,i understand your statement..;;;;i dont see color ,,,you are my brother and she is my sister in the lord
I’ve been molested by my own father and my babysitter’s kids. Which were like 6 years older then me. Ended up going through therapy because I started repeating things done to me on other kids, Didn’t know it was wrong. At the time I was told by my mother I was a compulsive liar & what I told her wasn’t true. That I made stories up in my head. I have children of my own now and it’s very scary. I’m scared everyday & pray so hard God keeps helping me break generational curses. My grandma was raped and so was my mom and her siblings & I was molested & I stopped it from happening to my siblings when they were with me I protected them. I will not have that because molestation is wrong & so is rape. I was in diapers when it happened to me. Also 5 also 11, 12 by men my mom brought into the house as well. My mom to the day is on crack cocaine. I salute this women no matter what she is trying. God pls continue to bless her as we as women battle these traumatizing events. 🙏🏾💕 also thank you for sharing your story 🫶🏾🤞🏾
I was molested at 9 and was not believed. It was ignored like it didn’t mean nothing. I cried when this young lady was talking. God bless her and her journey.
god damn that mother awful...like wth. :( That poor daughter had to go through hell :( thats fucked up. Feel bad for those poor babies that died too though :(
I don't know if the father new how bad it was at his exes. Thats probably why she favored her dad. He had a more stable relationship with him and her step mom. She probably hated going back home. And like the defendant said, the mom would basically threaten her if she were to say about what was going on in the home that cps would take her away and separate her from her siblings and father. It was the mother who drummed this into her daughters mind. Manipulation and control only lasted so long.
Considering that the daughter has an excellent relationship with her father, I don't see how you could say that he's also at fault when it seems like he didn't know what was going on under her mother's roof.
This mother is totally jealous of her daughter. She is beautiful and takes better care of her children than she did. Being molested is one of the hardest things to tell, been there some that
“I got a GED, me and you we’re about the same” Literally the judge such a fair and kind hearted person. We aren’t all fortunate to have an education , life gets hard and we don’t all live in the same conditions and circumstances. Any form of education is a blessing. Just because she didn’t graduate from high school doesn’t mean she’s UNEDUCATED or that her GED is not as much of an ACCOMPLISHMENT.
It’s downright pitiful and trifling when your own daughter announces in open court that she doesn’t want to be anything like you. To add insult to injury, the daughter holds up her stepmother-her stepmother!!-as the ideal parent. You know, if you tell the truth the first time, you don’t have to “back up” and try to remember and attempt to keep your lies straight. Equally shameful is minimizing the abuse. There is a reason the daughter became sexualized at such an early age.
"She hates me because I look like my father - she taught me to HATE him because SHE had a one night stand with him." - This hit. This hurt. I'm still drying my eyes from this. This kind of complex plagues so many families where the mother is raising children wherein every time the mother looks at them, she's instantly reminded of the man she hates. And instead of regulating her own emotions, she ends up trying groom the child as an extension of what was likely an already toxic relationship, and then straight demonizes the child when they break away, try to break away or do anything that even slightly suggests that they want to break away.
I was sexually abused at the age of 4 so I can understand her pain. I also didn’t talk to my mom because we didn’t have the best relationship, and she had a similar reaction. Love yourself, choose you always. Regardless if anyone chooses to stand with you
Yes Ma'am this is definitely TRUE! My twin sister and I have been thru something similar all of our lives ! Our mother is definitely jealous of me ...we have an astranged relationship NOW! We WE'RE molested by her friends son and she refused to believe Us. My mother had male friends always came by the house looking at Us when we were smaller back then we tried telling her but she would curse us out tell us we were being too grown and go too our room , it's just sick 😷🤢 seeing her story brought back things that I had pushed in the back of my mind and I am glad I watched this because now I know it was wrong and I wasn't alone! 🙏💞❤️🤕😭👍
@@nicolenixon5692 Aww you are not alone, l am 62 yrs old and I still have flash backs of family member that tried to Molest me, the Psychological impact affected me for along time, and I can tell you Don't let anyone still your Spirit Baby.Peace
@@cynthiasolomon6383 Thank you so much ❤️💐🙏, it's sad but I try to live and be positive and I did the best thing ever by getting saved a few years back it really bought peace 🕊️✌️ too my mind, body and Soul. I just try to forgive and let go and let God, but I know I will flashback at times too as you mentioned but when I do , I just remember that I am a Survivor we all Are we just have to remember that it wasn't our fault. God bless you 💕😉 and thank you for your story 🤗💓 .
As a victim of sexual assault, this is very heartbreaking to hear, as a daughter and a mother! This hurts so much to hear this lady belittle her own flesh and blood. I pray that she gets better and I hope the daughter has been able to properly heal from all of the trauma she has experienced
@@themoonbleu627 same to you 😊💪🙌.I learned how to deal with people this way. If my momma treats me like this, then what do other people do!!! #NOTTRYNAFINDOUT💪
@@kamododragon256 worried about the wrong things smh... clearly she didn't care about her daughter so you think she cares about grandchildren... she was a horrible mother period
@@kamododragon256 you more concerned about her aborting a clump of cells then the GROWN ASS MEN who were touching her at the age of 4 UNDER THE MOMS CARE... I hope you never have a damn child
That mother is pathetic, no accountability what so ever, I had to stop myself from crying towards the end, I’m so glad she is on her journey to breaking the cycle. I pray god blesses her 10 times over.
The stepmother is gorgeous! I’m so glad the defendant has someone on her side that believes her! God bless them all! I hope that sister gets the healing she needs!
I went through a similar situation with my stepdaughter. Her mother didn’t believe her when she told her. It broke my heart to see the hurt in her face when she asked me “Why doesn’t my mother believe me?” 💔 Fast forward, we have had her in therapy and she is progressing 🙏🏾. Parents, PLEASE BELIEVE YOUR CHILDREN when they tell you!
As a survivor of molestation, I can tell you that my parents believed me. My heart hurts for this child still stuck in trying to get her womb donor to believe her. 😢😢😢😢
The fact the Judge Mathis took her G.E.D. to frame it and put in his office showed how much he valued this young woman’s achievements, that were undervalued by her mother. This case made me tear up 😔
Her momma is trifling and I’m glad she got the JM WRATH!!! “You’re finished!” Much love to the young lady that stood there and stood her ground! 👏🏽 ❤️💯
The mother is just pure evil. Imagine she believes the molesters more than her own daughter. I am still shocked. I respect Judge Mathias for calling the mother out for her bullshit.
Kudos to Judge Mathis for framing her GED and putting it in his office!! That made me cry… I hope she does start that group for molested children and I wish her blessings, prosperity and success!!!
The daughter said at case’s end that she stood with every abused child, and that she was starting a walk for such a cause. Has anyone determined whether or not such a walk, or even a support website, was started by her and is taking place? This woman needs to be supported in her mission…
I love Judge Mathis. Taking the GED certificate to hang in his office was so sweet and kind. That beautiful woman was still a child trying to get recognition from her mother and did not get it, but Judge Mathis gave her more than that. He gave her respect, love and compassion, and that was great. My heart goes out to him and her.
