“A leader is a dealer in hope.”That’s an awesome way of looking at it. As men, we have the power to do that. In fact, it is our birthright to do so. A joyful and optimistic man who brings that out of others can make waves in the world.
Mate it is exactly like this here in eastern europe, after years of failed research I decided to start again on a second undergrad major and all the kids here are covered in tats and also only care about their looks and what brands they wear
@robbiediaz9893 but people that get tattoos want other people to judge them based on their appearance. That's why they get tattoos so they can show their "personalities and interests"
I just want to say thank you for reminding me I have the strength to push myself forward and I’m the only one who will. I’ve had crippling social anxiety and just general anxiety for a long time now and felt like there’s no light at the end of the tunnel. I’ve dragged myself out of a bad place before and I can do it again. Thank you.
I started watching you when I began my self improvement journey in 2017 and you got lost to the algorithm and then all these years later i found your channel again. You’ve grown tremendously as have I and your message is so much higher level now. I resonated with the idea of stopping improving because there’s people that never heard of the self improvement community and they’re getting what they want in life not thinking much of it. I’ll be vulnerable and say that I think I was “improving” subconsciously to get women and now that I can do that and fulfilled some of my unmet desires,the NEED to improve has almost dissolved. And once you let it go, it actually becomes possible to work on shit that actually will improve yourself.
Hi Elisha. I have been following your channel since I was a freshman in high school and now I am graduating college. I would like to sincerely thank you for being a positive influence as a man in a world that seems to want to extinguish life and vigor. You helped to get me in the gym and build my confidence up, and to that I sincerely thank you. I feel like a lot of what makes for similar content now lacks the originality that draws me back here.
You really are a gem my man. Ive been listening to you for years and the wisdom just grows as you grow. Im so glad to have found years ago brother. Always quality content
Embrace the cold. Get in the ice bath a few days a week. Make the cold your bitch. Not so you can go around telling everyone you do ice baths, do it for you. Its a depression and anxiety eraser. It gives you epic sleep quality. And it makes other difficult tasks way easier. The trick is to not think about how cold it will be just get in and feel cold and control your breath. Its been a game changer personally speaking especially in the cold winters here in Ireland. Snow and steel High Thumos.
@@ElishaLong Woah the man himself responed!! Pure, raw and uncut isolation brother, and being a single dad doesnt make it easy to meet people in the small hick town i'm stuck in. Needless to say i've been down bad mentally and spiritually. I must say though, you've really helped me through it and have inspired me to start a channel of my own to talk about important stuff like this. You're awesome, never change!
I've been using TikTok as platform to post lately and I've made a video about my understanding of " Find what you love and let it kill you " from Bukowski... conclusion matched your title.. in short whole point of life is to find something you love, give it all you can until you got nothing more to give, that's when it usually kills you... so in order to keep moving forward your only choice is to reinvent yourself, new you must be born... with new perspective, different vision, wiser, stronger.. and you keep repeating that cycle until the thing you've found to '"love'' is you. that's where the cycle stops, cause once you find yourself as something to be loved, and you give it all you can.. you'll never get killed again. I'll try to start my channel rolling soon, got lots of ideas. Nice video Elisha
I always say this: if a woman is in the comment section of a manosphere channel its not because of the content it's because of the attractiveness of the guy. All of them are there for that.
Great stuff. Life can be so damn hard, even with all I've been through I still know I'm lucky and have blessings that other people don't. My parents didn't really teach me the true nature of a lot of things because they grew up so differently. They grew up in a small town in Minnesota and raised me in a west coast city. Also they are older parents, they are almost 70 now. So there was a lot I had to figure out on my own, the hard way.
Consumer maxing lmao. Being a habitual taker is the way of being a kid. Sometimes a man who was taken advantage of giving of himself too much, goes the opposite way. You look at a lot of the "red pill" guys and this is the way they went. Like big children. I also became to guarded of myself from giving too much time to the rats. You get in the habit of clenching and clutching from people taking too much of you. I'm 30 now and over the years learning the need to go the other way with it. Not to be so selfish, but also boundaries with giving. Not letting everyone have a piece of me, but spreading hope and thumos widely. And giving to my family completely.
Hey man, I just saw Gladiator 2 and there is a scene where they talk about the masculine spirit, and they call it Thumos! Made me think of you lol. Would recommend the film, nowhere near as good as the OG, but lots of good action and high testo brotherhood.