Some of y’all are more worried about that she had abortions rather than the fact she was abused and molested. Shows what our world has really come to. Edit: Abortion isn’t murder. I do not care what you think and you’re wasting your time commenting your opinion and trying to argue with me. Go tell your therapist not me 😁
@@kay22100 she was a child herself. Had she kept those children, by the time she was a legal adult she would’ve been responsible for four dependents and statistically would’ve been worse off due to her circumstances and upbringing. She explained she was going through enough as it was so she did what was right for her so she could give herself and her other kids a fighting chance at life. instead of commending and displaying compassion towards this young lady for her bravery and perseverance you use it as opportunity to get on your soapbox. Your comment is evil and ignorant.
Both are bad. And the abrlortins wer discussed 1st. It is absolutely terrible what happend with that young lady. I don't judge her but I dont think abortion is good for women or obviously babies
This is so sad, and happens often unfortunately. I'm glad Judge Mathis saw right through this horrible Mother. She chose to turn a blind eye on her daughter being molested smh. I'm glad the daughter is healing and has support.
@@reecespieces9740 it’s on Netflix.. she went on to become a UFC champ but she had a bunch of problems with drinking, toxics relationships and some other trauma.. she got it together tho.. the mother in this case should have gotten her daughter some help. She was so worried ab the Daugter telling on her as a child but she brought this trauma before the world for a damn $$$ 🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️
@@K_Cole0128 Oh! I seen this on Netflix..with Halle Berry. I didn't know this was the one you were mentioning. I plan on watching it. Yes this story has some personal experiences for me as well. The fact is, the Mother was too arrogant to understand that what's done in the dark, will come to the light. She got exposed today, and the daughter won. The daughter needs to forgive her Mother and release her.
We stand with you! You are proof that AMAZING PEOPLE come out of horrible situations. You are bright and beautiful even with your own mom trying to bring you down. The fact that you didn’t curl up in a ball and just quit I have so much damn respect for you. Please continue to share your knowledge/experience with people.
the fact that her daughter went through all this and she can say no it didnt happen like that and not blink an eye about it but is quick to expose her daughter's pregnancies is saying alot about her character to me
I get sick, and tired of hearing about kids being molested. Parents, need to take a stand with their kids and stop with not believing them. You don't know what kids go through without getting professional help for the ordeal. Some end up on drugs, being an alcoholic, becoming abusers themselves, selling their body, they becoming sex addicts, and they may commit suicide. I myself was molested, and I never told my parents. I went to my guidance counselor, and told her what happen. Keeping it in only eat you up inside. I still have some problems. I'm glad i went to get some help as I would probably not be here today. God is good always...
Some moms are in denial with "You were never molested. He doesn't want you. I was molested as a child. I know what type of guy would do that. He's not that type. You're lying." They know it happened. Instead of doing something, they quietly wallow in self pity and publicly show hatred to the victim.
This story hit real close. As a victim of molestation at a young age (and I wasn’t the only victim of this man), my mother just thinking I was being “fast” and keeping my dad out of my life until I was about 16/17 and even to this day trying to make all of her kids look bad but your the one doing wrong 🤦🏾♀️. I pray for all victims of not only sexual abuse but also any and all abuse from their parents .
This story absolutely breaks my heart as a mother, a black woman and also being from Detroit. Drugs have absolutely destroyed families in my city and still continues to this day.
"I had 4 kids, and i never had to do that".....then you never did what you had to do to raise and protect your children. Bless her stepmother for being a mom to this strong young lady.
the mother was tryna sweet talk the judge in the beginning in hopes he would believe the lies she was about to spew... she doesnt deserve her daughter calling her ma
Small world!!! I follow Tierra on Instagram and you never know what somebody really going through! She does great hair and make up too. So proud of her!
@Tierra Reese I just watched your story Tiara we use to work together in the bar and was cool. I’m so proud of you for sharing your story to the world. You are so brave and strong. Continue to do great things God bless you sis and you’re children. 🙏🏽❤️
I hope Tierra reads this comment. You are a brave young woman , you should hold your head high . The biological female has a not worth one of your tears . X
Stay strong Tierra. God has your back and so do we!! No one is perfect but God forgives!!!!!! “I speak healing and prosperity over your children and your lives!” 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🥲🥲🥲🥲
So glad the judge saw straight thru that narcissist mother!! Having an extremely toxic mother myself, and it being a family generational curse, I can sadly relate to this daughter. You GO GIRL!! You've got a level head on your shoulders, and are a hard working mother to your kids. Sounds like you've worked through a lot of trauma regarding your Mom, in order to break free from that curse and see the truth! Girl, when the judge let you speak your piece at the end, I sure hope it felt as good as it looked!! Cause it was awesome! We daughters of NMs know there's not many occasions to REALLY speak our piece to our N.Moms, cause they just interrupt over you to the point of screaming or acting all dramatic, then start twisting things around (Gaslighting) till you can't see the road anymore. I'll sometimes get surprised and just lose my train of thought while trying to stand my ground against NM, because I'm so utterly shocked and dumbfounded at some of her crazy accusations. They live in their own fairy tale world where they are the undisputed queen of everything. So yeah, good for you girl for getting to have your say ( and for that judge giving you the space to do it!). Sadly, it won't have any effect on her, but damm it must've felt great!
I have a gaslighting, narcissistic mother too. 3 years ago I cut off all contact with her. I could never treat my children the way she did me. 3 years ago she started in on my kids and I was done! My life is so much more peaceful now.
I closed my eyes as I listened to your story and relived my own...I'm so proud of you, "generational curses" must be broken and it's takes absolute strength from God to do so. Keep on rising to the Top my sister💞
This brings back memories for me. My mom is the same as this woman’s mother. I was raped at 15 and I tried to get law enforcement to help me, but my mom told the police that I was a liar and a “fast girl”…so they stopped investigating!And it’s not fair to me that they stopped investigating because of her. I had to put this to the back of my mind & forget this ever happened and idk it’s making me tear up thinking about this. Just the fact that my mom could be so hurtful towards me. I actually had a son from this. Then She kicked me out of the house pregnant at 15 years old to go live in a group home smh. Then she wonders why today at 31 years old, why I’m so damn angry with her. She’s a narcissist and portrays a “Christian Woman” but is the opposite. I feel the hate from my mother too.
I'm sorry you had to deal with this. My ex partner raped me and when I told my mom she didn't say anything. He was her drug dealer so she didn't want to interfere with that. Thankfully I have moved beyond this and I'm getting better on my own
Whenever someone is hyper sexual at a young age, it usually stems from sexual molestation/ abuse and trauma. So i believe her 100%.
Yes, and so many people choose to overlook that fact. Instead, they wanna call the girls “fast” without even wondering *why* they’re doing what they’re doing.
@@NubianP6 exactly. When the mother was speaking about all of her pregnancies from 14 and up, i immediately thought molestation. So sad that the mom is trying to deflect and down play her experience instead of getting her help
I was going to say this. And instead of taking them to therapy and getting to the root of the issue they call them fast and talk down on them and beat them as if they’re not worthy. It’s always been weird how ppl will shame young girls for being hyper sexual, but never actually get them the help they may need.
Excellent point! The evil men do to little girls and women. 👹👹👹👹 world. I hate this world for that alone.
Yes, And as adults, we have to protect and understand our children with love and communication.
"defamation of character" is hard to claim when you get on TV and the first thing you do is air out your own daughters teenage abortions. Be a better mother
That was completely uncalled for. She wanted to humiliate her daughter on national tv. Except what she did was show herself as a cruel, uncaring, narcissistic person.
@@raimeyewens7518Yes! The mom wanted to embarrass her daughter because she is jealous of her!
She really wanted that deformation case but showed her real character.. even when the grand baby said “who’s side are you on”😢
@@raimeyewens7518 she wanted to do that and thought the judge and public would be in agreement with her
Exactly. She is suing her daughter for defamation of character and yet she is trashing her own daughter's character because of what she allowed to have happened to the child when she was only four years old.
Him taking her GED and saying he’s gonna put it in his office made me tear up I love him‼️
Yes-that was amazing! She needed to see someone else support her like her stepmom did. I wish all the best for her and her children. ♥
Yeah her crying for her mom to acknowledge the GED right before was tough
Me too!!!
Got damn...she said you want my GED ma you wanna take my GED and frame it...I WIll...give that lady sumn to get out of bed about every mornin..not only did he emphasize wit her when she needed it but he willing to uplift her too...everyday she wake up and that GED ain in her house she kno it's in judge Mathis office...hell most folks parents won't even put they child GED on the fireplace or the living room tabel...she kno hers somewhere where prolly on his and his kids or grandkids at
Me to God bless him
This young lady had the roughest upbringing. Yet, she’s being sued by the mother who didn’t protect her. Some nerve!
EXACTLY. It blows my mind!!! Disgusting
I already figured judge was gonna find a reason to dismiss the mother’s case anyway the same way he did with that white mother who antagonized her daughter and ignored her being abused.
Exactly 😭😭
Exactly! She ruined her daughters childhood with her neglect and drug use and is STILL bothering her!
My thoughts exactly!
The stepmother is EVERYTHING! Doesn’t even sound like she’s married to her dad anymore and she still loves and appreciates her ! That’s everything!!!!
She said she's been there since she was a baby.. Said she sent the girl out the house a trifling mess.. WHY DIDN'T SHE ENCOURAGE HER HUSBAND TO GET CUSTODY OF HIS CHILD... WHEN SEVERE NEGLECT WAS OBVIOUS????
Brings up the question was not the dad unstable too? SAD
@@INDIGO.GODDESS_573 how do you know she didn’t? If anything why isn’t that energy being brought to the father considering that is HIS child he brought into this world?
I agree.
Gosh! No child deserves to live like that.
My daughter was molested at 5 and she told me about it immediately and not for one second did I not believe her. The man who did it is currently locked up for 26 years. Always believe your children first. My heart goes out to the young lady and I give prayers for healing. That mother is the perfect example of what not to be
I love you so much for this comment ❤️
And I don’t know u
You know what, that is SO honest and raw. it's a normal human flaw to believe someone over what you think you know, and find out different. You chose to change your mind AND try to make amends AND let others know that they're not alone, and it doesn't make them a terrible horrible evil one-sided person. That's bravery.
This mother didn't give a f-. I'm glad that judge flipped out at her. It hurts that it won't affect her ~at all.~ She'll walk away thinking that nothing was HER fault and that everyone else is just Against Her. That's a personality disorder that destroys everyone around her.
You are amazing more people need to be like this in this world
Good. U protected his other future victims
Her step mom is going off about her step daughter and I'm here for it! She spoke so many positive things about her and that goes to show that a child doesn't have to be biologically yours for you to love them as your own.
Absolutely
Exactly. Her biological mother isn’t doing nothing but throwing all her dirt in her face smh.
And that sometimes, the apple rolls all the fucking way down the hill and far as fuck away from the tree. She couldn’t be anything less like her biological mother. She protects her children.
Love this comment
@@porschemcginnis2764 agree with you! Blood means nothing, it is love, caring, respect and being there. I was adopted by my stepfather who raised as his own and I am so grateful!
The judge insisting on using “she chose her health” made me cry.
Such a sensitive man and important wording choice to support the defendant.
Na at least she's being honest. Because that's what it is.
@@littlelily831 Yes. “Getting rid of the baby” is exactly what it is! It isn’t “choosing her health” like this ignorant judge said. So having a baby was going to make her physically sick or incapable of living or what?
I thought this judge was smarter than this.
@@BS-dq1kz it was also being considerate of the audience physically and watching on screens like we are because it can be a trigger for some. Also, you CAN become physically sick and incapable of your previous everyday lifestyle after childbirth. It's just not talked about as much as it should
@@BS-dq1kz preach.
@@BS-dq1kz yes at 14 15 16 ect would be bad for her health she would have just started puberty not to mention her mental health and the physical and metal up bringing her child would be living in
This behavior is cyclical. As the daughter mentioned, her grandmother did the same to her mother. Kudos to the daughter for choosing to do the work and breaking this toxic generational curse.
Am not surprised the mother behaved that way probably she was raised by pple who did same and sees no big deal about neglecting their kids
That curse needed to be broken.
Curse? No one put voodoo on this family. Everything they did was a choice they made themselves!! The daughter CHOSE to take a different path. Choices. Choices are we make for ourselves and our own lives. Let’s stop giving glory to a so called “curse” and hold individuals accountable for their behavior.
@@thesun-N-moon8885 Generational curse is a saying it's not literal. I guess a cycle is more accurate term. It means folks repeating abusive behavior because it is what was done to them. It's common and takes work to break. Glad the daughter isn't repeating what happened to her.
@@jaydub4661 maybe if we call things what they are instead of using victim mentality terms the younger generation would understand that our parents had choices and chose to continue on a path of destruction and will choose a better path… We gotta stop telling our kids they is cursed…..
Judge Mathis a real one for framing her GED in his office.
Yes that was very noble
He's just very emotional tbh. It's like the older he gets the more emotional he becomes.
its such a simple but powerful thing. hes always been compassionate with women who have endured abuse
That whack ass mama didnt even wanna hear it
Yeah, hes quite the good guy!
I'm so happy she had her stepmother. Strong women.
Yess me too. I wish her everlasting blessings and prosperity 💖💖💖🙏🏽
I would say take the Step off that's her true Mother.. ❤️
@@theriri1512 facts
Ohh she is wrong ( the mother) said? Because u was one to . When they were on Crack????
The mother was dead to the left damn wrong
The AUDACITY of the biological mother to take her daughter to court for calling her a bad mother when she's STILL being a bad mother. I'm glad to know all her church friends will see and hear about this episode.
Exactly!!!
You sure not lying all of Michigan watches all judge shows Mathis is 1# then detroiters fashoo go shun this 💯
I know that's right
Amen to that!!!
The step mother ; I love her . The support she showed her have me in tears
I think she is a good stepmother but I really feel like her father should have done something if he knew his child was being mistreated
I'm glad her stepmother and dad had her back
Nothing step about her she’s a real mother 🥰💟
@@lisai2110 you gotta remember that she never spoke on it until she was with her father & conceived her first child. She didn’t want to be separated from her siblings. She was definitely a strong resilient girl to go through all that. I wonder if he knew about the abortions tho.
@@patronadre5573 PLEASE say it again! She's not her stepmother, she's the mother who stepped up! I love their relationship. May God bless & keep you all uplifted!❤❤
This one made me tear up when he said he'd frame her diploma. All she wanted was love and acceptance from her mom. But she doesn't even like her own daughter. So sad.