This is the first time in a while that I can say that I’m proud of myself; i’ve genuinely been getting after it in every way I wasn’t for quite some time. I can’t speak on it too much though.. there’s still plenty of work to do before I can confidently say that this is me. Hoe everybody’s doing well, take care of yourselves. High thumos
Many youtube channels are kind of cultish. "A charismatic leader preaching beliefs, behaviors, and customs to it followers" usually for money. Its classic behavior. Hey im here listening its all good.
Hi Elisha. I dont know what education I should take next year (programming or train driver/operator). I am afraid that I will regret my decision. What would you say?
Programming is a great skill and may open up more opportunities. The train operator is cool but you might be locked into that. If you want to talk shoot me an email brother. I can get you some opinions from some guys in our group who are programmers
I’ve been in the high most Patreon for a month or two every time I get on there there’s nothing I can do all the posts say comments, disabled, and I think as I read it I was supposed to get a message as soon as I joined I think I just slipped through the techno cracks or something like that probably I wonder how I can fix it to get in with the group now?
(Screw the tiny little twits who bother whining about title changes! It's Mr. Long's vid, he can change the title every five minutes if he chooses to do so!)
What about men having tattoos? Is that the same red flag or is that a sign of masculinity and virility? Is it okay to not be okay and ask for support and compassion? Do women need to be poised, beautiful and serene all the time for them to be lovable? Do men need to be self-possessed, groomed and strong all the time for them to be loved? At what point are we allowed to be human, which means not perfect, and still be worthy of love, respect, kindness, honesty, devotion and duty? Your theory is full of holes, but I agree we do need to put our best foot forward when dating and finding a healthy mate, but a healthy person has a fluid mind, which means that sometimes they will need reassurance, need connection to restabilize when rattled, and need comfort to feel safe. We are human, we are mammals and we need the freedom to be human with someone, otherwise we are a slave to our preconceived thoughts and feelings.
Hey Eli do you do anything else than talking? I think you never discussed what your schedule and plans are relating to work? Would love to hear from you, peace
Lol at “Is it the Jews?” Well, there’s a certain someone who confirmed who their father is which should tell one a lot. But, Elisha is right. Be that as it may, carry on. The main thing I would emphasize is faith. If you don’t have it, your life will be in utter disorder with meaningless pursuits that intensify the suffering. Come back to the church. Go back to mass. Pick up that bible again bros. Yes, keep working and working out, all that stuff--but understand that it is necessary to seek first the kingdom of God--then things in your life will get put in their place. But one needs to live out the faith-not just speak it. Go back to church bro.
@@BobB-k5e Neither term is empirically verifiable and context generally defines how strong of a word either is. Like, "Do you believe in Santa Claus?" "I have faith that my hard work will ultimately pay off." IMHO, faith is generally the stronger word, as it is typically used in the context of trust, confidence, and loyalty to something/someone in the absence of proof. Beliefs are typically ever-changing as new information is uncovered, where faith is more unwavering.
Lowkey corny bruh it doesn’t matter if a girl has tattoos. At the end of the day, follow God, make money and get swole, find a good girl once you got your shit figured out. If you can’t talk to women watching this guy won’t help u lmao
@@ElishaLong No it isn’t. You just don’t like the way it looks on women and you have decided you know the backstory of any woman. Can’t make this shit up
The biggest red flag for a guy is being born by parents well into their 40's or 50's, they're doomed to fail simply from the genetic abnormality alone.
Adorable but toxic. A great percentage of those girls have mental issues. Not all of them but most of them. Don't ignore the red flags and get bit by a snake.
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I like to imagine that Eli is giving a pep talk to a little league team during these monologues
Hahah
I read this when he goes “some of y’all need to lose some weight” im fucking dead 😂😂 4:36
@@eliwinn481”This is what it’s all about, full nuts!”
“A leader is a dealer in hope.”That’s an awesome way of looking at it.
As men, we have the power to do that. In fact, it is our birthright to do so. A joyful and optimistic man who brings that out of others can make waves in the world.
I absolutely love when you post videos like this! Don’t ever stop. Today is my 24th birthday.
Brother happy birthday. You're going to have a great year.
@ I appreciate it
It's been a long time since I saw your channel, it's great to see you still authentically speaking your mind in your videos.
Here before the title changes 🙂
It’s pretty crazy. I’ve returned to college at 30. Half the people have tattoos. It’s not even crazy things, just dumb scribble stuff
California ?