The mama is so sad
Sad af
She can't love anything or anyone!! Unfortunately, the mother has been through far worst than the daughter. The daughter said it "break generational..,..' the mom been molested and whatever she been through was abusive, which is why she is detached and toxic. 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
Yeah you could tell right away, after the daughter spilled the tea and the judge went back to the Mom ( and I use that word loosely) and started asking her questions she acted like she forgot what her daughter just said.. "What she say?" But the judge recalled.. 🙄 wow what a joke..
@@genakenjackson8706 so very tru
Bless her! I've been molested by my mother's husband, beaten by my father, abused by my grandparents, raped twice by strangers, gone to war in the US Navy and continue to have lifelong mental health issues. I've attempted suicide 3 times because I have a hard time believing I am worthy of love. Abusers of children deserve death, because they ruin a child's life! I'm so proud of this young women. It's the hardest thing to voice thr abuse you endure while looking at the abuser or person supposed to love and protect you. Step mom is an angel for being an actual mom to this lady. 💗 GOD BLESS
😥😥😥❤️🩹❤️🩹💐💐💐
You are definitely worthy of love. It's just too bad we can't choose our parents. I hope you've found some peace and self-love now, and if you haven't yet, I really hope you get there.
At 23 my father asked me to do the most disgusting act as we were discussing my marriage the next week. I was so furious, he molested me a couple times when I was a child. He died the day after I got married. I married an alcoholic. I had no self esteem. I am disabled, now I am a widow of 3 years, I met a good man after my divorce from the alcoholic, it to me 14 years to leave and divorce him. I was the bread winner. My late husband was good to me and he was everything to me and we were married 22 years. We both were retired, I miss him and yes, I have mental health problems from abuse. It can destroy a child. The hardest part is I believe in God and wonder where my father is in eternity. Not a lot of people go to heaven if they don't repent. I have forgiven them, no, he wasn't the only one that abused me. It haunts me consistently.
Praying for your healing 🙏
God bless you ❤️ I am so sorry for all these horrors that you have been through
Children don’t lie about being molested . This young lady had a very tough childhood ! She’s very damaged ! The Stepmother is very supportive ! I am glad this young lady has someone to support her!
No, a few do but someone taught them that. That is very few. Most are telling the truth. Sadly, I feel when the parent objects too much. When you can investigate and see how much one parent is depending on the accused abuser, you can see why the adults are supporting the liar and going against the child.
@@pennyc11 no child lie about being molested. They repeat lies on behave of someone else.
@@zoedaflower9914 not true, some have lied because they were told to
@@ace_the_creator6614 you literally repeat what I said to claim its not truth?? Lol if A higher authority told them to lie. Who are they lying for?? Themselves or for their parents??
@@zoedaflower9914 I was saying that the first sentence was a lie. And it honestly depends. Some children do seek attention when they feel they aren’t getting enough. Now, ofc, I’m not saying that all children do this cause there are some pretty terrible cases out there but I have read some on a kid lying to get attention.
Mama was lost from jump. Started this case wrong. She went on a rant basically putting down her own child. She didn't even acknowledge she was a prior druggie. Smh continue to do well young lady. Proud of you!!!
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Prior? Judge Mathis agreed he don't think she ever stopped doing drugs.
@@Wrestlinggirl48 u mean he assumes she doesnt that dont mean he is right
@@l.austin2371 The plaintiff was all over the place and was raging from the jump.
A lot of these “moms” do they kids like that. Make they life miserable and then blame them for the few “mistakes” they did make or even worse what they learned from their own mother…
The fact that he’s framing her GED melts my heart 🥺❤
I was molested by several people growing up. My mother knew and didn’t save me. I have mental scars and I’m just now getting therapy for it at 44. I commend this young woman for telling her story.
I’m proud of you
Keep strong lovely lady 🙏🏼
I'm also very proud of you 🤍
My mother has been through the same thing and she’s 45. As a daughter of a strong woman like you, I want to tell you how proud I am of you for finding the beautiful things in life again. And especially for getting the help you need. You deserve to have an amazing life and I hope it continues to go up.
i am so sorry ALL of those adults failed you so bad. you did not deserve that at all
When she mentioned her mother saying “whatever happens in this house stays in this house” I hated when my parents said that shit! Because they knew and know they were doing wrong!
In my experience only child abusers say that. They know they’re wrong and don’t want to get caught.
@@kissit012 Exactly!
@@kissit012 yup it only applies to them tho. When they want to air out our dirty laundry as kids that rule doesn’t apply.
Exactly! Another reason why I knew the mum was lying because growing up most black children had been told that
@@kissit012 9
Really impressed how he corrected her on how the daughter didn’t “get rid of the child” she chose her health. The mother talks about her so crassly
and the judge had to correct her a second time too! the mother said “there was a whole molestation thing” and the judge stopped her and was like “you need to speak on this more respectfully and not diminish what happened”
Sorry for my ignorance, but "she chose her health over the child" is the correct way for saying getting rid of the child or abortion?
@@mistrterrancebutleryes.
@@mistrterrancebutler I think he was just trying to diffuse the tension, you know that saying that a woman got rid of their baby is disrespectful to the woman and the baby especially if she’s standing 2 meters away
@@Gunkle_Jebbut she wasn’t a woman. She was a damaged 14 year old girl engaging in adult activities, because she was the victim of neglect and abuse. She was probably engaging in sexual activities, as a means of looking for love.
To be able to stand up on this public platform and speak about her trauma is so inspiring. She's strong and should be extremely proud of herself ❤
Well if I was paid to be on the show I would speak up on everything to get the most screen time WITH it being ALL TRUE SHIT HAPPEND not make shit up or make it seem worse than it is
@@chrisk6101 they only get paid a few hundred dollars or so. This is not making them rich, so them being paid a few hundred dollars is not enough alone for them to expose their childhood trauma. Have a little more compassion
@@chrisk6101 🙄
@@mscece1900 lmfao clearly you haven't seen the real way the world is ain't nobody gonna have compassion for you when you bitch and complain and not try to do shit to make it better I have my issues n shit but don't hear me crying and bitching I keep moving forward and not look back
@@eloahnon4952 lol keep Rollin those eyes can't even say nothing just an emoji 😂💀
The daughter is fumbling, she shaking. . . It seems as if she's about to have a panic attack right there, you can tell this was extremely traumatic for her. Although it seems as if she's doing okay these are things you can never recover from and truly get over. I just hope she can find some peace just sickening what that lady did and let happen
If she was molested why doesn't she get a lier detectors test to prove she isn't living I just think she wants love from people because her mother didn't give it to her
@@shanelldent7975 unless u been raped please dont do that because this is the reason why people dont say nothing i got raped at 16 by my cuzin and u wont believe how people who raised me who watch me grow up and change my pamper say oh he just trying to get his life back in order fuck his life wat about minds the dream the ptsd that comes with it so why should she get one y couldnt the dude get one everytime u remember and tell ur story how hard it is how much it drain u
@@shanelldent7975 It's a shame that a traumatic event and the psychological and physiological aftermath isn't enough...let's further burden the victim by making them jump through more hoops 🤦🏾♀️....instead of a parent just believing and supporting their CHILDREN. She already made a statement. You would think an adult would be empathetic to what a child has endured. It's sad how you require nothing from the accused...
@@shanelldent7975 how could u say something like that?
@@CosmicSoul333 burden the victim? You do understand a judge could have this done right it wouldn't be purposely burdening the victim if that person attorney request that it could very well happen. We really gone sit here and pretend like kids aren't coach to lie?? Not saying this is the case her but it definitely happens far more than people care to acknowledge
The mother blaming her daughter for the way she was raise. MAAM! YOU RAISED HER!! This poor girl
Being a victim of sexual abuse, I feel for this young lady. I grew up in fear and to this day fear remains. Having people out here who don’t protect their children is sickening. I’m glad that you was brave enough to tell your story. Keep your head up sis
I pray God, Our Father. Keep u, and bring U peace.
YOU are resilience personified too sis! She told her story and u have shared yours. YOU have set someone free...TRUST. Thank you for your transparency.
I’m a victim of sexual abuse my self and to have a mother not believe you and use u for money it’s one of the hardest thing in the world
@@chamyriamcnair365 i believe you
I know how she feels. My mother was with him since I was 2 he started when I was 9 until I was able to fight back and tell at 13. My mother wrapped her hands around my throat and slammed me against the wall screaming he didn't do it when the police told her. She is still with him to this day.
I like this judge.
"She chose to protect her health instead of carrying a child."
Yes. She was a child herself.
"She chose her health over having the child."
You can't put something in quotes without quoting it exactly. It's like a rule and stuff. ♥️
@@TheRandomINFJ ..💀 that’s not important in this comment section
Same. I love this "ain't having this for even a minute" attitude. A kid this young acting sexual usually stems from trauma, if not grooming to be an adult already. Needing attention and this is the way to get it. Exactly like the girl said: mom puts her down all the time, controlling, abusive. She was molested. THEN she gets blamed for the NORMAL OUTCOME of these things, and then she's an awful, horrible, depraved person for not having birth after birth after birth as a young teenager. wtf. That girl couldn't do NOTHING right.
Bullshit that's him being a good judge and a good person it ain't protecting her health she took the wrong road in life and she killed a child because she was mature enough to go around fucking men but didn't want to be mature enough to stop her lifestyle to care for another humans life... Because God forbid if a young woman has a child that's just so wrong because she's a child herself but nobody talks about how wrong it is that these little ass girls are going around acting like grown women not knowing how to conduct themselves as grown women and not knowing how to protect themselves as grown women are supposed to do so to me that's an excuse if you're going to act like a grown woman or a grown person PERIOD then you need to conduct yourself as such... PERIOD!!!
THAT BABY DIDN'T ASK TO BE BORN INTO THIS WORLD SO IT SHOULD NOT HAVE TO BE STRIPPED OF GOOD AND BAD LIFE EXPERIENCES BECAUSE IT'S AN INCONVENIENCE TO YOU WHEN YOU WERE DOING SOME SHIT YOU WEREN'T SUPPOSED TO DO TO BEGIN WITH AND CAN'T NOBODY CONVINCE ME OTHERWISE I DON'T GIVE A SHIT IF SHE WAS A CHILD SHE SHOULD HAVE BEEN ACTING LIKE A CHILD NOT HAVING SEX AT THAT AGE
It’s murder! No matter how much sugar you put on it. Her mother caused her own daughter to commit murder
I grew up with a mom who was a single mom. She was emotionally detached from us all so we basically raised ourselves. For years I felt like my mom didn’t care about us. That shit hurts you sometimes especially since my dad is a deadbeat. Black mothers please love on your kids 💕 we need it.
Sorry that happened to you ❤️
My mom is finally getting counseling. My mom had a hard life and went through a lot. Forgive your mom…that’s the only way that you won’t pass this to your children. Generational curses are real.
This. My mother found out and told me, "if you're lieing your going to get him in big trouble so.." and never looked into it.. honestly seemed more annoyed I said something... black mothers can be sometimes the opposite of what we as black daughters, need...
I make it a priority to love on my son no matter how I'm feeling or what I have going on in my life. Being a single Mom isn't easy, but our children deserve to have that love. I also instill in him it's okay to talk to me about ANYTHING AT ANY TIME!
Most times, those parents grew up with MAJOR traumas that was never spoke about. They love their kids but don't know HOW to express love. I'm sorry, sis!!! You are everything!!!!!
What hurts me about this case (for the defendant), is even after EVERYTHING this trash-minded mother has put this beautiful young woman through, the daughter STILL aches for Mom to love her. God, please continue to wrap your arms around the defendant (&her support).
Yes I felt that too.
The need for a child's parents will never die... that's why abuse to this degree is so devastating. I feel her pain deeply.
Through Christ, all is possible!
@@tmat2024 Amen!
She needs counseling.
When she said “you want my GED ma”, I felt that. The pleading in her voice looking for recognition from the mother that just walked out and ignored her. Young lady bless you. You are more than your circumstances.
I liked that the judge framed it and put it in his office.❤️
@@notsuperhumain Same. I cried. 💗
There is a special place in my heart for that stepmother. She doesn't judge or discourage that young lady in any way. In fact she stand right by her side and understands the struggles that she has been through, and will be there to support her in the ways that she can. You can tell how much that woman loves her step-daughter. That is what a true mother is, it isn't separated by blood.
Her testimony was so powerful so raw and real. There is no way you can fake that as a lie. This woman really lived this horribly abuse and I'm so proud of her coming out of it as a proud human standing on her two feet providing for her family and being a valuable member of her society.
Very
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Oh you can definitely fake it but but BUT I do not think she was.
Exactly! I have a similar story … I felt her pain
@@evp159 She was not faking her emotions. They were very real.
“Were you on crack “ took me out 😭😭😭
This whole situation is heartbreaking. Her mother didn’t go hard enough for her and she gives off too many toxic vibes. Shout out to the stepmom ❤️
The fact that he kept asking had me on the floor 😭 "sounds like a crackhead to me" 😭
Crack head tendencies
I wasn’t trying to laugh but this took me out 😭
A minute of her talking and I was shocked how careless she was with and about her child’s life
@@SoloLeaux Yet she had the gall to sue for defamation of character. What character?
I love how the step mom was quiet the whole time until it was time to talk. She didn’t get combative about them allegations. She knew the truth - so she didn’t have to get an attitude. Said they prayed about it. Praise God for her. The girl is better off.
The daughter had 4 pregnancies before 17🙄🙄🥺🥺😒😒. The mother is to blame for a lot of this.
Why not the father also?
@@antwanpenn3316 Yes. I take it this young lady has never known her father at all.
@@queenleorobi8253 her father moved in with her at one point. She said she was close with him and the mother was jealous of their relationship. So I'm assuming they both probably neglected her in some way but for some reason she is closer to her father.
What I said. And the idiot had the nerve to sue her daughter for slander when she shouldn't have even been a mother in the first place.
@@queenleorobi8253 Where you get that from?
As a Black Man, I’ve teared up watching this Sister tell her pain. Shame on ANY parent that allows these horrific events from happening to their child. In prayer to all who’ve been traumatized in this form of abuse. 🙏🏾
Thank you so much
@@niyahlia3135 Wait, you're one of the participants on the show?