@@hardangel95Mass
Mate it is exactly like this here in eastern europe, after years of failed research I decided to start again on a second undergrad major and all the kids here are covered in tats and also only care about their looks and what brands they wear
Not you judging others for what they like. Let go of that
@robbiediaz9893 but people that get tattoos want other people to judge them based on their appearance. That's why they get tattoos so they can show their "personalities and interests"
I just want to say thank you for reminding me I have the strength to push myself forward and I’m the only one who will. I’ve had crippling social anxiety and just general anxiety for a long time now and felt like there’s no light at the end of the tunnel. I’ve dragged myself out of a bad place before and I can do it again. Thank you.
I can personally attest to the scraggly humongous beard being a sign of trench warfare in one’s life and going through it.
Christ is King
You are Christ brother
@@roadopener There's only one. I'm his servant and friend
Amen
Amen
@@roadopener No he isn't
I started watching you when I began my self improvement journey in 2017 and you got lost to the algorithm and then all these years later i found your channel again. You’ve grown tremendously as have I and your message is so much higher level now. I resonated with the idea of stopping improving because there’s people that never heard of the self improvement community and they’re getting what they want in life not thinking much of it. I’ll be vulnerable and say that I think I was “improving” subconsciously to get women and now that I can do that and fulfilled some of my unmet desires,the NEED to improve has almost dissolved. And once you let it go, it actually becomes possible to work on shit that actually will improve yourself.
Hi Elisha. I have been following your channel since I was a freshman in high school and now I am graduating college. I would like to sincerely thank you for being a positive influence as a man in a world that seems to want to extinguish life and vigor.
You helped to get me in the gym and build my confidence up, and to that I sincerely thank you. I feel like a lot of what makes for similar content now lacks the originality that draws me back here.
Thank you brother. Congratulations on graduating college. Are you excited to be done?
@@ElishaLongYeah man. I just want to be more out and about. High Thumos brother
Damn bro u were the first self improvement youtuber I watched over 5 years ago good to see you’re still doing well
You really are a gem my man. Ive been listening to you for years and the wisdom just grows as you grow. Im so glad to have found years ago brother. Always quality content
Embrace the cold. Get in the ice bath a few days a week. Make the cold your bitch. Not so you can go around telling everyone you do ice baths, do it for you. Its a depression and anxiety eraser. It gives you epic sleep quality. And it makes other difficult tasks way easier. The trick is to not think about how cold it will be just get in and feel cold and control your breath. Its been a game changer personally speaking especially in the cold winters here in Ireland. Snow and steel High Thumos.
Snow and steel is a good equivalent to sun and steel 💪
genuinely helps the muscles feel good too. when it's too hot, i'm sluggish and groggy.
The Master of Fire and Ice
Irish beast
The timing is impeccable and I really needed to hear some of this.
Thanks Elisha and glory to God! ☦
i respect the grind with the almost daily videos and the cheesecakes but this is the kind of video i love keep it up!
Thank you for reminding me to stand up and work and think and be there. I now can get things done. Thank you.
New favorite TH-camr. Been going thru a real hard time
What's going on in your life brother. Anything you want to talk about?
@@ElishaLong Woah the man himself responed!! Pure, raw and uncut isolation brother, and being a single dad doesnt make it easy to meet people in the small hick town i'm stuck in. Needless to say i've been down bad mentally and spiritually. I must say though, you've really helped me through it and have inspired me to start a channel of my own to talk about important stuff like this. You're awesome, never change!
I've been using TikTok as platform to post lately and I've made a video about my understanding of " Find what you love and let it kill you " from Bukowski... conclusion matched your title.. in short whole point of life is to find something you love, give it all you can until you got nothing more to give, that's when it usually kills you... so in order to keep moving forward your only choice is to reinvent yourself, new you must be born... with new perspective, different vision, wiser, stronger.. and you keep repeating that cycle until the thing you've found to '"love'' is you. that's where the cycle stops, cause once you find yourself as something to be loved, and you give it all you can.. you'll never get killed again. I'll try to start my channel rolling soon, got lots of ideas. Nice video Elisha
My fav TH-camr but I feel weird saying that as a woman, but the content that isn’t about masculinity is still very valuable to me
Aye thanks for the support Naan. How's life going
same queen ur the only other girl ive seen on here
Just found this channel it's great
I always say this: if a woman is in the comment section of a manosphere channel its not because of the content it's because of the attractiveness of the guy. All of them are there for that.