I appreciate that as aCSA survivor thank you for caring
its not just being black,,its all colors that go thru this,,,,but,,,i understand your statement..;;;;i dont see color ,,,you are my brother and she is my sister in the lord
@@thanksfornoticingme9846 He never said it was so go somewhere else with that nonsense
The audacity of the “mother” to sue her daughter when she failed her so many times 💔💔💔
She (The Biological Mother) came through the door trying to embarrass her daughter on national television and it backfired horribly!💔💯🚨
If you ever see this Tierra please know that you are loved, celebrated and honored over here. Your story is heartbreaking but incredibly powerful. ♥️
@Tierra Reese How are you and the kids right now?❤️
I second EVERY word The Princess Lifestyle said. Beautiful words. May God continue to uplift & bless you.❤🌹
@Tierra Reese be encouraged to be the mother YOU never had.
@Tierra Reese very proud of you and I hope you keep doing what you can to achieve your goals.
@Tierra Reese If you are ever in Baltimore! DRINKS AND FOOD ON ME SIS❤️❤️❤️
I’ve been molested by my own father and my babysitter’s kids. Which were like 6 years older then me. Ended up going through therapy because I started repeating things done to me on other kids, Didn’t know it was wrong. At the time I was told by my mother I was a compulsive liar & what I told her wasn’t true. That I made stories up in my head. I have children of my own now and it’s very scary. I’m scared everyday & pray so hard God keeps helping me break generational curses. My grandma was raped and so was my mom and her siblings & I was molested & I stopped it from happening to my siblings when they were with me I protected them. I will not have that because molestation is wrong & so is rape. I was in diapers when it happened to me. Also 5 also 11, 12 by men my mom brought into the house as well. My mom to the day is on crack cocaine. I salute this women no matter what she is trying. God pls continue to bless her as we as women battle these traumatizing events. 🙏🏾💕 also thank you for sharing your story 🫶🏾🤞🏾
You are everything ❤
@@kizzyrock thank you 🙏🏾
🫂 thanks for speaking up for us that can't..
She made me cry telling her story. I am so proud of her. I hope she gets healing and her mom too.
Lord
Me too..I hope she continues to be strong and to strive. She is beautiful and brave
I was molested at 9 and was not believed. It was ignored like it didn’t mean nothing. I cried when this young lady was talking. God bless her and her journey.
I wish you continued healing
I'm so sorry that you were not believed. I believe you and I'm sorry that it happened. ❤
I'm really sorry you went thru this
@@evilsquirrel5214 thank you ❤️
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i actually cried when she went on her speech to speak up for those who are not beloved by their family. omg this was a emotional episode
I feel so bad for the daughter. I blame the mother and the father for allowing the abuse and the dysfunction. It’s painful to hear this.
Thanks she is my god mom
This situation is so common
god damn that mother awful...like wth. :( That poor daughter had to go through hell :( thats fucked up. Feel bad for those poor babies that died too though :(
I don't know if the father new how bad it was at his exes. Thats probably why she favored her dad. He had a more stable relationship with him and her step mom. She probably hated going back home. And like the defendant said, the mom would basically threaten her if she were to say about what was going on in the home that cps would take her away and separate her from her siblings and father. It was the mother who drummed this into her daughters mind. Manipulation and control only lasted so long.
Considering that the daughter has an excellent relationship with her father, I don't see how you could say that he's also at fault when it seems like he didn't know what was going on under her mother's roof.
This mother is totally jealous of her daughter. She is beautiful and takes better care of her children than she did. Being molested is one of the hardest things to tell, been there some that
Beautiful is a stretch
@@queencharlibee1991 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@_MoneyMike_ right, like what??!! 🤣🤣😂🤭
“I got a GED, me and you we’re about the same”
Literally the judge such a fair and kind hearted person. We aren’t all fortunate to have an education , life gets hard and we don’t all live in the same conditions and circumstances. Any form of education is a blessing. Just because she didn’t graduate from high school doesn’t mean she’s UNEDUCATED or that her GED is not as much of an ACCOMPLISHMENT.
It’s downright pitiful and trifling when your own daughter announces in open court that she doesn’t want to be anything like you. To add insult to injury, the daughter holds up her stepmother-her stepmother!!-as the ideal parent. You know, if you tell the truth the first time, you don’t have to “back up” and try to remember and attempt to keep your lies straight. Equally shameful is minimizing the abuse.
There is a reason the daughter became sexualized at such an early age.
I haven't even watched this yet, but, coming from someone with a toxic mother, it is IMPERATIVE to break generational curses. It's horrible.
Yes I pray for your battle sis . You got this 🙏🏾💕❤️
@@queentrina7222 Thank you.
I swear... I see you all over the same channels I watch lol
@@benirpierre2671 Really? 👋
@@danabryant6138 lol yep. Apparently we have similar taste or TH-cam recommends the same things to us lol
"She hates me because I look like my father - she taught me to HATE him because SHE had a one night stand with him." - This hit. This hurt. I'm still drying my eyes from this. This kind of complex plagues so many families where the mother is raising children wherein every time the mother looks at them, she's instantly reminded of the man she hates. And instead of regulating her own emotions, she ends up trying groom the child as an extension of what was likely an already toxic relationship, and then straight demonizes the child when they break away, try to break away or do anything that even slightly suggests that they want to break away.
It’s real! I was given up and when u came back to my mom she abused me because of it
I was sexually abused at the age of 4 so I can understand her pain. I also didn’t talk to my mom because we didn’t have the best relationship, and she had a similar reaction. Love yourself, choose you always. Regardless if anyone chooses to stand with you
Hope your doing well queen. Stay strong 🙏🏼
Same experience for me, May God give her strength to overcome.
Sending you tons of love and healing, I hope you’re doing better🙏🏾
Always I hope that you get over and conquer all bad coming out formed against you!
May you continue to be blessed 💐
When she said..SHE DON'T LIKE ME...I felt that and can relate..some mothers definitely do not like or are jealous of their daughters
Yes that broke my ❤.Peace
Yes Ma'am this is definitely TRUE! My twin sister and I have been thru something similar all of our lives ! Our mother is definitely jealous of me ...we have an astranged relationship NOW! We WE'RE molested by her friends son and she refused to believe Us. My mother had male friends always came by the house looking at Us when we were smaller back then we tried telling her but she would curse us out tell us we were being too grown and go too our room , it's just sick 😷🤢 seeing her story brought back things that I had pushed in the back of my mind and I am glad I watched this because now I know it was wrong and I wasn't alone! 🙏💞❤️🤕😭👍
@@nicolenixon5692 Aww you are not alone, l am 62 yrs old and I still have flash backs of family member that tried to Molest me, the Psychological impact affected me for along time, and I can tell you Don't let anyone still your Spirit Baby.Peace
@@cynthiasolomon6383 Thank you so much ❤️💐🙏, it's sad but I try to live and be positive and I did the best thing ever by getting saved a few years back it really bought peace 🕊️✌️ too my mind, body and Soul. I just try to forgive and let go and let God, but I know I will flashback at times too as you mentioned but when I do , I just remember that I am a Survivor we all Are we just have to remember that it wasn't our fault. God bless you 💕😉 and thank you for your story 🤗💓 .