@@jurassicthunder I didn't think of it that way but I agree Elisha is husband goals
Another great video bro. Perfect advice for what i'm going through right now! Respect keep it pushing.
Keep pushing brother. High Thumos
I actually prefer winter. I've always loved it.
Same
Thank you brother this one hit deep
Great stuff. Life can be so damn hard, even with all I've been through I still know I'm lucky and have blessings that other people don't. My parents didn't really teach me the true nature of a lot of things because they grew up so differently. They grew up in a small town in Minnesota and raised me in a west coast city. Also they are older parents, they are almost 70 now. So there was a lot I had to figure out on my own, the hard way.
What. A. Video. Elisha 🔥🔥🔥
Thank you for doing what you do
love these videos. i listen to one and then feel energized to continue doing what i need to do. keep it up elisha
Thanks brother really needed this
Man you are speaking the truth 2 weeks or so of SR stay tuned in to your spirit
This is one of my favorite vids you’ve made.
Best video ever man. Time to lock in
So much wisdom in this one. Thanks Elisha
20 minutes of gold
No bitching. Amen brother, high thumos
Consumer maxing lmao. Being a habitual taker is the way of being a kid.
Sometimes a man who was taken advantage of giving of himself too much, goes the opposite way. You look at a lot of the "red pill" guys and this is the way they went. Like big children.
I also became to guarded of myself from giving too much time to the rats. You get in the habit of clenching and clutching from people taking too much of you.
I'm 30 now and over the years learning the need to go the other way with it. Not to be so selfish, but also boundaries with giving. Not letting everyone have a piece of me, but spreading hope and thumos widely. And giving to my family completely.
No snow here yet which is fucking weird as I live in central Sweden.
"Is this the joos ??" 😂😂😂
ngl I didn't see that one coming😂😂😂
made me lol (laugh out loud)
I have a tattoo of my brotherhood, our image, we all have the same, it's a form of bonding, of creating a connection for life
Gay
Hey man, I just saw Gladiator 2 and there is a scene where they talk about the masculine spirit, and they call it Thumos! Made me think of you lol. Would recommend the film, nowhere near as good as the OG, but lots of good action and high testo brotherhood.
Lmao bro the Atrocious neck beard part. Too good… “you need to shave the neck beard” 😂😂😂
This is the first time in a while that I can say that I’m proud of myself; i’ve genuinely been getting after it in every way I wasn’t for quite some time. I can’t speak on it too much though.. there’s still plenty of work to do before I can confidently say that this is me. Hoe everybody’s doing well, take care of yourselves. High thumos
Bro changed the title 3 times 😂
Many youtube channels are kind of cultish. "A charismatic leader preaching beliefs, behaviors, and customs to it followers" usually for money. Its classic behavior. Hey im here listening its all good.
Massive blessings all around gents. Lets crush this winter.
Serendipity
Chocolate
Full Nuts
wow it even snows there in autumn? crazy
Hi Elisha. I dont know what education I should take next year (programming or train driver/operator). I am afraid that I will regret my decision. What would you say?
Write out a list of pros and cons for each?
Also which one does your gut tell you?
Programming is a great skill and may open up more opportunities. The train operator is cool but you might be locked into that.
If you want to talk shoot me an email brother. I can get you some opinions from some guys in our group who are programmers
I BELIEVE IN THE JOURNEY
I don't deserve anything. I will earn it
Every single time Elisha, j/k, sort of 👀 love your vids dude
14:44 yes! Yes it is!
Good research is Napoleon Hill on sex transmutation
New year; same game! LETS GET IT BOYS!!!
The way of a man is to be self reinforcing, and generating like the sun.
Get thumos pilled.
I'm not gonna get social with just anybody. Im built in Gods image, a King
This may seem like a silly question but do you pray Elisha? How do you pray? Is there a wrong way to pray?
Bone broth season
Red light season
Building season
I’ve been in the high most Patreon for a month or two every time I get on there there’s nothing I can do all the posts say comments, disabled, and I think as I read it I was supposed to get a message as soon as I joined
I think I just slipped through the techno cracks or something like that probably
I wonder how I can fix it to get in with the group now?
Hey man. It doesn't seem like you made it into the group. Shoot me a message on Patreon or email me so I can help get you in.