@@nicolenixon5692 Amen, we are Survivors, and Happy Holidays baby.Peace
As a victim of sexual assault, this is very heartbreaking to hear, as a daughter and a mother! This hurts so much to hear this lady belittle her own flesh and blood. I pray that she gets better and I hope the daughter has been able to properly heal from all of the trauma she has experienced
I'm really sorry you went thru this.
I stand with the daughter and I believe everything she's saying.
This. Family. Needs. JESUS
The. Mother. needs. help. ASAP.
Thanks. This. JUDGE
The poor mom doesn’t realized she’s traumatizing her own daughter as well with the phone call ? Wow
My mother 🙎I just turned 40 November 1st. Diagnosed with MS at 16, took away from family and friends at 18. I need her but I also need my sanity
@@shantellcobb7067 wow I’m sorry my mother was crazy as well … bless your heart ❤️
Agreed. Her child shouldn't have been privy to any of that. 😢
@@themoonbleu627 same to you 😊💪🙌.I learned how to deal with people this way. If my momma treats me like this, then what do other people do!!! #NOTTRYNAFINDOUT💪
Poor mom hell
You can tell this young lady was completely truthful. The mother sounds very heartless . Really sad.
Damn this got me crying at work. Smh. I am a victim of molestation and I felt her pain. Praying for her strength
Me too...so heartbreaking
Me too
Hope you doing well. Respect queen🙏🏼
you all are *SURVIVORS* not victims♥️
The mother should be on her daughter's side not going against her daughter
Ever
id be against her for murdering a child ecspessally a grandchild
@@kamododragon256 worried about the wrong things smh... clearly she didn't care about her daughter so you think she cares about grandchildren... she was a horrible mother period
@@kamododragon256 and if you listened properly you would of heard it was her mother that made her do it. Well at least 1 of them.
@@kamododragon256 you more concerned about her aborting a clump of cells then the GROWN ASS MEN who were touching her at the age of 4 UNDER THE MOMS CARE... I hope you never have a damn child
That mother is pathetic, no accountability what so ever, I had to stop myself from crying towards the end, I’m so glad she is on her journey to breaking the cycle. I pray god blesses her 10 times over.
The stepmother is gorgeous! I’m so glad the defendant has someone on her side that believes her! God bless them all! I hope that sister gets the healing she needs!
Exactly! When you have someone on your side it works wonders!!!
I went through a similar situation with my stepdaughter. Her mother didn’t believe her when she told her. It broke my heart to see the hurt in her face when she asked me “Why doesn’t my mother believe me?” 💔 Fast forward, we have had her in therapy and she is progressing 🙏🏾. Parents, PLEASE BELIEVE YOUR CHILDREN when they tell you!
Her mom is a NARCISSIST
Some woman rather throw their children to the wolves to keep themselves in comfort. Best wishes to you and your stepdaughter.
@@anonymousbrooks8194 thank you so much ❤️🙏🏾
You are amazing!!!! ❤❤ We need more mothers like you! Thank you!!!
@@gl3771 Thank you! ❤️🙏🏾
As a survivor of molestation, I can tell you that my parents believed me. My heart hurts for this child still stuck in trying to get her womb donor to believe her. 😢😢😢😢
"I'll put it in my office" that is so wholesome and kind and just ugh. As a victim myself this is amazing.
this brought me to tears.
The way he stood up for the girl the way her mother should have her entire life. Really puts things into perspective.
Best comment💥💥💥
The fact the Judge Mathis took her G.E.D. to frame it and put in his office showed how much he valued this young woman’s achievements, that were undervalued by her mother. This case made me tear up 😔
Her momma is trifling and I’m glad she got the JM WRATH!!! “You’re finished!”
Much love to the young lady that stood there and stood her ground! 👏🏽 ❤️💯
I sympathize and empathize with the defendant. I’m glad that she shared her story. I wish her much success & healing 💙
Wonderful step mother. Bless her.
The mother is just pure evil. Imagine she believes the molesters more than her own daughter. I am still shocked. I respect Judge Mathias for calling the mother out for her bullshit.
She tried to get away with it.
I am so glad I was not in that courtroom with that narcissistic witch of a - she does not deserve the word mother
Kudos to Judge Mathis for framing her GED and putting it in his office!! That made me cry… I hope she does start that group for molested children and I wish her blessings, prosperity and success!!!
Same😭😭
She got me in my bed crying!!! God bless her and her mission to help others.
Me too 😢
the men who abused this daughter deserve jail time. child abuse ruins lives
“She just painted me to be Precious mama.” Because you are, this is so sad you can her pain.
The daughter said at case’s end that she stood with every abused child, and that she was starting a walk for such a cause. Has anyone determined whether or not such a walk, or even a support website, was started by her and is taking place? This woman needs to be supported in her mission…
I am BEYOND PROUD OF HER!! She didn’t let her past define her. I’m wishing her the best
Her mom and this holiday heart wig on, up here lying🙄 God bless her daughter and the step mom
"I got the bike holiday!" 😂😂😂
🤦🏾♀️🤣🤣🤣
🤧🤣🤣
Not the Holiday Heart wig🤣🤣😂😂🤣😂🤣🤣😂😂💀💀💀
Chileeee 🤣🤣🤣
I love Judge Mathis. Taking the GED certificate to hang in his office was so sweet and kind. That beautiful woman was still a child trying to get recognition from her mother and did not get it, but Judge Mathis gave her more than that. He gave her respect, love and compassion, and that was great. My heart goes out to him and her.
Some of y’all are more worried about that she had abortions rather than the fact she was abused and molested. Shows what our world has really come to.
Edit: Abortion isn’t murder. I do not care what you think and you’re wasting your time commenting your opinion and trying to argue with me. Go tell your therapist not me 😁
I haven't read one comment about that. You trippin
@@TopherGrant there’s 200+ comments I know you didn’t read each one. There were comments about it so you’re trippin.
I’m worried about both. Her mom making her kill her unborn kids and letting her be molested. Both are evil
@@kay22100 she was a child herself. Had she kept those children, by the time she was a legal adult she would’ve been responsible for four dependents and statistically would’ve been worse off due to her circumstances and upbringing. She explained she was going through enough as it was so she did what was right for her so she could give herself and her other kids a fighting chance at life. instead of commending and displaying compassion towards this young lady for her bravery and perseverance you use it as opportunity to get on your soapbox. Your comment is evil and ignorant.
Both are bad. And the abrlortins wer discussed 1st. It is absolutely terrible what happend with that young lady. I don't judge her but I dont think abortion is good for women or obviously babies
This is so sad, and happens often unfortunately. I'm glad Judge Mathis saw right through this horrible Mother. She chose to turn a blind eye on her daughter being molested smh. I'm glad the daughter is healing and has support.
Sounds like the movie bruised
@@K_Cole0128 I haven't seen that movie.
@@reecespieces9740 it’s on Netflix.. she went on to become a UFC champ but she had a bunch of problems with drinking, toxics relationships and some other trauma.. she got it together tho.. the mother in this case should have gotten her daughter some help. She was so worried ab the Daugter telling on her as a child but she brought this trauma before the world for a damn $$$ 🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️
@@K_Cole0128 Oh! I seen this on Netflix..with Halle Berry. I didn't know this was the one you were mentioning. I plan on watching it. Yes this story has some personal experiences for me as well. The fact is, the Mother was too arrogant to understand that what's done in the dark, will come to the light. She got exposed today, and the daughter won. The daughter needs to forgive her Mother and release her.