You dont deserve anything, but you earn it 🔥
(Screw the tiny little twits who bother whining about title changes! It's Mr. Long's vid, he can change the title every five minutes if he chooses to do so!)
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Great video as always man. Id follow you into battle
I watched your videos years ago, I hope you’re doing well
Thanks brother
You're the best.
damm king is exhaling that ttumos
Winter is awesome
Great vid
Stoic portrait photo on the thumbnail I see eh
Only came because the title changed
Idk what happens at 3:00 or who he is talking to but it's facts
uhh my mate elisha droping the J word
14:47 😂 good laugh today
What about men having tattoos? Is that the same red flag or is that a sign of masculinity and virility? Is it okay to not be okay and ask for support and compassion? Do women need to be poised, beautiful and serene all the time for them to be lovable? Do men need to be self-possessed, groomed and strong all the time for them to be loved? At what point are we allowed to be human, which means not perfect, and still be worthy of love, respect, kindness, honesty, devotion and duty? Your theory is full of holes, but I agree we do need to put our best foot forward when dating and finding a healthy mate, but a healthy person has a fluid mind, which means that sometimes they will need reassurance, need connection to restabilize when rattled, and need comfort to feel safe. We are human, we are mammals and we need the freedom to be human with someone, otherwise we are a slave to our preconceived thoughts and feelings.
Hey Eli do you do anything else than talking? I think you never discussed what your schedule and plans are relating to work? Would love to hear from you, peace
Lol at “Is it the Jews?”
Well, there’s a certain someone who confirmed who their father is which should tell one a lot.
But, Elisha is right. Be that as it may, carry on.
The main thing I would emphasize is faith. If you don’t have it, your life will be in utter disorder with meaningless pursuits that intensify the suffering.
Come back to the church. Go back to mass. Pick up that bible again bros.
Yes, keep working and working out, all that stuff--but understand that it is necessary to seek first the kingdom of God--then things in your life will get put in their place. But one needs to live out the faith-not just speak it.
Go back to church bro.
Faith is the excuse people give when they dont have a good reason to believe.
@@BobB-k5e Faith, is not an "excuse" lol.
@@chicagotalkshowhost Sure it is. If you had actuall evidence for your beliefs there would be no need for faith.
@@BobB-k5e Neither term is empirically verifiable and context generally defines how strong of a word either is. Like,
"Do you believe in Santa Claus?"
"I have faith that my hard work will ultimately pay off."
IMHO, faith is generally the stronger word, as it is typically used in the context of trust, confidence, and loyalty to something/someone in the absence of proof. Beliefs are typically ever-changing as new information is uncovered, where faith is more unwavering.
That’s what it’s all about FULL NUTS😂
Yessir... YESSIR!
ship it out 🤣🥶
Elisha president 2028
14:47 yeah
Yeah, deeze nuts 😂
Lowkey corny bruh it doesn’t matter if a girl has tattoos. At the end of the day, follow God, make money and get swole, find a good girl once you got your shit figured out. If you can’t talk to women watching this guy won’t help u lmao
Full nut energy this winter.
Calm down grandpa.
braiding your beard naaa😂😂😂😂
By the way man the cult comment I made was 100% a joke I do not actually believe that. I agree with most of the things you talk about.
You meant that brother... You're a hater. Why would you do that?
@ don’t believe everything you read on the internet bro
@@ideasandtrucking nah bro I'm believing everything bro... Kamala Harris is a winner bro
@ Kamala Harris won the election?!😰
siryes!
Damn dude do you actually not like winter? Gotta nordicmaxx and go viking mode and you’ll start to understand how great a season it is
I like it brother
@ glad to hear it 💪
Christ is King!
Jesus is a pretty princess!
Bro just hates tattoos more each video, lmao. Still appreciate you man but I literally just like having the art on my arm. Not deep brother
It's different on guys man
@@ElishaLong No it isn’t. You just don’t like the way it looks on women and you have decided you know the backstory of any woman. Can’t make this shit up
sum1 show this vid 2 my broke ex
Still trying to change him, eh? Move on. He has.
The biggest red flag for a guy is being born by parents well into their 40's or 50's, they're doomed to fail simply from the genetic abnormality alone.
brooo what u r tripping i love girls with tats and piercings absolutely adorable!
Adorable but toxic. A great percentage of those girls have mental issues. Not all of them but most of them. Don't ignore the red flags and get bit by a snake.
Im attracted to some girls who smoke. Are they wife material? Probably not!