@@reecespieces9740 she also needs to leave her mother alone… and NEVER allow her daughters to be left in her care
We stand with you! You are proof that AMAZING PEOPLE come out of horrible situations. You are bright and beautiful even with your own mom trying to bring you down. The fact that you didn’t curl up in a ball and just quit I have so much damn respect for you. Please continue to share your knowledge/experience with people.
the fact that her daughter went through all this and she can say no it didnt happen like that and not blink an eye about it but is quick to expose her daughter's pregnancies is saying alot about her character to me
I get sick, and tired of hearing about kids being molested. Parents, need to take a stand with their kids and stop with not believing them. You don't know what kids go through without getting professional help for the ordeal. Some end up on drugs, being an alcoholic, becoming abusers themselves, selling their body, they becoming sex addicts, and they may commit suicide. I myself was molested, and I never told my parents. I went to my guidance counselor, and told her what happen. Keeping it in only eat you up inside. I still have some problems. I'm glad i went to get some help as I would probably not be here today. God is good always...
Some moms are in denial with "You were never molested. He doesn't want you. I was molested as a child. I know what type of guy would do that. He's not that type. You're lying." They know it happened. Instead of doing something, they quietly wallow in self pity and publicly show hatred to the victim.
"Mom" sues her daughter for defamation and goes on about her daughter's unfortunate past like she's a shameful horrible person.
This story hit real close. As a victim of molestation at a young age (and I wasn’t the only victim of this man), my mother just thinking I was being “fast” and keeping my dad out of my life until I was about 16/17 and even to this day trying to make all of her kids look bad but your the one doing wrong 🤦🏾♀️. I pray for all victims of not only sexual abuse but also any and all abuse from their parents .
Hope your doing well lovely lady. 🙏🏼
This story absolutely breaks my heart as a mother, a black woman and also being from Detroit. Drugs have absolutely destroyed families in my city and still continues to this day.
true, but this mother has some real negative characteristics…..a liar and narcissistic
I appreciate him immediately correcting her phrasing. She had contempt in her words and he made it gentle.
Plaintiff is trifling. Shame on her. Being a mother is more than having the title. smh
Everyone doesn’t deserve it!!
She's going to be a mighty force for God if she let's Him use her, and a powerful motivational speaker and author.
Amen!🙏🏽🙌🏽👣❤️🎯🦋🗣
AMEN
In Jesus name!!! Yessss 👏👏👏
Yaaaaaaaaaassssss!!!!
She killed 3 babies. You think God is going to reward her for that?
"I had 4 kids, and i never had to do that".....then you never did what you had to do to raise and protect your children. Bless her stepmother for being a mom to this strong young lady.
the mother was tryna sweet talk the judge in the beginning in hopes he would believe the lies she was about to spew... she doesnt deserve her daughter calling her ma
You can tell that the momma is mad at her because the daughter chose her father and stepmother over her.
That girl brought actual tears to my eyes when she she got really passionate about standing up for victims that were not believed by their parents.
Small world!!! I follow Tierra on Instagram and you never know what somebody really going through! She does great hair and make up too. So proud of her!
@Tierra Reese god bless you you are a true queen...hold your head high and wear your crown.....proud of you!!!!
Can you please send me her Instagram 😭 this story is heart breaking.....
@Tierra Reese I just watched your story Tiara we use to work together in the bar and was cool. I’m so proud of you for sharing your story to the world. You are so brave and strong. Continue to do great things God bless you sis and you’re children. 🙏🏽❤️
I hope Tierra reads this comment. You are a brave young woman , you should hold your head high . The biological female has a not worth one of your tears . X
Her hair and makeup are on point here so that’s not surprising!
Shoutout to you Tierra thank you for telling our stories a lot of us aren’t half as brave as her but we’re still here 💗✊🏾
Stay strong Tierra. God has your back and so do we!! No one is perfect but God forgives!!!!!! “I speak healing and prosperity over your children and your lives!” 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🥲🥲🥲🥲
@Tierra Reese you're better off without her in your life and keep her away from your kids
@Tierra Reese we love you so much. Stay strong queen ❤️
When she said " im trying to break a generational curse" sent shivers thru me..i hope she does it seems like her kids are gonna be good .
She almost made me cry. The daughter is such a beautifully strong incredible young woman, keep pushing queen
So glad the judge saw straight thru that narcissist mother!! Having an extremely toxic mother myself, and it being a family generational curse, I can sadly relate to this daughter.
You GO GIRL!! You've got a level head on your shoulders, and are a hard working mother to your kids. Sounds like you've worked through a lot of trauma regarding your Mom, in order to break free from that curse and see the truth! Girl, when the judge let you speak your piece at the end, I sure hope it felt as good as it looked!! Cause it was awesome! We daughters of NMs know there's not many occasions to REALLY speak our piece to our N.Moms, cause they just interrupt over you to the point of screaming or acting all dramatic, then start twisting things around (Gaslighting) till you can't see the road anymore. I'll sometimes get surprised and just lose my train of thought while trying to stand my ground against NM, because I'm so utterly shocked and dumbfounded at some of her crazy accusations. They live in their own fairy tale world where they are the undisputed queen of everything.
So yeah, good for you girl for getting to have your say ( and for that judge giving you the space to do it!). Sadly, it won't have any effect on her, but damm it must've felt great!
I have a gaslighting, narcissistic mother too. 3 years ago I cut off all contact with her. I could never treat my children the way she did me. 3 years ago she started in on my kids and I was done! My life is so much more peaceful now.
Nothing affects that Pog. Of a mother.
I felt this so much
After this episode I just hugged and spoke positivity to my daughter. God gave us children as a gift 🎁
I closed my eyes as I listened to your story and relived my own...I'm so proud of you, "generational curses" must be broken and it's takes absolute strength from God to do so. Keep on rising to the Top my sister💞
Same 🥺
That’s an old folks tale but it’s usually right.. when babies are really advance they are making way for a new one
I’ve heard it related to babies that begin walking early, but I’ve never heard the teeth thing. Interesting though.
It's SICK. When someone blames a child or letting strange people over and molesting their child is SICK
This brings back memories for me. My mom is the same as this woman’s mother. I was raped at 15 and I tried to get law enforcement to help me, but my mom told the police that I was a liar and a “fast girl”…so they stopped investigating!And it’s not fair to me that they stopped investigating because of her. I had to put this to the back of my mind & forget this ever happened and idk it’s making me tear up thinking about this. Just the fact that my mom could be so hurtful towards me. I actually had a son from this. Then She kicked me out of the house pregnant at 15 years old to go live in a group home smh. Then she wonders why today at 31 years old, why I’m so damn angry with her. She’s a narcissist and portrays a “Christian Woman” but is the opposite. I feel the hate from my mother too.
I'm sorry you had to deal with this. My ex partner raped me and when I told my mom she didn't say anything. He was her drug dealer so she didn't want to interfere with that. Thankfully I have moved beyond this and I'm getting better on my own